What's The Sex Culture Like in South Korea?

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[@Aminthekingson]

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[@Aminthekingson]

@@KExplorerAsian women do not like black men, go cry about it Dumbazz kid lol

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@Raphanne]

If two consenting adults want to engage in ONS, it's their prérogative but personally I think it's a bad idea. I´m a woman, so there is always the risk of pregnancy. And even if you wear a condom, it can still break and it doesn't protect you against all STDs. Some can be contracted by having infected skin rubbing against your skin. I also agree with the girl who said that she needs a connection. A ONS would do nothing for me but bring me stress. I need someone I can trust in the context of a committed relationship, otherwise I won´t be able to have any kind of pleasure. Sorry for the TMI but, if I need a quick fix, no stranger will do a better job than my hand. And finally, ONS are inherently dangerous in my opinion because it's a total gamble. You don´t know anything about the other person. They could have an STD, they could be violent, they could have hidden cameras etc. I know people are going to say that those things can happen in relationships as well, but at least you have a better chance to vet the other by waiting a bit more to know them.

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@tubby_1278]

ONS are more dangerous for women than for men

[@kimson305]

You do realize people cheat right? Being in a relationship won't guarantee you won't get a std. You can live with a person for years and not know the real them. Life is a risk regardless

[@no.6377]

Most women apparently don't even orgasm from a ONS. So if there's no emotional connection and there's such a low chance of reaching the peak physical pleasure, I have to wonder what the point even is. Is hook up culture in some countries just about doing it to say you did it?

[@no.6377]

@@kimson305 She addressed that in the last point. Yes, life is a risk. That doesn't justify being reckless. That's like saying, all life is a risk so I shouldn't bother to wear seatbelts, eat healthy, look both ways when crossing a street, etc. Being selective about who you have sex with is a precaution.

[@whispersmusic6173]

His facial reactions are always so funny 💀

[@Johntheking78]

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[@cool7654321]

I agree he's very much an active listener which I'm sure feel good to the person talking.

[@doug2731]

Yeah, it looks ridiculous. Completely unnecessary.

[@odenoki9571]

​@@doug2731i personally think he can very demeaning with the facial expressions. Especially when talking to white people but hey ho - im here for the people being interviewed and not him

[@BobbsVegine-eg3xz]

​@@doug2731ok go make random videos speaking to total strangers and post it online. Let's see your reaction to random strangers answers and stories.

[@abeck0856]

Love your content... I am absolutely amazed how you located open-minded individuals to speak on this topic. Of course, I don't know how many said no comments. Hats off to you.. .again

[@KExplorer]

Koreans are pretty open to chat nowadays

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@Aminthekingson]

@@KExplorerAsian women do not like black men, go cry about it Dumbazz kid lol

[@HairySnack0101]

I’m glad porn is restricted. Intimacy should be valued as its natural intention accompanied by love and affection. Porn destroys the mind and turns that intimacy to LUST rather than love and reproductivity.

[@Rxxhtjoo]

but we have a vpn

[@Condiciones2023]

As a parent I would like to encourage other parents to have honest discussions about sex with their kids. It’s ridiculous that in 2023 parents still have a complex about this issue when practically everyone on this planet has sex. It is better for your kids to be informed.

[@rsecherry]

My parents are extremely conservative and even so they educated me sexually, but now it amazes me how other conservative parents do not educate their children in that aspect

[@yellowbeez93]

What makes you think just because parents don't talk everything about sex, with their kids, means they are having dishonest discussions?

[@Rin-kj8vl]

I personally don’t feel the need to talk about that with my parents so I don’t feel sad or not complete as a person if I never had honest discussions with them concerning sex, I’m good :)

[@mkleng]

As a parent, how best do you think we should approach this? Examples?

[@rasthehead]

Conservativity shouldn't produce ignorance. There's a difference.@@rsecherry

[@wanderb0y]

You have a way of always knowing precisely what questions we want asked. Great job!

[@Mrs.KeiBang]

I always enjoy your interviews so much! You really listen to them and don’t judge their responses!

[@cobbs]

I'm an American guy originally from the Midwest. We only had one hour of sex ed in middle school, and it was separated by gender. The teacher who taught us spent half the time just telling us about his sex life with his wife, like how they have anal sex in the morning 🤣🤣🤣 It was crazy

[@londonfleurina2388]

Whaaaat??? 😮

[@Ban00]

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[@wetdrawls]

@@g2000g buddy trying to get his kid enrolled ASAP! 😂

[@danielkim7841]

@cobbs Iol you laughing with contempt at your sex ed teacher when they were trying hard to teach and you were making fun of him behind his back... lol.

[@cobbs]

@@danielkim7841 Nah, he was a sick pervert and he deserves my contempt.

[@hhhnfryhgf9560]

*hindsight* One night stands are fucking stupid for a number of reasons 😭. STD’s, you dont know if that person has a partner at home, you dont know if your friend or relative has done something with that person before(sex, had a fight, dated, etc…),don’t know that person hygiene habits, condoms kinda suck, criminal history of that person, sex is probably one of the few activities where if you’re bad at it or have a small pecker people make fun of you for it and actually socially demote you(you’re not about to get socially demoted for being bad at basketball), STD’s can spread to kids so if you’re a parent doing stuff like that with strangers; you’re putting them in danger, As a man you don’t know this woman’s beliefs about abortion so if anything goes wrong you may be responsible for a kid in the future(and even if she does say she doesn’t want kids in that moments; she could be lying or her opinion can change on a drop of a dime), Women, having a one night stands opens up the door to make that decision as well

[@hhhnfryhgf9560]

Ive been through a lot (except for the small pecker thing). People not going to tell you publicly when they fcked up or got in a bad situation; it’s easy to say all this supportive and open minded shit until it actually has consequences. A LOT of women(of all financial/educational backgrounds) do not like condoms, People travel and cheat all the time, lots of dudes get with women just to make fun of them later. So much more stuff

[@mmcquay73]

Sounds like you had a bad experience lol. If you have a one nighter always best practice to use safe sex (condoms) I know they are not 100% but they are pretty damn near close so the STD part I don't agree. I am not a fan of one nighter's but don't think its stupid or a bad idea. If both Adults have a connection and something happens that is what life is all about. So I can't really judge anyone for doing it.

