"I can be her first." Ugh! Yuck! Where have I heard that before when in reference to a young woman???
@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver15 күн бұрын
My creepy coercive ex
@jazzyj664015 күн бұрын
Young GIRLS.
@Nawtperfect15 күн бұрын
Why are men so damned GROSS. I agree with another commenter - the skit took too long. The answer should be a flat, "She doesn't provide that service. I would be happy to help you, but if that is not acceptable, then I'm afraid you will have to go elsewhere." THE END.
@Decadence1366614 күн бұрын
Used to work for a spa. We has waxing services. Want an eyebrow wax? Any one can get one and anyone can preform one. Want a genital wax? You're a woman? A woman is doing your wax. You're a man? A man is doing your wax. No exceptions. Prevents things like in this video from happening
@Rocanala15 күн бұрын
Who says “that’s sweet little thing…that 19y/o..”. when talking about their masseuse, hairstylist, aesthetician, etc? 🚩 🚩🚩
@ohplease686515 күн бұрын
You… would be… SURPRISED😶
@thelightinclarity15 күн бұрын
It happens all the time when I worked as an assistant to a massage therapist. People get wild over the phone too.
@Shay-rx4xu15 күн бұрын
Even though he is doing a skit I've been asked 4 happy endings 2
@hassanas.benjamin381815 күн бұрын
Only a dustie
@katiePetsy15 күн бұрын
I'm a nurse. I had a patient ask for me specifically by saying "give me the wee lassie"
@aylanae479715 күн бұрын
He comprehends when he isn't comfortable but not about others. Shocker 🙃
@queenvanagon14 күн бұрын
He comprehends when others are uncomfortable. He just does not care.
@aylanae479714 күн бұрын
@queenvanagon nothing but the sad truth
@ruffandrelax29014 күн бұрын
@@queenvanagon give you one better He likes making others uncomfortable as well
@SRobinson-hr6me13 күн бұрын
That’s how predators are SMH
@honeymoonavenue9715 күн бұрын
3:50 He’s so protective of the girls who work there. I love that.
@ameliamarbles779115 күн бұрын
Yeah, and then go and make money from women's insecurities about their natural hair. What a hero
@thatMMaven15 күн бұрын
The way the guy kept telling him no and the cree poid kept pushinggg but he stood firm. A woman would be har med. The guy he was talking to needs to be behind bars.
@extrashotofespresso_15 күн бұрын
My aunt wanted to start a massage therapy business. I helped her set up the room but she said she specifically wants female clients and I 100 respect and agree with that!
@redrumrose188415 күн бұрын
lmao i woulda said my name ashley too and u booked with me 😂😂 and then he says sweet lil thang like shes a fellow inmate. and then he wont take no for an answer, id honestly would be more afraid of her walking to her car by herself at night... that's how stalkers are
@marinaprosperina14 күн бұрын
Up until the 1960s (in the U.S), Ashley was used as a man's name, too. So if he was to say, "My name is Ashley", he wouldn't be wrong! In fact, there are many unisex names that started out as men's names.
@flame_emerald15 күн бұрын
So not related to waxing, but I had a similar experience. I mostly do house sitting, and I had a new client try and ask for sex work from me. I do house sitting, dog training, and cleaning, NOT sex work. No offense to sex workers, but that is not a service I offer. Oh, also the man that asked for this? He purposely asked BEFORE he paid me for the house sitting job I had just completed 😠
@ImaniForester15 күн бұрын
Infuriating. 🤬 I'm sorry to hear you had that experience. The entitlement and audacity they display is wild.
@destroyraiden15 күн бұрын
tell them you record all conversations for ethical transactions and any time you get on the phone with clients you set it up before hand its in your contract they consent to tapping and if legal action is required the tapes are usable or something like that its getting their consent to be recorded so you cover the US states that require the person to know not sure about the rest of the world on this but that way every last call even if its a hi just checking in on fido you got them and when you hang up the phone keep the recorder on tell the date, time, whom was it you were speaking to and relation to the owners of the house. If you want to cover friends and family of the owners you can write in there two all conversations about the home, pets, or land when they are the owners, friends of the owners or other aquantencies of the owners will be recorded for ethical assurances and may be used in legal issues this way they can't get theri friends to call and harrass you under the guise of checking on xyz if you have a call hit record and if its a friend get names and relationship to the owner and if they refuse to provide that you can't tell them nothing about nothing. or you could do a policy of you do not speak to anyone but the owners about the property, pets, ect care yet you still record someone tried to ask questions and you said bye.
