Has Your Judgement Ever Been THIS Wrong? | Tell My Story

It’s certainly easier to make assumptions about people than it is to spend time getting to know someone. We wanted to put assumptions to the test to see what we're missing out on because we're so busy assuming we already "know" a person. Join us as we discover why you should never judge a book by it’s cover in our new series, Tell My Story.
We are all conditioned with certain biases. In this experiment, we challenged these biases by asking people to make assumptions about their partner's appearance without ever actually seeing their partner. When they flipped around to finally face each other, they were shocked by how wrong they were.
Now tell YOUR story. What do people assume about you?
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[@bakerstreetirregulars3607]

How is that guy 46?!?!?!?! What fountain of youth is he drinking from???

[@AkelloStone]

Awww thanks! Eat healthy and stay active I guess. LOL

[@GraceNdiege]

Akello Stone you have an East African name. I'm Luo from Kenya, same tribe as Obama and your name is a common female name the male being Okello. What made your parents give you that name.... also you're so hot🔥

[@AkelloStone]

Aww thanks . . .LOL eat green lol

[@sairah653]

BakerStreet Irregulars I'm still trying understand why he's single 😭😭😭

[@bakerstreetirregulars3607]

well 452 other people agreed with me so take the negativity elsewhere

[@Sleepierhead]

People think I'm socially awkward, a shut in, unhygienic and that I waste my life away in bed based on my appearance. They're right.

[@elainewarren1294]

Lester Koh...I think you have a sense of humor and not as you described yourself...so come clean lol

[@luvyou-baby]

its interesting that there are so many ppl like u (and me) on youtube commenting. i guess thats our way of communicating with others and feeling good, without the anxiety and awkwardness

[@dapperdementor3332]

Lester Koh Preach!!!

[@Frangipani808]

Bahahah

[@blackrose4198]

Lester Koh lmfao!

[@kaileyrose5784]

Hear me out, how cool would it be to have the thumbnail black and the visual black until they reveal themselves, so we can make our own assumptions about them, and after all that they can show the visual to the audio of the video. Opinions?

[@taewithluv6293]

Kailey Rose Omg yes

[@hyacinthdibley]

They could have them sit behind a screen...a dark screen maybe, and then we guess. That way, the whole video isn't entirely black. Maybe a blurry/diffused silhouette.

[@kekelauren6251]

I was thinking the same thing, but tbh the thumbnail could have at least a word design and the video have a charismatic introduction or something or else I probably wouldn't have clicked and stayed

[@laurak4961]

You could just listen to the audio and not watch too

[@deakaca5617]

Kailey Rose i was thinking that too

[@Funnyxgirl]

Akello is adorable!

[@Participant]

We couldn't agree more ;)

[@AkelloStone]

AWWWWW thanks!!!

[@maliaroach15]

Abby Nathan so hot

[@ForeverJustin6]

Akello Stone you're so adorable and sweet awww

[@tatjananinkovic1686]

I'm fascinated by him.

[@BakeChic98]

the sociology teacher bringing out those vocab words "colorblind ideology"

[@AkelloStone]

I got to bring something to the public forum!

[@WhatTechShow]

You seem like the nicest/funnest person ever! I would love to be your friend!

[@AkelloStone]

Oh, wow that you for that compliment - it made my day!

[@tumadre9689]

Akello Stone omg I was in your summer class for upward bound. YOURE SUCH A COOL GUY!!!

[@believe7in7me7]

Akello Stone You're such a handsome man... im in love :)

[@sb4825]

'Nice pants and a blouse' > 3:06 'I got the blouse right' lol

[@redrocketrider]

Pika Chu #rekt

[@knolltrekker9296]

Pika Chu YES! I was hoping someone else had caught that 😂😂

[@okaygee4132]

I chuckled at that. Like her pants are less than nice?

[@praynmom]

Pika Chu- I had to laugh, myself!🤪

[@aaronvazquezanzua4315]

don't judge a book by it's cover because you haven't read the story

[@Participant]

Exactly!

[@AzelPraer]

What if you have read the story?

[@aaronvazquezanzua4315]

Azel P then you can judge them lol

[@lourdeangelotsingh609]

Aaron Vazquezanzua your profile picture tho😂😂

[@traceford4904]

What if you read the synopsis on the back cover.

