just a little clarification: the reason the screenshots of the 16yro says 19 is because she is 19 now, when the posts were made.. she was 16 (in 2018/19)
@parksandrecreation8345 Жыл бұрын
never >:o
@ida-w2j Жыл бұрын
Of course done
@nothankyou6840 Жыл бұрын
bbbbbeans
@renee1961 Жыл бұрын
Beans!
@DevylishNoodle Жыл бұрын
BeAnS
@lolitax3617 Жыл бұрын
I heard today that apparently he wasn’t even even a carer for older people. He was a carer for those with neurological disorders, which of course makes it EVEN WORSE
@Kellz82-p7p Жыл бұрын
Both equally as F **ked up TBH , as many older people stuffer from Neurological disorders , dementia & the likes ! The Elderly often are unseen n victims of all kinds of abuse ! A victim is still a victim regardless and I personally don't put victims category of more or less !
@apriljk6557 Жыл бұрын
😪😪😪horrific and life-changing actions.
@xckurcl139_ Жыл бұрын
the thought of him doing those things to people who didnt even have the ability to consent knocks me SICK
@theMoporter Жыл бұрын
Oof. It's terrible to do at any age, but particularly for disabled people of any age. I have a comparatively milder neurological condition. I don't need observation, but I can't work and need a carer to cook and clean for me. Here is what could happen if I was grabbed by my head: * my neck muscles spasm due to the shock, which would cause rigidity throughout my whole body as a knock-on effect for hours, and leaving me in incredible pain for days/weeks * I try to pull his hands away or push him off if I have a "fight/flight" response, which could cause me to hurt my hands and arms or have a fall * unable to verbally resist if I have a "freeze" response * allodynia - hypersensitive to touch, all physical stimulus is painful - means that I would be certainly in pain due to being unprepared for him to touch me * trauma from my childhood would be triggered, causing me immense emotional distress * fatigue would make the whole event especially tiring - I would be helpless for days * as I am semi-verbal, it's possible I wouldn't be able to explain the situation to any other staff and unable to defend myself * confusion due to brain fog slowing cognition That's me as someone who doesn't need the level of support that people in care homes need. Others may have seizures or panic attacks or even worse. And, no matter what, it would always be a huge violation to be manhandled by staff who control your entire life, who will always be considered more reliable than a patient with brain problems. It is not difficult to manipulate someone who can't trust their memory or their perceptions, because even if you don't fool them, anything like that can sometimes be dismissed as simply a delusion, flashback, communication problem etc. and suddenly any testimony or complaints are pathologised. Nobody thinks about it until it happens to them, but having to rely on carers to treat you well is always scary. It's always a fear that they can turn on you one day and you can't fight them off. Anyone thinking about dismissing it after knowing all this is a vile person.
@sassafrakatz8357 Жыл бұрын
He even said he sees nothing wrong with kissing and hugging care clients
@janearkwright4969 Жыл бұрын
It wasn’t just older people in a retirement home. It was people in a neurological unit, brain injuries and things. So people who potentially couldn’t consent to being kissed and hugged. He’s vile
@janearkwright4969 Жыл бұрын
He’s also referred to people as fuckt@rds!! Disgusting man. He was bullying a bloke saying he needed adult nappies. The fact this man was a carer in any capacity is awful
@commitarson620 Жыл бұрын
Add the fact they don't even understand whats happening cause of such injuries and such
@Elliotshmelliot Жыл бұрын
As someone who spent 9 weeks in a neurological unit in late 2021 because of my disability that's so scary, if it was me I wouldn't have been able to escape because I couldn't walk or anything, I couldn't imagine how horrific it must have been for the people with more severe neurological disorders that couldn't even speak or defend themselves, he's a disgusting little man
@janearkwright4969 Жыл бұрын
@@Elliotshmelliot exactly it’s scary to think about what he’s done and he sees absolutely nothing wrong with it. I hope when his social media career is over that he won’t be able to get another job in any type of care setting. I’ve been on neurology ward and they were some of the kindest people but never inappropriate. You can show kindness and compassion without touching people. Makes me feel ill. I hope ur are ok
@sophie1706 Жыл бұрын
on a live he admitted to sticking his fingers into their mouths
@maybenell Жыл бұрын
What I find most sad is that he is making good money out of this. I know its entertaining but please can people just stop gifting him on lives. A man like that doesn't deserve it.
@TheKimbino Жыл бұрын
This is true but I think majority are doing it because they want to send him messages to call him out but still he doesn’t deserve the money. He’s so gross can’t wait for him to disappear.
@WobblesandBean Жыл бұрын
@@TheKimbino He's still getting money from it.
@WobblesandBean Жыл бұрын
If there's one thing you can count on, it's people on the internet cheering on and supporting objectively horrible people.
@TheKimbino Жыл бұрын
@@WobblesandBean I literally just said he doesn’t deserve the money. He should be in jail or hell, whatever comes first.
@jessicaflynn1919 Жыл бұрын
@United States Security Advisor deffinatley not socialy accepted or legal
@maddietaylor7748 Жыл бұрын
There’s something unsettling about a Middle Aged man acting like a teen on its own, that’s the first sign he’s a creep
@liesbeneathoureyes Жыл бұрын
*Onision has entered the chat*
@hollyroseXOX Жыл бұрын
Yea
@tomgreenfan Жыл бұрын
@@liesbeneathoureyes shane dawson is an even better example
@flarestorm9417 Жыл бұрын
I've never seen a grown man that acts like a teenager unironically that was trustworthy. At worst it's an indication of p****hilia and/or grooming, and at best it's an indication of emotional immaturity and potential mental instability.
