Two Autistic Teen Orphans (A Story of Resilience and Survival)

Melina and Deimos are both autistic teen orphans and siblings. After surviving a traumatic childhood, they both were diagnosed with multiple mental health disorders. Melina says, "I haven't been living, but only surviving my whole life." She hopes that others will be nice instead of calling her weird.
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[@veryhotpocket]

thank you for the interview 💜

[@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids]

It was great to meet you Deimos!

[@C6lvxn]

Hi Deimos, I'm Calvin. I am 19 and autistic! I feel so empathetic towards you, I just want you to know there is another teenager out there struggling with autism, and the trauma of growing up undiagnosed autistic. I wish nothing but the best for you. Your friend, Calvin.

[@breathdontforgettobreath9839]

I'm so grateful for you both speaking about everything. Thank you. You helped me alot.

[@Merusclaws]

You’re amazing, brought tears to my eyes, I feel so much of your pain. I’d love to be your friend, keep going, you’re meant to be here🖤

[@Dollbaby630]

Subbed to you girl. Make videos. Raise awareness. U r beautiful ❤

[@crmelly]

thank you so much for interviewing me!!! it means so much to me

[@gemmadirenna7712]

Best wishes to you and your sibling ❤ thank you for sharing your story, it taught me a lot and helped me empathize with your struggles. Sending love to you both!

[@debbieschultz9768]

I’m so glad I got to meet you on this video. I think you are beautiful inside and out and my wish is that you have a life full of love and happiness❤❤

[@buppy.]

MELLLL hii its finn!!! im so proud of u for this interview

[@carinashero1215]

Thank you so much for sharing your story with us! Wrapping you in so much love ❤️🫂❤️

[@daniellaherget3878]

I’m not sure if my first comment posted - Both of your stories are truly impactful. You speaking out like this is so important. I’m honestly crying right now, because I see so much of myself and you. Especially my younger self ( I’m 28). You are both so bright, and clearly sweet. (Plus you like cat boys and beastars so you’re good in my book 😝) I hope you can truly heal. Don’t give up the good fight! A book that helps me even as an adult, is the little train that could. Maybe it would help you both 💗 it is silly like that really struggling and it does actually help ( in combination with other supports of course) best of luck 💗

[@beautiful_israelite_princess]

Oh my god when she said "Instead of living I've been surviving for most of my life" I felt that DEEP in my soul.. Jesus

[@CrisOnTheInternet]

That crushed me 😭

[@13lueBomber]

That’s life, simply just trying to survive, day after day, day in and day out, *repeat.* ♾️

[@bel7903]

Me too💔💙💔

[@JessicaBeschizza]

Same! Sat here crying 3 seconds into the video 😢😅

[@bearbro10]

​@13lueBomber well that ain't all of it

[@aurorarockman9389]

I’m really struck by the body language at 30:00. They looked a bit nervous and tense earlier in the video, but you can just see the sense of relief and love and support that they feel now that their uncle’s there. What a wonderful guy.

[@laurenm9203]

I noticed this too. Also when the dog came over 💕

[@DoABarellJo]

​@@Repent-and-believe-in-Jesus1wtf does that have to do with this conversation?

[@Tomluke5823]

​@@DoABarellJoits prolly a bot

[@lewando7687]

his deep voice is proably vibrating through the room. i feel calmer listening to him 😁

[@Jonion-onion]

I love how you can see him turn his head to make sure he can hear what they are talking about. He wants to make sure that they know they are being heard.

[@mementomori7266]

"Even if you've been through the ugly, you can make it beautiful." What a wonderful message!

[@cosmic_kysf]

Ok

[@Milkytears222]

@@cosmic_kysfwhat’s wrong with you

[@lightingthedarkremoteviewi8086]

They are very lucky they have each other and some support. Some never get that despite trying to get it over and over.

[@Deetroiter]

I don't know if they'll ever see my comments but I want them to know that they are so extremely strong and resilient. We all are grateful for you sharing your stories with us. Again, you two are so amazingly strong ❤

[@biglovebetterworldbetteryou]

They say its the thought that counts ! Well it does !

