A Quadriplegic and his Caregiving Wife (

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Special Books by Special Kids

3 жыл бұрын

Cole is a spinal cord injury survivor who is now a quadriplegic. While rehabbing after his accident Cole saw Charisma, who worked at the clinic. He instantly experienced butterflies in his stomach and felt drawn to her.
Charisma is now Cole’s wife and caregiver. She hopes that when others hear their story, they see the two are in love and have a beautiful marriage.
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@coleandcharisma
@coleandcharisma 2 жыл бұрын
Now that you got your comments back, we had to come thank you again, here! It was such a pleasure working with you and we hope to see you again!
@Ella-fv4hm
@Ella-fv4hm 2 жыл бұрын
We love you guys!!!
@sagasjogren2994
@sagasjogren2994 2 жыл бұрын
absolutely love you guys!!
@MomMom-kc4ee
@MomMom-kc4ee 2 жыл бұрын
This video of you two made my day, and reminded me to stay positive which I have a hard time doing at times. Please do your best to ignore mean people.I am 68 years old and have never ever understood meaness.
@andieluke1366
@andieluke1366 2 жыл бұрын
Indeed! Was so happy I could finally comment on this video. You guys make me go awwww haha... love your channel too!
@calypso7636
@calypso7636 2 жыл бұрын
I went straight to this video to send my support! I'm subscribed to you guys, your channel is so fun!
@atari_rx
@atari_rx 2 жыл бұрын
"She just has a way of making me feel like I'm sixteen again" That's so sweet and genuine.
@neveragetv
@neveragetv Жыл бұрын
Very positive Vibes
@alejandromoreno5056
@alejandromoreno5056 11 күн бұрын
that was totally corny
@UncleScorch
@UncleScorch 2 жыл бұрын
My wife is quadriplegic as the result of a car accident in 1984 - we just celebrated our 30th anniversary this summer. Watching this young couple makes me smile - my hopes for them are for as rewarding a life as a married couple as my wife and I have been blessed with. God bless 🙂
@sisterindeen8333
@sisterindeen8333 2 жыл бұрын
Youre very positive please start a youtube channel if possible
@melissacarthy5896
@melissacarthy5896 2 жыл бұрын
Gorgeous Charrisma
@GabbyTTran
@GabbyTTran 2 жыл бұрын
Dunkleguy, wow, that is amazing. Kudos to you sir congratulations to you and your wife, as a disabled person who was born this way, this is a extremely beautiful video, I am so happy for Cole!
@TrulyYoursKelly
@TrulyYoursKelly 2 жыл бұрын
Wow. 1984 is a very long time ago and 1984 is the year that I was born and I am almost 38 years old.
@yvonneanders8547
@yvonneanders8547 2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@rosierennie5867
@rosierennie5867 Жыл бұрын
"She's cool..." With the blush. Oh my days he's still so smitten 🥰🥰🥰
@francescajones8722
@francescajones8722 2 жыл бұрын
Do not let ignorant people damage your relationship. I have been happily married to a ‘white man’ for 45 years! We have been racially slurred on many occasions, but LOVE prevails.
@madeleinempondo5682
@madeleinempondo5682 2 жыл бұрын
Cole and Charisma, do.not let jealous people destroy your relationship they see deeply love light and many opportunities in your both life and they try to pull you guys down, be very careful. I love you guys ,l wish good luck.
