As Michael Jordan would say: _"Stop it, get some help."_
@suru70643 жыл бұрын
Yesss
@hj24793 жыл бұрын
Sometimes, you just have to "take it personally."
@pittland443 жыл бұрын
@@hj2479 That's absolutely true.
@samesamv14723 жыл бұрын
tbf, he is getting some help from Aba. The problem is he's so dense and so deep into that feminine bs talkin bout Jada's advice. RIP
@omogenews3 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/gXjZd2SdYrOGb8Wf
@marledanimefan71863 жыл бұрын
I got no simpathy for this dude . His lack of self respect is suicidal.
@HAsway073 жыл бұрын
Ahhh I see what you did there SIMPathy lol
@janeeyx56723 жыл бұрын
SIMPathy
@_noigbdot3 жыл бұрын
I agree and he’s accepting this behavior
@meme101RE3 жыл бұрын
😂😂💀💀
@Tailionis3 жыл бұрын
Desperation. What options do men have anymore?
@J.R.Swish13 жыл бұрын
If this man respected himself as much as he respects women he'd be the most successful man in the world.
@bobbuilder1553 жыл бұрын
No he won't, self respect won't make you successful been there most of my life. Actually it puts you in a much more disadvantage sexually even if you are an attractive man, I have my whole teenage years and 20s to back that up.
@breewashere3 жыл бұрын
@@bobbuilder155 sounds like you've got it tough lol
@Greg_Rock3 жыл бұрын
Sigma Male Grindset.
@rqubed26033 жыл бұрын
J.R. Swish...except it's not respect. It's worship. This man worships his woman. He's a simp...a simplistic simp of all simps.
@sosamma0903 жыл бұрын
No. Respect is earned. Dont give anyone respect for doing nothing. It is plain simpin
@porscheseverywhere3 жыл бұрын
“She ain’t your girl. She everyone’s girl. She my girl now.” 😂😂😂
@electric06183 жыл бұрын
Ppl need to send him videos of them riding 'his' girl. He'll finally understand then smh
@markw4643 жыл бұрын
electric 06 “she’s not your, it was just your turn.”
@steventonche10373 жыл бұрын
She's OUR girl *SOVIET RUSSIA MUSIC PLAY*
@Sweaty_Pits2 жыл бұрын
Our girl 😉
@gordonoboh8332 жыл бұрын
The “y” in “your girl” is silent
@janeeyx56723 жыл бұрын
This is why I sideeye relationships that are polyamorous because it’s like “was this a decision made out of an agreement or by force?”
@jhonnycultura44553 жыл бұрын
Yeah sometimes it is pushed by the one who's got more options
@janeeyx56723 жыл бұрын
@@jhonnycultura4455 and my thing with that is if you have options, why are you getting into a relationship? If I had options, I would be like “I’m staying single”.
@Lady_Crispr3 жыл бұрын
I definitely make my eyes small at them. Suspect. All the way.
@janeeyx56723 жыл бұрын
@UChBts7DVmlZgziXPIyQW8jg that’s shit is soo backwards. I be hearing people out here saying they got options and blah blah… I am like “if you can get all these men or women or both, why you dating one person???” I feel like people who do that are broken and want to inflict pain to someone.. so they get into a relationship or marriage and continue to exercise their “options” smh 🙄
@thorfinnoars14433 жыл бұрын
@@Lady_Crispr did you get that saying from kevonstage?
@josebenardi15543 жыл бұрын
And this kids is what lack of self-respect looks like.
@TomikaKelly3 жыл бұрын
I actually DO feel sorry for people who lack self respect because that tells me that they either weren't taught self esteem and self respect or something happened that damaged them.
@TheDeadlyBlueWolf3 жыл бұрын
@@TomikaKelly True. Can relate. When you go your whole life being rejected and unappreciated for the things you do, your self worth plummets. I let my ex slide on a lot of shit say ignoring me and shitting me like her second option only cause I didn't value myself to know I deserved better than her.
@KamenKami3 жыл бұрын
@@TomikaKelly Why? Let nature run its course. They are lion food.
@keyboardevangelist3 жыл бұрын
This is the Amazing grace. John 3:16 "For God loved the world that he sent his only begotten son so that whosoever believes in him will not perish but have everlasting life" . For God didn't send his son to condemn the world but through him they might be saved... God loves you 💕so much that he suffered, died and rose from the dead to pay the punishment of your sins. All you gotta do is ask for forgiveness 🙏 (read the 10 commandments)and trust/believe in the finished work of The lord Jesus Christ on the cross. You will be saved from the eternal damnation of Hell and be granted eternal life in Heaven... The end is Nigh🔥. Jesus is coming soooon. Jesus is lord🤴🏽 #Amazinggrace
@jubernardi233 жыл бұрын
Com certeza ele não tem pai😳
@pixotass3 жыл бұрын
He thinks that she being jealous means that she loves him. She's just possessive!
@ZoeLouise2313 жыл бұрын
Two very different things !!! Thank you
@e.starling1413 жыл бұрын
Yep. I think you nailed it. It makes him feel like hes important to her. In reality its just her being a selfish and controlling person.
@pixotass3 жыл бұрын
@@e.starling141 exactly!! He thinks he matters
@MadmanX7773 жыл бұрын
Possessive and manipulative
@m16fermy3 жыл бұрын
Which conflicts with open relationships in other words it's not possible to be possessive and have an open relationship u have to choose one
@thelastmotel2 жыл бұрын
About 30 years ago, my GF, who I had been with for about 3 months at this point, said, "My ex used to let me sleep with other guys, and I would, every now and again. Will you let me sleep with other guys?" I said, "Sure, why not? You're single, do what you like.", and I left.
@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259 Жыл бұрын
The Last Motel AMEN. Savage Award goes to you
@oz_jones Жыл бұрын
Hey king, you dropped this: 👑
@olufagosebambulagose Жыл бұрын
Did everyone in the class stood up and clapped too?
@pricklycats3 ай бұрын
And then everyone clapped
@andrewvangils31123 жыл бұрын
“You get what you tolerate” - Tony Robbins
@athomewithtroy16903 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@sebaschan-uwu3 жыл бұрын
Facts
@marozela3 жыл бұрын
That's crazy,i literally just watched a Tony Robbins video before this
@Hekinsieden3 жыл бұрын
I'd rather stay single forever than be in this kind of situation.
@rodplays37263 жыл бұрын
Your comment says 6 days ago
@DadsCigaretteRun3 жыл бұрын
@@rodplays3726 I noticed that a lot on this channel. No idea how or why?
@TheLucas83333 жыл бұрын
@@DadsCigaretteRun guys that pay for the channel see videos early
@carboy1013 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more.
@randolphwh95513 жыл бұрын
Stfw tham dont marry her dip when she gets preggos
@itriggerpeople44333 жыл бұрын
What kind of self respecting person let's someone "Rules for thee but not for me" them lmao
@Anthonycheesman333 жыл бұрын
So it's only a problem when women do it lol?
