I totally agree about the loneliest times being around tons of people and not craving human interaction. Fellow hermit here. And simultaneously the power of empathic connection 1:1 like you describe here with your older neighbor. Awesome. Our superpower that makes us empathic and caring makes being around people for long DRAINING. I love social distancing.
@Talesfromthefoxden4 жыл бұрын
I feel exactly the same. I pay so much attention to everything around me and listen to every single word people say when they are talking to me, that by the end of the day I am absolutely shattered x x
@kirstycat4 жыл бұрын
Love this comment, I feel the same way.
@lindsaybondie85313 жыл бұрын
Sameeee! ✌💓
@sabrinsaleh76384 жыл бұрын
Mary... we need more people like you in the world. You’re so sweet for doing that for your neighbor! Please be safe out there! ❤️
@MohaAsmr4 жыл бұрын
Mary, I am so sorry to hear you had a stalker. That sounds terrifying. One can never be too safe when putting themselves out there on the internet. I hope all is ok now.
@rylandtrenton59193 жыл бұрын
i guess im asking the wrong place but does someone know of a tool to get back into an Instagram account..? I somehow lost my login password. I would love any tips you can give me
@briarjames40383 жыл бұрын
@Ryland Trenton Instablaster ;)
@rylandtrenton59193 жыл бұрын
@Briar James Thanks for your reply. I found the site thru google and I'm in the hacking process now. Looks like it's gonna take quite some time so I will get back to you later with my results.
@rylandtrenton59193 жыл бұрын
@Briar James It did the trick and I actually got access to my account again. I am so happy! Thanks so much you saved my account!
@briarjames40383 жыл бұрын
@Ryland Trenton no problem :D
@adamgoglemusic66064 жыл бұрын
I feel obligated to make this suggestion because I’m afraid you aren’t aware of it. When you whisper, tap, or decide to ramble about your day, it is absolutely wonderful and perfect and you are such an amazing and generous person and please never change a thing. Lots of love from up in Michigan!
@Kiwi-dl3sr4 жыл бұрын
Michigan love ❤️
@wyattlabaw90284 жыл бұрын
How is this a suggestion? All you did was make a comment. I agree with the comment, but it's not a suggestion.
@adamgoglemusic66064 жыл бұрын
@@wyattlabaw9028 it's the suggestion to never change.
@carlyfrakes80314 жыл бұрын
This is a wonderful distraction. I'm a horribly anxious hypochondriac and your videos help so much! ❤️
@marief434 жыл бұрын
Carly I suffer from generalized anxiety disorder and depression and I'm not feeling good at all during this quarantine. I hope you're doing ok. You're not alone.
@carlyfrakes80314 жыл бұрын
@@marief43 Thanks hun! I hope you're doing good too!
@gillianhedley9081 Жыл бұрын
@@marief43 just wondering how your doing now I'm suffering from health anxiety at the moment and feel like there is no end x
@JohnD-oi1zz4 жыл бұрын
I could listen to you say "milk" all day. Thanks for being such a kind soul to your friend and shopping for her.
@rickprez80114 жыл бұрын
I love this videos where you only talk about your life and we know you a little bit better! I hope that you and your family are fine 😍♥️
@ahbrayyy4 жыл бұрын
I thrive on schedules and regularity! I’ve been laid off due to the virus and it’s been so hard to get motivated with no set schedule in place. I need to get on that!
@nadineeobrien4 жыл бұрын
Bless you Mary. There should be more people like you in the world. Such a simple act of kindness but I bet it means everything for Ms. Margaret. You've restored her faith in humanity. I hope everybody gets something from watching this video.
@kateelise884 жыл бұрын
I agree everyone here is on edge too, it's very tense. I live on the beach and we go walking there every day for our daily exercise and people are staring at me and my kids like we shouldn't be there, even though these people are there too (no we don't stop to play). It's horrible it makes me not want to leave the house but we need fresh air. Such a difficult situation for everyone. Stay safe Mary, your videos are helping us all x
@emmasmiles1114 жыл бұрын
Mary, I have been on youtube for 15 years, and have probably left comments on three videos in total, but I needed to let you know how much I am so deeply grateful for you and your channel. I moved out of Greensboro a year ago now and it has broken my heart. When I came across you just a few months ago, it felt like divine intervention. Thank you for being the southern company I've been missing ❤️
@l.a.mathews98444 жыл бұрын
Mary Iam a long time sub. And about 5 hrs. Ago I found out my mom passed away and I am so sad. But your voice is helping me in this moment. Thank you so much💙
@marief434 жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss.
