A Talk On Romantic Relationships-Sadia Khan

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@sadiapsychology
@sadiapsychology 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for having me ❤
@barefoot_ty
@barefoot_ty 11 ай бұрын
sadia always looking amazing 😍
@TeamAwesomeDad
@TeamAwesomeDad 11 ай бұрын
The grift that keeps on grifting
@baltimoreluke
@baltimoreluke 11 ай бұрын
i don't agree with your view on porn....i don't think porn is neutral...i think it does have negative effects....but to say porn contributes to rape culture is as ridiculous as saying video games contribute to violence...i've had multiple talks with my own therapist about your recent interviews [edit] also wondering....do you think it's even possible to have an objective perspective on porn? if you don't consume it, you really don't know what's going on in porn....but if you do consume it, it may affect you.
@leslieb1375
@leslieb1375 11 ай бұрын
Intelligent, interesting, confident lady. Thank you for coming on the show again and sharing your perspectives, Sadia!
@thematriarchy2075
@thematriarchy2075 11 ай бұрын
Hi Sadia. Looking at the reality of arranged marriages, Pakistani too, it doesn't seem to be something better. 38 to 49 percent of marriages between Pakistanis is between 1st cousins, which is the cause of children being born with very serious mental and physical problems, for example. The divorce rate in 2019 in Pakistan was at an all time high. Over 90 percent of women in Pakistan have experienced domestic violence in their lifetime.
@pauldyson8098
@pauldyson8098 11 ай бұрын
I really like the idea of taking full responsibility during a breakup. I also like the idea of not calling everyone who hurt you a narcissist. I also like that she asks Mark questions.
@Rotty_Mom
@Rotty_Mom 11 ай бұрын
Yes. Yep. Ya. Me too!
@mball5
@mball5 11 ай бұрын
Mark said it was wrong and unhelpful when he interpreted the divorce as his fault.
@ukalypse
@ukalypse 11 ай бұрын
But there really are Narcissists--- some say ten percent of the population. And they do a tremendous amount of harm, often as parents (who are not chosen by victims).
@tyrellanderson4722
@tyrellanderson4722 11 ай бұрын
Some people do suck though.
@plantstho6599
@plantstho6599 11 ай бұрын
@@tyrellanderson4722 Most
@linli3766
@linli3766 9 ай бұрын
Sadia explains perfectly: when a woman finds the right person, a responsible, trustworthy man, when she feels the safety and security, she will be soothing and calm, there will be much less anxiety and much less negativity.
@loveluv
@loveluv 11 ай бұрын
Microphone placement is everything….hard to listen to the excess noise on the microphone in both interviews but SHE IS AN AMAZING WOMAN!!!
@10x10a
@10x10a 11 ай бұрын
agreed. mark you should consider displaying audio levels in your setup during your interviews so you can see in real time if quality is poor
@clementinecasino3700
@clementinecasino3700 11 ай бұрын
It's not the mic it's just that her hair it's brushing over it
@kevintipper9267
@kevintipper9267 11 ай бұрын
Sound is sooo bad & poor quality. Amazing woman though 👏
@alanguages
@alanguages 10 ай бұрын
I was wondering what all the rustling was.@@clementinecasino3700
@phantomoftheopera8072
@phantomoftheopera8072 10 ай бұрын
Her voice sounds kinda mumble ly it’s hard to listen clearly
@jesuscrust825
@jesuscrust825 11 ай бұрын
I always tell people, “when people show you who they are, believe them!” Great video
@tyrellanderson4722
@tyrellanderson4722 11 ай бұрын
That was Maya Angelou.
@Sheyshel
@Sheyshel 11 ай бұрын
"believe them the 1st time"
@amc3964
@amc3964 9 ай бұрын
Maya Angelou said the same.
@natinatij
@natinatij 6 ай бұрын
She ripped that off Maya Angelou
@thatsomoe
@thatsomoe 11 ай бұрын
I really love how she’s asking Mark questions throughout the interview. We never get to hear his pov in detail. Great interview ❤
@subtomypage
@subtomypage 10 ай бұрын
because shes a fraud too
@WENCHintheTINFOILhat
@WENCHintheTINFOILhat 11 ай бұрын
This lady is a pleasure to look at, listen to, and learn from. Thank you both for doing this… The entire world needs relationship advice in 2024
@subtomypage
@subtomypage 10 ай бұрын
lf u put her looks aside and the fact shes foreign yall would get shes boring and says what men already know that women use them for money lol duh and legal marriage benefits broke women l been knew ths
@MERIDETH-u8r
@MERIDETH-u8r 11 ай бұрын
This lady is smart and intuitive. I love the fact that she is not afraid to tell the truth and NOT sugarcoat the issue. Sometimes you just have to tell it like it is!
@edgarstin4212
@edgarstin4212 11 ай бұрын
ppppp
@edgarstin4212
@edgarstin4212 11 ай бұрын
😅😅😅
@edgarstin4212
@edgarstin4212 11 ай бұрын
😅
@daniellamoreno3616
@daniellamoreno3616 10 ай бұрын
Yes she truly is gem and she truly saving people relationships. I wish she was around 10 years ago before getting previous relationship.
