Some expats in Thailand lose far more than money! ☠️

[@sarlina1]

As a Thai woman, I urge foreigners to protect themselves financially. Use lawyers, never have joint accounts, keep your own wealth and income your own. Never let your Thai wife get access to it alone. Also have a will written up, and make sure your wife understands that you are not worth more dead than alive. I`m sorry to hear about these stories, unfortunately there are quite a few of them, and they give honest and good Thai women a bad name.

[@GreenyTravels]

Good and bad everywhere. Good advice. I’ve been preaching it for a while.

[@IronMikeDyson1979]

​@GreenyTravels stay away from saying Sui***, youtube will strike your videos

[@DHARMIK_M]

99.99% of thai women are just money hungry womens.

[@stephenhibbert3835]

In Se Asia in general it is good to rent and have only a regular monthly deposit (as far as anyone knows) it puts you in the fortuitus position of being worth more alive than dead.

[@ausaskar]

Yep, keep all your money at home and drip feed it to yourself through means that only you control. Don't bring it all over and leave it in local assets that might tempt *someone* .

[@randyfournier8299]

@@ausaskarthat’s the secret to be worth more alive than dead.

[@GreenyTravels]

Definitely. Keep your money overseas and brink over what you want to spend in small increments

[@olumidekolajo4133]

@@stephenhibbert3835 Spot on man . Never let them know how much you are worth . Money should be kept in your home country , only take out what you need monthly and most importantly women are the same anywhere in the world don’t believe Thai women will treat you better than western women when it’s concerning money .

[@Dutchy695]

​@@ausaskarGood advice

[@emptyemptiness8372]

I had a wealthy friend who died of a heart attack....found face down in a pond with a wound on the back of his head, within a week he was in the oven which is sorta quick for farang in Thailand. At the funeral his wife looked like the cat that ate the rat, surrounded by girlfriends all dressed to the nines and smiling. I laughed to myself because I knew he had used lawyers in England and Thailand to protect his wealth.....she was already spending....but the lawyers will tell her she gets nothing😂. I doubt it was a heart attack. NEVER LET ANYONE THINK YOU ARE WORTH MORE DEAD TO THEM THAN ALIVE...ESPECIALLY A THAI BIRD YOU MET IN A BAR .

[@GreenyTravels]

Yep. Good to leave your wealth at home and only move over what you need

[@嘉穎-r9g]

Thank you for the video !!!!!!!!

[@NotTomS]

"we could build a house"... famous words to run from... Heard it many many times here...beware guys, rat poison is all the rage here too...

[@BorisTheSpyder]

Pay the Bar Fine, find a Freelancer...dont shack up!

[@Hello11World]

@@BorisTheSpyder rent don't buy, as with all things, beer , women, housing

[@warrpedd]

It's dangerous to be worth more dead than alive.

[@GreenyTravels]

So true

[@Dutchy695]

​@@warrpeddAnd 5hats anywhere on planet earth

[@muhamedhabeeb791]

Once a story starts with ( Pattaya, a bar girl, a massage lady, a freelancer .... ) don't expect a pleasant ending to that novel!! Go there, have fun, enjoy your vacation and get back home safely. Decided to live there, then remember ( Sitting in the darkness to search for the light!!).

[@olumidekolajo4133]

A few hours with a Pattaya lady should be okay anything extending to a few days to getting involved in any kind of relationship nearly always ends in disaster.

[@henriverbeek6877]

Yes unbelievable people still fall for it.

[@GreenyTravels]

Maybe this video will help 1 or 2 guys.

[@petermavrenski6602]

These places are awesome fun, but it will suck the life out of you of you if you become addicted.

[@petertulloch5581]

@@petermavrenski6602 and it is very addictive. I have fallen for Thai women before but now I just enjoy my time with them whilst on holiday but at the same time treating them with respect and not being mean. Once home forget about them and find a new one on the next holiday.

[@billyjohnson9166]

This is not unusual a Thai women fleecing the foreigner. There’s a lot of videos describing this.

[@GreenyTravels]

Poor fellas

[@billyjohnson9166]

@@GreenyTravels I have to say one thing never ever spend or invest more then you can afford to lose in a foreign country. If I lost everything I invested in the Philippines I could go on and live a great life.

[@Buceesfanmaarten]

Little empathy for men who think with their dicks, this doesn’t happen to intelligent men.

[@warrpedd]

Not only foreigners. You only need to look at the Thai news to see what Thais do to other Thais.

[@youngandfree93]

​@@billyjohnson9166Philippines is poverty country

[@martinhetland819]

Enter the game,play the game, pay the game ,leave the game.

[@glorgau]

He f'd up and trusted her. The daughter should have gotten the father out of there by saying something like "show me around Thailand or let's take a quick trip to Malaysia or Singapore".