[@hhhnfryhgf9560]

@@mmcquay73 Saying “that’s what life is all about” is irresponsible imo. Again, it’s one of those things that sounds good to say when you have no stake in someone else’s life. I’ve never had an STD but i’ve had 2 std scares and I have friends with permanent STD’s. Also again you dont know if this person has a partner at home. Its easy to say “it’s their responsibility wether or not if they wanna cheat” but thats just not right imo. Ive had “good” experiences so my advice isn’t coming from a place of resentment, more so i’ve seen a lot and i actually started to look things more broadly.

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@Aminthekingson]

@@hhhnfryhgf9560Asian women do not like black men, go cry about it lol

[@missmochiicecream]

Knowledge is power. Understanding our bodies and the situations we can put ourselves in is important; teaching children what is and isn't okay is important; establishing healthy boundaries is important; de-stigmatizing the shame that might come with these topics is also important. All of these things are a part of sex education and should be fundamentally taught.

[@abdullahjama8404]

potenial*

[@yellowbeez93]

Yes knowledge is power, but you don't abuse that power by teaching the wrong things to be acceptable.

[@lornegreen6755]

@@yellowbeez93nahhh that’s not for you to decide tho. That’s up for that person to decide what’s appropriate for them

[@yellowbeez93]

@@lornegreen6755 I didnt say I was going to "decide". Just because you disagree with someone doing a particular action doesn't mean you're actually deciding what they can or can't do. You're confusing between the action of deciding and criticizing. But I would hope, if you're an adult, would have already known that by now.

[@Rtuber]

Power is power.

[@racheldesireefelix]

5:21 keeping it real fo sho 😂 (and I absolutely love it 🔥). There’s so much truth to what’s she’s mentioned. Also, so happy to see this is a sponsored vid, I watched all of it just to support you - as you’re touching on lots of enlightening topics, which are always beneficial for the world!❤️

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[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@Aminthekingson]

@@KExplorerAsian women do not like black men, go cry about it Dumbazz kid lol

[@dshyon]

It's not being uneducated, it's called being conservative. Nothing wrong with not being promiscuous.

[@ryanahmadzod5991]

​​​@@dshyonTotally. She's calling them uneducated, yet she herself doesn't know what she's saying. Nothing bad about "seeing sex as a reproductive thing" and restricting porn. Not everyone is a fan of porn as she seems be.

[@pinkypilot]

Great topic. I was actually surprised at some of the girls' responses. It's such a juxtaposition to the conservative Korean culture.

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@Queenofeverything357]

Korea is not nearly as conservative as people seem to think it is.

[@tabby3378]

​@@Queenofeverything357right. there are "love" hotels everywhere lol

[@episode6691]

it's not really a juxtaposition at all, if it was the other way around it wouldn't fit the conservative culture. This is just you looking at it from a western standpoint which is uneducated to how the rest of the world works.

[@_CL]

@@tabby3378 honestly this makes sense because most of them live with their parents until they marry, while a lot of families in the U.S for example want their children out of the house once they're 18 lol

[@nerdthatknits]

Our health class in high school was pretty involved in sex education. We had a director come from Planned Parenthood and talk about diseases and prevention. It was shocking how much we learned about it. A lot of my friends from other places didn’t get the same education we received. Our health teacher also showed her birth video in class. She was boss! After that I was on two forms of birth control. 😮

[@mytravls]

Did they talk about the side effects of the birth controls?

[@_CL]

@@mytravls I don't think it's talked about often, that's why I hate people talking so casually about "make sure you're on birth control" or "just take plan B"... both of those things are not good for the body. While birth control can help some women (reduce cramps for example) and it definitely should still be available, it is not a general rule and the long term effects are not even fully studied (most studies done are fairly recent)

[@thepunisher2988]

Hahahahah what a joke. Being on birth control isn't the same as responsible sexual behaviour, but modern sex education certainly teaches youths as if it is. Being on birth control and using condom are a responsible behaviour when seeking to avoid unwanted pregnancy and to reduce the spread of diseases, but responsible sexual behaviour is a different matter. But they never teach you that, because they assume that you can make decisions for yourself and that you will accept the consequences like responsible adults, but take look at the state of society right now. All the women who took advantage of what they were taught to be 'responsible sexual behaviour' are slowly having to face the social consequence of being unable to form/maintain a stable pair bond as a side effect of messing around in their youths. And what are they doing to deal with the consequences? They blame and belittle men and society and demand that they are entitled to the right men etc, and they take their anger out in the most inappropriate ways and cause all kinds of problems in society. I'm getting weary of all this nonsense, and if you keep shilling for Planned Parenthood after what has been discovered about them, you are part of the problem. I hope you spend the rest of your life alone reflecting on your poor choices, and if you ever get married, I'm 100% certain that you will get divorced, and you would have deserved it.

[@vanessamarie8632]

@@_CL Birth control is not exclusively the hormonal pill. Birth control includes diaphragms, condoms, sponges, cervical caps, IUDs, abstinence so saying you should be on birth control does not automatically mean exclusively a pill, shot, or patch of hormones.

[@_CL]

@@vanessamarie8632 most people refer to the pill when saying that though, but yes it includes other things which can also have side effects like IUDs. Nobody says, "make sure you're on birth control" and refer to abstinence.

