SO HE WANTS TO MARRY YOU... | The Slumflower Hour podcast

[@svlrji]

We need a video on men that pretend to want marriage but are really using you as a placeholder. Especially in your early twenties. Just getting out of a 5 year relationship and it really threw me for a loop the shit I encountered towards the end.

[@yazmiynjones4930]

Same!!

[@chakydd]

THIS! 8 years and just left.. I'm a damn fool. May we all heal, forgive ourselves, and do better moving forward. 💕

[@_slim_.]

This is what the podcast talks about lol

[@gailainsley6939]

35:10 Girl I’m sorry. You are too funny. I have to leave the timestamp here to listen to it again. 😅💖

[@gailainsley6939]

38:33 lol and same!! 😅

[@kaysmellsgood]

8:42 Men see standards as rules and what do men do when they see rules, they want to break them! Breaking rules is their forte

[@CD-xq1lc]

I have reason to believe that at least 10% of these views are from me directly lol. I say this every Friday, but this episode was a masterclass. I can't believe this information is free. So much so that I had to become a patreon because class is in session!

[@yazmiynjones4930]

I'm a spiritual advisor and when I say most of my clients are married and cheating or they are giddy side chicks waiting on the love of their life to get a divorce . No judgement to them but I'm good on all that 💅🏾

[@kaysmellsgood]

6:29 Exactly I don't think I've met a woman who has been married for years who is happily married.

[@Nokukhanya_nn]

!!!!!!!

[@coconuttrees]

THISSSSS such a damn good video and SO TRUE I’ve always said this many women will SWEAR they aren’t “materialistic” or “hypergamous” or prioritize “love” but the reality is deep down inside EVERY Woman’s wish is to be treated well exceptionally if possible : The reality is women who say this simply can’t get it are mostly just lazy, lack confidence or can’t be bothered to put the efforts into themselves to snag a man that will do this for them. Same things happened to my sister who’s just got married and had a baby with a guy she brought over from Africa clearly using her for citenzship sadly she’ll have to learn the hard way after not heading family advise . PLEASE make a video on the dynamics of jealous females ,family and friends even mothers who get jealous of there daughters once they choose hypergamy due to mistakes of there own . So many women around you will try to derail you once they get the sense that you choose or can get better men than they ever did. Love ❤️🙏🏾

[@PickMescia]

Laughed so much this episode! 🤣👌🏾

[@svlrji]

It’s truly an honor to catch this upload in

[@archbishopabiabi]

34:50 girl you are a feminist, without question or doubt. A lot of these conversations genuinely touch on women’s rights and issues. Thank you for helping me learn how to advocate for myself. Much love to you, stay healthy and blessed!

[@LoreBrown]

I just came across this channel and i was locked in from the get go! I am now going to get snacks to watch the rest😆

[@legalfictionnaturalfact3969]

I turned down my opportunity with nobility. Because those people are insufferable. There is no amount of money that's going to make up for the misery they impart to your life. No, you don't have to be broke. But, I can tell you that some things just are not worth the hell. The most valuable thing is to be with someone stable enough who supports your calling. Respects you. Has his own goals he works on. Not just $ ones, though those are in there too.

[@SystematicAttic]

She's not saying to choose a man with money over a good man that loves you, she's saying to choose a man that is/has both.

[@LifeofAkos]

"Stable enough" doesn't sound stable at all lol. Sounds like his finances can drop anytime🤔 no thanks

[@Tee-Star]

​@@SystematicAtticshe's saying basically that.

[@MsZi1312]

47:21 😂😂😂 this is science I love you Slumflower

[@tragimelody]

1:11:24 I FELT THIS IN MY SOUL! "Girl get up" ❤

[@gailainsley6939]

Proposal videos are nice but I can’t stop thinking about when the reality sets in… because it doesn’t last. When I realise that It’s just for THAT moment, I snap back into reality. I don’t watch proposal videos for that very reason. Smoke and mirrors.

[@yasminwalker4966]

🙋‍♀️ I will catch this in the morning. can't wait!

[@kirablaze]

Marriage is like a deck of cards in the begining all you need is two hearts and a diamond. By the end, you wish you had a club and a spade.

[@bl-gy5dt]

Big up, young lady!...ooohh the controversy!... ❤🎉

[@plumenommershpadoinkle7575]

absolute queen for shouting out lab grown diamonds

[@charlottelyon1280]

Girl just smoke a blunt 😅

[@Nokukhanya_nn]

preach!!!!!

[@eniola5088]

Love these glasses on you 🤩

[@skrski3664]

this podcast gives me anxiety but in a good way

[@GrungeGalactica]

❤❤❤

[@ggil0522]

I have so much to say about my situation but I’m sure you’re aware of the men who do everything in the name of god but don’t actually do gods work they just put god in their mouth - my whole name I think is in my username idgaf lol

[@ggil0522]

Found out my fiancée was cheating, so update! He’s out

[@TheShamuraja]

For anyone listening: I don't think it is wise to tell a man that you are a Christian. Keep it rather private. It oftentimes means to them - easy to use, naive, gullible, not smart woman. Plus easily manipulated through the pressure of the crowd if he decides to use other people from the church community as help to bamboozle her. "cos you gotta be nice! 😂, if you're a Christian, ey"

[@gailainsley6939]

⁠@@TheShamuraja. Yup. There is a popular KZbinr who said that her ex husband told her that he isn’t religious and he just used it to create social value for himself (and I’m sure to get a naive wife). She said she was soo shocked. Her channel is called ‘life, take two!’ … she’s popular on TikTok but also has a KZbin channel where she discusses the traps of growing up religious and being indoctrinated into the idea of having a ‘traditional family’. Basically, her ex husband left her with nothing around the age of 40 with their kids. So she uses her channel to warn other women.

[@amilllion1]

Beware choosing the 🐻