Answering YOUR Dating Questions! | Smosh Mouth 33

[@rakeitupgoddy]

hearing shayne talk about dating coworkers is insane foreshadowing

[@aschinbone]

And when they talked about dating someone you are friends with, man was probably just avoiding land mines everywhere

[@TheMstwntdLMSV123]

Shayne saying "Yiff Master 29" with a straight face was downright impressive

[@SparklingGlitterCookie]

I don’t think he knew what it meant 😂

[@zp5016]

impressive 😎

[@andrewg9978]

I came here to say I don't think they know what yiff means ...

[@rhettmitchell]

I don’t think any of them got it lmao I almost choked 💀

[@hellogiygas]

I was waiting for Tommy to point it out but I don't even think he got it!!!! 😭

[@ABBY.IS.UNSTOPPABLE]

shayne : "i dont fart. not really" shayne on the other episode : *plays fart from voice memos*

[@bumblebree705]

It was one of his rare moments, I’m sure he had to capture the moment.

[@perfessorclown5543]

@@bumblebree705it was like his Fart of the Covenant

[@chrisxxc648]

He was just having a dumpster wizard moment 😂 I don't fart

[@crodudebro]

He doesn't fart in the date

[@ABBY.IS.UNSTOPPABLE]

@@crodudebro thanks❤️

[@cateyoung5705]

Shayne talking about albums is like a dad trying to understand his teenage daughters favorite music

[@sweetlows1]

I listened to a Taylor Swift the other day, she seems pretty neat.

[@coolbrotherf127]

I listen to a lot of random foreign indie bands and so I'm often very out of the loop when it comes to popular songs and artists. Sometimes I'll just look at the billboard hot 100 charts to give myself an idea of what's popular these days.

[@tonyhokenson]

@@coolbrotherf127 bro same, sometimes I think I'm upto date with new aritsits because I listen to King Gizzard & the Lizard Wizard, but then I look at who's popular and I don't know anything. I'm like I swear i listen to never music how do i still not know what's popular?

[@highdefinition450]

literally what amanda said lol

[@lunsettabee]

she a baddie she showing her panty

[@studentfilmed]

hearing that shayne doesn’t fart in front of his partner hits a little different now knowing that his partner is constantly burping in peoples faces

[@catscratchqueen]

right? lmao

[@itsannaluh5362]

hahhahahahhahwhwhahqhw OMG

[@wlawnsldj]

Hah he described her as Burpy. Props to those who know that video 😂

[@turntapeover5749]

Burps don't smell like shit.

[@secret.strawberry7]

⁠@@turntapeover5749 idk some peoples do 😂

[@Heyheyhaleyd]

Amanda and Noah have the same birthday. Not only that, but one of Amanda’s sister and Noah’s brothers are all born on Valentines Day. That’s 5 people born on the same day.

[@noelleirina5628]

it's really not uncommon for people to be born on the same day. people just make it into a more special thing than it is

[@Heyheyhaleyd]

@@noelleirina5628 Yes I know multiple people are born the same day, which isn’t crazy. What’s crazy to me is that Noah has 2 brothers who are all born on the same day. And Amanda and her sister are born on the same day. Having siblings born on the same day is more rare to me. Idk why you have to be a Debbie downer though.

[@itzgigiye7347]

@@Heyheyhaleydalso the fact that these 2 people who have this crazy coincidence also WORK together when Amanda is originally from Boston

[@notfound9809]

​@@Heyheyhaleyd i was thinking the same thing!!

[@iwasboredwoo]

ITS SUCH AN ANOMALY

[@mel_issa__]

Shayne really is a master at not revealing anything personal. Never telling us if he is dating someone or sharing any anecdotes.

[@shelbys8870]

Considering there are some weird people out curating literal timelines for proof of something, I dont blame him lmao

[@Scrofar]

Shayne's psychological warfare 101

[@manahil8746]

Nargh i think remember one ep where he mentioned a partner on the Reddit story eps

[@shelbys8870]

@@manahil8746 I’ve watched those incessantly over and over and the only thing he’s mentioned is that he once had a partner cheat on him. Everything else is usually a hypothetical for the guests or a hypothetical on what he would do if he was in a relationship like those depending on the reddit stories- regardless if he’s dating someone or not

[@VividiVavidi_V]

I really admire that about him.