@SaloniSingh19
@SaloniSingh19 2 жыл бұрын
amen
@sb416
@sb416 2 жыл бұрын
People are hurting inside and that’s why they hurt others. Pay them no mind, 45 years is a long time to be together and your love for each other is beautiful 💕
@IkesPimpHand
@IkesPimpHand 2 жыл бұрын
Don't ever let people stand in between you and your love
@CeliaTyree
@CeliaTyree 2 жыл бұрын
That's horrible and it sucks you have to go through that. Sending you lots of love and good wishes for your marriage xx
@TK-pm9mx
@TK-pm9mx 2 жыл бұрын
I'd disagree slightly on 'normal relationship' - it is very unusual to see so much mutual respect and such a deep connection between partners. I would call this an 'ideal relationship' instead... This really made me happy - diversity is indeed a blessing. Thank you for sharing your story guys! All the best
@omardatheyusfyusf3686
@omardatheyusfyusf3686 2 жыл бұрын
Dathe
@jeanineberna8458
@jeanineberna8458 2 жыл бұрын
Why can’t it be a normal relationship? Please update me on what’s normal? Normal is what the couple or individuals feel comfortable with. I absolutely know this because I am married to a quadriplegic & we met when he was already injured. Our love is ‘normal’, actually probably better than other ‘normal people ‘. So, 42 yrs later, I can brag about our life , it IS NORMAL!😜👍🏻💥🤗 Wake up, humanity!🤓
@TK-pm9mx
@TK-pm9mx 2 жыл бұрын
@@jeanineberna8458 as i said, it looks way too good to be ’normal’ - that’s why i named it ideal. At least i would like people to see something like that when i and my spouse interact and look at each other.
@jeanineberna8458
@jeanineberna8458 2 жыл бұрын
@@TK-pm9mx I am sorry, I think I misunderstood your comment. However, we can ask, what are normal relationships? They’re normal to the ones experiencing it!
@TK-pm9mx
@TK-pm9mx 2 жыл бұрын
@@jeanineberna8458 Jeanine, no worries and thank you for your kind reply! It is definitely true that we all define ’normal’ differently (or have different connotations) - for me, it is something average. And I would wish for everybody that their relationships be much, much better than that. Perhaps I also should be clear that in my opinion, disability definitely isn’t an obstacle for full, meaningful, compassionate and loving relationships.
@laurawilliams2208
@laurawilliams2208 2 жыл бұрын
This woman is GORGEOUS. She is so happy, so positive. What an inspiration this lovely couple is!
@myjwarrior5409
@myjwarrior5409 2 жыл бұрын
My brother became a quadriplegic from the neck down at 26 yrs old and on a vent. (Bc his diaphragm was also paralyzed) I was his nurse and sister depending on the moment. When he saw this beautiful relationship, it gave him a lot of hope. They truly inspired him to want to try and live. He started doing much better after watching their channel. Sadly, he suddenly and unexpectedly passed away 2.5 years ago. We were extremely close and I miss him every day!
@ralucanelson5686
@ralucanelson5686 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss! Brakes my heart knowing, that he started to be hopeful, and than he passed away! I’m truly sorry for your and your families loss 😢🙏🏻
@farapipsqueek636
@farapipsqueek636 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry.
@woleysmoley3007
@woleysmoley3007 Жыл бұрын
I’m very sorry. He sounds like he was a good guy and deserved the best
@Purpleiciousbabe
@Purpleiciousbabe Жыл бұрын
😮 hugs x! I am glad he had hope x
@motorheadforlife9431
@motorheadforlife9431 Жыл бұрын
​@R Voit- She was talking about a ventilator machine. Her brother couldn't breathe independently due to the severeness his spinal injury. That's why he needed a ventilator or vent to help him breathe.
@Anonymous-ng4wc
@Anonymous-ng4wc 2 жыл бұрын
Bro I can’t get over how attractive they both are. Such gorgeous people
@jemportal4166
@jemportal4166 2 жыл бұрын
Charisma is so beautiful. Her and Cole's whole union is just absolutely beautiful, they both seem like amazing people. I wish them the best of everything!
@cluster5116
@cluster5116 Жыл бұрын
They're so wonderful Keep it the way God ordained it to be. Love you both.
@neveragetv
@neveragetv Жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple..
@mitsukuni24
@mitsukuni24 2 жыл бұрын
I just love how big they smiles get when they r thinking about each other
@faithstar7454
@faithstar7454 2 жыл бұрын
We don't fall in love with a body- we fall in love with a soul. And that's a good thing because our bodies are constantly changing as we grow older each day and at any time any one of us can have something happen that impacts our body and renders it different then it used to be. Cole and Charisma are two beautiful souls that fell in love. They both have such a beautiful humility about them it is a pleasure to see such a lovely, kind and caring relationship!