@alejandramarquez6804
@alejandramarquez6804 8 ай бұрын
​@@daniellamoreno3616she is no oh saving nothing. The reason why she have data is because many many many people have conflict in relationship. Conflict is the rule in human relationship.
@LeaShaw-lf5hv
@LeaShaw-lf5hv 11 ай бұрын
Mark, I like that you were more involved in the “conversation”
@leesh2684
@leesh2684 11 ай бұрын
Yes
@PetraTherapy
@PetraTherapy 11 ай бұрын
yes me too
@subtomypage
@subtomypage 10 ай бұрын
l been noticing they overtalk a lot he just listens
@SerenityDreaming
@SerenityDreaming 3 ай бұрын
Hmm. Interesting. I thought it was called interrupting the shit out of people because you think what you're saying is more important than what they're saying, or manners in general, even if it's the answer to a question they asked....
@SerenityDreaming
@SerenityDreaming 3 ай бұрын
​@@subtomypageon what planet? He's interrupted her almost 50 times at an hour in.
@marinajenkins9465
@marinajenkins9465 11 ай бұрын
Sadia’s interaction is absolutely so appreciated. One of that sessions I relook at all the time. She is so knowledgeable, sincere and to the point. Love her honesty. A beautiful intelligent women. Tx for introducing her to us Mark
@subtomypage
@subtomypage 10 ай бұрын
not really dont need her advice to know women use guys for money and that legal marriage only benefits a broke woman.
@pipewig74
@pipewig74 11 ай бұрын
Truth! Everyone shows you “who” they really are. It all boils down to, do you want to see it and accept or see it and ignore it, or see it and move on. Every individual is responsible for what they tolerate!
@cardura99
@cardura99 11 ай бұрын
I want to hear more from her. Great point of views offered, and as a bonus get to hear some personal insight into Mark himself. She is a great listener, and her multicultural upbringing has given her a unique advantage. Thank you for bringing us these talks Soft White Underbelly.
@brinavarro13
@brinavarro13 11 ай бұрын
If we don’t reflect, we repeat
@peterallen.
@peterallen. 11 ай бұрын
Gorgeous 😊 actually I recount dat statement your a pig ignorant woman!
@peterallen.
@peterallen. 11 ай бұрын
@thematriarchy2075 I'm saying your gorgeous
@thematriarchy2075
@thematriarchy2075 11 ай бұрын
@@peterallen. Move on, Peter, move on
@peterallen.
@peterallen. 11 ай бұрын
@thematriarchy2075 okay I wont compliment u your not nice 🙂
@thematriarchy2075
@thematriarchy2075 11 ай бұрын
@@peterallen. Fine by me. 🙂
@NattyByNature-
@NattyByNature- 11 ай бұрын
She told no lies. And that’s why now I leave from the beginning. Met someone recently and I could tell she’s not a nice person based on how she is brutally honest and says anything with little to no regard for ppl feelings and when corrected she sees it as an attack. I told her have a blessed life, we don’t align and her response confirmed that I made the best decision for me. This video was a confirmation for me. Thanks
11 ай бұрын
So you want a woman to lie to you ? Do you have her number handy ?
@NattyByNature-
@NattyByNature- 11 ай бұрын
Your response says it’s all 🤦🏽‍♂️. People can be honest with class and tack not brutally honest. Or just speak without thinking. I also listed other things that confirmed it for me. But you only read what you wanted. You don’t even know what the response was so how did you even draw that conclusion? Have a nice day sweetie 🙄
11 ай бұрын
@@NattyByNature- didnt realize you were a girl until now so now i understand the ' feelings ' part . But it doesnt change what i said ,i rather the truth over a lie because thats the way i am ,brutally honest . Be more concerned with the truth then getting your feelings hurt because on the day the truth comes out it will hurt way more child . It is what i would tell my daughter ...whose middle name was monique too . I am a Campbell as well .
@NattyByNature-
@NattyByNature- 11 ай бұрын
Very interesting the name coincidence. I won’t date anyone that’s brutally anything but to each their own.
@subtomypage
@subtomypage 10 ай бұрын
lol that start to reply was rude hahha
@gregmarino5397
@gregmarino5397 10 ай бұрын
i have been researching relationships for 2 years and this is one of the best interviews i have heard. this is what no one wants to hear today. i love her. he's great too
@voice88out
@voice88out 11 ай бұрын
Honestly: What fascinating me is Mark engagement with the whole conversation! Loved it
@sharonblumbergs7596
@sharonblumbergs7596 11 ай бұрын
"courage is a huge part of being a man " truth
@mehtabfarukhi2135
@mehtabfarukhi2135 5 ай бұрын
Such a great interview, listening to two intelligent and compassionate people. Thank you Sadia and Mark.
@migueltichareva904
@migueltichareva904 11 ай бұрын
The interviewer was interviewed and he had no choice but to answer.