@extrashotofespresso_15 күн бұрын
That’s awful! I’ve heavily considered at home tutoring but I wouldn’t be comfortable. I may be there to tutor the child but I am in an unfamiliar home.
@Seawing-v5d13 күн бұрын
Me as well, I was in my FIFTIES at the time. I was there an an elder care worker for the guy's wife. He wanted to have sex in his dilapidated spider-ridden shed. No he did not have dementia. I told the agency he was a sexual pest and they said "Gosh we wish he would quit doing that". BTW this was in mormon country and women's issues are completely ignored there unless it's to guilt you into feeling you should forgive men no matter the type of abuse. It's BS.
@anonymousa-uy1hk15 күн бұрын
This actually happened in Vancouver, Canada. A man calling himself Jessica Yaniv sued the owners of a spa because the women that worked there wouldn’t wax his ⚽⚽
@ImaniForester15 күн бұрын
Yes! I heard about him. He was caught targeting Asian spas, and sued around 16 of them for not waxing him even though some couldn't due to their religion, lack of experience and feeling uncomfortable. It's so sad how women-run spas are targeted in this way and how there's always some women ready to defend this form of harassment.
@InternetNonsense15 күн бұрын
Some do that crap specifically to prey on the unwilling and staunch feminists in other regards would get all poisonous towards uncomfortable women instead, make it make sense. "They're helping against stereotypes" by messing up criminal and medical records? More like working against pattern recognition and tripling down on "clothes, hairstyles and interests are gendered." Wow so grateful.
@destroyraiden15 күн бұрын
if places have to wax them they could have guards and or train all employees in tasers and such and now there is buddy system one waxer one guard or two or the ability to hit a pocket button that alarms the entire studio and there is only one reason that alarm would go off and its war time.
@anonymousa-uy1hk15 күн бұрын
@@destroyraiden OR, we could just make it illegal for a man to sexually harass a woman into waxing his privates EVEN IF said man “claims” to “identify” as a woman.
@awg706813 күн бұрын
@@destroyraidenthey should have a male waxer who also identifies as female.
@ewelinaskoczylas330115 күн бұрын
That's one of the reasons that I prefer a job with working from home option, without the need of having direct contact with strangers.
@RedDeadReverie15 күн бұрын
Another reason they want to take that option away too 😥
@christinabaatz120415 күн бұрын
The Spa owner is a keeper . He cares about the safety of women .
@g.t.755015 күн бұрын
I don’t care for massages so I’ve never been in this environment but there was this guy who was on a podcast- he was on the Netflix show “beef”. He is the ex con on the first episode and on a podcast he talks about forcing oral on a massage therapist in a joking manner. It was so disgusting and you could tell that this woman was not a human being to him. He jokes and devalues her and makes light of his actions. It was so disturbing. All I could think was, this is why I deeply hated this character. His role was too well “acted” and he felt instinctively like a person that deserves the worst life has to offer. I didn’t watch after the fist episode. I don’t support ppl or shows that hire ppl like this.
@honeymoonavenue9715 күн бұрын
That’s David Cho.
@honeymoonavenue9715 күн бұрын
That’s exactly what this reminded me of.
@honeymoonavenue9715 күн бұрын
The Asian “comedian” Bobby Lee also confessed to that but it’s even worse..he admitted to raping a 12 year old prostitute abroad.
@g.t.755011 күн бұрын
It’s sad ppl think like he does and he’s never faced any repercussions. Thanks for letting me know his name! I really looked forward to this show but couldn’t get past episode 1.
@amberholland556113 күн бұрын
This poor guy. My heart goes out to him. THATS so awful. I love that he is now protecting those he loves and cares about.
@gingerbell0715 күн бұрын
So I worked as an LMT prior to the pandemic. I put my license on hold and ended up working at the front desk at a hotel but, while I might get my license back into active status, you’re presenting a lot of valid reasons to at least not return to this line of work for at least the next four years.