@kylerBD3 жыл бұрын
@@Anthonycheesman33 wtf are you talkin about
@lovely16413 жыл бұрын
This is what happens when no shaming culture gets outta control. No, if you get to sleep around he gets to too
@lovely16413 жыл бұрын
@@Anthonycheesman33 That's not the point. If this were turned around, we'd be looking at him weird too
@Anthonycheesman333 жыл бұрын
@@lovely1641 if it was turned around we wouldn't be looking at it weird Cuz it's been going around for thousands of years lol. They literally haven't done one video about a man sleeping around .
@iSkyn3t3 жыл бұрын
My husband was in a poly relationship when we started hanging out. His gf at the time had a bf on the side. She flipped out when he let her know we were hanging out. She is just like this guy's gf on the video. She was fine Fn other guys and even have a side bf but didn't like it when the tables were turned. So stupid. You can't be 1 sided poly. It's pure bs.
@rukakoaye53683 жыл бұрын
exactly.
@btw-30063 жыл бұрын
The woman who asked for the open or poly relationship getting pissed when her man is also getting action seems to be pretty common. Those women want it to be open only for them, not their husband. Fellas, if you are in a committed relationship and your girlfriend or wife wants an open relationship, just dump her.
@adamcramm3 жыл бұрын
You can be in a one sided poly but it has to be the dude being poly, not the girl. Girls have way to many options compared guys. Lol. Guys can also have sex with other women and still love their girl. If a girl steps out on a guy, she has no love for that dude. He’s just a beta provider.
@elisaidir28373 жыл бұрын
@@adamcramm some people will say anything to benefit their agenda. Both men and women can have something on the side and still love their gf/bf. Any data to support your theory abt men being "able" to do love some while having multiple sex partners while women cant?
@canttakeanymore3 жыл бұрын
@@btw-3006 what you said, AND if she brings it up, she already fucking someone else.
@SubwayFan833 жыл бұрын
He's not in a polyamorous relationship, he's a concubine.
@nathanrathbun26193 жыл бұрын
He isn't a concubine. He is a wallet. I would bet money he almost never gets a piece.
@maymay56003 жыл бұрын
YUP, that's exactly what he is LOLOLOLOLOL
@HelenKellerDenier3 жыл бұрын
Duuuude LMAO He is a little bitch concubine you're on to something here 🤣
@theurbanegentleman45503 жыл бұрын
Cockubine
@nitatolbert99793 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣😂🤣😉
@TheRealDEMAND3 жыл бұрын
“I respect how this female feels” I feel like respect is out the fuckin window at that point bruh xD
@nickb64253 жыл бұрын
In the words of Derrik Jaxn: “The love ain’t real. Not the love for yoself” 😂😂
@lovely16413 жыл бұрын
How she feels? Bro, there's a different man feeling her up almost every night. She gonna feel single soon
@yourarchnemesis84533 жыл бұрын
Someone want to check on if this dude is related to the guy paying his ex's bills.
@nickb64253 жыл бұрын
@@yourarchnemesis8453 I'd call this polymony
@AhsokaJackson3 жыл бұрын
Very true. XD Ain’t no respect anywhere in that picture.
@margaretc56793 жыл бұрын
"Violating your own boundaries does not make you a good man, it makes you a weak man." 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@aziouss28633 жыл бұрын
@@acutecloudd7970 This aint poly man this is another thing. This dude is basically a slave providing her with everything.
@Phantom-vo8jy3 жыл бұрын
preach
@tjlnintendo3 жыл бұрын
@@acutecloudd7970 they aren’t saying poly is bad. Its bad to have in a false poly relationship where it’s only one person having the ability to fuck.
@ianisaac25013 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@waywardstoner94163 жыл бұрын
@@tjlnintendo couldn't say it any better. The guy got himself in that position and if he has any integrity left, he'll have to go away.
@vickydoss63303 жыл бұрын
She is using "poly" as an excuse to cheat. If she was truly poly it would be ok for the guy too.
@myrchantkobold82683 жыл бұрын
Or join if she is anxious, i'm sure the dude wouldn't mind.
@attackonmemory10 ай бұрын
No no no, it’s a monopolyamorous relationship, it’s super common
@Knightfall10125 ай бұрын
@@attackonmemory Monopolyamorous relationships are fine if both parties are aware and communicate that well with each other. But it’s *her* decision that he can’t be with other woman, she’s being selfish and a terrible partner.
@StevenP7262 ай бұрын
@@Knightfall1012 I dont think they are fine. someone is always being some kind of an asshole to make this person feel "fine" being in a shit ass relationship like that. no one will ever feel happy being with someone that wants a harem of people that dont see anyone else. that sounds miserable for everyone. but everyone can do whatever they want i suppose, but no one should ever advocate for a horrible relationship like that.
@MagneticPowder3 жыл бұрын
He should get the word “welcome” tattood on his forehead. Most doormats say welcome.
@AhsokaJackson3 жыл бұрын
X,,,D All right, that one was smooth.
@dasprince03 жыл бұрын
LMAO 😂
@athomewithtroy16903 жыл бұрын
Girl yess🤣
@atropabelladonna31203 жыл бұрын
Needs a pin of savagery 📌
@declaracionespolemicas3 жыл бұрын
@JOSEPH STALIN You mean bienvenidos
@jephteyiphtah34583 жыл бұрын
this is the type of dude that onlyfans girls thrive on
@AProudDad3 жыл бұрын
Nailed it
@CaptainCJ973 жыл бұрын
Yup
@tnsxpm3 жыл бұрын
🥴🥴
@EclipseN73 жыл бұрын
Precisely fam
@contagioushate3 жыл бұрын
"you're all so special to me!"
@SeranCOG3 жыл бұрын
Lol this isn’t even a polyamorous relationship, it more like he got friendzoned by her without him knowing it.
@suru70643 жыл бұрын
When I watch videos like that it makes want to better my life.
@SeranCOG3 жыл бұрын
@@suru7064 same here and also further justify being picky with partners. I don’t understand how people like this idiot exists
@suru70643 жыл бұрын
@@SeranCOG its simple because their to scared to lose a girl that he thinks likes him. So he has no backbone or self respect.
@Koccil1003 жыл бұрын
Most people are in a polyamorous relationship and don’t even realize it😂
@milk-el8vq3 жыл бұрын
She's just evil bro if she friendzoned him she'd allow him to fuck other girls
@trillionbones893 жыл бұрын
"respect how she feels" is *definetely* HER words, not his. she implanted that line.
@josebenardi15543 жыл бұрын
"Violating your own boundaries does not make you a good man, makes you a weak man." Damn, Aba spitting fire over here.
@houseofhas93553 жыл бұрын
yup. Lot of men do this. I admit I did it. But you gotta find a way to stop. Cause this damaging to your social skills. Agreeing out of fear of losing her, aka access to intimacy.
@godsangel67able3 жыл бұрын
Truth
@jackieyoung23953 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍😍😍😍
@aubreysong3 жыл бұрын
He is so clueless. That girl is already one foot in the exit door, lmao.
