I'm a 47 year old, male survivor of childhood sexual abuse. I am an advocate and activist for victims and I work to create laws in Ohio to help protect children from abuse. There is an enormous amount of strength in coming forward Sir Wiggins. Your example is going to inspire and encourage thousands of other men to find their strength to come forward. Thank you for discussing the topic. What happened to you is not your fault. You just made the world a better place. Thank you!
@0ut0fafricaa5 ай бұрын
Calling Wiggins an alcoholic as has always struck me as shortsighted because he is a victim of abuse and alcoholism is a trauma response. Next step…doping. 🦵🏻
@FTA38yearfreeride5 ай бұрын
@@ChristopherSterwerf ofcourse is not his fault, that is a stupid thing to say , how can something like that ever be some ones fault ???
@ChristopherSterwerf5 ай бұрын
@@FTA38yearfreeride because, often, survivors of childhood sexual abuse believe it's their fault and they hold on to the shame inflicted by the abuser. Often, the abuser tells them as children that it's their fault. Some of the most powerful words a survivor can hear is that it wasn't their fault. Sometimes they need to hear it many times until they accept that truth themselves. Look up trauma informed care on KZbin or the internet for more information as to why it is so important. Thanks for your comment.
@ChristopherSterwerf5 ай бұрын
@@FTA38yearfreeride because, often, survivors of childhood sexual abuse believe that the are at fault because of the shame inflicted upon them by their abuser. Often, the abuser tells the victim child over and over that it is their fault. Some of the most powerful words a survivor can hear is that it is not their fault. It can take many times of hearing it before it sinks in and becomes their new truth. Do a search for trauma informed care to learn more. Thank you for your comment.
@ChristopherSterwerf5 ай бұрын
@dirkvilyn6239 because, often, survivors of childhood sexual abuse believe that the are at fault because of the shame inflicted upon them by their abuser. Often, the abuser tells the victim child over and over that it is their fault. Some of the most powerful words a survivor can hear is that it is not their fault. It can take many times of hearing it before it sinks in and becomes their new truth. Do a search for traumu informed care to learn more. Thank you for your comment.
@KristinaLouise5 ай бұрын
Lance creating space and being authentic, human, raw -- to discuss some sensitive topics with Sir Bradley -- out of genuine concern. ❤
@geordiedownundernz81165 ай бұрын
I’ve been waiting for this podcast for a while so looking forward to it
@dnch5 ай бұрын
Lances only genuine concern was always his own ass
@82vitt5 ай бұрын
@@dnch Exactly. Psychopaths have no genuine concern for others, only looking for their own interests.
@stiofan.oconchubhair5 ай бұрын
I read Lance's books It's Not About The Bike: My Journey Back to Life and My Comeback: Up Close and Personal (I cycle a bit) and was totally pissed off finding out that it's not about the bike but the EPO .. If he had just not come back however apparently he is a self absorbent asshole and a terrible team mate which makes sense really ..
@ericjensen36393 ай бұрын
@@stiofan.oconchubhair I am by NO means a Lance fanboy, but WTF does this have to do with this podcast.
@hilltop19725 ай бұрын
Please make Bradley a permanent part of the team!
@michelestuurman96535 ай бұрын
Totally agree
@stephencollinson23345 ай бұрын
Great idea! He fits in so well and is such a funny guy.
@johnnyhanel5 ай бұрын
at least during the tour like he referenced
@4879daniel5 ай бұрын
Yeah, he needs the money
@buffalobilly60465 ай бұрын
Anybody who insists on being called “Sir” because he has a stupid Brit title is a bigger doushe than Lance. And anybody that LOVES Aspen is just a self absorbed celebrity wanting to be “elite” . The Hollywood crowd has RUINED Aspen. If you live in Colorado you know exactly what I mean
@iDuckman5 ай бұрын
Such a *wonderful* conversation. Sir Bradley, I wish you all the best. Lance, you are obviously a good and valuable friend. Thank you for sharing.
