So You Want To MARRY A THAI Lady?.. 10 Things To Consider ✊🇹🇭

[@themacker894]

I've been married to my Thai wife for 25 years, and I've known her for 27 years. In all that time she's never attacked me on a personal level, cut me down, called me a name, or shared any of my negative traits or my past with her friends or family. That's simply unreal in my book. Her family loves me more than my own family does by far, and they are a joy to be around. I've never met a better person than my wife in my entire life.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

🙏✊🇹🇭

[@LukeyBoy78]

You made it mate. God bless and keep it real. 👍

[@OneLifeTwoLive]

Bless your life. Such a wonderfully joyous fact to share

[@Namoweaver]

Married for 4 years now, I am finding this to be similar to my experience too

[@lewisking94]

This echos exactly how I feel. I'm getting married soon to my Thai fiancé and I've never been happier. It is just an amazing, committed, and mutually respectful relationship. Went through countless relationships with girls back home where I just like I could never be myself and was always playing some sort of game with them. Began to think that I was never going to get to be happy but here I am and I can't quite believe it's possible!

[@BobMelsimpleliving.]

My wife is a Filipina and my experiences are very similar. We have been married a little over 50 years. Still going strong.

[@jomontanee]

God bless your marriage. 💖❤️🌈

[@stevebrown218]

@Trevor Smith 6 years ago I married my Filipino wife I was 60 she was 18 and a happy marriage with 3 kids

[@BennieTarrMusic]

Here's to 50 more!

[@BobMelsimpleliving.]

We are both lucky men. 👍

[@BobMelsimpleliving.]

Thank you.

[@galooch1]

My wife is a Thai woman that is so beautiful in every way , and our relationship is one of trust , respect for each other and our families , and our life is full of fun and so much love . Everyone who meets my wife can’t help but fall in love with her as she is always happy and smiling and sees a positive in everything , she never complains about anything , and works 12 hour days and still has energy to be playful when she gets home . Thai women are special creatures made by god , and if you should be lucky enough to find one of these angels , you are truly blessed .👩🏻❤️

[@snuscaboose1942]

I got one of those :) Truly blessed with the best companion a person could wish for. You have to work for it, but the rewards are more than worth it.

[@perrybakr4252]

🤣

[@zhenghao123]

Happy to hear that. But I hope you worked as well...

[@chrismacky7548]

I have lived in Thailand for almost 2 years now, and whilst not been married to a Thai, I find the family culture absolutely lovely.

[@jonhobson3592]

Is it quite easy to move. Covid permitting

[@jonhobson3592]

@Mark Seymour yes I’m hoping to , end of 23’..

[@erikstorm8935]

I do, as well. But, I dont really agree with the culture of supporting a wife's family. Its not really usual in the rest of the world. In eastern Europe, for instance, the families are way too proud to ask. And, if a woman does say "I need money for my family" it very well could be a scam.

[@braddoyle6194]

Your 10 points on Thai marriage are spot on. I have been married now to my Thai wife for 20 yrs and love her more each year that passes. Great vlog!

[@jomontanee]

So sweet to hear that.

[@dannyho6786]

what about the sex, does the sex fall off or can U still get some 2 or 3 x per weeks ?

[@dmtrssngltn]

My wife is Thai And everything you say is true .. I hate the stories of the guys who go straight to the bar girls and get upset when these girls are not standing around waiting for them to send back a few hundred dollars.. These women take care of their families the best way they can and if you don’t understand that you shouldn’t fall in love or try to date a thai woman.. If you want a strong relationship you have to except the fact that Financial Security and stability is first and love will come as a result.. And what I love about my wife and other people I know with a Thai women ,,whatever you give it always comes back with warmth and love

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Agree my friend 🙏✊

[@khenglim]

True test of love comes during times of adversity and NOT when all is well. Financial security is important in any relationship...question is how much is much?

[@dmtrssngltn]

@@khenglim I’m not talking about any relationship I’m talking about a relationship with a Thai woman my wife owned 2 businesses when I met her and it would take her three months to make what I make it one week .. and for birthday celebrations , weddings and even funerals in her country money is exchanged …they will wear money necklaces for their birthdays each neighbor goes to everyone’s house and get money for weddings the same with funerals also monks collect money at temples ..money is important in that culture and if you worried about how much to give then that’s a personal problem.. But if you want a real meaningful relationship that will get you the most dedicated woman in the world then you’re heart has to be bigger than your sex drive

[@erikstorm8935]

Thats definitely part of the culture, sure. But, you should be married or at least living with her first. I doubt local Thai men support a woman's family, UNLESS they are already married. Also, you can value financial security/stability without asking a man to provide for your family. Eastern European women have it difficult too, and they rarely ask their man to support their family. If they do its often a scam (but not always). Also, you said 'the bar girls dont stand around waiting'. Do you mean they expect hundreds of dollars immediately? Or only after falling in love? I can understand the latter, but definitely not the former. No man should give that much money to a woman when they're just starting dating. Ans especially when they literally just met.