[@tropical_punch784]

the girl with the tattoos really hated her last relationship lmao

[@hyacinthdibley]

Tropical_punch7 hahahaha. Oh yes!

[@jimwilliams4088]

I like the tattooed woman 😘

[@BoredRandomCraptv]

When I saw Akello in the thumbnail, I thought he might have been a mean biker with a rough deep voice, and nonchalant attitude, but he seems so nice and friendly! He's so smiley and likeable! Aww, I feel bad for assuming that.

[@bbyganiii]

BoredRandomCraptv his KZbin channel is Akello Stone. Search it up :)

[@poiewhfopiewhf]

and I'm a little puppy. bark! bark! 🐕

[@karin1636]

people assume that i am crazy and i am

[@n.eliana3933]

Karin Jyrgenson LMAOO😂😂

[@anisaantoinette6381]

😂💀😁💀💀💀😁

[@libfuzzy]

Sebastian lmboo

[@jhaliyahbedford7635]

Karin Jyrgenson we believe you😂

[@beatricedevarenne2621]

Boom

[@TinaSound25]

I think people assume I'm a very shy and/or boring girl and also weird and maybe a bit rebel. Something I struggle with is that I somehow just can't be myself when I'm with people. I have social anxiety and am super awkward in social situations. Only people I have known for a long time or who I feel comfortable with get to know me to some extent. But honestly nobody knows the real me, like how I am when I'm alone. I actually talk a lot to myself and am my own best friend.. can't be the only one right?

[@diloromodiboeva5311]

Tina de Ronde That sounds exactly like me.

[@TinaSound25]

The dawn right before the sunrise is the darkest Really? Glad I'm not alone! You can talk to me if you want.

[@diloromodiboeva5311]

Tina de Ronde Well, everything you said is the way I am, and the only thing that I would like to add, is the way people like to quess another's age. Due to my height, appearance(mainly my clothing) and my attitude, people often assume I'm old. Like, once there was this women who thought I was in my early 30s while I'm still a teenager. I know age is just a number, but it just crumbled down my self-confidence and made me question myself if I really looked that old. That was like two years ago though and since then I've gotten used to all this, but I just wish that people really stop assuming things just because of someone's appearance. It's honestly irritating.

[@TinaSound25]

The dawn right before the sunrise is the darkest I don't know you, but maybe people just assume you're older because of how you dress. Maybe it doesn't have anything to do with your face. I on the contrary, still look like a 12 y/o while I'm turning 17 in two weeks ._.

[@diloromodiboeva5311]

Tina de Ronde You're turning 17 in two weeks? I'm turning 17 after eleven days! What a coincidence.

[@kylejnicholson]

"I get judged on my appearance a lot" "I do too..." Loved that moment!!!

[@stuff7250]

kyle nicholson what's ashame is I think it's something everyone can relate to for so many different reasons. People think because I'm small and cutesy looking that I'm dumb and young when actually I'm a very acomplished and quite old person. Some judgements are more harmful and extreme than others but we all share that problem because we all judge even though we know it hurts

[@claireservos8645]

how did he guess the hair, the boots, and the BLUE PANTS?

[@sammyranievesrivera5655]

FRRRR he guessed all of it XD

[@shanteju3789]

Some people are imaginative

[@alek_42]

i'd totally hang out with Akello, seems pretty cool

[@AkelloStone]

Thank you!!!!

[@layaldergham3824]

This is the purest video

[@es4655]

Akello is a cool name

[@afrykanqwin]

I am Kenyan and Akello is a Kenyan name from the Luo tribe...

[@starndanu7599]

afrykanqwin same

[@bossb8989]

Akello means to bring forth in Luo (a Kenyan 🇰🇪 tribe)

[@Thats_MarieHoney]

He's black in the aging perspective. Like wine apparently💕

[@AnastasiaBeaverhousn]

Linna XO he looks his age

[@Elizabethperc]

Linna XO goodbye

[@shayla6968]

Lies!

[@Worldshottestpariah]

Linna XO he looks good

[@Happey67]

True!

[@grover5562]

Mid 30s!? Bruh she has 4 grown children

[@curtisdouglas5027]

grover 55 right, like what math was she doing???

[@victoriaseabolt5047]

Isn't this video about not making assumptions and not judging people?

[@praynmom]

Victoria Seabolt No, it’s about the assumptions we make. 😊

[@11094DEREK]

Its possible my mom had 5 children by the time she 36 lol

[@louspussay]

11094DEREK but all grown up?

