Dating After SPIRITUAL AWAKENING (My Experience)

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Just so it's totally clear, this is not an ad! 😂😂😂

[@ritasmets4688]

Damn! ;-) 3 years on the twinflame path! Indeed, it gets better if you keep the focus on selflove. Just enjoying my life, because it's a present ! Greetings from Belgium!

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

😂😂 That's great Rita! 🙏🏻🤗❤

[@ivmmmm]

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[@ivmmmm]

It does look like a ad 🤣

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🤣🤣

[@dancingcloud8557]

You prefer normal people over new age spirituality type 🙌 Relief to hear a spiritual man say this!

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

😁🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@taniadreyes]

It’s nice to hear someone having the same experiences as me. People tell me I have to lower my standards, but it’s not a set of standards I have, it’s about not settling just so I’m not lonely. I love who I am alone. What I look for is exactly what you said, someone who empathetic, has a healthy relationship with themselves, and inner peace so that they don’t judge others harshly. I love people and love to connect with them as friends, but for an intimate romantic partner there has to be a mutual understanding of certain core ideas. Although it’s nice that I’m at a place of being comfortable in my own space, I still would love to share this human experience with someone so its comforting to know that lots of people feel the same way as I do

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Oh yes! Just be patient and if it needs to happen, you will certainly meet that person! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@AntonioLiberato08]

Spot on❤

[@mhyrrlove]

Yep. Completely resonate with this.

[@jolandab2058]

This is so recognizable, including TF. I know my next true match is around the corner 🙏, I won’t settle for less. I recognize this ‘new age spirituality’. Spirituality is a way of living, it is not a religion. Never give up the belief of finding a new partner, you will radiate your energy into the world like a lighthouse and your match will find you.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@zissou8900]

Everything you said is spot on. Dating is hard in 2022 and even harder after discovering your 'true self'. But as you said, we are already the happiness we seek. I wouldn't be able to see this clearly without the failed relationships in the past.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

We learn through all of our experiences, for sure! 🙏🏻❤️🤗

[@gentlemanx7987]

Thruth. Nothing more to add here, my friend. Thank you. 🍀

[@alphalogos3942]

everything you described resonated with me! The twin flame, not falling in love, sex, everything! I thought it was just me going crazy!

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Whatever we're going through, most likely we're not the only ones! 🙏🏻❤️🤗

[@dergefcw]

Thank you for this video❤. Inner peace is a beautiful thing. I have had some similar thoughts and experiences and some different outlooks as well. After my spiritual awakening and moving on from my TF. The bar for what I desire and know that I am worthy of has risen. I am open to accepting someone “regular” as long as they accept me for who I am and don’t try to dilute me. It has been my experience that some people run from or try to change what they don’t understand, the right person will stay. I am not looking for someone to complete me but I do desire companionship and a special someone to share this human experience with. Love is a beautiful thing and I look forward enjoying it in a healthy healed way. I don’t believe I was created to do life alone and that as more souls do the work us to raise our consciousness becoming love and being able to demonstrate love is what humanity needs. So many people are becoming disillusioned with the hope of finding love even young people and it’s sad to me. Lack of true love for ourselves and one another is a root of much dysfunction. Staying in my silo and not engaging is less taxing. Being courageous and embodying the things I learned on this journey is best for me and for humanity.

[@christinap.3743]

Wow, you nailed it here. Just watched this on KZbin and jumped on here to look at the comments. Thank God, I am not the only one! Twin Flame, whole bit... spiritual awakening, disinterest, don't connect like I used to, not too interested in anything. I was concerned it was depression but upon speaking with my doctor, I don't have the signs.... ?? I just don't have any interest in what I used to and it's like I don't have a true north now, not sure what to look forward to. I guess I've had some new interests I've never had (I suddenly like to cook, who'd of thought???) want a garden.... like walking more than I used to.... suddenly (or I notice it more than I used to) I have people on the other side talking to me... that's interesting... I'm very uncomfortable in a weird way... can't find a church I want to go to (not that I ever did), I just feel so odd in this world now. Thank you all for posting!! I may sleep better tonight!!

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

You're definitely not the only one! It's very common. I'd say, continue to explore your new interests and mostly look within without judgment nor expectations. You'll be fine! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@milenagotch2504]

I’ve been celibate for years. It’s a strange experience. I agree with everything you’ve said. Thank you for creating this important video and forum for discussion. When it comes to spiritual soulmates and the concept of courtship, I always love the story of Parvati and Lord Shiva. Blessings to you and your work. 🙏🏼💚

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks a lot Milena! Blessings to you too! 🙏🏻❤️🤗

[@jessimar74]

This resonates very much with my way of thinking after my spiritual awakening. I've become more discerning in choosing friends and potential partners and will not settle for anything less than I deserve. Thank you for your thoughts 🙏 😊

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@sourcehealing82]

