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[@OnlyTwoShoes]

As Michael Jordan would say: _"Stop it, get some help."_

[@suru7064]

Yesss

[@hj2479]

Sometimes, you just have to "take it personally."

[@pittland44]

@@hj2479 That's absolutely true.

[@samesamv1472]

tbf, he is getting some help from Aba. The problem is he's so dense and so deep into that feminine bs talkin bout Jada's advice. RIP

[@omogenews]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/gXjZd2SdYrOGb8Wf

[@marledanimefan7186]

I got no simpathy for this dude . His lack of self respect is suicidal.

[@HAsway07]

Ahhh I see what you did there SIMPathy lol

[@janeeyx5672]

SIMPathy

[@_noigbdot]

I agree and he’s accepting this behavior

[@meme101RE]

😂😂💀💀

[@Tailionis]

Desperation. What options do men have anymore?

[@J.R.Swish1]

If this man respected himself as much as he respects women he'd be the most successful man in the world.

[@bobbuilder155]

No he won't, self respect won't make you successful been there most of my life. Actually it puts you in a much more disadvantage sexually even if you are an attractive man, I have my whole teenage years and 20s to back that up.

[@breewashere]

@@bobbuilder155 sounds like you've got it tough lol

[@Greg_Rock]

Sigma Male Grindset.

[@rqubed2603]

J.R. Swish...except it's not respect. It's worship. This man worships his woman. He's a simp...a simplistic simp of all simps.

[@sosamma090]

No. Respect is earned. Dont give anyone respect for doing nothing. It is plain simpin

[@porscheseverywhere]

“She ain’t your girl. She everyone’s girl. She my girl now.” 😂😂😂

[@electric0618]

Ppl need to send him videos of them riding 'his' girl. He'll finally understand then smh

[@markw464]

electric 06 “she’s not your, it was just your turn.”

[@steventonche1037]

She's OUR girl *SOVIET RUSSIA MUSIC PLAY*

[@Sweaty_Pits]

Our girl 😉

[@gordonoboh833]

The “y” in “your girl” is silent

[@janeeyx5672]

This is why I sideeye relationships that are polyamorous because it’s like “was this a decision made out of an agreement or by force?”

[@jhonnycultura4455]

Yeah sometimes it is pushed by the one who's got more options

[@janeeyx5672]

@@jhonnycultura4455 and my thing with that is if you have options, why are you getting into a relationship? If I had options, I would be like “I’m staying single”.

[@Lady_Crispr]

I definitely make my eyes small at them. Suspect. All the way.

[@janeeyx5672]

@UChBts7DVmlZgziXPIyQW8jg that’s shit is soo backwards. I be hearing people out here saying they got options and blah blah… I am like “if you can get all these men or women or both, why you dating one person???” I feel like people who do that are broken and want to inflict pain to someone.. so they get into a relationship or marriage and continue to exercise their “options” smh 🙄

[@thorfinnoars1443]

@@Lady_Crispr did you get that saying from kevonstage?

[@josebenardi1554]

And this kids is what lack of self-respect looks like.

[@TomikaKelly]

I actually DO feel sorry for people who lack self respect because that tells me that they either weren't taught self esteem and self respect or something happened that damaged them.

[@TheDeadlyBlueWolf]

@@TomikaKelly True. Can relate. When you go your whole life being rejected and unappreciated for the things you do, your self worth plummets. I let my ex slide on a lot of shit say ignoring me and shitting me like her second option only cause I didn't value myself to know I deserved better than her.

[@KamenKami]

@@TomikaKelly Why? Let nature run its course. They are lion food.

[@keyboardevangelist]

This is the Amazing grace. John 3:16 "For God loved the world that he sent his only begotten son so that whosoever believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life" . For God didn't send his son to condemn the world but through him they might be saved... God loves you 💕so much that he suffered, died and rose from the dead to pay the punishment of your sins. All you gotta do is ask for forgiveness 🙏 (read the 10 commandments)and trust/believe in the finished work of The lord Jesus Christ on the cross. You will be saved from the eternal damnation of Hell and be granted eternal life in Heaven... The end is Nigh🔥. Jesus is coming soooon. Jesus is lord🤴🏽 #Amazinggrace

[@jubernardi23]

Com certeza ele não tem pai😳

[@pixotass]

He thinks that she being jealous means that she loves him. She's just possessive!

[@ZoeLouise231]

Two very different things !!! Thank you

[@e.starling141]

Yep. I think you nailed it. It makes him feel like hes important to her. In reality its just her being a selfish and controlling person.

[@pixotass]

@@e.starling141 exactly!! He thinks he matters

[@MadmanX777]

Possessive and manipulative

[@m16fermy]

Which conflicts with open relationships in other words it's not possible to be possessive and have an open relationship u have to choose one

[@thelastmotel]

About 30 years ago, my GF, who I had been with for about 3 months at this point, said, "My ex used to let me sleep with other guys, and I would, every now and again. Will you let me sleep with other guys?" I said, "Sure, why not? You're single, do what you like.", and I left.

[@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259]

The Last Motel AMEN. Savage Award goes to you

[@oz_jones]

Hey king, you dropped this: 👑

[@olufagosebambulagose]

Did everyone in the class stood up and clapped too?

[@pricklycats]

And then everyone clapped

[@andrewvangils3112]

“You get what you tolerate” - Tony Robbins

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Amen!

[@sebaschan-uwu]

Facts

[@marozela]

That's crazy,i literally just watched a Tony Robbins video before this

[@Hekinsieden]

I'd rather stay single forever than be in this kind of situation.

[@rodplays3726]

Your comment says 6 days ago

[@DadsCigaretteRun]

@@rodplays3726 I noticed that a lot on this channel. No idea how or why?

[@TheLucas8333]

@@DadsCigaretteRun guys that pay for the channel see videos early

[@carboy101]

I couldn't agree more.

[@randolphwh9551]

Stfw tham dont marry her dip when she gets preggos

[@itriggerpeople4433]

What kind of self respecting person let's someone "Rules for thee but not for me" them lmao

[@Anthonycheesman33]

So it's only a problem when women do it lol?

