Asking RICH Men If They Prefer Stay At Home WIVES?

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[@HypnoticHollywood]

A woman can make her own bread working from home so if you would have asked men if they prefer a stay at home wife or a wife who works outside the home, all the men would've agreed they prefer a stay at home wife.

[@LindsayMelrose]

I’ve been a SAHM mom for the last 18 yrs- I’ve worked on and off as a mindset coach, counselor, writer & only just now stepping back into FT entrepreneurship because before babies I was a young successful Ad executive and I loved my job but being able to stay at home was something no amount of money could replace.

[@kwilson4125]

@HypnoticHollywood “Stay at home” and “work from home” are 2 different things. Most people define “stay at home” as not working a job for income but instead focusing on the family and household.

[@LindsayMelrose]

@@kwilson4125 very true- I’ve been raising my children who are preparing for college - I’ve been a ghost writer, content creator & mindset coach on and off because being a mom and sacrificing the second income was priority- they are def two diff things!

[@sueeland5675]

​@@kwilson4125..so true to stay at home with no side hustle.... did that Mmmm will rather stay at home with a hustle

[@bluebutterfly5062]

This is a perfect example of the mentality of successful men. They are not "women belong at home and I'm the king" They all recognized the value and sacrifice of their women staying at home, and still mentioned their women are hard working and intelligent.

[@IAmPhasion]

Yess love it

[@glendakeirn6230]

YES!!!

[@glaeli1184]

Exactly! Staying at home is a job as well, if one makes enough money for everyone than the other can work to manage the family’s life and lower everyone’s stress level. Granted it’s an opportunity that only comes with high individual income or the money’s scarcity would be much worse in terms of stress levels.

[@LuvsTruth]

Where were those compliments you speak of?

[@blesstalks]

Nah overwhelmingly majority wanted a stay at home. Take your ass at home and raise your kids, fuck outta here.

[@iamlakesivad4675]

Masculinity has to be earned and femininity needs to be protected. ❤

[@TJ-015]

Spot on!

[@12Messenger]

Amen

[@ojames1983]

"protected and preserved."

[@lesliemeston]

Wow where can I find a man like that. I was married for 16 years. I was a real estate investor I located property my husband remodeled we were a team. We shared money. Divorce happened. Now I'm with a boyfriend for 3 years. He was a drug addict I didn't know. Found out them helped him start 2 profitable business. He's making 150,000 a year now. Went from cleaning headlights at liquor stores and crack cocaine to 150,000 a year in 1 year. He saved his money and bought a house cash for 200,000 dollars in San Miguel de Allende. Rents it out ! I have my own business but my business has slowed down for some reason and suddenly my boyfriend doesn't want to send me the 120 dollars he sends every Saturday to me. We live together I wash clothes clean house communicate with his clients. I set up next door app, Venmo zelle Instagram everything for his business shirts business cards I bought him 2 huge A sandwich boards signs , tools, even found his work truck for cheap. Now he's suddenly says I only made 1000 dollars this week so I can't give you your 120 weekly. We pay rent 50/50 electric, internet, Netflix. He has no bills just stacks his money has over 100,000 in bank and past 3 weeks stopped giving me 120. I didn't stop washing or cleaning or helping him with his business. What's going on?

[@Ivianne-Marie]

Love this one ❤

[@karenb387]

I'm a stay at home wife. I cook homemade meals every day. i do dishes and laundry every day. I keep the house clean and cozy. I am calm and happy and well rested so I am pleasant company. When I worked full time I was overstimulated, didnt have energy or interest in cooking or cleaning or entertaining a man. Staying home gives me feminine energy to be a pleasant wife.

[@kayjeffs3741]

And probably a husband who treats you right as well

[@LMcBee]

What happens if your husband leaves you one day, or dies and kids grow and move away? Being a stay at home wife is good when it works but the amount of women who are screwed over when it doesnt is tragic

[@AishabintIdris]

I love that for you ♥️

[@simba8665]

@@LMcBee not every stay at home mom is broke or has zero skills. I don’t see anything wrong if the woman has a say on how the household income is managed/ distributed. Not everyone lives the life in constant fear of a divorce.

[@selvamani1973-p7b]

@@LMcBee won't be hard for her to date if she wanted to

[@chrissylekas]

“She could be a nurse or a teacher, but anything else is too stressful” two of the most stressful jobs 😂

[@juliea.]

That guy was an idiot.

[@outsidethebox8406]

Yes they are. Just shows how clueless some men can be.

[@TsvetelinaTsaneva]

Sooo am I getting this right? He is the only one allowed to generate and bring home stress?

[@asmaj.631]

​@@TsvetelinaTsanevawhy have two ppl bring home stress when it's not a necessity?

[@Humanaut.]

@@TsvetelinaTsaneva If he is the main breadwinner then yes

[@LAS12022]

That first guy holy shit! "Masculinity need to be earned femininity needs to be protected." This man for president!

[@Rosemary46840]

Y'all easy and cringy

[@marciejade1408]

Grow up!

[@caribbeanladyz7965]

Very true.

[@CL-do5eq]

He’s a true Alpha

[@Peanut-sam-tha-nut]

Lmao hes alpha until the economy turns and he goes broke. When you decide your worth is only how much you earn as a man you have to follow it even into the gutter.

[@naimahabdullah-gulley4405]

Here's some solid advice my father gave me before his unexpected death: Always be able to make your own. It's fine for your husband to provide because as a man, that's what he's supposed to do. But always be able to make your own. I was in my early 20's at the time, so I didn't really get what he was saying. But in my 40's, I totally get it. It's nothing wrong with being a SAHM, but have a skill set where you can make money if you need to (unexpected illnesses of husband, unexpected death of husband, divorce).

[@mantyxxx]

Well said, underrated comment. Its like one of men said in the video. You can be a nurse, teacher, etc. and after raising kids or/if something unexpected in life happens you are not left wiotheout source to live.

[@nate2759]

Amen!

[@bemilie2841]

This happened to someone I know and she struggled taking care of herself and 4 kids because she married young and her husband was against her studying and working. Learning and doing that once you’re on your own and responsible of 4, it’s truly tough. So even if you choose to be SAHM, learn a skill or few just in case.

[@DaisyMae3]

Your so pretty

[@kikoma4551]

This! 👍🏻

[@moeytja]

The more broke a guy is the less he wants her to stay at home. The more he has his life together and the more accomplished the more masculine hence the more he wants to provide for her, naturally.

[@jermainemyrn19]

The more money you have, the more you want to have your wife stay home. The more broke you're, the more you need to work, especially because you're fighting against inflation at all times.

[@jermainemyrn19]

@@ladybug3380 tone deaf

[@ladybug3380]

@@jermainemyrn19 it’s true though. If you can’t afford a family don’t have one it’s that simple.

[@jermainemyrn19]

@ladybug3380 I disagree, I was raised with money. My parents were gone all the time, so we never got close. It's not all about the money, and everyone deserves to have their own kids if they want to. It's not anyone's fault they're broke because there are a ton of systemic issues

[@nicolelewis6312]

​She's right. Don't have children if you can't afford them.

[@sirchys]

I stay home. I have for a long time and my husband has always worked. I homeschool our children, I cook, I clean, I take all the kids to their appointments and their after school programs, I make sure my husband has what he needs to get to work and come home and rest. On the weekends my husband and I team together and work on house remodeling and play with our children or attend family gatherings. It’s fulfilling for us to live this way.

[@kpage592]

We are basically your twinkies!! We love running our household this way.

[@aurora1134]

You say that you make sure your husband came home and rest, who make sure you can rest and who think about your needs? Just because you are not paid that doesn’t mean you do not have the right to rest as well! Home and kids are yours and your husband. You work 24/7! Staying at home bring so much unbalance without being noticed because you think “oh I am at home I do not get have the right to be tired and stressed”. Yes you have, you do basically everything… I’m happy if you are happy, don’t get me wrong, but I am sad to think that by this comment I feel like you think about everybody but nobody think about you. That’s the problem whit stay at home, you loose your rights

[@sirchys]

@@aurora1134 no rights are lost. On Saturdays he brings me breakfast in bed while I sleep in. I go to dinner with my sisters sometimes, or friends as well. That’s when he handles dinner and cleanup and the bedtime routine. He also takes me out for a date every other Friday. I’m not a victim, I am very happy being a stay at home mother. My children are very happy and so is my husband.

[@supernovaa9332]

That’s beautiful

[@chrissydiane6279]

🥰

[@nyecore]

Has anyone noticed that all of these older men are physically fit

[@simbathomas5075]

Right 😂😂😂

[@user-vg8ez9cu6u]

Yes, money, personal chef, and trainer make that fairly easy to do!

[@nyecore]

@@user-vg8ez9cu6u also there might be a correlation between discipline and wealth

[@spolch9482]

Yes, they have a personal slave.

[@forward_ever_ever2595]

​@@spolch9482sound like a feminist...the seed of jezebel

[@mercyh193]

Guy with the neon yellow shirt had the best answer. He appreciated his well educated career woman wife when she stepped away from her job to raise their kids and when she returned to work. Also mentioned that they were fortunate to be in that position to do that!

[@truehappiness4U]

He’s clueless, she sacrificed her job for the kids. He did NOTHING. There was no father figure in the lives of the children, because he wanted money and not his children love. No wonder many children prefer their mothers over their fathers. Both parents should have just worked part time if they were rich enough.

[@LovelyVibrations]

You are right. He had the best answer!!

[@STak-ju7gx]

It's quite funny that the first guy approaches relationships as a competition and not necessarily as a sincere relationship between two people. Apparently, it's only out earning a woman that keeps the woman from leaving to another person. That's not a healthy view on life, lol. And this is why I don't like money obsessed people. Everything, even what should be a sacred human relationship, is all rooted in money.

[@angelique00angelique]

I agree, he had the best and sweetest answer!