[@Brian_Camp]

Job interviews should be back to back!

[@Ducthy2009]

Brian Camp wooww good idea

[@WhatIsItToBurn]

Some were obviously wrong. I think they went with their gut instinct instead of thinking about it. Like when the woman with the hat guess the other was mid 30s, yet she had grown up children, which is really not common, especially 4 grown up children. The young woman guessed a professor of psychology was late 20s/early 30s.... that is insane, it does happen, but crazy nevertheless. I am not mocking them. It is just me observing how stuff like that was missed. Either they went with gut feelings or they did not pay much attention or maybe was distracted. It was an interesting video!

[@Participant]

We were wondering about this as well! Our thought was, perhaps they made other assumptions about their partner that overruled some of the facts they were being given. Have you ever made assumptions about a person's age or intelligence because of the race or gender you assumed they were? Sometimes it's hard for people to let go of the initial judgements they've made, despite new facts they learn about a person.

[@WhatIsItToBurn]

SoulPancake I don't think it would be a race or gender thing. I imagine it is just they didn't think because of nerves being on the show, you see it all the time on game shows.

[@gookoojohnson1111]

Lord Chumpington Yep! those 2 points got me too.

[@praynmom]

I can only speak for myself, but the assumptions I made were not due to any nervousness. While doing this experiment, I had a LOT of thoughts going on. What did she say? What did I say? Lol How old does she sound? Is there an accent? Where is her voice coming from? (Was she taller or shorter than me?) Does she remind me of anyone? WHAT DOES SHE LOOK LIKE? What does she think about me? How do I look? Why didn't I get my eyelashes done? Lol, but seriously! Those are just a few of the things that were going on in my head. Knowing that I probably would not be what she was imagining, I knew I could be very wrong. But, I didn't want to overthink the situation. Many thanks to Soul Pancake, for this opportunity. P.S. I adopted my daughter when she was 16, the same age as my eldest daughter at the time. She has now been a Professor of Sociology for over two years. She is 29 yrs. old. I am 53.

[@h.e.l.p.3655]

I'm guessing you're good at making deductions (at least, better than me) because I would have never caught that haha. I thought the mid 30s thing was weird though, with four kids outta the house. What I found amusing about your comment was that you said they probably went with their "gut feelings" and that's possibly why they were wrong. For me, it's the other way around. I rarely listen to my mind's logic when making deductions (well, only when making financial decisions but even then, I let my gut give some input) but I freely listen to my intuition/gut. Every person is truly different :)

[@Evija3000]

People sometimes assume that I'm smart and responsible :D

[@skinkscat]

Evija3000 HA nice

[@AstandsforAlex]

I was just thinking about how no one in my nursing or science classes looks at me very nicely. Although, I'm always smiling and I dress nice. My version of dressing nice is adidas jacket, joggers, nice shoes, and I look very urban and edgy. I think for that reason people assume that I'm not intelligent or that I'm not taking the class seriously. When in reality, last semester I was one of the few that didn't drop out and I got an A in my anatomy class! I walk into a class of people looking very casual or even in sweats; I like to dress I little bit more my style with nice, expensive clothes. I even try to be really nice; I say "thank you" all the time, I'm very polite, but I still get that treatment, it's interesting.

[@NorthernGem88]

LusiFr It is interesting. Keep doing what you're doing and keep following your heart in doing what you feel is right and be happy with your life. Everyone else will take care of themselves. The world just needs a little more love. Peace ❤

[@gordonfreeman4602]

LusiFr me too... classmates are weird

[@FirstLast-pn8tx]

LusiFr maybe people envy you? And is that you in the picture you look cute doeee hahahaha

[@kaylakay1]

+First Last "you cute doeee"😂

[@0700andrea]

I've made assumptions about people who dress like you... I'm sorry

[@philippaholland1619]

"You're beautiful" aww that woman is so sweet

[@praynmom]

Philippa Holland-Thanks!

[@anikalama3819]

I love soul pancake so much sending love all the way from Egypt 😍😍💖💕

[@Participant]

Thanks for the love Anika!