[@kylerBD]

@@Anthonycheesman33 wtf are you talkin about

[@lovely1641]

This is what happens when no shaming culture gets outta control. No, if you get to sleep around he gets to too

[@lovely1641]

@@Anthonycheesman33 That's not the point. If this were turned around, we'd be looking at him weird too

[@Anthonycheesman33]

@@lovely1641 if it was turned around we wouldn't be looking at it weird Cuz it's been going around for thousands of years lol. They literally haven't done one video about a man sleeping around .

[@iSkyn3t]

My husband was in a poly relationship when we started hanging out. His gf at the time had a bf on the side. She flipped out when he let her know we were hanging out. She is just like this guy's gf on the video. She was fine Fn other guys and even have a side bf but didn't like it when the tables were turned. So stupid. You can't be 1 sided poly. It's pure bs.

[@rukakoaye5368]

exactly.

[@btw-3006]

The woman who asked for the open or poly relationship getting pissed when her man is also getting action seems to be pretty common. Those women want it to be open only for them, not their husband. Fellas, if you are in a committed relationship and your girlfriend or wife wants an open relationship, just dump her.

[@adamcramm]

You can be in a one sided poly but it has to be the dude being poly, not the girl. Girls have way to many options compared guys. Lol. Guys can also have sex with other women and still love their girl. If a girl steps out on a guy, she has no love for that dude. He’s just a beta provider.

[@elisaidir2837]

@@adamcramm some people will say anything to benefit their agenda. Both men and women can have something on the side and still love their gf/bf. Any data to support your theory abt men being "able" to do love some while having multiple sex partners while women cant?

[@canttakeanymore]

@@btw-3006 what you said, AND if she brings it up, she already fucking someone else.

[@SubwayFan83]

He's not in a polyamorous relationship, he's a concubine.

[@nathanrathbun2619]

He isn't a concubine. He is a wallet. I would bet money he almost never gets a piece.

[@maymay5600]

YUP, that's exactly what he is LOLOLOLOLOL

[@HelenKellerDenier]

Duuuude LMAO He is a little bitch concubine you're on to something here 🤣

[@theurbanegentleman4550]

Cockubine

[@nitatolbert9979]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😉

[@TheRealDEMAND]

“I respect how this female feels” I feel like respect is out the fuckin window at that point bruh xD

[@nickb6425]

In the words of Derrik Jaxn: “The love ain’t real. Not the love for yoself” 😂😂

[@lovely1641]

How she feels? Bro, there's a different man feeling her up almost every night. She gonna feel single soon

[@yourarchnemesis8453]

Someone want to check on if this dude is related to the guy paying his ex's bills.

[@nickb6425]

@@yourarchnemesis8453 I'd call this polymony

[@AhsokaJackson]

Very true. XD Ain’t no respect anywhere in that picture.

[@margaretc5679]

"Violating your own boundaries does not make you a good man, it makes you a weak man." 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@aziouss2863]

@@acutecloudd7970 This aint poly man this is another thing. This dude is basically a slave providing her with everything.

[@Phantom-vo8jy]

preach

[@tjlnintendo]

@@acutecloudd7970 they aren’t saying poly is bad. Its bad to have in a false poly relationship where it’s only one person having the ability to fuck.

[@ianisaac2501]

Agreed.

[@waywardstoner9416]

@@tjlnintendo couldn't say it any better. The guy got himself in that position and if he has any integrity left, he'll have to go away.

[@vickydoss6330]

She is using "poly" as an excuse to cheat. If she was truly poly it would be ok for the guy too.

[@myrchantkobold8268]

Or join if she is anxious, i'm sure the dude wouldn't mind.

[@attackonmemory]

No no no, it’s a monopolyamorous relationship, it’s super common

[@Knightfall1012]

@@attackonmemory Monopolyamorous relationships are fine if both parties are aware and communicate that well with each other. But it’s *her* decision that he can’t be with other woman, she’s being selfish and a terrible partner.

[@StevenP726]

@@Knightfall1012 I dont think they are fine. someone is always being some kind of an asshole to make this person feel "fine" being in a shit ass relationship like that. no one will ever feel happy being with someone that wants a harem of people that dont see anyone else. that sounds miserable for everyone. but everyone can do whatever they want i suppose, but no one should ever advocate for a horrible relationship like that.

[@MagneticPowder]

He should get the word “welcome” tattood on his forehead. Most doormats say welcome.

[@AhsokaJackson]

X,,,D All right, that one was smooth.

[@dasprince0]

LMAO 😂

[@athomewithtroy1690]

Girl yess🤣

[@atropabelladonna3120]

Needs a pin of savagery 📌

[@declaracionespolemicas]

@JOSEPH STALIN You mean bienvenidos

[@jephteyiphtah3458]

this is the type of dude that onlyfans girls thrive on

[@AProudDad]

Nailed it

[@CaptainCJ97]

Yup

[@tnsxpm]

🥴🥴

[@EclipseN7]

Precisely fam

[@contagioushate]

"you're all so special to me!"

[@SeranCOG]

Lol this isn’t even a polyamorous relationship, it more like he got friendzoned by her without him knowing it.

[@suru7064]

When I watch videos like that it makes want to better my life.

[@SeranCOG]

@@suru7064 same here and also further justify being picky with partners. I don’t understand how people like this idiot exists

[@suru7064]

@@SeranCOG its simple because their to scared to lose a girl that he thinks likes him. So he has no backbone or self respect.

[@Koccil100]

Most people are in a polyamorous relationship and don’t even realize it😂

[@milk-el8vq]

She's just evil bro if she friendzoned him she'd allow him to fuck other girls

[@trillionbones89]

"respect how she feels" is *definetely* HER words, not his. she implanted that line.

[@josebenardi1554]

"Violating your own boundaries does not make you a good man, makes you a weak man." Damn, Aba spitting fire over here.

[@houseofhas9355]

yup. Lot of men do this. I admit I did it. But you gotta find a way to stop. Cause this damaging to your social skills. Agreeing out of fear of losing her, aka access to intimacy.

[@godsangel67able]

Truth

[@jackieyoung2395]

👍👍👍😍😍😍

[@aubreysong]

He is so clueless. That girl is already one foot in the exit door, lmao.