@angeladavis1570
@angeladavis1570 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@TheCalico72
@TheCalico72 2 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@rachelroberts2955
@rachelroberts2955 2 жыл бұрын
@@angeladavis1570 we ujm to
@walekengwira3468
@walekengwira3468 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@joycedominguez1828
@joycedominguez1828 Жыл бұрын
So very well said. Thank you.
@laraazevedo7437
@laraazevedo7437 2 жыл бұрын
These people saying that she couldn't have had 'any other white man if not a disabled one' and that 'he wouldn't be with her if he wasn't on a chair', HAVE THEY ACTUALLY LOOKED AT HER??? Girl looks like a super model, both of them are ridiculously good-looking..
@reedabrat1165
@reedabrat1165 2 жыл бұрын
Wows so there’s ppl in these comment that are mad that she’s with a white man
@Kakwasi
@Kakwasi 2 жыл бұрын
Charisma is very pretty and intelligent
@pinkladybathbody1127
@pinkladybathbody1127 2 жыл бұрын
I think persons are trying to understand why would someone that’s perfectly ok get married to someone who is a quadriplegic. I guess that’s why they say the things they do. I think the questions might be a bit offensive but naturally curious on their part.
@lix1916
@lix1916 2 жыл бұрын
Envy for sure
@reliza93
@reliza93 2 жыл бұрын
@@pinkladybathbody1127 who cares? He’s deserving of love too. Some people are just hateful and jealous.
@kimbok5971
@kimbok5971 2 жыл бұрын
Love this couple. They are so cute, so real about everything. I am saddened that Charisma is treated so horribly by ignorant people. I feel racism will never go away and that is a sad commentary about our world today.
@genevievenguema682
@genevievenguema682 2 жыл бұрын
🙏🙏🙏
@Yutah1981
@Yutah1981 2 жыл бұрын
I don't even think it's about racism. It's just that there are people who like to see dirt everywhere. These people insult everybody. If she was white, they'd be still slurring her, they would just choose something else to pick on.
@Gabtube252
@Gabtube252 2 жыл бұрын
Bitter losers like to hit down on vulnerable targets, best to not pay attention to them as their opinion stems from spite and ignorance.
@amorxlntwa8
@amorxlntwa8 2 жыл бұрын
To Karisma: Do you really believe if the "shoe was on the other foot," you would be taken care of and treated the same? "GET OUT!"
@analuciamedeiros4828
@analuciamedeiros4828 11 ай бұрын
Her name being Charisma is just the greatest thing, it suits her SO WELL!
@a.d.w8385
@a.d.w8385 8 ай бұрын
Shes truly one of those rare sweet people. She deserves all good things. Shes truly a kind person.
@jfox3507
@jfox3507 2 жыл бұрын
"Everyone is deserving of love" and they are so in sync and adorable
@Kinmoonify
@Kinmoonify 8 ай бұрын
Im 35 with the same injury as Cole (injured for 20 years), they remind me of how great life can be with the right person. Thank you 😊
@elip241
@elip241 18 күн бұрын
may I ask how you got your injury? I hope you have found, or find, your right person. you deserve to be loved
@Kinmoonify
@Kinmoonify 17 күн бұрын
@@elip241 I did the same thing cole did in a way, i dove in shallow water and bad stuff happened. Thank you for the love appreciate that
@alyssacashion1474
@alyssacashion1474 2 жыл бұрын
I love how hes throwing little jokes in there too. "I thought I just hit a nerve wrong. I did hit a nerve wrong, my spinal cord nerve." Idk why but that made me giggle the way he worded it
@OneMoreRedNightmare
@OneMoreRedNightmare 2 жыл бұрын
I love when someone has the ability to laugh at themselves. It's good therapy, kinda frees you in a way.
@psic.aracelimartinez
@psic.aracelimartinez 2 жыл бұрын
OMG!!! He has the most beautiful, adorable laugh I've ever listen. He's soooo handsome, and she's GORGEOUS!!!!
@DragonAngel97
@DragonAngel97 2 жыл бұрын
They can’t keep their eyes from each other, this is what ‘in-love’ looks like, just beautiful!
@chchwoman9960
@chchwoman9960 2 жыл бұрын
20 years ago I had a 2 year, live in relationship with a man with the same level injury as Cole. He also had a diving accident. He was a handsome and charismatic man - all the women carers fancied him. Sadly he died at the young age of 47
@coralee7801
@coralee7801 2 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss.