[@littleshadow7706]

"i wonder what its like in the lesbian community" ITS HARD AMANDA ITS REALLY REALLY HARD

[@ellieraccoon]

Literally like this: "Uh hey I like your hair...its really pretty." "Thank you." And they think that's flirting and they never see each other again.

[@littleshadow7706]

@ellieraccoon so very true. For me, it's trying to flirt, but I'm just coming across as someone trying to be friends, and its goes no where

[@thespankmyfrank]

​@@ellieraccoon Stoppppp 💀😂

[@Mariethechaotic]

Sammmme. Lesbians in the comments unite.

[@archercaro]

TOOOO REAL

[@Bingo-Bungo]

As an aromantic person, I was honestly expecting this to just be some background noise, but I kept finding myself actaully engaged with the conversation. A lot of this advice is so applicable to just having friends/platonic relationships and it's really nice to not feel so left out of the conversation for once!

[@kayceeshonk]

yes i feel the exact same way! especially when they were talking about social anxiety

[@theverdantfern]

As a fellow aromantic person, same! ✌️

[@levischorpioen]

Romantic relationships are just platonic ones with people you want to fuck, is the way I see it.

[@Rainbowkitten0]

I agree // aroace 🍰

[@tree_limbs]

I was feeling the same!

[@t-r3y]

We always talk about how Amanda is very mom vibes but when Shane was talking about listening to albums he was REALLY giving "your dad just got Spotify" vibes

[@emilylw]

amanda discussing red roses is making me realize that she would KILL as the queen of hearts

[@jorgec98]

Both literally and figuratively!

[@Jiddy12345]

Courtney for White Queen

[@rhettmitchell]

Holy shit yesssssssss Mother would mother so hard

[@thelastmoogle4659]

Shayne for MAD Hatter, Angela for March Hare

[@Jiddy12345]

@@thelastmoogle4659 Damien Cheshire Cat

[@jacob47329]

podcast number 2 of asking shayne to make a spotify playlist with his favorite songs from his “music journey”

[@lucyinchat]

One song from each Album

[@bumblebree705]

Shayne, share the love bestie

[@leahhhhlynnn]

we NEED this

[@juliaaz711]

Before smosh, i knew of no one born on Valentines Day but now its Amanda, her sister and Noah and his 2 other brothers. Like damn

[@user-kr1tq5yp4t]

I was thinking the same thing. how is it not an inside joke or something 😭😭😭

[@thechosenpit]

My niece was born on Valentine's Day!! very cool

[@Psithyrus1]

My best friend!

[@topatsyn_]

ikr I thought my friend was unique for being born on valentine

[@Jellybeansatdusk]

And me lol, not that you know me

[@rileyogden]

on one of the earlier episodes of the podcast (or maybe it was reddit stories, can’t remember which one, i think angela may have been the guest) but shayne said something that stuck with me. he said (along the lines of) that in your early 20s you are too young to be putting up with the shit that you often find yourself putting up with in relationships. i just wanted to say that it really stuck with me and made me realize that my 4 year relationship was toxic, and that at 21 i shouldn’t be living this way. so i just wanted to say thank you to shayne for saying that and helping me think about my self worth in relationships and get out for the better. it’s been 2 months and i’m already so much happier

[@bunnyellabell]

that's so good for you! i wish you the best 🤍

[@thespankmyfrank]

I'm sure he would be so happy to hear that his words took hold in you and made you realise you were in a bad situation. I would assume that is why he has said it several times, because he knows people out there listen. I don't know you but I'm proud of you!

[@ttintagel]

SUCH good advice. I see so many young people putting up with stuff that makes them absolutely miserable,

[@konstantinm.9860]

I had a similar situation. I was with my partner for 6 years, started when I was 23, but had to end it a week before New Year's after getting physically and emotionally abused. While the first few weeks were really hard and felt like addiction withdrawal, it's already been two months. Thanks to good support, I feel much better now and have been working on myself. Getting into dating again after so long won't be easy, but I'm somewhat optimistic. Whatever the case, it's much better than staying in a toxic relationship that was stuck and not going nowhere for a while.

