Severely Disabled by an Unknown Condition (A Medical Mystery)

[@SavvyArtz]

"We never disagree about a topic" that was the most Dad thing Bret's dad could say, haha! They seem like a sweet family!

[@nancymcbride7153]

❤

[@ambz418]

right! his words about family therapy is so true. family therapy can be incredibly beneficial and im glad! they seem like such a great family

[@яИерихон]

No crap he's disabled

[@Pearlmenagerie]

Anyone else notice that when his sister started to cry, he slowly brought his hand to hold hers? I have a feeling he understands more than what people might think

[@nopenullify8947]

Oh 100%. Its just nearly impossible to relate to someone who is special ... but yes. Its obvious. Hard for some to see isa what I mean ...

[@Givwthyrhrt]

He absolutely understands. My heart is filled with joy knowing that he is surrounded by so much love. His caregiver is lovely, as is his family. What a blessing.

[@cindyo6298]

He seemed to act very different depending on who was sitting next to him

[@billydiesel8520]

Now I'm crying ffs.

[@nickymarch2914]

@@cindyo6298yup! I noticed the difference going back and forth in between the sister, caregiver, and mother. He seemed so calm with his caregiver, he really wanted to listen to her

[@jkippur]

More funding for caregivers would truly make a world of difference for so many people

[@Ingrafre]

There obviously was lack of oxygen during birth or in utero. Or due to infection. Severe brain damage.

[@suzannemcmaken4648]

Hmm … More taxes for you?

[@Ingrafre]

@@suzannemcmaken4648 More taxes for the rich! Where have you been the last decades, Suzanne?

[@Rbjqg]

Amen to that. ❤️

[@FEED_ME_A_STRAY_CAT]

​​@@suzannemcmaken4648 I'm okay with taking care of my fellow human

[@Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913]

I like that they included the caregiver in this video! Just a testament to the family and how much they value her. I love how they also highlighted the need for more funding for caregivers. It takes a lot of trust to allow someone to take on that role outside of your family, and an excellent caregiver really deserves the WORLD!

[@cynthiaclotzman6968]

Being a caregiver is one of the hardest jobs. I had many hard jobs in my life (now retired), but being a caregiver was by far the hardest, yet the most rewarding. Definitely the lowest paying, which is a shame.

[@TheresaB-wg4ku]

It is ashame,we don't get paid well. I don't ever want to leave my clients,but,what,would the families do without us. I've been caregiving for years,now have scoliosis, probably from all the lifting. But,my clients are my other family. As it should be.

[@Nooooooooooooooooooooo7913]

@ you are a saint!

[@christianb8228]

She’s like family I’m sure

[@HandHoofandHeart]

This is my sweet cousin, Brety lou. One of the reasons why my nonprofit exists. So much love for you Bret!

[@ewetn1]

His vibe is so sweet and chill.... ❤

[@AlanKelly-nm9lx]

I wish u all the best in your success!

[@AlanKelly-nm9lx]

wow that Ebony lady who cares for him is so outstanding. .....

[@cremebrulee4759]

Thank you!

[@hbendavid]

What you do at HH&H is incredible! Just another example of Bret’s impact.

[@prelog333]

A caregiver should be recognised as a medical professional. It takes a special person to do that job.

[@jaredvincent3323]

Yeah but then it would require a license and become way more expensive for the family

[@leecotton3242]

A pleasure to meet Brett and his family! My husband developed early-onset dementia and I was his caregiver. Hardest thing I’ve ever done … and I was honored to do so.

[@cindys.9688]

Bless you. What a beautiful attitude.❤️🎄

[@kytticockroach2299]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@cremebrulee4759]

❤❤❤

[@writercard4]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@guardianangel9517]

For Better or Worse. That's something that a lot of people don't take seriously today and I commend you🥰

[@CBaller2020]

As a Mom to a 21-year-old son with autism and developmental delay, I can completely relate with this family. My son still wears diapers, drinks from a bottle, and has a load of behavioral problems. Brett's family is so beautiful.... his Mom, Dad, and sister and fantastic. His caregiver is such a beautiful soul, and I hope one day my husband and I could have a caregiver as wonderful as her!! Therapy sounds like a wonderful idea for my family, especially my oldest son, who still has problems with his youngest brother's disabilities.

