South Korea Conservative Dating Culture

[@iwantabiscuitplz]

That explains why K-dramas make it a HUGE moment when the leading characters hug or hold hands 😂

[@lene_kuchisabishii]

Well it’s fictional when I read the comments.. 😂😂 but well it’s just like Hollywood, Disney.. people want to believe, not reality 🤭

[@jaydoesweirdthings305]

That makes more sense now

[@menumlor9432]

I never thought of that. 😂

[@kostas6612]

It's red panty night 😂

[@marktheshark7588]

Because that's first base for them😂

[@Eatlovetravelsis]

That’s why they r so quick to be in a relationship 😂😂😂

[@SossCarti]

this the comment LUL

[@cathdan]

Lol. The hookup culture in Korea nightclub is crazy though. So in this sense they are in a relationship for a night. And break up the next day.

[@Eatlovetravelsis]

@@cathdan 😳😳😳🤣🤣🤣

[@Oioi-qx9uy]

@@cathdan It's the same in every country, and each person thinks differently😶‍🌫️ There are many cases where they meet lightly in the home appliance world club. But i’m not . There are people like me who just go dancing 💃🏻💃🏻🕺🏽🕺🏽

[@yunkee95]

modern problem,modern solution

[@sarak.8859]

can we please appreciate how understanding and respectful the interviewer is? so wonderful to see!

[@Seetiyan]

Is that so rare? More often I've seen the person being interviewed be an a-hole. But maybe we're seeing different things. 😆

[@robertvandeveer1846]

He was trying to figure out how "traditional" she is...

[@vincentkenswiel9747]

Respect di man

[@rashb3994]

​@@SeetiyanIt's that the interviewer isn't baiting her while pretending to be respectful, he's actually respectful. A lot of interviewers put on the act then ask a out of line question so if the person gets agitated, they can say yeah but I was respectful, don't blame me.

[@rafaelodossantos4210]

Anh zai le donneur de lecons

[@_kwpn]

This interviewer is so calm respectful fine gorgeous and understanding

[@marte1376]

For real!!!

[@filipe_paixao]

1) meet at club at beginning of night 2) enter relationship, have fun, end relationship 3) continue the night

[@sineadiloveyou]

Yeah no. I wait like 6 months (since starting dating).

[@filipe_paixao]

@@sineadiloveyou refering to the usual "loophole" in Korea

[@sineadiloveyou]

@@filipe_paixao ok but how would you know they do that?

[@Thunderscreamer]

@@sineadiloveyou I think they laid it out pretty well! Become BF/GF real fast, do BF/GF activities, then break up real fast

[@aeroAdvocate]

@@sineadiloveyou You're not Korean; you're not relevant in this context. This is how it typically goes.

[@athapa01]

I m just looking at her clothes, simple yet stylish!

[@lissandrafreljord7913]

She's dress like its 2005.

[@caramelgirl6962]

also makeup

[@ryabow]

I was thinking the same thing. having a belt but not using it as a belt seems odd, though. but i'm a white guy, the hell do i know?

[@sakuraisp6974]

That’s not simple

[@willa9880]

​@@lissandrafreljord7913She still looks great so ur point is ??

[@RyonMugen]

Bro your outfit is AMAZING! I love the pants, the belt, the tucked in shirt, Sleeves rolled up. You look GREAT!

[@MayDavid-jv4ik]

the shirt isnt tucked in and the sleeves arent rolled up..

[@maurice4046]

​@@MayDavid-jv4ik They are tho???