This is exactly how I’ve been feeling. Since I met my twin I haven’t dated, been three years. I haven’t met anyone that tops that experience or anyone that is compatible. I’m still dealing with some anxiety and what you said about having inner peace is right on. It’s my number one goal. Nothing else external matters as much, I just want peace. Great video.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thank you Adriane! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@dadan_dreri2688]

Same strange story here ,few years gone now no love and lost all the people i used to know ,the wierd thing is that i didn't chose any of these And i do feel like to care less about it everyday chosen peace everytime ;

[@thepatwolfe]

This almost identically mirrors my experience 😅 thought I was going crazy so thank you 🙏 Anyone else just able to do an instant vibe check on people now ⚡️ or catch yourself saying/thinking things like ‘silly humans’ 👽

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

My pleasure Patrick! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@Ciara_mckeown_unfurl]

Yep - hearing this. Your feet sounded planted in real life and practical interests while keeping a mindful eye on your spirit stuff. And there's the invitation to have companionship along the path. Sounding very real here!! Nice.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks Ciara! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@catiaaoliveiraa]

Love and light to all. Thank you so much 🙏

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@petter9078]

At least you know what love is after the awakening. Which is to me priceless. I will find my wife one day, and I will do my very best to ensure that my family will feel love and peace through their whole being. From head to toe.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@Michael-Purcell]

Dude, this video describes what has happened to me and my awareness of people and life in general in the past five years.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

I'm glad it resonated Michael! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@yolandamartinez1180]

Thanks for making this video, I understand exactly your experience because I am experiencing exactly what you are experiencing and I thank you , it is very hard to explain to my love ones when I know it is too profound to put into words what I want. After my awakening 2012 I had a second marriage which lasted 2 and half year until I said game over my peace is my marriage and I will not allow my peace to be compromised. I have come to embrace myself, enjoy my solitude…, feel less alone when alone and when with people feel lonely, weird right. I am becoming whole and I want my partner to be whole and have a deep soul connection where we are experiencing each other without taking energy from the other… oh well if I keep going I won’t stop. Thank you for sharing and you are not alone in this there are a few of us out there experiencing the same !! ❤

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks for sharing your experience Yolanda! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@ideasandtrucking]

I can't help but think I'll probably be more or less alone mate wise on this path.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

You never know, life may surprise you! 🙏🏻🤗❤

[@cepa4682]

It is sad that the journey is hardly shareable, although I believe (or I want to believe) that there are many more of us than we will ever know. All what you have said is true. I have found your video after searching the topic, because dipping my toes in the dating scene for the past week or so made me very depressed at looking what's out there. Being still young and full of love as I am, it saddens me to think that I may not find the right person for me as all my priorities have changed now and won't settle for anything average. New age spirituality is equally scary, some very dangerous people out there. Such a difficult world we are living in. I may have to forget the dating thing as it is actually disrupting my peace of mind 😔 Love and light to y' all x

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

As long as you are the right person for you what is there to worry about? If you need to meet someone, you will! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@melwalker2353]

5 years for us both Martijn, and it is all the same for me.....I actually feel the very same. Our twins really did a good job on us....I feel too that I am prepared to be be happy with only me.🙏❤

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

You already know Mel, we are already happy! We just need to get rid of everything that prevents us from seeing and feeling that. 🙏🏻🤗❤

[@alextolan2002]

Amen!! All of the above plus no more drama games please!! On my journey I became aware of my own toxic behaviour that was feeding the drama and worked so hard on it that it’s become one of the biggest turnoffs for me! Good luck to you in finding a great partner, brave soul!! ✨

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks Alex! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@heylorae]

You are articulating my very thoughts almost word for word. Thank you for being so open, sharing your wisdom and vulnerability. I can completely relate and I am on your page. I will say in my dating experiences after my divorce several years ago I have realized as a spiritual awakened person now that being with someone who is not on your page of beliefs is very difficult to be with long term. I have also realized I am very happy being alone now, and I never thought that would be the case. In fact my higher self is my best company, lol. I’ve had wonderful love in my life so I have that memory, that lovely experience. And also I feel if someone is meant to come into my life it will happen organically, and I am open, but I am not needing. Much love to you on your awakened journey.😘

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks a lot and thanks for sharing your experience! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@sapnapandey5922]

Wow you are talking amazing, inner peace can be found within. Amazing shocking and chilling realisation. thank you so much🙏

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks to you! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@ssgissellee2345]

I agree!! Also It’s hard connecting with teenagers my age nowadays they’re wrapped up in there ego. But im blessed to have awakened at a young age because if not I wouldn’t have learned about the true self/soul/spirit.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@theodorapanagiotidi6118]

I am at this exact point too 😊 I am open to receiving my sacred partner 🌹 when you come to that point of peace within you don't allow someone not ready to share that journey with you in your life. Light and love to all 🙏🏾🌹🙏🏾

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@milenagotch2504]

Thanks!