@realamericannegro977
@realamericannegro977 11 ай бұрын
Sadia was just being a woman all women do is ask questions and the most questions when talking to a man
@milliem1969
@milliem1969 11 ай бұрын
It's sad that you don't see the professional side where she as a psychologist is observing and trying to prove maybe some theory and Mark participates very aware of this
@cosmicsea89
@cosmicsea89 11 ай бұрын
That's what psychologists do lol
@subtomypage
@subtomypage 10 ай бұрын
shes hot so thats y
@subtomypage
@subtomypage 10 ай бұрын
@@milliem1969 shes a fraud posng
@lj9524
@lj9524 11 ай бұрын
This woman’s observations and advice are absolutely amazing! This is one if the best conversations/ interviews you have done so far. Thank you so very much!👏👏👏👏👏👏
@subtomypage
@subtomypage 10 ай бұрын
not really put her looks aside and her foreign accent and guess what shes boring
@gmcanberraaustralia
@gmcanberraaustralia 11 ай бұрын
That was a great talk Mark, nice to see you doing more interviews with deep thinkers, I have been watching you for so many years, I dont know how you have done so many hard depressing street living ones, so I enjoy theses quality people!
@AJP-j8c
@AJP-j8c 11 ай бұрын
Well, I understand your sentiment, the labeling of quality people is a bit harsh.
@christinacampbell5952
@christinacampbell5952 11 ай бұрын
I know what you mean. I like getting different perspectives. I'm also a bit sexist bc I'd rather get insight about relationships from women than men. One interview with a man who was a psychologist or something started out with his explanation of what women want, and I stopped listening right after I heard his take on that. I also wish Mark would do interviews with high functioning people. So we get to hear what their realities are. I bet we'd be surprised.
@radfoo72
@radfoo72 11 ай бұрын
I hands down prefer This deep conversation over an episode of "Rebecca" rambling.
@radfoo72
@radfoo72 11 ай бұрын
​@@christinacampbell5952 I'm curious if you're referring to his episode with Orion Taraban that was posted 2 weeks ago because that guy was on the Whatever podcast and I think he has some bad takes so I don't subscribe to his philosophy. I know you said you prefer to listen to women but I was jw if you've ever listened to a male youtuber who was given the moniker "hoe_math"? He discusses dating & relationship dynamics of men & women and I'm wondering how you'd score his accuracy and emotional intelligence.
@cmack17
@cmack17 11 ай бұрын
"Deep thinker" 😂
@thomaspryor8202
@thomaspryor8202 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for having her back! She is SO insightful.
@baghodler508
@baghodler508 11 ай бұрын
I love that she's asking mark these questions 🤣
@oliviastar3812
@oliviastar3812 11 ай бұрын
and zero social skills .... My first meeting with my niece's psych friend was a disappointing one where she promptly blurted out something tactless like 'Oh YOU'RE Olivia! I've heard a lot about you' ... to which I promptly showed my disdain with silence and a tired smile@@baublesanddolls
@subtomypage
@subtomypage 10 ай бұрын
@@baublesanddollsshes a counselor posng
@otrebla8944
@otrebla8944 10 ай бұрын
Same. It would be interesting if they switched places for an interview.
@Anthony-zq5uh
@Anthony-zq5uh 10 ай бұрын
​@@baublesanddollstell me you had a bad therapy experience without telling me you had a bad therapy experience
@mosaton
@mosaton 11 ай бұрын
Holy smokes this interview and her analysis parallels my personal experiences, almost word for word in the way I would've described it. I feel much better about myself and the decisions I've made and why I've made them. I feel validated. I'll definitely rewatch this, and I've already subscribed to her channel. I wish she were my therapist!
@Pkh1187
@Pkh1187 11 ай бұрын
Her hair covering the mic which is messing with the audio is driving me nuts
@theresarossouw1637
@theresarossouw1637 11 ай бұрын
She moves her hands too much that's why.
@_greta_music_
@_greta_music_ 11 ай бұрын
i feel you, i hate noisy sounds too
@carolgosenheimer9415
@carolgosenheimer9415 11 ай бұрын
Terrible sounds quality on this one, had to skip it completely. 🫤
@Pkh1187
@Pkh1187 11 ай бұрын
@@carolgosenheimer9415 I skipped it too
@pegasusflameheart6479
@pegasusflameheart6479 11 ай бұрын
Yeah someone wasn't wearing headphones when he filmed this time
@dennisnewton9384
@dennisnewton9384 11 ай бұрын
I love your conversations with this beautiful woman and I appreciate the insight. I’ve learned so much and grown from this channel. Building up the courage to submit a tape. Keep up the good work
@surfergirl2943
@surfergirl2943 11 ай бұрын
She is extremely articulate and informative . I really do enjoy her!
@peterallen.
@peterallen. 11 ай бұрын
I enjoy u 2 😊😊😊
@radfoo72
@radfoo72 11 ай бұрын
@@peterallen. You enjoy Every woman in the comments😂
@peterallen.