[@TheBlobik]

@@MayDavid-jv4ik His shirt seems to be tucked in and the sleeves arent exactly "rolled" up, but they are up

[@marte1376]

And he's in great shape as well. Looks like a dancer body

[@aiduka642]

The glaze is crazy

[@kayaroots5386]

Який неймовірний випуск та чудовий приклад для наслідування. Мрію, аби Україна стала такою ж безбар'єрною❤ Мішель класна, у Олександра топова футболка. Хороший тандем вийшов)

[@icemuckbanggg]

I can translate what she said: "One night stands are frowned upon. Koreans do it anyway. For those who don't want to feel shame they become boyfriend and girlfriend first. However I'm not going to talk about how common it is to become boyfriend and girlfriend after 2 or 3 dates because i don't want to say anything distasteful on camera. "

[@r0conscious]

Right? Thanks, I feel like she's either fooling herself or just out of touch with society, it's 2024, a city like Seoul is such a modern place. I lived in Tokyo before and live in Beijing now, I met locals like her before who really believe everyone is so traditional still, but in reality so many are having one night stands and casual sex, and sooooo many are cheating, it's crazy

[@samgyeopsal569]

@@r0consciousone night stands are much less common in China, Korea and Japan, compared to France and USA

[@r0conscious]

@@samgyeopsal569 in the bigger modern cities (Tokyo, Seoul, Beijing, Shanghai) you'd be surprised though

[@Jhhhhyhhnjgy]

@@samgyeopsal569however cheating is more prevalence and socially acceptable for example in a country like Japan

[@kajeki]

You are spot on!! I think publically it's one thing; in an interview she better give this answer... But in private??? Oh it's another story. When I visited Korea many times, I was a bit surprised to find that casual sex was kind of normal, because of public fakery like this and the facade of sexual prudishness presented by Korean media. When no one's looking, Seoul is a very wild place. Don't be fooled by this interview at all.

[@doujinflip]

The “boyfriend/girlfriend” label (and likewise breaking up too) gets declared quickly and almost casually though, because they’re fooling themselves into believing they’re in something serious when they’re still just feeling each other out.

[@ajrt_2118]

And this is why this way really isn’t any better. It’s like American conservative Christian’s getting married at 20 so they can say they never had sex before marriage but wonder why they are divorced at 30…

[@kant.68]

I agree, but some people just click very quick and just want to be with someone

[@user-ry6jj6kx2s]

Yes! They call each other bf/gf super quickly so they can feel okay about what they are doing together, say they love each other super quickly without understanding what that means, then break up super fast without learning patience and communication skills within a relationship. Then repeat.

[@user-og2wt3le4j]

There is something similar in Japan. Couples come out as an official couple and then get serious.

[@richie6799]

the bf/gf title is not marriage. you are supposed to enter the title when you become exclusive to test out whether or not youll be suited for marriage. there is no difference between exclusively dating and being bf/gf. the arrogance in thinking the western way is more efficient when the divorce rates are nearly 14 times higher in the US.

[@NeithDollhouse]

Traditionally you shouldn't be having sex until you're married

[@nicesterhill]

Nonsense

[@giggitygiggitygiggity]

@@nicesterhill "traditionally"

[@larpy]

Facts! That’s why so many unwanted babies because sex before marriage. Ppl should stick to sex after marriage like Back in the past

[@u2beuser714]

​@@nicesterhill Its statistically proven that if people wait till marriage the relationship lasts longer and healthier on avarage

[@jeroenvermunt3372]

@@u2beuser714 seems like a classic example of survivorship bias

[@jackiemcmenamin9806]

Natural beauty at its finest.

[@griffinina]

The traditional way is no sex before married, girl 😅😅😅 That's the society modern standard you mentioned there.

[@mooonslight]

As i was about to comment too hahahaha 😂

[@doujinflip]

Traditionally girls married and began families in their teens too, so there’s that.

[@henriquealejandro7247]

Uhh no it's not

[@serenahuhfashion]

‘traditional’ could be different how long you travel back, I meant for my parents generation but you are totally right, before my grandparents generation which probably is about 100 years ago, they see each other on their marriage date for the first time haha

[@lio-o97]

​@@doujinflipmy grandma was mom at 18 which is way more ideal than 14-16 and nowadays we live very long means you should be at least 18 or up to start a family, take responsibility before becoming a parent, most teenagers are very immature and grow slowly these days compared back then

[@edwigeguerin894]

Relationships have a better shot at success when people get to know each other emotionnally before getting to know each other physically. However it depends on how much you know yourself and your worth for things to be healthy.