@ericherrera1235 ай бұрын
Incredible! One of the best podcasts I've listened to in a long time! Great job, Lance! Love that you're gonna look after your friend! We all need more of that🙏🏽
@scottfast035 ай бұрын
Awesome one, Lance. You’re both legends. Be well, Sir Bradley. Take care of yourself. I also have to say, well done Lance. I’ve seen hundreds of videos and when Lance has a friend in need man he is loyal and the first one there to support. That’s incredible. You’re doing well, LA.
@michaelrobinson52685 ай бұрын
Bradley is a legend. One is infamous for cheating. But they both have incredible insight into cycling.
@robertlund56945 ай бұрын
@@michaelrobinson5268in lances era you had to dope or you got blown into the weeds, seems you do not have much of an insight into pro continental cycling of the 80's and 90's.
@OnlineXplorers5 ай бұрын
He has done the same for Jan. Regardless of what you think of Lance, you cannot doubt his loyalty to his friends
@michaelrobinson52685 ай бұрын
@@OnlineXplorers I agree. You also cannot forget how he destroyed people’s lives around him when he was competing. No doubt he loves those close to him and it’s great that he is helping Jan and Sir Bradley. Those people need a lift up. They didn’t leave cycling with the same financial security Lance did.
@johncumming63275 ай бұрын
@@michaelrobinson5268 How exactly did he destroy their lives. Are they living on the streets or what?
@jensoehler83005 ай бұрын
If you look at Ullrich, Armstrong and Wiggins, you really see how determined and successfull traumas can make you, but they catch up, eventuall, very candid and honest conversation👍
@tld145 ай бұрын
Every super hero’s story involves father trauma!
@glennoc85855 ай бұрын
As I've matured interactions and experiences have got me to a place where i know that most people endure some level of suffering psychologically or physiologically or both. This life adventure is so random even with the best laid plans.
@john985384 ай бұрын
Two legends, this was probably the best KZbin interview I've seen. My respect for both riders have increased by multiple. Thanks guys genuinely
@amc59665 ай бұрын
One of the most sincere conversations between two men with similar paths I've ever listened to. Incredibly powerful.
@adriancaldwell5 ай бұрын
They’re still cheats
@jacquesdemolay51715 ай бұрын
Fifteen years ago or so, I never could've imagined a sit-down or a conversation like this between these two. What a wild ride it's been-and they've taken us along with them. The journey continues.
@artistnigelspencerandrew51475 ай бұрын
On that Sunday afternoon in 2012...My 6 year old had been struggling on stabilisers...He watched Bradley win that Tour and demanded I remove them...That evening he rode a bike unaided.....Bradley & Lance...A great interview
@massimocaradonna38575 ай бұрын
Wow deep. Lance I'm impressed at your level of what seems genuine concern. Hope he comes out on top of this like the true champ he is. And maybe a spot on the wedu team
@simonwillett20185 ай бұрын
Two great people having a great talk, got alot from it thankyou. Keep on keeping on
@adriansmith54465 ай бұрын
I grew up thinking we(UK) would never win the tour. Then 2012 happened. I was lucky enough to be roadside at a few stages and, of course, made the journey to Paris for that very, very special day. I've got loads of memories from that day but when Wiggo mentioned the parade lap, with his lad on the little yellow bike, it made me smile now as it did when I watched them that day. Thanks for the memories, champ!
@nelsonhibbert52675 ай бұрын
"We" didn't. He did.
@femimacaulay45475 ай бұрын
I found myself listening intently to this conversation and was completely riveted. Lance, you spoke like a down to earth human being which in turn allowed Bradley to open up. Anyone will feel a real connection to both of you. The topics you touched on, particularly the impact of trauma and importance of getting help is vital. Coming from both of you who have reached such dizzying heights and gone through periods of deep despair it is even more impactful. Good job and thank you.
