What Assumptions Would YOU Make About These Daters? | Tell My Story, Blind Date

It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our series 'Tell My Story, Blind Date.'
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[@fbspin]

He looks like he came straight out of a Hallmark holiday movie

[@RukiaBlackBlazer]

Because his insides is chaos.

[@imaniprice215]

Lmfaooo 😭

[@noahdoesstuff8184]

hahahahahaha it's so funny cuz there's a guy who looks like him on hallmark movie I'm watching right now

[@ryuuhehe6885]

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[@lala55419]

🤣😂😂😂

[@Izzy1032156]

She looks so good in that yellow! 😍

[@amyfmc1]

She really is quite stunning

[@NuttyMongrel]

yellow tends to look especially good on black women

[@annaborg9961]

@@NuttyMongrel Yes, I always thought this! Also orange. It's such a beautiful contrast and does the opposite of washing them out or making them look sickly like those colours can sometimes do for white women

[@zatytaty2303]

Yes!! 😊 i dont have confidence to wear yellow.

[@PHlophe]

@@NuttyMongrel she is wearing to channel the Orixa goddess. this color is associated with her.

[@Blestina]

I like how respectful he was towards her beliefs even though he believed something else. That's commendable.

[@MsDudette21]

we atheists don't get the respect we deserve

[@creating1_c1999]

@@MsDudette21 People assume that Athiests hate God.

[@underrated7312]

Yes it's very rare for a Caucasian to be so respectful towards someone of another ethnicity

[@nicholasgerry6931]

Nobody's talking about how soothing their voices are.

[@arth_chart5280]

And great teeth

[@ki.caassh115]

YES OMG THEYRE SO BEAUTIFUL

[@MsDudette21]

Trigg's gotta sexy voice

[@nutellarulz]

"Your favorite person to travel with is.... Angela" WHO IS ANGELA?!?!?

[@Participant]

😂

[@angysacca]

@@Participant It's me! I'm Angela, Italian soul, love travelling (I'm still at 20 countries though). Sign me in for the next blind date with Trigg ;)

[@cahidijoyoraharjo7833]

@@angysacca Bless you, dear. 😂😂😂

[@alexemmadebor3698]

His X

[@feifeifofum]

@@angysacca i would love to see that hahah

[@yesterdaydream]

Dealbreaker: Someone who doesn't love traveling with Angela

[@boparks3204]

Lol

[@buttertoes6304]

LMFAOOOOOO

[@lliamyers4166]

right lol

[@fadi0965]

HAHAHAH

[@brooklin5868]

😂😂😂 oh poor Angela.

[@thehamsterarmy2380]

Black women in yellow just 😍😆🤣 Edit: *At least over 800 people could see I was complimenting her. What are the people replying to me not getting? I used heart eyes and squealing emojis because she's pretty in the yellow. First of of all, I'm dark-skinned so these comments saying I'm bitter, jealous, to get a tan are funny. Please work on comprehension skills. It's getting sad at this point.*

[@ms.bubs4fun506]

What's funny?

[@thehamsterarmy2380]

@@ms.bubs4fun506 I don't know, ask someone else?

[@krystolwatkins3766]

@@thehamsterarmy2380 hiii

[@drearoses1306]

i think she's beautiful

[@jessicawatt1901]

She is cute. I am laughing at your dp 😂😂😂

[@danib1421]

He said Haitian finally someone who doesn't say black as an ethic group. I thought she was Nigerian.

[@mehkiyataylor7201]

me too

[@littleympe2570]

She does look Haitian though

[@thestoryteller4490]

Little Ympe Haitians don’t have a look fool

[@jemimajanvier4706]

Alika Lulu actually, we do 😂. As a Haitian I can tell when someone else is Haitian. I think it’s an ethnic thing

[@GabriellaGabrielle]

Jemima Janvier I think so too! I get Caribbean A LOT! I also think it has to do with from in Africa your ancestors came from. I’m Congolese and a plethora of Caribbean people have Central African ancestry.

[@alexandriaedwards10]

His follow up questions were so beautiful.

[@jamestuck90]

Yes, he seems to really listen and think.

[@maiorino92]

@Neta Shm She's good looking and intelligent too

[@shanesemathis3123]

Yes... I loved his follow up questions. It’s rare to find someone who asks deep questions in the beginning, and sometimes people never really do.

[@4daluvofnikki]

Neta Shm Likewise she is wayyyy to good for him.

[@MsDesiree39]

@adakuvokiski, no she is not! They are both good people. And u don't even know her really

[@thatdancertho8739]

Her skin is so gorgeous and shiny. I hope she knows how beautiful she is.

[@2012Nece]

I'm sure she does.