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

You’re smart! Many people don’t know that because they lack knowledge which result in lack of awareness. The more you know about someone, the more predictable they are, which means the success rate of the relationship would be higher if both partners knew enough about each other so they would know what to do keep the relationship healthy and what to expect from each other. It’s refreshing to see people with common sense like you 🤓

[@rorykim974]

It can be known better in a relationship. It doesn't necessarily require.

[@coffeetae]

Thing is a lot of korean relationships end up being short term and stay surface level. The lines of when a relationship begins and what defines the start are so blurry there. You can be in the talking stage with a person and they would unknowingly consider it dating.

[@darkangel7248]

Yes , and this is so in balkan and eastern europe 😊

[@registeredjopper]

Not really? Pretty sure this is very dependent on who you are and not a universal truth at all.

[@ManfrediniPS]

That should be a worldwide tradition.

[@emersonmcwhinney9802]

💀💀💀 no thanks

[@RK-cj4oc]

​@@emersonmcwhinney9802Fatherless ahh behavior.

[@marcelyrocha2105]

“are you open mind?” always got me 😂

[@danieldemicco4769]

In Korea you have 'One Nights' and relationships and not much between.

[@applesidertea]

It’s the ‘in between’ that gets folks into trouble.

[@over9000lord]

What can fit 'in between' here?

[@Bobsbobss]

Thats pretty much everwhere

[@typorad]

Friends with benefits, basically ​@@over9000lord

[@kimchi4712]

Correct

[@FancyBarnacles]

she's so pretty and stylish!!!

[@theglobalwarming6081]

Agreed

[@Bill-mq7wr]

Go outside

[@brianticas7671]

I just had a date with a Korean girl here in LA ca USA. Very beautiful educated women. Very well mannered.

[@spaceinbetween6591]

the wind was ruining her bangs at the end. too relatable

[@nicojourney]

I heard that people get together as a couple just to do it and then breakup...so there's that too.

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

This ain’t the West, especially America. Just because you heard something, doesn’t make it true. You have to be shown empirical evidence for it to be true. South Korea value social harmony, family, romantic relationships, relationships etc. that’s why you don’t see them running around in the streets acting like wild animals the way most westerners do.

[@doujinflip]

Probably explains why they count their relationship length down to days 📆

[@xejelah]

sounds like a Muslim marriage - it just takes one word and you're divorced

[@hey_you.]

​@@xejelah Fr😂

[@aijaylee5680]

Yeah, and so no one is really that interested in marriage when you can get these many times back

[@bunnygene1338]

Still having intimacy before marriage is not that conservative 😂 conservative is when you are abstinence to intimacy before marriage.

[@ChimChimChums]

People are wildin' up and still calling themselves conservatives😂

[@emanueldelacruz1101]

For western standards it is traditional. Westerners have 23x the same day they meet

[@TheStepmonkey]

​@@emanueldelacruz1101 True, they act like bunnies

[@freyaegrey]

In Christianity yes. Not in all religions or cultures.

[@kant.68]

Not in 2024, in 2024 is being committed and low body count and dating for marriage

[@mitchreviews5291]

This is how I conduct an interview 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@ohromantics]

This is amazing trivia. Like, not "the game" of trivia, its just good to know. Thank you!

[@ObeidGharib]

This is not a cult as you have described it, this is called STANDARDS. 🙌🏾

[@jasondavidnow]

1st get to know yourself , gifts, values, strengths, mission vision purpose, weaknesses, your wounds and begin to heal and control yourself. 2nd date someone who has done the same. 3. Talk about what you want to give and receive and the purpose for dating. 4. if youre on the same page for longevity…then date, then kiss. (If you can control yourself). Then get married then get really creative as much as possible for the rest of your life and stay spiritually, emotionally, psychologically and physically healthy so you can do so! 😂

[@acalman]

DAMN!! My man DRESSED UP!! Cornrows DONE and KILLING that outfit!!