@BLatorre5 ай бұрын
This Pod was unexpectedly amazing! Wow, thank you for doing this LA, I have a new found respect for not just Sir Bradley Wiggins but the sport in general. ✊🏼
@alistairmacfadyen93655 ай бұрын
Bradley, I just wish I could give you a hug mate, I am a former veteran, have many of the issues that you have gone through, your a great man, and all these bad things that have happened to you as well as me, makes you stronger and a better human being. Love your family and respect your friend and children. This has been a great video, thank you Lance and Bradley
@tarahcole77845 ай бұрын
Seeing Lance show a more personal side of himself is really nice. No one likes to dwell in the past but learning his past struggles makes him more relatable and interesting. And yes, make Wiggins permanent for the Tour! He's well loved and it'll put him in the right direction for a path forward.
@fryuppe5 ай бұрын
Bravo, Lance and Bradley: an extraordinary encounter and episode. British stoicism meets American full disclosure therapy culture. I am not sure if that is such a comfortable fit: however, thank you so much for this riveting and illuminating coda to Sir Bradley's wonderful residency on THEMOVE Podcast.
@benedictearlson90445 ай бұрын
Good observation, yeah you can't be sure the same therapy which is working for Armstrong would work for Wiggins but certainly he's right, we don't really have the skills to deal with trauma alone, that's why trauma exists. It was a bit odd in that Bradley starts by saying he's 'better' and in a good place and Lance basically says, no you're not fixed you need help. Both may be true, you can get by being stoic but maybe you're never really content with issues always below the surface.
@joeld23435 ай бұрын
These two men have truly grown up. Lance inspired me back in the day for which I am eternally grateful.
@olljum5 ай бұрын
I’ve seen hundreds of videos of Lance - never seen him like in this video with Sir Wiggo.
@scottfast035 ай бұрын
Totally agree.
@glennoc85855 ай бұрын
Haha... he's being on his best behaviour as Brad looks like he'd taje his arms off. Only joking they've hit it off.
@daveansell24185 ай бұрын
Same he is human!
@tarahcole77845 ай бұрын
This is the best version of Lance!
@scottfast035 ай бұрын
@@tarahcole7784 I’ll second that!!
@Boldnessworx5 ай бұрын
One of the best videos I've watched in a long time, just letting it all out
@mruizsr5 ай бұрын
Wow! What an interview! Thank you so much for being transparent. It's not easy by any means. You're amazing, Sir Wiggins!
@sarahdisco-dolly11505 ай бұрын
Lance I have been a critic of you, but thanks for this, Brad gave us so much joy in the UK, the Olympic TT was an amazing day and Brad was perfect. a day I will never forget.
@GregFredrickson5 ай бұрын
Lance you are a mentor simply by people knowing your mess and working through it. Where this conversation went was raw and eye opening, but how you have come along side these retired pros to help live better lives and heal from our past pain. I say we do this all to provide a better life for our kids. I’m a bigger fan now than 1999.
@stuartpelan71495 ай бұрын
Genuinely one of the best sports interviews I’ve ever seen. Love how it comes across how much Lance cares for Sir Bradley and love Sir Bradley’s honesty, well, both their honestly really. Sir Bradley is fascinating, I would love to see him on the team regularly. His cycling knowledge is incredible 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@leedorney5 ай бұрын
Very brave of Lance and Brad to put this out, such a personal aspect/s - much respect 🙏 - you gallant people 💪
@JonoGT05 ай бұрын
This whole thing with Wiggins and Armstrong has been so amazing to watch for the last few weeks. Props guys . Stay strong . Forever a fan of you both !!
@veloman595 ай бұрын
Absolutely loved this program - all of their challenges laid bare before us all - it takes courage to do this. I applaud Bradley and Lance.
@DudeEnglish4 ай бұрын
Lance was such a brilliant cyclist!!!! He and Laurent Fignon were my all time favourite cyclists!
@stanleyturrentine96735 ай бұрын
This took a lot of courage sir Bradley best wishes feel better!
@stiofan.oconchubhair5 ай бұрын
sir ? 😂
@philhorne32935 ай бұрын
One of the healthiest conversations I think I've every heard. Good to see this! A person that has faced trauma and controversy needs to figure out how to move forward. Needing help is typical. Hard to do solo especially for folks used to doing things on their own.