@tomgreenfan Жыл бұрын
@@flarestorm9417 you clearly havent met me, i identify as a 16 yearold and im chill
@Zeroshiki Жыл бұрын
_"I think the hate that Paul is getting is disgusting."_ 100% of the time, my instant response would be, _"I think impregnating teenagers is disgusting"._ 💀
@jennyneon Жыл бұрын
The fact that there's people like Snapshoteye makes me really scared to be on the internet.
@TheMoonlightMage Жыл бұрын
It's when those people do shit irl that you really gotta worry
@Kellz82-p7p Жыл бұрын
@@TheMoonlightMage um well NO & what a careless and ridiculously dumb comment ! It's most concerning idea ! What about online Grooming or sex trafficking ( a example Facebook is a hotbed on human trafficking ! ) or what about online bullying & trolling that result to someone suicide ? Surly the person responsible should be held accountable , even if it's online ,Surly You do realise very often horrific things happen online to begin with & then extend into the real life with terrifying & terrible crimes being committed , you honestly think these people only reserve there perverted ways just for online!? 😬& Even if they do ( which they don't unfortunately) that's STILL clearly criminal !!! A crime is most definitely a crime even if it happens online !!!
@TheMoonlightMage Жыл бұрын
@@Kellz82-p7p That's literally what I just said, Karen.
@burningstariv Жыл бұрын
@Kelly Moxham You seem confused about his comment. They weren't minimizing the harm of online interactions at all.
@Kellz82-p7p Жыл бұрын
@@burningstariv no not at all, it's very clear to me actually ! when people do things off line we should be concerned ! Nope I get it & stand by my comments ! I'm not willing to disregard grooming & the likes that start online & very Often the ground work to horrific crimes start off online & it's ridiculously dumb to suggest the only real harm happens in real time! End of as far as I'm concerned
@KimKilgour Жыл бұрын
As someone who works in a care home, you can be an affectionate cater without kissing the residents.
@jaffa6003 Жыл бұрын
You really cant? He got fired for that information going out as the people he worked with could not consent.
@domi_kk Жыл бұрын
@@jaffa6003 uhm, yes you can? you don't have to touch them in that way or even kiss them. you can be affectionate with words, encouraging them, motivating them, squeeze their hand if they asked you to. as a nurse in hospital who previously also worked as a part-time carer, you can do plenty of things that aren't as creepy as things he did. 🤌
@jaffa6003 Жыл бұрын
@@domi_kk OH I misread! I thought you said you can kiss care home residents! I re read and realise you said you shouldnt kiss them! Sorry!
@domi_kk Жыл бұрын
@@jaffa6003 no worries, it happens to the best of us. English isn't my first language so sorry if i had been a bit harsh on you. ❤️
@turbocherry_ Жыл бұрын
Touch can help when communicating with people with i.e. dementia or hearing issues. If I've known the patient for a long time and know that they are mentally still capable to give consent, sometimes I put my hand on their shoulder or upper back while in a conversation. In very rare occasions if a patient is agitated or in pain I can hold their hand, but ALWAYS ask first. Hugging or kissing is an absolute no, regardless of patient group, country/culture or facility. I have no sympathy for the person in the video and I truly hope he gets consequences for his actions.
@aydadae7337 Жыл бұрын
Upwards of about 40% of teen mothers are knocked up by adult men (including me) I had gotten pregnant at 17 and had my baby at 18. He was 23 years old. It's very alarming when you look up the stats which are probably much higher in percentage since the mother can lie about the fathers age. It's absolutely awful.
@Dollcollector-jn2gs Жыл бұрын
Agreed. I was 17, gave birth at 18 and the father was 37 😳
@aydadae7337 Жыл бұрын
@Dollcollector1985 yikes omfg I hope you're okay now. I had met my kids father when I was 14. He was about 20 then. He kept me around teaching me how to have sex with him (it was statutory rape, but yeah) he said he'd never let me leave and would make jokes about trapping me with a baby. I was to young to see these as red flags, instead I saw them as oh he loves me this much omg. When I turned 20, I left him with my kid. It was a nightmare of almost 7 years.
@Necroverse19 Жыл бұрын
Citation?
@teratsukielizabeth543 Жыл бұрын
@@Necroverse19google is free
@Sing_A_Rebel_Song9 ай бұрын
@@Necroverse19✨Google✨
@michelarose9486 Жыл бұрын
As someone who at 20 dated a man 20 years older than me, I can ASSURE YOU that it is an incredibly predatory and toxic dynamic.
@gachatana9656 Жыл бұрын
My stepdad is half the age of my mum but they have a healthy relationship after my mum was in a toxic relationship with someone closer to her age. In all- Not all age gaps are toxic dynamics.
@Rosa-xm7xl Жыл бұрын
@@gachatana9656 ofc a kid playing gacha games would think so
@gachatana9656 Жыл бұрын
@@Rosa-xm7xl I'm 18 years old, legally an adult and my mother and stepdad are happy. What the fuck else do you want from me? I like an app, whopdee fucking do!!
@gachatana9656 Жыл бұрын
@@Rosa-xm7xl Are you also aware of what a gacha system really is because you would be surprised the amount of games that actually has a gacha system.
@Rosa-xm7xl Жыл бұрын
@@gachatana9656 I’m obviously referring to that particular kiddie game and not a random item game mechanic lmao
@hjml6 Жыл бұрын
Another thing that makes me sick about this is that there's genuinely people on tiktok who think he's hilarious and give him gifts, follow him and much more making him want to do tiktok even more because he's profiting from it.
@amplifiedspoon7922 Жыл бұрын
hes funny to laugh at
@hjml6 Жыл бұрын
@@amplifiedspoon7922 I'm not saying you cant laugh at him but like following him and giving him gifts only makes him think that what he's done and probably is doing is okay to do, it's supporting him and giving him even more of a reason to continue acting clueless - he probably knows what he does makes people laugh even if it is laughing at him but it gets him the attention he wants.