[@MutantAireo]

Erik Storm that right mate. Only a fool will give away too much especially buying a home 🏠 and car 🚗 from a beginning of a relationship. Date a Thai woman who more stable minded because if a man get involved with a bar girl they are asking for trouble. Just saying.

[@Charlie-nc2wv]

Very well put and excellent observation thank you. As a Thai woman hearing a lot bitter and rude comments from foreigners who don't know Thai people and culture enough is rather frustrated. It's lovely to hear from someone who spending a lot of time in ordinary Thai lifestyle and ordinary people not in the bar and tourist attractions to able to have fair views of normality that goes on in Thailand.

[@jonathandunleavy-colgan8876]

That’s such a shame. Please do not let ignorant opinions reflect on you your sisters or your country. All the above are true Thai women are indeed same same but better 🙏🏼

[@jaymo8206]

Im a foreigner whos lived in Thailand many years. Also dated Thai women and fell in love with one once. But my experience with her and other mixed Thai-farang relationships Ive observed convinced me that my personality and cultural-educational differences would always clash with Thai mentality. One Thai lady I dated came from a wealthy family and was well traveled. But her emotional instability and nationalism turned me off to the max.

[@sebastianroman5294]

One important thing that you should keep in mind when discussing Thai dowry is that its amount is based on your Thai fiancee’s status, education, occupation and other related social background information (such as her virginity). An average middle-class, university-educated Thai lady deserves a dowry of 100,000- 300,000 baht. A dowry of a million baht for an uneducated lady of modest means is just ridiculous. Thai dowry prices fall drastically if your bride-to-be has been previously married, already has children, or is not a virgin anymore. In fact in most of these instances, no dowry deserves to be paid. Thai dowry, however, is usually symbolic in nature and will normally be returned to the married couple after the wedding, so as to help them start on their new life.

[@elliotlewisham1138]

Many foreigners have these opinions because of you Thai women fucking these foreigners over for money. Generalization are never good but the vast majority of Thai women really do fit the stereotype.

[@marinefly54]

I’ve been with my lady for two years, you’re spot on with your assessment. Show them love and respect and you get it back in spades, also her family love me more than my own, they are fantastic.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

[@alolsen339]

From the perspective of one old American who has been married to a Thai lady for over 46 years now, I agree with all your points. Life ain’t easy, especially when we combine two very different cultures. That relationship will be challenging and require a large amount of work, compromise and love if it is to endure and thrive. Peace.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you brother 🙏

[@chadcadsonvii5258]

Good things are worth working for.

[@oywatters9415]

Ha...so close to home! As a Thai woman, been married to my lovely Southern Irish husband for 44 years, doing exactly 10/10 facts you quoted 😊, so true! Welling up with fondness at the end, seeing Otis with his loving mum and dad. Thank you so much for sharing it with everyone 🙏

[@lifeinruralthailand]

🙏❤️

[@harryclarke3217]

Do you live in Thailand or Ireland or both?

[@oywatters9415]

Ha... I came to Kent, UK in 1974 and coincidentally where I met my husband, and we've been living here since, with our two boys (well, men now!) Been to Cork to visit, and visiting Thailand numerous times. Thank you for asking.

[@WallaceLivingFree]

One of your best videos, timeless, advice,without sensationalism and justification, well done, again.

[@stevegand]

100% concur. I too live rural with my Thai wife, next to her family. She and they are so great. I feel their love and concern for me every, single day. I know where I stand on the pecking order of things and I’m totally okay with that.

[@randallbrowning7530]

Thank you! Really great insight. My Thai wife is from a village in Uttaradit. We will live there in a couple of years, and we live in the US presently. We have been married for 3 years. I think that it cannot be stated strongly enough that family comes first for most Thai women. My wife works hard and sends at least half of her money home every month, helps her mother and father, helps put her nephew through school, etc. She feels that it is her duty, and she does what she feels is right. It is part of her character that I love about her. Many of the women from the villages in Thailand have traditional conservative Buddhist values, which I find very appealing (I am also Buddhist). So, I am not number one on her list, probably not 2 or 3 even! At the same time, I also know that if she needs to take care of me for some reason, she will be there for me. I think many westerners do not fully appreciate how a collectivist culture works, and there is definitely beauty in it.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you for sharing your experience :)

[@jomontanee]

You make me cry out of happiness.

[@pix00l]

Don't underestimate yourself. You might not be nr. 1 (her parents most likely have this spot) but you definitely are not 3rd or lower

[@JoelMatee]

that sounds crap, you become family when you marry her, etc. so both her immediate family and you should be number one.