[@MrEKS-st6mc]

Right on ! Or get a Phuking lawyer !

[@Jack-2day]

@@MrEKS-st6mc Who hires an investigator…(plenty of options were open) $$

[@ericpowell4350]

The thing is, you can't force someone to do anything, regardless of their age, unless you get a court order.

[@DrTofutybeast]

Remember they were being poisoned as well...

[@ROGERX007]

How many women file for divorce in America and take the children and everything from the man. Keep your money secure and be smart.

[@carltonedwards8775]

Far more men get destroyed financially, mentally and physically by women in the USA before they can get on a plane to fly to a foreign country.

[@GreenyTravels]

100%

[@edalan685]

80% of the divorces are filed by the women in the USA. Go figure 🤔 money money money. 😢

[@davidh1927]

Happens all the time here in Thailand...nothing, nothing is as it seems

[@GreenyTravels]

Trickery at its finest. I love it here!

[@SS-tr1th]

Your initial ga ga exoticism seems to be wearing thin after reality bites, eh?

[@olumidekolajo4133]

Remember lads they don’t like you. You are liked for as long as you can provide baht . If you give them a free rein of your money they may decide they want it all at once that’s when you become disposable . Tragic story but it happens too often

[@NicolasLampkin-qr4rx]

What makes you think he killed himself. Where is the evidence

[@ScooterOnHisWay2024]

Same in any country.

[@clivebaxter6354]

@@NicolasLampkin-qr4rx well he's dead

[@GreenyTravels]

That’s the mystery, isn’t it. No one will ever know for sure.

[@freyafoxmusic]

Does this happen to lesbians too?

[@trevormappley]

Same happened to my friend in Thailand 2014 he was fit strong been married to her for 11 years without paper work she kept insisting they married properly so they went Bangkok married officially in July he was dead in October she took all his money in Thailand and England depriving his daughters in England inheritance

[@GreenyTravels]

Crazy. I will stay in a big city around other Farang to keep an eye on me

[@trevormappley]

@ your joke my friend!!!!

[@gruber1650]

I knew a bloke who went to Thailand got married and he died very soon after, funeral and cremation followed swiftly and she got all his money.

[@zinmintun2001]

Looks like they took " marriage until death" too seriously. 😂

[@randyfournier8299]

I am sure it was premeditated.

[@GreenIslandWoodworks]

and in nine times out of ten, the scamming. black hearted ex-whore blows it all in 12 months and ends up with nothing. ...the irony is that what she did to the old farang will happen to her with her Thai gangster boyfriend....First she gives payback to cops to shut them up,, pays off loans to gangsters for herself and family then they get into drugs, gambling, booze, bikes, cars, clothes...and soon it's all gone and so is the Thai "boyfriend".....most of it goes to the local gangsters who run the card games. I can see it now, she's half drunk, slumped over and mumbling about bad luck as she signs over the house and land to the local gangster to pay back her losses....then later that night attempts and fails at suicide. People (from all countries) who grew up with nothing then become rich overnight usually blows it all quickly...you see with NBA stars, Lotto winners and old ex-whores from Thailand.

[@GreenyTravels]

Gold diggers everywhere for sure

[@ma3stro681]

Play stupid games (get married, especially in Thailand), win stupid (and sometimes deadly) prizes … 🤡😵💀

[@getitup100]

Thought my Thai wife was poisoning me too but it simply turns out she is not a very good cook.

[@GreenIslandWoodworks]

"turns out she is not a very good cook." I bet she can cook just fine, but she wants you to pay for a maid and a cook.

[@GreenyTravels]

lol. 😂

[@SS-tr1th]

Tells her friends: I no cook for this silly old cock. And they all cackle!

[@andrewhuhn6006]

Very sad story. Hard to imagine anyone would treat another person like this. The reality of living in any foreign country.... You will always be a Foreigner!

[@GreenyTravels]

Money a powerful motivator

[@vogel431]

Live alone is my advice!

[@GreenyTravels]

Just be selective and still never trust anyone

[@SS-tr1th]

Yep yep. Born alone, live alone, die alone!

[@warrpedd]

There's being taken care of ♥️ and being "taken care of." ⚰️

[@GreenyTravels]

lol. Yep

[@WAWZDAT]

Yep, he got trapped in the "long game". They are good at it because one once your are hooked, it is hard to shake it. Like a bass with three set of treble hooks in it.

[@marcjtdc]

That is the scary thing - investing all your time money emotions then imagine the trust issues after.

[@GreenyTravels]

Female anatomy is a powerful thing!! lol. That what my old boss always said. He worded it a bit different though 😂

[@WAWZDAT]

@@GreenyTravels That is why they have hair down there. Hides the hook. Some have a treble hook and you can't shake it.