[@soloman747]

You can learn a lot from this man about having a conversation and listening.

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[@vcwloves9864]

ONS's don't have to be crappy sex, as long as the other person takes direction well and you feel comfortable verbalizing what feels good and what doesn't. If you choose to do this, consider the following: 1) Exchange contact info (phone#, social media, etc.) Just in case...it doesn't mean that you have to contact them. 2) Make sure you know or trust someone that knows that person 3) Always use protection--for a female, always be on birth control and don't just rely on condoms 4) Go to a neutral location, not his/her home. 5) females, go to the restroom to pee immediately after (helps to prevent sperm from traveling and allows your body to self-clean) 6) Shower if you can--if a condom breaks, you can wash him off. 7) Perhaps the most important one--make sure someone knows where you are--exact location. Plan to call to check-in for peace of mind. 8) For men, choose a place with people around--a busy hotel with security cameras in the hallways or lobby. Don't drag her, allow her to be captured willingly walking with you. 9) For men, always get verbal concent prior to engaging 10) For men, ask her if she's okay afterwards 11) Always stop if she asks 12) Make sure she's not drunk or "tipsy"-- in certain countries, this is considered rape 13) Always verify age if the partner looks young.

[@sevothtartesama18]

OK ladies pls don't take sex Ed from a YT comment. 1) showering will actually make sperm swim further in faster 2) peeing after sex should be done regardless of ONS or not, you need to flush out bacteria from your urethra to not get a UTI 3) If not using condom (I don't recommend) definitely shower cause sperm changes the PH of your vagina and you can get a fungal infection 4) correct, some STDs are transmitted also with condom, such as HPV which can get really serious (cancer if it's a bad strain). Get vaccinated if you can. 5) STDs can get transmitted through oral sex too though.

[@ns645]

I don't think washing will do much to protect from STDs if a condom breaks...

[@besassyxo]

this is not realistic advice though..no one doing a ONS is thinking about all of this. if you have this many rules, maybe dont do it at all

[@jalanmcrae]

Or we could just not hook up to avoid all these rules. I tried hook ups and they are so lame. The stress of worrying about stds or her getting pregnant isn’t worth it. Since I refuse to put my lips anywhere near her holes(mouth, anus, vagina) I doubt it would be a good experience for her either. I only do those things with women I date.

[@rig.veda200]

One night stands should be punished by 10 years in jail. Disgusting disrespect to one's body.

[@thepro3293]

It's so funny how korean culture in terms of s*x is called conservative in comparison to west and all the Korean people in this video agreed on this but when he asked about ons they all had no problem with it and think it's fine to do so. It's ironic how the only foreigner girl in this video refused the idea of ons and said I don't like it. What I want to point out is Korean culture is not conservative for sex they just don't talk about it in open because it's their culture that it's a taboo topic but west has accepted it better they say what they think and do . Just because you don't talk about it in open doesn't make you conservative you need to practice it to call it conservative.

[@analm6009]

He just asked few people. And from the place you can expect their opinions

[@user-mc5ch1rs4d]

That surprised me too, how cool they're about ONS and also said it happens around them a lot

[@user-mc5ch1rs4d]

@@lolroflkartoffel123 Thank you for the clarification

[@rizkiramadhan9266]

@@lolroflkartoffel123 did you even watch the video? This guy not only interviewed Koreans, but two of them even had a tattoo

[@timelyferry]

THEY SAY ONS IS OKAY BCOS THEY DONT DO IT. IT IS ABOUT BEING POLITICALLY CORRECT. IF YOU ASK ME I WILL SAY ITS OKAY TOO. I AM A VIRGIN.

[@jyotsnapadmanabhan9012]

Porn IS harmful. I don't understand why porn should be a source of sex education it's so weird. There are so many other resources everywhere for sex books as well as online resources. But to say banning porn is bad really just fools naive people into thinking you can't learn about healthy ways of having sex from anywhere else. There are so many people who have fought porn addiction and still advocate against it also the industry as such is so exploitative to both sexes.

[@user-mj9iy7df8w]

I don’t think sex being taboo is necessarily a bad thing tho

[@stonedrock6998]

is not, is the correct way.

[@SunnySage122]

Honestly, I think it’s the parents’ responsibility to teach their child about sex. If you decide to have a child, you’re the one responsible for developing a dialogue with them about sex. Did you not have sex to create the child in the first place? Teachers have enough to deal with already. Why is sex ed the responsibility of the schools? Sex ed in schools is often taught in a very sterile, one-sided way anyway. They never talk about masturbation or orgasms. And fear tactics are often used too. Thankfully my mom already educated me about sex before I entered middle school and was pretty open about answering questions I had.

[@mai567]

Maybe your parents aren't educated on the subject. You'd be surprised how many married people who have children still don't know soooo much about the subject. As much as I agree parents should educate their children on this subject as well, why not school too?

[@rsecherry]

Exactly, My parents are extremely conservative and even so they educated me sexually, but now it amazes me how other conservative parents do not educate their children in that aspect

[@chiwashere]

some people come from conservative families that see sex as a “sin” so won’t openly talk about it

[@rsecherry]

@@chiwashere That is a true extreme, and false the truth, my family is conservative Christian and we talk about sex normally, also in our church, sex is something beautiful and sacred, that's how Christians see it, if someone says otherwise and calls himself a Christian, he is not.

[@yellowbeez93]

"They never talk about masturbation and orgasms because it doesn't benefit them in raising their families duh. Why would you teach students about porn? Do YOU need 4 years in school learning about those filthy things?

[@relaxcalmly1742]

I feel like one night stands are dishonoring to your own body and morals but I might be an outlier. Scientifically, the body does keep the scores - connects to you physically as well.