[@lesliewarren9629]

You hit the nail on the head with your generalisation about a relationship with a Thai. I made a mistake with my wife in the early stages of our relationship by not understanding the importance of food when walking through a market. Being a farang I just assumed that you eat three times a day and didn't understand that Thai's can graze all day, so whenever I am with my wife anywhere especially around food to make sure we stop and buy something. I thought your blog was a very informative and helpful especially for a first time relationship and I agree just like any relationship you have to work with your partner. Because of this world wide crisis I haven't seen my wife for at least two years, me stuck in Australia and her stuck in Lopburi Thailand it's been hard but thanks to the LINE app we communicate as much as possible and keep the doors open that way. Thanks mate for your great blogs always entertaining and informative. Season's greetings to you and your family.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you for sharing you experience 🙏🙏

[@donabellamojares6028]

Thais are not cows..it's disrespectful the way say they graze all day.

[@consulthai]

@@donabellamojares6028 in Australia we say graze and it's not disresprectful. It's slang. It's cultural. Now while we understand Thai culture it works both ways. When you live with an Aussie you pick up the slang and you know it wasn't meant to hurt or upset. In any case Aussies aren't very formal. So if you hook up with an Aussie you got to accept this. Or find a prim and proper Pom..😉

[@bobterry9062]

@@donabellamojares6028 You have totally misunderstood his comment.

[@hobo1704]

@@donabellamojares6028 it's disrespectful to not think of actually educating yourself on other countries language before you write a comment complaining about something, definition of ignorant..

[@mattalford389]

Great vlog. Interesting points, that i totally agree with. All those challenges with a Thai relationship are exciting to me. I love the difference in cultures and the fun times trying to understand the language sometimes, and learning new things about each other. It's all a bonus to me, and all positive. Thanks for that vlog.

[@BennieTarrMusic]

This is great! My (Thai) wife and I had a good laugh - she asks every day "Are you hungry?".... Although, having been to all 50 American states (I was born in NYC, lived in Alaska, etc). I can attest to the fact that the entire country has tons of poverty, broken families, and bad food... I'd say in the USA, you have to really try hard to find the good people, and the bad ones are in your face (because they enjoy getting in your face). In Southeast Asia, Eastern Europe, etc, all you've got to do is get just slightly off the tourist-trap-track, and have a legitimate reason to be there, and the nice people seek you out. I've never even been to Koh Samui, Phuket, etc... Living a more rural life, just like you and your family. My wife is great - she's a hard-working housewife, but she also helps me with my business, and she doesn't suffer fools lightly! Peace!

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you 🙏😊

[@travelsolo2677]

Totally agree with you mate, Thai’s don’t take things and life in general seriously. And don’t stress if late for a date or appointment. My ex Thai wife had a great saying if I was stressing about getting to a restaurant late. She said why are you stressing, the restaurant won’t move tonight.

[@peterblakeney1370]

Really appreciate the balanced view you shared. Nothing is always sunshine and roses and any relationship takes real work from both parties. Certainly a breath of fresh air from the negativity that tends to circulate most forums. I think if you’re looking for love in a Pattaya or Patong bar your chances of finding a meaningful relationship decrease exponentially

[@brunowinter931]

Hello Ryan, thank you for the 10 topics. I'm together with my Thai woman for 5 y and I can 100% support your topics to be spot on. I would add to your language part (No. 9) that we as western man have to take into account that Thais if they do not understand what we say, they do not ask back and ask us to rephrase it. This is the training in school that the teacher says something and no student is expected to ask or dare to challenge it. So be prepared to make sure that she did understand what you said or be prepared for quite some quarrels just because of misunderstandings. I wish you all the best for your next 11y of your life with your wonderful wife.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Very good point 🙏

[@jonhobson3592]

@@lifeinruralthailand misunderstandings can happen yes , but it’s best to communicate and meet in the middle with compromise ..

[@allenwebb]

What a lovely ending to a video with 10 out of 10 correct facts, very informative to those who don`t understand the Thai ladies you hit the nail directly on the head with this one ! 🙏

[@lifeinruralthailand]

🙏😊✊🇹🇭

[@BackyardChef]

Ive been married 17 yrs here in Thailand - we've had our ups and downs like everyone but its the best relationship ever! Agree with the vid - best, Rik

[@lifeinruralthailand]

🙏🙏🙏

[@RockFPV]

Great Video and I absolutely love your channel! Met my Thai Wife around 15 years ago and we are happily living since 10 Years in Switzerland. Could not agree more to the points that you mentioned. My Fist Year in the Relationship were quite crazy without having any clue about culture, language and on top of that Internet / Wifi were not as accessible as nowadays. She did not speak any English so I had to sit down and figure out how Thai works. We fought a lot in the beginning but that cleared all misunderstandings and we never had any issue ever since as there were no secrets or unclarities anymore. I only speak Thai to my wife, it's fluent but not 100% correct so we have something which is partially "our language". One point I would still mention in the top 10 is Money, as the Family is the center and that has it's cost. Guess I am "lucky" to have found even a solution for that so I don't really have to care about it too much. I would love to live in Thailand in some years but I guess I am to afraid to do what you do and just let it flow. Thanks for the Motivation and good spirit! Cheers!

