Spiritual Awakening - ( Relationships ENDING due to AWAKENING)

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Victor Oddo

Victor Oddo

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Once the process of your spiritual awakening takes hold, just about all areas of your life begin to change... including relationships…right?
That’s how it has been for me at least…
Ascension or…the spiritual awakening process, fundamentally implies that one begins to experience…
Expanded Awareness
Expanded Sense of Self
Higher Vibrational Frequency
On the deepest level, this is great!
However, these changes are so deep and central to the person that they imply that ALL areas of their life changes alongside…
This includes RELATIONSHIPS
Having been through the whole, relationship turmoil and unexpected changes myself, I know that it works out in the end, as it always does.
However, that does not mean that during the transition, it is not very,
difficult
sad
emotionally painful
I have created this article to share what I have learned in terms of how you can quickly move through the transitional periods and see the situations from higher aspects of your consciousness, allowing you to better…
understand
accept
and move on
From the relationship endings you may be experiencing due to your choice to ascend into a 4th density reality and state of being.
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@jeanettedunne5487
@jeanettedunne5487 8 жыл бұрын
This is so painful to let go of someone I truly love. But it hurts more to stay.
@dianako3573
@dianako3573 5 жыл бұрын
So is that the same thing with parents and also with siblings?
@rg5856
@rg5856 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@leandasp1
@leandasp1 3 жыл бұрын
@@dianako3573 yes
@alisonc4669
@alisonc4669 8 жыл бұрын
I have experienced many relationships falling away too. I just didn't know what to talk to people about anymore, because all the things on my mind were way too "out there."
@asmrdemar6559
@asmrdemar6559 7 жыл бұрын
Same here. I can relate so much ..
@maryquint3254
@maryquint3254 7 жыл бұрын
Alison C me too! My husband is asleep and that's been difficult. Other long time relationships have fallen apart for no explicable reason. I'm really struggling about that.
@leahjoy6367
@leahjoy6367 5 жыл бұрын
same ): i made the mistake in trying to make my friend understand and she laughed at me
@highspeedy101
@highspeedy101 5 жыл бұрын
Yes
@lisag4441
@lisag4441 5 жыл бұрын
Yea, me too.
@inhighdefinition1111
@inhighdefinition1111 7 жыл бұрын
I've been ending relationships left and right. It's hard not to think there's something wrong with me! 😞 I try my hardest to believe it will all be okay. I just hope the universe takes and brings what it must
@amandahayman6807
@amandahayman6807 5 жыл бұрын
Wow that was 2 years ago. Hope it all turned out ok?
@Helios601
@Helios601 3 жыл бұрын
@@amandahayman6807 Yeah lol tumble weed.
@marvri9672
@marvri9672 3 жыл бұрын
I remember learning about all of this when I started my journey and taking it with a grain of salt... I'm finding myself in the middle of so much right now... This is so hard.
@cstrongman
@cstrongman Жыл бұрын
Be careful with the way you end relationships. It can be hard because we feel so compelled to make changes and do what we feel is right... And I don't regret what I did, I had to do what I did to learn, but I do wish I was kinder and smoother about it.
@marthamoreno1539
@marthamoreno1539 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This made me feel comforted to know I’m not the only one out there going through this. It’s quite painful, I know I’m being pushed to grow even further
@freeyourmind8305
@freeyourmind8305 6 жыл бұрын
I recognize this so well. All of my old friendships are gone and it hurts but I have to move on as im ascending on my spiritual path. I believe and have faith that I will make new friendships which are deeper however it may take a while.
@russellw1371
@russellw1371 4 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this right now. I just dont resonate with trivial things and silly conversations anymore. I'm viewed as weird, but it's ok. There's more to life than being a debt slave and a consumer.
@MissDubstep0429
@MissDubstep0429 6 жыл бұрын
I'm 17 years old, and I'm raising my vibration and my partner and I are not a match to each other anymore it is so painful he is my soulmate and i love him but I have to leave and make the choice to break up
@fitjuella
@fitjuella 4 жыл бұрын
MoonChild Dreams same! We tried to make it work several times and I couldn’t help but notice how surface we used to be. Now all he thinks is I’m always preaching about being positive. It’s sad because I really think he was my soulmate too but I had to end things because he didn’t understand me anymore. Still hurts till this day. But you have all you need within you, and the universe has your back always.
@nicolebentley984
@nicolebentley984 3 жыл бұрын
I married a wonderful man and a year later covid hit and its been down hill since. He even took the jabby and didn't tell me for weeks
@leejones8835
@leejones8835 4 жыл бұрын
We are all one, not separate. Thinking you are different, moving away is all ego. Love all, integrate and be comfortable with everyone with compassionate, loving heart.
@reesebn38
@reesebn38 7 жыл бұрын
I have to be alone all the time, because no one see the truth of this world. All the people I meet just want to be my best friend and hang out. I got in trouble with my Boss, he told me that certain staff just want to follow me round all the time and its not productive for them. I feel like I am talking to ten year olds all the time, no one knows anything! Its so depressing when you know the truth. What kind of life is it to have to be alone all the time.