[@kamoroso94]

That's crazy, a Smosh video literally changed the course of your life.

[@anachronismic]

Shayne going from Mitski to ice spice is sending me

[@scarletkittyeyes]

I have the same music taste and it's giving sad bi. i just love it so much 😂

[@friendlyneigborhoodbean]

Right?? Olivia Rodrigo to Mitski? Makes sense. Olivia to Ice Spice? Sure. Mitski to Ice Spice? Insane jump

[@GingerBreadSed]

That’s literally my little brother’s music taste lmaoo

[@m00nrac00n]

I picture Shayne doing squats to "shaking ass in a Deli".

[@witcherye]

I'm guessing he would like Tyler the Creator

[@maryboyett]

as shayne gets buffer he also gets more babygirl

[@nikilaj]

no but like fr

[@hbelleasmr]

19:38 “your joy is what people are attracted to” might have actually changed my life. I’m autistic and a HUGE people pleaser and I feel guilty for feeling joy very often because I’m always adjusting my behavior to what I think will make that person comfortable, and I haven’t found anything that has made me feel okay about unapologetically being myself but that little nugget has sort of altered my perspective. this is also one reason that I admire amanda so much, because there’s a lot I relate to her on but I lack her unapologetic confidence and that’s something I have always wanted to feel, and watching her as an example makes that version of me feel attainable. this podcast has actually been extremely therapeutic and made me believe in following joy again, and shayne has also played a big part in that as well as all the guests. basically thank you for doing this podcast exactly the way you do it 🥺

[@nicholewarren4229]

Ngl this advice is INCREDIBLE advice specifically for neurodivergent ppl--my husband has explicitly said he loves and appreciates the weird ways my brain works and my impulsivity, in part because I'm so comfortable following that joy.

[@ashleywoodie9386]

As a fellow autistic person, the moment I truly let myself be me, I met the love of my life. Not only that, I started to make friendships that actually lasted. Id always had an issue with letting friends fall off after a year or so. I never realized how much work it truly was to change myself to fit the people around me. It was so strange to not have to analyze my feelings constantly to keep them under control. Five years in and 3 months away from a wedding, the best advice I could ever give someone is to do your best to just be you. It may not change your life as quickly as it did mine, but it absolutely will change it.

[@eeyorebenji2836]

It’s a very stereotypical answer but genuinely just be true to yourself and love yourself and the right people will love you for it The ones who get upset or annoyed at your happiness are not people you want to be around

[@austinthesan-antonian3932]

*autistic digital hug*

[@weirdaubrey]

Amanda’s hair clip is ON POINT with the Smosh Mouth colours

[@helenazweig377]

And also her earrings. She is always on point!

[@austinthesan-antonian3932]

it IS! makes the viewing experience just that incy wincy bit nicer. I like it

[@Mayfired]

I was literally SCREAMING when I saw Keith in that Super Bowl commercial!

[@Crashlikag6]

SAME

[@Droid6689]

🤨

[@rosiethebarber8821]

Omg I was lie that’s Keith!!! Keith Leak Jr!!!

[@der.Schtefan]

OMG! Yes! He was amazingly funny! :) Now imagine how amazing it would have been if TREVOR 😍😍😍😍 would have been in it ❤️💕💖

[@mbfv6773]

HE BOOKED!!!

[@gen3r4lmills51]

38:23 Tommy saying “find a…second museum” was exactly when I took a drink of soda and almost spat it all out😭😂

[@marleec9431]

The silence after “I wonder how it is for lesbians” was so funny to me

[@violetjade64]

SHAYNE I LOVE YOUR MUSIC JOURNEY I SUPPORT YOU 😭

[@violetjade64]

the lack of reaction to "yiffmaster" LMAO

[@violetjade64]

56:07 SOOOO TRUE TOMMY HFKDJDGKKD

[@thespankmyfrank]

I neeeeeed a dedicated video of him reviewing music! It could be any music, I'd watch.