[@Beaneabean]

Anika Lama get whipped and build some pyramids, bitch

[@thebigarchive]

Karynna Hills That is extremely irrelevant and immature

[@leelavidal]

Akello sounds so smart and friendly. Overall I feel a positive vibe from him

[@PARTitialian13]

That white guy is hot b

[@JazzyCast]

what a wholesome video

[@hidinginmyroom2656]

Tattoo girl was gorgeous

[@AnishaSingh30]

I love Akello's smile and personality, definitely someone I would hang out with!

[@nishani4337]

she "prefer white men" but don't like when ppl make assumptions 😂😂😂

[@nathaliamonroe7454]

Nisha Ni I'm pretty sure she means that she is physically attracted to White men. That is what she thinks is appealing-- she's not talking about character, as that can't be generalized.

[@thatthingyouseeatthecorner5249]

Nisha Ni Yeah, I never really get racial preferences, especially since peoples appearance differ so much within races. It just sounds silly

[@faidiefak]

Racial preferences are really just what people are more attracted to. It has nothing to do with assumptions it's just what you're into

[@_knickerbocker]

She called it a PREFERENCE for a reason, it's not like she said she will NEVER date someone who isn't caucasian. What does that have anything to do with making assumptions anyway?

[@thatthingyouseeatthecorner5249]

knicker bocker Many preferences are based on generalizations and stereotypes though

[@maddy4557]

I like to dress very casually. ripped jeans, beanies, baggy shirts or unbuttoned button ups. people always assume that I'm sketchy and they doubt my intelligence. everyday my principal looks a me wearily in the halls. I've been nothing but nice to her. I try not to let it get to me because I know I'm smart. if only my principal came in to my calculus or physics class and saw me hard at work. it's hard to stay confident when people always expect less. intelligent people come in all shapes and sizes. I don't understand how people call judge me based on my clothes. it proves nothing.

[@Clemsonjmal]

Idk. I get judged differently by different races. Black people think im snobby and try to be white. Other races think im just shy and stand offish. Im a black guy but people say I "act white" which is stupid. I act how I want to act not trying to be a certain race. Then if someone plays "ghetto" they're acting black. I dont act like that sooo... clearly not. Stereotypes are so stupid.

[@Bean_dip]

JMLS just be you :)

[@shhmoee]

that, 'you're beautiful' comment legitimately had me shook...:') i'm over here sobbing, wtf, this was so cute.

[@praynmom]

Shhmoee-😘

[@judithgallardo7842]

I loved that the first thing that the two women said to each other was that they are beautiful. YES! Girl power!

[@camelia-idelcadi]

Love this idea!! French fan Check my covers if u want, i'd be super pleased!! ❤️

[@libraryofthelabyrinth]

nah

[@marthebuskens]

you have such a beautiful voice! 🌹

[@ElleElle1111]

OMGoodness! interesting experiment. made me open my eyes and THINK!!

[@julietteileana3518]

because I'm 1/2 black, my teachers often assume I can't comprehend or do the work asked of my white peers. most of my teachers ask me questions slowly and loudly, and take me aside to make sure I understand what's going on. They do none of this to anyone white in my class. They openly act surprised when I receive top scores on anything or are able to answer a harder question. It's annoying to know that just because of my skin color my teachers assume I'm slow and can't catch onto things.

[@tomball8092]

julietteileana hang in there

[@kittywuvscissors3504]

I'm black and I also love my Caucasian guys. Yasss bish

[@hyacinthdibley]

Kitty wuvscissors yessss

[@kierrarichardson80]

Lol

[@ftngie]

here you go 🍪

[@ramzimoussa3621]

iam not into those social stuff , but when those 2 womens said "you are beautifull" i actually felt happy .

[@praynmom]

ramzi moussa- 😋

[@littlearcticwolf6672]

The girl with the tattoos inspired me. ^^

[@davisjohnson879]

that was a good video

[@mardolah]

Omg I loved this!!