[@danielsappore3423]

I found this out a couple months ago at age 24. The problem is i wasn’t raised to understand that, and naturally I was no good at conflict, so not good at it that I would rather be steamrolled. I’m starting to turn the franchise around slowly but it still feels like sometimes part of me is standing with everyone who’s against me calling the other part of me a selfish villain; it’s part of the unlearning process I guess. Never knew what strength or weakness meant

[@1jordy11]

He’s not in a polyamorous relationship he’s part of her harem

[@marias6583]

Bruuuuhhhhh😂😂

[@jdcaldwell5088]

It’s CALLED CUCK!

[@1jordy11]

@@jdcaldwell5088 thats when she’s got a guy or guys she repeatedly bangs on sides while keeping it hidden

[@robinthrush9672]

@@jdcaldwell5088 In this instance, it's called polyandry.

[@knalg]

@@1jordy11 pretty sure cuck means you get off on your girl getting fucked by another guy. Most times you being present when it happens. Not what you said.

[@J.R.Swish1]

This guy made feminists jealous of him for being more feminist than them

[@EddieNgatia]

Lmao dead 🤣

[@FGj-xj7rd]

😂

[@nihill5995]

😂😂

[@yanderegal5306]

You mean feminazi

[@donpheath]

Facts bro🤣🤣

[@tropicalmk3519]

The part where Preach just packs up and leave had me gone😭😭😭 The speed just made it worse😭😭

[@dmul23]

Hearing preach dying outside the room is hands down the funniest thing I've heard in a minute! Edit: For the peoples asking “How the comment 4 days old on a new video?” If you sub to their Patreon for $5 a month, which costs less than that Venti Mocha Frappuccino with Cold Foam you get every morning, you get their content early, along with some exclusive content. Subbing to the Patreon makes your blue chew work better too.

[@thorfinnoars1443]

While aba is being serious 😂😂😂

[@rabbitrun0068]

Laughed my ass off hearing him in the background, perfect

[@sabintee9232]

Yo wtf this video was posted 16 min ago? And the comment is from 4 days ago? I’m hella confused

[@Swampdonkey796]

How tf you make this comment 4 days ago when the videos been out 15 minutes?

[@OnlyTwoShoes]

How is this comment 4 days old in an 18 minute old video?

[@xaviergrace6081]

“Violating your own boundaries doesn’t make you a good man it makes you a weak man” that’s a banger

[@G.Leo5]

I heard it as I was reading this damn

[@angryviolentwitchqueen6633]

Bars

[@jaymose1146]

Lol then a person gets called all kinds of names because they stand up for themselves. "Dammed if you do, damned if you don't."

[@wearytraveler2164]

This dude has no Idea how bad he’s fucking up his own mind. One day this relationship will end but his mental baggage from having put himself through it will stick forever. Don’t ever compromise your morals for a relationship.

[@justadummy8076]

Exactly, he has no idea how this toxic relationship is affecting his view of what a healthy relationship should look like

[@sparks2022]

Idk, there's a giant sinkhole of resentment forming somewhere deep under this guy's ego. I'm thinking a murder suicide isn't out of the question here.

[@bensmith5581]

Emotional manipulation and abuse to the guy will have a massive tole. Women are let off with this sort of stuff as well so much, everyone blames the guy for an abusive woman.

[@roguewasbanned4746]

I mean I’d understand if it was his kink or something, but otherwise he’s dumb for not making it monogamous for her if she’s gonna make a big deal about him seeing somebody

[@roguewasbanned4746]

@@bensmith5581 meh and here we are with aba giving him counseling, but if he don’t take the advice, then it’s his fault for not taking it. The laws ain’t about to change anytime soon so it’s best to toughen up

[@shadowgun22]

A lot of modern toxic feminists would say this is okay, and not to bully him. We know their type now.

[@Deno2100]

Actually a lot of the "feminist's" I have come across are not feminist's when they are looking for someone to have sex with. The attractive ones dont go for males like him. They go for the male that doesnt care about their little scam. Surprise surprise.

[@mississipi1103]

As a toxic feminist, no, she's just a cheater

[@borednerd2100]

No?! He needs help and she's a bitch.

[@bigtime9597]

@@Deno2100 Feminists are usually only just feminists because of the effeminate men around them, the simps. They can't stand weak men. Frankly, neither can I. The moment you put a real rooster in the hen house, those hens will do a 180 real quick. They'll stop pecking at each other and start laying eggs for real. Dig?

[@kristyperry6846]

@@mississipi1103 No feminism isn't toxic.. it has a wave that degrades & all out hates men.

[@kevinsimeon1600]

Ayyy mann Preach DIPPED!! then broke down further down the road and came back more invested 😭😭

[@pignouxd]

The "Oh mon dieu" killed me haha

[@sub-harmonik]

sometimes you shouldn't respect how someone feels.

[@2thomask]

Alot of times

[@cubingspeed6933]

[Toxic comes many a time in the prettiest presentations!✌🏼💊]

[@carinadominguez22]

I will respect their feelings but I'll respect myself more and tell them how wrong they are and how big a moron they are.

[@canofsoda]

@@cubingspeed6933 whats with the hand signs and antibiotics bro?

[@cubingspeed6933]

@@canofsoda[simple: peace and the red-pill. Be well!]

[@milana2020]

Stds just don’t seem to exist no more

[@Prophezora]

That is interesting, isnt it?

[@nickb6425]

Neither does the cost of multiple tests lol

[@kingsnake8178]

Right? Apparently, getting rid of that shit's no different than curing a cold now

[@milana2020]

@@kingsnake8178 lmaoooo your comment was funny😭

[@kingsnake8178]

@@milana2020 But it's facts😭 the way some of my friends talk about raw dogging people they just met makes me think my immune system weak as hell compared to them

[@MoltarTheGreat]

People like this need to become more comfortable being alone so they can set stronger boundaries.

[@EE-iy9rq]

indeed . sadly many can’t first deal with themselves first before considering entering any relationships

[@thegamingkitchen8429]

"Sometimes your type is why you're alone." -Preach

[@brallantp.2812]

He got the Forest, “Ok Jenny” syndrome from that scene in Family Guy

[@VilaToro64]

He gonna take care of the aids baby

[@NkosiNightskin]

That's not polyamory. At least not ethically. That's polyandry and he is simping so hard for his own fucking heartbreak.

[@bunjichronologic5865]

It's just plain manipulation

[@NkosiNightskin]

@@bunjichronologic5865 Truth. It's emotional manipulation that she attributed to a lifestyle she has no connection to.

[@DoubleO88]

Theres a fucking word for that shit?