@johnnyhanel5 ай бұрын
wow. what a great conversation.
@jamesbancroft24185 ай бұрын
Chapeau! Sir Brad and Lance. Honest, real, caring conversation between two blokes, on topics that blokes don't often talk about. This is real. Well done.
@kalaish64245 ай бұрын
This podcast is an unexpected demonstration of the very best that humans can be. Honest, humble, vulnerable, open, empathetic and compassionate. What an inspiring conversation, Thank you 👏🙏
@dankochanek80565 ай бұрын
Me and my wife were at that tour in 2012. It was special. It was our honeymoon. Lance, thanks for this one. Sir Mr. Wiggins seems like a great person. This one was really good!!
@ericmackintosh59335 ай бұрын
What a beautiful conversation- thank you both for being vulnerable and open. It’s encouraging for the rest of us
@benoitvuillermoz50625 ай бұрын
Such a great and critical discussion about mental health and well being. So essential to show to as many people as possible. That’s what the world needs right now! Thank you for being open and vulnerable 🙏
@samfootie5 ай бұрын
This is a great conversation. Thanks to you both and all the people involved. I've had a TON of trauma, I'm 34, and a lot of this stuff resonates and helps.
@jacksimpson31895 ай бұрын
Very insightful and honest, best interview of Brad I've seen full stop. Please make him a permanent fixture Lance ❤👊🏻
@LordTanus15 ай бұрын
Best episode yet, Lance it is at his best talking to people and not about events.
@apmul18895 ай бұрын
Excellent interview by two high quality people.
@kiely45615 ай бұрын
I really like that Lance leaned in as a shoulder for wiggo during a tough time in his life, he understands more than most that when the proverbial shit hits the fan the people who reach out are the people worth having around.
@zrunner43115 ай бұрын
This interview will never be bettered. An unreal watch. Well done all concerned 👏🏽
@DontTestTheX5 ай бұрын
Wow. This really was something special. Intriguing, interesting and also very inspiring.
@puckloki8735 ай бұрын
I've been fucking waiting for this. I think many men (and people) can relate here. I suffer quietly with shame and hopelessness for reasons not to do with SA. But the patterns are so familiar. Thank you gents.
@harrybrooks035 ай бұрын
Oh, Brad. Like many Brits my age, I utterly adore you. I hope you can find joy and peace mate. Much love x
@tonydaniels4045 ай бұрын
Lance has grown old, wise and just a man. He wears this identity very well, it looks good on him. Brad, you remind me of my son, listen to Lance, you need to grow to resolve your inner conflicts, let Lance help, he really wants to. I hope you come out the other side one day, like Lance has, he’s more of a legend the guy he has become than he ever was in his cycling career.
@finkmj535 ай бұрын
Excellent job and thanks to Sir Bradley Wiggins for your openness!
@stuartprice96835 ай бұрын
That was such a great podcast, hope to see wiggo for the three weeks next year, two legends being honest and open . Thanks to both
@4StringStudio5 ай бұрын
Great week with Sir Wiggo! More please
@1xRacer5 ай бұрын
Wiggins will always be my hero, inspired me into cycling, which changed my life and partly saved it. I'll never forget 2012!
@DC-uf6ve5 ай бұрын
I felt the same, but him hanging out with people like this cheapens the memories for me.
@IHoMyPoАй бұрын
Finally got around to watching this. Lance, you and tbe group, which includes Sir Bradly, have a good thing going. Keep it UP, baby! Thanks much.
@Duell-850R5 ай бұрын
Another great discussion. Love the genuine honesty. Thanks Lance and Bradley. I wish you all the best. Life isn't easy, we all have our path to walk in life.
@mattpujol47875 ай бұрын
Great job on The Move and thank you two so much for this interview. It is was moving to hear Lance share his therapy experiences...not just moving, it was powerful. I sincerely hope Sir Bradley finds his safe space to work on stuff. He's a good guy and deserves clarity and some peace. I, on the other hand, will be checking my mental health benefit on Monday.