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you 🙏✊🇹🇭

[@nickst-francois8192]

Great video, very positive. those 10 Things are so true. Was in Thailand last fall for 3 months met an amazing women, fell in love with her and her family. Going back in 2 weeks, retiring from my job and moving to Thailand to be with her. Language is so very important like you said...google translate to the rescue a few times last year lol. if you are patient and have a good heart a relationship with a thai women is very rewarding.

[@superman1081]

Otis, brought so much sunshine to your video. 🙂 Such a happy child!

[@PeterC245]

I have been married to a Thai lady for 15 years, your 10 things are incredibly accurate

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thanks for sharing you feedback Peter - means we got this right!

[@davidharrott1143]

Very positive and beautiful take on thai marriage, I’ve been with my girlfriend for 6 months, and met all her family, and everything you mention here, for me is absolutely bang on the money. It seems by this video you have a great life out there, and one in which I’d love myself to be honest. My own opinion about my girlfriend is that I’ve never met a more beautiful person inside and out, and we couldn’t be happier together. I will marry her in October of this year, and my family will meet her family, and we will have a little wedding. But 10/10 for this video loved it, I’ve just subscribed and will watch many more of your takes on uk to thai life.

[@danag888]

my wife is from khon kean we are both in our 40s and have been married for over 20 years. next june we are leaving the states and going back to thailand so begin the process of living there

[@lifeinruralthailand]

🙏🙏

[@sabaisabai8895]

Such a lovely family.☺️ I agree with you 100%👍 I'm married since 1990 with a thai woman...😅 Greetings from vienna🙏

[@tonyemmett9296]

Agreed on all points. I have been here 21 years, with the same lady for 20, married for 17. It might be worth drawing a comparison between an aspect of life in Bangkok vs upcountry. I live in a moo baan gated village in Bangkok but when I retire in the next few years will get the hell out of here. One thing I do not like about here is the nosy neighbour thing (global I know) but also the constant comparisons by Thai women in the never-ending 'my farang is richer than your farang' saga, constantly digging into your personal and particularly financial situation, my wife hates this also. Many of the women do little to occupy themselves and wander around the village gossiping and causing problems in the goldfish bowl we live in, albeit a nice house. As a farang you are fair game for far too much attention. Live up country a little if you can and be close but not too close to the family, which is what I am going to do.

[@Patricksstealthvanlife]

What a delightful collage of insights. Refreshing and vibrant. I'm still yet to hear anything on these channels about the importance of Buddism in Thailand. It's a huge influence and entwines itself around everyday living. Those visiting need to understand this. Great video and such a respectful and decent representation of your experience. Extremely helpful . Thank you. 😊 🙏🙏

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you Patrick 🙏

[@GeorgeMartin-g1f]

Great video 😊Thanks for sharing lots of details. Thanks

[@tonylani2015]

Ryan, what an amazing video! You laid out your marriage so beautifully. You are truly blessed. Thank you for taking the time and putting this together. God bless you and your family. 🥰

[@pietervanniekerk4453]

I am a South African ... The first time I stepped on Thai soil ...I was totally and completely humbled by the Thai generosity generosity ... every thing they give or do is from the heart .... as westerners we need to take a page from their book . I love Thailand and have many Thai friends ... my favorite place is Isan ... That is where my Thai Kru lives ... a most beautiful soul I have known for more than seventeen years . Khorb Khun mak mak .

[@andreww864]

This mirrors my experience as well mate, even living in the Uk with my wife for 9 years, she is from Issan as well. Whilst no situation is guaranteed it seems to be those meeting girls in the tourist resorts that leads to bigger problems……

[@lifeinruralthailand]

✊✊✊

[@JG-ke7gj]

Great episode. To see Otis grow through your constant presence is amazing. No greater gift can be given.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Agreed my friend 🙏

[@HamNoytheDutchGuy]

Know my wife for 5 years, got married 8 months ago with her, and she is living here with me the past 4 years. Many things you said apply Ryan 😏 i am learning to read and speak thai because i need to when i am going to live in Isaan 😊 Always great to see your vlogs and listen to your opinion. All the best and take care, C Ya in the next one🙌 P.S. have fun with Paddy and say hi for me👊

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you and will do!

[@LootGoblin4118]

Yes we are looking forward to the interaction between you two, he is a great guy... I follow him too.. cheers.