@jeishiikanzaki Жыл бұрын
If there was a reason to ban tiktok, it's this lol
@riddlemethiz Жыл бұрын
I’ve seen fan accounts for him :/
@Serenity-tn4yn Жыл бұрын
he's entertaining keep seething
@ZoeClarkTattooer Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU for making a video on him. KZbin is the only safe space to talk out about him now, because any of us speaking out on tiktok are just getting banned and our videos taken down
@Darker_voids Жыл бұрын
Yeah I have lost multiple videos on him due to mass flagging
@envymosthated3037 Жыл бұрын
Really damn
@envymosthated3037 Жыл бұрын
@Darker voids are people able mass flag him and his profile get deleted ?
@Darker_voids Жыл бұрын
@@envymosthated3037 this is the think like Mr uk tiktok official he's been mass reported. The difference is and I don't know why but Mr Uktiktok has lost permanently around 60 accounts and Paul has only been temp banned for like a day. I just don't get it
@Naptosis Жыл бұрын
It makes you wonder if the US government is right to be hysterical about TikTok.
@tropezando Жыл бұрын
These predators have always been on the internet, but it's shocking to see how brazen and forward they are nowadays. They used to just lurk on irc and yahoo chat and snatch kids like antlions, now they just put themselves and their misdeeds out there on social media. Dystopian.
@ebbydeeby7568 Жыл бұрын
Random TikTok user: “The way he talks makes it feel like he’s trying to groom me 😂” Apollo, holding the gift of prophecy: 👁👁
@Hi-og5ow Жыл бұрын
AAAAND HERE COMES APOLLO WITH THE RED DODGEBALL
@wingsablaze8386 Жыл бұрын
@@Hi-og5ow *THUNK*
@shanghaianddry9552 Жыл бұрын
I had a TBI and was a patient in a unit similar to the one he worked in and it absolutely terrifies me as to what he did as I remember not only how vulnerable I was but also the vulnerability of the other patients.
@sheepsky Жыл бұрын
Fraser thank you so much for talking about this bloke, he's been plaguing my TikTok feed for months. My favourite Paul moment is him reacting to news of a plane crash in Tanzania
@paloma3009 Жыл бұрын
I geninuely thought it was an edit when i first saw that one 😅
@ZoeClarkTattooer Жыл бұрын
You should of left it a few days, he was just with a freshly turned 19 year old in an air bnb together, while he pretends to be a photographer using his iPhone and taking photos of her…
@Naptosis Жыл бұрын
Don't tell me; it's a 1st generation iPhone too?!
@anguishedcarpet Жыл бұрын
I haven't recieved any answers yet in the comments; why is sleeping with an adult bad? Is she not an adult at 19? If we're gonna start referencing brain development should we treat everyone under 25 as incompetent children?
@cocoachuu Жыл бұрын
@@anguishedcarpet there’s a chance he might have groomed her & waited until she’s was 18/19 to do this, which, to the public, is “less creepier”. groomers often talk to minors for years, when they’re most vulnerable - and when they’re of legal or moral age - involve themselves openly with the person. especially knowing this a 40-ish year old non attractive man who lives with his dad and not positively notable or rich at all outside of tiktok… so it’s not like he’s a sugar daddy or celebrity, which would make sense for her age. he had to get close to her somehow, and probably not morally, you know?
@cocoachuu Жыл бұрын
@@anguishedcarpet 23:44
@ZoeClarkTattooer Жыл бұрын
@@anguishedcarpete’s apparently been speaking to her since she was 17. It’s also very concerning that you find nothing wrong with a 42 year old man, who isn’t allowed to see his son or talk about the mother of his child, meeting up with a freshly turned 19 year old and stayed in an apartment together. I’m presuming you’re young, and don’t quite understand the concept that… 19 year olds literally seem like kids to us. Even me, who is 12 years younger than paul. It’s grooming, its predatory, young women are inexperienced in life, and easy to manipulate, and that’s what people like Paul love
@camilliatobler3810 Жыл бұрын
10:03 Fun fact, several studies have found that 40% of pregnant 15 year olds have a partner that's ages 20-29. For teen pregnancies aged 15-17, 68% of partners are under the age of 20, and 95% are under the age of 24. Which I think leaves like a good fifth of fathers in teen pregnancy scenarios between the ages of 20-23. College adults going for high schoolers. So, not as alleged as you think, and not as 'some' as you'd think either. What's worse for me is that it's not some creepy old many in his 50s. These are people young enough to appear to the naive as 'peers'.
@dannyeccles1894 Жыл бұрын
Whilst it may not be illegal over here in the uk for a 40+ year old to be securely active with someone 16+, I think it's pretty easy to figure out that it's just nasty. He's old enough to be that's girl's father. Hell, I'm 42 and my step daughter is nearly 18. Makes your skin crawl and if someone his age was seeing her I'd have more than just words to have with. What a freak
@megangracesinger Жыл бұрын
Things have escalated further since you made this. You might wanna do a part 2!
@ChrissaTodd Жыл бұрын
the idea that people let the age gap thing pass because it's legal in the cases where it's still creepy reminds me of the movie the purge where suddenly everything is legal including murder but given i have never had the actual urge to murder like a Michael myers character i wouldn't suddenly want too during a purge, i am scared of anyone if the only thing holding them back is, it's illegal that is not the line, also no law is gonna stop someone from murdering people if they really want too. same with whatever paul is allegedly doing.
@ambersmith2612 Жыл бұрын
LITERALLY anyone who uses the law as their moral compass needs to be watched… the law is so far behind on so many things and has allowed for really terrible sh*t
@Naptosis Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, for many people also, the only reason they _don't_ murder others, is the risk of punishment in their religion's afterlife. In that respect, I'm glad of religion's imaginary chains!
@dyamimite Жыл бұрын
@@Naptosis thousand percent; i've had people ask what stops me doing bad stuff since i'm not religious, and it's like.... i have basic morals???? i don't need potential repercussions from any law or god for the thought of doing bad things or crimes to never even cross my mind, much less sway my actions.