@ImaniForester15 күн бұрын
Oh nooo, I hope that you pursue whatever you love to do. 💜 These "clients" are a very real possibility, but you can lay down boundaries and/or hire people who specialize in male treatments if you chose to provide those services.
@caseyw.655015 күн бұрын
Men really have so much damn audacity.
@Lieke-mf9yh15 күн бұрын
I go for a massage every month for my back and I have a wonderful masseuse. She told me that she never takes on male clients because of bad experiences with men. And as a woman I would never go to a male masseur because of the same reason. Both the massagetherapist as well as the client are in a very vulnerable place so I can understand why women in that occupation refuse to have male clients. To bad for the good men out there, but there are too many rotten apples.
@changes64915 күн бұрын
I knew it was a skit because I had seen other videos from him that looked like a skit. Right before he did the follow-up, I said to myself, "This may be a skit, but I am a thousand percent sure that this happened to someone somewhere in real life." And sure enough, seconds later, he confirmed it. If anyone can go to the salon a request a certain person because they are good at what they do, then why would a pervert take advantage of a situation? These ppl doing skits need to have a disclaimer. You could still go viral if you do it right. I'm not mad at him, just adding constructive feedback.
@awg706813 күн бұрын
Much respect for protecting employees from creeps. Well done! Now, just understand that No is a complete sentence. ❤
@ImaniForester15 күн бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@amikkomoon527314 күн бұрын
This is why I quit the service industry
@thehapagirl9215 күн бұрын
36:10 I agree. Be rude to men who are being rude to you. An eye for an eye isn’t a rule here. Be rude if the men are rude to you. Assert your dominance and show you’re not scared of them.
@notavailable-c9n15 күн бұрын
Oh my gosh! I had never even thought about this...dang! Outrageous!!
@thehapagirl9215 күн бұрын
0:22 What a creepy comment from a grown man. I’m disgusted by him
@itscalledlogic715 күн бұрын
That was your TRAINING video, dude? You train your employees to laugh and giggle and have to tell the client 7 times that it's not happening? Very, very, odd. You don't even need to tell someone that she's uncomfortable and put her in that position against the client. You just tell them she's not available for the service. End of story. SMH at the unprofessionalism.
@ImaniForester15 күн бұрын
I agree. The giggling was not appropriate given that it was a skit. He needs to teach his staff to be firm and be ready to call police if needed. Being friendly with creeps only encourages them 😪
@nadia_vivace15 күн бұрын
Unfortunately, a lot of people react that way. People can laugh because they are uncomfortable. I have done that many times. But after laughing and giving one the opportunity to redeem themselves and they don't, the. I switch up but him laughing that way is pretty common
@WendyDrayke15 күн бұрын
Also repeatedly calling WOMEN "girls".
@femmefatale7115 күн бұрын
It’s called a Fawn response and it is a triggered adaptive response. Do your research first please.
@M_SC15 күн бұрын
@@nadia_vivacetrain yourself not to. This is training? It should train effective destruction of evil not instinctual fear response
@kf143915 күн бұрын
That's so terrible that that guy went through that. Glad to see that he's using that experience to protect others! Also, that woman has a *CAMERA* in her suite?! What about the half naked women that her husband has access to watch being waxed?
@AmberBrooklyn2414 күн бұрын
Good question 🤔
@ZarmaryZ15 күн бұрын
Wheb i am uncomfortable with men i am extremely meek and uncomfortable, i talk more quiet because its like i am trying to not agitate a wild bore. People assume it's because you wanted it but no. Everyone have a different reaction
@DelphineTheWorstBladeEver15 күн бұрын
I didn't know how to say no. And when I finally did, it didn't matter. No doesn't mean anything to them.
@klaudinegarcia893215 күн бұрын
Me too! 😟
@batgirlp556114 күн бұрын
Boar
@JHjh8815 күн бұрын
So glad I found this channel ❤ From Australia 🐨
@adila244214 күн бұрын
Thank you for posting this, learned so much. I am glad i am aware now.
