Something Is Very Off With the Psychiatrist's Father | Chicago Med

Something Is Very Off With the Psychiatrist's Father | Chicago Med | MD TV

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@RyanRCross 4 ай бұрын

I can feel the repressed tension in Dr. Charles. He doesn't like this man.

@tjfSIM Ай бұрын

Indeed - very well acted by both actors I think. That feeling you have when you know something seems off with a person, but you're trying to keep an open mind.

@Willow76ny 4 ай бұрын

Toxic people are still toxic, no matter if they are family. Better off avoiding that drama.

@xxoxEMxoxx 4 ай бұрын

Easier said than done

@XSilver_WaterX 4 ай бұрын

Some can happen from diseases, but most times, it's choice of being a bully!

@gawd4582 4 ай бұрын

💯💯💯

@katwyld 3 ай бұрын

Yeah, did this over 10 years with my mother and say this same thing to anyone that asks why I did. And mine wasn't even a serial killer, just narcissistic and a bully my entire life. Had so many people tell me "But she's your mother!" I've responded with "And I'm her daughter but that never stopped her from being cruel and gaslighting me."

@cherrytraveller5915 2 ай бұрын

Not easy to do. Society judges people that cut someone that is toxic out of their lives. You get them standing on their high horse saying this like forgive them before it is too late or you will regret it. Family is family and you should forgive.

@amyfletcher4749 4 ай бұрын

How sad he just wants to use her.

@diannedigirolamo7961 4 ай бұрын

Dr Charles is smart & wise… Sweet Sarah your mom knows best ✨

@SCK-1231 3 ай бұрын

Dr. Charles knew something was off the moment he mentioned Sarah.

@caylasimpson6914 4 ай бұрын

Her mom was right he is not a good person.

@jeannehall6546 4 ай бұрын

Manipulative- so obvious!

@jazzybash1 4 ай бұрын

He’s currently working at NWU but came to Gaffney where his daughter works but don’t want her to know about his heart condition… yeah right… and the quite formal introduction by one of the medical staff but then he goes “call me Bob”… I call bs…

@ysgramornorris2452 2 күн бұрын

I see what tipped Charles off. At 1:46, Haywood tells him he didn't write or call. But then he tells Sarah he did write her letters (see 6:08).

@4mamamel Күн бұрын

They always have to blame the mom’s bitterness/animosity, on why they stay away!! 🙄😤

@ursaltydog 4 ай бұрын

Dr. Charles knew he was being played... Her father's more correct answer would be, instead of wanting someone to be around to care for him, would've been "absolution".. rebuilding a relationship on the precipice of his demise. Anything but what he said.

@beatriceaba8851 3 ай бұрын

Seemed like Dr. Charles was already skeptical regarding him especially the whole letter thing and not picking his ativan up.

@auntlizard262 4 күн бұрын

him being there only to use his daughter for money and care, and he lied about writing her letters.

@sydneyslaughter7163 2 ай бұрын

3:45 Atta Girl, hold your ground!

@carsondefa250 4 ай бұрын

He is a serial killer..

@SamanthaCarr2662 4 ай бұрын

Where do you watch the full episode without paying to watch? Because I’ve seen multiple little clips that were like 3 to 9 minutes long but you know that’s different than watching the entire thing.

@xfvq 4 ай бұрын

@@SamanthaCarr2662 I don't think there is any way to watch for free but there is probably a free limited subscription for a streaming app where you could watch it

@angieakasara 4 ай бұрын

@@SamanthaCarr2662m4u

@annaiizceballos5710 4 ай бұрын

@SamanthaCarr2662 amazon prime I believe and peacock it's chicago med

@kirielbranson4843 4 ай бұрын

No place can you watch it for free. Unless maybe on some pirate site. But the good thing is I think these 10 minute clips are most of the scenes about a specific story. So you are seeing most of it. What you don't see is the aftermath. Things like her jumping to a conclusion because of her upbringing.

@nottim1646 4 ай бұрын

A visiting professor at his age? Biggest of red flags.

@MissusChanandlerBong 3 ай бұрын

Oh why?