@neveragetv
@neveragetv Жыл бұрын
Positive Vibes
@ScoobyDoozy
@ScoobyDoozy 2 жыл бұрын
This is my third comment but- I admire so much the intentional listening Cole and Charisma practice , never speaking over one another, listening intently, smiling and nodding proudly. It’s a beautiful and inspiring thing to see. I’ll be taking this lesson to practice in my own life. Thank you both
@Grace-el1qq
@Grace-el1qq 4 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏❤exactly this.
@mika4900
@mika4900 9 ай бұрын
Their love for each other is contagious
@sagasjogren2994
@sagasjogren2994 2 жыл бұрын
the way they just visibly light up with love and admiration when they talk about each other is so pure and beautiful to see. i wish them all the happiness
@storydates
@storydates 2 жыл бұрын
This video is so sweet. "People in love know." Glad Cole has felt so much meaning in the wake of such a trauma.
@storydates
@storydates 2 жыл бұрын
That said, I go to a new instagram friend's profile and like a bunch of their photos all the time... maybe I'm giving them the wrong idea. ha.
@airam-sj2172
@airam-sj2172 2 жыл бұрын
Charisma has such a innocent and genuine vibe. I also understand why Cole love her lovely smile.
@robinredwine1417
@robinredwine1417 2 жыл бұрын
It's kind of amazing that this couple, dealing with the racial and disability issue have such a better and healthier relationship than couples who deal with neither! God Bless you two always ❣️
@missangelguts9110
@missangelguts9110 2 жыл бұрын
The way she looks at him absolutely melts my heart 🥺
@americanmade-1
@americanmade-1 2 жыл бұрын
Even if she were his patient that's okay. My partner was my therapist at a rehab and we fell in love. We never dated until she no longer worked at that facility. We were essentially freinds for a year first. We celebrated 15 years together in March and I'm still as giddy as I was on our first date. We bought our first home her in Cali in 2014 and have 2 dogs and 2 cats. I struggle everyday, but her love has truly made it all worth it. I still struggle with the fact I have a disability and I don't tell anyone really....but I have love and my family. I have it all. Oh ya, she went on to get her LCSW and is a professor at a university and executive director of a wonderful non-profit serving impoverished women and children. She also created an art therapy class that should be in every school. She is the kindest person ever. In 15 years she has never been unkind to me. Never. I didn't even know that was humanly possible lol.
@FatiFleur-jn7ky
@FatiFleur-jn7ky 2 жыл бұрын
@auntdottie1
@auntdottie1 2 жыл бұрын
Oh you are so blessed. Thank God daily for her constant love and try to be worthy of it. So glad for you both!
@SGofLagos
@SGofLagos 2 жыл бұрын
How do stop crying when I read lovely write ups like this one ? There are truly kind humans… we should all be your partner… send my love to her. Bless you both
@stacycampbell1314
@stacycampbell1314 2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!!!
@ingridhenryherbert330
@ingridhenryherbert330 2 жыл бұрын
God is so good. Thank you for sharing your story. So beautiful.
@jwilcox4726
@jwilcox4726 2 жыл бұрын
She is beautiful and it's inside and out. She is an empath and you can trust her she is an old soul. God bless you both. Have a wonderful life.
@CruzLegend3
@CruzLegend3 2 жыл бұрын
They’re so darn cute!! The fact that she openly confessed she googled wheelchair weddings is cute!! When there is a connection, you’re literally excited to learn everything about them. They’re sucha strong couple! Love this!
@jasmineetienne3361
@jasmineetienne3361 2 жыл бұрын
Most honest and authentic interview ever. They love each other deeply.
@nashdome
@nashdome 2 жыл бұрын
I look at you guys and my eyes water cause as a disabled person who feels like she has had nothing but failures in the romantic department, i want something like what you guys have. It's palpable, the love and ease you have with one another. It's so encouraging and makes my heavy heart feel lighter.