[@AlliIsNotaGirlkisser]

I love their outfits! Both of them are really stylish :]

[@chacmool2581]

I've toured South Korea by bicycle several times, and the Love Motel is ubiquitous. On weekends, it is not uncommon in regular hotels to see young couples checking in to spend the weekend together. I can't imagine that there is no fucking involved.

[@unabashed]

Because they're "boyfriend and girlfriend" so it's seen as tolerable.

[@xOmniCloudx]

​@@unabashedNo, I personally know a lot of people going there for one night stands.

[@hitmusicworldwide]

​@@xOmniCloudxit's been like that for over 50 years

[@xOmniCloudx]

@hitmusicworldwide I know. It was among the poorest countries in the world, so people from developed countries exploited it for hookups and other things like they always do in that dynamic.

[@michaellim4165]

Hookup culture is a dirty western mindset that is slowly invading the pure South Korean culture.

[@if3522]

Ok so I am confused. Korean people usually state their intentions after 3-5 dates and start becoming boyfriend and girlfriend. Three to five dates and give up the goodies is not that conservative.

[@Squidmoto3]

Compared to the west it definitely is. 3-5 dates before even kissing would literally never fly in the US unless you're a teenager. They would just think you're not interested. So if your "stated intention" is to be with someone, at that point I don't see what waiting does - especially because marriage is basically becoming a thing of the past, so no one is waiting for that anymore unless you're like some brainwashed alt-right evangelical christian.

[@lexieliu5339]

I knew I wasn’t the only one thinking the same thing. Lol

[@edwigeguerin894]

😂😂. For real ? 3 to 5 dates only ? I thought they meant months of dating ( with many many dates). It explains so much. Thank you

[@believensee8621]

It doesn't mean you give up the goods the minute you become a couple. It means you don't give up goods BEFORE a commitment. Western women take note.

[@Prinzyxox]

@@believensee8621Just the women? Does that not apply to Western men also?

[@joebagodonuts4039]

Excellent to hear some societies still have a modicum of decency!!! Bravo!!!

[@craigfelter]

Maybe things have changed, but when I was in college, in the realm of Asian girls, Korean girls were the easiest to get in the sack. Chinese girls were in the middle, and Japanese girls were damn near impossible. Maybe being an international student loosens them up some.

[@flemming2662]

Girl has never been to Hongdae, Itaewon or Gangnam on a Friday night 😂

[@serenahuhfashion]

It was a great interview🎉🎉 ❤❤ thank you Jerry!!!

[@justme5876]

Can we be friends?!😭😭😭😭

[@serenahuhfashion]

@@justme5876 ❤️❤️❤️

[@yasmimlins94]

Nice interview, and with the hallyu growing everyday, knowing about culture it's important.

[@hunterkingxx1809]

The thumbnail for this is so funny. Because it plays a bit of the video where the subtitles as she is speaking say “it is traditionally not common too” then it cuts back the still thumbnail with the subtitles of “have sex”. Which I found very funny.

[@SombatSuksom]

depends on the Money in your bank. 😂😂😂😂

[@VikramjitSingh-vu8bj]

101 % true 😂

[@alexdecasi]

Indeed 😂. It goes without saying 😅

[@Hubbyhappymeals]

This is very similar and common in MANY countries in Asia (coz im not so sure in some countries) not only in Korea.

[@mystictraveler8642]

Yes.

[@laurendavis4584]

And just worldwide. It's down to personal preference.

[@supriyathapa682]

In my country, sex is shunned before marriage and we as a young generation also have same priority. Sex and intimacy is sacred to us.

[@zaharar]

YESS I’m so glad your back I love your music and this is amazing

[@kiwikorean]

It's definitely not conservative with young people anymore. That's why there are so many love motels.