@nadineeobrien4 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts ❤️
@WrenIsPhoenix4 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. I know what that loss is like. :(
@abbsterbean64 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry.
@PussnBoot25164 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. God bless you
@Olgadeni194 жыл бұрын
Bless your heart Mary! ♥️ you’re so sweet to get her prescription for her!
@1800kristi4 жыл бұрын
I'm a hermit too & I haven't gotten lonely either. I'm thriving 🤣
@sabrinat74144 жыл бұрын
"awake all night, sleeping all day" Ahh that's been me all week!
@kirstycat4 жыл бұрын
Mary, you put me to sleep every night with your videos. For over 3 years now, I can’t thank you enough for your dedication and passion. ❤️
@meganmarsch864 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being such a sweet soul, you help so many people just like you are doing with Ms. Margaret!
@parishermes98344 жыл бұрын
You are a wonderful person. It would be great to do a video on parenting especially when you had a baby. You are a high functioning person and it would be great to hear how you dealt with babies and doing all other things. P.S. Young father here :)
@sevenfifty-fiveasmr4444 жыл бұрын
I so get what you mean about aloneness which is not the same as being lonely. I also get my energy from my own space (+ the animals of course! ) Thanks for describing that so well and 👏🏼 for your kindness to your neighbour. The little acts of humanity are what count in these difficult days.
@imaginefaraway4 жыл бұрын
That elderly lady neighbour sounds like such a nice interesting person. Very kind of you to help her out with the groceries :) I hope they had her favourite food and she had a great day :)
@MW-sk8my4 жыл бұрын
Hey Mary! I live outside Houston, and nobody has been staying home here. I mean, traffic isn’t AS BAD as it usually is, but there’s still a ton of people going everywhere! I work at a grocery store, so I’m still going to work. Also, just found out Texas is lifting the stay at home order in a week, which I don’t agree with because our cases are climbing everyday. Love you Mary, stay safe 💜
@charlotte44884 жыл бұрын
I love this video! It's like chatting with a friend that you haven't seen for a while and who has been living the same things: staying home, work if you can, take care of your family, neighbours and elderly... It's so true that people are more aggressive, it's scary... Anyway, take care everyone! Lots of love from France 😘
@Olgadeni194 жыл бұрын
Hypothetically speaking if I make my channel into a hypothetical neighborhood gossip who would support me and my crazy neighbors 😂
@kmarie13314 жыл бұрын
Olga Denisovich i would!!! 100%
@XZAKLY994 жыл бұрын
I would stan
@koriandrr22334 жыл бұрын
We would Stan
@parkerburgio4 жыл бұрын
Olga Denisovich me!!
@Sweenece3 жыл бұрын
Hypothetically I'd say yes
@michm56554 жыл бұрын
These whispered random talk videos are my favorite! Thanks for providing us with all your content, especially during these times.
@linloub38424 жыл бұрын
Omg I am so with you Mary on the social distancing! I don't understand why people need to get so close in queues etc! Love this ramble, ty x
@TheLondonLass4 жыл бұрын
I am shocked people aren't staying home where you live. My city looks like a scene from a film as it is empty and silent. I am in the UK and our death rates aren't looking good so we are taking it seriously. It has been so wonderful seeing people pull together. So many volunteer groups have been set up and people are falling over each other to help each other.
@pontiac38gm4 жыл бұрын
Mary wow. You're such a good person. Taking the time out of your day to help someone. Last night I was trying to listen but your voice was so damn soothing it put me to sleep lol... we need more people like you in the world. Love your videos
@Ameby974 жыл бұрын
When you were talking about the mosquito and your son going in and out and said “he’s dead” I thought you were talking about your son for a second 😂
@anasofiaramirez81344 жыл бұрын
Hey Mary! If you change the settings in canvas you can get emails every time something is posted. I get a ton of emails but I’m notified right away :)
@alyssac.2094 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for checking on your elderly neighbor and taking care of her. My grandma and great aunt live an hour away and we can’t see them or check on them, but they’re blessed enough to have church members who are there for them. Your story made me miss them.
@SkullDirtChica4 ай бұрын
You’re my spirit animal when it comes to ppl and personal space.. yet having compassion for the “little guy”, and where we get our energy. Also so endearing to hear you talk about Miss Margaret. And I think after you talked about her, your accent got a wee bit thicker. ❤
@cathylee58404 жыл бұрын
You look very pretty Mary love when you talk about. Things you're the best 😴⭐🌾🌼
@inthetearoom4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend also has to use Canvas for his college courses. He hates it and agrees w you on how poorly structured it is.