@danielsappore34233 жыл бұрын
I found this out a couple months ago at age 24. The problem is i wasn’t raised to understand that, and naturally I was no good at conflict, so not good at it that I would rather be steamrolled. I’m starting to turn the franchise around slowly but it still feels like sometimes part of me is standing with everyone who’s against me calling the other part of me a selfish villain; it’s part of the unlearning process I guess. Never knew what strength or weakness meant
@1jordy113 жыл бұрын
He’s not in a polyamorous relationship he’s part of her harem
@marias65833 жыл бұрын
Bruuuuhhhhh😂😂
@jdcaldwell50883 жыл бұрын
It’s CALLED CUCK!
@1jordy113 жыл бұрын
@@jdcaldwell5088 thats when she’s got a guy or guys she repeatedly bangs on sides while keeping it hidden
@robinthrush96723 жыл бұрын
@@jdcaldwell5088 In this instance, it's called polyandry.
@knalg3 жыл бұрын
@@1jordy11 pretty sure cuck means you get off on your girl getting fucked by another guy. Most times you being present when it happens. Not what you said.
@J.R.Swish13 жыл бұрын
This guy made feminists jealous of him for being more feminist than them
@EddieNgatia3 жыл бұрын
Lmao dead 🤣
@FGj-xj7rd3 жыл бұрын
😂
@nihill59953 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@yanderegal53063 жыл бұрын
You mean feminazi
@donpheath3 жыл бұрын
Facts bro🤣🤣
@tropicalmk35193 жыл бұрын
The part where Preach just packs up and leave had me gone😭😭😭 The speed just made it worse😭😭
@dmul233 жыл бұрын
Hearing preach dying outside the room is hands down the funniest thing I've heard in a minute! Edit: For the peoples asking “How the comment 4 days old on a new video?” If you sub to their Patreon for $5 a month, which costs less than that Venti Mocha Frappuccino with Cold Foam you get every morning, you get their content early, along with some exclusive content. Subbing to the Patreon makes your blue chew work better too.
@thorfinnoars14433 жыл бұрын
While aba is being serious 😂😂😂
@rabbitrun00683 жыл бұрын
Laughed my ass off hearing him in the background, perfect
@sabintee92323 жыл бұрын
Yo wtf this video was posted 16 min ago? And the comment is from 4 days ago? I’m hella confused
@Swampdonkey7963 жыл бұрын
How tf you make this comment 4 days ago when the videos been out 15 minutes?
@OnlyTwoShoes3 жыл бұрын
How is this comment 4 days old in an 18 minute old video?
@xaviergrace60813 жыл бұрын
“Violating your own boundaries doesn’t make you a good man it makes you a weak man” that’s a banger
@G.Leo53 жыл бұрын
I heard it as I was reading this damn
@angryviolentwitchqueen66332 жыл бұрын
Bars
@jaymose11462 жыл бұрын
Lol then a person gets called all kinds of names because they stand up for themselves. "Dammed if you do, damned if you don't."
@wearytraveler21643 жыл бұрын
This dude has no Idea how bad he’s fucking up his own mind. One day this relationship will end but his mental baggage from having put himself through it will stick forever. Don’t ever compromise your morals for a relationship.
@justadummy80763 жыл бұрын
Exactly, he has no idea how this toxic relationship is affecting his view of what a healthy relationship should look like
@sparks20223 жыл бұрын
Idk, there's a giant sinkhole of resentment forming somewhere deep under this guy's ego. I'm thinking a murder suicide isn't out of the question here.
@bensmith55813 жыл бұрын
Emotional manipulation and abuse to the guy will have a massive tole. Women are let off with this sort of stuff as well so much, everyone blames the guy for an abusive woman.
@roguewasbanned47463 жыл бұрын
I mean I’d understand if it was his kink or something, but otherwise he’s dumb for not making it monogamous for her if she’s gonna make a big deal about him seeing somebody
@roguewasbanned47463 жыл бұрын
@@bensmith5581 meh and here we are with aba giving him counseling, but if he don’t take the advice, then it’s his fault for not taking it. The laws ain’t about to change anytime soon so it’s best to toughen up
@shadowgun223 жыл бұрын
A lot of modern toxic feminists would say this is okay, and not to bully him. We know their type now.
@Deno21003 жыл бұрын
Actually a lot of the "feminist's" I have come across are not feminist's when they are looking for someone to have sex with. The attractive ones dont go for males like him. They go for the male that doesnt care about their little scam. Surprise surprise.
@mississipi11033 жыл бұрын
As a toxic feminist, no, she's just a cheater
@borednerd21003 жыл бұрын
No?! He needs help and she's a bitch.
@bigtime95973 жыл бұрын
@@Deno2100 Feminists are usually only just feminists because of the effeminate men around them, the simps. They can't stand weak men. Frankly, neither can I. The moment you put a real rooster in the hen house, those hens will do a 180 real quick. They'll stop pecking at each other and start laying eggs for real. Dig?
@kristyperry68462 жыл бұрын
@@mississipi1103 No feminism isn't toxic.. it has a wave that degrades & all out hates men.
@kevinsimeon16003 жыл бұрын
Ayyy mann Preach DIPPED!! then broke down further down the road and came back more invested 😭😭
@pignouxd3 жыл бұрын
The "Oh mon dieu" killed me haha
@sub-harmonik3 жыл бұрын
sometimes you shouldn't respect how someone feels.
@2thomask3 жыл бұрын
Alot of times
@cubingspeed69333 жыл бұрын
[Toxic comes many a time in the prettiest presentations!✌🏼💊]
@carinadominguez223 жыл бұрын
I will respect their feelings but I'll respect myself more and tell them how wrong they are and how big a moron they are.
@canofsoda3 жыл бұрын
@@cubingspeed6933 whats with the hand signs and antibiotics bro?
@cubingspeed69333 жыл бұрын
@@canofsoda[simple: peace and the red-pill. Be well!]
@milana20203 жыл бұрын
Stds just don’t seem to exist no more
@Prophezora3 жыл бұрын
That is interesting, isnt it?
@nickb64253 жыл бұрын
Neither does the cost of multiple tests lol
@kingsnake81783 жыл бұрын
Right? Apparently, getting rid of that shit's no different than curing a cold now
@milana20203 жыл бұрын
@@kingsnake8178 lmaoooo your comment was funny😭
@kingsnake81783 жыл бұрын
@@milana2020 But it's facts😭 the way some of my friends talk about raw dogging people they just met makes me think my immune system weak as hell compared to them
@MoltarTheGreat3 жыл бұрын
People like this need to become more comfortable being alone so they can set stronger boundaries.
@EE-iy9rq4 ай бұрын
indeed . sadly many can’t first deal with themselves first before considering entering any relationships
@thegamingkitchen84293 жыл бұрын
"Sometimes your type is why you're alone." -Preach
@brallantp.28123 жыл бұрын
He got the Forest, “Ok Jenny” syndrome from that scene in Family Guy
@VilaToro643 жыл бұрын
He gonna take care of the aids baby
@NkosiNightskin3 жыл бұрын
That's not polyamory. At least not ethically. That's polyandry and he is simping so hard for his own fucking heartbreak.