[@rorykim974]

No. It's still not much different for the young generation in korea.

[@aliyab4911]

The a big reason for all the love hotels is that many young adults still live at home with family, not only that but the walls don’t do much soundproofing

[@oishyzaman5513]

Sir love motels are mostly used by married people and cheating in relationships not for young people only

[@jiminswriter4209]

For some young people, not most.

[@kiwikorean]

@jiminswriter4209 no one said most

[@gccbytmfrd]

She’s so pretty 🥹 I wanna know who she is

[@yrunaked4]

Stalker mode activated 😂

[@osundefosa]

She's average looking to me.

[@serenahuhfashion]

❤😍thank you for the compliment!

[@proteanalias]

Yo that top is fire! I love the clasps.

[@agarosoul7338]

That's traditional for most cultures. It's just some cultures have leaned away from tradition

[@whitekiki]

Now physical intimacy with a relationship becomes traditional and conservative? 😅 oh god what kind of era we are live in 😢

[@laurakubickova8777]

It’s not conservative, it’s respectful. It need to be like this in whole world.

[@keisuke880806]

Couldn't agree more!

[@Eurocoo]

My craziest experiences hooking up were in Korea, its just as modern as anywhere else bro

[@Kyle-wu7lf]

self-respect, wouldn't you say?

[@Dee_65]

YES!

[@BCA-kj9yx]

I'm Korean and I totally agree with your opinion. It's disrespectful to have sex with many other women(men) before marriage

[@seoulful1997]

Yeah my tinder experience visiting SK this year says otherwise lmao

[@JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht]

Brian im soooo glad we met and cant wait til we get to hang out bro.

[@streetpsyche]

How paradigm shifts with changing times and cultural shock 🤔. Not only in Korea, it used to be the same here in my country Nigeria 🇳🇬.. but this is gradually changing now

[@mbabaziangellah481]

In my country if a girl would get pregnant before marriage/ cohabiting,her brother would take her to the waterfall and push her or to an island and tie her on a tree for wild animals to enjoy but these days, almost every young girl is a single mother. Civilization has destroyed almost everyone 😢

[@Ama._775]

@@mbabaziangellah481what country is that because I never heard this in Ghana 🇬🇭

[@mbabaziangellah481]

@@Ama._775 Western part of Uganda ( Banyankole and Bakiga tribes)

[@NgoziB]

I am also from Nigeria, gradually is under statement

[@KaTheMagician]

@@mbabaziangellah481this is sick wtf 😅

[@justsayroe5907]

Listen, this has nothing to do with the interview, but this man is GORGEOUS my goodness 👀 every interview I see, he looks polished and his hair is so beautifully done. 🔥😊 what is his IG lol

[@BluePinkLove]

😂 i be thinking the same

[@tinytailsandme]

His accent also 🥰

[@CammieKN]

Same!

[@buyungadil1]

African accent ​

[@Damonistique]

Thanks to this video and the comments, I have finally understood how it works for the people with plenty of partners whom they don't know 😅

[@blobdestroyer1792]

Really cool information. I’d love to know about North Korean dating next 😁👍

[@alterrrrrrr]

Impossible

[@Bantuarise]

Good luck🤞🏿with that😅😂

[@user-Griezman]

한국인들은 북한에 대해 전혀 관심이 없습니다 같은 민족이지만 교류를 하지 않습니다

[@Kai04834]

When she said that that’s changing slowly, my heart started pounding, like wtf!? that should be the normal standard for everywhere in the world, having sex without being anything to the other person is just sick

[@kajeki]

Sick??...