[@nathanolson3135]

Actually no , it’s the other way around , It temporary measure to Honor your body while keeping your moral intact.

[@relaxcalmly1742]

@@nathanolson3135 I didn’t really understand what you meant but we can agree to disagree.

[@Imxel21]

Source?

[@relaxcalmly1742]

@@Imxel21 Sorry i don’t have specific sources for it. I’ve had counseling and therapy in regards to relationship issues and learned from some of them who’ve passed down their studies and knowledge to me. I’ve read random scientific studies and it is really multifaceted and a complex topic. I know some will still have their arguments and disagreements. Even if i list down sources, not everyone will say they’re reliable or agree. If anyone in general is genuinely curious or interested, I’d rather they do their own research. I don’t want to debate with anyone.

[@MyLife-og2kr]

You're not an outlier. You're old-traditioned.

[@tubby_1278]

It's good that a lot of Koreans don't really do the one night stand thing. At least be in a committed relationship if you wanna do something strange. Also I didn't learn bout sex from my parents or friends..I learned about it in school. Was taught bout the reproductive aspect, STIs, and safe sex.

[@yanna1625]

There are lots of love motels in Korea 😂

[@tubby_1278]

@@yanna1625 Love motels are for couples who don't want to do it at home, as a lot of young Koreans still live with their parents.

[@tubby_1278]

@@TabeaSerenety I thought Korean women weren't easy lol

[@andreacole9658]

Things are changing where Koreans don’t mind having sex before relationship. Or there’s some people that only get in relationships just to have sex because it’s “safer” when they have a label.💀

[@_CL]

well, I watched another video by a Korean woman saying around 50% of Korean men have paid for prostitution, so I'm not too sure about the "committed" part

[@thepeanuttt]

Im here in Seoul and the men here treat me all so nice the complete oposite of my home country (Germany) everyone came up with sexual things if you know them for only a few hours thats so annoying and I couldnt experience that in Korea so I feel very comfortable here because Im not that kind of person who likes to talk about sexual things so much and specially not with people who I just met. So Korea is a comfort zone for me ♡

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian girls do not like black men

[@jowinstead]

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[@Aminthekingson]

@@jowinstead Asian women do not like black men, go cry about it Dumbazz kid lol

[@Aminthekingson]

@@jowinstead you mad cause Asian women do not like black men, go cry about it Dumbazz kid lol

[@Aminthekingson]

@@jowinstead yeah don’t respond, you know I’m right Dumbazz kid lol

[@manaralobaidi3444]

Korea has changed. A few years ago a video was done like this and koreans didnt even want to show their faces and now here they are talking with faces shown and openly too. Thats so good.

[@aaronnilestoussaint5672]

Can he do a wardrobe video because this man is dripping every single video

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@mimo5853]

What is the divorce rate in Korea? How many babies are born out of wedlock? How many pregnant teens in high schools? How many single parent homes? How many Korean women have multiple kids by multiple fathers? How many Korean women don’t even know who the father of their child is? How many Korean men have multiple kids with multiple baby mamas? Honestly, Korea is MUCH better in ALL of these categories. Please doesn’t descend into the the disgusting debauchery much of the west has fallen in to with porn addictions, sex addictions, sex meaning nothing more than a transactional exchange with no love or feelings involved, high body counts, high one night stands, high abortions, high single parent homes, high numbers of kids growing up without fathers in the home, girls thinking guys only value them for their body and the sex they’ll give up etc. Seriously Korea…..you don’t want these problems. Edit: missing word

[@jo22k]

Like someone said there, I also get the impression that men there watch porn and think that is what they should recreate. It seems like there is not much conversation with their partner about what feels good for them because of how conservative the country still seems. And to be honest this was the case in the west too before more conversation started flowing and women particularly spoke about it more. It can also still be the case for many young people that don't know about sex well yet or are just bad at it. I'm just all for both sides researching and educating themselves how to properly please their partner, and of course having conversation about it with them.

[@_CL]

I think porn created a lot of problems and expectations that show in the West as much as in the East

[@yassinbennasser2994]

@@_CL South Korea is not even close to being as affected by porn as the U.S and the west is, that also goes for most of the East (except Japan, we all know that). In the west, soft porn is thrown around casually in a TV show or Netflix series that you'd think you'd be able to watch with your family or partner, only to have disturbing sexual scenes thrown at you without warning.

[@rfrancoi]

Keep up the great work young man. We support you.

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@user-fu4zz4ns9x]

한국의 성문화는 성을 죄악시하고 금기시했던 유교 사상이 강해서 보수적인 성문화가 엄청나게 강했던 옛날에 비해서는 진짜 엄청나게 바뀐 것은 사실임. 하지만 아직도 한국의 보수적 성문화는 전 세계적으로도 순위권 안에 올라갈 정도로 성문화가 엄청나게 금기시되고 보수적인 것도 사실임. 원래 전 세계적으로도 가장 성 문화가 개방적인 지역들은 라틴 아메리카, 유럽, 남태평양 국가들, 호주, 뉴질랜드, 태국임. 그리고 정 반대로 전 세계적으로 가장 성 문화가 보수적인 지역이 바로 동북아시아와 중앙아시아, 중동 아랍 지역임. 그리고 그 동북아시아나 중앙아시아, 중동 아랍 지역 국가들 중에서도 보수적인 성문화가 가장 강한 국가가 한국, 북한, 중국, 몽골, 아프가니스탄, 이란인데 이 국가들의 공통점은 유교, 불교계 국가들이거나 이슬람교 국가들이라는 것. 한국의 보수적인 성문화는 아직도 세계 5위권 안에 들 정도로 보수적인게 강한게 맞음.

[@horangi113]

Interesting interview! And appreciate how respectful and receptive the vibe is in sharing their personal thoughts around what I think is still a pretty touchy topic in S Korea.