[@montauk081]

​@@biglovebetterworldbetteryou ♥️🥹that's the nicest reply to this beautiful comment

[@frederiquebarretteletourne7719]

😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝😝

[@cosmic_kysf]

😂😂

[@Melancholian]

@@Repent-and-believe-in-Jesus1 as an autist I agree

[@ANG3L0FM3RCY]

The dog bark and then "bro!" was so funny. I really wish these two beautiful people love and healing.

[@Meeeesje]

I'm always sad there aren't (more) questions about the pets. 😂 This was another cutie!

[@only900more2go]

The tension was so high with the tragic back story and then the pup just cuts it with the bark and then starts snorting into the cushions ignoring Deimos' spotlight. I have experienced similar when I tell my own intense stories and then something totally random and innocent just interrupts. It's irritating that it distracts you but also is so funny and helps sometimes too.

[@Elijah42069]

its like you are surprised that something normal can happen to these people hahaha

[@camaleonsacor1618]

@@only900more2go but maybe now I read you again and you were saying that you got distracted when you are the one talking haha. My bad is that is the case. Well she wasnt distracted tho xD

[@MoxyVerve]

You both deserve a mom whom knows their MOST important role is to: 1. Protect 2. Guide 3. Love UNCONDITIONALLY . I would be so proud to have children as brave and courageous as you both!

[@spaztor7723]

and a father

[@moralebooster8437]

Beautiful 💛

[@pianoreigns]

Or a DAD

[@juliansearcie1758]

Nah they need a father we protect and lead with love and truth not delusion

[@michaelatopalov1990]

Thanks for sharing your brave stories. You both are obviously beautiful inside and out, very intelligent, and growing healthier everyday. I send my hugs to you both! I am so sorry that people have hurt you by making fun of you. You have come so far, just don’t give upon your lives. God will use this pain in your lives to help others!

[@muslimah42]

Melina I’m a mom of a little autistic boy❤ you aren’t weird ! You look and sound lovely with a beautiful pure and intelligent soul ! I’ve went through a lot in my childhood and that’s why my biggest dream in life was to give my kids the best and most loving life possible. My biological mother had biopolar too with istrionic personality, and I went through a lot of abuse. I want you to know that it is possible to have a beautiful life full of people that love you and embrace everything about you even your hard past. ❤

[@mommyjo1325]

Well said! 💕

[@buppy.]

deimos and mel, its finn. I just have to say how proud i am of the both of you and how much i dearly treasure our friendships. i know i dont talk to you both as much as i used to but im so glad you are people i know!! thank you sbsk for giving them the space to talk about their stories, as they are genuinely some of the bravest people ive ever known

[@oodlesofaxolootls3655]

I'm so glad you know them, I really hope they see this! Maybe reach out to them and tell them you are proud of them to tell their story ❤ I really hope they know how much this helped me

[@heatherphelps7379]

They should see this. One of them responded with a comment up above! That's wonderful that you know them. Great and such strong individuals

[@bigsharon7263]

hi finn! its me, your girlfriend, i love you

[@biglovebetterworldbetteryou]

Holographic Kinetics ~ ( Aboriginal Healing )@@oodlesofaxolootls3655

[@buppy.]

@@bigsharon7263 hehe love you too babe

[@kaheivi]

i was diagnosed with autism at 17 and it felt like a weight lifted off of my shoulders. everything made sense for once. im so glad they find support in each other.

[@sbocaj22]

I figured out my autism at 21-22. And got my diagnosis at 23. I’m almost 25 now and felt the same way when I discovered my autism. Literally felt like someone took a big heavy rock filled pack off my shoulders. Suddenly eveything made else. Everything I spent my whole life trying to figure out finally had an answer. I’m so glad you were also able to experience this

[@phoenixc7245]

I figured out I'm autistic at 15-16. I'm 17 now and I still don't have that diagnosis even though I got tested. Everyone I know thinks I have autism ​@sbocaj22

[@Adrielle.]

@@cosmic_kysf Me :)

[@Adrielle.]