[@Kai04834]

@@kajeki yes

[@invu57936]

it's not sick, it's natural. and it's perfectly fine as long as it's safe and consensual

[@Kai04834]

@@invu57936 I disagree

[@darkskieshoseokx8239]

If this actually makes you uncomfortable and sick, then you need to evaluate why you care about other peoples lives so much. Especially others on the whole other side of the world

[@Kushal6831]

Korean couple culture

[@vinnythep4216]

Bro thought he was fly with that respectful looking shirt 😂

[@Jollez]

Nice to see some classy interviewers and interviewees

[@user-jm2wr1bg4t]

Not only korea. Its also have in sri lanka 🇱🇰 it's true. But its depend on some decisions 😅

[@minervaloves]

These two are so good looking and I love their sense of fashion too.

[@mcarter48]

She’s so pretty😍 love her style!

[@joshgarcia7148]

Amen. I hope they keep some semblance of values.

[@blackpearl6189]

I love your style!🔥

[@stanleysegal7159]

His style is a slimy pick up ploy

[@sonofsarek]

God forbid getting to know someone before engaging in an act that can create a child. Think people.

[@scarletaviaru]

Yes, I believe people have a right to do as they wish with their bodies but for fuck sake, wrap it up first gentlemen

[@maryam-dj2kw]

And then breaking up with them after doing the deed lmao

[@CocoCalipsa]

dude her english is so good

[@jbstepchild]

I like that simple lowers the expectation an makes for better couples getting to know a persons values

[@lady_sherl6067]

That explains why some Korean men will say you are boyfriend and girlfriend after the first date and claim they are in love with you.

[@lazyscorpion3889]

Just to sleep with you and then ghost you many girls fall for that. You need to know how fake theyre to be safe

[@Brigadier07]

It's not traditional if you don't get married first. Unless they are trying to change tradition. A delusional change

[@lpst4405]

Tbh that feels better to me. I’ve tried twice to go out only “for the fun of it” but it did not feel good 😅

[@6and771]

Her English is so good!!!👍👍👍💯💯💯🙌🙌🙌

[@serenahuhfashion]

❤❤thank you!!!

[@nightswatch9007]

That is good! It keeps good morals and values in check. Best for society.

[@HARUKANAKAMURA18]

This interviewer is soo fine 😳

[@megamilyon6111]

Gross.

[@HARUKANAKAMURA18]

@@megamilyon6111 You

[@sugryn]

i'm not afraid of women, guys. i guess i'm just korean

[@mercyiremide7166]

I do enjoy ur interview ❤

[@luckywinner4936]

It’s a great tradition Korea should keep!

[@xprrj]

Yep, that's why they start dating so fast and also break up so fast 😅 Yes, there are definitely many conservative, traditional people, but it's quite similar to what it is back home. In my personal experience, korean people think we, westerners are much more sexually liberated than they are but truth be told, the only different thing is how sex is portrayed in the media and how society reacts to it. However, you will commonly find people having one night stands, affairs, fetishes, they just don't talk much about it.

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

Stop the cap. Westerners mindset or philosophy is very different from South Korea. I’m from the West, my best friend is Korean so I know a lot. South Korea hate violence and problematic people, that’s why they take their image and reputation seriously. They hate guns, drugs, prostitution etc. they value social harmony. In the West, it’s narcissism everywhere lmao.

[@KarizmaJohnson-qr2lp]

How is getting know someone before you give your energy out to them physically a bad thing, this generation only thinks about sex.

[@jiminswriter4209]

It is not as common in Korea to have one night stands or alternative lifestyles. There is a harsh stigma against premarital pregnancy. People are expected to get married if that happens.

[@auristelafiona18]

here, things are getting wild

[@minacruzel6387]

This is true! I’ve also heard from Korean friends tho that Koreans get into relationships SUPER fast! I think it’s called the 3 date rule or something

[@pontosinterligados]

Saying for the camera within using an avatar mask is tough!