@bunjichronologic58653 жыл бұрын
It's just plain manipulation
@NkosiNightskin3 жыл бұрын
@@bunjichronologic5865 Truth. It's emotional manipulation that she attributed to a lifestyle she has no connection to.
@DoubleO883 жыл бұрын
Theres a fucking word for that shit?
@TheOneTrueNoName3 жыл бұрын
Thank youuuuuu
@cubingspeed69333 жыл бұрын
[Solipsism!?✌🏼💊]
@heyitsshay60583 жыл бұрын
Preach packed his shit. Respectfully. ✌🏾🤣✊🏿😤
@Sam-us1he4 ай бұрын
Walked away grumbling was the best, “no we’re not doing this” lol
@leanna36253 жыл бұрын
I've only seen polyamory work when they were both polyamorous from the start. Monogamy then switching things up usually means one person wants it and the other gets dragged along for the ride.
@adonisbarlay32923 жыл бұрын
That’s what I was thinking when someone cheats and it changes to poly it never works
@chadveez49083 жыл бұрын
What's a difference between polyamorous and friends with benefits?
@stina2633 жыл бұрын
Yup poly relationships already rarely work but switching from monogamy to poly is even more rare to actually work out
@SoulDelSol3 жыл бұрын
@@chadveez4908 the side pieces are the FWB. I think the main person could be someone they cohabitate with. Good question though. Seems like a bunch of single people to me
@adonisbarlay32923 жыл бұрын
@@chadveez4908 you are still in some type of relationship I guess you can fuck other people but that emotional side of the relationship is reserved for your main(the person that’s going to be around your family and the person your going to be public with
@nathanieldunn16823 жыл бұрын
I had a friend that would do the same shit that this dude is doing. She’d ask me for advice but would do the complete opposite of what I said. And when things went wrong she would come crying to me about it. It got to a point where I just stopped talking to her, because you can’t help somebody if they don’t want to help themselves. 🤷🏾♂️
@lilahdog5683 жыл бұрын
Same. I knew this girl who literally wouldn't make the effort on anything and continued hanging out with some toxic bitch, then complained when her friend kept backstabbing her. I'm sorry, what am I supposed to do, buy you a new brain or something?
@maggotmeatballz26923 жыл бұрын
Haha I had a friend like this too!
@deathrager24043 жыл бұрын
i dont even interact with women that i dont fuck. get lost hunny go bother someone else.
@nathanieldunn16823 жыл бұрын
@@deathrager2404 Go bother someone else you say. But you replied to my comment. Nobody forced you to respond.
@rocstarang57473 жыл бұрын
They didn't want help, they wanted an audience.
@jhonnycultura44553 жыл бұрын
This is the type of dude who would raise another men's child knowing she got pregnant by other dude... Being in a poly relationship as a men with a woman who's going for men it's not a good idea. It's a clear disadvantage and you could get fooled.
@bilalkhares93373 жыл бұрын
That's probably why polygamy was traditionally only for high status men
@TheDeadlyBlueWolf3 жыл бұрын
Not to mention its vastly easier for women to attract guys willing to screw compared to a guy.
@ravenstar53763 жыл бұрын
It’s a post i saw on IG ( Guy whose hitting it raw *MY KIDS BEEN PLAYING WITH YOURS SINCE BEFORE THEY WERE BORN* ▶️ Baby daddy 👀 ◀️
@lordfarquad89133 жыл бұрын
@Benjamin Muller English pls
@matthew_turkmen74823 жыл бұрын
Pls don't mix taking care of children with cuckolding.
@racheltelpner3 жыл бұрын
Preach’s distant laughter at 4:11 got me good 🤣 But fr this dude is in denial
@patricklandor473 жыл бұрын
This is why fathers are needed. I don’t have a son but I was about to jump in and learn his ass
@ChawanneBurns3 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Samuels-nz9em3 жыл бұрын
@@suzygirl1843 They are raising a whole new generation of beta male simps, telling them that " get more in touch with your feelings " "your femininity " .
@positiveenergy88882 жыл бұрын
Plenty of kids with fathers have turned on violent or useless. It’s not about having a father but about having good parents and self respect .
@DadsCigaretteRun Жыл бұрын
@@positiveenergy8888 being the “dad” and a “father” are very different
@rogershabangu60233 жыл бұрын
This the type of guy to continue paying for her apartment and cars while she goes around saying he is a good friend
@tamaracarus30163 жыл бұрын
Lol is this in reference to that woman that was on Freshandfit? if no, then definitely watch it that exact same thing happened.
@elisakrivas3 жыл бұрын
"Cucked in a polyamorous relationship," sadly it happens more than you think. Many people use polyamory as an excuse to be with several people, but then can't take it when their partner does the same thing. Very wrong.
@elisakrivas3 жыл бұрын
@@somebody700 To each their own. I respect your opinion
@damianwildfong72783 жыл бұрын
that not poly thats called being an asshole
@FLdancer003 жыл бұрын
Happened to me. I let my dude do whatever he wanted, took him strip clubs, helped him pick girls up. The first date I went on, he flipped out, could not handle it.
@elisakrivas3 жыл бұрын
@@FLdancer00 I hope you dumped him or that he's tamed down, one of the two
@sonderexpeditions3 жыл бұрын
@@somebody700 depends, couldn't do it but I know couples with 20+ year marriages who do it. Most people can't but it's possible for a small demographic.
@StevenBriggs3 жыл бұрын
You guys crack me the fuck up. That whole part where Preach is just putting all his shit on and leaves. Priceless.
@verscarii32383 жыл бұрын
Hot Take: Polyamorous relationships are absolutely pointless and it’s usually only one partner who actually wants it.
@Koccil1003 жыл бұрын
Some people are in a polyamorous relationship and don’t even realize it😂
@euph0ric0ne723 жыл бұрын
Facts. And it usually is always a woke feminist with long armpit hair and a strong hard clit for socialism, who cries about the patriarchy is against females while promoting her OnlyFans on a popular political tweet.
@marcsman073 жыл бұрын
@@Koccil100 LOL OOF
@tvesrb3 жыл бұрын
word. just a pretentious way to say FWB.
@sunsundks38913 жыл бұрын
Not always
@juanc51493 жыл бұрын
Straight up, if I were this man’s boss I’d fire him. Cause he is going to let people just grab shit for free.
@Samuels-nz9em3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@firefistace3003 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@troytesoro74913 жыл бұрын
I’m dead af! Lmaoo
@nianjerih.68643 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭
@DrThier323 жыл бұрын
For real
@nicolasgarcia90733 жыл бұрын
This man transcended reality in order to simp in a poly relationship
@nicolasgarcia90733 жыл бұрын
@Be nice why
@Major0033 жыл бұрын
"I'm just sayin', bro... I respect how this female feels." From one female to a dude, *SHE DON'T RESPECT YOU.* She isn't worth your time. Drop her.