[@SS-tr1th]

@@GreenyTravels why, how did he word it? Beware of pussy power?

[@SS-tr1th]

@@WAWZDAT yes, but they butcher their bushes! and what you see is an ugly plucked chicken.

[@Anonymous98766-e]

It sounds cynical but, when it comes to women in SE Asia; it’s cheaper to rent than buy.

[@GreenIslandWoodworks]

there's a saying "..if it floats, flies or fornicates, then in the long run it's cheaper to rent it by the hour"

[@GreenyTravels]

Easy to leave if needed

[@ma3stro681]

That’s applies to woemyn everywhere, especially in the West … 😂

[@Anonymous98766-e]

@@ma3stro681 You’re not wrong.

[@SS-tr1th]

That's Not cynical, but realistic

[@robertm3561]

I agree with the daughters assessment of the situation. Likely got poisoned and consequently murdered. Interesting story & hopefully the truth will come out sooner than later!

[@muhamedhabeeb791]

Feeling Daisy could be from the food they eat in the province ( Thai food )!!!! This could be one of the possibilities.!!!!

[@robertm3561]

@@muhamedhabeeb791 That’s possible. Still quite suspicious that the two fell fatigued at the father’s place, as did the father I guess. Both visitors got better in Bkk etc. odd behavior.

[@GreenyTravels]

She seemed certain but little can be done

[@SS-tr1th]

I wouldn't hold my breath!

[@ColdHardToronto]

Stay single guys

[@freeman405]

That's the best way of living for me.

[@GreenyTravels]

Both have positives and negatives.

[@ma3stro681]

@@GreenyTravelsThere is nothing positive about being tied to a female. Bachelor life is be$t … 🎉

[@SS-tr1th]

and go self service to satisfy your needs?

[@freeman405]

@@SS-tr1th Or call one and hire.

[@dorteandersen526]

Thanks for telling the story 😊

[@GreenyTravels]

Appreciate you watching and commenting!!

[@thehammer3340]

Have fun with the ladies, NEVER live or marry them and always have a Plan B to get out of Dodge.

[@clivebaxter6354]

They are whores, not ladies

[@GreenyTravels]

Plan B C and D

[@thehammer3340]

@@GreenyTravels E, F 😆

[@johnrencher442]

Very interesting, sad but probably true.. God bless the family for their loss… Please stay safe Greenie… we appreciate you…

[@GreenyTravels]

Thanks John.

[@randyfournier8299]

I don’t trust these soulless smiling backstabbing phonies, you are tolerated, not loved or even liked in some cases. These bastards are so irresponsible, make home visit wire your air conditioner backwards though they are a repair shop, break what is not broken and you need to pay for it, what does that tell you?

[@GreenyTravels]

It’s unfortunate

[@SS-tr1th]

Tells me to beware of who is hiding behind phoney smiles

[@nickjones8867]

Love these girls i do. just don't marry them very simple.

[@GreenyTravels]

Keep the guard up.

[@henriverbeek6877]

Get an aducated woman with good background not one that is poor 99% is drama.

[@booker9879]

Get a whore with a college degree and debt? Get an educated slut that sleeps with her coworkers and random dudes in the club? Nope I'm not suicidal.

[@GreenyTravels]

Good advice

[@apptrade]

Wrong. Very wrong. Had a dr as a girlfriend with phds and a masters degree and successful businesses in Thailand. Daily drama is their identity. The modern creature is a special type of new phenomenon that needs to be considered carefully. 1. Have 10x financial leverage but act poor. Best way is to ask for money.. that will scatter the roaches once you’re bored.. and may save your life. 2. Never cohabitate 3. Always have more than one. 4. She needs to fear you slightly. Slightly.

[@ma3stro681]

AWALT buddy, is a maxim for good reason. All woemyn are like that …

[@JohnMarkwick-t3v]

@@apptradeshe needs to fear you , wow this thread is loaded with morons

[@winxtra2892]

( especially older guys ) many of us from west have to be extremely careful buying property. we (not all but many) got trapped in their sweet talk and exotics beauty which we don't get in west. I say don't buy anything for at least 3-5 years into serious relationship. Even after that, always have a Plan-B

[@muhamedhabeeb791]

✌✌✌✌

[@GreenyTravels]

Good advice. I say at least 5. Better yet buy a condo in your own name.

[@amaroqcoffee7872]

Yes and do it in a business, problem solved

[@amymegginson-uz7jj]

I'm sorry for his family and their injustice. That injustice can really make it very difficult to move on.

[@GreenyTravels]

Yes. Daughter heartbroken

[@Mike-du1dc]

How sad is that story. Sadly it is not the first one we have heard of is it? So easy for guys used to neglect or loneliness can be conned/persuaded right? Thanks for the story. No worries on the 40k you will hit & pass that easily!