[@shaleamontanez4591]

Wishing you love and support

[@Tigglytoot]

I can’t imagine how hard that’s been. Glad he has a great support system.

[@michaelak1719]

Mein Sohn ist Hirngeschädigt durch ein Arzt FEHLER .

[@MK-hx5wd]

His CAREGIVER seems like the very best, kindest, most loving and cherishing woman!

[@cindys.9688]

I agree. What a sweetheart!🎄❤️

[@MaskedViolinist07]

@@MK-hx5wd she’s a ray of light if there ever was one. You can tell Brett has a special relationship and bond with her. They were meant to be in each other’s lives.

[@ChicaPaquito]

He’s different with her! He seems so attentive to her. I think they have a wonderful connection. Such a blessing. 🫶🏻

[@carolanderson5075]

His caregiver is his mom, btw

[@carolanderson5075]

Sorry, I didn’t watch the video all the way through before commenting. I saw his mom and assumed that was the caregiver you were talking about, my bad.

[@Quzga]

As a fellow 28 year old guy, this really puts things into perspective. I feel dumb for complaining about little things in my life, I'm lucky all things considered. I will say though, brett is lucky to have a complete and nice family. Not all of us do 😢

[@Valejandrom]

What do you mean? Being dumb is AWESOME! Why would Brett complain? He's CHILLIN! While us morons are worried about taxes.

[@RibbonVintageGirl]

Same here fr

[@cindys.9688]

I noticed he sits a little bit differently with each person.😊 Not better or worse. Just different. His caregiver - He looks at her the most. His eyes stay fixed on her. Probably wondering what next big adventure they'll be going on! His mom - More verbal, I guess you could say. Makes noises. Moves around a lot more than with the others. His dad - He sits still and quiet. Moves around but he's quieter. His sister - A little bit of everything. Looked at her but didn't fix his eyes on her, like the caregiver. Anyway, I just thought it was cool. He communicated in his own special way with each one. I love that his sister now works in special education. She carries on what she learned from Bret. That's amazing!😊 I love this family, and Bret's caregiver. Very warm people.❤

[@GODDESS1966]

I was going to comment about this, but then I read your comment. Bret is very in tune with everyone.

[@mamashiraz]

His fidgeting and teeth grinding gives his anxiety away. 😒

[@savedbygrace9933]

Yes, I noticed it too.

[@MollyBarth8601]

I noticed that! He is very verbal with his mom and very attentive with his caregiver

[@carlaluis5175]

I did notice that too

[@jordanbraidwood]

One of the things i love is how much they touch him. It seems to bring him so much comfort in that touch of those he loves.

[@decro3177]

To me it looked like the opposite. He seemed pretty calm until then.

[@djangosoftwaredeveloper]

I was wondering about that. Do other people's parents do that? I've never seen that before.

[@Rachel-ij2pz]

He doesn't seem to like being touched like that

[@cherice6238]

I can tell he likes it because he rubs himself as well . ❤

[@djangosoftwaredeveloper]

@@cherice6238 I guess you grow up in a household with no physical touch it's shocking to see that. Thanks for your insight.

[@aprilhelms4144]

Does anyone else notice how calm he is with his caregiver? He just adores her.

[@Charlotte-wx4jz]

Same with his sister. He looked her straight in the eyes!

[@Grace-yq3xi]

Yes. A deep love. He’s so sweet and different with each of them. You can tell he loves them and they him. ❤️

[@ewetn1]

Sometimes a caregiver is a caregiver... And sometimes there is a deep love and devotion there beyond money.

[@coolbreeze5683]

I think he's good at sensing energy. He must have been through so much with his family. Stress and panic felt by his parents, which is completely understandable. It's hard seeing their child go through challenges. It helps having a caring person come in with a fresh perspective and calming energy. It refreshes the family.

[@mollyram2997]

He really does☺

[@brandnewty]

Chris, Bret, Sister, Dad, Caregiver, and last but not least Mom. You are all an inspiration.