[@thatdancertho8739]

@@2012Nece Hopefully. 💛

[@janetadwoaakonnor318]

Exactly

[@thatdancertho8739]

@Shanna Brown How? Because I'm complimenting her? The reason I even brought up her skin is because colorism is a real thing and I obviously want everyone to feel good about themselves. But as a black person, I want to especially uplift black women with darker skin. You really could've kept your comment to yourself.

[@Brains-vb9yl]

She is!

[@ruemissm6800]

Can we just acknowledge that she's a beautiful melanin queen 👑

[@insomniacfirehorse6425]

Why black woman call black woman a queen? just why?

[@ruemissm6800]

@@insomniacfirehorse6425 what do you mean 🙄😒

[@Laura-sg6ss]

@@countessofmontecristo3849 no, that term was used amongst Black ppl because of the degradation. Ask your parents if they called each other that (if they are non Black) no... but Black people have been saying this for YEARS! On social media we carried that on and people caught on and started doing it too.

[@Laura-sg6ss]

@@insomniacfirehorse6425 because they are Queens. Being Black and a Woman. Hun... really?? I think it is SELF EXPLANATORY.

[@angellife779]

No tf y'all always want to be called queens like?????? hellooo

[@kojo9228]

There’s a big difference between 20 and 30 countries lol

[@El_Crispaulo]

Lol!

[@prettyselfmadezomme4510]

20s to 30

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I am single 😙😍❤❤

[@annah4267]

😂😂😂he is lying

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

@@annah4267 lying alone ???

[@true4623]

He has a very genuine way he looks with his eyes. He is genuinely engaged.

[@n1a316]

@Neta Shm It's because he's a scorpio and she's a gemini

[@teopistorsind9874]

I have seen that look before. It is so intriguing, glueing, entrapping even but behind it larks something evil trust me. Satan must be very handsome.....

[@teopistorsind9874]

The look at 15:33

[@jasminejasmine09099]

definitely because he's a Scorpio.

[@leiloni1748]

Scorpios def have that look where they look like they’re staring into your soul lmao especially the scorpion men

[@Sara-eu6ui]

The ending to these always get me anxious

[@Participant]

Same

[@alineenobree]

What @soulpancake said

[@brett8460]

I'm glad I'm not the only one. I always feel calm during the assumptions part but then I start getting nervous when it gets to the "will you date me" part. 🤣

[@daughteroftheking3220]

Same it is a moment of truth 😂

[@justinneill5003]

I get where she’s coming from. They seemed pretty compatible in terms of character, intellect, humour etc, but the spirituality issue runs deep and would’ve created too much distance between them.

[@Dedede63]

Thank you It's so true!!!

[@blessedmiracle11]

Yeah

[@user-jo3cy3wz9r]

I have a feeling that he’s a pretty deep soul... or maybe it’s his voice lol but I really liked their conversations :,)

[@marysol7346]

Hes a scorpio thats why lol

[@tonideaderick7024]

cheryl Lim I agree, however saying no because he loves to travel bring her along whoever that person may be.

[@todmas3077]

I don’t know any male Scorpios. But he’s intriguing

[@beheshtasiddiqui900]

@Christopher Odegard Yeah, Scorpios are also very stubborn and egoistic. While seeing them I was like what they're going to reject eachother or what?

[@sesonam4176]

@@marysol7346 what’s his IG how do you know his star sign?

[@Darkbloom011]

Her: “you’re the first person to ever guess that correctly!” Him: “well it’s just understanding what the words mean” Damn😂💀

[@gracegiles5462]

Scarlet00 I picked up on that too, anybody with an above vocabulary can decipher that🤦‍♀️

[@ralucaraluca8784]

Scarlet00 Yeah, she's not very intelligent.

[@madisun3445]

Raluca Raluca Dont understand how that concludes that she’s unintelligent.

[@Journeylivin]

Raluca Raluca she’s not the one guessing her vocation she said it’s others. How does that make her not intelligent? Make you seem judgmental.

[@halloweenallyearround4889]

@@ralucaraluca8784 She's smart. The people who didn't catch basic meanings are the ones who were either not paying attention or lack basic comprehension skills.

[@Juniperus_Godegara]

"Well-traveled" is such a pretentious word... you literally don't need to put effort into it, just have money and time.. It is a priviledge, not a personality trait..jeeeez

[@DamirSecki]

obviously not true... jeeeez... some people prefer spending money on clothes, cars, jewellery, nice food, electronics, etc ... some people prefer to spend that money on travel. You might say that many people cannot afford either of those things... but majority in the US of A can... and prefering paying 30k on a nice car and not 1k to go somewhere... IS a personality trait.