[@TheOneTrueNoName]

Thank youuuuuu

[@cubingspeed6933]

[Solipsism!?✌🏼💊]

[@heyitsshay6058]

Preach packed his shit. Respectfully. ✌🏾🤣✊🏿😤

[@Sam-us1he]

Walked away grumbling was the best, “no we’re not doing this” lol

[@leanna3625]

I've only seen polyamory work when they were both polyamorous from the start. Monogamy then switching things up usually means one person wants it and the other gets dragged along for the ride.

[@adonisbarlay3292]

That’s what I was thinking when someone cheats and it changes to poly it never works

[@chadveez4908]

What's a difference between polyamorous and friends with benefits?

[@stina263]

Yup poly relationships already rarely work but switching from monogamy to poly is even more rare to actually work out

[@SoulDelSol]

@@chadveez4908 the side pieces are the FWB. I think the main person could be someone they cohabitate with. Good question though. Seems like a bunch of single people to me

[@adonisbarlay3292]

@@chadveez4908 you are still in some type of relationship I guess you can fuck other people but that emotional side of the relationship is reserved for your main(the person that’s going to be around your family and the person your going to be public with

[@nathanieldunn1682]

I had a friend that would do the same shit that this dude is doing. She’d ask me for advice but would do the complete opposite of what I said. And when things went wrong she would come crying to me about it. It got to a point where I just stopped talking to her, because you can’t help somebody if they don’t want to help themselves. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@lilahdog568]

Same. I knew this girl who literally wouldn't make the effort on anything and continued hanging out with some toxic bitch, then complained when her friend kept backstabbing her. I'm sorry, what am I supposed to do, buy you a new brain or something?

[@maggotmeatballz2692]

Haha I had a friend like this too!

[@deathrager2404]

i dont even interact with women that i dont fuck. get lost hunny go bother someone else.

[@nathanieldunn1682]

@@deathrager2404 Go bother someone else you say. But you replied to my comment. Nobody forced you to respond.

[@rocstarang5747]

They didn't want help, they wanted an audience.

[@jhonnycultura4455]

This is the type of dude who would raise another men's child knowing she got pregnant by other dude... Being in a poly relationship as a men with a woman who's going for men it's not a good idea. It's a clear disadvantage and you could get fooled.

[@bilalkhares9337]

That's probably why polygamy was traditionally only for high status men

[@TheDeadlyBlueWolf]

Not to mention its vastly easier for women to attract guys willing to screw compared to a guy.

[@ravenstar5376]

It’s a post i saw on IG ( Guy whose hitting it raw *MY KIDS BEEN PLAYING WITH YOURS SINCE BEFORE THEY WERE BORN* ▶️ Baby daddy 👀 ◀️

[@lordfarquad8913]

@Benjamin Muller English pls

[@matthew_turkmen7482]

Pls don't mix taking care of children with cuckolding.

[@racheltelpner]

Preach’s distant laughter at 4:11 got me good 🤣 But fr this dude is in denial

[@patricklandor47]

This is why fathers are needed. I don’t have a son but I was about to jump in and learn his ass

[@ChawanneBurns]

Lol

[@Samuels-nz9em]

@@suzygirl1843 They are raising a whole new generation of beta male simps, telling them that " get more in touch with your feelings " "your femininity " .

[@positiveenergy8888]

Plenty of kids with fathers have turned on violent or useless. It’s not about having a father but about having good parents and self respect .

[@DadsCigaretteRun]

@@positiveenergy8888 being the “dad” and a “father” are very different

[@rogershabangu6023]

This the type of guy to continue paying for her apartment and cars while she goes around saying he is a good friend

[@tamaracarus3016]

Lol is this in reference to that woman that was on Freshandfit? if no, then definitely watch it that exact same thing happened.

[@elisakrivas]

"Cucked in a polyamorous relationship," sadly it happens more than you think. Many people use polyamory as an excuse to be with several people, but then can't take it when their partner does the same thing. Very wrong.

[@elisakrivas]

@@somebody700 To each their own. I respect your opinion

[@damianwildfong7278]

that not poly thats called being an asshole

[@FLdancer00]

Happened to me. I let my dude do whatever he wanted, took him strip clubs, helped him pick girls up. The first date I went on, he flipped out, could not handle it.

[@elisakrivas]

@@FLdancer00 I hope you dumped him or that he's tamed down, one of the two

[@sonderexpeditions]

@@somebody700 depends, couldn't do it but I know couples with 20+ year marriages who do it. Most people can't but it's possible for a small demographic.

[@StevenBriggs]

You guys crack me the fuck up. That whole part where Preach is just putting all his shit on and leaves. Priceless.

[@verscarii3238]

Hot Take: Polyamorous relationships are absolutely pointless and it’s usually only one partner who actually wants it.

[@Koccil100]

Some people are in a polyamorous relationship and don’t even realize it😂

[@euph0ric0ne72]

Facts. And it usually is always a woke feminist with long armpit hair and a strong hard clit for socialism, who cries about the patriarchy is against females while promoting her OnlyFans on a popular political tweet.

[@marcsman07]

@@Koccil100 LOL OOF

[@tvesrb]

word. just a pretentious way to say FWB.

[@sunsundks3891]

Not always

[@juanc5149]

Straight up, if I were this man’s boss I’d fire him. Cause he is going to let people just grab shit for free.

[@Samuels-nz9em]

🤣🤣🤣

[@firefistace300]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@troytesoro7491]

I’m dead af! Lmaoo

[@nianjerih.6864]

😭😭😭😭

[@DrThier32]

For real

[@nicolasgarcia9073]

This man transcended reality in order to simp in a poly relationship

[@nicolasgarcia9073]

@Be nice why

[@Major003]

"I'm just sayin', bro... I respect how this female feels." From one female to a dude, *SHE DON'T RESPECT YOU.* She isn't worth your time. Drop her.

[@calumbarry1829]

This is why polyamorus relationships are just damn childish in my eyes. It's people wanting the benefits of monogamy without the commitment and that doesn't work. Unless you started off as polyamorus then theres a pretty high ass chance that whoever suggests going poly was already poly long before that. They just tryna save face. Whole thing just seems like a waste of time.

[@freakymrq]

I don't see why people don't just call it what it is, friends with benefits. Everyone wants to be special and have all these stupid ass terms. Just be honest with yourself, you wanna sleep around. Just own it.