@formerlyknownas12315 күн бұрын
Disturbing
@DeborahWalkerXOXO14 күн бұрын
I like the way you've set this video out, reading the tweets out is so useful if I'm watching as I wash the dishes etc. I honestly avoid paying any attention to videos I have to read the screen for now.
@catsncrows15 күн бұрын
1 getting all notifications 2 you would not believe the garbage service workers go through. I ran a lingerie dept in a store. Let me tell you. We weren't expensive, we sold women's underwear in packages ffs still creep would creep in.
@angiepangie98914 күн бұрын
Hurt people hurt people, but it takes a really strong person to get hurt and spend the rest of your life making sure nobody else gets hurt the same way ❤. I stive to be the second type.
@Whet-wb9jt15 күн бұрын
This is disgusting
@agoogleuser390515 күн бұрын
Amazing customer service for the horror man
@unspokentruth18015 күн бұрын
I'm glad I'm here
@louannebridges24177 күн бұрын
I feel very sorry for girls and women these days. Dealing with detached, porn addicted, rape minded, selfish males who worship video games and tik tok CANNOT BE EASY. So sad what you ALL are missing out on and how CRAZY its gotten to date. SO GLAD Im done
@HansHorst-fu2il15 күн бұрын
OMG i just googled what is brazilian waxing for men or women and literally got uncensored pictures of hairs vz waxed genitals. Gotta love this country T_T
@mint.berry.crunch15 күн бұрын
27:48 not me catching a stray as a regular normal retail manager… thanks?
@marzemarcel952913 күн бұрын
The "oopsie" model should have tipped you at least $60...just saying. 😒 He knows what he did.
@Gloria-nx2db15 күн бұрын
Soooo was he looking for a happy ending?
@kconway226313 күн бұрын
He wanted her to handle his stuff, I think, but Ashley 👏 is 👏 not 👏 going 👏 to 👏 touch 👏 you! He wants to play dumb out in the reception area. I can’t imagine what he’d be like in the back. I don’t know if it’s just that he’s a creep that likes young women or if making her uncomfortable adds to the experience. Yuck!
@jaqm734315 күн бұрын
11:59 being antitrans is unnecessary. If any person is uncomfortable, it is okay to say no.
@ScarlettAlexandraS15 күн бұрын
I agree. That should be removed from the video. because that is not what is happening at all in this case.
@nirvanarose699315 күн бұрын
Agreed
@arceusinsanity30115 күн бұрын
Especially as trans women are more vulnerable in general than cis women.
@anonymousa-uy1hk15 күн бұрын
@@ScarlettAlexandraS Except it is actually happening. A man in Vancouver, Canada who goes by the name of Jessica Yaniv, sued the owners of a spa because the women refused to wax his balls.
@anonymousa-uy1hk15 күн бұрын
It isn’t actually okay to say no. In Vancouver Canada, a man going by the name of Jessica Yaniv sued the owners of a spa because the women who worked there wouldn’t wax his ⚽⚽
@florentinamandache-w5h5 күн бұрын
good for you ... have cameras and audio ... this world has turn crazy
@TriniLush712 күн бұрын
XY? This censorship shit is stupid!
@LandonStrauss-hc1sc15 күн бұрын
28:03 Absolutely true! 2025
@Foenix-131315 күн бұрын
Pete is a good guy 😊
@ApplZazz15 күн бұрын
Eeeeeek!!!!! 😱
@lynnebarrett991215 күн бұрын
Dude, VET your clients and tell other shops, too. A woman is 100% in danger from these men, enclosed in a private room. How did you like your SA?
@kconway226313 күн бұрын
I know. He can’t even respect boundaries in the reception area.
@C_magazine15 күн бұрын
Watch dominion 💚⚖️
@GalaxyDreamWanderer9915 күн бұрын
Absolutely 💖. Vegan for life here. You cannot say you stand for women's rights if you pay for female animals to be exploited for food btw.
@oliviagore706715 күн бұрын
Yo, bringing self id laws into the conversation is crazy! Super unnecessary!
@Rose-kj7rz15 күн бұрын
Making laws, for real-life instances that actually happen, to keep women safer is super unnecessary? Interesting.