[@GreenyTravels]

Thx. Appreciate it Mike!!

[@jackblack98765]

Imagine getting to 91 years old and then taking your life because of financial pressure from a (Thai) woman.

[@GreenyTravels]

It’s crazy. I wish I knew more details about that one.

[@Buceesfanmaarten]

If you date a massage girl you kind of get what you deserve.

[@barrydwyer2039]

Just imagine getting to 91 yo and still having decent amount of finance, Personally I want to screw my pension provider for what ever I can.

[@barrydwyer2039]

@@Buceesfanmaarten What a massage?

[@youngandfree93]

​@@barrydwyer2039my Grandpa lived to 100 and played golf to 95. Never drank or smoked. It's not always doom and gloom if you allow it

[@masonryjoe]

I would like to add that this happens regularly in the USA and other parts of the world as not to say it's a Thai thing.

[@mrbHanoi]

@@masonryjoe I think Thailand is easily number 1

[@MrEKS-st6mc]

@@mrbHanoibullshit

[@ScooterOnHisWay2024]

​@mrbHanoi You think wrong. It is rampant in the US. Except in thr US, the guy usually goes off and shoots up a public place.

[@talast2000]

@@mrbHanoi wrong. in the US, they do it legally with the full backing of the US divorce court.

[@mrbHanoi]

@@talast2000 most Thai relationdhips end before marriage

[@jmsiii4751]

Maybe there could be some Stockholm Syndrome going on here. Hard to say. I have experienced how good Thai women can make you feel, but I have never trusted them completely. Sad story for sure.

[@gothops2632]

How about Cambodian women and Vietnamese women?

[@jmsiii4751]

@@gothops2632 How about them?

[@GreenyTravels]

I wonder ?? Never dated any

[@Photojouralist123]

I’ve seen many of these stories from Thailand

[@GreenyTravels]

Unfortunate. There are definitely scammers. I’ve met a few

[@Photojouralist123]

@@GreenyTravels I’ve very smart educated guys do the most stupidest thing in Thailand and your story is SOP

[@ScooterOnHisWay2024]

I saw this happen many many times. In the US.

[@EvelinHolmes]

Philippine second.😢

[@MP-nf9qz]

That was a great story. Lots of lessons to be learned. I think that can happen anywhere, but in a foreign country without a support network it is much more likely for an older person.

[@GreenyTravels]

Yea. I think part of the strategy is to get an older gut to an area away from a lot of Farangs

[@BorisTheSpyder]

NEVER BUY ANYTHING IN S.E. ASIA!

[@clivebaxter6354]

Bought house and car 12 years ago still got them, rent is money down the drain

[@StephenMaher-w7q]

@@clivebaxter6354 NO its not. renting is a QUICK escape for whatever reason in a forneign country. Plan B ready to go at any time.

[@clivebaxter6354]

@@StephenMaher-w7q why would you want to escape?

[@StephenMaher-w7q]

@@clivebaxter6354 read my comment again.

[@GreenyTravels]

You can buy and still escape. Might lose some cash. Just don’t buy what you can’t afford to walk away from

[@oldthaiexpat]

He probably fired the handgun to test it

[@GreenyTravels]

Ahhh. That may explain it

[@Pauljessome]

Great job again Greeny!!

[@Robertmacmedia]

Great story Brian moral of the story always keep 1 foot ahead of the game ??

[@GreenyTravels]

Yea. Unfortunately loneliness will make many drop their guard and be easily coerced

[@consulthai]

There is no factual evidence in this story to suggest poisoning. Susan and her husband probably got sick in Phayao from food they were accustomed to. Brian , as a former policeman , you'd know that this story wouldn't stand up in court . The 92 year old suicide with 2 shots is worth investigating.

[@mynde8633]

I'm sorry things went the way it did for this guy. Hopefully he gets justice and his daughter gets to find some sort of peace, if at all possible.

[@GreenyTravels]

No justice. Rarely is there any follow up. Many guys who don’t bit it will walk away from house etc when things get rough.

[@dominikachabiniak5663]

Hiya....loving the channels. I resonate. One day maybe wud love to break bread. Keep up the good content 👌

[@GreenyTravels]

Thank you. Appreciate it!!

[@nlorand9033]

Unfortunately there are many story's similar to this one. I was on a flight where a UK retired women teacher was telling about her life in Thailand. She asked if I was single or not. I was single. Best thing she said. Many thai ladies she knew had farang husbands who obviously gave them their good lifestyle. She told me they cannot wait for them to die. So sad that people do this but it isn't just Thailand. In the Bangkok post many years ago an elderly German man was found up issan outside with 2 bullet wounds to his head, a gun beside him, verdict suicide. Maybe same story but I remember this man was found outside near the rice fields and it also said that he had depression. Otherwise the article didn't elaborate.