[@RelaxingSleepMusic-qf2lp]

The sex culture in South Korea is a fascinating topic that sheds light on societal dynamics.

[@nskfsr]

I didn't focus what they were talking about cause I already guessed they'll say "conservative" and it's like that all over Asia. BUT I focused on you. You're so handsome and have great fashion sense I think I'd date you without thinking twice.

[@anglegarbiba3859]

Is porn banned all across Korea? If so then I see that as a good thing because in America the unrestricted access has led to many unrealistic expectations and addictions

[@demri123]

Yea, it is

[@nononoo356]

It's forbidden, but they see everything. Why do you think Korea has a lot of hidden cameras

[@johnpark7972]

Yes it is but most people can still access it. Illegal sites and VPN

[@lesleymbuyikayembe7553]

Preach 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@margotmargot4426]

and a lot of impotency

[@CoachAhava-0000]

Sex is natural, personal, and if consensual, safe, and sane, can be nourishing, connecting, and good for the health. Everyone has their own sense of morality and integrity. Use informed consent, be honest and respectful. That's how you make the situation win-win. We make our choices for complex and multifaceted reasons. Judging someone for making different choices you would ignores their agency. Here, I'd like to see more self respect from people and see fewer superficial relationships.

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@cooliipie]

That's your opinion. Not many people are so open

[@thepunisher2988]

The consequences of individual actions are never completely isolated to the individual, and they have cumulative effect on society over time. There is a reason why societies develop values and ideals in order to shape individual behaviour, and individuals will be judged by wider society based on the ideals and values the society upholds. This is normal, and there is nothing wrong with that. People who are afraid of being judged for their social behaviour are almost always the kind that goes against the society's ideals and values out of self-interest, much the same way criminals are afraid of being judged in a court of law. If you think irresponsible social behaviour cannot harm others, you are either ignorant or stupid or both. Declining marriage and birth rate in South Korea is a result of the cumulative effect of various irresponsible social behaviours, and those who make it worse should be judged for their irresponsible behaviour. I do NOT respect anyone's agency when they act in ways to harm and devalue society.

[@CoachAhava-0000]

@@thepunisher2988 That makes me consider how much lack of empathy, greed, and power/control has hurt society for centuries +. The prejudice alone had hurt where we could be as a people so much.

[@thepunisher2988]

​@@CoachAhava-0000 There is nothing wrong with being prejudicial against those who don't uphold the values and ideals that a society is built upon, Sure, everyone has their own sense of morality, but that doesn't mean they all serve the long term interest of society. As a matter of fact, most people do nothing but pursue primitive self-indulgence, and self-justification for such behaviour isn't the same as sense of morality. Don't underestimate your capacity to unwittingly harm others and the wider society through your self-righteous complacency. Those who pursue short term self-interest based on pseudo-moralistic self-righteousness at the cost of long term interest of society do not deserve any empathy, and unless they are controlled in ways to limit their harm to themselves and others, their cumulative harm to society will eventually become an existential threat to society. Take a look at South Korea right now, and if you say everyone should respect each other's choices, well, that isn't much different to saying South Korea should accept its decline. Don't kid yourself, not everyone's sense of morality deserve to be respected, especially when it serves to damage the long term interest of the population.

[@Ewang2727]

It’s always some black dude who think he’s so much cooler than Korean men trying to hit on Korean women it’s so cringe then they accuse us of racism

[@user-kv6cy7ve5k]

솔직히 말하면 한국이 보수적이라고 하는데 그걸 다른나라가 개방적이라고해서 맞출필요는 없다고 생각합니다. 그들이 기준인게 아니니깐요!

[@user-wq4du7kp3p]

전혀 맞추고있지 않은거같은데요;; 인터뷰 보니까 원나잇 낫뱃이라고 하고 있는데 흘러가고 있는데로 사는듯 ㅅㅂ 그냥 존잘 존예면 그냥 바로 원나잇이지 맞자나 ㅅㅂ

[@user-kv6cy7ve5k]

@@user-wq4du7kp3p 제말은 원나잇 낫벳 자체가 우리나라 정서랑 먼 외국갬성인데 굳이 원나잇낫벳에 우리가 맞출 필요가 있냐는거죠

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@ILIVEAGOODLIFE]

​@@user-kv6cy7ve5kgirl stop lying lol.

[@Johntheking78]

@@ILIVEAGOODLIFEAsian women do not like black men

[@shaynasLyfe]

i loved hearing the different dynamics of each person

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@user-mc5ch1rs4d]

They say the country is very conservative but the people in this video are all in favor of one night stands and they say it happens a lot around them That surprised me

[@tessw9744]

@6:12 I'd say that's the same in the west. Sex is for reproduction, but in societies now, it's promoted as something casual that feels good. And as a result, we have to deal with STD's and abortions......and men who have been trained by porn videos to view women as objects. How is the Korean sex culture? Koreans :Very conservative! How is the one night stand culture? Koreans : A LOT! They sound confused! 😂😂😂

[@user-yy5pb1dx4g]

The reason Korea's sexual culture is conservative is because the influence of "Confucianism" is so strong. Confucianism is an ideology that argues that in order for a country to have strong military or economic power, high technology, each citizen must be enlightened. Enlightenment refers to strong social norms that each citizen must adhere to. Among these social norms are those that emphasize purity and wholesomeness. Korea is a society where it has been extremely forbidden for women to wear clothes that show their skin since ancient times. In other words, simply put, Confucianism is an ideology that emphasizes viewing sex as a sin. This is because Confucianism teaches that if sex is not considered a sin and is freed, the people will become corrupted, and if the people become corrupted, the discipline of the country will be shaken and a civil war may soon break out in the country. During the Joseon Dynasty, Korea's old medieval feudal state, male supremacy was strong. During the Joseon Dynasty, dating between married men and women was prohibited, married men and women had separate rooms, and women were required to wear an Islamic hijab-like clothing called "Jang-ot" in Korean. And in Korea, where Joseon's Confucianism was inherited, couples are prohibited from kissing on the streets. And there is a social atmosphere where tattoos and piercings are almost prohibited. Still, its influence has diminished significantly compared to the past. But remnants of Confucianism's influence still remain. In the old days, Korea and its medieval feudalistic country, the "Joseon" era, were much more sexually conservative than the Middle Eastern Arabs, Iranians, British Puritans, and medieval Europe. Many young Korean generations dislike these conservative sexual cultures and still want to get rid of these conservative sexual cultures, but Korea's conservative sexual culture is still not going away. In addition, Korea is a very sexually conservative society where viewing pornography, prostitution, and homosexuality are all prohibited.