@LoveK115 күн бұрын
Y’all are wiilllllddddd! So a woman should just be shocked and terrified but strong armed by society into shoving it down and powering through? Are you serious? Are you seriously advocating for women being forced to comply?
@anonymousa-uy1hk15 күн бұрын
No it’s not. A man in Vancouver calling himself Jessica Yaniv sued the owners of a spa because the women who worked there refused to wax his balls.
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin806615 күн бұрын
Why's that unnecessary?
@InternetNonsense15 күн бұрын
It's very topical and I'd argue words describing gamete production aren't up for no psychologist or government to assign either, doesn't sound like their field.
@lenadahling15 күн бұрын
Okay, but the girl who talked about the model who had an accident... I feel like he genuinely had an accident. Are we not going to allow men to be human? Everything in her story seems to check out, and he didn't seem predatory, but genuinely remorseful. He even paid when he didn't have to. Maybe he booked with her cuz he thought she was cute - as if women have never done that - but then didn't anticipate his body's response, or wasn't prepared that he couldn't handle that. Happens to teenage boys all the time. While many, many men are creeps, I also feel like women can be hypervigilant, and just don't understand them sometimes. The dude didn't make any sounds like the previous dude, didn't make any advancements, comments, or weird requests. And even immediately caught himself before she even noticed. I feel like the way she freaked out was uncalled for, and she could have had some grace. If a cute guy was touching and moving my lady parts, I'm not going to get aroused? Thankfully, with women, it's just less obvious. We shouldn't conflate genuine involuntary accidents, with predatory behavior. It's a delicate, awkward field, that requires nuance.
@lenadahling15 күн бұрын
P.S. She could've given him a minute to clean up and gather himself, and then restarted the service. If, at that point, it happened again, or it is, in fact, weird, then by all means, stop the service. But sometimes things just are what they are, and aren't malicious. Especially if he was a model, why jeopardize his future jobs? Even he sounded shocked.
@RedDeadReverie15 күн бұрын
Why are you so eager to defend him? Just because it happened naturally, he specifically picked her since “he found her cute”? That’s predatory and gross.
@tash93615 күн бұрын
So women are just supposed to get traumatized because sometimes men have accidents be for real- if the model can't control himself he shouldn't be getting waxed by someone he finds attractive or he could get waxed by a man
@lenadahling15 күн бұрын
@@RedDeadReverieWhere's the eagerness? And when did we become allergic to sanity? If perfection is the standard, then women better be prepared to be held to the same, but we know there's a double standard. There's a big chasm between thinking someone's cute (not a crime - plenty of hot male masseuses, isn't that awkward?) and harassing or assaulting them.
@AmberBrooklyn2414 күн бұрын
Girl bye he should’ve did his own wax then. No one wants to see that. You wax him then.
@LadyAstarionAncunin14 күн бұрын
The skit is too on the nose, and the spa owner seems amused. If they're the owner, they just could have said, "Women do not do waxing on men" and left it there, regardless of how the appointment was set up.
@annmariegood3715 күн бұрын
He's so annoying
@welshlady21200015 күн бұрын
How can people take a skit so seriously.
@AmberColeman-gq1wn15 күн бұрын
Girl. It’s a skit explaining what actually happens . This is why this type of stuff is so prevalent. Y’all never take anything these dudes do seriously, until it happens to you.
@queenyanique115 күн бұрын
Didn't you hear him say it happened to him?
@susanplatt533115 күн бұрын
Some skits are based on reality. If it was real, wouldn't you take it seriously?!
@kylaarmstrong-benjamin806615 күн бұрын
How can you ignore all the first hand accounts of their own personal experiences with creepy men bothering them at work, from the women stitching the skit?
@MiddleAgedGeek15 күн бұрын
Then you NEVER TAKE YOUR SAFETY SERIOUSLY! Great idea! BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!
@NamasteInYourLane14 күн бұрын
Staged. Next.
@Whet-wb9jt15 күн бұрын
Wait, what, men are sa-ing staff at spas????!!!! Yall, that's wild!!!!!
@weedblossom7715 күн бұрын
I'm stunned by how much tolerance and respect this guy shows predators!!! No wonder they are encouraged to prey!!! Men work really heard at making themselves contemptible and hated!