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[@culturenomad2951]

These women just can't let the guy speak..bure kabisa !

[@africatodayke]

this man needs his own shows here on youtube. he's good.

[@ekimbangola]

I agree and he doesn't get mad at them. He pauses and comes up with a good argument.

[@MrPendomojah]

If only the guest can be allowed to finish his points and articulate without constant interference

[@TalismanSarkozy9814]

True, they get triggered then they start shifting the goal post to avoid the answers

[@ckkevinkigen4968]

Dutchess does not allow Nyanchwani to talk. She asks and talks.

[@faithnjoroge8390]

The two women needed to get a hold of themselves and keep their emotions in check to allow the guest give more insights.. I couldn’t even watch this halfway coz it just got noisy

[@roybinaisahmaina4462]

Man speaks wisdom,he is also considerate and argues respectfully....he speaks less,but sense

[@samshadmuchui7857]

Those two ladies talked more than Silas

[@kimaningethe9523]

hata mimi nimeshindwa

[@geraldnjoroge8922]

This guy provoked my thought on gender and development especially when he takes it back in time - hunters and gatherers era.

[@africatodayke]

this interview was a cringefest, the hosts were not prepared to listen to what the gentleman has to say.

[@ckkevinkigen4968]

i agree kabisa, i thought its only me.

[@felixfelix2923]

You invited the guest for his opinion. Let him articulate his thoughts. It's like you invited him to put him down. The hosts argued based on emotions rather than facts. Let the man talk.

[@kijanayaaput8940]

*A woman should only be a compliment but not the main focus in a man's life.*

[@wycliffepoet5201]

True

[@akinyiokeyo4618]

I agree with the writer...most of the time the man lives in the woman's house hence the stunted growth of men...

[@rickomba]

Love the convo. Always interesting that women such as these get worked up when men have standards. But if women who have standards it's a great thing.

[@tomodiero7524]

Let the dude talk and stop going to the exceptions all the time, there is a thing such as the average or the 95% rule. Hypergamy makes every woman think she is the top 5% of everything. She believes she is the exception, she is a princess, she is smart, she is beautiful Kevin Samuels used to say this a lot. RIP Kevin Samuels

[@good_hands1696]

Please after watching this interview. Watch the guys interview kingori

[@prestonkenyaofficial]

Silas was my Lecturer very smart fellow.

[@kevintarruz2833]

Silas talks then..... (interception in conversation). good ladies allow him to finish his stroooooong points

[@shamimaoko]

Gosh they are attacking him from all sides...

[@kimaningethe9523]

Karigo has just demonstrated exactly what Silas was describing in terms of argueing with the other gender. They are very fast to see the men who are 1 percenters and complain lack of representation at the top but they don't complain about the bottom tough jobs that are dominated by men such as fishing, mining, pushing carts, quarrying etc.

[@alexngash8327]

let the man speak ladies WHY interrupt him so much?

[@leonardoketch7652]

I salute Silas for the patience in handling these women. It's just too annoying listening to them. When you bring in a guest on your show, your work is to moderate otherwise you can have your show and talk monologue. Poor journalism.

[@RamHadji]

Silas N. is a writer focused on masculinity. He also writes memos on Facebook and has written almost 140 so far. They discuss reminders for men about women. ✦ Memo Man writes about masculinity and relationships 00:00 ✦ Marrying older women stunts men's growth 05:44 ✦ Advancements in society have led to opportunities for everyone, and women are not being treated unfairly. 18:13 ✦ Men blaming women for their problems is not always justified 23:49 ✦ Men need to reprogram themselves to prioritize self-care and supporting their partners. 35:22 ✦ Men are afraid of marriage due to increasing material responsibilities. 40:53 ✦ Women cheat for emotional or financial reasons 53:16 ✦ Illicit relationships may seem better, but they are toxic and not worth it. 58:52 ✦ Advice for fathers of daughters 1:14:22 ✦ The changing dynamics of relationships in modern times

[@winingmindset1934]

Tunafakuleta Adrew kibe here

[@someotherjamaa1443]

I think if a guy is economically disadvantaged should first take care of himself to a point where he is living sustainably. Then and only then can he consider bring a woman into his life.

[@williamunga]

Why did these women invite a man to the show when they cant let him speak?

[@edithpassionproject1098]

Can the gentleman get his word across? He can barely talk

[@Kapteini]

That host is domineering on even her co-host. She needs to let other people talk. It's all about her.

[@ckkevinkigen4968]

2hrs show he spoke 25mins i think.... Dutchess talks alot

[@jessethedr7925]

Men had to go to wars and protect their countries, Women and Children. See what happened to Ukraine ,I didn't see the women battalion going up in arms demanding they will also go to the frontline.People are being mislead by the toxic feminist. But respect to the guy, very composed and we'll informed

[@kimkeymoney478]

This taught me the type of women to avoid...these two😅😅

[@leonardoketch7652]

The two ladies MUST learn to listen to their guest. They shallowed the conversation with too many interruptions. Journalism training is needed here.