[@camelio10]

This makes no sense. They say they are Sexually conservative, but all the Korean girls said there's a lot of ONS???

[@Ashleigh_Absurd]

I love watxhing these videos and understanding more of what Koreans feel about Korean culture

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@Elina--]

Im so happy that i found your channel! Very interesting videos and i love how they are produced

[@Easy_korean24.7]

안녕하세요 여러분 if you love Korea so let's study with me welcome guys🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷🇰🇷

[@davida6146]

What a waste of time... of course this type of person would ask about sex when visiting another country.

[@yeetthebeet]

any videos where people discuss and just share their opinions on random topics is cool

[@Eric-Kang]

확실히 외국인들은 원나잇에 대해 안 좋게 생각하는 자기주장을 확실하게 하는데 한국인들은 외국인들의 정서에 대한 오해로 인해 일단 뭐든 다 허용해야 본인이 좀 개방적으로 보일 거 같다는 생각에 뭐든 다 허용 가능하다고 말하는 느낌이네

[@johnpark7972]

ㅇㅈ 성교육과 성문화가 더 개방적인 편이긴 한데 원나잇 안하는 외국인 여전히 많음 한국인들이 모든 외국인 특히 서양을 일반화해서 그럼

[@---hb8dk]

개방적으로 보일거 같아서 저렇게 말한다니 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 착각도 유분수다 그렇게치면 외국인이 한국 정서 인식해서 부정적으로 말했다는것도 말이 되는데 ?

[@user-yy5pb1dx4g]

외국인들은 원나잇이든 뭐든 많이 해봤으니까 좋은지 안좋은지 아는데 한국인들은 애초에 성이 워낙 보수적이다보니 그런걸 해본 적이 없다보니 무조건 다 개방하면 좋은줄알고 그러는 경향이 강함.

[@dany888d]

I would love to also hear your own opinion ❤ you are an awesome interviewer, I hope you share more about yourself in the future😊

[@Jenncysworld]

The girl is so right. There are 2 types of almost extremes in Korea. 1 are the guys who only have one night stands and fwb exclusively (especially with foreigners) or 2 the guys who think intimacy is only for 2 people in a relationship. There isn't thaaaat much in between in Korea. I feel like in Western cultures it's more mixed and just live freely, take it as it is. While in Korea you're either 1 or 2.

[@자막캐리]

That's not true. Born and raised in SK here. There are plenty in between. It's just socially frowned upon to say: i've had sex with this person and that. We don't do that. There's a word "씹선비" which basically means super f**king conservative person. A lot of Koreans are 씹선비. They care about their outlooks and social reputation, and how they're treated and perceived. You can't be seen as sluts, period. It matters to them. If you're in college and horny af it's a different story tho. I don't think early 20's are fully grown adults. They just graduated from high school. You're horny and you're looking for sex. ONS FWB who cares. We're all dumb in college. Bad decisions are made everyday. Bottom line, after college, as you grow up, majority of people won't publicly open up and discuss their sex life with others. They barely do even when you're very close friends with them. But do they have casual sex? Yes they do. They just won't open up and talk about it like Westerners do. 1 u described are just fuckbois. They're all over the world. And not just the guys. Girls get horny too. 2 u described are those who understands loyalty. And scared of getting STD.

[@thepunisher2988]

If you got a problem then don't come to Korea. South Korean society is having a serious problem with declining marriage and birthrate, and we don't need the degenerate Western culture to make it even worse. You think the 'just live freely, take it as is' culture has no side effects? Take a look at your society right now. In all fairness, I wouldn't want to raise my children in such cesspool of a culture, if you could even call it a culture that is. Yes, in a healthy relationship, intimacy is only for 2 people, and anything beyond that is just a primitive pleasure seeking behaviour. What do you think sets humans apart from animals? Humans develop cultures to govern itself as part of building a more complex society. If different societies independently came up with the concept of monogamous relationship, it stands to reason that there is some value in it, if you see no value in it, then it is based on your own value judgement, which you must accept the consequences for. However, don't fool yourself that it is 'culture'. Western culture also used to value monogamous relationship between a MAN and a WOMAN, but that has been destroyed by people who seek to engage in degeneracy. So don't confuse culture with degeneracy. I'm sick of foreigners trying to normalize degeneracy and influence Asian societies to accept it.

[@user-nd3co5pm2u]

Very truuuuuuuu😂

[@yellowbeez93]

Is it correct to say that there are two extremes in a society, the people who are good and the people who are bad? Or is it also correct to say that there are two extremes in a society consisting of people who abide by the laws, and those who don't?

[@dshyon]

What would be in between? There is no in between anywhere. It's the same in Western culture. You either are more inclined to have fwb's and one night stands or be more conservative and have sex with a partner exclusively. You either have casual sex or you don't.

[@natinatyoutube]

Interviewer, I love how you express and carry yourself. It's just beautiful to see.