[@077di6]

you are so right,

[@077di6]

@@DamirSecki you can look one glance of him and understand he has money

[@DamirSecki]

@@077di6 don't know about that.... but he mentioned he was in Peace corps... so that might have facilitated his travels

[@Juniperus_Godegara]

@@DamirSecki yep that is totally fine, what irks me when one thinks this a personality trait, a characteristic. Not necessarily everyone is open minden who has visited lots of places as an outsider. And not everyone is close-minded who spent their entire life in a small village.

[@iAmaze87]

When he opened his eyes. His eyes smiled cuz he liked her. She’s simply gorg.

[@morgenteart7119]

@@issagold7176 damn b who hurt you what does this has to do with being straight 😭 all that person did was make an observation based on their opinion it’s not that deep 💀😭.

[@creating1_c1999]

He smiled because she's pleasant to look at. You don't know if you like someone until you determine if you are compatible. There is a huge difference between attraction and like.

[@iAmaze87]

He had a lil head nod too

[@iAmaze87]

She was so dolled up compared to his plaid

[@OfficiallyEguono]

Everyone on this thing is always so attractive. His eyes are so cute. Her skin is popping 💜

[@araweelospirit4180]

Moni Babee everyone keeps mentioning her skin as if she doesn’t have the cutest face

[@OfficiallyEguono]

Araweelo Spirit YES! She’s gorgeous.

[@mossabentouis5955]

Moni haw are you i wanna speking with you

[@mossabentouis5955]

Where are you from

[@itslingling]

I really loved their conversation. I liked the way he spoke and the way they both told their stories.

[@gretasjourney7450]

Mei Ling Kwok yeah, it was good to follow. They are both very eloquent and polite.

[@craigoryrobie5676]

Love this

[@rissavu]

He looks like a Scott

[@newacc8064]

YESS

[@ThrivingWithTheSussexes]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 He does!

[@TheMoyamo]

I swear that’s the same name I gave him 😂

[@audiencemission8183]

I would call him Micah or Samuel lol

[@boomboom6577]

I thought a Jake

[@KM-gd6cv]

The end was the best: "You wouldn't date me?" - " You never would date me! " Lol 😆😆😆 I like them though

[@twizzycoutinho1130]

😅🙈

[@esthernakimbugwe4838]

She has a lovely smile He looks so humble.

[@mossabentouis5955]

You very lovely and very Cute i hope relationship with you i love black beauty

[@esthernakimbugwe4838]

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[@mossabentouis5955]

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[@mayaramiquidade3439]

Her heels are gorgeous.

[@rachaelm7084]

Yes!!! I want the whole outfit 👗 👠

[@djd723]

She has nice legs and pretty skin.

[@helloooohooo8363]

I wanna lick her ankles 😋

[@getreal4real169]

Mayara Miquidade yep

[@juliakocher1829]

Trigg: angela Everyone in the comments: angela Me during the whole video: is trigg short for trigonometry??

[@Leftatalbuquerque]

Names are no longer recognizable the way they once were.

[@BlondeSparkles]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@amnajaved6894]

Ohmg sameewe

[@gaucheswife3661]

Ikrrrr!!!!!

[@isaiah3872]

Same. I know Americans like to shorten their names so I was lost trying to figure out if he was a Travis or Troy. *TRIGG*

[@max-vedagolafale1229]

2:33 “Haitian is it the hair”??????🤣🤣🤣 I can’t breathe, it’s a wig he should’ve guessed Indian or Brazilian if she was gonna say that. 😂

[@blessingashanti7039]

riiiiiight🤣🤣🤣

[@jodynanci]

Lmbo

[@pavelkohut6224]

White men are generally unaware of the problems that black women have with their hair. I had to find it on google because I was confused by the comments here. I am from Central Europe and I saw the first real black man/woman at the age of 27. I knew that African women had short and curly hair. But I thought that black women in America no longer have these problems in general (due to more than two centuries of race mixing, a different diet, climate, lifestyle). I've always been amazed at how beautiful and rich hair the black women have. And if you asked my fellow citizens, they would say the same thing - black women have beautiful long, rich hair. The information that they usually have wigs or hairpieces is relatively new to me. :-)

[@valeriecarre8967]

True, some haitians have that hair But not all

[@mimiapples5994]

I died a little 😂😂😂

[@akaluere7593]

I don't necessarily agree with everything he said but he seems like he would definitely be someone that you could never be bored talking to or could share some interesting perspectives.

[@inhle1688]

wow he’s so good at keeping a conversation alive, i wish i had that

[@fmfdocbotl4358]

It's practice.

[@jessewru6425]

Totally.

[@yesterdaydream]

I love how the names are just getting more difficult to guess. Then again, if someone guessed "Trigg" correctly I'd be that much more impressed...

[@J.LS.]