[@studentfilmed]

36:30 okay this is a crazy chat post April 1st 2024

[@mr_wolcott9865]

for the question about how to talk to a male friend who’s exhibiting toxic behavior in their dating life: open, honest and direct communication. if you don’t believe their toxicity is the whole of who they are, TELL THEM THAT. Ask them questions, be curious and tell them that you don’t believe that’s the image they want to put out into the world. if he gets angry and more toxic, that’s *his choice*. you can’t control how people respond to you, you can only control what you say to people. if you really care about that friend and don’t think the toxicity is something you believe to be true about him, say that and ask if he’s doing that for any particular reasons. literally just communicate with people

[@joshwilner5622]

Good advice don't feel like they addressed the particulars of the questions very well so it was nice to see this

[@thatonespoon_]

and try talking to them without their bros around, if there's a couple of them that feed off each other try a one on one convo or a convo with less bro-y friends

[@ranger1039]

This is excellent advice. You should be a therapist.

[@eeyorebenji2836]

Something I’ve personally experienced through my own life as well is that sometimes, if someone’s not growing and won’t change their toxic views and emotional responses to situations, you have to let them grow and change themselves if they ever do I’ve went through it myself And unfortunately I’ve had the “displeasure” of talking to a close friend of mine about his toxic and generally negative worldviews on people and concepts and he just wouldn’t budge I won’t get too much into his views but I did have to sit down and talk to him about how he refers to people and how he generally just belittles people for things they can’t control and he just didn’t really seem to care that it was harmful not just to other people but himself

[@CaptainKitchener]

Amanda and Shayne are the best Podcast hosts

[@MaybeItsGas]

I'm not a podcast person, but when I say I've never missed an episode of smosh mouth. I love this show

[@pardonmy_existence]

Same goes for smosh cast for me...i religiously watched every smosh cats episode...pandermic was tough to keep up with smosh content for me but i tries watching smosh cast episoded every week

[@BenSwagnerd]

The "take the risk" advice for being into your friend paid off for me in a big way. I took the risk with my best friend a while ago. We've been married 2.5 years now. He's also still my best friend.

[@francesgarcia33]

@BenSwagnerd Agreed! My husband and I have been together for 5 years and married for 1 year. I'm so glad we took the risk. And our mutual friends are to this day so happy for us!

[@m00nrac00n]

Didnt work out for me, lost a friend over it. 💀The delusion was not the solution; looking back he was clearly straight, but you get blindsided.

[@mollyp1195]

just had to revisit this today

[@EmilyStuart-Jones]

35:40 A dangerous game indeed Shane… months, a year, YEARS!!??

[@farrellanne90]

After seeing Keith’s Super Bowl commercial my first thought was “HE BOOKED!!” I know I’m not the only one. Lol

[@elizabethanne4400]

If I was on a date with a guy and they were honest and said they were a bit nervous or anxious I would be so relieved. It makes me feel better knowing it’s not just me.

[@joshwilner5622]

Glad to hear that, I hear so many horror stories about guys being vulnerable with dates/partners and then immediately getting rejected/broken up with

[@oliviahaland138]

SHAYNE IS SO CUTE😭OLIVIA RODRIGO, MITSKI AND ICE SPICEEE😭😭😭😭

[@itsgillian8402]

“That’s cute.” I dunno why but I loved the way shayne said that 😂😂

[@voichi7128]

+

[@soconfused3616]

Whennn

[@bluem0n0chrom3]

looks like he really did high stakes in both dating a friend and coworker. 💀

[@sinistrdairy2971]

Simple.. just marry your coworker 36:00

[@gmork1090]

The problem with most relationships that fail is that they were never friends first. You get to know someone for who they truly are and know if you can be comfortable being around them during both the highs and the lows. Don't let the person you love get to know the real you after you're together.

[@jaimelowe4246]

“Someone” gave Courtney a box of black roses

[@asabovesobelow9213]

I thought it was a fan?