@FederalBurroOfInvestigation Жыл бұрын
I would personally like to know if they'd also tell me my dad cutting a living frog in half with scissors or someone stabbing invasive mice to death is fine... It's technically legal here, since no laws protect invasive animals after all...
@anguishedcarpet Жыл бұрын
I like how we treat people under 25 anymore as incompetent morons who can't think for themselves. Having just turned 26 its news to me that all the times I've been with older women they were actually SAing me after grooming me at the bar lmfao
@Sam-no1sl Жыл бұрын
I’m 24 and my bfs sister is 20 and we don’t even have anything in common, it genuinely baffles me forever how people older than me could possibly be interested in people younger than her!
@Naptosis Жыл бұрын
It can definitely be quite creepy. I'm about this fellow's age, and even 25 year olds look like babies to me (no offense) - never mind that he's 'liking' 16 year old's "yummy" bikini photos... 😬
@nadia4067 Жыл бұрын
because not everybody is the same. not saying what paul has done is morally right but im 21 and all my friends and my bf are over 40...why? because i have more thing in common with them than people my own age.
@the_cryptid_in_question Жыл бұрын
@@nadia4067 No you don’t, you’ll never have more in common with people nearly twice your age than people who are actually the same age as you. Why? Because they’ve been around much longer and have experienced much more in their lives than you ever have. And the fact you claim to have friends AND a bf twice your age only shows to me that you want to be seen as more mature than you actually are and these much older people are probably taking advantage of that. Why? Cuz you’re younger and “pretty” than people their age in their opinion. I would know cuz I’ve been around people like that in my irl life where men in their 70’s wanted to be around me when I was only 19. Please seek people who are actually in your age range.
@lulul0l039 Жыл бұрын
@@nadia4067 😶🌫️
@nadia4067 Жыл бұрын
@@the_cryptid_in_question i dont get along with people my age, the last person i dated that was my age killed himself, i dont know many people my age who have lost someone that close to them, yes there are immature old people, i know that, and there are mature young people, as you say its about experience not age. if i could have a young mindset i would, but i dont. my mum had me at 45 so i grew up around those in their 40s.
@iNabber Жыл бұрын
THIS VIDEO WAS DEMONETIZED OH MY GOD PLEASE STOPP THIS KZbin ,like this video PLEASE
@jashagraham Жыл бұрын
We got you dude! 🔥
@Nyx-rc8lv Жыл бұрын
KZbin censorship really needs to be fixed 😒
@kaibor Жыл бұрын
Jesus KZbin is on a fucking rampage with demonetization recently
@irishakita Жыл бұрын
yoube momen
@nothankyou6840 Жыл бұрын
rip :( KZbin needs to get it's shit together
@TheRealVincentValentine Жыл бұрын
As a cultured man who wants to be a photographer one day . You shouldn't take models pictures in your own apartment or house that's a big no . Always open areas her comfortably is important to the craft . If they suggest apartment or house just know it's a weird adult photography session in the real .
@amypanddirtytoo1926 Жыл бұрын
I will be 45 in one month. I still get carded when I go to bars and get hit on by men..........well, boys, in their 20s. And I will be DAMNED if I actually take them up on their offers and/or go out with them! What the actual F do I have in common with a 21-year-old!?!?!?!? And even if we had literally everything in common, were at the same exact maturity level, and were at the same level of mental development - what kind of future would we have!?!?!?! We can't have children since I am close to menopausal and it just isn't physically safe for me to bear children. When he/she/they are in their prime I will be in the beginning stages of dementia!!! Literally 90% of our relationship will be him/her/them taking care of his/her/their ELDERLY PARTNER!!!! WTH IS WRONG WITH THIS MAN?!?!?!?!
@Jin420 Жыл бұрын
I generally don't watch content like this.. but you've addressed many issues regarding possible dangers online against the younger generation. Your sincerity & compassion/ passion seem genuine. With that said -- considering I don't have much presence on many social media, contents like yours keeps me on my "p's & q's". So thank you. 😊
@danielleduckett942 Жыл бұрын
The AUDACITY. Telling us it’s a new year and to get our sh*t together, while sitting next to a Christmas tree.
@mamouilletten1562 Жыл бұрын
Guillotine !
@envymosthated3037 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@iaminpainauchocolat9300 Жыл бұрын
It's not the 7th yet
@optimisticelement3193 Жыл бұрын
A lot of people still have their Christmas trees up in January nothing new that wasn't a dunk
@danielleduckett942 Жыл бұрын
@@optimisticelement3193 woah, calm down. No one said it was a “dunk” 😂 I was just talking sh*t. I have a Christmas tree up still too.
@marynraven Жыл бұрын
I was a pregnant teen. My kid from that is now 24! I was 17 and my boyfriend was 21. Once he felt he had me trapped, he became very abusive.
@elleash3040 Жыл бұрын
Im glad you and your daughter got out❤
@jadamiller7485 Жыл бұрын
@@elleash3040 they never specified son or daughter... anyway, glad they got out.
@Serenity-tn4yn Жыл бұрын
You fumbled that football and chose to ignore the red flags until it was too late
@cymreicach Жыл бұрын
im so sorry you had to experience that, especially at such a young age. im glad you and your child are now doing better :)
@gachatana9656 Жыл бұрын
@@Serenity-tn4yn Abusive relationships work in such a way that there are no red flags until it's too late. Get a life and go touch grass lol
@annak8755 Жыл бұрын
This is one of the best cases proving why parents should keep their children's photos private. Your kid might be the cutest, most precious gift you've ever had, but creeps like this will search them out.
@D-me-dream-smp Жыл бұрын
What’s so unfortunate about these types of situations and people like this is that they rely on a numbers game - casting their desperate, creepy net as wide as possible hoping they will manage to reel some poor victim in.