@@cosmic_kysf Do you want attention?

[@cosmic_kysf]

@@Adrielle. obviously

[@tamarblackburn4312]

Stories like this are why I want to be a foster parent, just to be able to give people a safe home where they don’t feel judged. Thank you for sharing.

[@yeralmuzika]

I feel the same way. I can't have kids because of personal conditions but always thought of adopting or fostering.... there's so many kids out there that deserve better homes ❤

[@gabriellarossi5925]

Same here! I've always wanted to adopt children ever since the time I came to know about it. There are just so many kids out there lacking homes, love, guidance, security. Even though I believe I can have children, I hesitate about having my own biologically and depriving another one already out there of what I could give them that others won't/can't.

[@morganbudreau8957]

These teens are so resilient. I have a dear friend who is autistic and a trauma survivor, so I know in a way how hard simply living can be. They need friends to have their backs.

[@kaylakain6039]

This doesn’t have anything to do with autism

[@Catlily5]

​@@kaylakain6039 I have autism and PTSD. They are showing the PTSD side more in this interview but that doesn't mean that they don't have autism as well.

[@catonyoutoob]

@@kaylakain6039 Autism plays a huge role in their story, their challenges, and even the lens through which they view and navigate the world. Saying this has nothing to do with autism is just ignorant. Being autistic comes with a unique set of struggles that are debilitating in their own right, and autistic people are significantly more likely to have complex trauma and other mental health problems.

[@MissBdmay]

Hearing her mom say she didnt like her... Sweetheart, you did nothing wrong. All you wanted was your moms love. Its NOT YOUR FAULT that your mother treated you terribly. Not even a little bit. I so hope you girls are doing well. And have someone you can turn to that cares about you.

[@annaautuori567]

I was called weird for as long as I can remember. As I became a teen, I began to embrace the word proudly. I'm 67 now and still proudly wave my "weird" flag but now I call it unique. I think you both are beautiful! I'm so sorry for what you went through.

[@Catlily5]

Me too. I am 48 and I like being different.

[@AA-cm3pd]

They're incredible and did not deserve their childhoods... I'm so glad they have their uncle now.

[@Periwinkle184]

Their childhood is a lot like mine. I'm not autistic though but I also started therapy recently. So far I'm diagnosed with depression, anxiety and PTSD and ADHD. Im happy I'm not alone in the world.

[@spiralghosts]

I feel like a lot of teens with a similar story and diagnoses to Melina and Deimos tend to get the "faker" treatment online, simply because of their age or gender or physical appearance. Glad to see them on here so people can see it's not so unbelievable. :) Wishing all the best to them.

[@ALGARIC]

Wdym faker treatment?

[@aaausername]

@@ALGARIC people telling you don't have those disorders based of a 20 second video they see of you online.

[@GinnyRamone]

So I've been sitting here for, like, almost 20 minutes trying to coalesce my thoughts and emotions into something that could be reasonably articulate. I'm also autistic and I have epilepsy, so there are a number of videos on this channel that I deeply resonate with, and as I've gotten older, most of these videos make me wish I could jump through my screen and hold these kids and be, I guess, a "mom friend" to them. I was deeply touched by the story of a couple girls, Haley and Ellie, who SBSK interviewed a few years ago, but this video really hit me on a profound level. As I was watching, my first thought was along the lines of, please, Adonai, let these two be in a safe and healthy place, so I am so happy that they have Michael and indeed appear to be safe and loved. Melina and Deimos, I hope you don't mind me saying so as a complete stranger, but I just want to say how incredibly proud I am of both of you. You've experienced so much pain and trauma, and that just isn't fair and you never deserved that, but you did survive, and you are clearly growing up into strong, smart, and compassionate young people, and I hope you can take some pride in that, and above all else, I hope that your future surrounds all of you with so much love, safety and support, because you both deserve nothing less.

[@pinlight97]

Well said! As a mom I completely agree.

[@user-ug1gm7vb8u]

Both are extremely intelligent and they are articulate. Im glad they have each other.