[@keepwondering_]

The girl with the ralph lauren cap is so damn hot but her voice is like😵‍💫😵‍💫

[@Astrollyth]

I think it's always a 50/50 chance a one night stand might be good, it's such a gamble in my opinion lmao, I agree with the lady that said that they might be crappy because you don't know how the other persons body works at 9:30.

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@Blaze72sH]

50/50 chance based on your experience?

[@SangyulShin]

I'm Korean and my parents are very conservative. I've never had conversations about sex with my parents. However, I'm not gonna be conservative to my children.

[@isletoflangerhans8281]

Walking around, asking women what the sex culture is like around here. Amazing what you can do with a camera and a microphone.

[@Meow3431]

thanks for this video, it was very interesting to watch. usually people make only videos about dating and nothing straight forward like sex culture.

[@1111111111202]

6:00 i disagree as a canadian. sexualized culture destroys societies. healthy relationship with shame is intelligence and displays morality. so being taboo is a good thing.

[@femmefatale6550]

Shame is only another form of control and oppression by group with power over another. It is a way to enforce that power dynamic thru brainwashing and lowering the self-esteem of the group you want to control. Usually men and/or that society seeking control over women and girls.

[@yoyoyo7083]

As a Korean, I agree with you too. This video was surprising for me and hard to watch. I am pretty sure not all the young people in Korea think like this. Like the girl in white said, for Koreans, even openly, casually, and jokingly talking about sex can be seen as being crazy and out of norm. The video can be misleading if one wants to overgeneralize it to Korea. I'm sure there were quite a no. of people that might have even avoided the interview. I am just saying that not all people are like the people in the interview.

[@mignonnesilva4306]

​@@yoyoyo7083she's not African American. She had a clear accent that wasn't American.

[@yoyoyo7083]

​@@femmefatale6550Shame over bad things is something you are born with. It's called Conscience. It's a God-given heart.

[@yoyoyo7083]

​@@mignonnesilva4306Okay, I fixed it.

[@cesars267]

These Korean girls with their black straight long hair are the most gorgeous thing on Earth

[@cooliipie]

Looks like a witch

[@f0gGenx]

Like the girl from the grudge😆

[@prachigautam3913]

Korean local people also dress like idols

[@Riyasingh-ir1ek]

Outfit of the interviewer🤌

[@Aminthekingson]

asian women do not like black men

[@jax7715]

Looking very trendy smart!!! 👍👍

[@FrankyIzmalakm]

Bro askin the REAL questions! Man of the ppl! Protect Him At ALL Costs!

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@paulamartin3001]

I know iam going to sound like old school but sex before marriage is a sin and even so perniciousness ,sex is a private matter and should be kept private and sacred within marriage as god intended.

[@Dante02d12]

It's not old-school. It's stupid.

[@annenisa6555]

Honestly, this is so educative and I’m genuinely learning from this, since i come from a highly conservative family, and even whilst I was at school, they never really touched on the subject as it’s seen as “taboo”

[@johnkeen37]

Korea is the most feminist country in the Asia

[@edialves3756]

Cheers from Brazil

[@jimhim585]

Korea is actually doing pretty fine in terms of sex education. Even if the depth of education is poor, the population seems pretty smart enough to figure it out en masse. WHy? If you look at the data, Korea has low rates of teenage pregnancy and STD proliferation. Although, I'm not sure what the numbers are for the gay community. The best thing Korea can do is offer OTC birth control available to everyone. I know condom use is very normalized and the default in Korea. Conservative vakues are core to Korea's identity and that is not a bad thing. People are people, and people desire sex, but I hope Korea does not become more accepting of promiscuity, especially in the age of social media, where that type of behavior is not only accepted but also celebrated. Yeah, people don't realize the hidden mental toll (the physical risks are obvious). The psychological studies are pretty clear, even if you think it is no big deal, especially when you are young and experimenting, sex without intimacy and with multiple partners increases your risk of depression and not being able to form healthy, long-term relationships. Social media would have you believe that promiscuity is acceptable behavior but high "body count", like above 5 before marriage, increases the risk of divorce - the stats are clear. The best thing to do to form a healthy relationship with sex is to seek real relationships, develop friendship and intimacy as a precursor to sex, and try to keep partners to a minimum before marriage. You can buck the data but at your own risk, the numbers don't lie, so what are the odds that you are the exception?

[@rsecherry]

My parents are extremely conservative and even so they educated me sexually, but now it amazes me how other conservative parents do not educate their children in that aspect. But I don't think, you are not closed minded just because you have your limits.

[@Halo3ninja28]

That's because not teaching them about sex has nothing to do with conservatism. It has to do with laziness or neglect of your children which most parents are guilty of. Sex is never something ignored in religion. It's just that there is a time and a place for it. Even Muslims who are probably the most conservative people on the planet are free to engage in as much sex as they desire - so long as they're married. It goes as far as deeming sex with your married partner a good deed for which God himself will reward you. There's no reason to not teach your child how to do it properly, unless you know you're such a screw up parent that you fear they will immediately take your knowledge and run to the nearest place they can have random sex, and do just that.

[@c.j.5332]

Thanks for your great content bro!

[@dennisheijnen6922]

I just got NordVPN last week, otherwise I would have used your code, nevertheless i'm very happy for you that you have a deal with such a big sponsor! Been watching your vids since you've had 5 vids posted so I love to see the journey you've made! Hoping i will end up in one of your vids when i vist in a few months🙌

[@KExplorer]

i would be more than happy to have you on board 😊

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@Aminthekingson]

@@KExplorerAsian women do not like black men, go cry about it Dumbazz kid lol

[@dennisheijnen6922]

​@@KExplorer❤

[@moosedogg]

Bro, I need a fashion video from you one day. I need to learn how to dress like you.