[@beaualoevv]

inspiration to hold someone that can’t have love in pain 24/7

[@bunnybuddy-o8m]

​@@beaualoevv please explain?

[@heartfulhaidyn]

It’s incredible that Brett was able to toilet train despite the obstacles he faces! He’s definitely a very smart young man, and his family members and caregiver are all so lovely too.

[@Practicerecordings]

@@heartfulhaidyn ...he is smart, I hope they nourish that. 💕

[@secretsquirrel7374]

Well not really toilet trained if he still wears diapers.

[@Practicerecordings]

@secretsquirrel7374 ...he gives them a signal, the diapers are "just in case" the signal is missed.

[@heartfulhaidyn]

@ Honestly, I piss my pants at least once a week, and I still consider myself toilet trained despite not having most of the challenges that Brett does. So I think we can give credit where credit is due.

[@tayhammer]

@@secretsquirrel7374 His mother said he's about 70% toilet trained, which is amazing considering his condition.

[@KoZsWastingMoney]

I was a normal little boy until I was 9. I started have weakness on the right side of my body, but in 1984 you never heard of a child having a stroke so it took the doctors to properly diagnose it as such. By then I lost the ability to walk and talk. Because I want to keep this brief I'll just say you can reach out to me if you have anymore questions. BTW, I love SBSK.

[@Practicerecordings]

...the best to you. 😘

[@lightbearer972]

Wow! How are you doing now? Did you regain any function? You seem like an astute, strong man and I wish you the best. Take care from Dallas Texas!

[@alexruger7677]

did you regain the ability to talk? if not, what communication technics did you learn, for compensation?

[@KoZsWastingMoney]

@@alexruger7677 Luckily I was able to begin to walk, albeit with a limp. Speech was gained, although it's at a slower pace.

[@Practicerecordings]

@KoZsWastingMoney ...thank you for sharing, I'm sure it's been a difficult road. People such as yourself are so enlightening though, and educating...few who experience such overwhelming circumstances, are able to recount, and share. ...it's so appreciated though, I just wanted you to know that. 😘

[@julievanderleest]

The caregiver is simply incredible. She just radiates and clearly loves her job and it’s more than a job for her. This whole family is so sweet. Awesome interview of an awesome family.❤

[@cindys.9688]

I agree. She's a very special lady.🎄❤️

[@AlexisTwoLastNames]

unrelated to her awesome demeanor, but her locs are so nice n must take time to maintain. she seems like someone who really take life slow, because you have to as a caregiver n loc-haver haha

[@f.h.4552]

She really made me tear up 😢 she’s so amazing it’s not easy work. I tried to once my heart wasn’t set up that way so I left. But I saw so many caregivers that just restored my faith in humanity.

[@beaualoevv]

😂😂😂

[@beaualoevv]

what a cIown.

[@deejay7339]

Dad coming in with the dad humor right off the cuff 😂 Great video as always

[@Even-Bladeren]

He seemed to respond to his sister being emotional, i think he may understand a LOT, you are a wonderful family 🍀🍀🍀

[@gia9551]

I thought the same thing❤️🙏🏽

[@cindys.9688]

I agree.

[@kalyasaify]

he does! such a wonderful family, I love them

[@IndigobluBeauty]

YES! It seemed hard for him to see her cry like he understood she was sad ❤

[@VermontGrammy]

He was very quiet when his caregiver was there.

[@vivca1301]

" I want everyone to know that our life did not end when Brett came to us, it got better" - Brett's Dad. How beautiful. What a beautiful family, including the caregiver !

[@mirandastephens4586]

Amazing

[@nancykahn4125]

Brett seems so attentive when he is with his caregiver…what a lovely family…

[@cindys.9688]

I saw that, too.😊

[@GoblinModeMVP]

“We figure if you’re sick, you get diagnosed.” I made the same assumption. How very, very wrong I was. Took years to get diagnosed, years more to get services. I got services for two weeks before I was left forgotten. I don’t get enough hours to be “worth it”. I have to buy my medications from Canada because I can’t afford the US pricing. Still waiting on genetic and allergy specialists to officially diagnose my other conditions. It’s a struggle.