[@guytrace4444]

Just subscribed, absolutely loved your video, you have an amazing family young fella

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you 🙏

[@mickwatson1156]

Just found (subscribed) your channel .Love the laid back attitude .I have a home in That Phanom (BAN NAM BAM ) but due to work and covid i have been stuck away from my thai wife and family for over a year here in the UK Thanks for returning some sanity and hope to my head. I will keep viewing .

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thanks Mick and welcome to the channel 🙏

[@danag888]

around 10 years ago i chose to put more emphasis on lifes spiritual journey and thailand is a land that allows that to grow in me easily, currently i live in the states and thats difficult for me, personally in the states. no judgment intended or implied just a personal feeling. thanks

[@lifeinruralthailand]

🙏🙏🙏

[@WanderingBobAK]

First video of yours I've seen. Well thought out, nicely articulated. Love the interaction with the Fam and, of course, The Message. Subbed.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thanks and welcome to the channel 🙏

[@lalpremi]

Thank you, enjoyed your perspective on family life and living in Thailand. Have a great day.

[@sharonbradshaw4589]

Hi Sharon here from South Africa just loved you singing and little Otis assisting was so cute. Takes after his dad. Looking forward to more music masterpieces please

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you Sharon 🙏🙏

[@Cantfindahable]

I’m with you judging a country on your personal experiences it insane, I watched some of these videos and after hearing about the scams and dangers I almost didn’t go. Then I reviewed my own town with that mindset. Long story short, I went to Thailand and found the people amazing, king and honest, not after my money and full of Aloha

[@ChimpsAI]

Wow, what a nice family. I had been addicted to Philippines rural living videos, but I think I'm jumping boat to Thailand. This kind of life suits me as I live in a rural area of the USA and can relate. I look forward to more videos and to a potential big move in my life. New sub!

[@markh1085]

Just came across this video. So refreshing to find a real life opinion of Thai relationships. Thank you.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thanks Mark 🙏✌️😊

[@mancello]

First video I've seen of your channel. Very cute kid! I don't think I could live that rural type of life, but I'm glad you found your happiness.

[@korpioskari2669]

Greetings from Finland Thank you and your family for all of these informative videos. These have helped me a lot. I am moving to Chian Rai in the spring of 2022. I am already retired. The cost of living there is still a little unclear. There are so many things to keep in mind. I haven’t watched all of your videos yet, so I don’t know if you’ve talked about it. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to the whole family.

[@Danny-ux1il]

Very nice video. I am on track to get married soon - like this fall. My American neighbor at my guest house was telling me to check out YT for horror stories about marrying Thai women and your's was the first one I saw. Now I am more confused. But life is an adventure and life in Thailand is an exotic adventure. Thai people are decent, calm, honest, tolerant, ready to help you out if they can - rather than rip you off if they can, as in so many parts of America.

[@johnbradford2101]

I just came back from a 33 day trip to Thailand. Itt was wonderful. I did walk down a few of the wild Sois but didn't spend time in the bars. I met wonderful people,had no problems and am forever changed by the experience.

[@koufax174]

I am on SE Asia slow travel experience. Thai was wonderful. I stay where locals live and eat with them. People are warm, polite, happy, thoughtful, playful. I met wonderful friends where I was. I ❤️ Thailand

[@seanlehmann4235]

I just discovered your channel and really enjoy it. You make really great content and I wish you all the success and happiness you desire. Thank you for sharing.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you Sean - I appreciate it 🙏

[@MrUwg]

Nice, cozy and so true your ten points. Very well observed.

[@trevorosborn7411]

So beautiful to see a video on the positive aspects of a foreigner-thai marriage. My thai wife is an angel. We have a gorgeous little boy and live between Australia and Thailand.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Well said!

[@ronaldus2505]

Just a very good video. And from the heart. Well done and bless you all.

[@steved85.]

First video I’ve seen of yours. Subbed. Going to watch a few more of your videos. Good luck to you!

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thanks and welcome to the channel 🙏✊

[@steved85.]

@@lifeinruralthailand You’ve got a good way about you on camera. Keep up the good work bro. 😁

[@davidkelly-cl4mj]

Wise words Ryan I can see the strong bond between you and Damo. It does take a lot of effort on both sides to make a relationship work but I think you two have complimented each other perfectly. All the best for a long and prosperous future together

[@michaelflynn4880]

I appreciate your Insight. I forgot yesterday to say that I am from Florida in the US. Although I have never been out of the US have many friends here from around the world and truly appreciate all of them and their cultures. I find Americans in particular are very judgemental of other cultures or cultures they don't understand. I'm so anxious to travel and learn before I get any older. You really do give me a perspective on life that I appreciate. What I see is a great Freedom that you have in your farm life or country life even these covid days that is envious. Don't get that here in an expensive small apartment!