[@veevv]

how many exes has anyone have had by the age of 30 then 😂

[@auristelafiona18]

not exes, but body count

[@olisix]

Hook up culture in Korea is wild even for western understanding. The whole bf and gf thing is also something else. Don't get fooled, many people call each other bf and gf from the first date easily. Is she living in some different K-Drama Korea perhaps 😂

[@Oioi-qx9uy]

We usually have time to get to know each other before the first date 😂

[@sabath.a.gurung7476]

I thought she was gonna say- before marriage 😂❤

[@serenahuhfashion]

😅😅 that is too long ago haha

[@Hosigie]

I really like that. It's very similar in Eastern Europe.

[@SRBOMBONICA86]

Eastern Europe is much more conservative,having sex is extremely a big deal at least in Serbia ,we are also very monogamous,long relationship almost everyone has them

[@Hosigie]

@@SRBOMBONICA86 yeah, I'm Croatian. It's the same. I've been with my first boyfriend for 7 years. We don't really do one night stands.

[@Sakeus]

I think I need to move more East ... Here in Czechia I think it took longer here, but now? Its like in the west. Navigating current dating market is a nightmare. Unless you got your partner 10yrs ago you are out of luck. People having rosters, situationships, friends with benefits. Wonder why STD cases are on the rise... I am not religious... But still, where have the morals and self respect gone? Nobody thinking about long term relationships nowadays and when they hit 30-35 they are just starting to get serious, but they cant because they already shot their brains and cant stop going after the next new thing.

[@anastasiap1856]

Yes, and they also become "boyfriend and girlfriend" after 3 days of knowing eachother lmao. When I used to study in Korea 90% of the Korean girls I've met got into "relashionships" like a week after meeting the guys.

[@teefrankenstein4340]

I hope they keep these standards because they help build a solid foundation for a good relationship.

[@sirenasfun]

Idk maybe I was confused but I thought that was how it usually works? lol I know that like, one night stands and stuff exist but like, I don't really think of that being the "norm".

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

Everywhere you walk in South Korea, you’re either going to see a couple hugging, holding hands or being romantic. Koreans take family, romantic relationships, friendships or relationships in general very seriously. They value social harmony, it’s part of their culture. My best friend is Korean and the time I spend with her almost a year ago in South Korea, was the best experience in my life. Koreans do know how to make you feel special, because they genuinely value relationships. They’re professionals at what they do. Get yourself a Korean friend or partner, get interested in the culture and your life will blossom 🇰🇷❤️

[@Jimmy.Sun-Sq]

Darling you sure leaving in fantasy😂 Keep going🎉

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

@@Jimmy.Sun-Sq objective truth is absolute, that’s why you can’t prove me wrong 😂

[@coffeetae]

That’s interesting because I had the opposite experience with a lot of Koreans during my time living there. The ones I found that truly valued relationships were gyopos or those just highly exposed to foreign cultures.

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

@@coffeetae your perception of people or things in general shapes your reality. If you’re not aware of that, then you’re already setting yourself up for failure. The reason why my Korean friend and I are best friends is simply because, there’s no reason for us to not be 😂 Don’t understand what I mean? It means that there are reasons for us to be best friends, therefore we are. We are compatible, we know each other very well, so we both have become predictable, which builds trust and comfort. Because we are compatible, bonding and communication comes natural. And because we know each other very well, the trust is there. So we have no choice but to be best friends because we both wanted to. Actions and decisions are determined by “reason” which is inevitable. I will note that - you are attracted to what you are, in other words, you are subconsciously attracted to someone or something that is a reflection of your personality or you. So if you’ve had bad experiences, then you need to become more aware of your personality, self awareness, and figure out who’s at fault.

[@coffeetae]

@@dripxenseixensei3822 It’s great that you and your best friend have a good relationship. I also had great korean friendships. I was simply stating that in general, I (and other foreigners that I have heard of) have noticed the culture difference in relationships. It’s a deep rooted issue in korean culture that I wouldn’t be able to begin getting into. I certainly never encountered the same issue with my friendships back home, so I would not consider myself the direct problem but rather the cultural difference in values. Consider yourself lucky if you never had a single bad experience.

[@chrisraines1564]

Really have to say. The "hunting" scene and soju and beer places say otherwise.

