Keep the Spark Alive | The Science of Love

[@camillesaurenman9270]

I love this web or KZbin show because it gives meaning and helps me understand relationships. If the creators or people of Soul Pancake are reading this, out of three videos that I have watched so far, I have completely changed my way of thinking, my outlook on life and this has finally helped me understand good and healthy relationships. I was always in relationships that were all one sided, where I was told what to do, how to act, or how to be in certain situations. In all relationships I have, at home, with friends, and with a controling boyfriend I have changed them all to healthy relationships, where I now take more than I give, which caused a breakup with my boyfriend, but hey, him having control wouldn't have worked out anyway. So thank you Soul Pancake, keep making videos, I cannot wait to see what you come up with next.

[@Participant]

Camille Saurenman thank you so much for your kind message and support of the show! We have learned (and continue to learn) so much from making it, and it means so much to us to know that it has helped you make positive changes. Can't wait for you to see the rest of the series!

[@tristonallen463]

I only wish these videos were more frequent because everyone of them has helped me

[@eason9115]

Camille Saurenman the whole point is to give equally not take more then you give haha good luck

[@tsummerlee]

These videos are so full of win and awesome. Love it.

[@dmingthing]

I loved this. No spark intended.

[@Heyelve]

omg i`m subscribed to you!!!!!

[@najibcasa2745]

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[@ThugMuffinification]

I got happier as I watched this. Something about seeing people connect and happy is really contagious. I'm happy their happy and that makes me excited for when I fall in love and can share those connections. This was fantastic! So simple yet actually really powerful. Soul Pancake you're clever people!! ;-) and you always know how to make my day better. Thank you for that!

[@GizmoAndKiwi]

This video really made me cry heavily, it hit me right at my latest weak spot. I just ended a really long relationship with a partner that said "I don't want to have to work in a relationship, it should be easy without working". I was kind of doubting myself, thinking he might be right and that I'm just complicating everything. It still hurts but this video really backed me up!

[@Sidnee42]

I just got out of the same situation. After 5 years it turned into me being the only one putting any effort into anything. Not even "work" just the simple things like calling or hanging out. I decided maybe I was the one at fault, maybe being too pushy so I gave him 3 days without a phone call. 3 days turned into 3 weeks so I ended it. At first I felt like the jerk (and boy did he make me out to be) but I'm happier now. A partnership only works if both people want to be a partner :)

[@GizmoAndKiwi]

And you are judging me and my relationship behaviour by one comment I made, which basically just states, that I personally agree with the video's message. Totally normal. You could also just see that my ex-partner and me had different views of how a relationship should work, but sure, assume whatever.

[@SongDiseased]

I think I'm in love with Julian

[@minieboisvert367]

So am I. * *.* *

[@justacarat2638]

I can relate 😂 it's his eye contact paired up with interesting facial expressions. Feels like he's really talking to you in real life. Not many people show this range of emotions on their face during eye contact when talking to strangers

[@Rodreaux]

The most cheesy videos on KZbin! I love SoulPancake it always makes me cry y'all

[@AravahStar]

"Our emotions in the present, paint our outlook in the future" I agree, SP...I'd take it even further. I'd say they not only paint the outlook, but create future experiences. Present circumstances are reflections of past thoughts & emotions. To really live 'in the present moment' is to pay close attention to your state of being rather than your circumstances.

[@aubreyrose33]

great comment!

[@AnalisaFreitas]

I really liked this one! I definitely think having a common goal makes you feel like a team which makes you feel like you are both putting in time and effort - it makes things feel more balanced and equal which is important in a long term relationship.

[@Abey0Baby7]

I'm currently in a relationship that crossed to about a year now on Feb. I've definitely learned that it does take work. I am constantly figuring out what to do each month as a new adventure. I love to do activities with my girlfriend, whether it is night hikes, Mt. Badly hikes, parties, to even studying together. YOU GUYS ARE AMAZING, this is by FAR the best series for me. Keep going!

[@Abey0Baby7]

P.S. THANK YOU!!

[@CD2002-yw6pd]

Why I watching this I'm single af

[@sky_lerwrites1373]

love that smile when he says 'and then it ends' cx

[@fclavijo]

Best non-nerdy out-of-comfort-zone activity: travelling.