@fitjuella
@fitjuella 4 жыл бұрын
TommyJ. I saw it somewhere once that the woke ones are the depressed ones because we feel alone all the time.
@Helios601
@Helios601 3 жыл бұрын
@@fitjuella Pretty much. How are you?
@grantsmith2748
@grantsmith2748 Жыл бұрын
Can you put me in the right direction for the truth please
@kimslone5185
@kimslone5185 7 жыл бұрын
When I get nervous about the well being of someone I love, I invite all angels available to strengthen them according to their needs. That combination of words allows me to let go and still believe they are looked after.
@billeagle51
@billeagle51 3 жыл бұрын
Enjoyed your video. I am 70 now, been through it all. But I would say the last 10 yrs I have been on this Spiritual Path. I have shed so much..some on my part, and some through some painful experiences...but it was time to do it. My wife divorced me (But now I look upon it as awakening or meant to be) Sold my home, and packed up and left for entirely different city. At times it becomes very depressing and sad for me, but at the same time you feel like your ascending to somewhere in which you realize you came from no where existence. It really is a self awakening experience. Sometimes I even say to myself, "Where in the hell have I been all of my life"..my priorities were all wrong! Now! its like a sweet surrender, or just let go! And as you discussed in your video, you leave a previous life behind..the people and the places. And carry on with your individual Spiritual Quest. ITS NOT THAT EASY..BELIEVE ME! But the new vision and perspective is worth it.
@adventureswithandrewkristi237
@adventureswithandrewkristi237 6 жыл бұрын
I've been finding that a lot of people in my life, painfully most of my family, are not open and tolerant of my path, new friends and more positive outlook. I've tried to ignore it and push through but I'm starting to realize it's too draining and frustrating to continue to play out my old behaviors for them just to keep the peace and make them happy. Thinking about moving just to get a clean break.
@wheremylifego3790
@wheremylifego3790 Жыл бұрын
Aw m8 it was as if I'd written this myself, I could not agree with u more down too every word lol I Hope you're managing to stay mindful and present my friend 💖 we got this 🤣🥴🙏👌🏻✨️
@ecologiesofmindfulness564
@ecologiesofmindfulness564 3 ай бұрын
Totally resonate with this.
@koolkat6755
@koolkat6755 8 жыл бұрын
falling away from others is part of the plan, we need to develop a new reality of life , things come and go and nothing is for ever ,then we don't take things personally, it is our human mind set or our interpretation of life that makes it so hard, conditioning, ☺ when travelling in sole vibration, things are as they should be,,, thankyou ✌
@wheelerrach1
@wheelerrach1 8 жыл бұрын
Yup. I attracted a mate who outright refused to look at himself or any kind of spirituality , and as i grew and expanded from the contrast, he dug his heels in to stay right where he was at. I so wanted him to shine. It seemed like my mission was to see a glass half full and his mission was to see it half empty. Gotta admire it really. Its not an easy path!!! So we parted ways and slowly over the last 6 months I have found myself further and further retreating away from friends. Im like a bloody hermit! :D There is lots of growth and lots of realisations and self reflection but to be honest, im about ready for this stage to end. It worries me a wee bit but I guess I can change it any time I like. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.
@VictorOddo1111
@VictorOddo1111 8 жыл бұрын
+wheelerrach1 thanks for sharing..yes, it's difficult at times to feel isolated like that.. you will eventually attract yourself to others of a similar vibration
@dizzielizzie5230
@dizzielizzie5230 8 жыл бұрын
I've gone through the EXACT same process over the past year. Now I'm at the stage of preferring to be alone most of the time. Through this, I have had a lot of self realisations, which have been really hard at times, but the benefits are far greater...Namaste
@deborahcoughlin6338
@deborahcoughlin6338 7 жыл бұрын
Im struggling with becoming bitter!!! My life has been transformed and tourn apart in a short period of time. Idk what to do... i dont like where Im at , dont know how to change this.. Ive always been a posative upbeat kinda drummer and Ive lost myself slmewher alkng the merry ass way here!!! any advice? Im broke. a widow. dont know what to do or change. have become a shut in. In a dark room alone for about 2 wks now....
@gisele2926
@gisele2926 7 жыл бұрын
Sending light, love, and understanding to you Deborah Coughlin. There are no easy answers to how you are feeling. Sometimes, though, it just helps to take small positive steps forward. Even one small step, tomorrow, in the direction you seek. Perhaps, tomorrow, you go for a short walk outside. Maybe counting some blessings, too, could be useful. When I feel low, practicing gratitude for all of the big and small blessings in my life helps to correct "stinkin thinkin". I bet you have some beautiful things to be thankful for! If you cant think of one reason to smile, please know in the deepest parts of your aching heart that having loved someone so deeply and lost them is still so much better than never having the chance to love him at all.
@martaeyore8234
@martaeyore8234 7 жыл бұрын
Deborah Coughlin hi there!!! I hope you are feeling better...how have u been doing?