Cat's Meow Has anyone ever guessed the right name?

[@juliakocher1829]

nope, not yet

[@debbieomi]

It could be in my guessing game as I know two young men with that name although spelled Trig. Of course, I would never have pulled that out of my memory but it is tucked into my brain.

[@havalone]

What’s his IG?

[@Tiatia1111]

Her skin is amazing😭 she so beautiful!

[@baelrmalravi2349]

You too

[@vivalamaya5245]

I love how he was respectable in his response about religion and listening to her "why"

[@ForeverGhibli]

I don't think they would make a good couple, I am glad they are really in tune with themselves and what is best for them

[@ejwilliams2002]

They both seen like such nice people. I feel like they could be cool friends but not lovers.

[@janetadwoaakonnor318]

Yes

[@Fantasyland418]

Agree

[@yeiyei3869]

Me too

[@Tina-us1tr]

Yeah the friend vibe for sure.... she need a strong black man

[@dreamyanon5151]

Keatina Blakeney please stop.

[@KiKi-lh6kt]

When he said atheist I was like “oh man! it’s not gonna work”.

[@13tuyuti]

She did say she would date someone with different spiritual beliefs though.

[@zoetsahai]

@@13tuyuti atheism is not a spiritual belief, its the lack of one

[@13tuyuti]

@@zoetsahai it is a belief on spiritual matters. This lady wasn't prepared for an actual difference of opinions.

[@zoetsahai]

@@13tuyuti different spiritual beliefs as in has one not has none.

[@13tuyuti]

@@zoetsahai My spiritual belief is that there's no such thing as spiritual phenomena. This lady just doesn't want to date somebody she disagrees with, which is fine but then she shouldn't have said she would date somebody with different spiritual beliefs.

[@casiesilverman]

I appreciate how genuine, honest and mature this was. Both of them are great.

[@chelainekirsch5084]

"I cease to exist when I fall asleep." Forget his face, his words are beautiful. Boy's a poet.

[@MohamedElGoharyy]

But that was kinda a stupid analogy honestly. He could have said "I didn't exist before I was conceived ", because we exist during sleep and we also dream and are partially conscious.

[@ariellewht]

Poet? I was going to say pessimistic. Too logical thinking for me

[@mrtech2259]

If you cease to exist like when you sleep then you actually continue to exist...

[@MohamedElGoharyy]

@JONES Yes, but he doesn't cease to exits just because he's unconscious.

[@thatolas]

JONES if you don’t remember something happening does not mean it did not happen/ exist. Our consciousness streamlines through all the phases of sleep including dreamscapes. Whether or not we remember. So he seems poetic for someone on his level of understanding but I feel he needs to look deeper within to understand exactly what he is saying. He could do better. we all could but. PS: I’m not all knowing either. I’m atheist but spiritual (introspective, positively self critical and curious about the universe and the power of meditation). This is how I know the deeper you look.. the more you know for sure that there is something to look even deeper for. I.e. “more I know, I know I do not know”

[@harmowknee]

The moment where the fundamental differences(and the deal breakers) become evident is something quite interesting to observe.

[@joytotheworld9254]

Did anyone see him turn red when he first opened his eyes??? Lol! He clearly likes what he saw

[@inmylifeivelovedthemall]

It was so cute!

[@fksg1592]

Where?

[@mjohnson1741]

Black girl magic!

[@tliw2]

"I cease to exist when I fall asleep..." No, you cease to be aware that you exist. There's a difference. If your leg caught fire while you were asleep, you would very suddenly realize that you had existed the entire time.

[@Uobeor]

Hey, do you know what a metaphor is

[@tliw2]

Yes... do you...?

[@KarenMunozI]

If you are not aware of something, it doesnt exist. Does a tree falling down in the middle of the forest make a sound?

[@tliw2]

@@KarenMunozI that's a very self-centered ideology. If you're not aware of the suffering of others, does it in any way diminish their suffering, or does it just make you ignorant? I'm not insulting you. I apply this to myself. Of course the tree makes a sound!! Also, it displaces the animals living in it!! And, if you're deaf and blind and inadvertently walk under it as it falls... you may lose your life...

[@Simz199x]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Stephen.Williams]

She can't date an atheist at least she is upfront about it because some would date an atheist in hope of changing them and get frustrated/resentful when they can't do that.He seems cool too .

[@lilarodrigues2698]

I am a catholic who dates an Atheist. We religious people need to quit trying to change others, I am not changing my boyfriend beliefs.

[@shadybrooks8174]

@@lilarodrigues2698 And ATHEIST need to stop trying to convience religious people to date them. Its so annoying 🙄

[@entrainson7208]

People should respect other people’s beliefs. My friends are Muslim and Buddhist and they love each other. They respect each other. Just respect one another.