@SuperDuperGamimg Жыл бұрын
Thank u for covering this thing, a lot of us have been trying to get rid of him for a long time but Tiktok loves the traffic he brings in! He is vile and just gets worse daily.
@biggiebanana1433 Жыл бұрын
I had my eye surgery yesterday and was in pain all day, so waking up today and seeing you made the video I've been dying for you to make the past months made me so happy. I've been "following" (not actually following HIM, just news/videos about him) Pool for a while and I can't believe how he's still going!!? Thanks for uploading, I'm so happy you made this video!
@4ri0 Жыл бұрын
Fraser you have SAVED me with this upload 😭 it's so hard to find something enjoyable to watch!! Thank you and happy new year 💗🥳
@Gideonsmythe Жыл бұрын
Any man over the age of 30 with a Tik Tok account should immediately go on the "keep away from kids" list.
@Luckyo_o Жыл бұрын
What about Dwayne “the rock” Johnson?
@Gideonsmythe Жыл бұрын
@@Luckyo_o Yes "anyone".
@kimberlymarino7344 Жыл бұрын
The fact the he is not even trying to hide his behavior is beyond concerning. He sees himself as being perfectly fine in all this. This is why you cannot allow your teens to run free on the internet. It's not at all a safe place. I say that as someone who works in us federal LE on an internet crimes against children taskforce. Keep an eye on your children because if you don't someone else will
@elinaberzina9377 Жыл бұрын
I don't get why he isn't banned yet
@misuki_moyuki Жыл бұрын
It’s tiktok, they rarely ban the people who really deserve it, like predators who have literally said they were grooming someone.
@alicenthightower9161 Жыл бұрын
@@misuki_moyuki they instead ban the victims and ppl who speak out against them (against the predators i mean) :/
@lesbianfrog9973 Жыл бұрын
Because he's a straight white male
@Naptosis Жыл бұрын
@lynetteagueda5013 I don't know whether it's really about money, or actually a way for China to subvert Western societies' stability.
@nadia4067 Жыл бұрын
because what he has done (or what we know about) isnt illegal, you cant ban people for having different morals.
@georgiemillman3921 Жыл бұрын
When I was 19 I was groomed by a 45 year old. It became abusive. Paul has so many traits that I associate with that relationship
@anusthing Жыл бұрын
Can you groom an adult? Serious question, not trying to be rude
@georgiemillman3921 Жыл бұрын
@Andrew Milks you arent being rude, dont worry 😊 I know not everyone believes that an adult can be groomed, but they definitely can, especially if that person is a vulnerable adult. For me, I was very naive and easily influenced. I was brought in a semi-sheltered environment and I had no real life experience. I wasn't used to getting attention of anyone. I had very low self esteem and that was taken advantage of. My ex had a pattern of targeting young women who had mental health issues. Grooming is when a person targets someone. Usually this is a child, a young person or a vunerable adult. Often, they start by love bombing, giving them excessive amounts of attention and getting the vunerable person to become dependent on them. They go on on to build a relationship with them, so they can manipulate, exploit and abuse them. After I ended the relationship, I could see all the patterns of manipulation, gas-lighting and abuse. At the time it's happening, you don't notice it, and you become accustomed to the way you're treated, because you think its normal. And I think, especially with Paul putting so much into the public, people on the outside can see the patterns and behaviours, that aren't obvious to other parties that are involved. Hope this helps 😊
@CheesenMac123 Жыл бұрын
@@anusthing You can but someone who is 19 is technically not even a grown adult. They are developmentally an adolescent. That’s why people 18-20 are especially vulnerable. Because they are legally adults but developmentally are still adolescents.
@lilypad2714 Жыл бұрын
@@anusthingI don’t have any experience with grooming so I’m not really sure, but the human brain doesn’t stop developing until you’re around 26, so I think people in their early 20s are still quite naive. And I’m around that age currently and I’m in quite a vulnerable position, my mental health took a huge hit and I’m going through a lot of changes so I could probably be easily groomed. There are a lot of factors when it comes to being groomed or manipulated, but age is a big one, so I think that’s the main one that people think of.
@erikdaniels0n Жыл бұрын
The fact that people like Fuzzz99 get attacked for being “creepy” and “cringe” but apparently this dude is fine is disgusting to me
@elleblur5 Жыл бұрын
Both suck
@atomic-art Жыл бұрын
thats totally false bro snapshoteye is constantly being called out by women and filmed on the internet why are you choosing to blatantly lie about him not being held accountable?
@atomic-art Жыл бұрын
fuzz99 does get bullied a fair bit too much but some of their takes are just flatout wrong or weird especially since they are fresh in the lgbtq community
@CozyVemgeance Жыл бұрын
Fuzzz99 is just obnoxious with a massive victim complex, but Paul is a literal creature. He’s a narcissistic, self-pitying, delusional creep.
@marycanary3871 Жыл бұрын
@@atomic-art that doesn’t justify the genocidal dog whistles and violence used against fuzz99
@geekgirl_luv42626 ай бұрын
0:33 “free what? It’s definitely not healthcare” absolutely sent me 😂
@Thebatcavepetfriendlybakery Жыл бұрын
I love how you call me out and humble me at the beginning of every single video. Thank you for looking out for me. Great video as always!
@beyedoc Жыл бұрын
His answer should have been a straightforward "no" and if he wanted, he could add that his ex was pregnant before or after him. The fact that he started naming all those ages gave me the vibe he was saying, "I've heard all kinds of rumors about how old she was when she got pregnant. From someone who was 23 in a serious relationship with a man who was 38 (he told me 32), just run away because you are already miles more mature than a man like that. It can be different even for a girl who's 28 with a 38 year old man, but a grown man being so interested in girls on the cusp of legal adulthood is a red flag in a lot of ways.