@shae809
@shae809 7 жыл бұрын
For me, I see it as part of letting go of the ego that tells us we know what's best for anyone, and it's also about the letting go of unconditional love in a way that embraces that others may not be able to see your truth, that they must be free to find their own. Boundaries come in where we claim our right to do this for ourselves.
@kacibeaver4540
@kacibeaver4540 5 жыл бұрын
I have let go of my twin flame... It's been the best and worst experiences.. I've tried to get him on board and find enlightenment but he's not ready . But I will wait for him. For now I'm in my path alone.
@faranjaved4001
@faranjaved4001 3 жыл бұрын
Hey vic ! Loosing my parents and siblings as a result of my spiritual awakening was one of the most painful experiences i had in life. I was always trying to get them to see and understand how unconscious they are and how negatively it affected our family relationships but they were never moved and thought i have gone insane. Thanks for this video it definitely changed my perspective on this. I am going to let it go with the flow.
@mydivineiamchannel9654
@mydivineiamchannel9654 2 жыл бұрын
I am going through that now. Am confused and sad. I have no one except my kids. I am 47 years and all these relationships have broken down which makes me wonder if my life has been a fraud or am I the toxic one? What's going on? Can you please give feedback on how its turned out for you?
@81klong
@81klong 7 жыл бұрын
I started going through my awakening around 2012 after having my first child. I had the most vivid dream of my entire life which even now, I still remember every little detail of. Towards the end of the dream, I entered a ruined building through an archway. The room I entered had no roof and I looked up to see a single white butterfly. This quickly turned to thousands of white butterflies. I knew the light and the butterflies were so insanely "good" and "pure" that I felt relief and euphoria. I started to ascend towards this light along with my daughter and husband when my husband told me to look down. I instantly knew that whatever it was that was down there was complete evil and the opposite of the light. I had to use all of my strength and power of persuasion to force him to keep looking up. I made them both recite the Lord's Prayer (I'm not overly religious at all) and say it out loud to the point where we were all screaming it. Once we got the the part where we said Amen, I shouted "I do believe in God" and all of a sudden we shot into the light and I woke up feeling like nothing I've ever felt before. I truly believe this dream has changed me 100%. I now feel as if I am remembering what I'm here for. I have also become less materialistic and the things I used to engage in, no longer hold any interest for me. I'm thirsty for knowledge and feel as if there's not enough time for me to learn everything I need to learn or to visit the places I want to visit. Sometimes I think all I want to do is be alone to think and meditate which obviously isn't practical when you have kids and a job. Argh, it's all so messed up!
@sonnyroy497
@sonnyroy497 Жыл бұрын
That is a really awesome Dream. 💜🙏💜🙏💜🙏💜🙏💜
@_strawberrypickle_
@_strawberrypickle_ 4 жыл бұрын
I feel this all so hard right now. I finally let go of someone of a very low vibration. So very grateful you made this.
@leeyee8068
@leeyee8068 8 жыл бұрын
Totally get you Victor, every word you have said on this video makes perfect sense. I have already gone through this phase few years ago and it has given me more energy by letting go with those on lower vibrations. It's very important to understand once you can see what it is you are here to do, it's more scary NOT to be yourself...
@Ilonamusings
@Ilonamusings 7 жыл бұрын
Haha, I like when you ask "would you like it if they said 'hey why don't you just dumb down your vibration and stick with us?" "Fuck that!" Couldn't have said it better :)
@BliggySmawz
@BliggySmawz 7 жыл бұрын
Wow, I'm so glad I've found someone who is actually talking about the subject and aspects I've been thinking about a lot lately.
@jobrutherfurkenburgh5983
@jobrutherfurkenburgh5983 7 жыл бұрын
Yes. I' ve been away from all relationship...totally down to earth...block from all friendship. I' ve accept the fact...of my spiritual awakening & lucid dreaming of the dead people coming to visit me, give a smile & sign of entering the next dimension. True...i find more peace & universal love.
@robnewman8597
@robnewman8597 2 жыл бұрын
Going through a really tough time of it at the moment. Trusting that my guides told me to watch this has given me the reassurance I needed at a time when i needed it most. Thank you so much for sharing.
@ccillia2682
@ccillia2682 4 жыл бұрын
Even though it's very hard and hurting... I'm not trying to change anyone, but only hope and be patient! I just wish my husband could support me on my journey!! It's like he tries his best to do things to push my button, so he can get a reaction from me and say that I've changed and gotten out of hand with what he calls, this so called spiritual thing! If I can continue to be patient with him, why can't he be patient with me! I love him, but I'm real frustrated and confused about our everything now (especially since losing my mom a couple of months ago), but I finally feel love for myself and I'm trying my best to keep it, without allowing him to tear me down again! This is beyond hard!