@calumbarry18293 жыл бұрын
This is why polyamorus relationships are just damn childish in my eyes. It's people wanting the benefits of monogamy without the commitment and that doesn't work. Unless you started off as polyamorus then theres a pretty high ass chance that whoever suggests going poly was already poly long before that. They just tryna save face. Whole thing just seems like a waste of time.
@freakymrq3 жыл бұрын
I don't see why people don't just call it what it is, friends with benefits. Everyone wants to be special and have all these stupid ass terms. Just be honest with yourself, you wanna sleep around. Just own it.
@laworder66373 жыл бұрын
Men who accept poly relationships are weak with no pride and dignity or boundaries, straight up BETA.
@joshuaellison63563 жыл бұрын
@@laworder6637 Guess I'm a beta then, also this is not polyamory in this video, this is manipulation of a guy with rock bottom selfesteem.
@abbiereynolds80163 жыл бұрын
@@joshuaellison6356 At least you're self aware.
@adunce.54223 жыл бұрын
Face is such a stupid concept. “Give me face by giving me special benefits.” The whole thing is stupid.
@verbaloutlet67883 жыл бұрын
Crazy thing is he’s so brainwashed he thinks she really love him 😭😭😭😭
@sheepdog57993 жыл бұрын
It’s sad. She probably just sides him for monetary/emotional reasons. The kid needs some damn good self respect.
@aristotle92433 жыл бұрын
@@sheepdog5799 hes down bad af
@kirbyaugustine7613 жыл бұрын
Never make someone a priority that treats you like an option
@diypictures3 жыл бұрын
Imagine respecting someone more than you respect yourself. Smh.
@mayro48033 жыл бұрын
Even that isn't called respect.
@OpeoAslam3 жыл бұрын
He’s the star of his own NTR hentai. Ouch
@nothingsuspicioushere.63793 жыл бұрын
LMAO A fellow man of culture.
@Dxsmp3 жыл бұрын
He not the real mc for ntr it's the nigga tht smashing her
@tommatt29013 жыл бұрын
@@Dxsmp HAHAHAHA YOOO
@lopezroilans.83843 жыл бұрын
A fellow cultured citizen, i see
@xaviersmall44613 жыл бұрын
I genuinely wanted to fight this man for the level of stupidity and lack of self respect. I'm pretty sure making it "polyamorous" was her idea but she never expected him to find someone else so its win win for her. He should've never even agreed to it in the first place.
@TomikaKelly3 жыл бұрын
I actually DO feel sorry for people who lack self respect because that tells me that they either weren't taught self esteem and self respect or something happened that damaged them.
@xaviersmall44613 жыл бұрын
@@TomikaKelly lacking self respect is one thing but this was tied to stupidity which is where I have a problem. He actively tried to defend being disrespected, not rationalize but defend
@camdaddy-jones15903 жыл бұрын
@@xaviersmall4461 The sad thing is he chooses a person that treats him like shit rather than someone who actually cares about his problem and wants to help solve the issue. If I was his best friend I would personally feel offended that he chose pussy over his friend who’s only trying to look out for him.
@justcallmekai15543 жыл бұрын
@@camdaddy-jones1590 Oh god dude I would feel the same way. I would feel disrespected and its seems that he cant see the value in our platonic relationship. At that point he is on his own down the road to hell and we warned him.
@dswynne3 жыл бұрын
Funny how this "arrangement" was okay until the guy went out for his own date.
@TheTsugnawmi20103 жыл бұрын
He lacks integrity and courage. That's why he's a doormat.
@cevapipapi89203 жыл бұрын
I refer to men and women who act like this as slippers, they get put on and worn around then taken off until they need to be put on again.
@Vuirotto3 жыл бұрын
there's just no way this dude is all there lol
@geremymason59363 жыл бұрын
"I respect how this female feels." Translation - "im afraid to upset her because I think she's gonna leave me." Don't be like this men. Don't be afraid to upset women and definitely don't make their feelings your responsibility. "I respect her feelings" or "I care about her feelings" are phrases that should not be uttered from your mouth. Their feelings are their responsibility, not yours.
@ayochayce81853 жыл бұрын
Definitely I learned that women with common sense will respect a man EVEN MORE if you just lay it down to them but honest like if they are being stupid just tell them striaght up and their respect for you will go up
@diskid36443 жыл бұрын
you sounding like a sociopath ngl bro, you can care about people ye know, just don’t be putting folks feelings ahead of ur own, that’s where shit goes south ygm
@ayochayce81853 жыл бұрын
@@diskid3644 true on that point in a way
@diskid36443 жыл бұрын
@@ayochayce8185 yeah I’m a sociopath so I kno what am chatting g👊🏼😂
@geremymason59363 жыл бұрын
@@diskid3644 did I say not to care about people? Or did I say not to make someone's feelings your responsibility and dont be afraid to upset people? So quick to judge without even understanding the message. Actually get the message and take it at face value instead of twisting the words to make someone sound like a bad person.
@taylorisonlinereal3 жыл бұрын
If your girl asks to be in a poly relationship, and you don't want to be with multiple people, dip.
@jamesmontoban13383 жыл бұрын
If your girl asks, that means you ain't enough for her. A woman who really likes a guy would never initiate a poly relationship!
@damionmarkham98353 жыл бұрын
Drop her off on the fast lane
@TheCastedone3 жыл бұрын
Facts accept the fact it was just your turn
@listendowatch3 жыл бұрын
He is trying so hard to rationalize why he isn’t wrong in what is going on. WEAK
@T3URD2BOMB3 жыл бұрын
Preach was in the background looking like he was getting ready for war.
@starplays37182 жыл бұрын
He was getting ready to rob a military base.
@EduardBrichuk3 жыл бұрын
Preach's laugh is soo contagious, even the microphone can pick it up from another room. 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@we_barebears3 жыл бұрын
polyamorous relationships are basically 'lol sorry i dont wanna choose between you guys'
@souless883 жыл бұрын
There are a few diff forms of poly. But the internet got kids thinking its 1 person with multiple partners that are ONLY theirs. Thats usually not it unless its relgion based.
@ItsHakki3 жыл бұрын
Preach, my guy, putting on his gear for 10 solid seconds, leaving the fuckin' room, laughing his balls off That says EVERYTHING about the situation
@bombvoyage56863 жыл бұрын
And the was sped up too
@ItsHakki3 жыл бұрын
@@bombvoyage5686 ROFL. I didn't notice that at first 🤣
@javiergamboa87953 жыл бұрын
Dudes like him are the exact reason we have women act the way they do
@Jorirah3 жыл бұрын
The women you choose....