[@happilydivorced3235]

I loved him too and the next one after.

[@Mouse73]

You don't have to be wealthy to support a family. You just need to choose a woman whose lifestyle is in line with what you can afford to provide.

[@marte1376]

Exactly, that's the point many men miss. Hypergamy is not about choosing the rich, who said that? All women in the world are in different circumstances and positions in their lives and the same goes for men. Each individual chooses the one for its kind, that's it.

[@brooklynforever1990]

You get it!

[@RearviewWisdom]

THAT PART ! My husband does construction and we gross 70k. I’m a simple woman and in some aspects I’ve even become more simple to accommodate me being at home with our kids. We live in NY btw….. But if you want a trophy wife be prepared to pay the price and don’t complain. I rather people say they loathe traditional family structures than to blame their reasoning for rejecting such on the other gender.

[@user-vt2ce2jc4r]

I'm sorry to say but I don't agree when some PPL say you don't need so much money just a wife who can live by what you earn...............a certain amount of money is required to live atleast well enough....if you want a women to do the best at home you also need to be a good provider and hardworker....the best you can provide..... not saying you have to be a millionaire but sufficient to be comfortable....... If you earn so very marginal how can you expect the wife to do the best....hungry stomach can't work hard at home and do good housekeeping

[@Mouse73]

@@user-vt2ce2jc4r while I agree that a man's job is to be a good provider, a woman's job doesn't just consist of housekeeping and raising kids. A man can expect and lead a woman to do far more than just those things. A woman can tend gardens, take care of livestock, hunt and fish, forage for food and medicine, find deals at the grocery stores, and manage the budget. Even if they live in a city, she can still participate in these activities. Perhaps she has a creative hobby she enjoys that can also supplement family income. Many people who are poor find ways to manage even with many children, so I'm sure that the rest of us can too.

[@daisyfaye3630]

As a woman and the daughter of a divorced woman who was a stay at home mother. I am fundamentally against giving up your ability for gainful autonomy on the hope a man won’t have a midlife crisis, cheat, or die. No skills no experience means no living wage for women going back to the workforce.

[@rhondalandgren7478]

there are laws

[@NiaLaLa_V]

Marriage means working through those things. I'm not surprised a person raised by divorce parents feels that way. I was raised by parents who are about to celebrate 50 years together. I have seen them go through hard times and come out stronger. You have no idea what you are missing.

[@anaivancevic7926]

Thank you!!

[@danieallen5609]

Yeah everyone live life based on fear! GREAT advice.😒

[@pinkpink7372]

Fear is a very important factor, ignoring fear is big mistake many ppl do n go broke ​@@danieallen5609

[@HSHeart723]

I'm a stay at home mother of 4. My husband works his butt off to provide for our family and I appreciate him SO much! I am so grateful that I can be here to raise and teach our children, cook and clean. There is no place I'd rather be.

[@lindsey5365]

Ummm you suck

[@terrycrews1760]

I’m so confused right now bc my wife has been a stay at home mom to our son for 2 years and she complains that I don’t help her out enough. She cooks once or twice a week and cleans occasionally making it seem like she can’t handle it then there’s other women here saying they do it all. I’m pissed and confused at the same time.

[@HSHeart723]

@@terrycrews1760 Not every woman is right for being a SAHM. It is hard work and at times feels like an exhausting, thankless job. Managing about 100 people was actually easier for me, IMO(my career before children). But, I have always dreamed of being a SAHM and, I want my husband to be happy and feel his peace at home. Make sure you thank your wife for what she does do, that may encourage her to do more. And, if your child is young(1-3YO) those can be exhausting, trying, sleepless times for her. She may be in a season of life that she is struggling through and in those times, you need to give her grace. Being angry won't solve any issues, those you've got to talk through.

[@HSHeart723]

@@terrycrews1760 Also, her priorities may be different then your expectations, so make sure you are on the same page. I homeschool 3 of our four children, 4-5 days a week. It usually takes me from 9am-2 or 3pm, I do get a small amount of house work done during the weekdays(mostly dishes and picking up) and Saturday is my cleaning day, bathrooms, floors, laundry, etc. I do cook at least 6 days a week, but I Really enjoy cooking! If I didn't, cooking would feel like a burden. It takes meal planning for me and a little time to put my lists together and make sure I have what I need. When our youngest was an infant, I was cooking about 3x/week as breastfeeding had me sitting more during those times. Every family's needs and expectations will be different. No body's wife can literally do it all, but some of us try really hard to!

[@Stupid_Albertan]

​@@HSHeart723I have six kids. Of course it can be exhausting. Being a parent requires you to be selfless and people want to be indulged and spoiled. Cooking and cleaning a handful of times a week is insanity. It is easier to be work than be a SAHM , but I didn't have children to farm them out for someone else to raise.

[@jojocutie14]

This interviewer’s approach is so respectful, personable and the questions felt neutral (no hidden agenda). You can see the pleasant facial expressions of the men when answering him. He was also able to read into them. Basically he knew when he needed to make it quick or when he could expand on the questions. This was refreshing to watch 🥰

[@Holistretch]

Agreed! ❤

[@outsidethebox8406]

So true. Love this guy. This channel is gold.

[@xKarenWalkerx]

He is, but also rich people are more friendly and approachable (poor people also). It's usually the wannabes or the middle class confused ones that are the hardest to deal with.

[@juliestarks1279]

The most beautiful thing another person can give you is the gift of 'CHOICE'. I like the men who said that they didn't care, as long as she is happy-and actually meant it. Those are the men that I would make it my mission/business to keep happy.

[@nate2759]

Yes, to me that is the right answer.

[@Jkd_77]

Facts

[@Neo-jty]

but keep in mind women will never give that gift of "choice" to men, so who ever could recive that gift from men should be greatful

[@RJ12347]

Men should focus on their own happiness... God didn't put men on this earth to try and make women happy

[@Akadolledup_]

Yes, I love this 🥰

[@yasmini.alamin6031]

I'm glad that the guy in the yellow mentioned how grateful he was to his wife for being educated and recognized the value of taking care of the family untill the time was right. And that he recognized that it was a sacrifice and that he was lucky to be in a position. I also loved that he mentioned when she went home to stay home he doubled down on his end and acknowledged that it is hard for her to put aside some external advancement. Seems like he recognized her contributions and value and balanced with her.

[@nahrainb9019]

You can see the amount of respect the first man has for his wife based on how he asked her to come on camera when asked if he prefers his wife to stay at home.

[@rociolu1422]

yeah, the only one who understands that is up to her, not him (from those who have a stay at home wife)

[@chinaboss6683]

But i thought behind every successful man like bezos and gates was a divorced woman! 😂

[@mineandmine4528]

@chinaboss6683, Funny how those women stood by them when they had nothing and now that they are the two richest men on the planet, they both divorced the women that stood by them. 😂 Like the saying goes, a woman’s loyalty is tested when there is nothing, a man’s loyalty is tested when there is everything.

[@mineandmine4528]

@chinaboss6683, Funny how those women stood by them when they had nothing and now that they are the two richest men on the planet, they both divorced the women that stood by them. 😂 Like the saying goes, a woman’s loyalty is tested when there is nothing, a man’s loyalty is tested when there is everything.

[@chinaboss6683]

@@mineandmine4528 Thats a fun fact isnt it? Heres another fun fact for you: what is the origin of the word 'test?' Its is testes, testicles, or testosterones. Hence, its a mans world.

[@sunnyrays2281]

I really like the guy early in the video who talks about how grateful he is that his wife stayed at home with the kids and made a sacrifice. What a gentleman. He saw it for what it was. I’m sure she’s also grateful but I love hearing his perspective. He acknowledges that that was a sacrifice on her part.

[@Trseay]

Same❤

[@leveragelunchbreaklive]

It is a sacrifice and SAHM is truly challenging as well!

[@mikesolns1364]

It's not a sacrifice. It's part of what she brings to the table

[@sunnyrays2281]

@@mikesolns1364 agreed, it is part of what she brings to the table. I say sacrifice to represent the fact that women who could often have very successful/high earning careers often choose raising a family. It is a trade off. When a woman gives up the chance to make her own money, it is a sacrifice. In some cases, she stops being her own person in the eyes of the world and just becomes the wife of the person who makes the money. Women are obviously so much more than just “somebody’s wife.” I think a lot of women give up so much to stay at home. To me, it is admirable and I also feel like it’s very important for a healthy society to have a parent at home when kids are in the house. With that being said, staying at home is a luxury for most. It can be achieved for some families with very careful budgeting and choices on lifestyle/location for living, but in general, it is certainly a privilege to get to have only one parent working outside the home.

[@zerotolerance2026]

⁠@@mikesolns1364 Your comment is the main reason women initiate divorce 80 -90% of the time. Men see what the man does for the family as a sacrifice, but what the woman does isn’t. Pathetic.

[@ReginaMichaletos]

I worked as a prominent lawyer for 16 years before becoming a full-time SAHM. I initially worked part-time after our children were born but both my husband (also a lawyer) and I could see the value of my staying at home to raise our young family. Every jurisdiction I'm aware of places a high monetary value on the non-monetary contributions of SAHM in family court proceedings so as long as a woman is educated or skilled and can re-enter the work force at a later stage if need be/things go bad/she wants to, it's not problematic. The only people who have a problem with SAHMs are men who can't provide sufficiently for their families or women who are jealous. Of course the role of an SAHM is desired, valuable and critically important. Great interview question.

[@BoyMama87]

Love your comment and insight!!! I'm also an educated SAHM. Just wanted to add that staying home is a temporary thing for most moms. Eventually, they grow up and leave. Then I have plenty of years to work outside the house more. But we don't get these years back with our kids that are so critical in their development.