[@nightyew2160]

Yeah, I was wondering about that, whether not having a diagnosis can make it more difficult to get assistance. I hope things work themselves out for you soon. I know what a pain the healthcare system can be.

[@robertwilliams5618]

​@@nightyew2160the medical community is an absolute joke. I never got diagnosed and even when I know I have symptoms of something and I brought it up to doctors still told me it was in my head

[@karolinanie5946]

The story of how Bret's sister brought Bret to school because she was so proud of him is one of the most beautiful stories I've ever heard ❤❤❤ She looks like perfect teacher and great human being, she is empathetic and strong, beautiful person ❤ Merry Christmas to whole amazing family and all of you here guys 🥰🎄🎄🎄

[@jeanetteh.9240]

Merry Christmas to you, too!

[@mollyram2997]

Merry XMas to you♥ I love that u highlighted her empathy:)

[@karolinanie5946]

@@jeanetteh.9240 Thank you, Merry Christmas and have beautiful day 🥰❤️

[@karolinanie5946]

@@mollyram2997 I am always moved when I see such people who love with all their being, if there is good in the world, it is manifested in them, filled with warmth and care for others ♥️ Thank you and Merry Christmas, have a peaceful day 🥰

[@raulaleman2277]

+1

[@andrewcomments5812]

Bret's sister clearly loves him with all her heart. I have no doubt that her baby daughter will be raised to be a wonderful human being. Also, Bret's caretaker is blessed, and the family is blessed to have her. All good things to Bret's caretaker!

[@beaualoevv]

just because she pads him on the leg? he can’t have love and lives in pain everyday

[@sisyphus.333]

I think its so great you imcluded his caregiver too! I am a PCA for a disabled child and not to toot my own horn but I think its such an important job and provides so much help both for the disabled individual and the family. The love she feels for Bret is just how I feel about the kid I care for I also really like that the family accepts his disabilities and doesnt force therapies, while still acknowledging that the care was good. theyre doing an amazing job

[@shauntayecooper9489]

That amazing

[@brandip77]

Thank you for providing great care for those most vulnerable.

[@ohkay2090]

Thank you for what you do!❤

[@eleveli2437]

You should definitely bragging about what you do!!! Thank you for your hard work ❤

[@daveiscray]

The world needs more people like you. What you do is absolutely important especially for families like these who have been through so much already. Thank you for the good you put out into the world.

[@ce9916]

That caregiver is a blessing to the world. We need more angels like her on earth

[@deniselancaster6888]

"Life didn't stop when we had Brett, it got better."

[@asmith4549]

Did it tho?

[@anthonymatute6057]

Inspiring quote

[@asmith4549]

@@anthonymatute6057 is it?

[@carrieanncancino5118]

Quit being negative and rude!! These Mom and Dad just love their child, no matter how old he is. ​@@asmith4549

[@8i3-g2v]

@@asmith4549 they need to cope let them

[@erikainharmony4465]

"There's not a pill that can change him." Exactly. I'm glad these parents realize this and just Love him anyway. No matter what, please just Love. 💜

[@ekpoole957]

I remember the first time that I met Brett, he was rightfully wary of me. He didn't know who I was so he watched me in a very discreet manner. Brett has a rallying place in his family in that everyone likes to be around him, take care of him and love him. Brett is very lucky to have a wonderful family that loves him.

[@rosejr2614]

Seems like he understands a lot

[@channelofchannels7845]

Bret is just a chill guy. You can't help but like him.

[@LifeIsEasy77127]

Actually, we can help it

[@beaualoevv]

@@LifeIsEasy77127how u gonna spend your your pocket change so he can buy a shirt ?

[@Cooked1-ti9bv]

​@@beaualoevvbro I didn't understand a damn word you just said

[@toniastubblefield8340]

Sis is amazing. Whole family is.