[@GreenyTravels]

Unfortunately this is far too common

[@tinacollins9213]

My boyfriend s friend was in a divorce he told my partner he was selling his house and moving to Thailand,he meta a bar girl and fell in love , he built her a house 2 bedroom 6 months done the line . When the house was all finished she told him she didn’t love him he tried to get his money back but everything was in her name , he was a great guy when haven’t heard a word from him since he moved there

[@jbbd1772]

You probably haven't heard from him because he's too embarrassed and not wanting to hear "I told you so"...I know because I have done the same with former close contacts...

[@GreenyTravels]

This has happened here more times than I can count

[@Chris-zu4es]

rest in peace John 🕊️ ❤

[@SS-tr1th]

I doubt it!

[@richardbond4496]

what i think rent never buy passport bros

[@HamNoytheDutchGuy]

Sad to hear these things happen, o.m.b. bless U Brian. Have a great week buddy 🙏👊

[@GreenyTravels]

Thanks. You too!

[@yourijevriend730]

come with values and boundaries and self respect. leave it when it becomes toxic. simple. stand your ground

[@glenloader639]

If the daughter thought they were poisoned, why didn't she see a doctor and get tests done once she left Phayao.

[@talast2000]

life insurance money? just a thought. got nothing to prove it. but when you are in a foreign land and you don't speak the language, and don't know how things work, it's hard to be logical and effective.

[@eunicef1]

Exactly what I was thinking.

[@GreenyTravels]

She got home and had more time to think about it I’m sure. I think what made her most suspicious what when she showed up the feeling that they were not happy she was there.

[@franciscusjohannesburger3720]

Thanks for the story !

[@GreenyTravels]

Appreciate you watching

[@scottgeen3062]

Have to be careful with your money in Thailand stay single enjoy your life have fun good luck from New Zealand

[@GreenyTravels]

Sound advice

[@jtraveler888]

Could happen anywhere - even the USA.

[@GreenyTravels]

Definitely does.

[@Duan-m6n]

Easy to say don’t put house in wife’s name. No other way in Thailand. I did it 9 years ago in BKK. All going great. If it ever was to go to shite my FA told me just walk away and say it was good while it lasted. I can live with that.

[@GreenyTravels]

Don’t bring it here if you can’t afford to lose it is what I say

[@randyfournier8299]

People don’t jump out of buildings unless their coffee is spiked with yaba.

[@GreenyTravels]

I wonder if that’s how it happens sometimes

[@amaroqcoffee7872]

That, pushed and the fact that balconies are slightly lower then in the west, I'm sure that also is a factor

[@DCGT703]

Bro! Your Lions are killing it this year! I'm a Redskins fan and we're doing pretty good but congrats on beating the Vikings!

[@GreenyTravels]

Thanks. They are looking good!!

[@jarenwicklund8142]

His daughter needs justice but without powerful people in Thailand to help, she won't see it. Why why why do foreign men not see thru this sorta thing?????? My head hurts for him and his family but this was a red flag from the very beginning. I'm Thai American with a farang husband and we sometimes joke about me owning everything in my name if we bought a home in Thailand...I wonder how many actually have such sad endings like this man.

[@GreenyTravels]

It happens on occasion. Many sad lonely men come here making themselves targets

[@ArmandTheForeigner7]

Very sad story…South East Asia is very nice…but if you are not careful…bad things can happen, Thank you for this story 👍

[@GreenyTravels]

Definitely can

[@4alltheworld]

Interesting story. I felt safe in Thailand. Honestly your best form of self defense is common sense. Some details sound like he ignored common sense. Although in the province contaminated water or cross contaminated food is more likely than poison. Street food drinking tap water is very risky.

[@GreenyTravels]

Daughter thinks the whole thing was well planned out. His own fault

[@chietthach1389]

you got money to waste welcome to the sin city

[@mightay6672]

This aint the first and wont be the last.... these stories are as common as dirt.

[@GreenyTravels]

True

[@WhiteTriForce]

Sad story, but he was a grown man and should have known better ! 🤷 especially at his age regarding young tail ! ☝️🤠

[@GreenyTravels]

He made his bed

[@BrandenLesko]

Just because you move to another country and get married, doesn't mean you should place your mind on vacation. All these stories have a common denominator. These grown men made poor decisions with their finances and the quality of people they surrounded themselves with.

[@worf59]

I moved to Thailand and my wife already owned a house. That means no rent. I save a lot of money every month compared to Germany where I paid 1300 € per month. My wife is educated and smart. Stories are different guys.