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@davidmun1601]

My man, you are putting my Korean to shame. How are you speaking Korean better than me? 😛Keep up the great content!

[@cnwil4594]

My father told me when I hit puberty, "You can get a female pregnant, so be careful." That resignated in my head until I was 26, kept my ass straight - LoL

[@carlosnvlr]

Your style, eloquence, and fluency in what I consider a difficult language (Asian languages imo) wow! 💯 And you’re a Black man! Treading on those negative stereotypes 👏🏾💪🏾🔥🔥🙌🏾 Kuddos to you and your work!

[@ajtam05]

One night stands? Check. Hongdae & Gangnam? Check. LOL

[@scoops82]

Dude, your fits in the videos are top notch, every time, without fail 👌

[@mariaa5887]

Wow that dude's look and fashion is top notch. Doesnt matter if he is black. He is breathtaking.

[@pear-zq1uj]

"Doesnt matter if he's black" What is that supposed to mean?

[@melanie...11]

Great topic as usual

[@Aminthekingson]

Asian women do not like black men

[@skyybanni6667]

i like they way he talks like a siri 😄 very eloquent lol

[@Johntheking78]

Asian women do not like black men

[@hey_you.]

LoL

[@van.f1087]

Jerry another great vid. Interesting that no one mentioned the Anmas, Sexy 노래방 and Kiss방 men (not all) go to. That’s a HUUUUUUGE part of Koreas sexual culture that wasn’t mentioned by anyone here.

[@jiminswriter4209]

How do you know?

[@user-cnksi223]

True but places of that kind exist in every country. In Europe, it is even legal.

[@van.f1087]

@@jiminswriter4209 I lived in Korea for five years.

[@van.f1087]

@@user-cnksi223 you’re right and in that case why not talk about it. I lived there five years. It’s VERRRY out there open and evident. It’s not hidden.

[@jiminswriter4209]

@@van.f1087 That is not always enough.

[@michelleshava1477]

As always, the algorithm promoted one of your vidros and I am now on #2

[@ozankabakyesheplayedcentreback]

we need more spicy questions like that last one!

[@lucasfilho9899]

My boy always dripped outta this freaking world. Might have to copy his entire wardrobe

[@drugmoney1369]

Going from asking them about their opinion on sex education to asking them what they sexually fantasize about was invasive and totally inappropriate. Saying "If you don't mind me asking..." doesn't make it ok.

[@keiththomas1723]

Who does your braids?? I just moved here and would like to find a good braided

[@TheLethalknife]

the girl who said she like being dominated also said she's the romantic type. lol

[@gong6078]

Theyre not uneducated, theyre educated but their conservative which is a good thing

[@jaronmartin5758]

Cool video K Explorer. Keep it up.

[@ChristineExplores]

Very interesting to hear the different opinions.

[@adayabush9412]

Woa here in Spain our sex ed, at least where i live, in Bcn is very very cool. We are thought about like sex in 6th grade for the first time, as an introduction and then completly at 9th grade, and so in this grade we have a whole schapter of sex ed to cover in biology. And not just in bio, we gradually have small talks and "talleres" where we learn quiet well, with professionals and health care workers such as nurses and uni students, about anything and everything, from prevention methods to diseases, a very very cool fact even tho i studied in a public high school. Deff, my best moments in life were in high school, adulthood is fucking boring

[@hey_you.]

Great 👍🏻

[@2o2k78]

I'm spanish and I didn't get any of that education at school, probably I'm quite older than you

[@ConstantinosSmith-rz9kj]

I think with a population of almost 52 million in south korea they have pretty much figured it out. Sex does not need a culture, it is private and self explanatory. Being taught about basic biology and and safety should be enough.

[@ConstantinosSmith-rz9kj]

@@g2000g Hi my friend I was born in the UK but I live in Cyprus and you? Nice to meet you😀

[@ConstantinosSmith-rz9kj]

@@g2000g In schools sex education is taught but its not mandatory as a subject in much detail.. its just a basic understanding of the reproductive system and ABC of the body not A to Z. The media is completely out of control over sexualizing everything...and its things like prostitution are very common..People over drink when they go out to mingle and sexual behaviour becomes rampant at a young age I don't want to say how young here but it's that bad. I think South Korea should be proud of its self compared to the rest of the world, but just is just my opinion. When things relax too much they get out of control. I think Koreans have better control over their children....and that is EXACTLY how it should be. Sex culture to me is kind of a daft thing, because I don't see sex as a recreational habit. Its a serious, spiritual and long term thing because your connecting with someone. Other wise it will get old fast and pretty much disgusting and a spreading of disease eventually. Who knows maybe I am just a prude.

[@trungkeeper4312]

Anyone is watching this that wants to watch some Korean contents but also this man's fashion sense ? He never stopped surprise me

[@taytlee565]

Great job! Great interviews!!

[@kimjung8]

Koreans tend to feel ashamed about contraception. Therefore, discussions about contraception in Korea often revolve around issues related to sexually transmitted diseases,unwanted pregnancies, and abortions.

[@FOXeye95]

mans drip is unmatched

[@PraiseEmmmanuel]

Bro your fashion is always on point

[@lianadotjpeg]

I just realized that your face looks like Michael Jackson's!!! When he made Beat It. 😆 Handsome!

[@yellowbeez93]

9:14 Many people consider smoking to not be strange but that doesn't negate the fact that it harms themselves and the people around them. If she wants to see herself and others like toilets, then she is entitled to her own opinion but she shouldn't delude herself into thinking that that is fine for human beings in general. Filth is still filth.

[@siddharthuzumaki]

time 9:40 Question, then how to get sex experience then if she/her can't make out with virgin or he never had sex before? I need answer for this?

[@vengance27]

His Korean is impressive. Good job. Imma need to impress up on Duolingo. Need me an asian girl asap.