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you 🙏

[@brownekevable]

My friend. I absolutely loved this video. It made me cry. Thanks for being a great person that all of us can be better people from knowing you if only online

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you brother 🙏🙏

[@robmariner7866]

We share similar experiences. I came to Puerto Rico 63 years ago as a teenager, learned Spanish, studied here, fell in love with a beautiful Puerto Rican girl. We´ve been married for 54 years and have grown children and grandchildren. In all those years, I have become Puerto Rican. Whether you go around the world to live somewhere else or end up marrying the girl next door, one needs to work at maintaining relationships based on respect and love. I very much agree with you in regard to how some people seem to live to complain. Recently someone gave their very limited view about Puerto Rico and how he had been hoodwinked into believing in the "sunny" Caribbean. Turns out that the week he was here was in the middle of hurricane season and we had yet another near miss with cloudy skies and gusty winds. It happens all over; many of us make "expert" value judgements without knowing the whole story.

[@squareff255]

Hahaha I love Disneyland! And Big Bird is not a Disney character. :) But I loved your video so much! Such a cute window into your life and the life of your family. And I love Thailand. Thank you.

[@davidwilliams7552]

This is brilliant. Love the Disneyland analogy. I am vetting several thai women for their potential as a wife at the moment so this is useful viewing. Love your attitude mate.

[@dgafj2]

About to bring my Thai Fiance to the USA on a K1 visa . I needed to see a story like this. Thank you.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

All the best 🙏

[@happytravelling]

I have been going to Thailand for 25 years. I would like to share my stories. I first started going to Thailand in 1998. I met a wonderful Thai lady, I'll call her Toom, and saw her often. I was asked to return to my previous company, which I didn't want to do, but they asked me what it would take for me to come back. So I told them I wanted 6 weeks of vacation on the books for me to return - they gave it to me. That's when I started to go to Thailand. After, I started to work at a startup and couldn't go for 3 years. When I finally was able to return to Thailand, Toom took me to a friend of hers that was obviously high class, in a penthouse with a view of Bangkok. She sat me down, it seemed very formal, and her friend explained that there are some things a Thai lady cannot say and she would speak for Toom. This made me nervous. She asked me what were my intentions with Toom. I played dumb. Now I had known her for 7 years at this point, so she asked if I was going to ask Toom to marry her. I was going to go back to school and I didn't think it would be a good idea until I finished, so I said no. I meant maybe later, but that was that... The next day, she wanted me to come down and speak to her, in front of the hotel I was staying at. With her friend next to her, she said a few things in Thai and left. I had made her lose face with her friend and embarrassed her (my words), BUT, even though she wouldn't see me for 5 years, we had the same birthday and she calls me every year to say hello and she missed me - but she wouldn't see me. I understood that I had hurt her, but she still loved me and loves me to this day. Then I met my fiance. I met her when I rented a motorbike and just drove around looking at areas outside of the center. I got a haircut at a barber for $1.50 and that's when I met I'll call Woom. I came back every couple of days and got a haircut and just talked to her. Wonderful Thail lady. I wound up not going back to school and visiting Thailand. Toom wanted to see me after 5 years so I agreed. When we met, I repeated to her that I had a girlfriend and even though I still loved her, I could not be intimate but would like to go out with her. She told me she would like to speak to Woom. I was floored, but I called Woom and told her someone wanted to speak to her. (I still can't believe I gave her the phone). She spoke to Woom for a couple of minutes and I'm thinking, what have I done? what is she saying? ... She then just listens for a bit and keeps saying, "ka, ka, ka" and hangs up. Without hesitation, I called Woom and asked her what Toom said. Woom tells me that Toom told her that she has loved me for a long time and asked her permission to see me one last time. she agreed, but Toom could not see me again. Woom then said she likes that another Thai lady loved me - Is this a great place or what? Until 15 years later, Toom would not see me again but still calls and says hello. That night, she told me she wanted to do something special for me. I won't say what she did, but I will say that the other lady took me aside after and told me that Toom loves me very much. I still get teared up thinking about this. Woom has never mentioned it. But wait, there's ONE more. So after Woom turned 40, she sat me down, as Toom did so many years ago, so I knew it was serious. She tells me that she knows I want children but she could not do that for me. She said I should find a nice young Thai lady and get married and have kids. BUT SHE CAN NOT know. I like to go out to the bars and go out with her, but she is all I want and don't wander. Besides, she has a foolproof method of determining whether I've been cheating which she administers as soon as I see her. I still don't understand how this works. I am certain that none of these things an American lady would do.d

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Interesting story 🙏

[@ThailandLifestyle]

You got it all right. I would just add that there is also a bit of luck involved. Thanks for sharing your experience and your insights. You got another new subscriber today. See you soon again.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Amen and welcome to the channel 🙏😊🇹🇭

[@leservin4420]

I married a Thai girl 22 years ago. She was a pharmacist there and became one in the US too. We have a daughter who is attending one of the top ranked high schools in the world and is making As and Bs. She’s probably smarter than my wife or I. One thing most visitors don’t realize is that the most intelligent people in the world are SE Asians and Ashkenazi Jews. Every Thai I’ve known in America makes something of themselves and rises up. Being married to a lady from a vastly different culture is going to be a challenge for both of you.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Cool story - it’s been 15 years, not a challenge - a delight. My wife is an international banker and now has her own clothing line, her sisters are in Japanese export, they own over 30 acres of land, a condo, 3 houses and are very happy 👍

[@RomelAlibudbud]

Good fun video that's sincere and honest. Thanks.