@BrandNewBlueShoes
@BrandNewBlueShoes 2 жыл бұрын
You'll find it dear, believe me, you will. Work on loving yourself and love will eventually come to you (this is the same advice I give to myself). I know it must be hard to have had so many disappointment but one day you'll meet someone who will make it all feel worth it 💛
@nashdome
@nashdome 2 жыл бұрын
@@BrandNewBlueShoes thanks for the encouragement. Lots of internet hugs your way! 💕
@kikiwyls
@kikiwyls 2 жыл бұрын
There is someone special out there for you… Work on loving yourself. Loving God and accepting yourself for the beautiful treasure you are. Love will find you when you least expect it 💕💝
@aaronjames3228
@aaronjames3228 2 жыл бұрын
As a guy in a wheelchair, I can relate
@melissadove4013
@melissadove4013 2 жыл бұрын
Never give up on love ❤️ you deserve it just as much as anyone!!
@elishaniesen5711
@elishaniesen5711 11 ай бұрын
Omg how can anyone not see how gorgeous Charisma is both inside and out!! Both of you have striking good looks and personalities! Racist and judgemental people are worthless in this world! Keep being wonderful people!❤
@user-lb5yu5bd3e
@user-lb5yu5bd3e 5 ай бұрын
You said this so well. They are wonderful people. I remember thinking they are such a good looking couple; those dimples, blue eyes and both have beautiful smiles, but I also noticed they are beautiful on the "inside" too! 💞😊
@BlueBerry-tc6tz
@BlueBerry-tc6tz Жыл бұрын
You can see the love hearts around these two
@peacefulguitar38
@peacefulguitar38 2 жыл бұрын
The love these two share is so pure and beautiful. Two souls who came to this Earth together to find each other. Meant to be. ❤️
@Carolina-cb6hp
@Carolina-cb6hp 2 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful poetry you wrote, pretty woman.
@nancyollis1049
@nancyollis1049 2 жыл бұрын
I was blessed with an amazing daughter In law who is black, and have me an amazing granddaughter who now has 2 beautiful girls. My family accepted them so sad people are prejudice, God is not prejudice. ALOHA
@eu3057
@eu3057 2 жыл бұрын
I hope they ACCEPTED your family, too?
@lanathechinadoll
@lanathechinadoll 2 жыл бұрын
i'm blushing just seeing these two have a conversation, seriously wholesome how both of them seem to be just as in love as the other, pure love!
@e.Kennedy246
@e.Kennedy246 11 ай бұрын
I HAVE LOVED THIS COUPLE FOR YEARS AND STILL DO!
@aljanssen7748
@aljanssen7748 2 жыл бұрын
Cutest couple ever!
@sherylbrown6943
@sherylbrown6943 2 жыл бұрын
I see 2 young adults who love each other ,I don’t see colour or disability . This is a beautiful relationship and cole and charisma are soulmates, meant to be . 🥰🥰
@rcpetty16
@rcpetty16 3 ай бұрын
I absolutely love Cole and Charisma! They are such a cute couple! I wish them very much health and happiness in life!!❤❤❤
@lisaengle6678
@lisaengle6678 2 жыл бұрын
How sweet...so glad that Cole and Carisma can have a dream marriage. Ive had Cerebral Palsy since birth and am 62. I have a wonderful caregiver and feiends. So thankful.
@mimikaps7358
@mimikaps7358 2 жыл бұрын
Charisma is beautiful inside and out 😊🤗
@qwandary
@qwandary 2 жыл бұрын
The intersection between racism and ableism is sooo hard to talk about and process. I'm usually the only POC in a relationship, and the more disabled one, which makes it really hard to get my partners to understand all the aspects I'm battling. While it's hard for both of you, there's probably a good chance to both understand each other because you both have your own experiences with isms, and you're both feeling effects of both isms (so he is experiencing how racism effects you both, and she is experiencing how ableism effects you both), which is an important thing for your relationship. i'm so glad you're talking about this.
@malinia.20
@malinia.20 10 ай бұрын
This exactly!