@peterallen. 11 ай бұрын
@radfoo72 respect bro 💯 😄
@jjonez787
@jjonez787 11 ай бұрын
sHeS sO aRtIklAte!!! 😂😂😂😂
@surfergirl2943
@surfergirl2943 11 ай бұрын
@@jjonez787 🤣😆…if you only heard my voice to go along with it in real life too - you’d prob wanna punch me or you’d love it . But seriously, do you not think she is articulate? Especially after being subjected to an abundance of Rebecca’s rambling, nonsensical pontifications and diatribes. I mean this is damn near Rhodes Scholar material compared to that shit lol ! 🤷🏻‍♀️
@rachelx230484x
@rachelx230484x 11 ай бұрын
Love that she got out a bit of background on you Mark! As a married woman of 8years the advice on emotional connection and physical is bang on. Im learning alot here about what my husbands needs even if he can't express it. If only they educated us on this subject properly at school! It's fascinating and enlightening ❤
@cinnamonappple
@cinnamonappple 11 ай бұрын
She’s very straight to the point. Love this about her. Such an intelligent woman.
@Innerlight320
@Innerlight320 11 ай бұрын
Her point not necessarily anyone else’s
@menotyou6254
@menotyou6254 11 ай бұрын
Please do not listen to this woman she is misogynistic and manipulative.
@heenagujral244
@heenagujral244 3 ай бұрын
Sadia is such a well spoken intelligent woman and u can see she has that glimmer of childlike girly shyness in her eyes. It's actually very endearing. What a beautiful interview between Sadia and Mark.
@MrPnew1
@MrPnew1 11 ай бұрын
She is good. Less than three minutes in and she is interviewing Mark 😂
@yourfriendmelanie
@yourfriendmelanie 11 ай бұрын
i love it 😂 she’s such a good guest
@realamericannegro977
@realamericannegro977 11 ай бұрын
How does that make her good?
@jamtlandhomesteaders2710
@jamtlandhomesteaders2710 11 ай бұрын
It's a way to keep someone interested- ask them about themselves...
@cosmicsea89
@cosmicsea89 11 ай бұрын
She's a psychologist, that's what they do
@subtomypage
@subtomypage 10 ай бұрын
@@yourfriendmelanie shes hot but boring on both lnterviews as good as she looks for her age l had lt on ln the background not really watchn more focused on computer while lT was on tv
@sazopro
@sazopro 11 ай бұрын
it's unfortunate the mic noises, I just can't focus on what she's saying which I'm sure is pure gold, she always provides amazing insights.
@silentgaming1575
@silentgaming1575 10 ай бұрын
"please don't take this to mean that i'm a good person in any way shape or form..." humility yet seeting boundries clearly. beautiful
@eyeoh2006
@eyeoh2006 9 ай бұрын
You’ve gone from strength to strength to bring quality interviews which translate into such specific insights. These have really been helpful in helping me develop as a person. Can’t thank you enough.
@Dreamstate8
@Dreamstate8 11 ай бұрын
I loved this interview! She speaks so well about interesting things and Im looking forward to seeing the things that she has on her channel . Very thought provoking. I was crying when she said that being in a relationship can calm a nervous system.
@beastinshow2362
@beastinshow2362 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for an enlightening talk, Sadia K. :) Honestly, as an old SWU sub I've thoroughly enjoyed both your and Orion's takes on the social dicotomy situation and transactional emotional & physical exchanges that continouously run through all of our daily social- and especially romantic- relationships. These have been true eye('third eye' especially perhaps) opening experiences for me, and I hope you'll both be back many more times in the future :) with love and respect from Sweden,
@chimpes
@chimpes 11 ай бұрын
What a great interview very informative and how awesome is that Mark was the counterpart on the conversation.
@Francesco_M.
@Francesco_M. 11 ай бұрын
You can never get enough of talking relationships in that they are so vital to our lives whether they're good and serve us well or are in the process of demolishing our life. Granted there will be a next episode with Sadia I would call for a discussion about human development of children under the care of a couple, both in the case of a positive outcome or very unfavourable one. All the best to all of those who are struggling in whatever way that has been taken place.
@christinaandrews6161
@christinaandrews6161 11 ай бұрын
Great video! I love these types of interviews, and love that you mentioned doing more of them. Digging in to relationships at every level is such a critical component of our every day lives and interactions. Would appreciate more interviews with Sadia and others with a unique perspective and/or advice on relationships as a whole.
@davidbanner9344
@davidbanner9344 11 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for having Sadia back on. This Woman is a treasure, she's one of very few people on this world, that I agree 💯 with. She is spot on each and every time.
@yolandaahrens9583
@yolandaahrens9583 11 ай бұрын
So insightful. So much she says hits spot on for me. I really enjoy these type of interviews once in a while.