@harpersangels4443
@harpersangels4443 5 жыл бұрын
My entire family has disowned me my friends keep disappearing
@heatherlentz5872
@heatherlentz5872 8 жыл бұрын
Yep I'm down to just a few precious people in my inner circle too right now. I have to laugh again. by doing your talks, you have a lot of new like minded friends, you may never meet. Thanks for touching our hearts and our lives Vic! - Heather
@hrmagoo
@hrmagoo 6 жыл бұрын
Oh my god thank you! I just lost my religious best friend & I found I didn't want to be around her anymore. Now I'm alone, except for my personal family. It feels WONDERFUL to know we're not alone in this! Thank you, I'm subscribing & thanks to you tube as well🌿🌿🌿🍭🍭🍭
@laurenleedesigns
@laurenleedesigns 7 жыл бұрын
Thank u...those that are no longer on my frequency can i bare to be around. I use to loathe the hoildays, because i felt obligated to be around my family. I would leave feeling depleted, my energy know longer fit. I now honor my ascension, i honor and protect my spirit. I recognize with whom my energy increases or where it depletes and like u, i can count my star tribe on one hand. But i am grateful, because i am awake..one love
@saragolembo341
@saragolembo341 8 жыл бұрын
thank you. This is exactly what has been happening in my life and my heart is broken at all the people who are falling away from me. At the same time i feel compelled to just keep tryng to understand things better. It's painful.
@Onazzz808
@Onazzz808 7 жыл бұрын
Right on point. Amazing. And I thought I was alone. So glad I found this guy/channel!
@ChelseaHyland
@ChelseaHyland 6 жыл бұрын
I am completely experiencing this process. It’s painful, yet beautifully transformative for me. Thanks for your video, Victor!
@tinadouglas13
@tinadouglas13 7 жыл бұрын
This is what Im going thru right now with my husband. He has been struggling with seeing me ascending since he still is into Christianity beleifs and I have been opening up my mind. Our relationship has always been a struggle but now since my awakening I have begun to realize that naturally we are falling out as well and I feel even more disconnected the longer we no stay together. Our frequencies are totally off
@neurowolf2730
@neurowolf2730 7 жыл бұрын
Christianity and spirituality are certainly compatible. The church and spirituality is a bit of a different story.
@princelex889
@princelex889 6 жыл бұрын
Dam ur beautiful
@Developinglandk
@Developinglandk 5 жыл бұрын
Tina Douglas how did things work out for you. Going through this now 😓
@sandybarley4964
@sandybarley4964 4 жыл бұрын
@@Developinglandk I'm going through this at the moment. 15 year relationship that feels that there is no connection at all. I've numbed out and long to be on my own. Did it all work out for you?
@Developinglandk
@Developinglandk 4 жыл бұрын
Sandy barley it actually worked out well for me. We naturally fell apart. Through my spiritual journey I realize that we both wasn’t really in love with each other anymore. We were only doing what we felt we needed to do as husband, wife, and parents. We weren’t truly living and thriving together. We were only existing in a safe space together. I truly thought that my spiritual awakening would bring us together, but it didn’t and I am grateful for what I’ve learned in this situation, and how much I’ve expanded my mind since this comment. I’m happy that I can come back a year later, revisit this comment and help anyone who reads this post. I also would like to add that we are in a better space now that I am not forcing him to be someone for me, that he cannot be for himself at the moment, and it’s okay. He will get there on his own and it will be perfect for him.
@telecastinater
@telecastinater 6 жыл бұрын
Oh my god brother, exactly I feel out of place here as you said I'm on this beautiful trip of oneness, unity living from my heart and oh my do they notice. I love being the light for others.....
@tomarnold523
@tomarnold523 7 жыл бұрын
ive literally watched maybe 6 or 7 of your videos and ive already been on the road to enlightenment but i had some frustrating questions that i was having a hard time finding whether in research or within myself i just needed some basic answers to help with this craziness. vic please dont stop making these videos people need to know the answers that their souls are asking. i know i didnt stumble on your channel by accident. the universe put you in my path to help guide me. amazing channel brother! thank you so much!!!!
@maryw.657
@maryw.657 7 жыл бұрын
I've heard there are ways to spirituality cut ties with people. I'm curious if anyone has heard of this?
@isabelmota4546
@isabelmota4546 4 жыл бұрын
Jesus I'm struggling with this one. The more I evolve and become a better version of myself, the more the people in my life drop like flies. I don't know anyone currently remotely interested in self actualizing like me and it's pretty fucking lonely out here..
@nevillemoguel930
@nevillemoguel930 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Victor! this video has been a tremendous help to me as have many of your other videos but this one in particular really resonated with me due to what's been happening in my life recently with relationships ending.
@passionsinfin6284
@passionsinfin6284 8 жыл бұрын
Again you are telling my story...Thank you for making this video and helping me make sense of my life! I am beyond speechless! I'm glad I'm not alone
@VictorOddo1111
@VictorOddo1111 8 жыл бұрын
you're welcome Sharon, so glad it has helped :) appreciate your kindness
@passionsinfin6284
@passionsinfin6284 8 жыл бұрын
Your AWESOME Vic! My best friend and I were just talking about you. We were wondering if you are a twin flame? Very Curious :0)
@passionsinfin6284
@passionsinfin6284 8 жыл бұрын
The reason I ask is because him and I are but with other people. We are learning and coping with the twin flame drama /transformation. Bloody intense and crazy painful Vic.