[@jillwatkins78]

Only have way through the video and I’m amazed at the intelligence of these girls! I’m Jases Mom from the last video and Chris went to see these sweet girls right after leaving our home. He didn’t tell us anything about who he was seeing but we prayed over his trip and who he would be interviewing. These girls have had a hard life so far but I can tell they will do great things!

[@NorahLovesGod]

You are a great mom and person God Bless

[@TomHutchinson5]

Ma'am, you're a good mom, raising a good kid with love. It must be hard to protect him. I think you are right about these two. Bright futures ahead.

[@TomHutchinson5]

ps grandma is a real gem

[@minervagalvez4748]

THE TRAUMAS ARE SO VISBLE FOR THEM ESPECIALLY THE TREMBLING OF HOW SCARED THEY ARE AND THE HURT THEY ENDURED BY THEIR PARENTS/FOSTER PARENTS.

[@robotv8707]

I hope these girls understand that they aren't alone. Women with autism being overlooked is extremely common and has been for a long time. Both of you are so honest and kind, thank you for sharing your experiences.

[@kassi4837]

I feel like Borderline is a personality disorder that stems from not having consistent and stable emotional connection and guidance during critical periods of childhood development. It sounds like a form of attachment trauma. Also, at the end, when she says, even if you’ve been through the ugly, you can make it beautiful .. I love that so much. And yes fellow Autistics and such need to hear that. It’s ridiculously hard to navigate life and social situations with mental health conditions and it’s so important to be encouraged by others and the community. I’m so glad these brilliant ladies have their uncle to finally love them like they deserve.

[@ReineDeLaSeine14]

BPD does come along with insecure attachment and can come from early childhood abandonment.

[@Jakowergo]

As someone with bpd and childhood trauma...this was really uplifting. Wish both Melina and Deimos the best in life.

[@tarynelise225]

A few years ago I left a comment saying you inspired me to work with individuals that have developmental disabilities. I now work in a day home doing just that. Thank you for all the positive work you are doing and showing others respect, compassion, and empathy.

[@sophaloph1129]

not even a minute in and I’m sobbing. I was expecting to hear someone else’s story, not reflecting on mine! So heartbreaking people have gone through what I have and worse, no one deserves that!

[@Mithraschosen]

I really want to give them a hug.

[@ambry99]

I was just thinking the same thing. They deserved so much better.

[@margodphd]

Same. I hope their future makes up for the past.

[@mbb-gl7tv]

As an adoptive mom and mom of triplets (one autistic) I just wanted to say never have I seen such brave, beautiful and much more mature than many teens I know then these two. You all are amazing and strong and I pray that all the pain you had to go through (is turning to strength and you all find the happiness and joy you deserve.

[@ZombieLynn]

Melina, you are going to be an incredible social worker. I am so serious when I say the field needs people like you. I can tell you're going to help so many people, regardless of where you go in life. thank you so much to both of you for being so honest, vulnerable, and open about yourselves and your lives. you're right, no one is alone in their adversity.

[@kathyjohnson2043]

Michael, thank you for stepping up to be their support! It wasn't something you had to do or would have been expected to do. I hope learning about you will inspire others to do the same.

[@cosmic_kysf]

Ok

[@zzzaaannnn]

i think this is one of my favorite sbsk videos ever

[@CheyennePwns]

It was mine too 🤍 inspired.

[@cherrystarlights]

im 17 and have several disorders melina and deimos have and a bad family situation, so this video brought me a lot of comfort. thank you so much for this interview both of you, it really did make me feel like im not alone. i hope both of you have a wonderful day!!!!!!!

[@kathyjohnson2043]

Wishing you better days ahead

[@cherrystarlights]

@@kathyjohnson2043 ❤️❤️❤️

[@ajsmellypiratehooker1019]

My chosen sister has DID. When I first thought about it, it freaked me out until I realized they are ALL her. Her "system" is vast and it helped her survive horrible things in childhood that most of us can't even fathom. The problem is that alters persist past the traumatic situation, and can negatively impact life. She is not interested in changing anything-- why would she, when these alters helped her survive? They are a detriment now and I wish things were different. 😢

[@deconstructeddissonance]

as someone who has did, you can't really change anything. there's no way to really make them go away, even with therapy and medication. you can figure out ways to deal with more harmful alters, sure, but you can't manually make them go dormant at all. ihope both you and your sister can find peace, did can be really hard to live with.