[@JEgginator-eh7xm]

Watching one video from SoulPancake each day makes me a better person, without a doubt. Eveyone should be required to do this. The world would be a much brighter place.

[@sorabellatwinklebear6634]

I like these videos a lot, I feel like it gives me some hope about relationships not failing. Like it shows in a real way that things can work out for real.

[@AndThenItHappened]

so great- hope couples really spend lots of time in the compassionate love phase before having kids- you'll need all that practice time with team work and loving each other and working toward common goals to raise babies together!

[@RoboticScribble]

Julian'd probably like the best ever guy to date!?!? lol

[@mariah_7654]

I think that this applies to friendships too. I want to share this video with everyone that is starting a new relationship

[@mananrocks98]

Hey ! +SoulPancake do one science of love for teenagers !!!

[@23HappyApples]

Working together towards common Goals is Key. Makes sense...

[@billieione]

You guys are incredible. I know this because I liked the video before I even watched it.

[@benotafraid3]

Extremely well done, Julian and Soulpancake team!

[@nanditavetekar3724]

thanks for sharing such soulful positive thoughts

[@kikianasahmad2328]

your videos are super cool and about what every young person talks and thinks about .im subscribing!

[@farleyboy6445]

All relationships take work for them to last, but the underlying feeling is usually always there if there is communication.

[@Bellsell77]

an these videos make me SO happy :)

[@JulianTorres97]

I LOVE these videos. Keep up the absolutely brilliant work SoulPancake!

[@genevieveyew7628]

This series makes my Wednesday mornings. ^^

[@Muse_XoXo_]

This is Soo true,, every relationship requires effort !

[@himalyaoqyanus]

I love the fact that it helps me to go trough my current experience thank you dear soul pancake I heart u

[@elizabethsnavely4841]

What a great video! That southern couple- so so cute! Are they legit actors? they were way too good looking to be people you just got off the street...

[@liv2srf]

Perfect! It's so important to bring attention to the post-honeymoon phase, but I agree that's where the real relationship starts :) Love & light Soul Pancake!

[@joyjoyoo]

yap, love requires work! and I LOVE THE SETTING! love that big heart fixture =D

[@Sahkatee]

These couples better stay together forever after participating in this video.

[@adamkuehn]

It would be awesome if you guys could do a show about Polyamorous relationships, and the Science behind how it is possible to love several people! :) You guys bring so much happiness! You rock!

[@kujmous]

I have wanted this video for years. Thank you so much. :'-)

[@LabLE4]

I'm lovi' every 'the science of love' video!

[@artsiemama]

lovely vid! very motivating ♡

[@ManufacturedLack]

Rated: Happiness

[@michellehooper8879]

Bravo, Bravo!!!👌🏾👍🏾

[@kokuz13]

This was really encouraging and sweet :)

[@frozenpeasarecool]

Ooo this was so good. I loved the card tower building.. okay, stay calm! :p

[@JaclynMarston]

I love this. make more of them pleeeease

[@FedericaRS]

Although I'm not a sweet person, these videos always get me emotional :')

[@ishjusmusic]

this is awesome!

[@justforrfunnn]

I love this web series!!!

[@haleyd6382]

Love this!

[@Buddy24ification]

So much awesome!

[@messypoemic3115]

I love this video. It's spark joy

[@AwesomeOstree]

This made me smile :)

[@zweet8589]

Great video! I am a subscriber!!

[@Someonelikekanye]

5:22-5:33 set off an explosion of excitement in my head

[@Crucis119]

I love this so much. :)

[@lafuentematadoe6025]

Бббббьь ююююююю

[@lovemecom3832]

This is interesting video, to keep the spark alive each of you need some effort, discover new things with your partner and made a lot of bondings to spend time together that lead into a long lasting relationship.

[@michymichymichyelle]

Aw Julian, I love you. and how you say "love"

[@luzlizcano6956]

Love this videos

[@crystallclearr15]

This makes me so happy

[@supisarak.941]

this is brillant !!!

[@jenniferhayes7170]

Aww! I love the science of love!