@alliekat224 жыл бұрын
inthetearoom yea I use canvas for my college classes and I hate it I am all over the site to find my stuff to work on that day!
@jamcal3884 жыл бұрын
UT Austin uses Canvas... Texas A&M uses ecampus.... I’ve never had a problem using ecampus. Therefore, A&M>UT
@trainzguy24724 жыл бұрын
At my school we call it Can'tvas.
@darrazo58454 жыл бұрын
I use canvas and the calendar part shows what your assignments are for all classes for the day it makes my life easier
@Pick61244 жыл бұрын
Ugh I used canvas in college. I HATED it 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
@ceciliavitela28224 жыл бұрын
As a student that’s used canvas for 4 years I have some advice! Lots of teachers don’t properly structure the class so that’s why the to do list is incomplete. I suggest an app called Boost! It’s linked with canvas that sends alerts with weekly lists and daily reminders! It will check off assignments when they are turned in and give 24 hour notice before a due date
@gaildutton1953 жыл бұрын
I honestly think so many people have discovered another aspect to their personality through the pandemic. I do like people but much prefer my own company. I always find things to do and never get bored. My husband retired same time as pandemic and I never get any time in the house to myself anymore. I love ASMR but you have got the best most relaxing whisper ever! You are clearly a lovely kind person and very insightful. I am from Liverpool in UK and will continue to listen to your amazing videos. 👏
@luzrivera56634 жыл бұрын
I live in NJ and to my shock my fellow new jersians are taking the pandemic seriously. At least from where I’m at they are. Traffic is down and ppl are only going out for essential errands. We have to take this seriously because it’s pretty bad here, we do not have another option. Wishing you well Ms Mary! ❤️
@YourMom-di8zx4 жыл бұрын
Love your videos Mary! Hope quarantine is going alright for you!
@nataliefrench69944 жыл бұрын
I’m a pharmacy tech in south west of England and I have to say I have experienced the same thing people are either really nice bringing us chocolates and sweets etc or they’re really really aggressive and rude. Ive been called a C*** and told to F*** off shouted out told that cause I didn’t have hand sanitizer i would cause them to die!!! Literally one extreme to the other!! Thank you Mary I’ve been on the fence about hospital pharmacy cause I hate hate hate community and they say the same over here that it’s different entirely but well worth doing, I think that’s my next port of call when I can. I do so like hearing how things are on the otherside of the pond thanks for another relaxing video 🙂
@mooglen59484 жыл бұрын
Always love your whisper rambles and you posted at the perfect time, thanks Mary!!❤️
@andikitten4 жыл бұрын
One of my life goals is to find a job I actually like going to.
@AntoninaTX4 жыл бұрын
You know , Mary, you became like a KZbin-mom for me. I love to watch videos like this and I have the feeling I have a conversation with you. Thank you for that. I wish so so much I could just have a conversation with you to help me with some life-questions and gimme some tips (especially got that feeling after the "adulting" video). Because I really have no one in my life that is older than me that whom opinion I trust enough. Thank you for everything! -Antonia
@javagirl694 жыл бұрын
I don't get lonely either! INTROVERTS UNITE! At your own homes.
@rjvopat86324 жыл бұрын
Hey! I use canvas at my school and I have some tips that hopefully could help! First, if you check the calendar on the app, that will have al lot of the information about assignments and pretty much everything. Second, if you download the canvas app on your phone or any device, you can turn on notifications and you will be notified everytime a teacher edits their homepage, creates new assignments, sends private messages, etc. Just sign in with you kids information if you want, you can be signed into the canvas app on multiple devices.
@dottiewilson38584 жыл бұрын
I love this video Mary. You have a kind heart. When you said you were the most lonely was when you were around other people. Me too. Too much "peopling" sucks the energy out of me. I've always thought, "what's wrong with me?" NOTHING. It's a self protective mechanism. But it doesn't mean we don't care about people … I do 'hit and run helping' I connect and care - but I'm in and out if that makes sense. Be well!
@KindCreature14 жыл бұрын
Your voice was exceptionally soothing today. Thank you very kindly.
@Mike2wz4 жыл бұрын
Love your whisper videos, Mary. Listen to it most days whilst sitting in the sun. Your accent is to die for also, relaxing. Thank you x
@jordan95hd834 жыл бұрын
I love the whispering, it's so tingle-inducing. 😌 I love your accent so much!