[@samstarba4569]

A cool fact: In my home country (and in many other countries as well), Valentines Day is actually called "Friend's Day" and the idea is that you can celebrate romance and/or friendship. :)

[@michelamonaco5997]

"loving yourself is having a love life" is one of the sweetest things i've ever heard, i never thought about it like that...made me cry a little 🥺❤️

[@dulguunlkhagvadorj8255]

I'm searching for clues everywhere now

[@JUSTGOWITHTHEOREO]

i was listening like a HAWK after the “getting over ur coworker” question

[@lovehorseback]

in the beginning 3:35, when Amanda said "red roses are cheesy", Shayne mouthing "oh ok" hit differently now. Like it's weird but I love seeing these in a new light but I respect the feeling of stuff after that week.

[@itsannaluh5362]

Me too!!! I’m sniffing everywhere to see if I can find crumbs

[@samstarba4569]

​​@@lovehorsebackIt reminds me of a Show With No Name episode where Shayne talks about how he likes receiving flowers, and Courtney gets really excited about that. (And then there's Keith who's looking at them with 🤨 face)

[@lovehorseback]

@@samstarba4569 I remember that! Keith was looking at them funny and they were nonchalant about it 😝 Now they get to give flowers all the time so long as Bones and Birdie don’t get them lol

[@NiksKoko]

My therapist says that it's great to go out with friends and do hobbies that I would enjoy. Because it also builds the confidence within myself too.

[@higgisal4351]

What got me over my crush over a coworker was realising how absurd it was for someone else's presence to dictate how I feel at my workplace

[@oliviahaland138]

Amanda is such an amazing woman and she amazes me in so many ways. Smosh Mouth is really a comfort for me growing up and finding my place in the world.

[@deannascorner8112]

Wow what Shayne said about social anxiety and us all kind of having it now gave me chills.

[@maddiejoy6619]

I worked in a place where the normal "water cooler talk" was complaining incessantly about spouses / partners. They always tried to get me to say mean things about my husband and it made me feel super uncomfortable.

[@Scrofar]

"Loving yourself is a love life." Cue my brain exploding as I realize I don't respect myself enough and I need to change that

[@probablyavery]

also album recs for shayne? from mostly an alt/rock perspective? - a fever you can’t sweat out by panic at the disco - arrival by abba - black holes and revelations by muse - blink 182 self titled - everything you’ve come to expect by the last shadow puppets - fallen by evanescence - save rock and roll by fall out boy - the black parade by my chemical romance - the cure greatest hits - heaven or las vegas by cocteau twins - electra heart by marina - hesitant alien by gerard way - hot fuss by the killers - it won’t be soon before long by maroon 5 - never mind the bollocks by sex pistols - phantasmagoria by the damned - pure heroine by lorde - violent things by the brobecks - sempiternal by bring me the horizon - stomachaches by frnkiero - the queen is dead by the smiths - viva la vida by coldplay wow okay i got kinda carried away💀

[@svaclapp]

Imagining him jamming out to Electra Heart and the Brobecks kills me 😂 He would love them

[@probablyavery]

@@svaclapp gym bros: listening to an alpha male podcast | shayne: crying to lies by marina

[@karenflores325]

i would love to see shayne try to decipher cocteau twins lyrics 😭

[@stanleyhudson5684]

SEMPITERNEL!!!!

[@Alleyhellcat4Ever]

I got curious after Amanda said that her name meant "To be Loved" so I wanted to look up their names & see the different meanings of all 3. Amanda is a Latin feminine gerundive (i.e. verbal adjective) name meaning, literally, “she who must (or is fit to) be loved” Tommy's name is Greek meaning "Twin" & Shayne's is Irish & Hebrew meaning "God is Gracious"

[@gpeddino]

In Portuguese you can say "estou amando" which literally means "I'm loving".

[@Sleve-McDichael]

How can a name be Irish AND Hebrew?? 😂

[@Alleyhellcat4Ever]

@@Sleve-McDichael This is how Google states it 🤷‍♀️ "Meaning: God is gracious. Shayne is a gender-neutral name that has both Irish and Hebrew origins."