[@freila8156]

From what I remember reading, DID is a very misunderstood disorder thanks to movies/books portraying it wrongly. To develop it, a person needs to repeatedly go through traumatic events in their early childhood, which the second sibling seems to point out. That's probably why it's so rare. I don't think I've ever seen any awareness campaign about it like there's for Bipolar Disorder. Borderline is also more unknown by the average person, but it doesn't have the misconception DID has. I hope they meet more people willing to understand them. I feel like it's very brave of those two to show their vulnerability online.

[@Catlily5]

That is because psychiatrists and psychologists are still fighting about whether it is an actual disorder and how to treat it.

[@fungustheclown666]

​@@Catlily5 I mean, people experiences prove it to be an actual disorder. Some psychologists will always be a devils advocate

[@sarahsmiles3271]

These sisters are smarter than most. Very intelligent with pure hearts. ❤

[@qoooooooq]

Autism in girls and women will always be overlooked. Im sorry you two had to go through of this.

[@fungustheclown666]

Hopefully not always!! If we keep spreading information and experiences we can change the world

[@AgnesBalla9602]

I hope things will change. But it is soo sad that even medical professionals don’t believe that a girl has autism. They are misdiagnosed and given psych meds. But if it is a boy.. totally different story

[@balaam_7087]

This is powerful stuff. Took great courage for the two of you to speak so openly about this type of trauma. That’s a position of strength, and something no one can steal or take away from you. Keep seeking out these kind hearted, righteously motivated individuals like Chris here to tell your stories to and there is no limit to the good you can accomplish.

[@Nonethelessersoulcoin]

Melina's quote at the end "Psychology is biology" really sticked with me. That is an amazing way to think of it and it is absolutely true. We all need to be a little more empathetic, something I am trying to practice day to day! Thank you Melina and Deimos for sharing

[@rumham7466]

I’m glad they talked about DID. Over the years I’ve learned so much about it. I find it so fascinating just what the brain is capable of. It’s devastating and sad by its cause. But I am interested in how the brain operates in survival.

[@pekeninu]

"Even if you've been through the ugly, you can make it beautiful!" - That's problably the most inspiring sentence i've ever heard. Thank you fot that Melina! YOU ARE INSPIRING!😊

[@gemmadirenna7712]

These two siblings seem like such lovely and kind people, so interesting and fun to talk to. It’s so easy to understand them; they articulate their feelings very clearly and it is easy to empathize with their struggles. I loved hearing their stories and wish the very best for both of them ❤ I would love to be their friend for sure!

[@claras-it8bl]

I wish you could interview my uncle. He is 39 and living with his parents. He was born 28 weeks permutation. He is severely disabled but a Musical genius. He has cerebral palsy and we were told he Whould never communicate. He stared singing, than talking.he also has atisam, diebits, brain lesoers. He has seizures. And fetal achol syndrome. His parents died soon after he was born. He has been though a lot but he is truly an amazing person.

[@amdonut8091]

I think they have someway to contact them at the end of the video or their website. Check out their description or something

[@mabel6261]

"the neuropath ways in my brain felt different" oh my god ive been saying the same exact thing for years & nobody ever understood what i was saying but i feel like melina does ❤ wow. that one sentence was so validating to me in so many ways. just to know other people have that thought & maybe they're experiencing the same thing as me makes me want to cry with relief. both of these girls are so beautiful inside & out thank you for having them on your channel chris & thank you both for sharing some of your experiences with us ❤❤

[@daniellaherget3878]