@rjgriffiths15 ай бұрын
You guys are good for each other. Have loved listening in to this years banter. Roll on next year ❤
@seancary45675 ай бұрын
This conversation is absolutely brilliant. Thank you for being so raw and open. Two champions who have faced more than most in life and have achieved more than most telling their stories openly. Inspiring
@Marlin11045 ай бұрын
Thanks Lance. The podcast touched me as well as thousands others I’m sure. I’m proud that your jersey is hanging on my wall. I hope to shake your hand one day.
@andykramer47075 ай бұрын
Outstanding interview. I appreciate the personal candor from both of you. It is inspiring.
@kevinosborne80715 ай бұрын
That was a very humbling episode, I hope Brad gets the help he needs and deserves. Lance, says a lot for someone like Brad to openly speak out to with all that’s been going on. Chapeau
@45madone5 ай бұрын
Humbling watching 2 hero's of mine being so open and honest
@drewrestrepo5 ай бұрын
two true humans that have gone through some real stuff
@bestg555555 ай бұрын
Always forward, never straight, love this conversation, worth watching and not just listening!
@ScottRSmith19645 ай бұрын
this was absolutely awesome! Thank you Lance and Sir Wiggins!
@greggm2064 ай бұрын
man this was a great interview. So glad Wiggo stopped by Aspen for Tour coverage and also sharing this story. Dude is a fighter, and a winner - and will come out stronger.
@robertpaul65765 ай бұрын
Sir Bradley Wiggins. Total legend and a great human being. Thanks for inviting him over and conducting this honest and heartfelt interview. Myself and thousands of others wish him all the best.
@brynsreynoldsful4 ай бұрын
Thank you for looking out for Brad; he deserves it.
@petecampbell86975 ай бұрын
This is some powerful stuff. As someone who has been battling his demons over the past few years I can honestly say this conversation has helped me figure some things out myself. Had the fortune to meet Sir Brad a day or two prior to London 2012 with my kids when the team were on a recon ride. Still have the autographed flag and my kids have a lifelong memory. Nothing but admiration for this guy and kudos for being so open. Wishing him better fortune going forward 👊
@DJModsChannel17 күн бұрын
this. was. awesome. Wiggins the man is raw and brilliant! Good luck buddy on your new journey!
@slingy815 ай бұрын
Superb conversation, beautiful seeing the mature and compassionate side of Lance, reaching into Wiggo/Jan and im sure others, with some of the balm he has doubtless needed for the pain, regret, inner turmoil and suffering he has experienced himself.
@Charzay5 ай бұрын
Thanks Lance for showing a caring and welcoming approach to this conversation, and Bradley, thanks for such honest comments about your life and for becoming a great man regardless of sometimes difficult life circumstances. Thanks Lance and Bradley for a great chat!
@robhardy84045 ай бұрын
Brilliant. Two of my hero's chatting openly and candidly. Absolutely love it. Strong men in so many ways ❤
@martharosesatx5 ай бұрын
Two grown men, talking about massive personal issues and being examples to other men who may be struggling, that you can talk to someone and you won't be shamed for it. If Bradley is wondering what his place in life is, it's exactly this. To be a leader amongst men, you're saving lives just by doing exactly this. You were an inspiration me on the bike, and you continue to be an inspiration to me even in retirement.
@EITiga5 ай бұрын
These two are battling for the last podium in 2009 TdF. Amazed this both champs 👏
@robertoozbusi34275 ай бұрын
Well done to Lance and Sir. Brad! Awesome pod to listen to and watch. So much admiration for their leadership in doing what they do!
@BenLeMasurier-t3q5 ай бұрын
Good interview. Well done Lance on reaching out to a fellow cyclist, competitor and friend. A very genuine interview. Hope Brad gets better and can learn to manage his difficult childhood.
@Benn3215 ай бұрын
Wow - what a video. Say what you want about Lance, but he has his friends’ backs. We love you Sir Brad. Be strong.