@janeben-ami8754
@janeben-ami8754 2 жыл бұрын
I am white my late husband was African American. It was challenging at times. It was worth it! We were together for 25 years before he died this past Sept. The racial stuff is crazy but God is able
@seungminisamaterialgirl1420
@seungminisamaterialgirl1420 11 ай бұрын
Their relationship is so pure and cute😭🫶🏾
@laurenajkirby
@laurenajkirby 2 жыл бұрын
They are both so good-looking! And I appreciate them expressing the intersection of the different barriers and discrimination they both face.
@tatianagodoy5119
@tatianagodoy5119 2 жыл бұрын
The very first thing I thought when I started watching this video was how cute they were and how hard it is to find a relationship like that. You can feel the looooove, the happiness, the willingness to be with each other. They made me feel happy just by looking at them.
@kevinmurphy4946
@kevinmurphy4946 2 жыл бұрын
They have such golden heart not a lot of people have that perspective on love. I’m in a wheelchair and hope to find something similar to them🔥
@meowjakx3
@meowjakx3 8 ай бұрын
Omg, they’re so freaking cute. They’re the perfect couple!❤
@jobethk588
@jobethk588 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for addressing the issues you face because of racism as well as challenges of being in an interabled marriage. I once thought we lived somewhat in a post-rascist society. It is better to discuss the issue than to sweep it under the rug. Blessings to all of you!
@neveragetv
@neveragetv Жыл бұрын
Thank you..
@tinateoh9748
@tinateoh9748 2 жыл бұрын
It is so refreshing to see couples so in love with each other. May God bless you abundantly with a beautiful life together. Wishing you love always.
@chaozhouhoa360
@chaozhouhoa360 2 жыл бұрын
Gosh…. I just cannot stop watching these two lovebirds glowing. The world is a better place with their mission in mind.
@jazzyreyes6921
@jazzyreyes6921 5 ай бұрын
Thank you! I’m 79 and I never met anyone that wanted to marry me. You give me hope😢
@liedjesmetgebaren9735
@liedjesmetgebaren9735 4 ай бұрын
What a beautiful relationship do you two have. Powerfull and loving.
@pavelynerene744
@pavelynerene744 2 жыл бұрын
The way he looks at her! Wow. You really can see all the love he has for her. Same for her also, but his eyes are more expressive
@Mini-rt8bm
@Mini-rt8bm 2 жыл бұрын
They’re a beautiful couple! I watch them on here! Cole looked so shy lol cute!
@phemelom8611
@phemelom8611 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t say enough good things about Charisma. What a woman of character!
@naowright9308
@naowright9308 2 жыл бұрын
My sister in law is a blond haired, blue eyed, fair skinned American. Her husband is a brown eyed, black haired, dark skinned Mexican. They love each other and they get along well. I heard some people talk about how bad it was around the time she married him, but I never thought there was anything wrong with it. If you love someone you love them and skin color really doesn't matter.
@melissadove4013
@melissadove4013 2 жыл бұрын
I have Followed Cole and Charisma for a long time and it bothers me that people are mean to you guys - especially racial slurs towards Charisma ! She is pure positivity and love ❤️
@junewebb3838
@junewebb3838 2 жыл бұрын
I saw the beautiful wedding as of now. God is great. He is magnificent. The two of you are marvelous. You have his blessing in your life together. Congratulations on your union together. Continue loving one another. Jehovah God will continue blessing the two of you. Thumbs up 👍😻🤩💕🌹
@skating43
@skating43 9 ай бұрын
You two are so awesome..❤❤❤❤
@phemelom8611
@phemelom8611 2 жыл бұрын
Cole’s moment of honesty when he says all the things he’s not stoked about is so refreshing.
@shirleyschork1504
@shirleyschork1504 2 жыл бұрын
Such a beautiful couple! I'm so glad they found one another!
@hodgepodge7140
@hodgepodge7140 2 жыл бұрын
This video has helped me tremendously. Thanks to the both of you and SBSK for sharing this story. I've been so worried about my upcoming battles and surgeries from complications from radiation and breast cancer and that my husband will be my caretaker for the months to come and possibly for the rest of my life. You guys are amazing, inspiring and you've made a huge impact on my mental well-being. ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
@kittenbraden9800
@kittenbraden9800 2 жыл бұрын
Wishing you all the best, hodge podge! You got this.
@michiwoman
@michiwoman 2 жыл бұрын
Blessings.