[@jeremiahallyn4603]

His sister is so sweet. She obviously loves him and cares about him so much. Bret is a very lucky young man 🙂🩷

[@ShonanMiura]

The advice at "8:20" of going to family therapy is not something I would have considered in such a situation but makes a lot of sense. Just being able to open up and share with someone outside of the situation is probably very helpful.

[@DoNotTellMeLater]

“Just live your life.” No 2 families are the same. ❤

[@auntienem]

Interesting to see how he responds to different caregivers, with mom he was very vocal, with his caregiver he was looking straight at her and obviously listening, then with dad he was quiet and self soothing. Wishing him and his family the best

[@nbonegre24]

Love my handsome Bret 🥰🥰🥰

[@Jesus_Saves_Believers]

You are pure awesome! A true earth angel. God bless you! Thank you for your service to God's children.

[@rudemaminsynek5925]

You are such a special person and it's clear how much Bret and his family adore you. Its heartwarming seeing how the two of you interact, picking up on the little nuances in each other's movements and vocalizations, it seems so intuitive and natural. Like you've known each other your whole lives and are totally comfortable. Just warm and soothing vibes. I'll bet you're a wonderful momma and friend. It's really cool that you listen to music together and sneak in some of your faves too haha. It was my dream to work with developmentally disabled/cognitively impaired children and adults, in high school I was fortunate enough to be one of 12 students selected to work with these special people, and 20 years later it's still the most fulfilling thing I've had the privilege to participate in. I have fond memories of every one of those kids (even Aletha, who socked me in the face and gave me a nosebleed in the HS swimming pool!) and think of them often. What I would do to be given the chance to do it again... Keep doing what you're doing, your presence is invaluable ❤

[@deaf2819]

@nbonegre24 what is your accent? I hear African regions , I hear some carribean influences and some Louisiana sounds lol. Thank you for your hard work, it does not go unnoticed. Hopeful someday society will reward people who make the sacrifice and show selflessness for others beyond the typical fanfare behind what we colloquially would refer to as “heroes”. You’re a hero.

[@mollyram2997]

He LOOOOVES you♥🙏🏼❤‍🩹🤍 wow. What an impact you’ve made on this young man’s life. So beautiful to watch and witness:). We all think you are just beyond awesome 👏

[@shaleamontanez4591]

You're amazing!!

[@ProveAllThings1Th-5-21]

Everyone, including Bret, is just beautiful. The dad is so strong and supportive, the mom, so nurturing and loving, the sister's love and compassion melts my heart and the caregiver is just awesome! Bret is a handsome young man that is so blessed to receive all the love and kindness he needs and deserves.

[@rabeechowdhury]

Bret being handsome is super obvious. Just look at his jawline. He has a gigachad jaw.

[@positivelastaction3957]

Hi Bret!! So wonderful that he has such loving and supportive parents.

[@kathleencratty823]

He seems totally relaxed around his caregiver God bless

[@KT-Kaboom]

What a lovely family!! It's clear that Bret has touched the lives and hearts of everyone who's met him. His parents are so warm and open, his sister clearly loves her brother with all her heart, and his caretaker is so sweet and fun! Thank you to Bret and his family for this interview and to Chris for doing it!

[@whitehrl]

@@KT-Kaboom i'm llllllllo

[@almo33YO]

Can this caregiver come make me get out of the house?? She is a beautifully radiant angel on earth. Seems like such a fun person to be around. Love how much she and Bret adore each other. ❤

[@ohkay2090]

I would like to join music class! 😊

[@11AceHearts11]

I was just thinking the same thing when I found your comment

[@TheDirtyWork]

Aww- I know how you feel lol! It's a lonely culture.

[@11AceHearts11]

@@TheDirtyWork it truly is

[@SloopJohnB91]

SBSK videos always leave me with a happy/sad feeling. Happy that there are so many amazing family members and caretakers who dedicate their lives to loving a person with special needs, but sad because you really do see the toll it takes on these people. Thanks SBSK for the great work you do, and for these amazing families and their caretakers.

[@doomhead2332]

Special needs isn't a choice after all.

[@StoicMind707]

❤

[@DanielGarcia-uq7vu]

These videos humble me and remind me that life is a once in a lifetime experience and that we should all be kind to others and help as much as we can to make a difference in someone lives.