@ariesgirl49944 жыл бұрын
I’m on S3 Ep5 of Ozark, I’ve thoroughly enjoyed it!
@yuste3164 жыл бұрын
Mary- watching your videos in bed at night make my life seem "normal" during this pandemic I'm an essential worker - and still working 2 jobs and I'm also immunocompromised . Life is a little scary right now, but I try to stay positive. Your videos are allowing me to clear my head and relax! I love this video! Glad to hear that you and your family are doing well. Stay safe
@gigic3294 жыл бұрын
I have noticed the hum of the laptop fan and I really like it. It's so relaxing.
@chloe28514 жыл бұрын
Having seen your latest ‘hypothetical’ update, and now listening to this....you are such a lovely person Mary. Ignore the ignorance of those that are not smart enough to see how kind and thoughtful you truly are. I am sure ‘Miss Margaret’ would agree 😘
@xcrunner32914 жыл бұрын
I hope you and you’re family are doing well, Mary! Thank you for this wonderful video! Please make more just like this! And that was so sweet of you to help your neighbor!
@kenziegrace76984 жыл бұрын
I was just watching other videos of yours from a few years ago😂
@Anniebird24 жыл бұрын
Thank you Mary for saying that , I work in retail and its ruff as it is for most right now we are all really going through it for sure .
@caitlinpowell88554 жыл бұрын
Do you have any tips for growing your nails out/ stoping them from breaking? Your nails are fabulous.
@angelicavargas66374 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you!!! I don't get lonely. I can entertain myself just fine. I also enjoy the social distancing and said the same thing about how I wish that would continue.
@lFrenzied4 жыл бұрын
45 minutes! Aren't we lucky! I love these rambles, thank you!
@perfectlyprejudice75304 жыл бұрын
Girl I needed this 😔 this virus is going insane I don’t even know what’s going on with the world
@katiec21314 жыл бұрын
YES I love your whisper rambles so much! Thank you :)
@lxver7774 жыл бұрын
(my first youtube comment ever!!)--because of quarantine we've been having to get creative with meals using the little amount of food we have available...just made my first tomato sandwich using your recipe today and it was sooo yummy! im definitely gonna make another one tomorrow :D your videos have been helping me so much through this difficult time and ive been keeping your videos on when im doing online schoolwork to keep me company and to help me relax when i need to sleep. thank you for all you do :) from the bottom of my heart, stay safe and thank you for everything!!
@kendralamar22344 жыл бұрын
Just remember it'll get better! I'm happy you're atleast safe. I agree with the sandwich thing too. DELICIOUS
@lxver7774 жыл бұрын
@@kendralamar2234 thank you!
@april8tost4 жыл бұрын
I'm happy you're all good! stay healthy!
@april8tost4 жыл бұрын
I must say...junk food is healthy...for the soul!
@elielliso4 жыл бұрын
Also, please tell us all about the grocery store-WE’RE THAT BORED 😂
@Siscus4 жыл бұрын
Had all my wisdom teeth pulled today 😷 Your whisper videos are definitely the best, helps me relax 😴
@ACGNikki4 жыл бұрын
Ikr - I hate when people walk to close to me too - like I can hear them right behind me, and if I were to stop they'd crash into me. Drives me bananas! I usually just step aside and let them go through, so I don't have to keep THEIR pace, or worrying about them running into me if I need to stop. 🙄
@grgumgee14 жыл бұрын
Yay I’m so glad you liked my advice about the essential worker. My upstairs neighbor has a subwoofer and I’m an essential worker I hung a letter up on the door and they have stopped blasting music at night it’s been great I’m pulling for you noise at night is just the worst.
@macroman48874 жыл бұрын
Hi Mary, I just wanted to say thank you so much for your videos, I was feeling pretty fed up today because of what's going on and this video has really cheered me up and made me realise that it's not just me that's suffering out there as you said everyone is affected by this atm.I have been watching your videos for about a year now and always have one of your dollar store walkthroughs playing in the background whenever I play online poker, is really relaxing and I just love listening to you ramble and straightening the shelves.Please keep up with your videos as these are really helpful during this bleak time and you are really helping your viewers by making them feel like they are not alone in this. Regards Chris from UK
@tank29654 жыл бұрын
My wife and i live next to an elderly couple who have animals. Whoever said roosters only crow in the morning must’ve never lived near them. That sucker will just go for 5 minutes at a time at random times in the day. On the bright side, their pheasants do keep the ticks away
@annacamfield97504 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you had to go through that stuff with your stalker- I hope you and your family are safe now
@teganrose45434 жыл бұрын
Your videos have bee calming my anxiety. I usually swim and hike to keep it down but since lockdown in Scotland it’s got worse since I can’t see my boyfriend and friends and yeah. I’m in my second year of doing my degree in art design and photography and A lot of stuff piles up. Hope you and your family are staying safe. I’ll keep you in my prayers
@CozyRoseASMR4 жыл бұрын
Everything about this video is relatable! Especially the social distancing after this has ended and Ozark and popcorn 🤣 🍿😹
@luur954 жыл бұрын
It’s always so good and comforting to see and hear you ❤️❤️❤️
@kbailey12284 жыл бұрын
I live in North Carolina to and your right about people staying home I had to go out yesterday for a doctor and there was a lot of people out.