@carloslugo94573 жыл бұрын
@@Jorirah nope. Woman act a certain way because there is simp that supports them
@blindfaith29343 жыл бұрын
tbf this is deeper than that. since we were little kids, media such as music, books, movies, they all tell the story of the beautiful woman that us as men have to court. we basically have to convince the woman that were her best option, we are never taught that we should look for someone that careas about us, were taught that we have to find the most attractive woman, regardless if she even gives a shit about us cause as men, we basically have to get everything ourselves. thats the biggest gender issue people never talk about. everyones talking out their ass about smashing gender norms but this never gets adressed, the fact that as a man you bsically have the burden of not only figuring yourself out, but figuring yourself out and already having the mental burden of supporting someone else. it is very rare that a woman looks for a man that she can help grow, develop, usually they want the ones who can help THEM grow. the only thing men had as a "standard" is how helpful could a woman be around the house, since in essence a man didnt "need" the emotional help to mature to find purpose, thats all expected and even demanded of him. as i said before, no woman would ever go for a man that doesnt have his "ducks in a row" so to speak, in turn men are taught that we are the ones who have to be an emotional support for women, guide them in life, sort of like a mentor. but wheres the reciprocity for men? it is not uncommon for women to lose respect/attraction for a man when they show emotion or fragility, since it is not only expected but demanded that the man is the leader. whats the point even of going for modern women? they refuse to do the only thing men could basically expect from them, and they refuse to be support or help men grow. they want the ready meal whilst men are fucked doing the shopping and the cooking, metaforically. there ARE women that want to support men and grow with them dont get me wrong, but they are almost non existant. this modern feminism is teaching women that they dont need to give men anything, it keeps pushing the narrative that theyre the prize and they should expect to be treated as such. why are men not taught to value themselves? why cant men have long lists of demands? why are we expected to bend over backwards for a glimpse of attention, not even affection? we shouldnt be expected to pull our wight AND another persons too, SPECIALLY IN THIS AGE WHERE YALL ARE CLAMORING FOR EQUALITY. value yourself kings, dont chase women.
@xybersurfer3 жыл бұрын
@@blindfaith2934 well said! this is the real problem
@Jorirah3 жыл бұрын
@@carloslugo9457 not "women"...this one. You don't see me saying all men are abusive because some men beat on women 🤷🏾♀️ If it is all women it's all the women YOU are messing with.
@qthervil023 жыл бұрын
The whole conversation kinda felt like the Patrick Star and Man Ray meme "Youre in a consensual polyamorous relationship" "Yup" "She exercised her right in it and you should be able to do so too, right?" "Yup" "So her not allowing you to see other people is disrespecting that agreement and you, right?" "Sounds about right to me" "So leave!" "But I love and respect this girl"
@Ezmacanic3 жыл бұрын
“I respect how this female feels”. My guy is outside of this realm. He’s beyond a simp at this point.
@carlosaponte23493 жыл бұрын
Guy's trying to prove something in the wrong place.
@travistirey85793 жыл бұрын
Ultra Simpstinct
@jacquelynlinn15053 жыл бұрын
Lonely?
@hythlodaeus99443 жыл бұрын
@J.C. whats wrong with addressing her as female?
@hythlodaeus99443 жыл бұрын
@J.C. doesn't sound weird to me.. I agree with the other word.. but she is a female.. and he is on a show where I'm sure he doesn't wanna call out her name so he says female.
@Dez1123 жыл бұрын
Sometimes, I really can’t believe people like this guy exist. My man would never lol. I couldn’t even be attracted to a man that allowed me to dog him like that 🤦🏽♀️.
@jerometruitt27313 жыл бұрын
Key word there is MAN. This dude is male but he's not a man
@joachimquintus3 жыл бұрын
Well she's not attracted to him either, She doesn't find him attractive at all that's why she's seeking other men. She just wants to keep him around because women be loving the attention and for all the shit he does for her. She finds other men way more attractive than his simpy ass
@crystalmcknight_3 жыл бұрын
Brooooo Fr
@anxietyebriety65533 жыл бұрын
Doesn't his weakness and lack of self respect just turn you completely off?
@porcus1233 жыл бұрын
My guess is that she isnt attracted either but he probably comes running when she is alone, the one that loves the less controls the relantionship.
@erix13843 жыл бұрын
This is what denial looks like
@Major0033 жыл бұрын
"Violating your own morals does not make you a good man. It makes you a weak man." *BASED ABA* 👏🙌
@gazellehelene53803 жыл бұрын
I think he is afraid that if he leaves her, he won’t have any other options. I think he needs to love and respect himself first because people who prey on weakness can smell it from a mile away. If he had confidence and self-respect, he wouldn’t have been so easily caught. He needs to run, now. He seems sweet; he just needs to know his worth.
@bigtime95973 жыл бұрын
You might be on to something here. He's not a half bad looking brother. Lose the beanie and stop calling people "bitch", though. Homie needs to take the time and build himself up for HIM first.
@necrophiliac.-.cat56953 жыл бұрын
whats the point of being in a relationship if youre just going to be with other people??????????????
@AhsokaJackson3 жыл бұрын
Greed and immaturity, as a start.
@lukeozade99573 жыл бұрын
If it's polygamy/andry they hold power. If it's polyamorous, they just afraid to commit. It's all fun and games until she come home pregnant and 9 months later you realise that ain't yo kid. And if you try and bounce. She just gonna make you pay child support for 18 years. Remember kids you can't commit infidelity if you not in a real relationship. Imagine getting married in something like that and when you wanna divorce you lose all your shit cause you can't argue infidelity. Which is literally your only defence if you don't wanna become homeless because of some hoe.
@Tailionis3 жыл бұрын
Not feeling lonely
@lakeishadean42983 жыл бұрын
You guys are misinformed and that’s ok. If you want actually answers and are actually opened to understanding it, then I’d advise you all to do some research. If not then y’all can continue to have your misinformed opinions.
@bigbro64463 жыл бұрын
Fucking isn’t inherently romantic, if you’ve had anything casual and you can’t comprehend it you’re just playing dumb.
@KiSwordsman3 жыл бұрын
This man said slurpy slurpy... ok that’s enough internet for today.
@giggitygiggitygigism3 жыл бұрын
Lmfaoooooo slurpy slurpy and then she comes back to kiss him in the mouth 🤣🤣
@KiSwordsman3 жыл бұрын
@@giggitygiggitygigism Jesus man, I didn’t need that mental image lol
@aristotle92433 жыл бұрын
he needs deliverance
@giggitygiggitygigism3 жыл бұрын
@@aristotle9243 he needs to be sent to the shadow realm
@aristotle92433 жыл бұрын
@@giggitygiggitygigism ong
@KaizenLegacy3 жыл бұрын
"I totally agree, but ..." No dude, there is no "but". I cannot feel bad for this guy because he is doing it to himself!
@baileyskates3 жыл бұрын
This comes from men having a scarcity mindset. he thinks "shes the best i can do, so its ok if she sleeps with other dudes, if it means i dont lose her."
@anxietyebriety65533 жыл бұрын
Exactly. He needs to learn his value. There's beautiful girls everywhere and constantly resplenishing by the day. Men with great value don't come nearly as frequently.