@SevenSixkiller
@SevenSixkiller Ай бұрын
One of my favorite things about Sadia is that she ALWAYS engages the interviewer and asks their opinion on whatever is being discussed-or just totally flips the script and asks them a more personal (but appropriate) question. She comes across as very genuine in doing so, too. Always enjoy listening to her perspective.
@ow3wells
@ow3wells 11 ай бұрын
She is right about the difference in cultural rejection, people who have the ability to move on after being told no seems more attractive.
@justinzrandomvideoz5475
@justinzrandomvideoz5475 11 ай бұрын
Maybe they are more attractive to begin with and that is why it doesn't phase them.
@ow3wells
@ow3wells 11 ай бұрын
@@justinzrandomvideoz5475 Maybe not, they just are able carry themselves in that way.
@DerekRobertsonSomerville
@DerekRobertsonSomerville 11 ай бұрын
@@Smethells2023so she studied psychology but is not a registered psychologist. I mean anybody can study psychology, the hardest part is trying to become a board certified one. Seems there are so many of these types on social media now 😂😂
@radfoo72
@radfoo72 11 ай бұрын
I had a friend from Africa a few years back and he embodied that same exact outgoing positivity!
@rachelrae860
@rachelrae860 11 ай бұрын
@@Smethells2023 I agree with you 💯
@guycomputer829
@guycomputer829 11 ай бұрын
Man, great talk! One of the more interesting discussions you've had in a while w/somebody. Thank you both.
@amiraauthenticallyherself
@amiraauthenticallyherself 11 ай бұрын
That is so true. I am overweight and long for a relationship, but realized I have been running from the truth. I have low self esteem due to my weight and am self conscious of it. Rightfully so, I suppose. Now on a weight loss journey to correct my wrongs. Lost 17 pounds. I was 320 at my heaviest, but am 300.4 now. You'd think that may not be much, and it is not really. However, I didn't realize guys really viewed me, and that is because they did not. Who would? That fact made me feel the heaviest rejection from society. It is verrryyy hard to accept that while looking in the mirror. Once I did, I felt accepting of where I am at now, but ambitious of where I could be. It truly shows because I did not get defensive at all. I just accepted it and putting in the work to change :). Just love this channel.
@thematriarchy2075
@thematriarchy2075 11 ай бұрын
Your weight should only be a problem because of your health. I understand you would like a relationship, but there definitely is someone for everyone. Don't forget, men are not the saviors of this world! Much succes with your weight loss❤
@MK-Hogan
@MK-Hogan 11 ай бұрын
Good for you! And that IS a lot of weight lost. One pound at a time, just keep it going. 🙌🏼 This is why the body positive movement has gotten very dangerous. It convinces women (men don’t fall for it) that they’re perfectly healthy and attractive, and that if men don’t find us attractive they’re just terrible. The reality is just what it is and deluding ourselves doesn’t change it. When you feel good from making your body healthier, it shows via confidence and happiness, which is appealing.
@Fortress500
@Fortress500 11 күн бұрын
Hey. I’m coming back to remind you to not fall off the horse. Chase the feeling of what it’s like to be healthy. I hope your journey continues and you’re able to extract out of life that which you desire. much love.
@amiraauthenticallyherself
@amiraauthenticallyherself 11 күн бұрын
@Fortress500 Thank you so much!!! I ammmmmmm around 270 I think. I hit weight plateau 🙄. But I am still in the gym. Had some offs and one, but back with consistency and the right diet. Aiming for 260 now 😊🫡
@joshb6993
@joshb6993 3 күн бұрын
Wishing you great success in your journey! Making personal changes can be so hard to maintain. You should be very proud of yourself
@groovytau
@groovytau 6 ай бұрын
you're not boring at all miss Sadia, this is what we need, education on relationship.
@cg9279
@cg9279 11 ай бұрын
Sadia - I have learned so much from your insights and appreciate your brutal honesty. You're the real deal - beautiful, super intelligent and yet extremely down to earth and willing to listen. Thank you for what you've shared in both interviews on this channel.
@rachelx230484x
@rachelx230484x 11 ай бұрын
Love Sadia, a fellow Londoner ❤ I can relate and really accept what she says in all her interviews! Relationships and people are so interesting keep her coming back Mark 😊
@TerriWall-x3r
@TerriWall-x3r 7 ай бұрын
THE BEST, most wholesome and grounded advice I’ve EVER heard. What an exceptional therapist…one of a kind…amazing and empowering!
@threadgrassone
@threadgrassone 11 ай бұрын
REALLY enjoyed this one. Keep the mental health and repairing relationships interviews coming !
@threadgrassone
@threadgrassone 8 ай бұрын
@@karenlubeck3294 she isn’t a therapist? I thought that was the whole premise of this interview.
@karenlubeck3294
@karenlubeck3294 8 ай бұрын
@@threadgrassone, There is another Woman of the same name who is named Sadia Khan who is an actress. I mistook her for the psychologist Sadia Khan. Please disregard what I said. I will be deleting my comments.