[@thespankmyfrank]

​​@@Sleve-McDichael Shayne/Shane is just a version of Sean. Sean is the Irish version of John. John is a biblical name. The names in the bible are mainly Hebrew. There you go. 😊

[@teehee.1862]

@@Sleve-McDichaelI feel like you’ll fall down from shock when you find out that the name Mina is Japanese, Korean, Persian, Arabic, among other origins

[@abbystayawake9634]

this trio is our little valentines week treat

[@eclecticme0940]

*RING RING* Hi, Smosh Mouth? You're my favorite podcast!!❤

[@cadrenadams9109]

Little does tommy know, but “howdy” IS technically a question. It’s an abbreviation of “how do you do?”

[@oberonion]

Man I've been waiting for more Tommy content. He's such a good foil for both of these two. Like. Idk how to explain but this trio is trio-ing

[@Jc2469.]

love having a queer correspondent (Queerespondent) on the pod about relationships. Helps me realize that the gay dating scene really is just that confusing for everyone involved lol

[@TarynRMartin]

Shayne being concerned about making anyone uncomfortable, when he’s basically a human golden retriever, is the most wholesome moment on the entire internet.

[@onceupona.ruby6754]

It wasn’t until 2 years ago (after my dad passed) that I found out my parents met at karaoke and a couple weeks ago after having old VHS tapes restored, one of their wedding tape, that I saw they did karaoke at their wedding reception. It melted my heart and was by far one of the sweetest things ❤

[@lisaspelarthesims]

This is my new favorite COMFORT pod, always makes me feel a lil better. Best duo + great guests!

[@catabat49654]

I’m happy Shayne and Amanda bringing up that sometimes people with toxic mindsets are a lost cause. I know the question about friends, but I feel femme people have such a huge pressure to “fix” their masc partner (the “I can fix him” trope is a trope for a reason). Both myself and friends of mine have stayed in relationships way longer than we should have because we believed if we juuuust put in more effort to get them to change they would. People can change, but only if they want to, and learning to recognize if someone is open to change or not is a life skill. Listen to you gut, it’s the best danger sensor you have

[@kelbimckinley8042]

Idk how much these groups overlap, but Shayne would be an EXCELLENT guest on Cinema Therapy. He's the perfect crossover of the internet dads 😂 relates everything to movies, and has a psychology background. Would love to see it, honestly

[@haylsuri]

Omg what a phenomenal idea

[@kelbimckinley8042]

@@haylsuri I don't care if they talk about a movie I've never seen before, I just would love to hear Shayne talk about movies with the internet dads

[@Bijou_BellBell]

Amanda and her husband’s relationship sounds so sweet 🥹

[@WinterPizza92]

I took a HUGE leap many years ago and asked a coworker to hang out. I just could not get over the crush and I decided to follow my gut. So happy I didn't let the fear win as we are now happily married for 3.5 years so far. Don't let your own fear stop you! It was totally unlike me to put myself out there like that, but it definitely paid off

[@icelily1761]

Their advice for the first question is so true, you have to make yourself go outside your comfort zone a little bit and focusing on not dating but friendships. When I started college, I told myself that I was going to put myself out there and make a friend. It was terrifying, as I also had bad social anxiety and none of my childhood friends had gone to the same college as me. So, as scary as that was, I forced myself to go to campus events, and I found the club where I met someone that shared the same interest as me. He introduced me to another of his friends, and we decided to get dinner every night together (different majors). Eventually the three of us became inseparable, still I didn't focus on dating but just enjoying myself. Eventually, after about a year and a half, that boy I met that became one of my first friends and best friend became my boyfriend. And 3 years ago we got married! And it all started because we both pushed ourselves out of our comfort zones and became friends first. You can do it too, if you want to find a romantic partner (or even a platonic life partner!) but you HAVE to make yourself take the chance and do something you find scary.

[@Raquel96]

I love these real conversations about just what its like being a young adult now, that we’re growing and learning, it’s just so great listening to this podcast and knowing you’re not alone in thinking these things and feeling certain ways

[@gpeddino]

I watched this and felt uplifted from my self-esteem issues. An hour later some friends invited me to a club, I accepted, put on a nice fit and met them there. I ended up kissing a hot guy who told me I’m handsome. Thanks for the confidence boost!