@lylamiltz51284 жыл бұрын
Mary goes “Your probably going to get Doritos”. Me eating Doritos right now😂
@bytheseag52284 жыл бұрын
Loved this video. Thank you 🌈🤗
@sara_sellers064 жыл бұрын
Just in time for bed. Love your channel! 💓
@FifthAssassin4 жыл бұрын
I love Miss Margaret. My heart goes out to her. ❤💔❤
@Mmercury244 жыл бұрын
It’s so creepy that you had a stalker. I had one too. :/ So scary.
@AnasCorner4 жыл бұрын
OMG Mary....I've cried so much watching this video, lol. I appreciate you sharing your week's events with me (cause it's all about me). Have an awesome weekend. Hugs, Ana
@8h6ao172hwn4 жыл бұрын
There’s also a third personality type which is a ambivert. I just learned about this myself recently. You can draw energy from both being around people or being alone. But I suspect maybe this plague is most hardest on those that are extroverts. I’m more introverted myself and I’d think what it would be like to be forced to be around people all day and night indefinitely and it would probably be pretty miserable so I can imagine how tough it must be for extroverts forced to stay inside and isolated when that’s not how they stay energized.
@SouthernASMRSounds4 жыл бұрын
That's definitely not me.
@Prettyn0things4 жыл бұрын
We appreciate you ❤️
@ErikaGuadalupe19934 жыл бұрын
Canvas has an app! The notifications help me keep track of assignments.
@emmathompson34994 жыл бұрын
Can you do more hypothetical gossip videos I love listening to them especially the soft spoken or whisper ones. I love listening to what you get up to and what you buy x
@WrenIsPhoenix4 жыл бұрын
You taking care of your elderly neighbor is so sweet. My sister who's in her 40s always thinks she is old, but reality is, you and my sister are NOT old. I hope you are realizing that too. :) You are at the height of your life, where wisdom and physicality are at peak, in tandem.
@SassyCasy4 жыл бұрын
Canvas is the bane of my existence! Assignments, modules, video lectures🙄 I’ve been using canvas all 4 years of college and I hate it
@mothermoon39364 жыл бұрын
Put me right to sleep 💜 amazing
@brittylew4 жыл бұрын
Yesssss. Can you do a video talking about Ozark? I loved it. Season 3 was really good.
@brittylew4 жыл бұрын
I just love your rambling videos 💜
@marief434 жыл бұрын
Good morning! It's 12:20 am here in Georgia. I look forward to seeing your videos! Our internet and cable TV have been down since yesterday. I'm going nuts with the quarantine.
@SouthernASMRSounds4 жыл бұрын
No, I'm up early and working all day.
@whisperincolour65754 жыл бұрын
Give Spirit Halloween a month and we will have Joe Exotic and a "Carrot Basket" wig!!! Lmao
@temogarza83604 жыл бұрын
This is one of your best videos🥺
@kristinstevenson91184 жыл бұрын
Please don’t ever stop talking 🥰
@jmorris49724 жыл бұрын
honestly these types of videos of yours are my favorite. I feel like Im your friend
@samp8974 жыл бұрын
I miss you hypothetical neighbour updates lol 😊
@susanp.47814 жыл бұрын
So nice to see you🌺
@leche29054 жыл бұрын
thanks for this video!❤️
@CaribouOrange4 жыл бұрын
Just who hits 'dislike' so fast, it has to be an obsession
@ShadowDancer_4 жыл бұрын
The stalker I guess lol
@lifranpop4 жыл бұрын
With canvas there is an option that it warns you by mail when new things get published
@sierramiller91024 жыл бұрын
I agree with kinda keeping the social distancing. In a sense. 6 feet might be much but we defintley needed to learn personal space. I feel like were in kindergarten and weve just been taught basic hygiene and social ques