@Nobody-Nowhere
@Nobody-Nowhere 11 ай бұрын
Ronald Fairbairn explained this really well; he described the "exiting yet frustrating" object. This is well explained in a paper titled "The Allure of the Bad Object", that can be found online. Its the best single paper on this subject. "There had been indications that the other was incapable of reciprocating, or loving, or accepting them in the way they desire. They had been pursuing an alluring but rejecting object; an exciting yet frustrating object. The object initially may have offered the conditions of hope but it failed to satisfy. It had awakened an intensity of yearning but it is essentially the elusive object of desire, seemingly there but just out of reach."
@radfoo72
@radfoo72 11 ай бұрын
*exciting (?)
@Nobody-Nowhere
@Nobody-Nowhere 11 ай бұрын
@@radfoo72 Yes, that's correct. English is not my native language.
@jamescheaye927
@jamescheaye927 11 ай бұрын
Chasing The Dragon 🐉
@malama_ka_aina
@malama_ka_aina 11 ай бұрын
Very cool seeing Mark being indirectly interviewed. Thank you Mark and guest.
@tammyschwarz6388
@tammyschwarz6388 11 ай бұрын
The duty of caring….. soooooo true! Well said.
@arlifestyles
@arlifestyles 11 ай бұрын
This interview was very informative and agreeable. I love her transparency, intelligence, and beauty. Hey family did a great job setting a foundation for her to blossom 🌸💯
@Midami422
@Midami422 11 ай бұрын
Sadia and Mark, I adore you two to pieces. 1000x thank you!!! This interview has been outstanding and has helped me think about how I am treating my spouse and what I can do better. Lots of great advices. I have shared this video with my peers, family, friends, and my significant other. Also, I did not know men live longer if they are married. That is really good to know. Mark, you are extremely appreciated for all the work you have done and shared with us. You have given us so much. Please do not forget to give back to yourself. You deserve nothing but success, love, respect and happiness. Sadia, please keep sharing these advices. They are extremely valued and appreciated by folks like me.
@paullittle4040
@paullittle4040 10 ай бұрын
Important for men to hear the perspective of women. Relationships are so complex and the way to break that down is knowledge (of the opposite sex). Another great interview Mark!
@jmatrix002the1
@jmatrix002the1 11 ай бұрын
I normally hear thru my headphones and im like hold up! Voice and accent!!! Who is this angel!!
@Mehwhatever349
@Mehwhatever349 8 ай бұрын
I wish I could like a video twice. You guys are my relationship gurus. Much love.
@easy8325
@easy8325 11 ай бұрын
She gives me a new outlook on relationships.
@vicki5322
@vicki5322 11 ай бұрын
i'm curious what people other than me think, what's this new outlook on relationships you have?
@kelleyfarm
@kelleyfarm 11 ай бұрын
What a gift both her interviews are
@thepragmatist
@thepragmatist 11 ай бұрын
I love that Sadia asks Mark questions.
@sarahwolff1299
@sarahwolff1299 11 ай бұрын
I enjoyed this interview more than the rest. It also makes me want to refresh my own relationship. Thank you for this boost !
@yuglesstube
@yuglesstube 11 ай бұрын
How thoughtful. Fascinating.
@saoyha
@saoyha 10 күн бұрын
Merci beaucoup to both of you for this very rich and authentic sharing that I found so interesting as well as comforting ;-) . I felt very touched by what you both shared about what shaped your experience of love, including how your parents loved / have been loving each other.. I wish you both to keep loving and being loved in an enchanting and fulfilling way ;-). Thank you to the Soft White Underbelly team too ;-)
@1StumpBaby
@1StumpBaby 11 ай бұрын
She’s so beautiful 😭😭
@shomgerry
@shomgerry 11 ай бұрын
Such a delight that she came on twice. An amazing interview, thank you both 👏🏿
@jennymcbain486
@jennymcbain486 11 ай бұрын
Thank you Mark for sharing your therapy session.
@SarahTerror.0
@SarahTerror.0 11 ай бұрын
Hahaha, really though
@standridge81
@standridge81 11 ай бұрын
I learned a thing or two off of this session. She's got the brains and the beauty. Kudos to Sadia for speaking on women taking accountability for their choices. "If we don't reflect, we repeat." Solid interview.
@nhlibra
@nhlibra 11 ай бұрын
Another great interview with Sadia. There were a few points that reminded me that I made the right decision (sometimes just luck) and a couple of reminders where I really screwed up. The key is to stay open for learning. Thank you for more valued information. Sadia. ♥
@subtomypage
@subtomypage 10 ай бұрын
another boring 1 but since she hot and foreign people act like lnteresting
@JD-vs3do
@JD-vs3do 7 ай бұрын
Another all time episode by Mark and A Great speaker. Thank you Sadia ! It's priceless for most listeners.
@HybridTrapMusic
@HybridTrapMusic 11 ай бұрын
felt like a therapy sesh
@JM-sn7bd
@JM-sn7bd 11 ай бұрын
Excellent interview, Mark; monumentally insightful. Any chance for a boom mic in the future? Those clipped mics always pick up sound from the clothing of your guests.