[@KristenLB]

Amen to that

[@Outnumbered001]

Hi Brett, my name is Jacob. I hope you have a great day today! And a Very Merry Christmas to you and all your love ones. 💗💖

[@whitehrl]

🎉❤proud

[@FoxOfFiction]

You have a merry christmas too ❤

[@MamaStyles]

Merry Christmas Jacob❤

[@Outnumbered001]

Merry Christmas ⛄🎁

[@cindys.9688]

Merry Christmas Jacob!🎄❤️

[@spacewurm]

His caregiver is an angel. Just amazing.

[@jamesraymor]

Merry Christmas to the sbsk community!

[@cindys.9688]

Merry Christmas Fellow SBSK Community Member! Praying you are blessed in a special way.🎄❤️

[@tandiparent1906]

🎄A Very Merry & Safe Christmas Everyone!!❤

[@Jimsalos]

Same to you!

[@mollyram2997]

Merry XMas and happy New Year🙏🏼

[@JC-pm4ct]

Happy 2025 everyone!!

[@Monk-eee2]

1:36 this really and truly is the BEST ADVICE to "just live your life, there is no pill to fix everything" learning as well as understanding that not everything needs to have a reason why it is, can be so freeing. Thanks for sharing your lives with us, happy holidays.

[@sumpurnis]

Bret is just awesome! He's having a great and caring family and a great caregiver! Some of folks don't have it and only could wish for it, sadly.

[@MollyBarth8601]

Oh my goodness he loves his caregiver so much you can see it in his eyes!!

[@KenSeguin-ur9zb]

Brett is wonderfully expressive. An American Mr. Bean. The best part is he is obviously from a loving and kind home. Brett you are a blessing to all who know you! I hope you can experience the fun of bike trails, model train videos and comedies. Thank you for being kind.😊

[@Dannie_Mae_Jay]

Such a good reminder for me to love my family where they are at unconditionally. Unconditional love is such a powerful thing.

[@blueboltshrimp]

ohhh 🥺🥺🥺🥺 it's such a delight that his caregiver loves him so much and that they hope that other people with disabilities are loved like bret is loved

[@mothmanifest]

Wow. When she said “he was the perfect child”. That is exactly how I was described as a baby. It was my grandmother that pointed out to my young parents that there was something wrong with me because I never cried and never wanted for anything like a normal baby. Instead of listening to her they took offense and I was not diagnosed with anything until adulthood. Needless to say growing up was really hard for me I was bullied by not only other children but worst for me was teachers who at the time had no sympathy or skills to deal with my unique issues. Home life was dysfunctional and violent with substance abuse. And I had autism, poor eyesight and was mostly non-verbal but no one seemed to notice or care. I was on my own. The world is not easy on anybody but disabled people have it extra hard if there is no help.

[@ChicaPaquito]

Being so early postpartum is so emotional, but Brett’s sister is killing it ❤ What a sweet, amazing sister. Brilliant family, all around!

[@webguy943]

Wish this dude n his fam the best. They seem like a good family.

[@Teslaechar]

Beautiful parenting

[@celestialknight2339]

“We seem to agree on everything we talk about-he never tells me I talk too much” 😂😂😂 Dad’s gentle humor is too funny & wholesome! ❤ Love this family.

[@MalphasAstaroth]

This family and caregiver are so sweet, their outlook on life and the way they love him is so beautiful. It is so nice to meet Bret and all of you :)

[@jeremiahallyn4603]

He has the best caregiver anyone could ask for! She is such a sweet person 🙏

[@chris70341]

Bless people like Brett’s sister, we need more people like her in this world. Sending love from California ❤ 4:31

[@FEED_ME_A_STRAY_CAT]

You can tell he was sad about her crying, such a sweet family

[@bobmanfre5083]

His Caregiver is a GEM!

[@TaylorJohnson-ur8ek]

She's pure love. No money can buy....