@normangon
@normangon 7 жыл бұрын
I'm almost an alien right now jajaja
@nicolescarano9995
@nicolescarano9995 8 жыл бұрын
Very wise words Victor! Thank you for sharing this video! This is very relevant to my situation as I found myself letting go of a number of friends ever the last few years. I currently have 2 friends in particular who were very close once I'm now seriously divided about. Sometimes I get so fed up of how our values have changed but other times I feel so much love for them I don't have it in me to end the relationship. So I keep going back and forth about the way I feel and think. If you have made a video about how to go forward in a situation like this please share it with us. Thank you.
@mistic6628
@mistic6628 7 жыл бұрын
Nicole Scarano
@clarkparker4860
@clarkparker4860 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you Vic. I just came here for confirmation :D
@coleporto4415
@coleporto4415 7 жыл бұрын
I recommend looking up the New Message from God, especially its teachings on relationships. So many people are waking up now because we are living at a time of Revelation, on the brink of great change and upheaval for the human family and earth as a whole.
@winniewinkles
@winniewinkles 8 жыл бұрын
I recently took a quantum leap in my development and experienced a mass 'ripping away' or disillusionment in my relationships. Subjectively it was very painful and traumatic though understanding what it actually was has helped (it's the only thing that's helped). It was actually me who leapt away and all of a sudden. It was brutal yet on a level I feel ok about it. Thanks for video.
@Jennie-yolan
@Jennie-yolan 7 жыл бұрын
I feel like it's me that's pushing my friends away like I don't have the interest in hanging with them anymore not the other way around. Is this normal too?
@Rick__C-137
@Rick__C-137 6 жыл бұрын
Jennie Yolan Yes, it's absolutely normal :)
@princelex889
@princelex889 6 жыл бұрын
Me too sweety i was just with some of my old friends the energy didn't feel rite
@leahjoy6367
@leahjoy6367 5 жыл бұрын
i feel the exact same way
@fitjuella
@fitjuella 4 жыл бұрын
Jennie Yolan yes! Very normal. I had my mom telling me she misses the old me who was always out and about instead of sitting in my room reading, burning my safe & listening to calm music. She thinks I’m depressed when really, I’m free & happy.
@UnityMisfit
@UnityMisfit 3 жыл бұрын
Same. It’s like I feel more whole and complete not talking to my friends and distancing myself and then I just get the question of “are you ok?” and it’s like yeah i’m great but these friendships don’t resonate anymore.
@quantumspirit8439
@quantumspirit8439 6 жыл бұрын
Yeah. Except my spouse and kids aren’t awake. :( I trust. I love. I’m positive. I’m sad.
@glenn4234
@glenn4234 7 жыл бұрын
Wow I don't if I was asleep when this video came out but DAMN! This kind of sucks for me in a way with only 1 person so far. As if say anything positive or thinking of that way seems to really upset this person in my home a lot. Sometime I wonder if they liked me better when I was hurt/helpless, depressed, and said all the time. I'm 99.9% better than I ever felt before its almost unnatural to sometimes. But thank you brother for real.
@lj2503
@lj2503 8 жыл бұрын
thank you so much. it is Hard when u know what Will happen but u friends and family dont. you are helping a lot of people. ❤💚💙
@laraoneal7284
@laraoneal7284 6 жыл бұрын
Getting red pilled and more I’ve lost all friends hips. The masses do not want to know anything that is going on. I don’t bother with them anymore. I can only change me no one else.
@user-og7eh8pv8h
@user-og7eh8pv8h 6 жыл бұрын
Aren't our relations our biggest mirrors? Distancing ourselves...isn't that exactly the opposite of the path? Feeling disconnected from the world. Becoming more judgemental about people because they don't fit? Because we don't fit?
@judytreelovelola7751
@judytreelovelola7751 5 жыл бұрын
Bachtar Taraki I have these same questions. I just don’t know anymore.
@pettypettybetty632
@pettypettybetty632 5 жыл бұрын
i take it in more of a way like , cutting out what doesnt serve you anymore. If being around your friends no longer makes you happy and being around them gives you bad vibes. Its probably time to let go.