@dariogiancristofano33715 ай бұрын
Total legends. Big thanks for this podcast guys
@jamiesomers35645 ай бұрын
Absolute class this is, they sort of interview each other - epic compelling stuff
@gobi1984bw5 ай бұрын
I love to see, how these Champions not only have fighted against each other in competition, they also help each other in life. Big thanks Lance, what you have done to Jan! And it is als great to see, how you help Wiggo! It is always the best way to attack and not to defend, when it is difficult in life.
@NathanForrest-f7j5 ай бұрын
Man, this shit almost brings a tear to the eye... amazing show!
@srtsniper755 ай бұрын
Epic. Thank you both for an awesome conversation.
@Steve-ko3st5 ай бұрын
Great interview/chat, very intriguing, could listen for hours.
@leeberry63094 ай бұрын
There is something about Bradley Wiggins that has ordinary people like me just wishing him good things. Just a ordinary lad that achieved extraordinary things. You can feel the respect and admiration between them both.
@larrytanzo47615 ай бұрын
I wish Bradley the best with his way out. Very lucky to have Lance to share his story and give advice about the road to getting back. Great show.
@skimckay5 ай бұрын
Chapeau to you both. That was a fantastic interview. Very brave of you. It's ok to talk. Commendable. Watched it all in my Discovery jersey with the classic yellow band! - Keep it coming lads. Lance, I was blown away with your Alpe d'huez ascent with Basso, Bradley, I watched you get the Gold in London, 2012.
@TheSkullMan665 күн бұрын
Fantastic discussion, Thank you both!
@DudeEnglish4 ай бұрын
Wiggo was such a talent!!! I love the guy!!!! Amazing on the track and fantastic on the road!!! Legend!!!!
@mykweb5 ай бұрын
Absolutely amazing. Brad is such a good genuine guy. Could listen to his stories all day. Lance is also a brilliant host and he has definitely evolved over the years.
@chrisvanbuggenum8714 ай бұрын
Listened to the whole thing in one sitting. What a conversation.
@robinwilliams47745 ай бұрын
Great Podcast and well done Lance for looking out for a mate! It’s important to share these things and though you are both legends of the sport, Lance has been through the hard path and come out on the other side to become the caring person you are today. It’s important for you to show Sir Brad the path for him and support him on his journey. Good luck chaps!!!
@TheGinger15 ай бұрын
Great to see Brad looking healthy and ready to move into the next chapter of his life. As someone who had the pleasure of riding with him, I'm so glad to see him making those steps forward. One quick note for Lance: It's great to see you sitting down and having this kind of open and honest interview with people. To make it even better, try and ask or bring up one point at a time and let the person talk about it. At one point you were talking for 4 mins covering 3 or 4 different points from Brad's life without letting him comment about them. The Move is all about Lance (as it should be), the Forward needs to be about the person being interviewed. Keep up the great work. And bring Brad back for the whole tour next year! Brad could have his own sub-podcast talking about the history of the climbs and riders for each of the stages.
@BeatPoet675 ай бұрын
This is an insanely good conversation. Bravo to you both.
@paulmeakin245 ай бұрын
This was brilliant.... Human to human... Superb
@conorhanley90095 ай бұрын
Fantastic , all the ppl involved in this interview RESPECT ✊ 2 legends imo , love the show
@leighmullin715 ай бұрын
Bradley sounds like a fantastic father of which he should be very proud
@crobertbrooke53215 ай бұрын
Enjoyed every word ! A tremendous amount of respect for both of You..
@harleywainie5 ай бұрын
Great podcast guys, both of you are hero’s of mine. Great to see you gents helping others. Kind Regards Matt from Derbyshire England.
@robbojnr275 ай бұрын
no one cares where you are from
@sazridesbikes5 ай бұрын
This. All of this. Thank you both.
@londonpickering86755 ай бұрын
That was a fantastic interview. I hope Bradley returns for the full tour next year and finds his way to the Insight place in Tennessee.