[@beaualoevv]

@@TaylorJohnson-ur8ekwithout money she wouldn’t do it 😂

[@memyself7956]

I wasn't ready for this to end. Bret has a beautiful family & caregiver. He is right where he's supposed to be. Thank you for sharing a little bit of his life with us. Happy New Year.

[@susanyates8038]

It’s great that Brett is happy and comfortable and loved. So glad his caregiver is such a jewel! Everyone is handling the situation so well!

[@mythical.martinez1609]

Man, he's handsome. first video of yours I've seen in a while and I always find myself humbled and my faith restored each time.

[@cathylindeboo.9598]

The mom is so sweet with Brett. And he touches her so gently... Sweet dad and sister and caregiver, too.

[@viralkhakher8447]

I love his caregiver. She treats him like a neurotypical adult. Love it.

[@rivki_palattt]

I just can’t imagine how complicated it must have been at the beginning but thank you because Brett is surrounded by wonderful people, I send all my respects, love and strength for his parents who are human but with the strength of gods 💛🕯️

[@brenp01]

The dad is so right. So many family's struggling on their own and need serious help. The access to those resources to caregivers and doctors and what not is so needed. I hope for a better world and that more people can have a family like Brett's. They seems so wonderful and so does the caregiver

[@abcdefg54321x]

That caregiver is a godsend (in addition to his super supportive family).

[@xiomanaxoxoxo3212]

That’s incredible that he goes the bathroom it’s an amazing routine and very very hard to achieve with severe non verbal , mostly because you need caregivers who are patient and willing to commit to getting there. Amazing family .Remarkable . ❤

[@perspgold8945]

I love the sense of humor of the dad, the loving mom, and of course Brett. And we all drool some, Brett. No shame there

[@katherineelisabethbrown4751]

Hi Brett, I love the way you show your affection and appreciation to your family and friends. Thanks for being on SBSK so we could meet you and appreciate you too!

[@woodyto]

Bret reminds me of my uncle Raul, he had meningitis disease when he was very young, and was left with after-effects, he had less mobility, although he walked he did so with difficulty, mentally he was like a small child, he knew how to say a few words, like the names of 2 of his 6 siblings, mom and dad. When I say that he reminds me it is in terms of certain very similar gestures, in addition to the fact that he ground his teeth in the same way, and he crossed his legs and held his hands in the same way, he also had convulsions. My grandmother took care of him until the day of his death, he was, I don't remember, I think he was 43 years old, and she took care of the last 18 years alone since she was widowed. Greetings from Argentina

[@mollyram2997]

Ohh that’s fascinating to hear especially since they said he initially was okay. Hmm

[@sweetliliana70]

You can tell the love his caregiver & he have for each other! I worked with many cp kids as a home Health nurse. Definitely loved my kiddos👏❤️🤗

[@buttersalsa4947]

At 3:50 where his mom is talking about where his older sister was so proud of him brought me to immediate tears and I never cry!! Truly amazing

[@socktheratking]

i saw this too ! he seemed so happy and you can tell they really love each other 💚 i’m glad you saw it too :)

[@Miigz]

What a great family including the caretaker. Happy holidays. 🙏🏼

[@lIIIIIllll]

1:57 My wife doesn't like when I say "it is what it is" but it really transforms your outlook on life and makes things easier.

[@jg3898]

Amen

[@mirandastephens4586]

I need to adopt this thinking

[@EphemeralProductions]

Poor guy. I do feel for him! He seems to be the sweetest! ❤❤❤. Big hugs to him!

[@terryholt3704]

We need more caregivers like this one!! I’m a retired RN and I’ve seen good care and sometimes not-so-good care. These caregivers deserve much more money than they are paid and they deserve our respect!

[@SkipWeiland]

Bret’s caregiver always arrives early, with a smile and cheerful attitude. I’ve never seen her in a bad mood. I’ve heard that some people are born with a “servants heart”, and that would certainly be true here. She really loves Bret, and we have learned so much from her.

[@abdullahak2204]

I'm sure it would've been frustrating to not get a diagnosis and not see Bret improve much at school and in therapy.... but u guys kept going and that's what matters!!! Awesome parents, sister and caregiver!