@roxannedunlop1044
@roxannedunlop1044 11 ай бұрын
People do go through ups and downs physically. We need to love the person.
@ukalypse
@ukalypse 11 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@justbreathe8835
@justbreathe8835 11 ай бұрын
For a woman pregnancy is the number one factor for weight gain in my opinion,which can be healthy and beautiful. Other than that maybe an accident for men or woman could be an issue out of your hands. Bit for the large majority its laziness.
@roxannedunlop1044
@roxannedunlop1044 11 ай бұрын
I think there are many reasons people gain weight. How about depression? That is one. Whatever it is have compassion for the individual.
@justbreathe8835
@justbreathe8835 11 ай бұрын
@@roxannedunlop1044 that makes sense and I agree,I think that still applies with what I'm saying. That if all individuals take accountability for their life, that can bring them closer to solutions in their lives over not taking accountability.
@williamallen4128
@williamallen4128 11 ай бұрын
She is very well educated and well spoken. I learn a lot from her
@joanna9340
@joanna9340 11 ай бұрын
BAM!! She speaks TRUTH to Mark on porn and OF and sex industry!! He is adamantly protective of sex work, so it was GREAT that she spoke on TRUTH of it. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@karenrutherford2844
@karenrutherford2844 6 ай бұрын
This is so rich and insightful! I never understood the two sexes so well. It’s so hard to find answers as to why I’m the way I am and to not only understand myself but my husband. The men are simple yet completely different. I didn’t understand myself as a woman. The emotions as a woman are so intense that looking at something more logically to understand oneself is rough. I appreciate this knowledge so deeply! I love this!
@mball5
@mball5 11 ай бұрын
I am confused by Sadia’s and Mark’s support for Andrew Tate. Tate’s actions and words do not align. Most of what Tate does is a scam. I would like them to elaborate on that. Did anyone else think that was weird?
@ukalypse
@ukalypse 11 ай бұрын
Tate has popularized misogyny.
@mball5
@mball5 11 ай бұрын
@@ukalypseand is a pathological and idiotic liar. Not sure why mark thinks he is intelligent
@HitTheBricks89
@HitTheBricks89 11 ай бұрын
@@ukalypse Misogyny was never unpopular.
@Joesire
@Joesire 10 ай бұрын
I've listened to Tate some and he does say somethings I disagree with but he does present an intelligent perspective that you will not get from many sources these days. It's hard to find masculine perspective in popular media today. Remember the media will only focus on the negative angle of a person, but he says some e uplifting things for men that are needed. Most of the people that dislike him don't really even listen to him. That is how society is, to me it's just weird how people want to erase people they disagree with. I've heard more positive things from him than bad, he has said some bad advice but I use MY mind to make judgement on whether I agree or disagree. I don't listen to him much, but he is popular for a REAL reason. Someone tried to tell me he was a bad person once, and she showed me a video someone made about how bad he was. I thought that was weird. In the video he basically was talking about a form of virtual pimping with only fans and how to do it, which is Immoral and I can see why he would be called a misogynist. But that video was old. But from the videos that Ive seen... It's none of that. I simply wouldn't be watching that, because that's not what I'm into. Most of the videos I've seen are about male empowerment and life lessons and people don't like that. Dude has gotten a lot of media hate coverage which is strange to me.
@ziggystardust457
@ziggystardust457 20 күн бұрын
Totally agree, Tate is a tool.
@mohsendj987
@mohsendj987 11 ай бұрын
The content is amazing. Some adjustments on the sound quality would make it better
@hanaanderson6128
@hanaanderson6128 11 ай бұрын
Always enjoy listening to her interviews! Informative insight ❤
@lol.198
@lol.198 11 ай бұрын
I could listen to her all day long. Such a smart, insightful woman!
@technomickdocumentalist2495
@technomickdocumentalist2495 11 ай бұрын
She’s right about so much stuff, and Mark talking about being a late bloomer, I turned 40 last week and the ladies are now making moves on me ! Wtf ? But in my teens when I was partying I had girlfriends here and there but I was always holding back. Life is a strange journey.. . Nice one Mark, this is a great guest to have on. 💯🙏☮️🙏
@marcspeir
@marcspeir 4 ай бұрын
Great videos, Mark! Please wear headphones when you interview so you can hear what you're recording and adjust accordingly!
@MEL2theJ
@MEL2theJ 11 ай бұрын
Fantastic interview 💎 Thank you Mrs. Khan & SWU
@sumenabegum8568
@sumenabegum8568 11 ай бұрын
She’s just so lovely and full of wisdom.
@Jess.E.17
@Jess.E.17 11 ай бұрын
I love Sadia! Thanks for bringing her back. ❤️🙏🏼
@nutzky
@nutzky 11 ай бұрын
I'm happy Sadia is back, I always learn a lot from her.
@johnnyutah9462
@johnnyutah9462 11 ай бұрын
This girl is by far the most entertaining and informative guest he's had on. I'm glad hes bringing her back. I'm gonna keep an eye out for more of her work.