@KudaMan
@KudaMan 4 жыл бұрын
our relationships are our biggest mirrors. But at this point, i feel like I am well aware of what my reflection is saying to me in my relationships. I need time to myself to hone my shadow before I can reintegrate into these relationships. The problem with staying in these relationships is that set the ground to maintain your current state of being that you already are dying to transcend. You and their dynamic has already been solidified, so it's very hard to reinvent yourself when you are in an active relationship with them. You need the time apart to recondition yourself and then you can come back
@TheHappyangel8
@TheHappyangel8 8 жыл бұрын
I have been on a marathon of watching your videos! I want to really thank you from the bottom of my heart and soul for your time and energy for creating all these videos with all your wonderful wisdom, knowledge, and experiences. I have been going through this process ...the highs and lows... right now feeling totally tired and isolated but I know what I am going through.... all your videos you have given me confirmation of the process and that the symptoms with dissipate . Unfortunately, I have already lost many friends in the process.... it's interesting of which ones... many my friends I work with. May you continue to make these videos, as you are helping me and many others go through this unfamiliar journey. Thank you :)
@VictorOddo1111
@VictorOddo1111 8 жыл бұрын
And thank you dear for taking the time to leave me that sweet comment :). It warms my heart, all the love I have been getting, I'm so happy you guys are benefiting from my videos.
@reddnewmillennium
@reddnewmillennium 5 жыл бұрын
My biggest situation is dealing with my family and I’m awaken 🤦🏽‍♂️ I usually would go live on facebook talking to them and everything, people watch then they click off. The only one that comments is one of my uncles and my friend🤷🏽‍♂️
@KC-bf8ye
@KC-bf8ye 5 жыл бұрын
I suddenly had major falings out with three people I had known for years - all in the last six months. Their behavior towards me and the lack of mutual values just didn't work for me anymore. I realized that I should have heeded my gut feelings about them years ago and did not. Now that I am "awakening," all that is intolerable and inexcusable - again and again. I finally really saw that these friends were selfish and two got abusive and ugly with me one too many times. They had good qualities or I wouldn't have lasted as long as I did, but I suddenly had just had enough and it's because of my personal growth. What I am learning is that the company you keep can really have a major impact on your life. So choose wisely who you invest your time and energy into. If they are emotionally sucking your energy or disrespecting you, then nothing else they offer is worth it.
@perrinicholls2443
@perrinicholls2443 7 жыл бұрын
Great Vic....love every time I listen. Peace xxx
@christyfilledwithlight2617
@christyfilledwithlight2617 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I truly needed to hear this.
@VictorOddo1111
@VictorOddo1111 8 жыл бұрын
+Christina Caro You're very welcome :)
@yougotgroove
@yougotgroove 5 ай бұрын
I know the answer I've done this as of last evening after 3 1/2 year relationship. The loving thing to do is to let her go, otherwise I'm keeping her stuck. I'm going back to her after she discarded me at least 20 times in 3 1/2 years and she always reaches out 3 days later after I let her go and I always go back and then she discards me again. She'll repeat the exact process of discard one week later. It doesn't make me angry and it doesn't make me sad, not anymore, because I am connected with her soul. I love is there she's just not aware of it and I can maintain that connection without ever seeing her or ever speaking to her in the physical realm. My purpose is for her not to suffer to help her with the suffering, that's why I can't keep her stuck. My best interests are her best interests and I have to let her go lovingly
@candicemariebeadco
@candicemariebeadco 4 жыл бұрын
Had to come back to this video today. Needed the message. Thanks, Victor. Namaste.
@ayolayro4073
@ayolayro4073 Жыл бұрын
I've been thinking I'm going insane. I've fought for this what we have now, for years and suddenly I don't want it anymore ? I just felt out from the connection, with everyone who was part of my life and the weirdest thing is that it doesn't bother me at all. I love to be alone, do searching, meditating etc.
@passionsinfin6284
@passionsinfin6284 8 жыл бұрын
YOUR AWESOME VICTOR. THANK YOU FOR BEING YOU!!
@robbierice6830
@robbierice6830 5 жыл бұрын
During the shift I found my soulmate and now in the process to leave a toxic relationship yet I’m happy for him because after I leave his soulmate comes to him 💜💜
@RC2214
@RC2214 7 жыл бұрын
Same here. Went through the awakening when I left my abusive mother and brother. My daughter is struggling and doesn't understand what's going on with us, my husband has awakened with me. He first and I followed but the rest of the family is still on the 3D plane. There is alot we have to keep to ourselves because this just seems to far out there and they can't understand unless they are in it themselves.
@Raven-Fish
@Raven-Fish 7 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! So many endings recently - I so appreciate your perspective. Very helpful!!! 💛💚💜❤💙
@rivkahmadison7045
@rivkahmadison7045 7 жыл бұрын
Victor. We are in the same soul bubble!
@kathrynrhea6785
@kathrynrhea6785 7 жыл бұрын
ive lost everyone vic. my family friends lover. i AM all alone and it sux.. i am fully awake though. have been having all of these experiences you talked about since I was born and I do mean all but the older I get the less friends I have I wish I could find more people like this in person in Houston know anybody?