[@kidgyro]

The belt ignoring the loops is getting me

[@daddybdpearson1]

I guess it depends on where they live. It was definitely different near Army bases.

[@andromeda1903]

i like the more wholesome korean culture

[@KyleRuggles]

Ditto!

[@doujinflip]

It’s what they say they value anyway. Reality is a lot more anxious and disappointing especially in hypercompetitive modern Korea.

[@masonliebe1044]

It ain’t that wholesome 😂 they’re people bro. And yes I’ve lived there

[@lazyscorpion3889]

Its a lie

[@KyleRuggles]

@@lazyscorpion3889 You're a lie.

[@vendomanic]

Ain't that a normal thing ? Guess i'm traditional too then...

[@MingyuScoupsDKHoshi]

It's not common in most countries. Most people just hook up without feelings attached. There are friends with benefits too.

[@vendomanic]

@@MingyuScoupsDKHoshi yeah... Well, maybe my soul was born in 1950 🤣

[@maryam-dj2kw]

@@vendomanichow is that traditiona? They break up after doing the deed lmao

[@buckykatt6680]

I've experienced similar in dating traditional Latin American women. I've been told it's important to formally ask to be boyfriend and girlfriend.

[@itspania]

I think it’s better to get to know someone before doing anything and to see if they really want to be your partner or if they’re saying they do just to get what they want

[@echosmoon5605]

Well them girls were definitely practicing American Traditions whilst I was there 😂

[@MissCoco2109]

Traditional = no sex before married

[@richardadams4928]

Well, I hope I can get my Korean vacation destination ticket refunded....😂

[@malcolmi]

Don't change!!! You right, we are wrong!

[@abrarasef9931]

it's changing slowly.... oh boy that's not a good thing

[@user-se5ll6ib5t]

'One night relationship' in club is not general in korea.. cause most people in the clubs regarded as not that good person

[@NidgeDFX]

The girfwen gave her away. I was like she ain't even from there. Her English pronouncing is amazing!

[@carloss3139]

There's a common expression of today's Korean youth which is 선섹후사 (first sxx and dating later). It depends on your impression and character ❤

[@veevv]

in my country is like that :/ there's even women in situationships with men for +6 months or even years w/o him wanting to be in a relationship... it's like some men would do anything to not to commit but still have all the benefits of a relationship

[@ricardokojin7]

@@veevv Tbf... should a man really commit right away to a woman who doesn't require commitment? Unless you are the first guy she ever dated... most likely she also didn't require commitment from some other dudes. Most women in situationships are not "victims".... they have like 20 guys who would love to be official and even marry her... but that's not the kind of guy she really wants.

[@khaen-tw9yw]

Bruh that’s toxic

[@randalanau]

아주 소수의 사람들만 해당 되겠죠ㅋㅋ 요즘 여자들은 한국남자들을 안좋아하잖아요. 서로 조심하는 시대임

[@Rebekah_Renders]

I swear these videos are making me think I’m Korean lol. We have so many of the same values/mindsets.

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

Me too. If you love the Korean culture, then why not consider moving to South Korea someday. I plan to 🇰🇷❤️

[@Rebekah_Renders]

@@dripxenseixensei3822 my husband is against it lol

[@veevv]

girl...

[@CS-wn2sz]

This should honestly be how it is

[@KyleRuggles]

I dig the Korean way!

[@nicolemena8445]

Yes, the things is that normally after 4 dates day decide the status of the relationship so... after 3 o 4 dates we can do everything?? 😅

[@dripxenseixensei3822]

@@nicolemena8445what are you taking about? 😂

[@jiminswriter4209]

@@nicolemena8445Don’t stereotype Koreans. Not everyone is like that.

[@KyleRuggles]

@@nicolemena8445 I say it's nice to have a few ground rules. For me sex is a sort of a bond, I don't give it up at any time, and we should work for it, ya know? But maybe I'm a bit old school. Lol