@dasgelbevomei1
@dasgelbevomei1 2 жыл бұрын
@irisbradley8777
@irisbradley8777 10 күн бұрын
I love how much you love each other, like you’re still on your honeymoon. And you talk to each other about everything. You two are blessed!
@user-th4fm9uu4b
@user-th4fm9uu4b 9 ай бұрын
I am an an elderly person, this is the first time I ever hear such an aazing story. Everyone need to e loved irrespective of how he or she is.I am proud of you guys.May the Almighty bliss you.
@debraholz9756
@debraholz9756 2 жыл бұрын
Love your love story! The love of my life, my husband, and I very unexpectedly fell in love. He's black. I'm white. And he is high functioning autistic, and the sweetest, most decent, genius, talented human being I've ever known. I'm a little bit annoying and crazy lol Sadly, his mother didn't come to our wedding because they were upset that he was marrying a white woman. And some questioned me being with an autistic man. Our love is strong, steady, and sweet. Congratulations and bravo to you!
@NiteDriv3r
@NiteDriv3r 2 жыл бұрын
Loser NO NEED TO BRING RACE N DIS
@debraholz9756
@debraholz9756 2 жыл бұрын
@@NiteDriv3r it was relevant to MY story
@debraholz9756
@debraholz9756 2 жыл бұрын
@@NiteDriv3r also, they brought up race as a factor in their relationship
@chelseapoet3664
@chelseapoet3664 2 жыл бұрын
@@debraholz9756 I am sorry you just got attacked for no good reason. Sweet story. Blessings to your love.
@missyoudadk1407
@missyoudadk1407 2 жыл бұрын
That’s awesome! Refreshing to hear stories like yours.
@spiritualstars
@spiritualstars 2 жыл бұрын
She’s so animated happy… animated… good4her gd luck to both x
@toodleloo2253
@toodleloo2253 4 ай бұрын
Wow!- Cole, I was 🙏Praying for you hard at the time of your accident, when the goal was just for you to Survive such a bad accident!!.. (I lived in Richmond & would go to the trails on the James River every week!).. I'm so overjoyed that you met such an intelligent, very Uplifting, Beautiful Angel & Wife, & have had such a great, special, Blessed outcome!!-🙏
@lynettesmp
@lynettesmp 3 ай бұрын
I saw a comment on one of your other vids where a guy said "Charisma is so beautiful and I wish I could have someone to love me like that..." even in non-disabled relationships things are so hard and so sad...God bless you both.
@dinam8378
@dinam8378 2 жыл бұрын
Awww what a beautiful love they share awwww it's awesome
@SmittenandBitten
@SmittenandBitten 2 жыл бұрын
Charisma..... Amazing...... I can't even...... What a big soul
@KrissiCreates
@KrissiCreates 2 жыл бұрын
I love Cole and Charisma ! I've followed them since before their wedding. What they show in this video is who they are! Their love is palpable, easily seen with just the looks between them and the smiles on their faces. Throw in their dialog and it's a win win relationship. I love you two ! Thank you SBSK for featuring them !!
@D-me-dream-smp
@D-me-dream-smp 8 ай бұрын
This is the embodiment of a couple glowing with the pure happiness of being in love with someone who loves you back as equally and fiercely. The look on each person’s face when they are speaking about the other is the type of genuine love everyone deserves to find. A truly beautiful and inspiring relationship- not because of the differences or challenges they face but because of the incredible mutual respect, admiration and love they openly and freely share with each other. So many people are afraid to be vulnerable or to give of themselves wholly in a relationship, afraid of being hurt but to develop a true, genuine bond requires that we take that risk. You can see that being together genuinely lifts both of them up and nourishes their souls. I’m shocked and dismayed that being an interracial couple is still an issue for some people in this day and age.
@user-mb7du6sx4c
@user-mb7du6sx4c Ай бұрын
❤❤
@crisha721
@crisha721 2 жыл бұрын
what a beautiful couple, you can see in their eyes how they love each other. god bless them
@pdias8469
@pdias8469 2 жыл бұрын
This is real love. The two of them bring the best in each other. How glorious is this? They are growing together with extreme love for each other. Blessings eternally.