[@lilarodrigues2698]

ShadyBrooks An atheist didn’t convince anything 😂. I didn’t date him because of his religious belief, I dated him because of his personality and because he has the same goal as me. The first thing on my mind wasn’t “ does he believe in god?”. If you are looking for a religious man especially one that follows all the rules, you will be single forever.

[@shadybrooks8174]

@@lilarodrigues2698 Honey, I don't think you realize this but I was mainly speaking for myself. If you can't relate, great but other people do. I was just making a broad statement like you did. I've ran across some Atheist who talk about hating religion all day and the ones who would like me to date them. Pretty annoying.

[@nunyabeeznez5205]

Dear Soul Pancakes, Could you please do one where they’re actually a match and live happily ever after? 😂 K. Thanks.

[@tz7344]

That part!

[@ajh.4131]

No, this is real life lol

[@nunyabeeznez5205]

K Dubbs but they’ve paired so much duds... I’m starting to lose hope in humanity 😭🤣

[@nunyabeeznez5205]

AJ H. My life is too real already 🤣🤣

[@gracegiles5462]

G. T. That’s the one I want to be in😂

[@LifeofMedinah]

She makes me want to wear Yellow

[@mawidzaaurel2062]

Aderonke Olaleye that color does not rock with everyone. Keep that in mind. She has that natural skin tone for that.

[@blessingashanti7039]

@@mawidzaaurel2062 ;)

[@lilysbox2139]

she is. and I didn't like yellow 😭

[@itsjustmeflo8684]

They’re so opposite that they almost seem perfect for each other.

[@lil.miss.crispy.avocado]

"You thought I was Haitian. Is it the hair?" Gurrl if you don't get cho....🤭😶😂😂😂

[@jomanikarani]

Crispy Avocado girllllllll same damn reaction 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@patb2582]

😂😂😂

[@StarLove00]

@Elle D what? No, she doesn't

[@lala55419]

🤣🤣

[@samdc2616]

Exactly Lmao 🤣🤣

[@itsmekarima]

how he articulated himself during their religion question was superb.

[@Mjada93]

Karima Gabriel that’s superb really??

[@Laura-sg6ss]

@@Mjada93 well no but I think he explained himself well in terms of the analogy etc.

[@ferhat1777]

Can we just talk about her smile and her teeth like their so white and perfect!

[@TheSadie88]

There is something about this guy, he seems like he is difficult to please, he seem like has to challenge everything for the sake of trying to be extreme different.

[@TheMoyamo]

TheSadie88 Don’t think it’s in order ‚to be different‘ but it’s just being very reflective which is an admirable trait

[@denisedean2446]

Typical anal white dude. Run S as lily, run sally.

[@misspanama6963]

Remember he is a Scorpio...they are intense.

[@TheSadie88]

Miss Panama they and but not in the way he is. They are confident and march to the beatt of their own drumbb, they can have a party alone and have fun but he is arrogant in a disagreeable way n not in the way that's sensible but entitled. He is the type that repeat quotes to seem like he’s deep n experienced for the sake of image yet have no depth. Those who know never brag and aren't arrogant, because they know life’s experiences causes you to have an emotional limp.

[@murielmelly7688]

@@misspanama6963 Honestly, I love astrology but me being an Cancer sun, Leo moon & Aries rising, I don't know why but I don't care for Scorpios men. Maybe I haven't found the right one yet but they don't do anything to me

[@Seanonyoutube]

Both seem like cool people.

[@chesneectp]

He looks like he goes to church but turns out he's atheist

[@Noa......]

Based on looks?

[@Liz-oh5iy]

You can go to church and still be an atheist

[@Noa......]

@@Liz-oh5iy True that.

[@MrAhmedrocks234]

Nah for some reason the fact he is so worldly gave me athiest vibes

[@chesneectp]

@@Liz-oh5iy didn't say he couldn't. Just saying he doesnt believe in anything

[@timolee]

they look like they'd hook up on a drunk night and then ignore each other after

[@rylie.2019]

the question about the conversation before her grandmother’s death is so thoughtful, they seem so harmonious in general and i love that, loved the entire video tbh.

[@arshbehal6312]

She is so pretty! Also, he said religion was 'casual' in his family growing up, and then started talking about being asked to pray before meals, church etc. If that was 'casual' according to him, I wonder what would devout or regimented look like.

[@PHlophe]

devout ritual is prayer in the morning and and evening and before meals and reciting the kruzifix at least once a week and go thru every bead takes about one hour. so he meant it with the casual thing,

[@SuffertheFools]

It can definitely be casual for some people. Yes, his family may have prayed before eating and the other things he mentioned, but all of those behaviors are sometimes done in households in which a lot of emphasis is not placed on religion. My family was casual in the same way, and I'm atheist, so I can definitely relate to his experience.