[@ourlifeandmemories9633]

I've meet my fiancee exactly 2 years ago while visiting Thailand for my first time. Since then we are together,we got engaged) and we are living together with her parents witch are amazing person's. Loving helping them with farming and all the work around the house. You are 100% right with everything you said BUT you forgot one IMPORTANT thing. THEY LOOVE PLAYING THE LOTTERY 5555

[@_Alfa.Bravo_]

Yes , and that is why it takes place only twice a month

[@vivap176]

U r right..locals love playing lottery or huay Tai Din (underground lottery) in addition to government lottery. Same as office girls.

[@khookeatchye6883]

Merry Christmas to you three n God bless. Good video 👍🏼😊

[@Judith3544]

A brilliant video and very informative! Thank you so much!,

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Cheers Colin 🙏

[@catrapesco]

Brilliant video, I met my Thai lady 3 years ago. Never been happier. Last few minutes of you playing with your daughter was beautiful. Thank you.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you 🙏😊

[@westaussieeggs8867]

It is a son, Otis, 😉

[@catrapesco]

@@westaussieeggs8867 Sorry, my bad!!

[@ibrahim9611]

thanks for the video. you showed the people of Thailand as it is. this is fascinating. in fact you showed that it is truly (Human) is a matter of knowing.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Quaderllion]

Very useful tips , thank you sir. I just noticed most of expat men married to a Thai lady go with her to Temple but never seen her go with him to Church ( Faith Tolerance )? Have a nice day.

[@BackonTrailasia]

Lived here for 17 years, married with a fantastic woman for 14, seen and heard my share, but you are the first ever I come across here on youtube, who hits the nail spot on, in particular your point 8. One new sub here. After 17 years in Chiang Mai, we are building house in Kalasin, and will move this year. Looking forward to it.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you and all the best with the move brother 🙏

[@siripkgoplaces]

Merry Christmas to you and your family 🎄🎊🎉🎁

[@Androgen321]

Great video. Great advertisement for Thai ladies! Thank you.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

🙏🙏🙏

[@JonasVloggar]

I agree with most of it. Been together with my wife for more than 6 years now. My experience is that out of 4 relationships I have had with Thai people only my wife has been faithful. I have not met any bar woman and maybe I was just unlucky before or maybe the cheating you hear being the normal in Thai music and Thai series could play out an important role in that.

[@paultimwhillans7977]

I like the gentleness with which you speak

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Cheers Paul 🙏

[@andeebee6355]

Lovely to see such a positive and realistic video as opposed to all the constant negative ones that circulate around bad experiences with the not so realistic thailand .

[@gaetanofrancelle6091]

I enjoyed you video, you have a beautiful family, thank you for sharing. Greetings from New Zealand .

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you!

[@Marco-rc4lo]

Thanks brother. Great video. I have been dating a Thialand girl for a few months. I'm going to meet her and her family in a Jan In Sakon Nakhon Province. Like the honest point of view. I'm looking forward to it all and hopefully relocating in a few years after I money up and build a place. Her parents are farmers. I'm ready for the simple life and Eastern views. Thanks 🙏👍

[@andrewhardcastle7982]

Life has blossomed for me with my 12 year relationship with Nid, we are finally getting married in Feb 2023 as I approch my 60s I love the whole thing

[@lyradm1]

Couldn't agree more. The Thai culture reminds me of what life used to be like in the 60's where the US was more family oriented - the nuclear family was king then. All the more I love Thailand and its lovely culture people.

[@TravelChanelBangkokThailand]

Lovely video 👌 Thanks for sharing

[@jhavajoe3792]

Intelligent overview! You deserve a good life with your family!

[@bayouboy0071]

I really enjoyed that, gave me alot of information. Now to figure out how to find my Thia lady...

[@dragonarms77]

your little one is super cute.she reminds me of my daughter who is now 15 but was as cute as yours when she was small and i miss those times very very much.