[@LilPoopsie]

I don't think I could ever be a stay at home mom. I already hate cleaning, I don't want to have to clean up after more than just myself. I would literally rather go to work everyday 😂 I'm tired of women being "expected" to want to be around their kids 24/7 or else they're "bad mothers".. I don't even have kids yet and thinking about it makes me want a break already. I told my bf I'm not gonna be a sahm and I will have some kind of job outside the house. He's fine with it.

[@ReginaMichaletos]

@@BoyMama87 I love your comment and insight too! So many have expressed shock that I've "abandoned" my career but I don't see it that way. This is just a new chapter during a new season. I also don't feel it's a "sacrifice" of my career because, as you've pointed out, there are many years later to return to that. I'll add that I've had many career highlights and now I want to focus on enjoying family highlights! One thing is for sure, the years with our little ones are so quick, it's kind of scary!

[@ReginaMichaletos]

@@LilPoopsie 🤣 I understand about the cleaning and needing a break. When I was working part-time with my first born, work felt like a holiday even though I had a demanding career. However, even if you're both working, there will still be a lot of cleaning after the kids for you both. And cleaning is just a small part of raising children. It's intense! But also the best thing that'll ever happen to you. I don't believe you're "expected" to be an SAHM at all, if anything it's counter-cultural these days. Like everything else in life, it's a choice. And there shouldn't be any judgement either way.

[@shea5542]

Great response

[@III-mu4yn]

After having done both. Being a stay at home mom is a lot harder than making money.

[@sipiwemutemwa9758]

Say it louder!

[@lqstar]

I'm a stay-at-home mom. My children attend a private college prep school and the vast majority of mothers are stay-at-home moms. We put so much into our children and homes so our husbands can work hard to provide.

[@littlebeluga2537]

Your comment is backwards to me. I think your husband works hard to provide so you can put effort into your children and homes

[@carolynwebb8726]

Mom's need to be with kids, we see what happens when mom don't have time for kids. Women need financial support and emotional support so finding a good guy is important if you go this route. Woman are better off not having a man's kids and house work to slave away and be broke when kids are grown and husband retires nicely or leave them for someone young and fresh. FT

[@Yosoydom]

@@littlebeluga2537I agree. The sahm role is very important but it can’t be done without the man’s initiative to provide for his family.

[@kfrb1]

​@@littlebeluga2537it's a partnership. These wives help their husband continue to progress. That is unspoken rule when these relationships are successful.

[@She_lives_in_color]

@@littlebeluga2537no I think she meant what she said. She’s taking care of home and kids so he can go out and focus on working knowing that’s taken cared of

[@ShiLoveee]

Please do this with median earners and low income earners as well. I’m super curious now how much of a difference there will be.

[@leafsleafsleafs2]

good idea

[@whatrtheodds]

😂You know the answer. Low income be supporting the woman working. Stay at home is a luxury not all can afford. But yeah I'd love to see the interviews!!!!

[@monaeperry6069]

A lot of time in these situations the women are the breadwinners smh

[@FernandaPegueros-f1b]

Right low income has to go to work there is no way to stay home wife I'd say this is for rich

[@KathleenMariee]

Way different because they can’t afford crap lol. They can’t afford to have a woman period

[@jwillusion9448]

Love the first guy (the contractor/builder). He had it all together including his business, family, health, etc. We need more men in this country to think similar to him and build strong families and have strong character.

[@bcollins745]

He was also highly insecure.

[@jasminealexia]

Amen! My sentiments exactly! We need more like him

[@viviennedunbar3374]

@@bcollins745well for a highly insecure man he is fine and very masculine.

[@Conservative_carnivore]

Why does everybody say we need better men but nobody says we need better women when 75% of women are overweight, have 8 sexual partners and earn 45k in their prime working years. Sounds like we need a lot more better women too.

[@myronbourne6937]

@@bcollins745 cope

[@2171702]

Masculinity has to be earned and femininity needs to be protected ❤️... Wow wow

[@abbyweitz7011]

People don’t actually realize how much work being stay at home is kudos to the trader

[@user-fz2yp1ig9w]

That one guy said ,” she brings home the stress from work , it’s not worth it “ Thank you , you are so right,!!

[@dinajones2761]

Hopefully those kids don’t put their parents in a nursing home

[@LowSlungBadBitch]

@@dinajones2761 their parents are well off so they will retire early and live freely until they pass. No retirement home necessary.

[@VBoo459]

That doesn't mean anything at all. Many people put their parents in a care home when they start to suffer neurodisorders with age. So its not about "living freely", you need to wake up. I know wealthy people who were put in a care home because they were mentally aging (not their choice!) and in the end that was selfish of the children. SO, your response doesn't mean a thing.@@LowSlungBadBitch

[@rose-yeah]

We know but we also know that danger of that .

[@kittykattmcgee6375]

I was a stay at home wife for 12 years. My advice for all women make some sort of income. Don't give up on your passions. You don't know what the future holds. I didn't believe in divorce. Now I am divorced and left with nothing. Back to square one with 3 kids. If you are a stay at home mom and people tell you don't go back to school, don't do this or that don't listen just do it for yourself and your family. I know some women don't need this advice and have a great relationship or whatever. You just have to be smart and think about the what if's. I didn't think about the what if's. Actually I did think of the what if's I just didn't take head to my intuition and go after what was going to help me in the future. Anyway, hope the best to everyone. XOXO

[@msadventure49]

You have a great point. And, not only divorce, but, what if the husband dies? You need the other skills in that case also. Make sure he has life insurance, too.

[@kittykattmcgee6375]

@@msadventure49 I agree 💯!

[@marriejames01]

My friend was a stay at home wife for 10 yrs. Now she’s divorced and living off welfare. Her husband was in the housing market and hasn’t been much of an income to pay any support. She’s working temp when she can to build up her resume.

[@MsFirletka]

@@msadventure49 U're right!! 👏

[@mk_waterfalls3470]

Agreed, risk management thinking is necessary for contingency planning in life. Own your wealth and assets- leave more time for love, family and aspirations!

[@woofolliesmydog8628]

My father was a truck driver, we weren’t rich growing up, but he never wanted my mother to work. He said if a man can’t provide for his family, he’s not a real man. He just wanted a nice clean house, a hot meal and fresh clothes. He worked very hard to make sure we had what we needed.

[@MamaBulgaria]

amen

[@lazvegaz]

Your story got me teary-eyed

[@spolch9482]

He wanted a slave.

[@xmochix604]

@@spolch9482look at this broke joke. Probably gonna get married and make his wife work her ass off to support this loser

[@1user-2023]

😂lol damn bro ​@@spolch9482

[@paulyshore4president]

7:21 lol I like how he names nursing and teaching as “low stress jobs” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@bevturner2258]

He has no clue😂

[@BereniceValde-ze6kz]

He probably means like sterophical femine jobs

[@vikakovachyk]

Well, it's even more stressful having to solve hard problems with your brain as an engineer and so on

[@lauragreaser3461]

I thought the same thing. Eyeroll

[@emrej2527]

Yeah wtf and if she wants to do “more than that” YIKES

[@reneefletcher1143]

I was a stay at home mom for 8 years. We ended up divorcing & it set me back in the career field for a few years…but I still have ZERO regrets. That was the best thing for my kids at the time & money comes and goes, regardless. I’d still much rather budget and be at home vs trying to juggle a job, kids, the home & a man..only to be completely frazzled & not the best “me” for my family.

[@gailainsley6939]

Why didn’t you have something in place incase of a divorce? Like alimony or something?

[@myurbangarden7695]

​@@gailainsley6939Alimony is only granted 10% of the time. Also it is for a finite time period. It's easy for me to skip out on alimony and child support. It is a very sad reality.

[@GoldenWave]

@@gailainsley6939 When you're trying to keep your marriage and family together, sometimes the last thing you're worried about is planning for alimony "just in case"-- sometimes you're just trying to hold it together and putting all your eggs in the only basket you have and hope for the best.

[@Lavenderrose73]

​​@gailainsley6939 Maybe because people generally don't plan on getting divorced? Women are generally not at the altar saying "I do," while thinking about how they can survive a failed marriage. You have a lot of audacity, shaming that person for not being prepared for something like that!

[@Lavenderrose73]

I'm sorry your marriage fell through; I'm glad you were able to pull through for yourself and your children, though.

[@ykk239]

I have been a stay at home wife and mom for many years. It benefits our whole family and I enjoy it so much. I have a college degree and am a linguist, but my true joy is in making our home a soft place to fall. We have budgeted carefully and made sacrifices and it has paid off well.

[@alanakasem1723]

i like that 'a soft place to fall'...i can visualise your home is so welcoming for your family

[@dtor2048]

who can deny when you are "Team Family" your totally there to serve the family and make life better. I think a good wife is "more valuable than rubies"!

[@Leathergirl76]

Not to be argumentative, but why were you the one who had to sacrifice your career? Not saying there is anything wrong with being a SAHM but your degree and skillset are nothing to sneeze at why walk away from it?

[@ykk239]

@@Leathergirl76 that's a great question. I worked in corporate America for a few years, but was so excited to be a full time mom and wife after I had children. To be honest, I had always dreamed of being a homemaker but also loved studying languages and studying abroad. It worked well that my husband supported my hopes and it was a marriage of like ideals. My children have done very well in school as I enjoy encouraging them academically. Using my affinity for creative outlets has been so fulfilling in my home. I hope that you have a wonderful weekend and I appreciate the question.

[@Leathergirl76]

@@ykk239 Thank you for answering so thoughtfully. It’s really refreshing to see things from this perspective

[@chrissysolorio3565]

As a mother and a wife I was blessed to stay home until the youngest was 12, then I just worked part time. Thank you to all those who help mothers make that happen 👏

[@evarkf]

Thanks for this. I feel less guilty as being stay home mom for past 10 years, my youngest is 10.

[@pamstein1556]

Being a stay at home mum is fine. Until the point of divorce.