[@laworder6637]

Men who accept poly relationships are weak with no pride and dignity or boundaries, straight up BETA.

[@joshuaellison6356]

@@laworder6637 Guess I'm a beta then, also this is not polyamory in this video, this is manipulation of a guy with rock bottom selfesteem.

[@abbiereynolds8016]

@@joshuaellison6356 At least you're self aware.

[@adunce.5422]

Face is such a stupid concept. “Give me face by giving me special benefits.” The whole thing is stupid.

[@verbaloutlet6788]

Crazy thing is he’s so brainwashed he thinks she really love him 😭😭😭😭

[@sheepdog5799]

It’s sad. She probably just sides him for monetary/emotional reasons. The kid needs some damn good self respect.

[@aristotle9243]

@@sheepdog5799 hes down bad af

[@kirbyaugustine761]

Never make someone a priority that treats you like an option

[@diypictures]

Imagine respecting someone more than you respect yourself. Smh.

[@mayro4803]

Even that isn't called respect.

[@OpeoAslam]

He’s the star of his own NTR hentai. Ouch

[@nothingsuspicioushere.6379]

LMAO A fellow man of culture.

[@Dxsmp]

He not the real mc for ntr it's the nigga tht smashing her

[@tommatt2901]

@@Dxsmp HAHAHAHA YOOO

[@lopezroilans.8384]

A fellow cultured citizen, i see

[@xaviersmall4461]

I genuinely wanted to fight this man for the level of stupidity and lack of self respect. I'm pretty sure making it "polyamorous" was her idea but she never expected him to find someone else so its win win for her. He should've never even agreed to it in the first place.

[@TomikaKelly]

I actually DO feel sorry for people who lack self respect because that tells me that they either weren't taught self esteem and self respect or something happened that damaged them.

[@xaviersmall4461]

@@TomikaKelly lacking self respect is one thing but this was tied to stupidity which is where I have a problem. He actively tried to defend being disrespected, not rationalize but defend

[@camdaddy-jones1590]

@@xaviersmall4461 The sad thing is he chooses a person that treats him like shit rather than someone who actually cares about his problem and wants to help solve the issue. If I was his best friend I would personally feel offended that he chose pussy over his friend who’s only trying to look out for him.

[@justcallmekai1554]

@@camdaddy-jones1590 Oh god dude I would feel the same way. I would feel disrespected and its seems that he cant see the value in our platonic relationship. At that point he is on his own down the road to hell and we warned him.

[@dswynne]

Funny how this "arrangement" was okay until the guy went out for his own date.

[@TheTsugnawmi2010]

He lacks integrity and courage. That's why he's a doormat.

[@cevapipapi8920]

I refer to men and women who act like this as slippers, they get put on and worn around then taken off until they need to be put on again.

[@Vuirotto]

there's just no way this dude is all there lol

[@geremymason5936]

"I respect how this female feels." Translation - "im afraid to upset her because I think she's gonna leave me." Don't be like this men. Don't be afraid to upset women and definitely don't make their feelings your responsibility. "I respect her feelings" or "I care about her feelings" are phrases that should not be uttered from your mouth. Their feelings are their responsibility, not yours.

[@ayochayce8185]

Definitely I learned that women with common sense will respect a man EVEN MORE if you just lay it down to them but honest like if they are being stupid just tell them striaght up and their respect for you will go up

[@diskid3644]

you sounding like a sociopath ngl bro, you can care about people ye know, just don’t be putting folks feelings ahead of ur own, that’s where shit goes south ygm

[@ayochayce8185]

@@diskid3644 true on that point in a way

[@diskid3644]

@@ayochayce8185 yeah I’m a sociopath so I kno what am chatting g👊🏼😂

[@geremymason5936]

@@diskid3644 did I say not to care about people? Or did I say not to make someone's feelings your responsibility and dont be afraid to upset people? So quick to judge without even understanding the message. Actually get the message and take it at face value instead of twisting the words to make someone sound like a bad person.

[@taylorisonlinereal]

If your girl asks to be in a poly relationship, and you don't want to be with multiple people, dip.

[@jamesmontoban1338]

If your girl asks, that means you ain't enough for her. A woman who really likes a guy would never initiate a poly relationship!

[@damionmarkham9835]

Drop her off on the fast lane

[@TheCastedone]

Facts accept the fact it was just your turn

[@listendowatch]

He is trying so hard to rationalize why he isn’t wrong in what is going on. WEAK

[@T3URD2BOMB]

Preach was in the background looking like he was getting ready for war.

[@starplays3718]

He was getting ready to rob a military base.

[@EduardBrichuk]

Preach's laugh is soo contagious, even the microphone can pick it up from another room. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@we_barebears]

polyamorous relationships are basically 'lol sorry i dont wanna choose between you guys'

[@souless88]

There are a few diff forms of poly. But the internet got kids thinking its 1 person with multiple partners that are ONLY theirs. Thats usually not it unless its relgion based.

[@ItsHakki]

Preach, my guy, putting on his gear for 10 solid seconds, leaving the fuckin' room, laughing his balls off That says EVERYTHING about the situation

[@bombvoyage5686]

And the was sped up too

[@ItsHakki]

@@bombvoyage5686 ROFL. I didn't notice that at first 🤣

[@javiergamboa8795]

Dudes like him are the exact reason we have women act the way they do

[@Jorirah]

The women you choose....