5:47 Really breaks my heart that just because they had lower support needs than there brother. Clearly the specialist was not doing their job correctly. Especially because they are triplets, you would think they would’ve gotten the girls tested just to be sure. My heart is really breaking for these girls, especially the part where one of them was getting nervous and wanted to restart. You can see how much they’ve been through 😓💗 Hopefully now that they have a proper diagnosis, they will get the help and support they need to thrive. After everything that they’ve been through that’s the least they deserve. If you girls happen to see this, best of luck. You both seem very bright and kind. I truly see a bright future ahead of you. I know it may sound silly too, but a book that really helps me even though I’m 28 is , the little train that could. Maybe it’ll help you ?💗

[@colinkrulz]

I love how despite everything they have been through, you can just tell how relaxed they both were whenever Michael was sitting on the couch with them. Props to him for stepping up and being the father figure they deserve! ❤

[@winstonchurchll]

I'm here because I want to understand what you're feeling and going through. You're helping me to understand better how to be a friend and help others. Thank you for being brave and sharing your story with us.

[@ChenkoTheDog]

oh my goodness 30 seconds in and my heart is already saddened. You are not alone.

[@icare6076]

Wow. This interview touched my heart profoundly. The emotional strength and capacity in these two young people is amazing. Both intelligent and articulate and self-aware. I wish all the best for them, and I do believe that by sharing their stories they have helped this world. ❤

[@ashleycook300]

That image of them both curled up with their cousin and he has his arms open to them, and they are both just basking in the safety and warmth of his presence is so beautiful to me. You can clearly see how happy they are to be loved and cherished the way they deserve to be! 💖 You are both so brave! Thank you both for talking about such hard things! Your messages are beautiful! And I love your style Melina! Your outfit looked great! 👍👍

[@joaovictoripiraja761]

I've always had a difficult life being autistic even though I have several privileges: money in Brazil and parents present. Seeing this other perspective of the two sisters, I was impressed by how much repertoire they developed on this journey and how desperate they seemed. They don't deserve this. These kinds of stories inspire me to push through so many simple things in daily neurotypical life. Its so exhausting that sometimes i consider to give up. Girls, thank you so much for being so strong in telling your story

[@begentlebutdontallowshit2549]

I am autistic myself and I truly get her. To whoever is reading this and might struggle rn for whatever reason, please keep going, you're doing fine! No matter how slow your progress, each new week is filled with tiny steps forward. Be proud of yourself you got this! It’s worth hanging in there, it truly is. Stay strong kind strangers!❤

[@byefelicia7358]

Holy cow, I’m barely into this! My heart is breaking for them. SBSK has traversed into the territory usually reserved for hard hitting investigative reporters. Thank you for this intimate slice of life from a great place of love and kindness. Society has failed our children. We can do so much better.

[@sugarzblossom8168]

I understand her happiness. The way he interacts with people is great he can make friends with nearly anyone no matter how different from the norm people consider them. I hope this channel brings people even a bit of comfort.

[@ilovegeenadavis]

This is genuinely the most relatable and heartbreaking story, I hope we find peace in this lifetime.

[@lululee1653]

I’m so relieved that they have an adult helping them ❤

[@proverbialwhatever]

Melina and Deimos are so eloquent and well-describing of their experiences and conditions. So insightful!

[@LittleTFam]

I feel so inspired to see this! What a wonderful man to step in and take care of his cousin's kids.

[@lapinamoric]

one important thing to note is that the terminology of "favorite person" is an online term ! it stems from online circles, and as such, medical professionals may not understand / may overlook it. i think if you are a borderline persomn struggling with having a "favorite person" then it is so so important to not use terms that dull the impact of what it is - obsessive behaviour. take a step back and take care of yourself, so so much love from another autistic borderline with DID

[@CHLOCHLOLP]

During my time in dialectical behavior therapy that term was used, but the therapist specialized in thay type of therapy which is common to treat BPD so maybe more generalized therapists wouldnt be aware of it. But i agree with your point that you shouldnt minimize the behavior just because the term doesnt sound very negative. Obsessing over people and putting so much pressure on them ruins relationships. You can easily end up hurting the people you care most about.