[@topatsyn_]

hey good for you!

[@Gladys10298]

Wow. The conversation about why are men telling other men what women like but not listening to the women actually telling them what it is was CRAAAZYYY SPOT ON even the convo about disrespect in relationships. I love listening to these while I’m high.🤣

[@emmaliehandley9090]

I wrote this in my vows to my husband, we found each other because we were unabashedly ourselves and weren’t afraid to be who we were. The cliche just be yourself and stop looking really is true. I had too many friends who would compromise on themselves just to be in a relationship. It’s much better to be yourself and love yourself and be single than create another person just to be in a relationship.

[@EmmaMaier-w8x]

40:56 “a worry I’ve always had i mean have” lol okay Shayne

[@rahjahknows]

Aww, Amanda and H's story is so wholesome, gives hope for everyone who's currently looking and in this life phase

[@firefly10241]

My dating advice would be to do the thing you were going to do anyway like go to a coffee shop, bowling, or the bar if you want to and just ask a person to go with you as a date. You would still be doing what you were going to do even if you get rejected. So if rejected, your not down about it or even changing your routine. You also seem more confident doing asking since it wouldn't be a big deal because you would be just having person you would like to get to know come along.

[@random_edis]

KEITH WAS ON A SUPERBOWL ADD THATS CRAZY IM SO HAPPY FOR HIM!!! YALL HAVE TO HAVE HIM ON HERE TO TALK ABT IT

[@ThePoisonLotus]

Amanda is physically unable to stop serving

[@kayceeshonk]

i’m not interested in a dating life right now at all but this still actually helped me with just a few general things in my life so thank u amanda and tomey and shayne

[@jodymaine4395]

Going back to Amanda saying find something that brings you joy, hobbies, and make yourself happy…. This reminds me of something my mom told me growing up and I live by it. You need to love yourself before you can truly love another person. And once you love yourself and stop searching, love will happen when you least expect it.

[@edenstanding8676]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO NOAH AND HIS BROTHERS!!! All born on valentines day years apart! Was hoping we would see him but I LOOOOVE Tomey Bones

[@Quirkyalonester]

I liked the rolling the ball analogy too, and just wanted to add that sometimes it feels like someone is pitching it rather than rolling it and sometimes it's like they are trying to hit you with it and then are surprised and offended when the other person doesn't catch it/throw it back.

[@Jess-s-hideout]

Shayne's reaction to Amanda saying roses are cheesy caught me off guard 🤣Don't worry king you can have as many roses as you want

[@ryanhunter2042]

My wife decided to do a study abroad semester while we were dating, and it was great for both her as an individual as well as us as a couple. The time apart was great for her own growth and proved that our relationship was more than just physical.

[@ChefSarah4104]

This was so fun to listen to. I met my husband online almost 15 years ago. We talked on the phone for a few weeks then finally met in person. I had a job interview in the afternoon so we met at a mall and walked around with dessert until I had to go. 13 years of marriage and 2 kids later we're still very much in love with each other.

[@HouseMDaddict]

Can I just say how much I love this podcast? Shayne and Amanda have the best chemistry with each other and every guest they have! I also love when Tommy is on!

[@AlliWomack]

"that's the danger of dating a coworker" Shayne, buddy, you cannot be talking 😂

[@IceArceus_]

Shayne, I'd get you some red roses for Valentine's Day 😌🌹 lmao

[@animefanatic33]

He said he liked black so he should get black roses

[@IceArceus_]

​@@animefanatic33I was referring to @6:23

[@jas_frances]

I totally agree with Amanda, going to the toilet with your sister/ friend is for sure a comfort thing, and it can be so fun and silly 🤭

[@Noughe]

Guys, I had a dream where Chance shouts "Is that Shayne?! The representative of the Gnome people?!"🗣🔥🔥 And Shayne walks out in a suit and a white beard with a gnome hat, and says “Hello, my fellow gnomes.” impersonating Barack Obama. I literally had a TNTL moment in my dreams, I think I’m going crazy.