[@sleepingrogue4130]

It’s so funny how some of these women get trapped in this mentality then every single day you see them on Reddit. Husband cheated, husband left, now they’re depressed and clueless.

[@pastelmoon9118]

until he start to cheat, being violent, wanting to get rid of you so he can get 19 y old to sexually exploit * cycle repeat

[@mtnewman2001]

That’s right! You must get out there and work !

[@s_mr7302]

That’s the scary part

[@dalecarson645]

75% of divorces are initiated by women; 90% if she is college educated. So your whole narrative is a red herring.

[@BisongArtGallery]

Business owners said they prefer stay at home wife or whatever she wants. Employee said he needs help, she should work. Interesting 🤔

[@Victoria-ox4dc]

Cool 😊

[@ME-js5hd]

Good observation!

[@DwainWilsonJr]

How is that a interesting. It's no secret that that's how life works... that's why there's classes... trouble with these days, nobody wants to accept and be content where they are anymore... it's all about reaching until you get to the sky... well what if you just simply not meant for that

[@JesusChrist-n9k]

Bc employees don't understand "investing." A good wife is a high value investment. Mind you, I said a "good wife." Studies have shown men with a stay at home wife out earn men without one with the same exact qualifications. Having someone take care of your daily needs, so you can focus on work is a high value asset to have. Not to mention the constant emotional and physical support. It's priceless, really. 🙏

[@kwilson4125]

@user-vd2ph7rg9f Well said. People are resistant to learning new concepts. They want to reap the benefits of what other people are doing but they aren’t willing to try the things that those people do that contribute to their success . If you emulate successful people, you become more successful. Stubborn people stay stuck.

[@linziee.8651]

I was a substitute teacher for a few years loved working with the kids but the politics sucked. Decided to stay home until our youngest went off to College but researched and invested in Real Estate. Our forever home in a great neighborhood was foreclosed on. We paid a little over 400k for it and it peaked at $1.2 million. We also invested in a home at the beach that has more than doubled in price in 5 years. Also Invested in crypto early. Have been a Stay at home wife for years now. Have hired professionals for our two homes and done a fair amount of work myself like painting rooms, sanding, staining floors and replacing light fixtures. I’m now CEO of our non profit that helps houseless populations in our city-on the ground and out in the highways and byways.

[@pauljohn6017]

toxic feminism will destroy the west. Make your woman stay home.

[@Victoria-ox4dc]

Wow 😲

[@ladybug3380]

How did you start your non profit. I have an idea for one but idk where to start.

[@candyluna2929]

That's a biblical woman right there she seeks to enrich and enlarge that of her family. So while your husband was working you were also learning and bettered what you could. I love this! I admire you.

[@bossladymsp2885]

Congratulations! This is a truly inspiring post!

[@samuelabebe1354]

Update: The general consensus is that high net worth men ($1M+) prefer stay at home mothers. Lower net worth men prefer a woman with a stable career. There are exceptions to every rule, for example religious or cultural ones, where men are traditionally the workers/breadwinners for the family and the mothers are the home makers, and rear the children up or (homeschooling). The other exception would be the age of the couple, and/or if they do not have any children yet.

[@mizzmolly7649]

As long as the family isn't struggling to make ends meet, which creates stress in the home.

[@dustinryan9671]

I make under $500k a year my wife has always been home.

[@dustinryan9671]

​@@mizzmolly7649it's the mans responsibility to take care of the money no matter what that is our burden to bare.

[@mizzmolly7649]

@@dustinryan9671 He said net worth, not income. Theoretically, you could make just 45k and still have a net worth of 500k, depending on how you've invested.

[@klopcodez]

Only about 1% of people make 400k and if we get to 1million that’s like 0.0010% of the population…you must live under a rock to not call 200k a year plus high net worth

[@brigittelee9730]

I’m impressed with how supportive and respectful these men are. My husband doesn’t make enough for me to have been a stay at home mom but always wished he did.

[@sarita5572]

My husband asked me to leave my job to be a full time house wife. I gladly said yes. I LOVE to serve my husband and family. I LOVE being his helpmate in this life. ❤

[@dorino9057]

To each their own

[@HH-kg4fq]

That is because he makes it EASY for you. Real men who are truly capable will make it EASY for the woman to say yes.

[@sweetness_k]

I love it gud for you!

[@AnnM0824]

That’s wonderful! May I ask, was it difficult for you to leave your job? At least in the beginning? My wonderful husband lovingly offered for me to quit my job a few years ago, but I have a fear that ppl would either shame or judge me… haven’t been able to make the jump.

[@Fitmom312]

@@AnnM0824You should do it if you want to! It's your life, not theirs. :)

[@elishamartin6042]

Dude. I'm a women in the field of architecture. It's a very demanding intense field. I work from home full time. The stress it causes me to have at home is real. As a woman it's so hard not to involve your emotions in your job. Also the amount of work you have to do with young kids is tremendous. Doing both can really break a woman. I'm trying to pull myself together as we speak and not sure how. This is a real conversation that needs to be had. It's really hard being a career woman and take care of the home. It's like working two full time jobs. Even if you work from home like me. Especially if your career is intense like architecture.

[@InspiredByEbonyLove]

Hire some help!! So you don’t have to focus on the mundane tasks

[@shereeburks9549]

Agree!!

[@ginam2817]

You have several options babe… Daycare while you’re on the clock to allow you to focus if your kid(s) are not school age yet. Hire a cleaning service to come in several times a month to help maintain your home, and take a mandatory 30 minutes of solitude after work everyday to wind down. You’ll be surprised at how much better you feel after decompressing. Also, if you have a separate office in your home that you work in, close the door when you sign off from work. If you don’t have an office buy a room divider to put in front of your workspace; so that you don’t have to stare at it each time you walk past it..

[@khadejah.moussa4430]

The truth is. It is impossible to do both well. Something has to give. And I really do believe feminism has ruined society telling a women she can do both we cannot our bodies are not made like mens bodies we cant handle high pressure jobs for extend amounts of times and we go through so many hormonal changes in a week let a lone a whole month.

[@fitwithbrittany2706]

Women can’t help but to make their job their baby

[@CaitlinWoodstock]

As a couple’s therapist I don’t think I could be in a relationship where, if it (the relationship) went away, I wasn’t set up to earn on my own. If I had a husband who earned enough where I could stay at home I’d happily do it but would never stop studying the science of psychology, painting, writing, and engaging with my passions.

[@Sarinarinarina]

My ideal life would be a SAHM with a money making hobby! I’ll get a job if sh*t goes down. Thankfully I keep my savings account where it’s at no matter what in case of a divorce. (Single mom rn but hopefully a SAHM eventually)

[@jorjapeach2068]

I so agree with this !!

[@ebonywilson1999]

I’m with you on this completely! I would want to be in unity with my husband while also having the ability to be independent.

[@andreanease4215]

You’re going in to a relationship with a lack of trust and expecting failure. The only thing that ends marriage is death. Have life insurance, and don’t let divorce be an option. I can’t imagining marrying someone thinking it may not work. Red flag to begin with!

[@quackhead8938]

What kind of self respecting two testicle having man goes to see a radical feminist for couples therapy lmao

[@dreaarc1]

I always thought I wanted to support myself on my own but god had other plans. I grew up around only modern women who worked and had busy jobs and careers so I never realized there was another option. I just knew no matter how hard I tried I couldnt fit that mold. I’m a housewife that homeschools my son, takes care of my beautiful and demanding 1 year old. I cook, clean, organize, laundry, and in my free time I love to workout and do yoga. My husband loves me dearly and after 15 years together our love has elevated and grown as well as our respect and admiration for one and other. He loves to spoil me and takes pride and joy in supporting me and our children. 🥂

[@DistractedDaisy]

Heidi is a lucky lady and he is the man everyone should emulate. Total respect to that family.

[@klopcodez]

She’s not lucky she earned it..they met when both had no money

[@viviennedunbar3374]

@@klopcodezthat’s true. We have been happily married for 27 years and got married 12 months after meeting when we were in our 20s. I have a degree but was happy to be a SAHM as my husband’s job was very demanding and I didn’t want our kids to never see us if we were both working. They never went to daycare. When they were teens I went back to school and am now a Master Esthetician. Where I work our straightforward facial is $350 and services add up from there. Men may be unaware but even young girls in wealthy areas doing waxing are making over $100k a year. As they can do a waxing service in 15 minutes and make $100 and up for that 15 minutes. There is a lot of money in the beauty industry, I am surprised he doesn’t speak to more female entrepreneurs in that area, because I am sure there are a lot of businesses catering to 50% of the population (women) who are making incredible amounts under the (male) radar. I make a lot of money and I choose to work part-time.

[@DistractedDaisy]

@@klopcodez 39 people didn’t think this was negative and i didn’t mean it negatively!!!!! But you are very correct! That’s your point right! Plus yes she is lucky she met a good man… so many meet the wrong man! As a matter of fact he’s lucky too!

[@DistractedDaisy]

@@klopcodez and yes she is lucky and so is he! They each could have met a negative Nelly!

[@klopcodez]

@@DistractedDaisy There is no luck here these folks are blessed who have worked hard. The fact they met when they had nothing shows you that this was a true relationships based on genuine intentions with that being said she earned it and so has he…But life could have turned in a different way as well and they wouldn’t have much money but they would probably be still together even without money and that’s a genuine relationship

[@the5thhouse_]

Im an RN, recently divorced. I just had this conversation last night (literally not even 24hrs ago) with a group of other professional women who basically shamed me for saying I would give up my career as a nurse if my new man wants me to when I meet him. This group of "energetically masculine" beautiful women, literally shamed me for saying I'm okay with my job being the feminine nuturer and allowing him to lead. I was going back and forth about that conversation this morning and VOILA! I magically manifest this channel I never seen on my feed before, with a video discussing the very topic! Thank you thank you thank you for the synchronicity and the confirmation! I am deeply grateful 🙏 ❤

[@joelrojas1236]

The law of attraction

[@lakeishagraham753]

I'm a registered nurse too and will be leaving my job next year when I get married.