@EmmaSammon
@EmmaSammon 2 ай бұрын
Charisma and Cole, you are ‘ MAGICAL ‘. God Bless You Both!
@katdujka4760
@katdujka4760 15 күн бұрын
Im injured from a car accident. This helped out a lot. Thank you.
@deezedayze8550
@deezedayze8550 2 жыл бұрын
I just loved this interview, Cole and Charisma are an absolute delight, …… just so beautiful …. The love truly shines through❤️…
@lorenluxe8816
@lorenluxe8816 2 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy she addressed the race issue. Sad it happens.
@mauracadell
@mauracadell 8 ай бұрын
her name is charisma, that says it all, damn what a sweetheart and a loving couple
@VintageMillyBooks
@VintageMillyBooks 8 ай бұрын
I am horrified that people would comment so poorly regarding your race and your physical differences. You clearly are a solid, beautiful couple who love and respect eachother.
@KatWarhound
@KatWarhound 2 жыл бұрын
These two are SOOOO cute together!! Obviously perfect for each other. It's rare to see people so head over heels for each other! Just wonderful!!
@cghynd
@cghynd 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely LOVE seeing the way they talk about each other and the way they talk WITH each other too, it's so beautiful!
@annezamor5078
@annezamor5078 8 ай бұрын
Great interview
@pamhelms291
@pamhelms291 3 ай бұрын
They are the cutest couple! Love watching them together.
@ScoobyDoozy
@ScoobyDoozy 2 жыл бұрын
Man, 20 seconds in and I want to marry this couple myself. What beautiful, beautiful people inside and out. Cole has a wicked sense of humour too, that quip at 4:12 got me good. Edit- okay I think this is my favourite SBSK video. After my last serous relationship ended 4 years ago, I haven’t dated anybody. I now realise after this video, that I am letting my internalised ableism and beliefs that I’m not loveable because of my disability stopping me from looking for love. I’ve got self placed blinkers on. This video just lifted them in one go. I’m now following Cole and Charisma. Thank you so much Chris, Cole and Charisma ♥️
@pamreynolds6812
@pamreynolds6812 2 жыл бұрын
People feel they can say anything because they are anonymous . It is so amazing to me to hear what is being said to you guys. Your life is so great sometimes i am jealous. Keep on doing what you do. Your love shines through.
@helenegladney7929
@helenegladney7929 2 жыл бұрын
God put you two together and regardless love conquers all !!!
@rabeccainouye980
@rabeccainouye980 2 жыл бұрын
The irony that he met the love of his life because of this injury makes me emotional 😭
@humbertocervantes4438
@humbertocervantes4438 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple, and Charisma really has a name that reflects her personality, here's the definition for that word: "compelling attractiveness or charm that can inspire devotion in others". It was a pleasure to listen to you, I wish you the best.
@Jaylio
@Jaylio 2 жыл бұрын
The comments are back! This is relationship goals! 💕
@christineh_
@christineh_ 2 жыл бұрын
So glad the comments are back!! I wanted to express just how cute this couple is when I first watched the interview. 💗
@Rm0544
@Rm0544 2 жыл бұрын
My wife and I are interracial if that’s what those who want to call it that. First, they got it wrong, there’s only one race, the human race. Never as a white man have I acknowledged anyone who look at us different. God bless you both for your speaking out in a positive manner.
@nellyespinoza7325
@nellyespinoza7325 2 жыл бұрын
Pareja hermosa, sigan adelante con sus decisiones. Bendiciones.
@margaretmieczkowski9690
@margaretmieczkowski9690 2 жыл бұрын
What an adorable couple. You can feel the deep love they have for each other ❤️❤️❤️
@lucianobezerra4380
@lucianobezerra4380 9 ай бұрын
I'm so glad he found her to be the most important part of his life ! ❤❤❤❤❤
@jalanwb7469
@jalanwb7469 2 жыл бұрын
this was such a sweet episode. he shared how people make assumptions but his life is fuller than he ever could have imagined.
@Beccastyles_
@Beccastyles_ Жыл бұрын
These two are the real deal. They're so sweet to each other. I hope they stay together forever. ❤
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