@lustrazor44 Жыл бұрын
It’s not a red flag at all. It’s very fucking normal. You all need to get out of your online echo chambers. Most porn actors are around 18. This ALONE disproves your point. They’re adults. Start treating them like adults.
@jellylibra9306 Жыл бұрын
This is why I love watching your content. You give a voice to those that has yet to speak out. You express your disgust straightforward. This is the first time I’ve heard of this guy and he creeps me out . I wish that the law will be raised to 18 because it’s sick that guys like him gets off scot free because it was within the wall.
@alyssawhite2153 Жыл бұрын
I hope your new year is going well Nabbie c: We are all so proud of the progress you've made this year and can't wait to see what the future holds for you.
@tvvistedstitches5470 Жыл бұрын
iNabber always out here immediately accusing me of being unproductive when in fact I always save his videos to watch while exercising or doing chores I don’t like
@Chris-qz7vx Жыл бұрын
Classic chris Chan tale, man who cant stay away from the internet in spite of the damage it is doing to them
@shewho333 Жыл бұрын
I’m so happy that, up until this point, I had no idea this thing existed. Now I’m sad that this thing exists. You’re doing a service to mankind though. Thank you keep going!
@Naptosis Жыл бұрын
Ignorance is bliss when it comes to the internet!
@imtired185 Жыл бұрын
he’s not doing a service to mankind he’s making money off talking about about someone who everybody (in the UK) is already talking about and pretending it’s a public service.. like be serious
@callmesaph Жыл бұрын
@@imtired185 it's super easy to just not watch
@elleohell3 Жыл бұрын
recently there’s come up of him photographing a 19 year old and ending up taking her to a hotel room/his air brb?? (idk the story is told in different ways) she later posted on her instagram story that she shot only fans content in this same hotel room. this girl literally looks like a child might i add. (edit);; whilst it is completely legal, doesn’t make the age gap and different maturity levels completely and obviously weird… also considering his past concerning younger girls ..
@optimisticelement3193 Жыл бұрын
Just because she looks like a child doesn't mean she is a child if you already know her age is 19 that means she's not a child by law. Buy your own opinion it seems like to me you think she shouldn't be making an only fans because she's 19. You see her as a child therefore she is a child make it make sense.
@LittleMissLounge Жыл бұрын
@@optimisticelement3193 They brought up her childlike appearance because it's yet another creepy detail on top of this already creepy shit sundae. Nobody is saying a 19-year-old can't legally have an OF.
@Serenity-tn4yn Жыл бұрын
She can legally do pron but fcking a 40yo man is where we should draw the line? I think her exposing herself to the world in this manner is way worse than going with Paul.
@jordanhunter13 Жыл бұрын
@@optimisticelement3193 he as a 42 year old man, more than 20 years her senior should KNOW BETTER. being 19 doesn’t suddenly mean a switch has been flipped and now you’re an experienced adult that knows everything, all of your life experience is that of a child, which is what is appealing to him so he can manipulate young women. and yes her looking very young makes it even creepier, because he’d probably go younger if it was legal.
@ivanivanovitchivanovsky7123 Жыл бұрын
@@optimisticelement3193 found the degenerate
@sadiehelen Жыл бұрын
I’m a super lovey dovey/huggy person. Does that mean I assume everyone else is the same way and wants me smacking them with love and compliments all the time? No. Just because I enjoy who I am doesn’t mean I go and force physical touch and friendships. This guy needs to just stop talking 😬 He digs himself into a hole each time and is incredibly creepy in the sense of not being able to deny that stuff straight up. Do a weird dance around things instead and act sketch. Had no idea this dude existed and I’m sure I’ll forget about him by tomorrow, but… yikes 😬
@glasprinzessin Жыл бұрын
I feel attacked because ive actually been cleaning my Apartment while binging your Videos for a few hours now and im proud and tired. I mean thats not your fault. I just wanted to put out there that your Videos are great for actually being productive and occupying my adhd mind already thinking about playing Video games.
@brianglover7935 Жыл бұрын
I’ve known about Paul for what I feel like is much longer than the overall, I used to comment in his tik tok lives to see how fast I could get muted back when he had around 70k followers, the glory days
@basil6060 Жыл бұрын
i only know of this guy already bc when the female gaze kevin guy got exposed people kept making comparisons between the two of them, i went and watched clips of his lives and he’s so weird and he makes me so uncomfortable. i didn’t even know any of this that you told us, which is horrible.
@WobblesandBean Жыл бұрын
The fact that this monster has a loyal following on TikTok is the reason why women are forced to mistrust men. When we meet you, we have no idea if you're going to be one of them or not, we can't afford to make an exception cuz we all know what could happen to us if we do.
@Naptosis Жыл бұрын
The suspicion is unfortunate, but fair. Better safe than sorry; a decent fellow will understand. I liken dating for hetero/bi women, to men dating a gorilla. Until you can completely trust them, one should always be wary of their power. Though I date women, I'm also very cautious - I've been drugged by one, and 'SA'ed by another. People should respect consent and keep their hands to themselves!
@johnsmith-oh9is Жыл бұрын
Personally I think that's kinda weird. To put onto every man what one man has done is odd. But hey to each their own ive seen people say the same about a lot of things like. Knew one guy that felt the same way about black people due to be jumped by them quite a few times. Hope you find some people that can help you not feel this way.
@Serenity-tn4yn Жыл бұрын
Yeah you mistrust us so much you end up hooking up with guys 5x times worse than Paul, funny how that works.