[@danai6579]

ikr i just commented the same thing

[@elgaybean5544]

I was looking for a comment that mentioned it

[@sabcam2000]

That what I said. He said it was casual then described a religious household

[@user-xw4dx6vm4x]

“is it the hair” LMAOO she really thought🤣🤣

[@13ritalove]

😂😂😂

[@see9968]

Coco eye- 💀

[@bmags4188]

LMAO

[@iChristianGurl]

Coco Don’t get it.

[@nroberts3789]

Some Haiti people really do have hair textures like that ( their real hair). So I get where she was coming from but her wig although pretty looks “wigish” to me, even that white boy can tell! His expression is like ummm, “okkkayyy sis? 😆😅.

[@ath_saizamizi2583]

black and yellow is a masterpiece combination

[@ker_possible]

From the look I knew he was attracted but when she named touristy destinations and that she spoke one language I knew it was over. For her I knew it was over when he said he was atheist.

[@monk1928]

They were having some REAL conversations in between there

[@eles540]

This was so beautiful to watch two mature adults having a civilized conversation no drama, no cursing so peaceful....

[@elomaya]

@Tre that's kinda mean

[@eles540]

Tre you missed my point don’t misinterpret my words

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I am single 😙😍😍❤❤

[@Maryan_Garane]

Damn they had such good chemistry, but I love that she stood by her values. He seems like a great guy and is cute. The girl was lovely too!

[@vagaz1000]

Why the hell is they both have a such a calming voice??? 🥺🥺🥺

[@fickyni2]

'Well travelled' sounds so hypocrytical, I think. Because not everyone can afford that, especially at a young age. It should be more like do you have wanderlust.

[@tinychamberz]

@beyone queen theyre not young? bruh. are u adele?

[@fickyni2]

@@tinychamberz Living in Europe, I have to admit travelling is quite accessible, though I imagined this is more about travels far away

[@Pepe-yl9pv]

@@fickyni2 Yep this is exactly why his sentiment felt so elitist. If they were living in Europe then someone's lack of international traveling could indicate they have no interest in visiting other places since transport is relatively affordable and easy, whereas Americans need a lot of money and a full day of air travel to go almost anywhere outside the US. He's looking for someone who has had the privileged opportunity to see the world as much as him rather than someone who has the desire to travel and learn. Very odd.

[@RDCFemmes]

I love to travel but cannot afford it so I diacover through TV

[@studyingmk]

I get what you’re saying but I don’t think the word is hypocritical.

[@mayaanjali8573]

damn it's like the color yellow was maaaade to be onnat melanin

[@wearenotpoetsx]

black women invented colour FOREAL.

[@DeeznutztheOG]

wearenotpoetsx what

[@Usernp27]

wearenotpoetsx Still trynna figure out wtf that’s even suppose to mean🤣🤣🤣

[@immima5219]

I think she means that darker black people are like a black canvas that allows colours to really pop on them. Invented as in look good in it like it was made for them

[@immima5219]

English isn't my first language so pardon any errors

[@carolynharris4519]

I can tell it was really hard for her to talk about her grandmother. Almost thought she was going to cry.

[@KnowTrentTimoy]

I don't see ANY chemistry between these two. Just two souls passing through the night. Next.

[@beautifulangel5627]

Amen.

[@valeriecarre8967]

Really.. its the simple chemistry that can be so strong

[@KnowTrentTimoy]

@@valeriecarre8967 None of which is being demonstrated here.

[@dawonce486]

As a European he is what I thought all white american men looked like as a kid

[@Jprager]

Where are you from? Most people perceive white here as the blonde/blue eyed look rather than white with dark hair

[@mileandmare]

Me too lol

[@kimmry9406]

Well all white Americans are of European ancestry.

[@l.n963]

@@kimmry9406 most europeans are not blonde with blue eyes

[@kushinaa1XD]

Lol

[@simonc.2769]

Who is match making these? So many awkward ones lol

[@misscraze4036]

S I agree! I believe in interracial relationships but this wasn’t a good match.

[@lovelylex3508]

JoMoe G. Dude, they really are😂

[@selenalamothe997]

@@misscraze4036 i dont think it had to do with their race

[@gabriellanelson6484]

These two energies and souls are so beautiful and so complex yet simplistic at the same time. My energy just gravitates to both of these human beings.

[@amandawhitney4163]

I wouldn't date him on spiritual beliefs alone. I'm 35. I've dated men and considered that not important before. Trust me when I say it is

[@kkibela]

Same.. Its such a 2d existence also they just dont value other people's love unless its hard work... Long

[@getreal4real169]

Amanda Whitney It’s so important to have someone who is religious.