@Alecexo3 жыл бұрын
That’s very true. Lack of self confidence and self respect that he can find someone much better with a little time and effort
@Alecexo3 жыл бұрын
@@anxietyebriety6553 if you keep just looking for beautiful girls you’re sure to run into girls like this again lmao. The problem is he’s only looking for beauty and not a woman of substance. You’re setting up for a loop of disappointment
@ryancohen55803 жыл бұрын
I bet his girl’s favourite movie is “A SIMPle Plan”
@efarjeonfgc3 жыл бұрын
Kek
@mike52673 жыл бұрын
A SIMPle Favor
@juliearmfield26343 жыл бұрын
@@mike5267 i know im going to sound stupid but what is a SIMP.?
@therealkenny223 жыл бұрын
@@juliearmfield2634 people who ask this question are simps
@ztrigger53043 жыл бұрын
Is that a real movie ? Never heard of "a simple plan" what it about 🤷🏾♂️
@kidfisch3 жыл бұрын
Not even “I had to hear” but “I *got* to hear”, like it was an opportunity…
@ExhaustingLifestyles3 жыл бұрын
Bruh I’m dead☠️
@Isaac-ci5wy3 жыл бұрын
I laughed at this- fr bro, he sat there and heard that!💀
@mahreek86503 жыл бұрын
Preach just was like - I’m out Lol cackling in the background. Always appreciate the good quality entertainment 💕
@alainac.81833 жыл бұрын
This guy is in denial. She has no respect for him and he needs to respect himself and leave, I bet she asked for for the open relationship as well. How is she going to be the one sleeping with other guys but he can't sleep with other women because it hurts her feelings? And they are in a 'polygamous' relationship?
@lamartaylor79023 жыл бұрын
Denial might be an understatement. He's asking for advice on how to share a vagina with another man lol. There is no advice for anyone that stupid who is getting played by a woman who doesn't even hide it
@alainac.81833 жыл бұрын
@@lamartaylor7902 lol seriously. I'm so embarrassed for him
@burgermike923 жыл бұрын
4:11 Preach's laugh transcends walls now.
@romipiratería3 жыл бұрын
Oh man that made me laugh so hard
@denbertwhite3 жыл бұрын
I was wondering where these comments were
@DeadLkeMe3 жыл бұрын
"Polyamorous relationships" is a fancy way of saying y'all are "FWB" 🤡☕
@The_favorite_Uncle3 жыл бұрын
This is even worse
@joeyluvshouse3 жыл бұрын
What does FWB mean ?
@lovely-shrubbery85783 жыл бұрын
Not fwb, a 💰.
@tiredox37883 жыл бұрын
@@joeyluvshouse Friends with benefits.
@Th1sUsernameIsNotTaken3 жыл бұрын
That would be an open relationship. Polygamy just got flooded by people who wanted to fuck, but didn't want to call their relationship "open", so they went with that term. Polyamorous relationships are supposed to be about actual connections with others on more than just a physical level. whether that's dating the same person together, or separate people.
@bw50203 жыл бұрын
If this was a mono poly relationship, I could understand. But she doesn't even respect him enough to respect his boundaries. She snuck around him to get play. He owes her absolutely zero decency
@mrDeathtrooper3 жыл бұрын
Guys like this are why men suffer, these “enablers”.
@JoeMoss833 жыл бұрын
The only men suffering are the enablers, so good for them.
@austins.11023 жыл бұрын
Exactly why you shouldn’t want to be a “nice guy” that lets people violate his boundaries and allows himself to be taken as a pushover. You should aspire to be a righteous man who has enough self-respect to assert his boundaries & walk away. People will treat you how you let them treat you🤷🏾♂️.
@lovely16413 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with being a nice guy. It's just he was never taught about dealing with those women who would try to take advantage of that in a relationship
@austins.11023 жыл бұрын
@@lovely1641 Nah there’s nothing wrong with being nice but his definition of being “nice” is the reason why he’s being taken advantage of. He doesn’t even respect himself so it’s not surprising that his girlfriend doesn’t respect him. Kindness shouldn’t lead you to blatantly let people violate your boundaries or take advantage of you.
@yourarchnemesis84533 жыл бұрын
People confuse being nice with being a doormat.
@bbbbbbb513 жыл бұрын
@@lovely1641 a "nice guy" is not just a guy being nice. It's about subverting your own expectations/wants to placate your partner/someone you want. It's pathetic & no sane person respects it.
@lordtbootyclappn16213 жыл бұрын
@@lovely1641 there's a difference between someone who respects themselves, showing genuine kindness and someone who is nice because he's afraid to be anything but. No one respects harmlessness. They may show pity, but no one respects it. An to her, he's harmless. There are no consequences to her actions, as he wont enforce any. She can set new boundaries whenever she feels like it because he wont hold her to any. Had they been in a monogamous relationship and should she have engaged in infidelity, nothing would've changed here. That's not to say he should be violent towards her, but that is to say that he should respect himself enough, be selfish enough to detach himself from a relationship that's clearly harming him.
@DynamicUnreal3 жыл бұрын
He’s young, he still believes in the Disney fantasy of real love perseveres and remains true no matter what. Once the Disney fantasy is over then there’s usually an overcompensation in the opposite direction. No love, no faithfulness, no remorse. I always say that most adolescent males start out with the most noble intentions until their first girlfriend takes advantage and ruins them.
@rutgerhauser23773 жыл бұрын
Gotta learn to be cold. Cold world out there, you gotta adapt and match.
@lilahdog5683 жыл бұрын
My former fiancee completely demoralized me, or maybe just made me wake up, idk. Before her I definitely believed in that Disney romance shit, but afterwards I just decided screw it, I'm never taking this seriously again.
@aubreysong3 жыл бұрын
Maybe not Disney. Maybe it's Anime. You know, a reverse harem kink kinda thing.
@michmich91093 жыл бұрын
And vice versa
@wishfull3nigma3 жыл бұрын
Whenever women ask why men are how they are, I always tell em they made us this way. Most men believed in fairy tails too, we just get to find out the hard way they don't exist.
@alexventrov68263 жыл бұрын
LMAO when Preach walked out I lost it ! I haven't laughed like that for a while 😂.
@bo27203 жыл бұрын
These people prey on good people that are easy to manipulate. They want to commit to nothing but demand commitment from their partners to them. These people are the worst and most toxic individuals you can ever have in your life. Get rid of them! Asap. One day you will be tired of them and break up anyway. Only question is how much time will you waste??
@michaelangst60783 жыл бұрын
Is it really worse than all these depressed men whining about being sexually frustrate online though? As long as the woman in the poly relationship isn't strictly using you for financial reasons, I don't see it being a big deal, especially if you never are going to get married
@shiro24003 жыл бұрын
@@michaelangst6078 then why would u bother being in a ‘polygamous’ relationship? Get some friends with benefits. No strings attached, just free poon poon. No responsibility other than a condom. Way better than a fake polygamous relationship where one is banging while the other is having doubts.
