SITUATIONSHIPS | WHY IS IT A BIG NO & HOW TO GET OVER THEM

Summer is around the corner and so are situationships! In this video I go over what is a situationship, all the reasons why in my opinion you should stay away from them and how to get over a situationship if you are currently in one. If you enjoy the video don't forget to like and subscribe! xoxo
Chapters:
0:00 Intro
0:30 What is a situationship
1:36 Why you should stay away from situationships
1:50 Problem 1
4:08 Problem 2
6:02 Problem 3
7:20 How to get over a situationship
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[@Pudge71]

Ladies & Gentlemen.... our Queen Zafeiria 👏👏👏👏 All these toxic habits and normalisations need to be demolished

[@zafeiriapapachristou]

@@Pudge71 awww thank you so much for this lovely comment darling 🤎💫

[@AlejandraElisabet]

my take for this as someone non-monogamous is do what works until it doesn’t. not everyone does get attached and i know this because multiple friends have clean slates casual relationships because everything that was and wasn’t okay was communicated, myself included. i know not everyone is methodical but when you engage in something that isn’t for the long term that is how you’d navigate it and how all of us have. in long term relationships we’re all different in how we navigate it. just wanted to share my take! have a great day/afternoon/evening!

[@alexoke95]

Amazing points! It would be great to have a video going over dating timelines/expectations to avoid falling into a situationship!

[@zafeiriapapachristou]

@@alexoke95 thank you for the lovely feedback! Noted the video request ❤️🙏

[@Juliana-rp3uc]

Women from my generation, especially from my country, Brazil, need references like you. Great video as always. 👏🏻

[@zafeiriapapachristou]

@@Juliana-rp3uc thank you so so much for the support and the kind words❤️it means a lot 🙏

[@alexandrachartrand4056]

Chère Zafeiria, merci beaucoup pour cette vidéo… J’adore ta façon de présenter les choses. Il est si important que chaque femme se respecte!

[@zafeiriapapachristou]

@@alexandrachartrand4056 merci á toi ma belle🌹

[@rinagketi6689]

I would love it if you talked about financial stuff ... investments and job opportunities. Also from insta i know your style which is so elegant but yet your personal style(it has character). I would love it if you did also a video for what materials to wear,how to put them together and a video tutorial for your iconic low bun you wear always and what do you use on your hair ❤️❤❤ As for this video i agree with you 😅 and i cant understand situationship ...its like fake and toxic friendships...USELESS😊 I mean this life is so small to even think about being in this kind of relationship 😂 ❤❤❤

[@nikialvanou7364]

So to the point, inspired by you!

[@zafeiriapapachristou]

@@nikialvanou7364 thank you so much 🙏❤️

[@yuliiashcherba7747]

Thank you!!!!

[@zafeiriapapachristou]

@@yuliiashcherba7747 you are very welcome darling ❤️

[@jessicahitchens6926]

I agree entirely. It's a disgrace and so disrespectful to women.

[@ikechukwumarvelous8768]

❤

[@zafeiriapapachristou]

@@ikechukwumarvelous8768 thank you for your comment !!!❤️

[@_xBrokenxDreamsx_]

a situationship is just the female version of the friend zone. for men the friend zone is when the guy gives a woman all the social and emotional aspects of a relationship while she never has to be physically intimate with him. a situationship is when a woman gives a man physical intimacy without him ever having to give her the social and emotional aspects of the relationship. women create situationships because they'd rather sleep with a man who's out of their league than be in a committed relationship with a guy that's on her level. if women will never commit to men then men will stop committing to women. if men have no legal recourse over relationships or reproduction then men aren't going to put themselves in a position where women have legal power over them. (basically women would have to give up legal feticide and no-fault divorce if they want their traditional roles back) if women aren't going to commit to a relationship with and/or to having children with the man they're sleeping with then those men aren't going to commit to them. don't treat family and relationships like a joke and then wonder why no one's laughing.

[@daisybudikova]

Hey, I would love to collaborate with you ! Please let me know ! Love your videos

[@jkszoom]

It could be ok if all parties has strong boundaries. But it's very hard to do. Definitely not for younger generation. I've tried it and it's not for me.

[@zafeiriapapachristou]

@@jkszoom i think even if you have strong boundaries the amount of time and the physical proximity with the person inevitably leads to attachment. But even if it doesn’t I think it is better to be single and invest all that time and energy to yourself rather than a situationship that doesn’t really add much value. But that’s just my opinion🙏Thank you so much for your respectful comment and sharing your perspective ✨🙏

[@ketokou]

Scare***city.

[@DigitalSamTV]

It depends. Sometimes this situationship is a good idea if u aren't really into the person and in an interim situation before u find the real right person . As long as u both know and agree on this it's fine

[@zafeiriapapachristou]

@@DigitalSamTV thank you for your comment 🙏I respectfully have to disagree as I believe that it is better to be single and protect your time and energy rather than be in a situationship but I definitely understand your point of view 🙏

[@DigitalSamTV]

@@zafeiriapapachristou fair enough. I think both can be good, not just a situationship for the sake of it. Single is also good. Situationship can be good if u both are on the same wave length, enjoy the time but def know u are not ideal long term partners or match / or u even don't get on well but enjoy the physical side of it. Of course a proper long term relationship is way better but I don't see any harm in the temporary thing while ur still looking

[@jessicahitchens6926]

For a boy/man yes its fantastic. For a woman no way!! Lose situation..

[@DigitalSamTV]

@@jessicahitchens6926 lol. What ? It's exactly the same for man or woman

[@p4ry4h]

coming from xp- if you aren’t that into them, you should either get to know them better or let them go. no sex involved bc it will make things complicated. sex is important, but you should allow yourself to show up 100% and be courted how you would like, while also giving the man a chance to be his best self, too, instead of getting that instant reward.