[@arrowangelftw1432]

Because I have a wheelchair, people often assume that I am mentally challenged, rather than physically, and they act like I need help with things that I don't or that I don't understand things which is not true, I know I am intelligent and I understand lots of things that able bodied people might not. It's also assumed a lot that I am younger than I am (a blessing and a curse) because I have chubbier cheeks and big eyes and I am quite petite. In terms of my clothing, I wear a lot of comfortable clothes rather than fashionable ones, which makes people assume that I am lazy or lacking in social awareness. To that, I say that I am not lazy, I do ballet a lot and I go on walks (the wheelchair is only temporary, I'm not in it 24/7) and my social awareness is in fact very high. Someone once told me "I'm glad I got to know you, because you're not how I thought you would be at all,". Apparently, they thought I would either be very slow and boring and dumb, or too snappy and protective and ignorant. I must admit, that hurt me, but I hate that people make assumptions. I'm not saying that I don't because everybody makes assumptions because that's just how society works, but I wish people didn't. Thank you if you're still reading this, it shows me what sort of person you are, without having to make assumptions ;-) XD

[@crazy4soccer3]

Being mixed race people put me in a box that I have to be my darker half but why can't I just be me!!

[@Blasto2x]

Sounds like you dislike being part "dark" and have a hangup when people refer to you by your "darker half". Being you is being both so walk in it and be proud to be biracial. More and more people are nowadays.

[@avatarkyoshi1693]

crazy4soccer3 I have that problem to. I am mix but they mark me as black when I am mix. Kids will be asking me so many quesyions likw who are you or what you mix with or can I touch your hair. I hate that one drop rule made by racist people. That law should be abolish. But I just hang out with anyone from all race but sometimes its hard to fit in because I am half white and black and little asian amd hiwain

[@bradygalen7660]

now this is excellent! a topic handled with such grace and no political swing. Vox wishes it could produce something like this video

[@vitoroba]

That was beautiful. It would be lovely to see a video with the opposite process. People staring at each other and saying what they thing about them, only to have people talk about themselves later and see what others would think of them based on their image. Classic "don't judge a book by it's cover". Anyway, thanks for the experience, Soul Pancake

[@AkelloStone]

I like this idea.

[@myabartell3422]

It’s a year later since you’ve commented this but have you seen their “Tell my story” Series?

[@dariadyjasek3244]

wow how did the guy guess that the girl had blue leggings, her exact hair and that she has boots 😱😂

[@TheLeshegompe]

trying to marry the sociology teacher asap...

[@scarletsoothill7193]

hes 46!? he looks late 20s early 30s!

[@sabcam2000]

Please, he looks 46. He just acts younger.

[@Imwalkinhea]

Ayeee I prefer Caucasians too😍😍

[@bongieger7871]

Akello is a mix of Vin Diesel and Hank Schrader from Breaking Bad :D

[@jackcoltrane5532]

*names the only two bald guys he knows

[@spamsingles5948]

Deine Muddha 😂

[@noguchilvov4371]

BongieGER i got Chuck Norris and Anti Voldermort with a nise

[@kmms4720]

"You're beautiful" "so are you" OKAY BUT THAT WAS SO CUTE I love all four of them :)

[@praynmom]

Kat Montero- 😘

[@JediMIndaugas]

I don't get it. A lot of the guesses are completely baseless.

[@hils1015]

I really love this. This is a really great way to make friends. Margret is so so lovely. I just want to hug her. She seems really kind, genuine, very very loving, giving and forgiving but also self conscious yet bold and strong.

[@RD-vz6cc]

I hate when people with tattoos complain about "being judged". being tattooed is a choice being Black American is not.

[@chickenpermission6890]

Rachel D that doesn't change the fact that you can get judged for having tattoos though.

[@chickenpermission6890]

***** ok? That's not my point either. I'm Hispanic and it's not the same as being tattood. For example. That by it self does not change the fact that prejudice towards tattooed people exist. In the same way, tattooed people being judged before hand for being tattooed does not change the fact that black people might exprcience racism. Both of them have the right to express their feelings towards both issues that affect them and that's exactly what they did.

[@chickenpermission6890]

***** that's not the point of the video though. Of course I don't know the struggle of being black. They were sharing experiences and relating to each other though. Supporting each other. Why is that so hard to understand. They weren't competition for worst experience award. Also, if someone else having a broken leg will not make the pain of a cut disappear. It's like telling someone who hasn't eaten for 3 days to stop complaining because there's starving children in Africa. I'm not lessening or degrading the reasoning that black people can go through rough shiet but that's not the point the person in the video was trying to make. Please understand that. He can talk about his experiences as well as her. Also, having a tattoo and because it's a "choice" does not make it okay to go after a person. Also, "last time I checked the majority of people like tattoos" "last time I checked the majority of people aren't racist " (and I get that that's not the only reason )that statement could work too but there's always that group of people that don't follow this category. ✌

[@chickenpermission6890]

***** welp. I was clearly talking about the video since the beginning so there was no reason to "@" me. You should have talked to Rachel who had a stamens similar to yours.