[@johnsommers3902]

It's only important when you throw kids in the mix

[@amandawhitney4163]

@@johnsommers3902 it actually matters regardless as over time its things like these that can make or break a relationship. Things like race aren't important but I was raised to believe our core values need to match. When one isn't religious and when one is that can make so many things difficult.

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I am single need gf 😙😍😍❤❤i love you forever i like you really 💑💑🌷🌷

[@jazlynwilliams3250]

imagine having chemistry throughout this entire thing and someone still say they won’t date you 🥴

[@Michelle-pn9xt]

Yeah. I don't understand that. They seemed like a good match.

[@yeiyei3869]

They had no chemistry for love but friendship yes

[@danai3630]

It's called standards not everything is about chemistry

[@e.e.7900]

@@danai3630 What "standards"? He was still good enough for her despite the deal breakers. I think it was just the chemistry.

[@danai3630]

@@e.e.7900 For example people won't date someone of a different religion because they have certain goals in mind

[@lifewiths.6204]

She’s sooo beautiful and he is soo handsome 🥵

[@sannydee]

She is killing that yellow. Going to break out my chartreuse on my brown skin for the winter. SHOES TO MATCH?!!?!?!!? #killingit!

[@thetriplethreat3]

I didn’t understand Trigg’s whole thing about language. Like someone can learn a language or you can teach them. It was kind of a lame reason imo.

[@Guruvalverde]

thetriplethreat3 uhm most americans don’t learn another language 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@thetriplethreat3]

Jose Valverde Gregori Keyword: CAN

[@Guruvalverde]

@feliceluvzya1 What? wait till you pay your insurance. Once again americans have lack of sense of culture, we learn languages because is interesting to get to know people from different backgrounds, americans just relay on other to speak english. Americans have no reason to leave their country? this must be a joke... Of course they do americans are desperate to leave so they can affort university, medical attention, transportation, etc etc things that in 95% of the country it is just failing.

[@nappynatural23yrs]

No intentions of dating ppl thats why

[@13tuyuti]

Not as lame as first saying that they would date with different spititual beliefs and then not dating a person for having different spiritual beliefs.

[@true4623]

Why the assisted suicide question??? So strange.

[@ajh.4131]

No, not weird. It's a question that could be in a religion/world view category. It's a question that gives you an idea of the other persons views.

[@gracegiles5462]

Tru Mo nothing strange about that, it gives insight to people’s thinking on a fundamental level, it’s a question about morality

[@poohvanlee8972]

I thought it was weird I have mental problems but I never had a doctor ask me about assisted suicide! I thought if you were suicidal you were just suicidal what the hell they mean by assisted?

[@mmg8830]

@@poohvanlee8972 assisted suicide is for people with health issues that are living with a poor quality of life.

[@MyBlackhawk007]

@@dreamingbig98 They also assist suicide for mentally illness these days. It's very common in The Netherlands, Belgium and parts of Switzerland to assist mentally ill people with suicide. It's sad because the person with mental illness is not 100% of sound mind to make the decision but still there are institutions that accept their applications

[@reemezz2775]

can we just talk about how beautiful she is 😍

[@anyquestions852]

my diary And then she never get married 😂

[@elmuchachochulodechihuahua6287]

No we can't

[@resianemaculate.]

She is so lovely.Proud African girl

[@evaadams8298]

She is gorgeous. Can we also talk about how beautiful he is.... 😀

[@thea1-876]

I feel like he needs a good hug, a big comforting hug.

[@dek1518]

He’s so my type.... smart, well-traveled and super cute. ❤️

[@tamekatomlinson8576]

He’s just flirting with his eyes and lips omg

[@elgaybean5544]

Tre bruh 😂😂 we all have lips his are just very thin

[@_colombeg]

@Tre WTF do you mean😂

[@prncessbaby16]

And his voice

[@kyliejohnson9184]

Tre IM SCREAMING 😭😂

[@maiorino92]

@Tre And black people have no decent hair lol so what

[@jeninej6482]

Anyone else wondering who tf Angela is?

[@noknokstar3381]

His ex 😂

[@_colombeg]

@@noknokstar3381 Lmfao 😂🤣

[@strawberrykisses3486]

@@noknokstar3381 Thank You

[@Tina-us1tr]

That part 😂😂😂😂

[@HayamiWorld]

😭

[@marwajlassi6114]

He has such a sexy and comforting voice

[@demetrondotson6956]

God her smile is just so damn beautiful when she talks. Queen.

[@PardonMyPretty]

She looked so unimpressed when she opened her eyes!