[@MissMSL91]

Lovely!

[@Odderek]

Really good information! Now I just have to convince my girlfriend to get out of her room more often and do activities...

[@MyPinkyx21]

Thumps up to this episode!!! :))

[@lindseylou1697]

This was an amazing experience! I felt like a complete nerd lol I love SoulPancake I think the message they put out there is amazing and I want to thank them for the opportunity to do something like this with my husband you guys ever need any more guinea pigs let me know lol OHHHH I was right it was only 3 years lmao

[@eltrespiernas833]

It makes me happier to kbow more about relationships :)

[@GregPoblete]

wow. this was great.

[@kenrangel5705]

wow seriously amazing video thank u so much for this video its people that put up videos like this that bring the world together because no matter who u are we all go through love thumbs up if u agree

[@isbammoi3358]

I know a couple of couples whose spark never died. It's as if every day is the day they fell in love x] and it's been a few decades!

[@colanciciura7930]

I just come to soulpancake to have all my questions answered

[@LucasBrugnaroBadur]

Is there a full version of the song at the end?

[@xoxo9702]

what's the name of the song that starts at 4:11?

[@AShotofJoyCurry-GainesvilleFL]

love it!

[@foobarbaz522]

loved it

[@monicachang3054]

Awesome! :)

[@whanaumcmanus4345]

yhh55

[@lionelbon8414]

Love is beautiful.

[@BradleyRubin]

"FOUR YEARS." Hahahahaha.

[@codyl3277]

Brad R numbers are hard

[@Nehemiah.The.Shepherd]

Love is more about commitment than it is about science.

[@Glowing_Sloth]

But don't work too hard or the or the other will leave you.

[@seegee1012]

love this videos. they're awesome!!! :D

[@Rockmantics100]

I miss you guys

[@shelbyg.6769]

THIS IS SO CUTE

[@marciapedersen1202]

Ótimo vídeo

[@dwikifr]

That would be interesting knowing julian's love life

[@fixitman1988]

The spark is when you first see a really cute puppy until it pees on you, tears up your shoes, barks day and night or shits on your rug......they stop being cute and demand more attention then your willing to give, spark gone............(no puppies were hurt in this post it's just an example)

[@greatpitbull]

Did link to the study didn't work for me

[@Jen18lol]

I agree to all this from being in a two 1/2 year relationship.

[@lightning45]

Where is the link to the article?

[@grandmasterdeafchild]

So there isnt one piece of footage where the couples disagreed? Nothing edited? It would be interesting to take the cameras out of the eqaution. just doesnt seem an accurate sample.

[@citrussnacc]

Agreed :) Science means including data that doesn't exactly support your theory :P

[@CitizenOfNeverland]

Aloysius Carswell True but this was also something they were just doing for fun. Especially because they've all been together for a long time, they likely know how to communicate well with one another and may not get into a disagreement over something just silly and fun.

[@grandmasterdeafchild]

***** Word.

[@mwittmayer]

The study link is not working.

[@marblelegends-mastersofmar5033]

32+ years and still with my Beloved Dixie Lee!

[@Voicesampd]

I have a question? How? How do you work at/in the relationship after the honeymoon phase????

[@Bloquita5]

yes!

[@Bobomeetworld]

that Julian guy is pretty cute!

[@MrMathy16]

I really liked P3, P1 was cool too

[@LoveTheMoments1]

Wish my parents could see this maybe then they'd stay together

[@ranmaster27]

0:35 For a second, I thought I was in queue. O.O

[@TheInternalMan]

How do they know if there is any improvement if the couple were not evaluated beforehand? There is no data to compare the results too. I agree with the results but this is far from proving anything.

[@TheKeeceedee]

Aaawww so cute. :)

[@fakthar6]

Julian looks like Jojen Reed from GOT.

[@aalisonskye1]

:D relevant, but idk how to apply it to a relationship.

[@Outermainstream]

Relationships aren't work! When it stops being fun and interesting, it's over. Plain and simple. Trying new experiments and experiencing new sides to a relationship is fun and interesting. Work in a relationship is having to drain yourself emotion, and physically to keep it together.