@barbaragenshin9848 2 ай бұрын

Why

@georgiagreene1638 12 күн бұрын

a google search said it’s kind of like a substitute. he doesn’t have a permanent position, it’s like a short term thing. it’s full time but only for a short while. so id assume he doesn’t have good enough people skills for staying somewhere long term but idk i never went to college

@SeanMcGuire92 4 ай бұрын

WILD that her father turns out to be a murderer tbh

@bored_af9873 4 ай бұрын

Thanks for ruining it

@sumaiya3385 4 ай бұрын

@@bored_af9873 😂😂😂

@sargassum6190 4 ай бұрын

@@bored_af9873Haha, you are reading the comment section of an aired episode… if you didn’t want spoilers, that was a poor decision 😂

@bored_af9873 4 ай бұрын

@@sargassum6190 yeahh😅

@zoyadulzura7490 4 ай бұрын

@@bored_af9873 I come to the comments specifically to learn about the result of the episode, since I'm not watching the whole thing.

@japanaholic2129 3 ай бұрын

Is it just me or does he look like Steven Spielberg?

@skyofthelivingdead 3 ай бұрын

He looks A LOT like Steven Spielberg lmao

@cljustdust 4 ай бұрын

He's a narc

@barbaragenshin9848 2 ай бұрын

Actually... He's a serial killer who is a psychopath.

@ktwashere5637 4 ай бұрын

I don't see my father and don't put up with anyone telling me that I should. They don't know the first thing about the background. I tell them that instead of telling me I should see my Dad they should tell him that he shouldn't have been such a b*stard when I was child. Actions have consequences.

@coloredpencils01 4 ай бұрын

Watching this clip, how would we know that something was off with the father if not for the ominous music? What are the signs that I should be noticing?

@rachelanderson4325 4 ай бұрын

It's not super obvious, but what we're supposed to notice (I think) is that he's manipulative, convincing the guy doctor that he needs lorazepam for his condition, but he was really using it to talk to the doctor to find out more info about his daughter. Lied to his daughter that he wrote more letters to her, making himself the victim to get her on his side. He also mentions having multiple ex-wives, none of whom will speak to him; having no close friends or family, a sign that he doesn't keep anyone close; and mentioning that he might need her to help care for him when he's older, which means he's only trying to get close to her because he needs her for something. Plus he's very charismatic and a smooth talker.

@tozmom615 3 ай бұрын

All of that and he also tells dr Charles he never wrote a single letter only for him to spin his daughter a yarn about her mother destroying said letters. Quite an important lie to be caught in.

@eh1702 Ай бұрын

To answer your question (I am overseas, I have not seen this series.) - He mentions his daughter though there is no need, no social connection; he brings up the subject apropos of nothing and immediately explains that they have been estranged for a long time…because some sort of noble self-sacrifice by him. Wut?! That doesn’t add up. (Also foregrounds it as HIS suffering.) - He says it was “ a mistake” to become estranged rather as if it was a strategy error, rather than neglect, parental deficiency or a cause for remorse or guilt. He’s talking about abandoning his child! Saying it is a mistake is also an implicit claim that it was HIS decision, voluntary. (For liars, implicit = deniable. “I never said X”.) - “I didn’t want to interfere with her relationship with her mother.” Why should maintaining his parent role “interfere” between mother and daughter? Why should it disrupt their relationship? Is that an accidental revelation? - Or is he insinuating something about the mother? (Insinuations substitute for statements: with a statement / explicit claim - folks might ask or check for backup. Or judge you for making that claim.) Immediately after painting himself as nobly self sacrificing and considerate towards both mother and daughter, he says the divorce was “extremely bitter”. With himself painted as kind and considerate to his ex as well as daughter, that only leaves one bitter partner - the mother. So he’s undermining the mother, pretending to be supportive of the mother-daughter relationship while attributing “bitterness” to her. - He *implies* but avoids stating that he opted out of fatherhood. He does not speak of parenting, access or even visiting, he only mentions “writing” or “calling” as options. That is a strange omission. Fatherhood isn’t about calling vs. writing. It’s about childrearing, support, being involved, loving and being loved. Psychopaths often have a superficial, impoverished or transactional concept of human relationships. - So was it the self-sacrificing opt-out that he portrays, or was he perhaps denied custody/access &/or parental rights? Habitual liars often skate around important facts and context like this, implanting mood, attitudes or expectations in the listener by omitting key issues. - Also, if he has still not approached his daughter, if they are still estranged, why is he telling this complete stranger? Why go behind her back and disclose such intimate facts of her personal life to colleague? It smacks of manipulativeness. - Immediately after compromising his daughter’s privacy, he reminds the doctor of his own right to confidentiality. The doctor is no fool, he knows this for the play it is. - Apropos of nothing, he calls their meeting “serendipity” (happy accident). Decievers surprisingly often invoke what they seek to deny, insert explanations or justifications that nobody asked for, or “protest too much”. The doc immediately wonders how accidental it was. - At the very end he gives the doctor a once-over. He is checking to see how it went down. Psychopaths when I was young - liars of all kinds - took great advantage of the fallacy that looking you straight in the eye signifies honesty. In fact in my personal experience, part of being “charming” is the wide-eyed or searching gaze. People are often flattered by it - it makes us feel recognised, important, connected-with, and as if the person is very interested in us. In fact they watch our faces very carefully to see how we are swallowing their story. Take a tip from me: when you get the full-on stare, when someone seems terribly interested and fascinated in you, wide-eyed and charming, smile in a friendly way and do not give them any indication that you are thinking very carefully about what they said, how they colored it - and what they left out.