[@benjiebenjamin7810]

I think there's more to Bret than what's realized. I saw recognition & behavioral differences & noted he was sensitive to his sister's emotions. Glad he's loved & appreciated ❤🤗!

[@kathya8760]

What a delightful loving family. You are truly role models for families facing difficult circumstances and getting thru it together. Merry Christmas from Florida.

[@nancysangma615]

His whole demeanor changes everytime his mom is near. Relaxed and smiling. Bless the family ❤❤

[@Truthwinz]

What a loving family and I wish them all the very best! Awesome care giver! Merry Christmas 🎄 ❤🇨🇦

[@nataliemadrigal899]

Just watching Brett I instantly relaxed. Wow. He has a real effect even on strangers. 😊

[@ajaxon2328]

They have so much love for him you can see it in thier faces I can almost feel it radiating through my phone this is so awesome that he has such a loving family this truly has made my heart smile. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@mollyram2997]

Such an outpouring of love. This was so special right

[@Mr.Winston-the-third]

Everyone was great, but Bret’s sister is such a pure soul. She’s so genuine and emotional as she shared about Bret.

[@smokeysarcade6306]

It's makes proud to his family helping him and loving him No matter what, Bret your an amazing guy I hope your enjoy every day of your life and meet more amazing people.

[@dk237]

His sister being so emotional and the story the mother told about her bringing him to show and tell in 3rd grade tells you how much she loves Bret and how special their relationship is. Wonderful family! I noticed how calm he is around his caregiver. She’s so beautiful.

[@lovingmayberry307]

What an honor to meet Brett and his wonderful parents and sister. And omg, how lucky is he to have such an amazing caregiver!! Wishing you all peace this holiday season. ❤

[@f.u.b.u5915]

He’s so attentive with this caregiver!!! What a blessing all the people in his life and Brett are

[@monicamacdonald882]

I have the feeling this sweet young man understands every…single..word..he hears…

[@XfrankiejoX]

I Live in louisiana did an interview for a family with a daughter who has these exact symptoms!!! the feeding tube situation, the seizures, the fact that they are both physically disabled and nonverbal. Im absolutely blown away that i have came across another person with symptoms that relate to hers on tbe internet. the family has been searching for a diagnosis her whole life, shes in her 40s. I wish i could get these families to contact eachother and maybe help eachother. im absolutely blown away right now about this and will be sending them the link to this video!

[@martymongoose3418]

You know what I desperately hope and pray for everyone?? That this young man gets diagnosed and treated asap.

[@danika6850]

Why? He can’t be “cured”. They’ve made peace.

[@stephsmanicshenanigans8017]

I am a 24/7 caregiver for my grandma that has dementia. It is sooo tough but also have such a hard time trusting anyone else. Going to try a day care but respite (at least her going somewhere else) is not really an option because it’s more disruptive to the routine than worth the “break” it would give. I am envious of the community they have! Friends even that check in, amazing! So many family even have left since my grandma was diagnosed and of course more so as she has progressed with it. Hugs and happiness for this family and their caregiver! 🤗

[@Shadowlanddream]

I am my mom's full time caregiver for 13 years. She has dementia. It is literal self sacrifice when you have no help from family. My mom gives any home help a really hard time. It is a very isolating life for me but I love her. There's so much I could say... This families support is awesome.

[@ashleycouncil]

What an absolute gem of a family. Wow. Brett is awesome too. This was amazing, I’m tearing up.

[@nibbler1041]

He seems very calm around his care giver! You can tell he loves her.

[@mamaromi4773]

These parents are the G.O.A.T. of all parents. We all need to be amazing parents like Brett has, I wish the family nothing but the best.

[@mallorym.]

17:36 this broke me because not everyone has a family that loves them as much as they love Bret 😭❤️ that mother is really special

[@deschroma.]

So touching to see the amount of love they have for Bret! The caregiver is beaming with affection. Beautiful channel.

[@dianewilner6115]

I am so in love with this family. They are so open about their lives with Brett. Brett’s aid is amazing too.

[@Blitches-SLXM]

sweetest parents. good people