@fieryred518
@fieryred518 5 ай бұрын
She is great! And her advice is spot on. Unfortunately, sometimes, the truth is hard to swallow for some people. I love how she tells the truth that most don't want to hear.....But always remember it may not be fair, but life is not fair!
@lisastarr7998
@lisastarr7998 11 ай бұрын
Imagine having dinner with her and Orion. They’re both so interesting but also frustrating in the same way. They’d probably talk over each other.
@abigailibarra3765
@abigailibarra3765 11 ай бұрын
Very insightful I send to a few friends. It’s absolutely true people show you exactly who they are through action.
@sublime7480
@sublime7480 11 ай бұрын
I couldn't listen longer than 10 due to the microphone rubbing. Mark please remember to keep it clear from obstruction.
@OlRubberNuts
@OlRubberNuts 10 ай бұрын
Yes everyone please remember to do everything perfectly all the time or else someone might complain. Lol bunch of bozos
@sublime7480
@sublime7480 10 ай бұрын
@@OlRubberNuts I have sensory issues. Thanks for your understanding.
@OlRubberNuts
@OlRubberNuts 10 ай бұрын
@@sublime7480 that is nobody else's problem thanks for understanding
@OlRubberNuts
@OlRubberNuts 10 ай бұрын
@@sublime7480Your sensory issues aren't anybody else's problem thanks for understanding
@fkcoolers2669
@fkcoolers2669 10 ай бұрын
@@OlRubberNuts Or when you have a show whose primary focus is audio, ensure the audio quality is good. This isn't complex stuff, bud. Try to keep up.
@AliJacobson-u6r
@AliJacobson-u6r 7 ай бұрын
Bam! This succinctly explains so much for so many of us ~ brilliant & helpful.. Thank you, Sadia Khan & Mark. (Yes, watching again.)
@angelamador2848
@angelamador2848 11 ай бұрын
Her voice is so soothing
@heatherphillips2715
@heatherphillips2715 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying the bit about reward the women that” don’t ask for anything “ vs the entitled ones…
@SarahTerror.0
@SarahTerror.0 11 ай бұрын
Yes. It breeds the "nice gals finish last" attitudes in women.
@user-xs5dp4gw8e
@user-xs5dp4gw8e 11 ай бұрын
yes it really means appreciate your partner ... it works both ways ... no one likes being taken for granted for very long
@Rotty_Mom
@Rotty_Mom 11 ай бұрын
I heard a lot of great information from Sadia. I needed to hear this today. My spirit guide has been showing up a lot lately. Thank you Mark for the great content. Thank you Sadia for your knowledge shared. ❤
@ciaputter7462
@ciaputter7462 10 ай бұрын
Rewarding the entitlement…. Damn. I immediately cried at that. I have never asked for anything and did so much for my husband. After missing Christmas, my birthday and Valentine’s Day I gave up. I couldn’t even get a ring from him after doing all his immigration work. I never wanted him to feel alone in such a stressful situation. I tried to do everything hoping he’d do everything and rise up as a partner. Never asked for him to pay my bills nor had he ever offered. My son asked me if it’s worth it, my husband left me in October hoping we could just make it long distance while reworking through immigration. Other men have wanted to marry me and take care of me but I feel so much that there is value and respect in marriage. I can’t even get him to tell his parents we are married. I’m a hidden wife and I hate myself for allowing this.
@tiffanybazemore3058
@tiffanybazemore3058 11 ай бұрын
She gets it! Everyone in the comments berating her was probably touched by some of her truths. A hit dog will always holler.
@AnnaDN76
@AnnaDN76 11 ай бұрын
While I do not necessarily agree with everything she says, I think she has a major point saying that we are letting our childhood traumas and insecurities choosing our partners, and that is how the broken homes and consequently broken people epidemic is going on and worsening. That being said, I do not think arranged marriages are the solution !
@SammyBad1
@SammyBad1 11 ай бұрын
For some reason, her saying that women are inherently manipulative and that they are more likely to cheat than men in her last interview rlly rubbed me the wrong way 😩
@thematriarchy2075
@thematriarchy2075 11 ай бұрын
I think the numbers are pretty equal, as far as cheating goes
@sgolosio
@sgolosio 11 ай бұрын
Its give and take with internet view ... i dont take her view
@ScrapIrma
@ScrapIrma 10 ай бұрын
She’s brainwashed by patriarchy … she stated she respects Andrew Tate and what he’s done for masculinity, so it’s no surprise her views are misogynistic with her view that women are more manipulative.
@OlRubberNuts
@OlRubberNuts 10 ай бұрын
@@thematriarchy2075is that just what you think or is there any research that suggests this
@daniellamoreno3616
@daniellamoreno3616 10 ай бұрын
Well she’s not lieing.
@johnasti7429
@johnasti7429 11 ай бұрын
Great interview. Sadia is a great therapist and a beautiful woman with great insight. I totally enjoyed listening. Thank you again, great job interviewing...
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