[@carloslugo9457]

@@Jorirah nope. Woman act a certain way because there is simp that supports them

[@blindfaith2934]

tbf this is deeper than that. since we were little kids, media such as music, books, movies, they all tell the story of the beautiful woman that us as men have to court. we basically have to convince the woman that were her best option, we are never taught that we should look for someone that careas about us, were taught that we have to find the most attractive woman, regardless if she even gives a shit about us cause as men, we basically have to get everything ourselves. thats the biggest gender issue people never talk about. everyones talking out their ass about smashing gender norms but this never gets adressed, the fact that as a man you bsically have the burden of not only figuring yourself out, but figuring yourself out and already having the mental burden of supporting someone else. it is very rare that a woman looks for a man that she can help grow, develop, usually they want the ones who can help THEM grow. the only thing men had as a "standard" is how helpful could a woman be around the house, since in essence a man didnt "need" the emotional help to mature to find purpose, thats all expected and even demanded of him. as i said before, no woman would ever go for a man that doesnt have his "ducks in a row" so to speak, in turn men are taught that we are the ones who have to be an emotional support for women, guide them in life, sort of like a mentor. but wheres the reciprocity for men? it is not uncommon for women to lose respect/attraction for a man when they show emotion or fragility, since it is not only expected but demanded that the man is the leader. whats the point even of going for modern women? they refuse to do the only thing men could basically expect from them, and they refuse to be support or help men grow. they want the ready meal whilst men are fucked doing the shopping and the cooking, metaforically. there ARE women that want to support men and grow with them dont get me wrong, but they are almost non existant. this modern feminism is teaching women that they dont need to give men anything, it keeps pushing the narrative that theyre the prize and they should expect to be treated as such. why are men not taught to value themselves? why cant men have long lists of demands? why are we expected to bend over backwards for a glimpse of attention, not even affection? we shouldnt be expected to pull our wight AND another persons too, SPECIALLY IN THIS AGE WHERE YALL ARE CLAMORING FOR EQUALITY. value yourself kings, dont chase women.

[@xybersurfer]

@@blindfaith2934 well said! this is the real problem

[@Jorirah]

@@carloslugo9457 not "women"...this one. You don't see me saying all men are abusive because some men beat on women 🤷🏾‍♀️ If it is all women it's all the women YOU are messing with.

[@qthervil02]

The whole conversation kinda felt like the Patrick Star and Man Ray meme "Youre in a consensual polyamorous relationship" "Yup" "She exercised her right in it and you should be able to do so too, right?" "Yup" "So her not allowing you to see other people is disrespecting that agreement and you, right?" "Sounds about right to me" "So leave!" "But I love and respect this girl"

[@Ezmacanic]

“I respect how this female feels”. My guy is outside of this realm. He’s beyond a simp at this point.

[@carlosaponte2349]

Guy's trying to prove something in the wrong place.

[@travistirey8579]

Ultra Simpstinct

[@jacquelynlinn1505]

Lonely?

[@hythlodaeus9944]

@J.C. whats wrong with addressing her as female?

[@hythlodaeus9944]

@J.C. doesn't sound weird to me.. I agree with the other word.. but she is a female.. and he is on a show where I'm sure he doesn't wanna call out her name so he says female.

[@Dez112]

Sometimes, I really can’t believe people like this guy exist. My man would never lol. I couldn’t even be attracted to a man that allowed me to dog him like that 🤦🏽‍♀️.

[@jerometruitt2731]

Key word there is MAN. This dude is male but he's not a man

[@joachimquintus]

Well she's not attracted to him either, She doesn't find him attractive at all that's why she's seeking other men. She just wants to keep him around because women be loving the attention and for all the shit he does for her. She finds other men way more attractive than his simpy ass

[@crystalmcknight_]

Brooooo Fr

[@anxietyebriety6553]

Doesn't his weakness and lack of self respect just turn you completely off?

[@porcus123]

My guess is that she isnt attracted either but he probably comes running when she is alone, the one that loves the less controls the relantionship.

[@erix1384]

This is what denial looks like

[@Major003]

"Violating your own morals does not make you a good man. It makes you a weak man." *BASED ABA* 👏🙌

[@gazellehelene5380]

I think he is afraid that if he leaves her, he won’t have any other options. I think he needs to love and respect himself first because people who prey on weakness can smell it from a mile away. If he had confidence and self-respect, he wouldn’t have been so easily caught. He needs to run, now. He seems sweet; he just needs to know his worth.

[@bigtime9597]

You might be on to something here. He's not a half bad looking brother. Lose the beanie and stop calling people "bitch", though. Homie needs to take the time and build himself up for HIM first.

[@necrophiliac.-.cat5695]

whats the point of being in a relationship if youre just going to be with other people??????????????

[@AhsokaJackson]

Greed and immaturity, as a start.

[@lukeozade9957]

If it's polygamy/andry they hold power. If it's polyamorous, they just afraid to commit. It's all fun and games until she come home pregnant and 9 months later you realise that ain't yo kid. And if you try and bounce. She just gonna make you pay child support for 18 years. Remember kids you can't commit infidelity if you not in a real relationship. Imagine getting married in something like that and when you wanna divorce you lose all your shit cause you can't argue infidelity. Which is literally your only defence if you don't wanna become homeless because of some hoe.

[@Tailionis]

Not feeling lonely

[@lakeishadean4298]

You guys are misinformed and that’s ok. If you want actually answers and are actually opened to understanding it, then I’d advise you all to do some research. If not then y’all can continue to have your misinformed opinions.

[@bigbro6446]

Fucking isn’t inherently romantic, if you’ve had anything casual and you can’t comprehend it you’re just playing dumb.

[@KiSwordsman]

This man said slurpy slurpy... ok that’s enough internet for today.

[@giggitygiggitygigism]

Lmfaoooooo slurpy slurpy and then she comes back to kiss him in the mouth 🤣🤣

[@KiSwordsman]

@@giggitygiggitygigism Jesus man, I didn’t need that mental image lol

[@aristotle9243]

he needs deliverance

[@giggitygiggitygigism]

@@aristotle9243 he needs to be sent to the shadow realm

[@aristotle9243]

@@giggitygiggitygigism ong

[@KaizenLegacy]

"I totally agree, but ..." No dude, there is no "but". I cannot feel bad for this guy because he is doing it to himself!

[@baileyskates]

This comes from men having a scarcity mindset. he thinks "shes the best i can do, so its ok if she sleeps with other dudes, if it means i dont lose her."

[@anxietyebriety6553]

Exactly. He needs to learn his value. There's beautiful girls everywhere and constantly resplenishing by the day. Men with great value don't come nearly as frequently.

[@Alecexo]

That’s very true. Lack of self confidence and self respect that he can find someone much better with a little time and effort

[@Alecexo]

@@anxietyebriety6553 if you keep just looking for beautiful girls you’re sure to run into girls like this again lmao. The problem is he’s only looking for beauty and not a woman of substance. You’re setting up for a loop of disappointment

[@ryancohen5580]

I bet his girl’s favourite movie is “A SIMPle Plan”

[@efarjeonfgc]

Kek

[@mike5267]

A SIMPle Favor

[@juliearmfield2634]

@@mike5267 i know im going to sound stupid but what is a SIMP.?