[@chrisharris2367]

it's not something that is typical in this society and there's alot of risk with quitting your job marriage is also not what it used to be, and I think that's why they are saying that unfortunately most women get more faithfulness and consistency from their job than their husband I also know what you are going through; I am going through something similar at this point I'm trying to figure out how to be my own bob the builder and build my own bag I hope you find that good provider man though; I believe black women deserve to be taken care of just like every other race of women

[@themiseducationoftheameric7407]

Surround yourself with other women who "ARE" who you want to become, or "WANT" to become what it is your looking to be in the future. Surround yourself with other feminine woman, and you'll get scooped up quick! But you gotta leave certain people behind and leave certain people alone.

[@PageTurnerr__]

Your phone listens to your conversations, that’s why this video popped up in your feed. All mighty KZbin algo is always listening

[@insightinspiration9922]

Guess what, a stay at home wife relies entirely on her husband for anything. Her phone subscription, her car, her clothes. She needs his money for everything, even the most basic needs. Try to get away from an abusive partner when you don’t own anything on your name and don’t even have an individual bank account that your spouse doesn’t have access to. Off course stay at home wives are a convenient asset to rich men but from a woman’s perspective it’s a huge risk and if a relationship turns bad (cheating, abuse etc), these women turn a blind eye and keep up with the bad situation because they practically cannot leave (and the husband knows it). The first man in the video even said it out loud in full honesty. For some this constellation works well and I don’t want to generally condemn it, but it also puts women in a very vulnerable spot …. It depends I guess.

[@leveragelunchbreaklive]

This makes a GREAT case for why marriage has to be ordained by the one that created it. All the what ifs in your passage clearly highlight why it would be a sacrifice for a woman to be a SAHW or SAHM. It requires trust in the one(s) you consider yourself accountable to. I am accountable to God, furthermore my husband would also have to be as well. In the best world, we would both have a mutual circle of "accountability partners" in our faith that would be able to "check" us (in a healthy way) so that the chances of abuse and manipulation are drastically reduced or all together eliminated. SAHW or SAHM does not equate non income earner, it more than often means that you report to "work" from home. Albeit investor, content creator, author, etc, in ADDITION to house duty (if the woman so chooses). Most importantly, one must understand who originated marriage (meaning WHO originated the first marriage EVER) because that same being must be forever centered in ALL marital decisions. Don't we always consult the MANUFACTURER when our materials malfunction??!! Why aren't more marriages accountable to the MANUFACTURER? Faith and Sacrifice is a MUST!!! I agree with men who understand God's order for a home. Blessings y'all!

[@IrisP989]

That is messed up. A stay at home mom should definitely be on the home’s title and have a back account with money that the husband transfers into (if it’s financially possible of course).

[@Fitmom312]

Do you think a man would want his wife to stay with him because she's forced to? I think by and large they'd prefer a willing participant. I understand why women are concerned, but it doesn't make sense to me that women should settle for their plan B (working and being more masculine/not letting a man lead) because plan A (being a SAHM/wife) is too risky. If you're concerned, you can always set yourself up in your VERY early 20s to have a career to fall back on, but women are most desirable to men around age 22 so it makes sense to be looking for a husband around that time and not focusing on career.

[@ItsWhoIAmItsHowILive]

@@Foomanlolactually that’s not true. In my field, if you been out for a minute we can tell. Man or woman, they’re usually a train wreck.

[@ItsWhoIAmItsHowILive]

@@FoomanlolI’ve seen old dudes come back and fold immediately.

[@lorigonzalez1200]

The guy in the blue jacket at 7:03 in this video he is amazing. He speaks the truth. Women are not wired to go out in the work field. It causes us to be too stressed out because that’s not what we were made for you. want a happy marriage you keep her home and you keep her wealthy, healthy, and satisfied.

[@Biscuitflipper]

It seemed like there was a common theme where you heard the men that made enough money to support the family by themselves prefer their women to stay home while the children were being raised. Then after the children were old enough to do their own thing mom could pick a career that she always wanted to do. This seems like a very good plan

[@sammygotham]

Perfect

[@jules8910]

I agree. However, one of the first steps in taking down a country is to destroy the family, so as they caused the cost of living to raise, more taxing, the oncoming of the early “women’s movement”, combined with our growth in materialism, the average couple needed a 2 income home and women didn’t have a choice. It’s refreshing to find these attitudes, but as noted, these are wealthy men.

[@Biscuitflipper]

@@jules8910 yeah well now we're starting to get into the realm of all the ideological subversion that they started implicating on the people around World War 2. I believe one of the first pieces of propaganda that they put out like that was the old World War 2 poster of the woman wearing the bandana where she was flexing her muscle. That was about the time they started pushing the angle of getting women to go to work. That being compounded with the devaluation of our money makes for a challenging situation. I was actually watching a video about an old Pontiac concept car that never made it to production. One of the things that I noticed in the video that threw me off and was distracting me for the rest of the video was, at about two minutes into the video they talked about how in 1956, Pontiac brought in some new faces to reinvent the brand and they started competing in NASCAR and other things like that. Well one of the people that they hired got hired at an impressive $16,000 salary, which they said today in 2023 would be equivalent to $180,000. So back in 1956 the average man with a career like that could afford to pay for a home in full within three to five years. // Here is the video about the car if you wanted to look at it: kzbin.info/www/bejne/i36ZdmChos59mas

[@songsofhealing777]

True, but by the time the kids are grown, the mom will be most likely too old to start a new job with no experience.

[@LowSlungBadBitch]

@@songsofhealing777 that’s your own limiting belief and it’s just not true. Especially because the husband has great connections.

[@Sugamama0216]

This is beautiful. I was a stay at home wife for 5 years with my late husband while we tried to start a family, when he unexpectedly passed away, I very easily re-entered the work force and was able to "fend for myself" for 10 years until I remarried. I am a working wife now, but my money is purely "my fun money" and can for sure say that staying home makes it easier to flow the feminine energy.

[@crystalzacarias1829]

​@@MarieRoque3985 are you honestly mocking a widow?

[@KBMac-tu2mg]

Are you white ?

[@chandilove3863]

I'm a stay at home mom and my husband works. I can tell you that we both WORK hard. I'm home with the children, 24/7 it does not end. Day and night, work. My husband works hard too but its different. He loves I'm at home, taking care of our kids, making sure I'm there when they are sick, there to take and pick up from school, incorporating our values in our children. You can not put a price on those things. We gladly sacrifice income to gice our children what matters most. I think having a parent at home is a wonderful balance that goes a very long way.

[@Uskayo]

You are wonderful and blessed

[@DJ-kt1ht]

You mention sacrificing income. What’s the annual income range your husband makes that allows you to be a SAHM?

[@NICOZAPATA]

A Nancy cost $15 usd/horas... bet your husband makes more.

[@anaivancevic7926]

@@chandilove3863 lady, if that works for u great, but it sounds like a nightmare to me

[@farmfam5]

Same here❤

[@winterbutterfly8861]

So far yellow t-shirt guy is the only one who cared for his partner's perspective, how it could be a sacrifice for her, showed appreciation for what she did for him and their family, didn't frame it as a "me, my needs, what I need, what I want" thing only and acknowledged everyone's different perspectives and unique situations. Good for you sir Edit. Some other guys had good perspectives too from that moment on

[@SandraUkleja-op6fw]

My mother was a-stay-at-home wife. My father was not rich, lower middle class, but still they both liked it that way. He loved the idea of his beautiful wife waiting on him to come home. When he came home, he wanted the appartement clean and dinner on the table. She was excellent in this. She was a shy and hypersensitive person who never fully overcame severe childhood trauma. She benefitted from his will to provide and protect her.

[@katherine777]

Beautiful ❤

[@2cswaeka]

❤

[@YataWellness]

😩🥹🥹🫶🏽

[@yenada]

This made me cry. Your mother's experience is very similar to mine.

[@WholeHeartily]

🥹🥰 I’m proud of them. That’s love

[@rachelann724]

My mom stayed at home and my father did really well financially but when we grew up he encouraged her to find hobbies and do things so she would be happier. He was the best father and I’m really lucky I also found a man who is successful and provides a good life so I can stay at home with our children. You really should try to show your children what to look for by living the life you want them to get themselves.

[@empresszoe9351]

Your dad sounds like a great guy. He actually cared about your mom's happiness as it should be when you love and appreciate someone.

[@katehudson6490]

So true!

[@Ww-nh9pl]

My dad opened his own business making over a million dollars a year by the time he was 34. He went to college but never used his degree. He was a water well driller working for his parents, he branched off and opened his own. It was back breaking work and I knew we grew up wealthy however I wasn’t aware just how wealthy we were until I was old enough to help with taxes. I was blown away by the numbers I was looking at. Seeing how much my parents were making made me want the same for myself as an adult so I asked him is there any advise for my own future career/business ventures. He said to follow your passions but if you want to make money money then to get into something (start for someone else and open your own) with things people need, not want. Things people need such as water, food, housing etc. best advice he ever gave me.

[@socialservice576]

Thank you for sharing.

[@pascalemwavaga9583]

Very respectful interviewer. Active listener and allowed speakers to express themselves freely. There were gentlemen who were a bit uncomfortable but his questions helped them open up.

[@texaslove915]

We need more men in this world like the first guy. Wow. "masculinity has to be earned and femininity needs to be protected." Well said.

[@asiaticamericanflower5476]

I used to work in office, then resigned after getting married.. I have been blessed with a wonderful husband.. been married for 14 years more to come.. love being a stay home wife and mom.. Yes I do love cooking, baking, sewing.. I cook healthy delicious food for my husband and kids.. We live happily and comfortably .. I'm so grateful for my husband.