@2323inc
@2323inc 6 жыл бұрын
I live in Houston too
@KudaMan
@KudaMan 4 жыл бұрын
@@2323inc houston gang
@lsmith992
@lsmith992 8 жыл бұрын
This is all so good. I'm trying to make sense of a relationship situation and came across your channel. But this came to mind on watching. I'm in the UK and recent political events have been so amazing. On June 23rd we voted to get out of the EU, which so many see as a bad thing to do. But that day when the results were clear, was the brightest lightest freest that I can remember since my teenage years. It was like everyone was at a party. That sense of freedom was palpable, it really was. I have come across others who felt the same. Since then there has been another breath taking moment. The leader of the left wing Labour party Jeremy Corbyn was re elected despite much opposition from the ones who don't want change. Unlike most po!iticians he is a good honest man and we are so tired of the other sort. Sorry for the long post but I needed to say this.
@followthelight69
@followthelight69 7 жыл бұрын
I hope my family don't think i'm crazy while I'm going through all this. I've notice it's better not to say too much about it and just let them see the change you. It feels so messed up though, cause I admire my father so much for what his done for all my family.
@Bluecollarrebel
@Bluecollarrebel 9 ай бұрын
Great conversation ✊🏾
@sarahkuczynski13
@sarahkuczynski13 4 жыл бұрын
Hello Victor & thank you so much!! I believe you were sent to me today to bring me comfort, and you have done that to say the least! I sub.’ed to your channel before I was even finished with this video’s message! ☮️💟🕉☯️🔯
@silva8215
@silva8215 6 күн бұрын
It requires no effort, its already there. I am, right? Being aware, letting go and relax. Try to find out who it is experiences your hand movement, your breath. Who is it? Where is it?
@knottreel
@knottreel 5 жыл бұрын
If you have to leave a friend, please give it a little closure. There's nothing more painful than losing an old, old friend, without any parting goodbyes. I can handle separation, but not flippant indifference.
@zilla16
@zilla16 6 жыл бұрын
Haven't gotten the memo yet... My brain frequency number is: 5229094566687121092000078645399912209077763654469988543090956665338670989677755453887542387669977400000000046543399999000056642888659988365338856652898754096633567099955587872344977644487778445668208755000000000000000046433386865898099995654426647767778738866989956654388664290 I think that's right. Okay ready to receive this Awakening...
@Mmhmm62
@Mmhmm62 4 жыл бұрын
This was incredibly helpful and soothing. Thank you thank you thank you 💚
@lucerolaura89
@lucerolaura89 7 жыл бұрын
You are awesome Victor! Your channel is amazing and it fills my heart to know Im not alone in this journey🌍💞🌍💞 Thanks!!
@lucerolaura89
@lucerolaura89 7 жыл бұрын
Didn't mean to make it sound like Im new here haha totally not!!
@samanthagentry9803
@samanthagentry9803 6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@lisag4441
@lisag4441 5 жыл бұрын
It just f’ing sucks. I think one of the worst things is that they look at you like your crazy when you try to explain what your trying to do. Your left with the feeling that that’s the last memory they’ll have of you. Lol I know it’s just a part of it. Most people were easy to let go of but some are harder than others. Not drinking, not eating meat or dairy was enough for many to just drift away. Lol I said whoa that was easy. I’m realizing now the importance of a soul family.
@MrAnnunaki1
@MrAnnunaki1 6 жыл бұрын
Very interesting...so true. Thanks for the support.
@zoeylatshaparker99
@zoeylatshaparker99 4 жыл бұрын
My husband and I are seperating victor. He compared me to being "medicated." Because I've come to the conclusion, the moment. All I have is this. So I say dream, but dont obsess, I experience pain, but dont hang on it. I live NOW. it is a fast and violent falling away. A family friend of his got tied in too, and she fell away by force. Things are going so fast. I thought we were supposed to stay together up until about may and something in meditation came up. I am supposed to "leave him in pieces, but to not worry" during a time of pure bliss. Inwas somewhat melancholy because I felt like I knew the response was a truth without logic. idk if that means I stay gone, but all I can do is follow my heart. Going for my phsycology degree. Refusing child support efforts and any other stuff aside from necessary help. I'm going to work for the first time. I am so nervous but I feel it is supposed to take me somewhere. It was killiing me to stay. This separation is killing me. He wants to be in the courthouse Monday for papers. He and I are not jiving. It is the most painful thing.
@sabrinacastro7417
@sabrinacastro7417 5 жыл бұрын
It's like being sober in a club lol
@sabrinacastro7417
@sabrinacastro7417 5 жыл бұрын
Glad I related to someone
@gloriasantana6809
@gloriasantana6809 5 жыл бұрын
I know that this video is 3 years old, but i don't know if this is a sign of spiritual awakening but I feel as if I'm losing people. I lost my long distance friends, at one point we were inseparable and unbreakable but recently they blew me off about how I was never there for them and how I wasn't always there, that I've disappeared and changed. But just because I don't talk like we used to doesn't mean that I stopped caring or that they were my friends. But they took it the wrong way, even though when I told them if everything was alright and that they can talk to me, but they'd say yeah it's OK. But then they'll be like we were always there for you and you were never there for us when I've told them if they were, like I'm not a mind reader. They expected me to text them every single day, like dude I have a life and I'm not practically married to you guys. I never questioned our friendship, never, I respected their space. Just because they weren't on didn't mean I didn't trust them, but they lost trust in me for whatever reason in them not knowing my private life, and it's like none of their business, I don't ask them to tell me every single detail about their lives to me, because that's just wrong. Plus true friends never changed no matter how far apart they are, physically and verbally. Out of all my friends that I don't see anymore not once have they acted like they have, it's as if nothings changed between us, so I don't know what I did wrong. I mean at least I can agree to my own faults, plus they started talking shit to me how I only talk and don't do anything, then there started to talk shit about me when I never once disrespected them in that way.