[@therealkenny22]

@@juliearmfield2634 people who ask this question are simps

[@ztrigger5304]

Is that a real movie ? Never heard of "a simple plan" what it about 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@kidfisch]

Not even “I had to hear” but “I *got* to hear”, like it was an opportunity…

[@ExhaustingLifestyles]

Bruh I’m dead☠️

[@Isaac-ci5wy]

I laughed at this- fr bro, he sat there and heard that!💀

[@mahreek8650]

Preach just was like - I’m out Lol cackling in the background. Always appreciate the good quality entertainment 💕

[@alainac.8183]

This guy is in denial. She has no respect for him and he needs to respect himself and leave, I bet she asked for for the open relationship as well. How is she going to be the one sleeping with other guys but he can't sleep with other women because it hurts her feelings? And they are in a 'polygamous' relationship?

[@lamartaylor7902]

Denial might be an understatement. He's asking for advice on how to share a vagina with another man lol. There is no advice for anyone that stupid who is getting played by a woman who doesn't even hide it

[@alainac.8183]

@@lamartaylor7902 lol seriously. I'm so embarrassed for him

[@burgermike92]

4:11 Preach's laugh transcends walls now.

[@romipiratería]

Oh man that made me laugh so hard

[@denbertwhite]

I was wondering where these comments were

[@DeadLkeMe]

"Polyamorous relationships" is a fancy way of saying y'all are "FWB" 🤡☕

[@The_favorite_Uncle]

This is even worse

[@joeyluvshouse]

What does FWB mean ?

[@lovely-shrubbery8578]

Not fwb, a 💰.

[@tiredox3788]

@@joeyluvshouse Friends with benefits.

[@Th1sUsernameIsNotTaken]

That would be an open relationship. Polygamy just got flooded by people who wanted to fuck, but didn't want to call their relationship "open", so they went with that term. Polyamorous relationships are supposed to be about actual connections with others on more than just a physical level. whether that's dating the same person together, or separate people.

[@bw5020]

If this was a mono poly relationship, I could understand. But she doesn't even respect him enough to respect his boundaries. She snuck around him to get play. He owes her absolutely zero decency

[@mrDeathtrooper]

Guys like this are why men suffer, these “enablers”.

[@JoeMoss83]

The only men suffering are the enablers, so good for them.

[@austins.1102]

Exactly why you shouldn’t want to be a “nice guy” that lets people violate his boundaries and allows himself to be taken as a pushover. You should aspire to be a righteous man who has enough self-respect to assert his boundaries & walk away. People will treat you how you let them treat you🤷🏾‍♂️.

[@lovely1641]

Nothing wrong with being a nice guy. It's just he was never taught about dealing with those women who would try to take advantage of that in a relationship

[@austins.1102]

@@lovely1641 Nah there’s nothing wrong with being nice but his definition of being “nice” is the reason why he’s being taken advantage of. He doesn’t even respect himself so it’s not surprising that his girlfriend doesn’t respect him. Kindness shouldn’t lead you to blatantly let people violate your boundaries or take advantage of you.

[@yourarchnemesis8453]

People confuse being nice with being a doormat.

[@bbbbbbb51]

@@lovely1641 a "nice guy" is not just a guy being nice. It's about subverting your own expectations/wants to placate your partner/someone you want. It's pathetic & no sane person respects it.

[@lordtbootyclappn1621]

@@lovely1641 there's a difference between someone who respects themselves, showing genuine kindness and someone who is nice because he's afraid to be anything but. No one respects harmlessness. They may show pity, but no one respects it. An to her, he's harmless. There are no consequences to her actions, as he wont enforce any. She can set new boundaries whenever she feels like it because he wont hold her to any. Had they been in a monogamous relationship and should she have engaged in infidelity, nothing would've changed here. That's not to say he should be violent towards her, but that is to say that he should respect himself enough, be selfish enough to detach himself from a relationship that's clearly harming him.

[@DynamicUnreal]

He’s young, he still believes in the Disney fantasy of real love perseveres and remains true no matter what. Once the Disney fantasy is over then there’s usually an overcompensation in the opposite direction. No love, no faithfulness, no remorse. I always say that most adolescent males start out with the most noble intentions until their first girlfriend takes advantage and ruins them.

[@rutgerhauser2377]

Gotta learn to be cold. Cold world out there, you gotta adapt and match.

[@lilahdog568]

My former fiancee completely demoralized me, or maybe just made me wake up, idk. Before her I definitely believed in that Disney romance shit, but afterwards I just decided screw it, I'm never taking this seriously again.

[@aubreysong]

Maybe not Disney. Maybe it's Anime. You know, a reverse harem kink kinda thing.

[@michmich9109]

And vice versa

[@wishfull3nigma]

Whenever women ask why men are how they are, I always tell em they made us this way. Most men believed in fairy tails too, we just get to find out the hard way they don't exist.

[@alexventrov6826]

LMAO when Preach walked out I lost it ! I haven't laughed like that for a while 😂.

[@bo2720]

These people prey on good people that are easy to manipulate. They want to commit to nothing but demand commitment from their partners to them. These people are the worst and most toxic individuals you can ever have in your life. Get rid of them! Asap. One day you will be tired of them and break up anyway. Only question is how much time will you waste??

[@michaelangst6078]

Is it really worse than all these depressed men whining about being sexually frustrate online though? As long as the woman in the poly relationship isn't strictly using you for financial reasons, I don't see it being a big deal, especially if you never are going to get married

[@shiro2400]

@@michaelangst6078 then why would u bother being in a ‘polygamous’ relationship? Get some friends with benefits. No strings attached, just free poon poon. No responsibility other than a condom. Way better than a fake polygamous relationship where one is banging while the other is having doubts.

[@michaelangst6078]

@@shiro2400 A good poly relationship is basically having sexual benefits with your best friend though..It's only weird when the dude marries a woman and lets her fuck other men after. Most men in them will never get married and are just letting the female be with other guys so they can still have sex with her. the big problem I imagine most poly relationships have is that the female is taking advantage of the guy providing her free rent and whatever else while still being able to get with other men she finds more attractive...

[@rutgerhauser2377]

No sympathy for him, he pollutes the dating market by fluffing these girls up and making them expect that every guy should tolerate that kind of behavior. He gets what he deserves.