[@africanprince8941]

Legendary guy

[@ondemand-vo9ri]

Am watching this one year later and I can tell a clueless employee in the room

[@inmyveinsinmyveins1465]

BARBRA, is so hurt. Is she a single man?😂😂😂😂😂. she is trying to prove statics wrong as if she knows everything. Why call silas to a show and talk 60% of the time arguing😂😂.

[@Knowindustry]

interesting conversation 😀😀😀, key note in the bible, eve was nake after adam ate yet already eve ate first. female are totally compilated

[@zachariakinuthia1503]

SILAS NYACHWANI KIBE AMERIX UNPLAGGED GUY Making men to wake up as you cant win an argument

[@samsonchege7208]

Putting women/men rivalries into perspective

[@someotherjamaa1443]

1:01:12 This is very very true...

[@ErycOyugi]

The dude is typically the definition of a Purple Pill dude in which he is aware of Red Pill balance , but for a variety of insecurities he is uncomfortable with the truths of the harsh, ugly truths that the nature of women, the nature of Hypergamy and the natural selection process of intersexual dynamics occurs…. Rollo tomasi

[@shamimaoko]

You sound deluded your brain is not engaging with your mouth...

[@kompanysisi5735]

These ladies are very ignorant, men and women do not bear the same nature and nature owes you no explanation.

[@nomahsimdeux]

Could barely watch it man Let the man speak. Geez .

[@allanndungu360]

same here bro

[@wasilwajames4880]

But I think it is wise,,to let a guest make his or her point without just interrupting carelessly

[@wasilwajames4880]

It is hard to hold logical conversations with some women

[@nyanumbamartin1487]

Sometimes you could be responsible as a man but circumstances can slow you down, should you be blamed.

[@kephakimani9338]

Interviewing skills poor. No moderation when he speaking. Poor listening skills.

[@donwambugu]

This was just a crucification You cannot reason rationally with women. Sir keep teaching your target audience, men.

[@NyakeMini]

😂😂

[@itssshana335]

I'll try and keep this short. i like the comments. right observation. The two ladies are what Silas is talking about. Not in bad way. but they are failing to see Silas points. It's like they are selectively listening to men language . Their defense mechnisms or lack of accountability is up there . For example the pointing on boys going to sch and girl children not. Back then fees was scarce. Remember this was something new and traditionally men were expected to be the bread winners and are still. Men were expected to be the persuers in matters marriage. So the old folk preffered equiping the men. Women then just had to be marrriage material and they could find themselves living well. That was then. Yeah this is now hence the change. And these two men are supposed and are probably listening much better than the women out there.For example, how would this discusion go in a bar somewhere? Bottles would fly!!! Next time Silas have an older succesully marriad couple who have lived and thrived when this so called old ways prevailed. They will help you articluate ur points using a third and probably neutral eye. Coz already becuase of ur memo, ur like public women enemy no1. So ur points are valid but even before you utter a word, you are already playing near ur goal post, mostly defending. Yet, if women would very actively listen to you before marriage instead of Mombasa raha etc, then they would be better able to cope with living and helping their men succeed. Becuase atlaest they would learn the way we think, and be better able to help us succeed. instead of looking for ready-made men ($$$$$) who 90% of the time will not commit to such a person.

[@samsonanami]

You didn't give this bright man a good time to answer the questions, next time let him be interviewed with a man, you're talking a lot than the interviewee 😥

[@chrisphineodhiamboogutu2111]

Who invited who? Am confused.

[@tomodiero7524]

What happens if I have more than you? Are you then entitled to walk into my life? That's why many relationships are non starters, women have really nothing to offer men. If they have money they won't share.... it's pointless. Marriage is a bad deal for men nowadays period.

[@futurefarms3440]

If a woman cannot give you atleast two kids forget it.

[@mauricemonroe2836]

The women on this show should be taught on-air etiquette. They are just interrupting him from putting his point across.

[@eo9438]

Why can't this duchess let a guest explain himself? She should learn to keep quiet when a man is speaking. She speaks too much. It's simple courtesy.

[@PeaceLove-lb8rg]

Poor moderators,moderators spoke too much.

[@ckkevinkigen4968]

true

[@ikengitau]

Karigo kept interrupting with irrelevant statements and goal-shifting

[@paulgichohi7451]

yes . like women make sacrifices . shes like including child birth

[@TalismanSarkozy9814]

She’s a statistic that’s why😂😂

[@dominicruriga5866]

The two women are noisy and interruptive.

[@langat007]

This man is sitted in the room with two women trying to convince them how men think. It's a losing battle man. Sasa sikia, he's editing his words juu it's incongruent with how he's thinking. He might get cancelled like Shafi Weru and lose his opinion piece in the columns section on the dailies. Investigate why they are single mothers, therein lies the issue.

[@ErycOyugi]

The dude is just a purple pill guy aka Mr nice guy

[@Mburu1]

they cooked bro alive😂

[@gakahuruko2331]

How they were not allowing him to complete his thoughts. The ladies are emotional.

[@greyosoro1885]

the most useless interview to watch where the moderators talk more than the guest

[@galanxotv]

most young men find jobs and get married. Which jobs ? These typa conversations are always fine when they are unilateral, Nyanchwan or whoever you are its even weird youre having it with women. Plus size noisy ones.😔