[@chickenpermission6890]

+Queenie Edwards judging people with tattoos is as bad as judging someone for their skin color though. Prejudice is a bad thing; judging and making fun of people for something like those two things will always be wrong. Baii

[@morielaguilar817]

i wonder why th sociology teacher guy is still single. i mean, he's kinda nice and sensefull.

[@jezelle7420]

A job well done again! Love your content SoulPancake.

[@jayashreechakraborty2482]

this is super lovely !!! I just love love love loved ittttttt ❤

[@shadywiskerz]

People always say I'm quiet.. And I'm like maybe I just don't wanna talk to *you*

[@terrancebrown87]

"I do too" like she's telling her a secret NOT in front of the camera.

[@smok2432]

Love love this

[@ZosiaSamosiaOo]

"Smok" means "dragon" in Polish... Hi from Poland, lol ;D

[@joshhale9355]

Not all musicians are broke and selfish, well broke maybe, but I donate!

[@hyacinthdibley]

Joshua Hale hahaha. True true. Well i pray the broke part remains very temporary with you. Don't give it up. :)

[@weez1988]

Y'all reading this have an awesome day✌️✌️

[@aiyanapoe7369]

This video and the others about assumptions are really interesting. They make a point saying that assumptions a lot of the time are wrong but it's something we all do. Even when you try not to judge someone you do it anyway. If you do judge that person at least keep an open mind to change those assumptions later

[@eterna1flame]

cienna and akello seem so nice omg

[@artrojas4732]

I really liked the connection between those two gals. it got me thinking we really do make assumptions about the rest of the people. Those who say they don't are lying. Of course we have prejudice. The important thing is not being stopped by that and get to know the person beyond the appearance

[@praynmom]

Art Rojas- 😋

[@torib100]

People have assumed I'm in a gang..,

[@stargaza9374]

I would love to do this actually. Because I'm talk and black my friends have said they saw me as intimidating and classify me as someone unaproachable, but as they got to know me they looked past appearance to see how I'm the complete opposite of what they thought.

[@iamshauno]

People assume I've got my life together or at least majority of them do but honestly, I have no idea what I'm doing

[@NorthernGem88]

Shauneil Omillo You will figure it out on a need to know basis. Don't rush nature. Enjoy the wave and just be happy ☺❤ Peace.

[@ashleycolston7497]

I think because I’m proud of my ethnicity and culture people assume I dislike white people. And this is absolutely NOT the case. If I wear a Malcolm x t shirt and loc my hair, this doesn’t mean I dislike anyone else. It simply means I love myself as I am❤️. Also, because of my skin color; many assume I’m uneducated when I’m a card carrying member of MENSA. People also expect Ebonics to roll out of my mouth when I speak and are often taken aback when my vocabulary is more vast than their own 🤔

[@ivon_reborn]

So far... this is one of my favorite ones! :) Thanks for sharing these!

[@amberfirexx9]

"I have four children, they're grown" "I think she's in her 30s" okay then

[@danutto]

The guy is so charming!

[@temporarythoughts]

these are so enjoyable to watch. all the people are so charming and nice.

[@Riai.__0]

You should make a similar video except they make assumptions about the other person solely on their appearance

[@Al-xi8vu]

I don't think that would sit too well...

[@kmms4720]

Okay but you can't tell me there's no hope in humanity after seeing this like wow I'm shook by the kindness and the love

[@randomalien7049]

That guy that said about the blue leggings and boots had to have seen her before hand😂😑

[@victorias1454]

People assume that I'm really serious and I don't take jokes because I have a resting b**** face. also they think I'm really shy but have many friends, but in reality I'm very weird, crazy outgoing, and only have a little amount of friends but they're my favorite. 😊

[@Fallencitiesrevival]

Mmmm that man is attractive!!

[@Barsookmik]

I hate to admit that I've been judging Lucy by her appearance through the whole video. However, what she said and how she said it, it just did not come along with the image, it was less shallow and more sensitive than I expected. So I've had this fight in my head between the look and what's inside there and the video has definitely illustrated the "don't judge by the cover" saying for me.

[@EmmaSchuren]

everyone assumes im stupid, rich, and have a perfect life because im white. its quite the opposite.