@latanyapalmer7252
@latanyapalmer7252 8 жыл бұрын
Thank You, this message is confirmation for me.
@sleepyjoe6980
@sleepyjoe6980 5 жыл бұрын
My wife is going through a spiritual awakening I’ve been in love with her since 5th grade known her since kindergarten ....now age 32 she’s leaving me I’m so heart broken
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115
@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 5 жыл бұрын
You should have a closer relationship with God
@Lokicollectables
@Lokicollectables 4 жыл бұрын
same thing here, but i have embraced her ways instead of letting her go or walk out , and to be honest things im experiencing now are mind blowing i can see why people awakening get frustrated with partners , i am getting more attention than ever but still i need more , we visit old buildings do ghost hunts learn about crystals clear to see now we humans know nothing really
@kieshaScogburn
@kieshaScogburn 7 жыл бұрын
wow this video was short and sweet. truly resonated with my spirit!!👍👍👍👍
@eliort404
@eliort404 6 жыл бұрын
How wonderfull that u share this. And thank you
@katyesme
@katyesme 8 жыл бұрын
I feel this happening with me and my bf. We fight almost all the time now but still really trying to hold on to each other. Sometimes I just wanna run for the hills to be honest, but that seems to aweful. Sorry I must be annoying right now I'm commenting on all of your videos 😟
@VictorOddo1111
@VictorOddo1111 8 жыл бұрын
+Kadie Esme hey, the activity helps my videos reach more people actually and i am quite excited that i have people enjoying them :) good luck with your relationship... i am sure as time progresses you will get more clarity about the situation, however it unfolds
@capogbe2898
@capogbe2898 7 жыл бұрын
Victor Oddo is it normal to feel like I'm in a different world I feel disconnected I feel like I'm ahead of my time some people say I'm insane but some people that been in my shoes say im just in a different level of the vibration I looked up the laws of the universe and all the signs come to me
@baddiezone
@baddiezone 4 жыл бұрын
That’s what happens when one mate becomes awoke and the other doesn’t . Unequally yoked.
@bidisharoy9936
@bidisharoy9936 5 жыл бұрын
He got awakend few months after our marriage. Things are getting harder these days. We had problems , but things are going above my head now. I break down now and then, everything looks hopeless to me. I tried enough. I am planning to go separate for the good of both of us.
@Charlotte74347
@Charlotte74347 6 жыл бұрын
Yes,losing friends to death from cancer,,,,,at my age,55,my heart is broken from these
@irenapoe2787
@irenapoe2787 7 жыл бұрын
My Relationships are declining too!
@JenWitsShamanicPractitioner
@JenWitsShamanicPractitioner 6 жыл бұрын
Omg your best video ever. Thanks so much. Very helpful to me
@matthewhernandez3174
@matthewhernandez3174 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE your tongue tick 🙌💖
@NorthernGem88
@NorthernGem88 7 жыл бұрын
On point here Vic!
@Marginal391
@Marginal391 6 жыл бұрын
Hi Victor and thanks for the vid. By talking about braising the vibrations you might refer to opening the higher chakras ... If so "helping" the others to raise the vibrations is easy ... Thanks again.
@Risha-Rene
@Risha-Rene 6 жыл бұрын
Very lonely. Trying to attract more like minded people
@deedni42
@deedni42 8 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@munhassan7840
@munhassan7840 7 жыл бұрын
I’m definitely experiencing this it’s awful and sad 😔 I’ve to let few friends go because I found we was just not on the same level. They just used to pull me down.
@DanaBidlake
@DanaBidlake 7 жыл бұрын
wow some times I feel like your talking directly about me... It wows me into watching more of your videos only to be wowed some more....
@Soundpj
@Soundpj 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou.
@DaPhreshestKidd
@DaPhreshestKidd 3 жыл бұрын
Ive tried to invite them onto the path and they declined, of course it hurt, but i decided to allow them time to grow on their own, but as I become more conscious, they become more and more assertive, rude and downright abusive. I need to leave
@ulrikakropp9353
@ulrikakropp9353 7 жыл бұрын
I got the picture of things 😉, thanks Victor 💫
@annaabudapest9058
@annaabudapest9058 7 жыл бұрын
I am alone. I don't know if it is because I am too low or too high..
@highspeedy101
@highspeedy101 6 жыл бұрын
anna hmmmhmmm
@ecologiesofmindfulness564
@ecologiesofmindfulness564 3 ай бұрын
It sucks when it’s family..
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