[@T0lLET]

This is crazy 😭

[@Cbell14-]

Omg- that happened to me the other day and it was a tntl set😂 I’m glad it’s not just me (this channel and books I read like to meld together in my dreams and things get weird😂)

[@angelaoriel5912]

what the hell i love this 😭

[@erinmayc1]

22:48 an incredible fucking quote from Tommy. Perfect Analogy.

[@emmapatterson3513]

I just started watching Smosh videos within these past couple of weeks and I have fallen in love with you guys! I love being able to listen to your podcast while I work so thank you for the time and energy you put in to making these, i’m really enjoying them!

[@rahjahknows]

Wow the timing of this podcast! Been worrying alot about the state of everything since covid, hearing everyone talking about their experiences makes it much more easy to put yourself out there.

[@colleentrang8190]

Flirting is one of those things you'd need to have a discussion about, I think. So partners can know each other's boundaries since it can be subjective with what is considered flirting and what is okay or not okay. Also some people don't like it at all, while some people like to see that their partner is considered attractive and makes them feel lucky to be with them, etc.

[@Jojo_Spector48]

Im just imagining Shayne listening to I Bet on Losing Dogs by Mitski while bench pressing

[@rebeccaarnold4020]

Shayne forgetting we don’t know abt him and Courtney yet at 40:57 lol

[@cosplayannie]

I'm so here for Shayne growing out his hair again, pleaseeeeeeee

[@Kiriafycso]

as a fellow Valentine's day baby, I have the same experience as Amanda. Regardless of whether I'm single or in a long-term relationship, I always spend Valentine's day with the people I love ❤️

[@ImaginaryMdA]

Shayne's perspective is so grounded. I love this dude.

[@randomassname_]

Something about shayne listening to mitski,olivia and ice spice is so adorable

[@anice5005]

Shayne I suggest you checking out the 500 best albums list on Rolling Stones. It is great to just listen through albums that made history, especially if you are not a music person with a specific preference in genre.

[@introvertadventures3872]

This might be TMI, but while my brother was in the bathroom, I'd sit in the tub with the curtain drawn because I just wanted to be around him 24/7 as a little kid. My family doesn't know boundaries.

[@roxxi27]

In Finland Valentines day is called Ystävänpäivä which translates to Friends Day and its all about celebrating friendships instead of exclusively romantic relationships and I love that so much more!

[@HavenOnHardmode]

To Shayne’s concern regarding making the woman feel save and not coming off as a creep, I agree with Amanda that saying you have somewhere to be for a time constraint comes off as uninterested. I think the main things men can do (in my opinion) to make women feel safe is to have the date during the day, pick a public location (NO waking trails, if the park is an open grassy area where other people are constantly in and out and lounging, then fine, but NO nature trails, this is isolated and sketch af), and to the concern about trying to make the woman feel like they can leave and the date can end if they want, you don’t need to prove all of your non creepiness at once, in fact, trying to convince a woman that you aren’t creepy by overdoing everything will probably be alarming. Set the date up for success in being non creepy with the location/time of day, and then let your actions/reactions in the date tell her the rest. If the woman wants to wrap up the date early then she will, and your reaction will tell her everything she needs to know about how you handle this abrupt/early end (did you get mad/aggressive with the plans not going how you expect or did you smile and say you had a great time and leave?) Relationships are partnerships, so dating should be ways for you to both figure out if you are fit for a partnership (can one of you set a boundary or end something when you don’t want it to continue? Can the other respect and support this decision?)

[@Star71476]

Omg Amanda’s hair in the sponsors section I love it

[@modularb]

Seeing Keith in that SuperBowl Commercial was heckin awesome! I’m proud of the dude

[@Forge17]

I love smosh mouth, and these three are just good humans. The advice is thoughtful and coming from the right place. You can read into someone a good bit just by the dating advice they give out. I also loved Tommy’s insight into the gay dating world, it can be uniquely tough.

[@k7l3rworkman97]

As a person that’s been single for three years after a 6 year relationship, it seems I may just need friends. Or even just A friend. I’m so antisocial and isolate myself too often I think… 🤔 This was kinda of painful, but I thoroughly enjoyed this entire vid and all the different perspectives and pieces of advice.