[@thetoughgroup]

Love you, from husbands worldwide 😊

[@PEARLPediatricTherapyPLLC]

Before kids, I worked full time and weekend work. Have a masters degree. Worked in hospitals and clinics and worked up mgmt ladders. After kids, became an entrepreneur in same field to problem solve way to much more flexibility, more pay for my time, and in turn working less to be with my family and home more. Once kids come, priorities really shift toward home.

[@tinat5484]

I was laid off from my banking job and was not working for 8 months and was a stay a home mom. This was my day - make breakfast get kids out the door for school bus, laundry, shop, cook, take kids to activities or games, feed the family, homework, clean kitchen, put away folded laundry and do the same thing the next day. I found it boring and isolating but my husband was so happy. His life was easier and calmer.

[@Windarti30]

In my opinion, a housing market crash is imminent due to the high number of individuals who purchased homes above the asking price despite the low interest rates. These buyers find themselves in precarious situations as housing prices decline, leaving them without any equity. If they become unable to afford their homes, foreclosure becomes a likely outcome. Even attempting to sell would not yield any profits. This scenario is expected to impact a significant number of people, particularly in light of the anticipated surge in layoffs and the rapid increase in the cost of living..

[@AnnaFed015]

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[@Windarti30]

Sir John Desmond Heppolette's approach is crucial for succeeding in online commerce. His management group has been exceptionally effective. I also love his KZbin page.

[@backtoasimplelife]

And this has what to do with the video? What you are doing is called spamming.

[@AnaLucia-wy2ii]

It won’t be as bad as 2008 because banks at least have standards when they give out loans unlike in the early 200Os.

[@snowyblues777]

these bots are hilarious

[@zucha2019]

I'm a stay-at-home wife of 2 and pregnant with #3. I worked to provide for myself for 6 years before I met my husband and stopped working when I got pregnant. I always wanted to stay home and care for the children and the home so I am living my dream. Bonus is that my husband cooks everyday!!! ❤

[@buildingbuildercip8292]

As someone who earned over $300k before I retired…I prefer a stay at home woman. This allowed me to be 100% at work allowing me to always be at the top of my game. I never had to worry about the daily domestic issues.

[@minervarose7664]

As a successful career woman who enjoys her job and earns a pretty good salary, i also may consider staying back home sometime in the future. Not completely giving up my income but doing freelance work, for instance. But if me being home was a reason for my husband to be "100% at work" and "never worry about daily domestic duties" (which is a very real possibility i suppose) then i would feel isolated, alienated and ultimately, resentful. I'd much rather have a participative spouse than one who is just throwing his money at me and expecting me to be happy about it. If it was a case of money, i'd much rather be alone because i have no issue earning my own money. That's just me, of course.

[@buildingbuildercip8292]

@@minervarose7664 I can understand that. My x wife was and still is a career woman, and that works for her too. My girlfriend is the total opposite and was willing to happily leave her career, to care for the house, raise her young son and thank god…she is super traditional and a great cook. We now spend the majority of time together, and really are the best of friends. I am really grateful for having a woman like her. These are definitely the happiest days of our lives. Money is definitely important, but having a traditional woman is what makes every day that much brighter. I may not marry her, but she is definitely in my living trust and will.

[@claudiaring8934]

As someone who earns like that now I can be 100% at work and share household duties with my man who also runs his own business. I never need him to take care of everything to be at the top of my game and neither does he

[@mailmebaby555]

Children also need their dad in their lives. I was lucky to have mine take care of me when he did his masters degree, go to my school plays, read me bedtime stories. My mom stayed more but to say my dad was 100% all work? Nope, I never felt he was missing in my life and I wouldn't want my kids to have a dad that doesn't want to be "bothered" by domestic issues.

[@theb.o.a.t.8225]

I think the key is to bring value to your relationship and family. That can come in different shapes and sizes. Could be staying at home to watch the kids or teaching your kids how to be successful through business endeavors. There isn’t a particular role a man or woman should play when it comes to raising a family. It’s a join effort and you adjust based on your circumstances.

[@nebj1014]

Currently my husband makes way less than these guys but he totally supported my decision to stay at home when we had children. I work from home part time, but I know that my husband absolutely doesn't mind fully supporting his family❤

[@dakiller5957]

What does he do for a living

[@kimclark399]

Something to think about is when we first had kids my husband barely made enough to make it work for me to stay home. Over time, because he was able to focus on his job w/o distractions and stay late/go in early, etc. because I was always with the kids is what got him promotions and led him to be where he is now in his job. To all you other at home moms out there, this is a huge part of why your husband can do his job and why you shouldn't feel "guilty" for being home. Even if my husband had not advanced, I still believe me being home was the right thing.

[@lisarichardson2812]

Same!

[@peggymutabaruka241]

Great to see the men understand & appreciate their stay at home mons. Someone has to raise children, & have a lovely home .

[@AmberColeman-gq1wn]

Fathers don’t raise children?

[@peggymutabaruka241]

@@AmberColeman-gq1wn they do too.

[@berrymckockiner5883]

Wmn need to be a vrgn, fit and under 25, should stay sngle. It's slim pickings for high value men

[@anatoliagolden-hall4553]

@@berrymckockiner5883I’ll bet you typed your comment with Cheeto-encrusted fingers.

[@saintamerican6105]

“If she gonna have a stressful job she gonna carry the stress home” I FELT THAT!

[@ecclairmayo4153]

But then he suggested women do the most stressful jobs on the planet: nursing and teaching😂

[@MrsAmyHopper]

Aaaaaaamen!

[@MariaMENDOZA-lr4rj]

Soooo true

[@klarrybarry4864]

But what about the husband coming home very stressed from HIS work? Has anybody thought about the fact that maybe he wants to stay home taking care of the children and cooking while the woman go working and earningthe money?

[@Missnoemit]

​@@klarrybarry4864that's not natural, men are built for hard work more than women. Being a mom and homemaker isn't easy but it's where a woman thrives better. A man is not meant to be at Home and do a woman's work

[@brutalhonesty5699]

Its nice to know that all these high-value men prefer great stay-home wives, and understand that most 9 to 5 jobs really drain most women and make us detach from our femininity and domestic things.

[@inezilona3094]

9-5 + cooking cleaning taking care of children + dont forget unpaid overtime

[@micheleleverett8575]

I had my own cleaning business and I was a single parent mom I met a man and long story short got married when my son was nine my husband wanted me to be a stay-at-home mom so that's what I did. It was the best thing that ever happened to me and my family.

[@ljones9841]

As a working wife and mom, God has given me a purpose to do other things besides being at home. It does not mean I’m not a great wife, mom, or feminine. Also, I’ve heard many stories of stay at home moms husbands leaving them and they have nothing. They have to get a job but don’t have experience so can’t make much to support themselves.

[@marisoljackson2369]

This was a great video. Personally i have been married for 34 yrs. We have 4 grown children now. We did decide it was best to quit my job as an insurance adjuster to stay home and raise our first son. After that it was a no brainer to continue to stay home to raise the others. I did go back to work later after my oldest was 13 but i work from home so it was like the best of both worlds. As your children get older i think its good for them to see mom work and come to know her as something more than just a caregiver. My oldest son has a baby daughter and his wife if blessed to work from home and has someone come into the home a couple days a week to help out and my other son has a son and his wife stays home 100% to care for their baby. I hope and pray my 2 daughters will be blessed to be able to stay home when they have kids. It’s important today more than ever to raise your own children and strengthen the bond.❤

[@Lucky-gk7ez]

Too bad your husband cheats on you. 😅

[@rachelthis4295]

@@Lucky-gk7eznah it’s too bad that no one loves you so you have to resort to trolling decent people on KZbin for a little scrap of attention.

[@truehappiness4U]

Selfish, because they don’t have a good connection with their father now. Better both parents to work less to take care do the children. Not only one gender

[@Psychiatricnerd]

@@Lucky-gk7ezwow projecting much. Insecure perhaps.

[@girlwiththecurlyfro2552]

Congratulations on your 34 years of marriage and family ❤ you both set great examples for your children .

[@Akipaver]

I am a mother of three, and I helped my husband build his business. I wanted my own thing mainly because of my own pride, so I went back to work, and after three years, I am back as a stay at home mom helping my husband. I learned that it's definitely nice to be your own woman, but it's way nicer to be in my femininity and take care of my home and my family. I love it and I hope every woman that reads this pays attention to this video. Your kids want you home, making it a place filled with love. Of course, if you need to help your husband provide, then definitely provide. Women are so savvy that we can literally do anything we put our minds into.

[@NickeyVamp]

As a SAHM who lives in San Diego CA most men here would prefer to have their women stay at home to care for the kids and house. Hubby is an engineer and even though I have an education as well we chose to go this path, we wanted to raise our 6 kiddos in a positive environment and without strangers.

[@lindas.7083]

Good for you! Your kids are better off for it.

[@rosewatersweettea]

Wonderful!

[@_briesofia]

You’re living my dream lol

[@desdior1207]

I always wanted to move to San Diego

[@sonderexpeditions]

6 kids? Makes sense. I read an article about wealthy moms having the most kids.

[@viaankaur9043]

Being a good stay at home mom is the hardest job I have ever done. I changed every single diaper and went to every meeting and cleaned every throw up by myself. It is way harder when the man takes advantage and thinks his job is done when he walks in the door. My kids are mow 17 and 18 and I still only get 4 hours of sleep a night, but I have awesome kids who know they are loved and protected.