@Elliotshmelliot Жыл бұрын
This scares me so much because my 14 year old sister is so socially unaware that I'm worried she'll be the target of a man like this. She's already been preyed on by creepy dudes on Facebook and in worried that as she starts using more social media a man like Paul will groom her under the guise of just making friends. I have so much trauma from being groomed and blackmailed from dudes online and I'm so worried my sister will be susceptible to that too
@SuspiciousZorua Жыл бұрын
@@Serenity-tn4yn That's a lot of words to say "I have never touched a woman other then my mom"
@PidgeonSprout Жыл бұрын
This man is all over my tiktok and i knew there was a reason I keep skipping, just gave me the creeps. Clicked on the video to see what he's about and confirmed it to me 🙃
@lexiwexiwoo Жыл бұрын
My mom had a piece of advice for me when I started dating as an adult. If a much older man wants to date you, you need to consider why he isn't dating women his own age. With age comes a certain degree of wisdom and less likely to put up with games and unacceptable/unkind behavior. So he may just like you because of who you are, but it's more likely that women his own age don't tolerate his shitty behavior, that he sees young women as more easily molded/influenced to put up with him. He also may be so attracted to the idea of dating a younger girl that if you show any aging, he gets put off. Now, this isn't true for every older man who decides to date much younger, but it's absolutely enough of them to keep it in mind. You gotta look out for yourself because no one else will.
@rondalax Жыл бұрын
Glad he's getting more scrutiny now. The first channel I saw taking a look at him is The Internet Investigator; she uploaded a video about him about 3 months ago.
@isortofyoutube Жыл бұрын
Mate I'm so glad a larger creator is talking about him at last. Thanks bud, I hope this gains traction and it gets the exposure it gets to deplatform that guy.
@warmsnow Жыл бұрын
Your content is absolutely worth while. Thanks for talking about all those controversial topics. I I really like the one about women selling their children for tiktok fame. I don't use any social media I only watch certain KZbin channels so I often have no idea about what's exactly going on there in tiktak and shiet. Thanks for pointing this out and warning. We should all be more aware of what we consume and what the negative effects could be by supporting certain creators and stuff they post. Keep it Goin bud and also happy new year to you 👍😁
@lista2308 Жыл бұрын
His "message to a 19yo" video was all I needed to know what Paul is like, and everything else just confirmed it 🤢
@lagomlex7303 Жыл бұрын
My husband is 20 years older than me. At the time when we got married when I was 19 and he was 39, it just felt special. I am now 25 and he's 45, it does seem weird. I feel like my youth was wasted on this relationship.
@ewop9498 Жыл бұрын
As someone who was preyed upon when I was younger, fell pregnant at 19 with a 24yo, this man is DANGEROUS and these young impressionable women will be heavily traumatised by the actions of these grown ass men.. thanks for the video your content is 👌🏻 hope KZbin boosts you back up again you deserve it! ❤
@ewop9498 Жыл бұрын
I wasn’t technically a child when I fell pregnant (I know dis) but damn it still messed me up
@devent10n Жыл бұрын
@@ewop9498 I mean, and I mean no shade with this, you weren't really an adult, either. I hope things are going better for you these days.
@ewop9498 Жыл бұрын
@@devent10n I was definitely a child I was extremely naïve, thank you I am !just want to help other young girls 😊
@letrosti6291 Жыл бұрын
that is not really an age thing. it's more of you being stupid and not using proper protection during sex.
@kaden6958 Жыл бұрын
Literally the only youtubers opinion i trust with my whole heart. Hope you had a good new year Frazer
@elinaberzina9377 Жыл бұрын
He is all over my Fyp, first as a meme and now it's just torture
@skyejade3856 Жыл бұрын
As I am watching this it's hitting me that he is just one of many men like this who just happens to be being blasted, the only difference is that he has a platform
@orlaithkearns862 Жыл бұрын
i appreciate how you break down important stuff on social media
@alliejohnson7329 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making a video on him, I was so confused what was going on with everyone posting about him.
@mentallyunstableplant Жыл бұрын
i've said it once and i'll say it again, anytime you have to bring technicality into your defense, its not worth it
@apriljk6557 Жыл бұрын
honestly, creators like you are how I can keep my kids safe. Otherwise, I have no clue what to even look for.
@tinydream Жыл бұрын
Always trust your gut, your 6th sense, your inner voice, whatever you want to call it. Because if you’re wrong, who cares, and if you’re right - you just saved their life.
@hotarab69 Жыл бұрын
this is so cute i’m sure he was happy reading this
@corvusblair Жыл бұрын
Everytime you do that "your being unproductive" intro I'm actively working. 😂 I'm making a hat rn, Nabs, calm down, I promise I'm still working, boss.
@lilyisnotamused Жыл бұрын
You talking about new year at the beginning of the video and doing something productive actually made me pause the video and do something productive.
@Sweettormentt Жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video! Finally i understand! I've seen plenty of videos of him on tiktok and NO ONE would ever explain why he was hated and I was so loooost
@mlo7783 Жыл бұрын
he took pictures of a very young looking 19 year old onlyfans model because "he likes photography" but he also invited her into her airbnb room and he spent more than a full day with her pretty sure 😟😟
@Harryn548 Жыл бұрын
2 days
@ca_lcium Жыл бұрын
It's like going to a strip club and saying you're only there because you like the music... 💀
@rahimamonster4757 Жыл бұрын
I forgot that snapshot eye is actually real and not a creepy figure of my imagination
@LongLiveHelghast Жыл бұрын
He lives about 30 miles from me, in the same county as me 🤢
@bruhmoment1133 Жыл бұрын
Hey iNabber, about the age restriction thing on your videos: Penguinz0 made 2 videos about the secret implementation KZbin has installed in their algorithm on the basis of cursing and captions. You should go watch and see if you can dig deeper into it.
@a3842-j3o Жыл бұрын
wow i have missed so much paul lore. thanks inabber
@renee1961 Жыл бұрын
I hope KZbin straightens out this ASAP for you! You, and your channel are Great! Very Informative, and I like that.
@Creables Жыл бұрын
I follow you on Twitter and have seen how much KZbin is screwing you over, sucks but glad you’re still going and giving us quality content!