@michaelangst60783 жыл бұрын
@@shiro2400 A good poly relationship is basically having sexual benefits with your best friend though..It's only weird when the dude marries a woman and lets her fuck other men after. Most men in them will never get married and are just letting the female be with other guys so they can still have sex with her. the big problem I imagine most poly relationships have is that the female is taking advantage of the guy providing her free rent and whatever else while still being able to get with other men she finds more attractive...
@rutgerhauser23773 жыл бұрын
No sympathy for him, he pollutes the dating market by fluffing these girls up and making them expect that every guy should tolerate that kind of behavior. He gets what he deserves.
@KamenKami3 жыл бұрын
Good people Simps Pick one, and only one.
@elledesignsart3 жыл бұрын
He seems like a nice young man with good intentions just wanting to give this girl everything she wants thinking in the end she will choose him.. But she won't. She will always choose herself first. Sad part is with him giving her everything he's just pretty much destroying himself in the process and he doesn't even realize the damage yet.
@Tales_Thomas3 жыл бұрын
He a nice guy
@chisbeybe67213 жыл бұрын
We don't know if he is nice. We need to stop mistaking timidity and weakness for niceness. He might even be a dick when he feels he has the upper hand in a conversation. We don't know if he's nice. btw, I'm saying this in the spirit of self improvement for all. Not to bring you down x
@anxietyebriety65533 жыл бұрын
He needs the Freah&Fit podcast.
@yualwayscmecommenting30743 жыл бұрын
@@chisbeybe6721 that's true but I assumed he was nice because he's jumping around backwards for someone else. Usually only nice people are willing to put others before themselves. In this case it's a huge mistake.
@Exxperiment6263 жыл бұрын
Some people gotta burn before they learn...
@energiesolaire57383 жыл бұрын
He is not the only one who lives in this kind of toxic relationships. Here's the thing, my aunt and my great grand-mother had the same experience for years with their husbands. My aunt stayed with the same man for 20 years. Her first love. The guy made her believe he was too good for her and she should feel proud because he could have chosen another woman, a better one in many ways. In other hands, he told her that their love was special and fidelity was for the sheeps, the biggots and they were too modern to promise to each other they won't have sex with someone else. When things weren't going like he wanted to be, he would be very agressive towards her but not in front of everyone. Just a few could notice. He started cheeting very early (9 months of dating) with her friends. He twisted the situation by saying that as a man he need things that she couldn't bring to him anyway so in order to stay with her and preserve their extraordinary and deep love, she had to let him do whatever he wanted with who ever he pleased. As she got pregnant, he left their home for almost a year to live with another woman that he dumped after the birth of his son. He would sleep with almost all the women at his work because he had a important place there and everyone knew (also the people at Church). Each time, she got pregnant (5 times) he left until the baby was born and never took care of them. He dumped her many times for another younger woman but always came back like nothing happened by just saying "Let's just say i couldn't live properly without you around." He could see any women he wanted but hell, if a dude was looking at my aunt or if she dared talking to another man without him around, he would go mad and insult her for hours. My great grand-mother had the same life but the difference is that my aunt had the strenght to leave him while the other one died. To tell you that i hope people who live in this sort of relationship have one day the strenght to stand up for themselves and leave because those kind of partners will never give them back everything they gave them for years. You're just a buoy, a maid, a pleasant front page. Deep down, as they are lying next to you, they wonder if the grass looks greener elsewhere and when they will think they have found the occasion, the one they wanted, they will dump you like poop (and perhaps come back if they got wrong). But you can't tell to these people to leave. They have to take the decision and figure out themselves. Until they fully understand what's wrong, they will always find excuses and protect the other. You just have to wait and be ready to help when the moment will come. Otherwise you will be seen as the bad guy. Anyone could live in a polyamourous relationship only if it has been stated from the beginning and everyone gave their full consent. If you are bothered by this conception of love, stop dating and move on.
@shavanaealexandervlogs26033 жыл бұрын
Wow 😮 my friend is in this situation right now. Her man cheats and goes out with other women and told her women can’t do that stuff. I tried saving her but it back fired on me and now me and her haven’t spoken in a month.
@smackdatmoney Жыл бұрын
Poly shouldn't be normalized nomatter if its multiple men or women, its disgusting
@ingridc0ld3 жыл бұрын
"I'm just saying man, I respect how this female feels." Bruh. This is sad.
@KimHeb.3 жыл бұрын
This isn't love, it's an attachment style issue and a trauma bond.
@lillychang47883 жыл бұрын
This man either doesn’t actually love her or doesn’t respect himself almost punishing himself for his past actions.
@blackharpy74683 жыл бұрын
For some people, loving someone else equals not loving themselves.
@whatupdawg2813 жыл бұрын
This shit genuinely makes me depressed
@whatupdawg2813 жыл бұрын
@kevinn Slayer women don’t realize how much shit is bias towards them in relationships and they straight up take advantage of every single dating norm now. Aba and Preach need to do an other video about the approach.
@thedarkestfateful2 жыл бұрын
Lol this poor guy. He just refuses to see that she’s using the “polyamorous relationship” as an excuse to go out with other men while stringing him along, all so she doesn’t get called a cheating asshole when the relationship ends. I won’t even be surprised when he gets dumped for the first guy she thinks is “better” than him haha. All he’s gonna be left with is the regret that he wasted so much effort on a girl that doesn’t care about him.
@liveandlearn44452 жыл бұрын
His problem tho. Would be funny to hear him sing "in the end" at the end of this relationship ngl 😂
@kennethcole83603 жыл бұрын
Preach was DONE DONE, QUICK QUICK...he knows how to VALUE VALUE his time.
@ajtaylor87503 жыл бұрын
Preach in the beginning of the video: *what the f**k did you just say?* My sentiments exactly.
@AhsokaJackson3 жыл бұрын
Yup, that’s this whole thing in a nutshell. XD
@adonisbarlay32923 жыл бұрын
Yeah he definitely didn’t want this poly shit at all he just wants to stay with the girl
@bobbuilder1553 жыл бұрын
These other girls weren't going to line up to fuck him even if he acted all single while he was fucking that girl, the real world doesnt work that way, an attractive guy does not have the amount of options an unattractive women has. Just because you "know your worth" doesn't mean people are lining up to fuck you u if you have a penis.
@adonisbarlay32923 жыл бұрын
@@bobbuilder155 fax it’s not like you can just get Pussy consistently if you aren’t famous or rich and your in a relationship
@jerometruitt27313 жыл бұрын
@@bobbuilder155 they may not be lining up but the drought is over exaggerated.
@a.l.23393 жыл бұрын
Preach is a whole mood in this video. The boy talking about his relationship is young and lost. Aba has already spoke his piece. The boy will go through what he has to go through, wake up, and see that what he was told is true
@adrianchatman57343 жыл бұрын
It's the Simpocalypse with this dude lol. Omg....🤦♂️
@hellyeahbeech39623 жыл бұрын
This sounds like an open relationship where the girl might be toxic who has insecurities and problems that she should fix before hurting another person who has insecurities and becomes a victim to the hell he helped create.
@lovely16413 жыл бұрын
Polyamorous.....she a heaux. There's no such thing as one-sided polyamory