[@whatwhat9004]

How long does it take to clean up some vomit, maybe 10 seconds. And even then that kind of task is temporary and not an everyday thing. Having the ability to be a “stay at home” is as lucky and privileged as it possibly gets and still some of you complain. Smdh

[@camelio10]

You must be the laziest mother on planet Earth. Cleaning up vomit and going to school meetings? These are the examples you share for living a hard life. Unless your husband is a minimum wage earner, he's bringing way more value than cleaning up some vomit

[@DwainWilsonJr]

​@whatwhat9004 A lot of ppl, women in particular are afraid of hardwork these days... my mom and her mother... LOVED it.. lol

[@klopcodez]

Cooking and cleaning is the only hard part once the kids grow up to teenagers but if your changing diapers then you certainly need help with some stuff

[@whatwhat9004]

@@thegreat9481 Man stfu. You’re acting like I said something disrespectful. I’ve actually said the same thing with co-workers. So if you want to be hurt and offended by something like that then that’s on you.

[@Karagoldberg7]

I wasn't financial free until my 40’s and I’m still in my 40’s, bought my third house already, earn on a monthly through passive income, and got 4 out of 5 goals, just hope it encourages someone's that it doesn’t matter if you don’t have any of them right now, you can start TODAY regardless your age INVEST and change your future! Investing in the financial market is a grand choice I made.

[@CharlesWalker-jb1yl]

yeah investment is the key to sustaining your financial longevity but venturing into any legitimate Investment without a proper guidance of an expert can lead to a great loss too

[@Dukaamoses]

wanted to trade, but I got discouraged with the market price fluctuations

[@Dukaamoses]

Can you recommend a guide for me?

[@LeeWalton6]

When I saw testimonies all over the place I thought it was all made up stories till I was convinced and gave it a try and honestly I don't regret the move i made because I invested in a big way

[@pinkyfrosted6769]

I appreciate this even more so after watching and seeing the hate towards Harrison Butkers commencement speech! I’ve been a stay at home wife for 4 years now! I graduated college, worked as a TA for a few years then went to corporate for several and now that I’m a stay at home wife, I am so much happier! I never would have done it with anyone before even though it was my dream, but my husband has made me feel secure and has supported it! I still have my own separate bank account but I never touch it (unless it’s gifts for him for holidays/birthdays/anniversaries)! He puts money in my account just so I have it and he thinks I deserve it bc I wake up and have his breakfast ready, coffee and lunch packed, dinner ready at 6:30, house is always tidy, cozy and warm, laundry always complete and I am as he calls “a pure joy” to be around! Blessed to be a tradwife🥰🙏

[@courtneybrattain1190]

My grandfather always said a man's job is to make a living and a woman's job is to make life worth living. I absolutely loved the first guy!

[@CalixLuv]

Love that 💗

[@zainabkhan2179]

Wow

[@rebecaanderson1935]

Pay attention on this girls! The guy who said he wants a women who makes money too because nowadays if you want to enjoy life you need two incomes. He obviously don’t make enough for his women to stay at home, and he didn’t talk about children just about enjoying the good things of life. The truth is, broke men who don’t see as his responsibility to provide for a family, an probably don’t even want kids, those are the ones who want the girl bosses. What kind of men do you want? All the other guys who had children and made good money prefer women to stay home or to have a flexible job. I like the one who talked about the stress that it brings to the relationship when both work full time. Those men also want a women who have time to take care of themselves, physically and emotionally.

[@Beesha_E]

Yes unfortunately a lot of black men have this mentality. Hence the rise of so many of us black women and others who choose to date them having the mindset of independence. It's nice to be able to rest in your feminine sometimes.

[@Empathy_17]

😂😂😂women and their obsession to call men broke when they are the ones advertising themselves to get someone to fund their lifestyle. As a woman it’s your responsibility to work and contribute something tangible in your home not just be an expense

[@thetoughgroup]

​@@Empathy_17Facts. I encourage my stay at home wife to develop a business based on her skillset. I look forward to enjoying the success with her 😄🥂 Contributing to the family finances and investments doesn't automatically mean a 9 to 5 on the clock job. It's about building and growing legacy. It's chess not checkers.

[@mayataylor5743]

Making 200k and he is broke. The Delulu . 200k is plenty but maybe not a fancy like with kids

[@mahabilal3222]

The men who want SAHMs are also in the top 1% of earners.. the system is designed to grow the gap between the wealthy and poor. nowadays even $200k isn’t enough to provide for a whole family, even though it’s a salary that most Americans would never see. doesn’t mean he’s broke.

[@natashamatlock2502]

I’m not sure if you noticed a lot of wealthy men look for teachers and nurses! Key words caring, patient and empathy! Many teachers find a good husband who is wealthy or well off and they stop teaching. I saw this at my sons school over the last few years! Go teachers and nurses

[@berrymckockiner5883]

Fellas avoid nurses like the plague, they're for the streets

[@The-Oneness11]

Also a teacher values education and as a result she will effectively educate their children.

[@Jazzrib]

Nurse here who is married to a successful lawyer. I don’t have to work anymore if I don’t want to.

[@ProudCanadian-vv6bk]

​@The-Oneness11 Nurses must have an undergrad degree at minimum, where I am from. Nurses value education at least as much as teachers. Learning is a lifelong goal. Thankfully, all of our children have multiple degrees. They will tell you that the fact we got involved and encouraged them, as well as looking for opportunities outside of school influenced their choices.

[@tinamaynard2691]

I have always longed to be a stay at home mom/wife. Unfortunately I married a loser, supported the family for 20 years, then divorced him. He went to jail and here I am a single working mom. But I will marry me a man some day that can support me and I will be the best stay at home woman for him.

[@km987]

I happily gave up a high flying job to stay home and look after my kids. Unfortunately, after 8 years we could no longer manage on a single income and I went back to work. My relationship with my husband and kids was so much better when I was at home. I had time and energy to take care of the home, exercise, build supportive relationships with other women, and help out in the community. The difference now is that I am tired and stressed out all the time from having to commute, be a boss at work, put in the hours to complete with men who have stay at home wives taking care of them and still try to be a good wife and mom, maintain my friendships, take care of my appearance and look after my parents. It’s just too hard to do it all, I am worn out, and my husband and I are always bickering over who should do what. My kids are always asking why I can’t be a stay at mom like their friends moms who are there for them after school, take them to activities, cook nice dinners and are way less tired and grumpy. I try to avoid answering as I don’t want to shame their dad who doesn’t earn enough for us to afford this luxury.

[@FreedomofSpeech865]

I hope with all the remote work opportunities that maybe you can shift to work that fits your lifestyle and priorities!

[@emilyarocho]

It's just too much!! And then how are we supposed to have energy for sx???

[@breannaneville4332]

I was a full time nurse until I had my son. Now I'm a full time mom and we wouldn't want it any other way. We see how much benefit there is for me raising our kids.

[@faerydae29]

Until he divorces you and you’re out in the street

[@ohsweetsummerchild5141]

@@faerydae29 She's a nurse, she definitely won't be out in the street! 😂 It's one of the most stable and essential jobs.

[@DianaAndersonClarke]

​@faerydae29 okay what's the name of the guy who left you? Go talk to a therapist and not be jealous of other women

[@lelavic6578]

Yes yes yes 👏🏽 Masculinity needs to be earned, femininity needs to be protected! Where are these men at?

[@forward_ever_ever2595]

Already taken by good women & today fastly leaving for women who have strong traditional values.....your country laws have created very "entitled minded" females

[@stellaazubike5376]

They are taken..lol

[@jdemille79]

Not on dating apps or at the clubs. We're working.

[@jesusisking3814]

Jesus Christ wants a personal relationship with you through the Holy Spirit, not religion and blind faith. You see, we all have sinned and deserve punishment but God saved us from the eternal punishment of our sins by sending His Son Jesus Christ, fullness of God bodily, a perfect, sinless sacrifice to pay the penalty for our sins by shedding His blood on the cross. He died and rose from the dead so that we may have everlasting life. It is all finished and now for you to accept the free gift of grace you must believe from your heart in Jesus Christ, that He paid the price for your sins, that He is risen and alive. Don't trust in your own goodness but transfer your trust to Jesus and follow Him, get to know Him personally. By faith you will receive the Holy Spirit, become born again, know Jesus personally and He will transform your heart and clean you from the inside out. Believe in Him, read the Bible and pray for the Holy Spirit to fill you and change you, obey the Word. Much love and God bless you!

[@SB-gq7fp]

@@jdemille79 you say "we" but im pretty sure none of those men bitterly comment on youtube videos. The first person is right. THOSE men are taken. You wouldn't be on the market long if you were genuinely that guy..and they're probbaly too preoccupied with their women/ families after work to be watching something like this on youtube lol

[@nyag1764]

That first man! My goodness! Excellent advice and conversation.

[@PropheticDreamComics]

Haha! Being a nurse and a teacher are probably THE most stressful jobs ever right now! DEF wouldn't be a stress- free job for hypothetical wife, lol

[@itydity4743]

That guy was an idiot. "Women can be just as smart as men" oh wow thank you so much so annoying. It's the other way around buddy.

[@louvonianashay5164]

So true. I'm a nuse who is working on escaping the field and most I work with no longer want be a part of it. If you ask me, nursing is no longer a woman's game its now work cut out for a man.

[@HeavenlyHome_HealingHeart]

I think the way he was looking at it was if it’s something that she’s passionate about that helps others. I think he just said it in so little words.

[@sylwiapiatkiewicz8189]

Good point ;) but his intentions were in the 90's 😂

[@randomnyss2011]

Yes... Caring and catering to anyone is inherent to both of these professions... So, it is mentally very taxing...

[@victoriaspade]

Amen to this. Ladies we can rest in our femininity with the right man. It takes alot to run a household, take care of kids, and maintain our gorgeous looks. 🎉

[@ethiogirl310]

Absolutely!

[@carmenmich]

This was a great conversation, and it was a beautiful theme. It looks to me that most wealthy men prefer a stay at home woman. it’s true a woman that’s out in the workforce is going to have more stress. She’s going to be more in her masculine energy.