[@GreenyTravels]

You hit the jackpot

[@regnorse]

wow you met online?

[@worf59]

@@regnorse yes, we did, hard to believe. We chatted for a few months and then we spent a wonderful holiday. She is an educated nurse and has a wonderful personality. After 1 year we got married. I don't regret even one second.

[@regnorse]

@@worf59 thats great .....I was kind of fishing for the online site lol

[@worf59]

@@regnorse it was tinder..I "virtually" located myself at Bangkok Center...I got so many likes..

[@matthewanderson6254]

Depressing story, thnx🙏

[@GreenyTravels]

Yea.

[@phisit8813]

Its not just Thailand ! its everywhere around the world! Just because people "seem" to be friendly it doesn't mean you can trust them. Especially anything involving money without legal advice.

[@GreenyTravels]

Very true

[@BrandenLesko]

Regardless of where you are in the world, be on top of your own finances and don't reveal your true wealth. Don't buy property, unless you get it in your own name. If you do get married, then hire a reputable lawyer to get a usufruct on the property. As Greeny suggested, form a circle of close friends and create bonds with people you can trust. Most importantly, keep your mind sharp and maintain good health. 🙏

[@GreenyTravels]

Great advice.

[@WalkingmanPattaya]

Thanks for the story. Seems a chapter in a book you are about to publish 🤔 As always no mention if real or fiction. 😂✌️❣️🇹🇭🎶 you can't lose it if you don't have it 👍

[@GreenyTravels]

Based on story I was told. But wrote it like a real book story. I will save it. Maybe be start compiling these. Who knows maybe a book. I had to change some things so I don’t get sued

[@michaelmmcintyre]

The two shots is something I’ve heard before from ER Doctors and incidents from work. I get the impression it’s especially common if they don’t get the angle right on the first pull on a DA/SA or DAO trigger. Sad circumstance all around.

[@GreenyTravels]

Can happen.

[@alangraham8926]

There is no doubt that his death was "suspicious" and unwarranted BUT guys do the darndest things here. Because someone speaks your language does not mean it is sincere. If you do not speak the language (assumption) this just heightens the problems especially if you end up "in the village". Disclaimer here, I think this "story" could be repeated in just about any country on the planet but far less likely on home ground as intuition will generally tell you "something just ain't right".

[@GreenyTravels]

Yea. He was naive. Many lonely men are unfortunately. There is a reason why Nigerian catfishers stay in business

[@mangostickyrice555]

Thumbs up 👍 Greeny

[@GreenyTravels]

Thxx Mango

[@Johndeplume.]

A sad story; sadly, not an uncommon one for Thailand.

[@GreenyTravels]

These stories definitely keep appearing

[@jimwoodhouse589]

After living here for 17 years, I’m afraid it’s just another hardluck story of which there are many

[@GreenyTravels]

Too many

[@robertnicholson1409]

You never, never crack up over a woman particularly a Thai woman........if you're a real man !

[@BarnabyBarry]

In Santa Monica 1982-a 79 years old man killed himself in his new red Eldorado-in a parking lot- one shot in the head-the gun was still attached to his hand-never forget it-when the coroner came he told me this happens alot!

[@GreenyTravels]

Sad

[@TomandAmyinthePI]

I think it said he had two bullets left in his gun not two spent bullets at the scene right?

[@GreenyTravels]

3 left. 2 spent casings

[@THAILANDY-1312]