[@KamenKami]

Good people Simps Pick one, and only one.

[@elledesignsart]

He seems like a nice young man with good intentions just wanting to give this girl everything she wants thinking in the end she will choose him.. But she won't. She will always choose herself first. Sad part is with him giving her everything he's just pretty much destroying himself in the process and he doesn't even realize the damage yet.

[@Tales_Thomas]

He a nice guy

[@chisbeybe6721]

We don't know if he is nice. We need to stop mistaking timidity and weakness for niceness. He might even be a dick when he feels he has the upper hand in a conversation. We don't know if he's nice. btw, I'm saying this in the spirit of self improvement for all. Not to bring you down x

[@anxietyebriety6553]

He needs the Freah&Fit podcast.

[@yualwayscmecommenting3074]

@@chisbeybe6721 that's true but I assumed he was nice because he's jumping around backwards for someone else. Usually only nice people are willing to put others before themselves. In this case it's a huge mistake.

[@Exxperiment626]

Some people gotta burn before they learn...

[@energiesolaire5738]

He is not the only one who lives in this kind of toxic relationships. Here's the thing, my aunt and my great grand-mother had the same experience for years with their husbands. My aunt stayed with the same man for 20 years. Her first love. The guy made her believe he was too good for her and she should feel proud because he could have chosen another woman, a better one in many ways. In other hands, he told her that their love was special and fidelity was for the sheeps, the biggots and they were too modern to promise to each other they won't have sex with someone else. When things weren't going like he wanted to be, he would be very agressive towards her but not in front of everyone. Just a few could notice. He started cheeting very early (9 months of dating) with her friends. He twisted the situation by saying that as a man he need things that she couldn't bring to him anyway so in order to stay with her and preserve their extraordinary and deep love, she had to let him do whatever he wanted with who ever he pleased. As she got pregnant, he left their home for almost a year to live with another woman that he dumped after the birth of his son. He would sleep with almost all the women at his work because he had a important place there and everyone knew (also the people at Church). Each time, she got pregnant (5 times) he left until the baby was born and never took care of them. He dumped her many times for another younger woman but always came back like nothing happened by just saying "Let's just say i couldn't live properly without you around." He could see any women he wanted but hell, if a dude was looking at my aunt or if she dared talking to another man without him around, he would go mad and insult her for hours. My great grand-mother had the same life but the difference is that my aunt had the strenght to leave him while the other one died. To tell you that i hope people who live in this sort of relationship have one day the strenght to stand up for themselves and leave because those kind of partners will never give them back everything they gave them for years. You're just a buoy, a maid, a pleasant front page. Deep down, as they are lying next to you, they wonder if the grass looks greener elsewhere and when they will think they have found the occasion, the one they wanted, they will dump you like poop (and perhaps come back if they got wrong). But you can't tell to these people to leave. They have to take the decision and figure out themselves. Until they fully understand what's wrong, they will always find excuses and protect the other. You just have to wait and be ready to help when the moment will come. Otherwise you will be seen as the bad guy. Anyone could live in a polyamourous relationship only if it has been stated from the beginning and everyone gave their full consent. If you are bothered by this conception of love, stop dating and move on.

[@shavanaealexandervlogs2603]

Wow 😮 my friend is in this situation right now. Her man cheats and goes out with other women and told her women can’t do that stuff. I tried saving her but it back fired on me and now me and her haven’t spoken in a month.

[@smackdatmoney]

Poly shouldn't be normalized nomatter if its multiple men or women, its disgusting

[@ingridc0ld]

"I'm just saying man, I respect how this female feels." Bruh. This is sad.

[@KimHeb.]

This isn't love, it's an attachment style issue and a trauma bond.

[@lillychang4788]

This man either doesn’t actually love her or doesn’t respect himself almost punishing himself for his past actions.

[@blackharpy7468]

For some people, loving someone else equals not loving themselves.

[@whatupdawg281]

This shit genuinely makes me depressed

[@whatupdawg281]

@kevinn Slayer women don’t realize how much shit is bias towards them in relationships and they straight up take advantage of every single dating norm now. Aba and Preach need to do an other video about the approach.

[@thedarkestfateful]

Lol this poor guy. He just refuses to see that she’s using the “polyamorous relationship” as an excuse to go out with other men while stringing him along, all so she doesn’t get called a cheating asshole when the relationship ends. I won’t even be surprised when he gets dumped for the first guy she thinks is “better” than him haha. All he’s gonna be left with is the regret that he wasted so much effort on a girl that doesn’t care about him.

[@liveandlearn4445]

His problem tho. Would be funny to hear him sing "in the end" at the end of this relationship ngl 😂

[@kennethcole8360]

Preach was DONE DONE, QUICK QUICK...he knows how to VALUE VALUE his time.

[@ajtaylor8750]

Preach in the beginning of the video: *what the f**k did you just say?* My sentiments exactly.

[@AhsokaJackson]

Yup, that’s this whole thing in a nutshell. XD

[@adonisbarlay3292]

Yeah he definitely didn’t want this poly shit at all he just wants to stay with the girl

[@bobbuilder155]

These other girls weren't going to line up to fuck him even if he acted all single while he was fucking that girl, the real world doesnt work that way, an attractive guy does not have the amount of options an unattractive women has. Just because you "know your worth" doesn't mean people are lining up to fuck you u if you have a penis.

[@adonisbarlay3292]

@@bobbuilder155 fax it’s not like you can just get Pussy consistently if you aren’t famous or rich and your in a relationship

[@jerometruitt2731]

@@bobbuilder155 they may not be lining up but the drought is over exaggerated.

[@a.l.2339]

Preach is a whole mood in this video. The boy talking about his relationship is young and lost. Aba has already spoke his piece. The boy will go through what he has to go through, wake up, and see that what he was told is true

[@adrianchatman5734]

It's the Simpocalypse with this dude lol. Omg....🤦‍♂️

[@hellyeahbeech3962]

This sounds like an open relationship where the girl might be toxic who has insecurities and problems that she should fix before hurting another person who has insecurities and becomes a victim to the hell he helped create.

[@lovely1641]

Polyamorous.....she a heaux. There's no such thing as one-sided polyamory

[@nickb6425]

She a heaux 😂😂😭😭💀

[@chaplainarkanus6410]

How you know how to spell that shit😭