[@christajanelle]

3:18 I’m glad a man said it because when a woman says it it’s taken the wrong way

[@toyatv9130]

The 2nd guy being cut off 😂

[@sunshinedoesit8272]

😂😂 I laughed about that too 🤣

[@CWalthallBrand]

I bet dude went on a tangent😆😆😆

[@ddfelder2]

@@CWalthallBrandyou know he did 😂😂😂😂😂

[@sovka8394]

he ain’t wrong. if she’s pretty and she can cook. DEAL SEALED!

[@Yangmang]

He was going on the right direction though

[@ayasensei5709]

As a woman, it is risky not to have your own careers. Be independent even if your husband makes money. There is no guarantee in marriage that you would want to stay with the current partner.

[@mamabear558]

I married my husband right after he graduated college. He had nothing. He didn't even really have a job and didn't know what he wanted to do. But he was good looking, charismatic, kind, loving, good to me and worked four or five jobs to get himself through college. He did it all on his own so I knew he had a good work ethic. I wasn't sure what the future held as far as money goes but I believed in him and trusted that he could eventually provide. He's a traditional and godly man. He saw it as his duty to provide. 20 years later, He's making more than half a million per year. We live simply compared to what we could. The most important thing to him is that he had a stay-at-home wife and mother to our five kids. When we were having kids and I suggested that maybe I go back to work to help provide, he said absolutely not. Not in a controlling way... But he emphasized that it was literally his job and duty to provide everything for me and our kids and that he would take on five jobs if that's what it took to keep me home. He said he would not take the chance that strangers and daycare workers would raise our children. I thought that was really attractive. Things have worked out and I know that it's always a risk when women choose not to work for several decades, but whether a woman stays home or works, there's always a risk that things won't work out according to plan. I think there's this idea out there that stay at home wives don't have lives or hobbies or friends. I have all of those things, my husband just pays for it all and in return I take care of everything else from food to cleaning. It's a good life and I think the most masculine and attractive men are those who just want to provide it all. Just my two cents.

[@sophien5416]

I always say be upgraded not necessarily independent. Family is a unit.

[@xmochix604]

It’s people like you who’s never experience a devoted man. Did you even watch the freaking video? Stick with your job and keep working

[@FocusingOnChrist]

The only guarantee in marriage is that you will both have to work at it. The moment one party decides to stop trying, you’re done. But if both of you are willing to put the other person and the marriage above yourself, it’s wonderful.

[@ThatJew305]

So What’s your ONLYFANS page. I’ll help you work with my 2$ a month

[@rhyde0731]

Married young, stay at home and raise our 4 babies. It’s the greatest feeling in the world when you have joy and contentment in your marriage and family. Being home allows me to provide that to our environment. So grateful for my husband and how hard he works to provide for us. Can’t believe how much I love this life.

[@CBull015]

Same! I have so much joy being a homemaker! and when I had a career I never thought I would.

[@sunshinenday3439]

That is so understated! The ability to provide emotional support fully for the whole family takes a lot of energy. That energy cannot be provided by working full time! When you have one pouring into others 100% creating an environment for growth for both the husband and the kids.z

[@faerydae29]

Until he divorces you and you’re out in the street

[@dinahmokwana4884]

9:30 has a great mentally.i love how he appreciates his wife's sacrifice and doesn't feel entitled

[@mboriginale]

I love the guys who said both or they don’t care either way. It shows there is someone out there for everyone. Especially love the guy who acknowledged his wife’s sacrifice and said he was grateful.

[@LoveAndSnapple]

And I think that’s what a lot of women really want in the end. To be told that their efforts and sacrifices actually meant something and that is not just expected “women’s work“.

[@kthx1138]

Those guys are making enough money alone NOT to care either way.

[@ecclairmayo4153]

Bingo!🎯 The man at 17:02 is ideal. His answer is what women really need to pay attention to.

[@mboriginale]

@@kthx1138 which goes to show you the rest of em might be worried about the wrong thing

[@spicysith9627]

I worked for over thirty years, retired now with a very nice pension. I loooooooove being home, cooking, doing laundry and taking care of my daughter. It's great being home, knowing I can afford it.

[@mamachicken4602]

I'm not a millionaire but I'm in the upper middle class, so comfortable. My husband has been the provider. I can promise you one thing: you'll never be comfortable if you refuse to work. You have to be willing to work hard when you are in your 20's. Then you have to save your money so you can buy a business or make an investment. In order to save money, it would be good if you would live with relatives instead of wasting your money on rent. Be a good houseguest. Mow the lawn, pay the electric bills, wash the dishes. Then your relatives won't mind having you. Save $$$. Then in your 30's make some business moves.

[@Yosoydom]

Awesome advice. Currently in my 20’s now and I always tell my peers this. They think it’s time to travel and mess around bc we’re young and beautiful and won’t get this time back. I say it’s time to work because we’re young and healthy and won’t get this time back. The time for travel and being beautiful is when I’m older and can afford it 🫶🏽

[@TheTheg0]

Exactly!! 🔝I lived in my parents house, I studied, I worked, I saved. I run the family business and always I was feminine. In my late 20’s, men intimidated because they knew they had to provide more than average and that I had options, if I wanted. True Men don’t fear alpha women, little boys do. My husband don’t compete with me, we are teammates who support each other

[@lovelysmith275]

True, certain cultures especially Italian parents prefer you live with them forever to save money. Thankfully I have the type of parents that if I decided to move back home, my parents would never charge me or even ask me to do anything lol. I would still help if needed though.

[@mamachicken4602]

@@Yosoydom Very wise for your age. Even if you are working hard, you are still beautiful. People at work will notice your beauty and admire it. Just because you are young and beautiful doesn't mean you should travel and spend money. Keep your weight down and you will still be healthy and beautiful in your late 30's and 40's. In your early 30's, you will be building your business or investing. But all the while you are working hard or traveling or building your business, you can still be beautiful and healthy. While working, you may meet a nice gentlemen who also shares your goals and you can get married!

[@mamachicken4602]

@@TheTheg0 That's great!

[@master11manifestor]

My husband and I aren't wealthy but we are happy. He works long hours outside of the home and when he returns, he is welcomed by a clean house, home cooked meal, back/foot/other rubs & his children are cared for and educated to the best of my ability.

[@davidwollenberg1758]

Well what I got out of this video the guys that made the most money typically wanted stay-at-home wives. So the closer they got to real money they wanted stay-at-home wives.

[@themanifestorsmind]

And they didn't care what she brought to the table because they provide the table and everything on it. Her job is to make the table look good.

[@AuntieFairy]

Please don’t cut the guy off saying he wants a good cook. It’s the best part of this video. Can you do a part 2 and let him finish

[@realestudergroundsou]

exactly

[@DwainWilsonJr]

That's what I was thinking.. like, did he follow that up with something outlandish... 🤷‍♂️

[@Dymsx86]

I have a feeling he might have said something offensive and it was omitted.

[@zigalisjak]

hahah, the cut was funny initially, but I expected him to cut him back in at a later point and let the guy finish... the fact that he didn't made me dislike this shit.

[@kwilson4125]

@AuntieFairy He did abruptly cut out that guy mid-sentence when he said he wants a good cook. Maybe his comment was R rated. Lol

[@joyful1blessed1]

All of those were right on 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 My husband is a traveling nurse and working on starting his own business. While I’m a stay at home wife/mother of three children, who we homeschool. Having that ability is a blessing you don’t wanna take for granted.

[@owlfeathers6615]

Being a stay at home mom has definitely helped my husband with his promotions therefore helped our living situation. I understand not every household can rely on one income today. Respect to all mamas!

[@RGisselle]

Dang, I admire my mom. She was not a stay at home mom like ever. Dad had a very demanding job often traveling all over so she not only worked, she picked us up from school, cooked, clean… dad did not do anything domestic whenever he was home..mom was present, nurturing and literally did it all. Now both are retired (retired early) and in their mid 70s with more energy than any young person I know. We had nanny’s but after work my mom was pretty on it with us. She is AMAZING. Not knocking down any SAHM but I am just realizing just how much my mom did. My dad wanted my mom to stay at home, but she chose to do both. I love my mom.

[@sophien5416]

Your mom sounds awesome and your sense of gratitude for mom is wonderful. I think the challenge is when women don't have the privilege of choice. My mother was always a working mom but had no energy for domestic duties nor was emotionally supportive of her children. I had to step into the mother role at a young age for my siblings. No matter is a woman works, it's clear that a woman who is supportive in general plays an important role in the family.

[@alm8bob]

I have hope. I wish my kid will see this when he grows up. Thank you for this comment. You have no idea how this has helped me ❤

[@jasmineali5699]

Great you appreciate her but it sounds exhausting as a woman. Maybe if I never had to worry about bills and my husband was an amazing and supportive lover.

[@FarTooPrecious]

​@@sophien5416so true, it's a slightly different feel when you don't have a choice.

[@sarika9071]

Same was the case with my mom. I love her ❤️💪

[@patriciajoy23]

I’m a wife, and stay at home mom. My husband is the head of our household and it’s never going to change as long as we are still living.

[@IrisP989]

Would you become a part time working from home stay at home mom? We are in a very expensive area and everything is getting more expensive so I think that I should get a part time job in order to bring some income when the kids go to school. I would still be there for the kids.

[@Kingrjelix]

@@IrisP989yeah get the job me personally I wouldn’t want a lazy wife😂(disclaimer not calling you lazy)but also you gotta think about it like this what would you be doing if you didn’t have a husband to survive?

[@IrisP989]

In that case, I would not have had small kids to take care of (so not lazy and not just sitting around relaxing haha) and would have had a full time job in my country. Regardless, I wouldn’t be surviving. I would be just working and living my life.

[@faerydae29]

Until he divorces you and you’re out in the street

[@cipycipycipy]

This too shall pass

[@Ashley-id2cb]

Love everything they said was very mature and wise. It wasn't selfish or rude. They didn't view their wives as beneath them, they viewed their wives as their partners. ❤