Hallo ! Ich bin der Andy . Bin 64 Jahre jung , und Deutscher , und hab zusammen mit meiner Frau ein kleines Häuschen in Samutprakan, Nähe Bangkok. Das kurz zu meiner Person ! Erstmal , ja das ist wirklich sehr traurig , was mit diesen 91 jährigen Deutschen dort passiert ist. Ich kenne nicht die Hintergründe was da genau war und deswegen kann ich auch nicht mehr dazu sagen , aber ich kann ein wenig zu der Geschichte sagen , die du vorgelesen hast. Das ist immer und immer wieder das gleiche , was ich immer und immer wieder sage , und zwar , lasst euch Zeit mit allem und überstürzt nichts , bezogen jetzt auf diesen Mann der Toy kennengelernt hat. Du sagst , er kam 2017 nach Thailand , und dann hat er Toy kennengelernt. Okay , erstmal nichts dagegen einzuwenden , das muß ja nichts schlechtes sein zu erstmal , ich das aber selbst , für nicht so optimal empfinde , dort eine Thailänderin kennenzulernen, aber okay ! Nur dann 2018 , so wie du sagst , also 1 Jahr später, ihr dann zu folgen , und alles überstürzt zu machen, halte ich für sehr gefährlich. Nach einem Jahr kennt man einen Menschen einen neuen Menschen der in sein Leben tritt , aber null Komma null. Du sprichst davon ,das er in Romantik verfiel , oder voll von Romantik war , nur ich würde das anders ausdrücken , nein nicht , ich würde , sondern ich sage es anders. Man muß es so klar sagen, so traurig es auch für diesen Mann und seine Familie in Amerika es war , aber es ist leider die Wahrheit. Romantisch kann man ja sein , nichts dagegen ok , aber ich denke er hat da nicht mehr viel nachgedacht, da hat ein anderes Körperteil und nicht mehr das Gehirn das Denken übernommen, so hart wie es klingt , aber es hört sich für mich alles wenn du es erzählst, stark für mich , danach an ! Ein Jahr jemanden Kennenzulernen , ist gar nichts. Alles zu machen , und zu allem ja und Amen zu sagen , auch keine gute Idee ! Und nur jemandem zu folgen , weil sie vielleicht toll aussieht , weil man sie nicht verlieren will , weil das Sexuelle mit diesem Menschen vielleicht alles toll ist , und dann das Gehirn auszuschalten , das ist sehr schlecht. Man weiß nichts über den Charakter, man weiß nicht wie sich der Mensch in bestimmten Situationen verhält, wie ist es im Alltag ist, gibt es irgendwelche Geheimnisse ? Man muß auch jemand , mit dem man eine Beziehung eingeht , mit dem man ein Haus bauen will u.s.w. das muß man erst Mal prüfen. Und das geht niemals nach einem Jahr ! Deswegen sag ich es immer wieder , Zeit nehmen. Wer wirklich ehrliches Interesse an die hat , diejenige Frau , die wartet auch darauf , und sie kann auch warten , und auch sie prüft dich. Das macht man nicht alles hopp la hopp ! Meine Frau und ich , wir hatten uns über 6 Jahre lang Zeit genommen, und für alles, zusammen , Zeit genommen. Zuerst eineinhalb Jahre , in einem 28 qm Condo gelebt , und dort glaub mir, da lernt man sich schon mal sehr gut kennen hahahaha Hahaha, wenn man so beengt zusammen lebt. Zweitens , nach 2 Jahren ein Bankkonto ,eröffnet. im dritten Jahr ein Bike gekauft , und dann nochmal 2 Jahre gebraucht um uns zu entscheiden ob und wo und was für ein Haus wollen. Wir haben dann im 6. Jahr ein Reihenhaus gefunden , nichts mit bauen , gesehen und gekauft , für 1.500.000 Baht. Aber schon ganz am Anfang , unserer Beziehung , hab ich Klipp und klar zu meiner Frau gesagt , offen und ehrlich , was geht und was nicht geht , das ich nicht auch noch die Familie mit unterstützen kann , denn mein Name ist nicht Rockefeller , Hahaha Hahaha. Ich geb meiner Frau auch Haushaltsgeld klar , das macht man nicht nur in Thailand , sonden überall auf der Welt, aber man kann nur helfen mit dem was man hat und kann keine Grenzen überschreiten. So , daß und vieles mehr hab ich ganz klar gesagt , und sie hat auch offen und ehrlich mit mir über alles gesprochen . Da gibt's keine Geheimnisse oder sonst was mehr. Deswegen , wer es sich leicht macht in Thailand , der kann auch leicht auf die Schnauze fallen , man muss es sich schwer machen und Zeit nehmen , denn nur dann findet man auch den richtigen Menschen , gerade in Thailand !

[@GreenyTravels]

Very true. Many rush into things here. Many lonely naive men

[@THAILANDY-1312]

@@GreenyTravels Yeeeees Sir !!

[@999britain]

Another Lamb!❤😂

[@mrbHanoi]

Dont put the house in your wife's or girlfriends name till after your death Get a male friend as your Thai partner Make him the executor If he is suspicious, she gets nothing Also he can just allow her to live there but she cannot sell it or borrow against it. Protect yourself

[@GreenyTravels]

Good ideas. I know another guy here lost a house he bought that he put in partners name. Luckily that all he lost

[@glorgau]

Farang can't own a house in Thailand. Has to be in a Thai's name.

[@mrbHanoi]

I said male Thai friend. Can you read?

[@mrbHanoi]

@@glorgau my very good friend is Thai. a lawyer and has built 200 houses in Thailand Dont need a wife or girlfriend as a business partner.

[@terrymedlicott3580]

​@@glorgaunot true

[@BelusTraveller]

Wow, Crazy, Crazy, Crazy, I have seen men do this, It’s absurd but it does happen, God Bless

[@GreenyTravels]

It’s unfortunate

[@tbone33-pc9fq]

Thai women need to move to Hollywood, they are the best actress in the world.