[@crazymonkeytravels]

Always enjoy your posts positive and uplifting looking forward to see the next post. Regards to your family. Stay safe 🙏 Stay happy

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you and wishing you well 🙏😊

[@Greguk444]

Very good talk today. Thank you. I have been married to a lovely Thai for over 20 years and I can completely agree with everything you said, especially the section at the end about living together, compromise etc.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Perfect thank you for sharing your feedback - it means we got it right 🙏✊

[@networkbike543]

Lucky I saw this today. Wedding anniversary 33 years ago today. As bonus Thailand Passes have just come through today and go back to Thailand in Jan.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Good luck with it! :)

[@thefuturefactory56]

Like most of you here I'm in a lucky 27 year relationship with my Thai wife,from Isan.We met in Australia but I love Thailand as much as I love being here and we plan to split our time between here and Thailand in coming years.She brought a calmness to my life in my mid 30's and has a heart of gold with that tough Thai streak coming to the surface when required. I'm actually surprised that you didn't mention the one big negative trap that so many "farang" fall into..The Thai wife who places money at the head of the line,often when they are from the bar-girl scene in Thailand.Many a man has spent up big on a house in Thailand,a motor cycle for the brother,visas to come to Australia and much more only to have his "beloved" take it all. If it's good it's GREAT,if not,it's a path to financial ruin for the gullible or unsuspecting. Remember,we can never really own anything in Thailand and TRUST when it comes to money is essential. Can't wait to get back in July 2022 after 3 years of covid19 craziness.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Good luck getting back brother 🙏🙏🙏

[@eddiegoh8228]

Great talk Ryan.. more of relationships talk betw Thai and a foreigner would be interesting to watch .. esp age-gap

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you 🙏🙏

[@formertenant9276]

Just so you know, I always look forward to watching your vids, love the life yo have chosen to live, I am coming over on the 5th of Jan with my thai wifey to see if we can set up something similar! Cheers for being a legend and sharing your wonderful life with us.

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you my friend - wishing you and your family well 🙏

[@formertenant9276]

@@lifeinruralthailand Thank you, you too bro!! :)

[@jamie1453]

OMG you are SO right on! This is great. I must say I'm still learning these phases. But YOU'RE BLOWING MY MIND! THANKS FROM HUA HIN 🙏🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿🌿

[@lifeinruralthailand]

You're so welcome!

[@stevebines4484]

My pennapha loves to go into the jungle to hunt mushrooms and gather bamboo she takes such great pride in this. Also so into her garden and ponds .1000 cat fish and frogs they have become her babies and does not want to sell. Her snails have only been eaten once because her mom wanted some lol. But yet I love this lady with all of my heart

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Stay well brother 🙏✊

[@TheChenny73]

I think living in these climates you are more one with nature. My wife is a Filipina who grew up on the island of Mindanao. The windows and doors are open. The geckos live amongst you. The roosters are there. Giant bamboos grow along the roads. There are rice fields and jackfruit trees everywhere. You definitely live more with nature then people in Western temperate climates. My wife and I now live in central Florida and my wife has turned our small property in a little bit of south east Asia. There are 12 varieties of giant bamboo, teak benches for resting, lots of fruit trees and banana, passion fruit vines, star fruit etc.

[@elsabiebezuidenhout4734]

Love all your videos ....you and your wife do good ....for each others and your child ....God Bless your family and marriage

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you 🙏

[@balutduckegg9770]

Thank you for you perspective! I have been in an online relationship with my Thai lady for over 17 months now. We use translation software to chat. But we chat almost everyday... for hours and hours! What you said about them loving without concern for looks or age seems to be very true 👍 I am 62 and she is 22. But somehow it is not an issue for us. When we are together ... all differences seem to be meaningless. All of the things mentioned seems to be true. I am very happy with her. I feel like I found my soul mate. So if things continue to work out for us, then I will be joining you in Thailand next year! ...

[@gabbafm]

This was an unexpectedly positive and down to earth video lol. Of course as you mentioned throughout, no one can generalize 70+ million people as having any particular personality traits (trying to imagine what a "Dating an American woman" video would sound like).

[@lifeinruralthailand]

😂😂😂🙏🙏🙏

[@alansparg7485]

We have been together for 14 years & we had a good laugh at your top ten, well done, all very true!

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Thank you 🙏

[@Flights-gq8po]

Wow! This is a very heart worming video. Thank you very much for these 17 minutes of absolute mesmerizing. I have a Thai woman waiting for me in Kanchanaburi.... I went to see her, she is waiting for immigration to give her a visa to come to Florida, then I believe I will be moving to live with her in Kanchanaburi. thank you a bunch. Best of luck in your marriage....Blessings .....

[@lifeinruralthailand]

Good luck 🙏😊🇹🇭

[@peterhesen772]

Well done and an inspiration to me, as I am in a relationship with a wonderful Thai woman. K1 visa pending.

[@philips4169]

Touched by your time making the model with Otis 💕💕

[@lifeinruralthailand]

🙏🙏🙏