[@alinealice5633]

When she made that comment about musicians, I died laughing then was like, “but ouch, my feels.”

[@johnnytight1869]

Damn single at 46.....

[@Kingro619]

People seem to really like my appearance and find me attractive, and girls will even come up and chat me up. But then when I talk they seem to lose any attraction for me. It's resulted in me becoming pretty depressed and paranoid as I have no clue why.

[@g0ongurl78]

Hates that people judge others by physicalities, prefers Caucasian men...

[@nathaliamonroe7454]

Maz Orchard that's not a judgement. she's not saying that other men are unattractive. she's saying that a certain aesthetic is what appeals to her. we each have our own idea of beautiful.

[@demetriusdavis95]

Nathalia Monroe yeah but let's be honest let a black dude say that and the butthurt black girls would be all on here talking about how he's a hypocrite.

[@nathaliamonroe7454]

You're not lying. I would probably be one of those butthurt Black girls! It is my personal belief that there is something wrong when you are not attracted to your own people. I don't think it has to be an exclusive attraction, but I think you should love your people. That being said, I am a Black woman who married a white man. I've known a lot of Black men to get butthurt about it. It's not that I don't think Black men are beautiful. I simply fell in love with a white man. I don't know how the hell it happened. It just happened. I find myself getting automatically upset when I see Black men with white women in public. I find myself with eyes narrowed and lips pursed, every single time. And then I realize that I have wed myself to a white man, and I''m being hypocritical. I had always wanted to marry a Black man, have chocolate babies with natural hair in puffs, sing "brown baby" to them at night--as my mother sang to me. But life is strange, and unexpected, Demetrius. You never know why things are the way that they are. I know how my life looks, from the outside. I have learned not to judge.

[@thatthingyouseeatthecorner5249]

Nathalia Monroe That's strange, but I understand somehow

[@beatricedevarenne2621]

Nathalia Monroe society tell you what its beautiful or not...

[@anxietyebriety6553]

I thought this channel was going to be buzzfeedy/poppy, quirky, but its actually pretty grounded with a good range of appeal.

[@andrewvaldivia4875]

have y'all seen the Devil sign on that emo girl around her neck

[@mr.griffe9202]

Andrew Valdivia It's not a devil sign it's used in wicca and other pegan religions

[@andrewvaldivia4875]

***** still evil

[@ExwireTamer]

Andrew Valdivia Actually it would have to be upside down to be satanic, the way she wears is probably representing the 5 main elements (including energy) or because she's pagan which is not evil.

[@cescilypojar7016]

Allison Snowden amen

[@nodrapx3429]

She practices Wicca dumbass. This video was literally about not judging people. Obviously you didn’t watch it properly

[@boedennis6500]

Lucy is a Pagan or Wicca. I think. Because of the necklace. And she seems like a person who thinks the karma is a goes around comes around. Her tattoos show she believes in self expression. I can see it, but who knows.

[@Livontheg0]

He is insanely handsome! this is a win

[@lindasulca1609]

In my country we are very ignorant, and it is very sad. These types of assumptions that we have in Latvia is so bad, sterotyping is a thing that we do every day and all day, color wise or mentality wise.I would love to see every one equal and loved, no mattter what.

[@treefrogjohnson7514]

I think it was a pretty powerful moment when the two women both said they get judged by their looks when they look really dissimilar.

[@peterkiss1204]

Assumptions aren't definitely wrong. Just don't let it to exclude certain type of people from your interest!

[@ryneckert]

Wow he guessed blue leggings and she was wearing sky blue jeans!! That's kinda crazy.

[@sarahkennedy249]

These videos are amazing I think everyone should watch and really reflect on us a generation and who and what we are becoming and are sometimes guilty of

[@samipandsarina2271]

People assume I am Mexican 12 yrs old and a athlete while I am Asian 10 and a Wallflower

[@cocoashine4176]

Omg when they said ur so beautiful that was so cute

[@anelipena3927]

This is a really cool series. It really shows people how to think different.

[@brinyalifts]

4 kids she said they're grown, how could she be in her 30's? Lololol!!!

[@aleahbabyy5414]

i feel like the two girls will become bestfriends, if they already haven’t lmao😂

[@igotmyownsauce2002]

I love these videos. And what he said at the end with the "fast food" reference in my opinion he hit the nail one the head!