[@culinarc7741]

When you meet a Thai woman who's 45 and works in a massage shop her future prospects probably weren't great. I think she turned him into her retirement plan.

[@GreenyTravels]

Yep. Unfortunately that happens here occasionally. I’m sure it happens everywhere. Just more men come here outing themselves in that position, leading with money

[@johnmellyn2700]

Something very similar happened to me and my three brothers, and coincidentally my father is 91 , but it happened over a longer period of time and the woman is also American… her fully functional adult son is living with them , he owned a house here and a condo in Florida which she convinced him to sell her for $1.00 each,..her name is on his bank account and just last month she convinced him to marry her ( he must have never told her he took “ Option A “ on his pension and that his pension dies with him ) I’d like to be a fly on the wall after he passes way, I immediately notify the retirement board and those zeros show up in her bank acct the next month …. Anyway .. I blame it on two colors ….pink and green

[@GreenyTravels]

These gold diggers are everywhere. Men need to get wise

[@Ghekko-kw3zz]

Another classic example of the big head being sublimated to the small head.

[@GreenyTravels]

Happens to many here

[@stevenduncan3392]

Never tell them everything if u buy a condo just do it in ur name. Never buy a house never

[@donbrashsux]

These stories are like a broken record .. So many gullible males who end up in lala land and don’t think with there head .. very sad story indeed 😮

[@GreenyTravels]

The stories never stop coming

[@donnasherwood283]

if this was social security and pensions they should try to stop the payments pending investigation.

[@GreenyTravels]

I’m sure they did but good luck investigating.

[@johnsmith-m7i1u]

So true in many similar cases you see there greeny

[@GreenyTravels]

I’ve met a few where red flags started popping immediately. I think some look past them

[@jeh1333]

Once the daughter and husband started feeling ill they should have had a full medical check done on the father, including blood tests and and toxicology checks.

[@GreenyTravels]

You would think but many people get stomach issues. I think she figured all this out after

[@willsmith39]

I'm sure I could tell if my wife was trying to poison me. Like if her cooking suddenly became half way edible I'd definitely become suspicious 😂

[@GreenyTravels]

😂

[@MrStax40]

This is the stuff of nightmares

[@GreenyTravels]

Scary

[@MichaelPrudhomme-u7x]

“This is my home now” was his last chance. Sad, sure, but no pity for the fate that came of this decision.

[@GreenyTravels]

Daughter probably not happy about losing inheritance that way

[@kb3809]

First red flag was the house, that’s right up there with my buffalo is sick

[@GreenyTravels]

She saw him coming

[@eddieBoxer]

Same thing happens in the Philippines, my advise do not deal with these ladies, you're risking losing all your money.

[@GreenyTravels]

Or leave money at home

[@Thecaveman007]

I lost my pants 👖and my pride in a massage shop in Bangkok 😂

[@GreenyTravels]

😂

[@mkaizen1756]

First of all, don't trust in anyone if u don't speak her native language. All hidden nuances can get caught in a conversation. Red flags will be appear in a relationship but if u re blind with love and no reason, you will miss them. Second, never buy a property on the name of girlfriend or wife, prefer to live in a rental house. Third, if u re old, just live ur life far from relationships that most of them will be based on money not genuinely caring an love. Don t be stupid that someone will take care of you in a older age. And last one, nobody gives a shit about you, if u re foreign in any country.

[@GreenyTravels]

Very sound advice

[@Jammer411]

AS I ALWAYS SAY...MEN START THINKING WITH YOUR BIG HEAD AND NEVER YOUR TINY HEAD!!

[@GreenyTravels]

That’s a problem

[@thomasr53]

Thats a big piece of paper Greeny 😂😂

[@GreenyTravels]

😂

[@johnnielson4341]

2::30 Finding multiple spent casings inside a revolver is not unusual. 2 spent casings on the floor would create suspicion.

[@GreenyTravels]

Right. Could have been fired at a different time

[@johnnielson4341]

I'm not completely convinced. It's normal to have family move into your home in Thailand. I suspect that his daughter, already being convinced something was wrong, was less than polite with Toy which may have made everyone uncomfortable.

[@GreenyTravels]

Possibly but some people do have bad intentions

[@BigDogDamon]

That can happen anywhere in the world and it does. Hate that ppl act like only Thai women do this

[@GreenyTravels]

100%. I just happen to be here in Thailand and here about these. I have told stories about Colombia and U.S. in the past as well. Mostly people send me Thailand stories

[@sklenars]

Old Thai saying, I love you Johnny, no shit

[@GreenyTravels]

😂

[@rein3684]

What sad stories…

[@GreenyTravels]

Yea. Thats why I only post these occasionally. Unfortunately people seem to love true crime stories like this.

[@SS-tr1th]

@@GreenyTravels cautionary tales good