[@renroxhrd]

These girls sound so much like me when I was in high school. I was diagnosed with aspergers/autism as a child but my mom kept it from me until recently. I was bullied in school, had low self esteem. Home life was stable but a lot of abuse, trauma. I have a lot of the same disorders they do (anxiety, depression with dissociation, PTSD, signs of BPD). I don't have DID but I feel like I have different voices in my head/personalities. I am in school to be a counselor now for these reasons. Good luck to both of these people.

[@maccart67]

Hi Melina and Deimos, wishing you all the very best. You are both beautiful! Hugs and peace to all including Michael. 🌻🇦🇺.

[@monicadiazrivera3907]

These kids deserved so much more. Makes me feel guilty I had a whole family, super protected and loved. This mom should have had these kids taken away. So sorry girls.

[@nerdcave0]

Such amazing people. The lack of guidance and trauma they describe is so deeply unfair, nobody chooses to be born into these circumstances. And yet, they've still managed to find their way onto a better path forward. Wish them much success and an easier life.

[@BoldWarrior78]

These two amazing young women prove that it's not their autism and other condition's that disable them. It's the world and people's attitudes towards them that does that. They are unique and talented people and will do well with the right environment and support. Also, they're incredibly courageous in sharing their story and are a great inspiration. Thank you Melina and Deimos!

[@jas_bataille]

I'm 27 years old, I'm autistic + ADHD and a cancer survivor. I have sleeping pills, Aderall, anti-anxiolitics, and painkillers. Fro 20 years I had no pain medication, none whatsoever. The pain I lived with was around 7/10 everyday. It still is regularly. I had a therapist who said to me I was tough to walk without complaining, and I can workout extremely hard - much more than average - if I really want to (depression gets in the way of that) and I'm very physical. I learned to never, ever told anyone. To be as quiet and stoic over what people can imagine is even possible. One of my friend realized how much pain I live with, she's an athlete and trainer, and she said, even I have no idea how much pain you have and I was crying when I realized it. To this day people mock me and tell me regularly that I don't know what real pain is. When I was 8 I took 6 needle shots through my right knee bone with no analgesic. I am in so much pain that if I slip and fall, I will feel better because of the adrenaline. Some people will not believe me and I don't care. Thanks for all this. Hope to be on the show someday! :)(

[@Catlily5]

Sorry you are in so much pain.

[@Mina-px3zb]

Big hugs and love to Melinda and Deimos. You two are definitely not alone. There are kind people out there. We love you. I love you. Keep going and shine bright like the resilient diamonds that you are. Sending you hugs

[@RubyGeeScuderia]

"It's kinda traumatising to not be diagnosed" This!!!! YES!!

[@albertoponcemusic]

God bless them, they have struggled so much unnecessarily, they are who they are and should feel comfortable being themselves 🙏❤️🫶

[@tmc3178]

The chicken bones thing is just a traditional Mexican thing 😅 Damn this hit me hard though. Much love to you beautiful ladies. You did nothing wrong. It took me so long to figure that out.

[@Brycesaggiebabe]

You two did an amazing job describing yourselves. Thank you for being so open and sharing.

[@prashant381]

We understand. People laugh at us too. All of us laugh at all of us. And that is our "normal" behavior. If we are normal by any stretch of imagination and still don't have the guts to pour our heart like you have done - that tells you that we are struggling bad and listening to your story to get inspired ! And you have each other to lean on for all the advice in the world ❤

[@Wolfstar26]

wow, i admire these two kids so much, i'm so happy they were able to find a parental figure later in life.

[@biddiemutter3481]

To the twins: thank you for sharing your experiences. You didn't deserve the childhood you had and you are very brave to share. I'm glad your relative found you .

[@KoreanJindoVlad]

I found these young women to be delightful, beautiful, and intelligent. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@city687]

this is one of my favorite interviews on sbsk. thank you deimos and melina! your story is so important to hear and yall are so real for this.

[@CheyennePwns]

This was one of my favorite SBSK episodes to date. Mel and Deimos, your light is absolutely infectious. Your story, courage and love truly moved me. You two are capable of anything you put your mind to. Keep being you. Keep spreading your light.

