So....I quit my job.

I’ve been dodging all questions about where I’ll be going next, but step one of this new endeavour is that I’ll be taking a break for some time (will see how long that lasts as I just can’t stay still 🤣) to focus more on myself. Friends have been asking me how I feel about my decision, and as a risk-averse individual who’s been all about financial security since moving out at 18, I’ve been openly saying that I’m scared out of my mind.
Somewhere deep in the layers of fear though, there is conviction that this is “the right thing” to do at this time. I had the same gut feeling when I decided to move across the world with two suitcases 5 years ago. I think that there is a profound lack of tolerance for change, especially for women my age and above. Nobody wants to make the wrong decision, and as a result of that, we are self-censoring in a capacity that does not deserve to be censored at all. But it’s really the difficult days (like the week I finally decided to resign), when it’s hard to get out of bed yet we plow through - these are the important days that incite real change.
Ive always been a little confused and often lost. At 28, I feel like I’m starting all over again, like I flew the nest and broke my wing and I need to learn to fly again. I think we all experience these storms in our lives, maybe at milestones like 25, 30, 50 etc.
I told myself not to be scared. That sick feeling in the stomach is just a passing guest. I’ve come this far, and it hasn’t been pure luck. Don’t get hung up on mistakes. Give thanks for all things. But most importantly, to live to work and not work to live.
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[@yixuanzhu8256]

You'll do well Vivian! Taking a break and we'll know what we want to do when we feel bored. I also quit this year, at the age of 28 and 24. Each stage seems like an impulsive movement to others, but I'm being true to myself thus being happy(not happier cuz I don't regret my decisions at each stage of my life).

[@viviandotme]

Wishing you all the best too x

[@Sofia-bi6qu]

This video has inspired me, especially as a lost senior-year student who struggles with her program and constantly thinks of the next step of either completely shifting careers or continuing for at least two years. I feel like I have lost a lot of my time in my life pursuing the things I do not want. Thank you for giving me courage :))

[@SamyBgs]

I'm so happy to see you're doing what feels right. This is such an important thing to do, no matter how scary it may feel. If it is what felt right at that one moment, then you made the right choice. I haven't been keeping up with your videos for the past few months, but I can't wait to watch every single video I've missed. Take care of yourself. x

[@viviandotme]

Thank you so much as always Samy x

[@stacieberries]

I just quit my job too. Tired of corporate and i just wanna try something new. Build my own new things. On my way to NZ for an year abroad, can’t wait but extra nervous too. Ya scary

[@viviandotme]

enjoy some time off in NZ 🥰

[@theehappysunflower]

Proud of you! Financial security has been hammered into us for so long, it can be hard to jump out of the routine of doing it all rather than practicing Essentialism. Congrats Viv!! 🎉✨️🌞

[@orionkoshi]

We love new beginnings 🤍!

[@Munchkin_7]

Argh! I love it🤗 Wishing you all the best in your journey. You’ll do well. Thank you for this lovely video❤

[@viviandotme]

Thank you for the kind words ❤

[@Beaut_Beau]

So proud of you upgrading to the cordless drill after all that time on the screwdriver haha (Also, you can buy hex key attachment bits for the drill, so then you wouldnt need to do them manually either!)

[@viviandotme]

HAHAHAHA omg you must be one of the OGs to know this about me XD

[@jenniferflorence8503]

Good luck Vivian! You can do this. I am sure you can do well doing what you love. Sending you lots of love. 💕

[@viviandotme]

Thank you so much! 🤗

[@raquel_loves_her_dog]

Your videography and photography is so stunning 💖😤 do what you love sis! You've got the talent 👏🏼

[@viviandotme]

Thank you so much!! 🥺

[@aamy_films]

You see so much happier now! 😌

[@viviandotme]

Certainly am much happier :p thank you!

[@shalalalalamyohmy]

To new beginnings 🤍 (also, what bed frame/headboard is that? so pretty!)

[@viviandotme]

Lifely! :)

[@WilliamRandomUploads]

Respect

[@kristiencuthbertson2878]

I pray that you used camera cubes for your gear in the suitcase… my heart almost stopped when I saw you just placing the lenses in there lol. Great vlog as always!

[@viviandotme]

haha I definitely did! Just wanted to feature my camera equipment since I get ask about them all the time!

[@abegaillaygo1708]

Hi viv! It’s been a while since the last time i watched your vids. Just want to say I’m so proud of you! Hope i also have that courage too! Take care ♥️

[@Angelo94818]

Might be my favourite vlog 🫡🫶

[@yixuanzhu8256]

Forgot to say this - thanks for sharing🥰

[@qichengz79]

I went through a similar situation as I resigned from my last job about two months ago... it wasn't an easy decision as it provided financial security and allowed me to contribute to something bigger than myself. Deep down, I knew it was the right decision so hang in there Viv!! Congrats to your friends!! and also don't forget to take care of yourself 🙂

[@viviandotme]

Thank you! Sending you good vibes too 🤗

[@crazywisdom2]

You are Amazing ! This was Amazing ! What a beautiful video. One day at a time. This is gonna be Great ! So excited for you !!~

[@viviandotme]

Thank you~ x

[@nandhathiyagarajan6129]

Congratulations on believing in yourself and making the right choice 🎉🎉 another great vlog 😊

[@viviandotme]

Thank you!! 😊

[@victorchan118]

Love your bed frame, may I know where to get this bed frame please? thanks for sharing and have a great day !

[@viviandotme]

Lifely Home :) it’s not my bedframe though haha! just a prop for a photoshoot

[@matthewwatt3650]

You got this Viv!

[@viviandotme]

Thank you 🤗

[@alice_in_the_wonderland]

Hey, good luck on your new journey. Btw, could you please share where you shopped for your coffee table?

[@viviandotme]

it’s from Trit House!

[@amidthechaoss]

Hey Vivian.. new Fuji user here.. what lens did you use to record your video while you were packing?

[@senamojadidi3258]

Hi can you please tell me where you got your wood bed frame from please😩

[@viviandotme]

it’s not mine haha i was assembling furniture for the company i was working for :) it’s from Lifely home

[@saritablanca]

Hi viv! Nice video as always. Can I ask where did u get the tv stand?? Thanks!

[@viviandotme]

it came with my TV haha

[@horsdubleu0]

do you use effect on your video? it looks like warmy tone i like it ❤

[@viviandotme]

Heya I don't use any effect :)

[@Tashas_Travels]

I'm quitting my job in june 2024. I'm done being treated like a sl*ve and not an actual human being.

[@cocomimi4570]

❤

[@anniekim5433]

Hey what brand is your steamer you used for your bedding?

[@viviandotme]

That was my colleague's but I believe she got it from Kmart :)

[@dayl913]

Hi! What lens did you use to shoot this video with xt4? Is it the same lens you shot the couple photoshoot? Thanks! ❤

[@viviandotme]

Heya, yes it's the same one :)

[@hectord4693]

Promo>SM 🤩

[@hris9214]

Im thinking of quitting my corporate job as well..11yrs in and i'm feeling the burnout. Hope to get the same strength as you did, Vi 🤍