@lunabunny1047 Жыл бұрын
He seems very content on being a weird creep. Also noticed that iNabber's skin is lookin pretty clear now ah day.
@carolgannon2307 Жыл бұрын
I just heard a criminal psychologist say the other day is that what happens is a Pedophile gets older but they continue to be attracted to whatever age they've always been attracted to. So if they like preteens they'll always like preteens even when they're in their 40's, 50's & so on.
@ChaCha_Boop Жыл бұрын
Thanks for video! I didn’t understand the Paul drama until you explained it all 😅
@renee1961 Жыл бұрын
Good evening, iNabber! 🙋🤗🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟 Happy to see you! I've never heard of him. Already I can't stand him! Thank You!
@karevv Жыл бұрын
Little does he know I do work while I watch these, I always feel so productive when he shits on us in the beginning and I go “not me y'all stay safe tho”
@BelleDreamer7 Жыл бұрын
Literally pausing in the intro to say “Hey, I am getting work done because I am listening to a person with an energizing voice talking at a rapid pace which makes me want to move at a rapid pace.” Keep this up and I won’t be watching you during my work outs.
@albatrosses Жыл бұрын
Taking the piss in a funny way is one thing but yeah shitting on the viewer 5 seconds in isn't what I'm looking for. I didn't watch beyond it
@alicenthightower9161 Жыл бұрын
💀
@horribleartist8504 Жыл бұрын
@@albatrosses who asked you lmao
@albatrosses Жыл бұрын
@@horribleartist8504 do you understand the concept and function of a comment section?
@flowergirl4612 Жыл бұрын
It's so insane how platforms like KZbin and Tik Tok verify the preds but try to silence the channels that talk about the preds.
@Katie-B Жыл бұрын
just want to add that karen (pauls friend who went out clubbing with him) even said whilst defending paul that he got a 17 year old pregnant. she admitted it is true
@katieschunk8144 Жыл бұрын
0:07 I thought you were calling me out for putting off watching a different yt video by watching yours and was like “how did he know 😮” 😂
@cocoachuu Жыл бұрын
videos mocking him, then eventually his almost 24/7 lives appeared out of nowhere on my fyp over the last 2 weeks and i’ve been so confused going down the rabbit hole, trying to figure out precisely what he did (besides the same cringey dances, sweater paws, and farting on lives). i guess there’s been a pique of interest in him that made it to the u.s. as well. thanks for making this bc i wanted to be sure i wasn’t cheering for the downfall of someone innocent.
@aAureliusSsSS Жыл бұрын
He looks like that bear ham you got as a kid that tasted terrible
@kimsharp1987 Жыл бұрын
Billy bear ham 😂 love that someone slapped his face with it lmao
@aAureliusSsSS Жыл бұрын
@@kimsharp1987 THATS THE NAME 😆😆
@co-el-em1009 Жыл бұрын
I googled it because im American and this is so accurate. 😂
@VictoriaSanders08 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this. He’s all over my TikTok and I’ve always wondered who he was and what the hype is with him so I’m now fully informed cheers for the video 🙏🏻
@alexyscarreno3907 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Amazing to see SOMEONE putting forth effort. This video is the first I’ve seen of yours, but it earned you another subscriber! Thank you!!
@le3h4 Жыл бұрын
i have been WAITING for this one
@xxcosmicfrostxx Жыл бұрын
This reminds me of the Lovely Peaches situation, Onion boy situation etc, its just baffling as to why people keep egging them on and sending gifts on lives, giving them views etc. it just baffles me. I don’t get how people find this shit funny? I had one friend from a while back that thought lovely peaches was absolutely hilarious and would support her even though she was a disgusting and despicable person. It really didn’t sit right with me. I find it super weird that people obsess over these people either in a troll way or an ‘I actually like this person’ way. 😬
@JamesBur Жыл бұрын
guys, if you're ever having a really bad day, just remember you're not snapshoteye
@kelynmay3663 Жыл бұрын
On kissing people while working as a caregiver- I was a cna at a long-term residential facility for people with intellectual and developmentally who also had acute medical needs(ie if not with us they'd likely spend their lives in and out of hospital.) Basically a mash-up of nursing home, hospital, and adult foster home. He was absolutely backtracking because kissing a resident even on the cheek or head is an outright crime, or at minimum a slippery slope to lawsuits and regulatory bodies coming in, depending on local laws. I'm in the US, but legally someone in your care cannot consent to such an act because of the power imbalance and conflict of interest. I worked for the state so they were pretty strict about this stuff, but at my facility that would have been grounds for being fired, placed on the caregiver mistreatment registry, or even criminal charges
@ashtonhahahahhahahaha7553 Жыл бұрын
ive been waiting far too long for this ty mate
@moreorless8711 Жыл бұрын
Seeing these people on TikTok makes me want to avoid the app even more even though my friends want me to get the app to easily send me videos vs copying and paste a link through text
@anyasea10739 Жыл бұрын
Watching Paul’s videos is so strange because I don’t think I’ve ever seen a fully grown middle aged man act like a hey mamas lesbian
@tomatojuiceburger Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad someone with a larger fanbase covered the awful things he's done. I've been following the Paul lore for a while now and every new thing that I learned about him made me sick.
@nerdy49025 ай бұрын
I think this is one of the more unhinged vids from Inabber, but it's understandable with how frustrating everything is
@Aradcliffe8911 ай бұрын
I love the threat with the car reg, what’s he going to do, check their car tax is in date 😂
@Kellz82-p7p Жыл бұрын
Yet another reason to monitor your children, tweens devices , social media is most concerning & more often than not is Tic tok , although other platforms have predators ! Maybe I'm seem as a OTT parent but I can live with that if it keeps my 13 year old safe! Stay safe & Happy belated new years💚💖🌻