[@Millymode]

She wanted some chocolate

[@MsDesiree39]

She's mot exactly Halle Berry herself but he's nit bad looking

[@leigh4326]

Renee Moore she’s gorgeous and there’s nothing wrong with wanting or expecting a black man.

[@leigh4326]

Renee Moore she’s gorgeous and there’s nothing wrong with wanting or expecting a black man.

[@MsDesiree39]

@@leigh4326 how do u know she wanted a bm? and yet there are those in the comment section who claim he didnt want her cause she's black? Lmao. and sjhe's cute not gorgeous but the dress looks gorgeous on her

[@oscarzuniga4326]

Who the hell telling this man he be looking like zac efron?!??

[@LifeofMinna]

😂😂

[@azaniajuicethwala5324]

😂😂😂😂😂💀

[@emilyslaton2100]

He’s just arrogant lol

[@theantihero318]

I THOUGHT HE DOES

[@oliviaojpg]

He looks like what Zac Efron would look like if he got his face stomped on. I kid. He’s an attractive guy- just not Zac Efron 😂

[@eliasjoy3966]

I was only able to see RYAN REYNOLDS in there. And his voice was just on point.

[@lilyzemengist8091]

I'm constantly amazed at people who are that vulnerable to share their stories and especially the deaths that effected them. The only person I can share that with outside my immediate family IS my best friend. However, people put here sharing it in a public setting. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@littlerush99]

She is Absolutely Gorgeous! I thought they had a chance , but when he said Atheist ! I knew it was kind of Over! They had good chemistry, but he seemed a little Emotionally Detached!

[@SuffertheFools]

I also thought they had good chemistry. I was a bit surprised that she was never interested. I knew that once she said that she hadn't been to that many places that that was a turning point for him since that's a big aspect of his life.

[@MsDesiree39]

Geminis abd Scotpios are not a match. He was not detached just listening closely to her

[@viytalic9049]

@@MsDesiree39 Get this stereotype bs out of here. You wouldnt judge someone on there nationality or race so dont judge someone for when they was born.

[@MsDesiree39]

@@viytalic9049 i didnt make u read it, jackass!

[@SuffertheFools]

@msc14111990 I disagree. He was ok, in my opinion, but it goes to show that there are some differences that show incompatibility. I'm atheist, and I definitely don't think I'm arrogant. I don't go around questioning others beliefs or anything like that. The only time I really even mention it is when other people bring up going to church, assuming I attend a church as well, so then I have to bring it up.

[@azaniajuicethwala5324]

Her smile is absolutely beautiful 😭😍

[@saltlessbread]

What a charm of a man! Loved hearing him the entire time. Amazing views on life! ;)

[@sealizabrown7228]

She's gorgeous, but that closure, sis!

[@saylorwerthington7971]

Whoever is telling him he looks like Zac Efron needs to stop lying.

[@KeeekThaSneak]

Lmaooo

[@sannydee]

i think you are blind...bc Zac is all there

[@rmusic8969]

Lol😁😁😁

[@krisgomes4381]

He's really cute tho.

[@289rory]

Right sis

[@adammagriffith8275]

I found this conversation very refreshing and thought provoking. I loved it. We do make a lot of assumptions based on first impressions. I dated men from other ethnicities before I got married because my parents taught me to look at a person's character and beliefs not their race...Sometimes as you get older or live outside the U.S. who you are attracted to changes as well. Let's hope more couples have these kind of conversations.

[@Princess_Bynee]

They were so respectful and open I love this

[@3izzy0]

This was maybe my most favorite episode. I loved the authenticity and realness of both of their replies to the questions and while it wasn't a match, I think it was in that they both showed up and were open to their truths.

[@kaim0nd]

Look at her 💕 looking like an Oshun goddess in that yellow. 😍

[@inmylifeivelovedthemall]

YESS!

[@ktavolassi]

When I met my fiancé, he already traveled some countries and I already traveled to some too. Today we traveled to new countries together and I brought him to some that I have been before and he did the same with me. Some we have been to more than 10x. Just a matter to enjoy the moment does not matter where. I Am with him for his personality.

[@SharonCynthia20]

His voice is so pleasing to the ear. And she is so gorgeous.

[@monaDJ139]

maybe not date but they would be great friends both very smart people

[@gracebediako1666]

I agree best friends

[@LeezPgh]

I really like both of these people. Both true to themselves, honest, and with integrity. But kind. And interested in one another.

[@tanyear3837]

This is one of my favorites. Couldn't look away.

[@nikam4167]

"Is it the hair?" Had to be a trick question.. No sweetie, it was your features, which are beautiful.

[@meanpplsuck37]

This was very interesting to watch he seems like a lovely person, and so does she. I loved that they seemed to connect and cared about the little details about each other's lives.