[@Rose11485]

i was glued. These siblings are so beautiful, captivating, and articulate! wow! their phrasing of things is extremely relatable.

[@freetolisten1]

You both are lovely people and so well spoken! Thank you for sharing with us. Wishing you both all the best

[@peppers8489]

What incredible young people! Your strength and fortitude are amazing. Thank you for sharing a part of your lives with us.

[@katefrench689]

They are so resilient! Their willingness to share their stories will impact so many people!

[@RealityTrailers]

Fantastic interview!! What amazing people Melina and Deimos truly are!!!! Very glad they offered their experiences to the world here.

[@lynnepavlacka397]

Thank you for sharing your story. Your honesty and courage to talk about your life, can help so many people realize they are not alone.

[@jenniferpatterson-weisbrod5413]

They are both so articulate and self aware! Thanks for your bravery in sharing.

[@YourPartnerInCrime]

You guys are so brave and so incredibly kind to share your story. I can tell you have a lot to offer this world. Thank you for doing this. ❤

[@Luciana-wg8gb]

Girls, you're so brave and amazing. You're raising awareness and helping so much people by sharing your experiences. Thank you ❤

[@LisaThompsonMrsThommy]

These might be two of the most amazing people I’ve seen in your channel yet. I truly believe they can accomplish everything they’re setting out to do.

[@lenaboyer6981]

This was a really inspiring interview to hear. You are both wonderful and resilient individuals and while it’s heartbreaking hearing you talk about what you all have been through, the love you have for each other and for your uncle is absolutely beautiful. I hope things keep improving and life keeps getting better.

[@garbhanmyles]

I can honestly say that you are two of the most incredible people I’ve listened to in a long time. I was so moved by what your story. I wish you both all the very best on your paths through life. So much respect for you two!🙏

[@momof2momof2]

For all these lovely young ladies have been through, they are so well spoken, kind and so aware of themselves. God Bless them in all they are and all tey do in their lives.

[@red35siren]

You are both so strong and brave to share your stories. I’m sorry that you’ve had to endure so many hardships in your young lives but please know that you are not alone and that there are a lot of people who want to help. And you are helping others realize that they are not the only ones to experience similar things. Thank you again for speaking out.

[@CianneDoodles]

What absolute inspirations, these teens are. I see so much wisdom and love in them. Thank you for sharing your stories. You both matter so much and I know you will go places. Sending so much support and love from Canada.

[@CrisOnTheInternet]

Thank you for sharing your story. I hope that both of you receive what you deserve, which is an environment where you are appreciated, loved and feel happy and safe, that you get to live instead of survive.

[@nancykahn4125]

You both are so intelligent,articulate,and self-aware. You have been through so much, but you have so much potential for the future. You also have each other.

[@jenerhart7025]

Wow. The amazing strength these young ladies have. Melina, you will be an amazing social worker.

[@Val-ub4uw]

THank you for sharing your stories. and thanks to Chris for the interviewing!

[@katharine5606]

Thank you so much for sharing, Melina and Deimos. You sure have experienced a lot in your lives. It's great that you are close to each other and now have Michael for support. I wish you both the best going forward. 🧡

[@karengilburg3196]

All those disorders are most likely from the way they have been treated there whole life! When they don’t get loved it totally affects you! I wish I could hug these adorable children!

[@janmommy2001]

Thank you SB for posting this! These 2 young ladies are so brave and beautiful and I love the the education they are providing! Keep you head up ladies! You are rocking life. You got this!!! ❤

[@SpiritoftheForest]

Melina and Deimos, thank you so much for sharing your story - it takes a lot of strength and courage to share those kinds of experiences. Heart wrenching but also inspiring. Thank you both for being here. The world is a better place with yall in it 💜

[@paen-than]

You two seem so cool it might be hard for you to imagine. Make that a challenge - try to imagine how impressed I am with you. It's so amazing to see people start their adult lives with motivation and be on a good path in spite of so many obstacles and trauma. You're doing so great! As a young adult myself, I'm really proud of you. Keep building and enjoy all the good stuff! You deserve it.