@eh1702 Ай бұрын

Later in the clip, Sarah discloses that her father said he used to write her, although she only ever got two birthday cards in 20 years. But he told the doctor he regretted NOT writing or calling. So he has now tricked Sarah into thinking her mother must have destroyed letters that he never even sent - he makes Sarah believe that he did not abandon her, but that her mother betrayed her. The doc checks back with him on this point and he smoothly gives the new version. Habitual liars seldom acknowledge they gave a different story previously. In any case, lying a lot means they forget a lot. But they don’t really care - they enjoy lying, it makes them feel powerful and smart - and they are confident of always being able to make up something else on the hoof. If you confront them with two versions they have told, they will convince you that you misheard, misunderstood or misremembered. All you have done by challenging them is alert them to work on you a bit more, or be more wary of you.

@lajuanda 4 ай бұрын

Paragraph guyyyyu??!!!

@kathyheavner3585 27 күн бұрын

Creepy 😮

@wizard9094 3 ай бұрын

I just realized something, he may need a new heart. Is his daughter a match? Why exactly did he want to reconnect after all this time? Definitely not for sentimental reasons.

@ErinBlakley 3 ай бұрын

You can't volunteer to be a heart transplant donor....

@esterbun9356 2 ай бұрын

@@ErinBlakley No, but it was later revealed that her father was a murderer. Sorry if that spoils anything. He kidnapped and killed a few women before his heart attack, getting away with it, chances are she (may) have been his next victim. It would have been a shot in the dark and wildly suspiscious, but when you're desperate.

@rickraber1249 3 ай бұрын

Nice guy. Lies about how often he wrote to his child. Might need her care for with his medical condition. Gee, might need her money too. Oh, and the new job in Chicago. Just a coincidence, I'm sure.

@MusicLoverMN 4 ай бұрын

3 min point mark is so awkward..

@Sam11747 4 ай бұрын

4:19 - This episode brought to you by Walmart.

@Maurader2004 4 ай бұрын

And Apple - the computers at the hospital are all clearly Macs, and when she walks into her dad's lecture every single laptop is a MacBook. 🙄

@Hermila-v2p 3 ай бұрын

aimentalhealthadvisor AI fixes this (AI Mental Health Advisor). Psychiatrist's father hides secrets.

@ShortCanuck 4 ай бұрын

I remember this storyline well. He was a really toxic man.

@turducken2785 3 ай бұрын

What happened in this storyline??? I need to know

@PfEMP 3 ай бұрын

I think he turns out to be a serial killer @@turducken2785

@just-tess 3 ай бұрын

he's a serial killer - YT is still hiding comments with links even to other YT videos but I'll try linking the subsequent clips

@cunningsmile4166 4 ай бұрын

Was he Feliz in Orphan Black Echoes?

@jenniferbaratta3130 4 ай бұрын

No different actors.

@joeyjose727 4 ай бұрын

Sarah my GOAT… stay away from her

@SpawnF 4 ай бұрын

Never know Dr Charles was in a xmen movie

@l.a.3479 4 ай бұрын

He wasn't.

@SpawnF 4 ай бұрын

@@l.a.3479 look it up then 🙄

@Meodread 4 ай бұрын

@@l.a.3479 He was actually. Oliver Platt was in X-Men First Class. Not overly sure why people find that surprising given Oliver Platt has had a long and varied acting career. He's been in just about any role you can imagine.

@l.a.3479 4 ай бұрын

I'm aware of that. @@Meodread

@l.a.3479 4 ай бұрын

@@SpawnFThe actor, Oliver Platt is in the movie--not the character of Dr. Charles.