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thank you so much Milena! I really appreciate your gesture! 🙏🏻❤️🤗

[@UnitateaConstiintei]

The more I listen to you the more I find myself in your life experience and feel like I see a kindred spirit. Same 5 years of nonexistent relationship. Though now I am with someone and for the last year both our growth has been amazing (thank you God!), even though I don't know how long it will last. He, so happy to have found you and your similar (to mine) struggles with spirituality ❤️❤️❤️

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

That's great! I'm happy to have you here with us! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@UnitateaConstiintei]

​@@theschoolofself-masterybeautiful and wonderful brother. But what does your heart desires, what does your soul tell you about meeting that girl to share a life with? Even though (my luck was that all the girls I have dated except for the first one, could not bare children) I know for sure this relationship I am in now will not last I can feel there is someone with whom I can start a family and bring forth a new brighter generation 🤔🤗❤️

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

I'd love to meet someone compatible I can share life with. But it's ok if it doesn't happen. And I have no specific desire to have children. To me, that depends more on the relationship I'll have at that moment. 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@QuietSpacePhotoStudioLLC]

It's been almost 4 years since I had to leave someone I had a huge contract with in this life. Not sure if he was a twin flame or what exactly, but def a strong contract. It was a major player in my awakening. Within the last few months, I've started to feel like I might be ready for a close relationship finally. Everything you said is so true. It used to be so easy for me & now it's crickets even though I feel like my heart is open & I'm not chasing. And if I do meet someone, it's so brief & it's like my energy pushes them away or isn't compatible. It's so frustrating. Sex is def not a priority. One of the most major things I notice is how little people try to get to know you & take the time to listen. Really talk about the intense things that arw a priority for me, rather than the "mundane." Everything is so fast for them. Awakening seems like such a lonely path. I find it so hard to believe that millions of people that are awakened are destined to wonder alone for the rest of this human life. Thank you for this video. Makes me realize I'm not alone!

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks for sharing your experience! There will come a point you'll be ok with being alone, and that's when real opportunities will present itself again 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@laurajeanne5031]

There is a lot to be said for living in God's world and knowing that there is a path that you agreed to before you came to this world. I, too, met and know my twin flame. There comes a time when you need to be your own person with your own convictions and standards. I refuse to settle. I don't have to. I know my worth and what I can bring to someone that wants to share. It is difficult to learn that love comes and goes. I tried my best to love as completely as I could. However, I was not loved back, so I had to learn to value myself. I have been protected, because I came from a pure heart. God is watching. It is my sincere belief that as spiritual souls we are given the chance to bring newness and balance to the world. For gratefulness to God, but also for Jesus sake. He will come again and it is a cleansing. We should be grateful enough to live the life we promised that we would. Unfortunately, society has created an illusion that people are Gods. That is not love, it is lust. That is deceit. What I have learned is that Lucifer has a beautiful face. If someone shows you who they truly are, do yourself a favor and believe it. I Feel blessed to have learned that lesson. Lots of tears and denial. It is about learning to love yourself and the divine being you are, bringing energy that causes a transformation. Noone can take your light away from you. You have learned discernment my friend. Use it wisely.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@embrace_what_is8679]

✨💕 Ad or not, you’re giving me hope that there are others that are at the same point. That inner peace and love of self were my top priorities, and since I have been living that light, it’s difficult to imagine a partner fitting into that. ✨💕 Much love 🤗

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Haha, of course there are plenty of "candidates" out there for us! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@chen6109]

Thank you for this . i can really relate 🙏 i feel like i am in this * in between * zone where i dont find the things im looking for in regular people but i also really cannot relate to all this concious spiritual culture that seems just as unconcious as the others just in different clothes ... i am in my awakening process for a while now and im isolated and ok with it but sometimes i think it would be so nice to meet someone who can relate. thank you for giving me the hope that there are men like you that are out there somewhere 🙏💫

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

There are plenty of people on a similar path! It's true sometimes it might feel it's difficult to find them, but if you look in the right places I'm sure you'll find some like-minded people to connect with 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@chen6109]

@@theschoolofself-mastery 🙏✨🌻

[@Intuition101byana]

Thanks God I’m not alone!! I thought I was the only one feeling this way because most of the people around me just don’t get me. 🙏 it’s lovely to be happy from whitin and open to share!! Yes! That’s the way to go!!! ❤

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@tolgacan13]

Most you said is in accord with my own experience quite a bit. Especially the failure in dates with new-age spiritual types (bc of individualistic tendencies) and the sudden difficulty to start a formal relationship as never it was the case before. Thanks. Greetings from Turkey, bro.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thank you Tolga! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@aNnAkt1qw]

This is a brilliant video. Thank you very much for speaking so openly how i am feeling on my journey ❤

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thank you Anna! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@deafmode4248]

Thanks for sharing this video! I can relate a 100% with what you said! Twin flame relationship…being single for 6 years now..spiritual awakening/realization, new age spirituality…etc..well..saying I can relate 100% was saying all that I mentioned…just wanted to say that it is nice to see people on the same journey and experience similar things!🙏

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks for your words! It's always great to cross paths with like minded souls! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@Jojoyou628]

oh God...I am sooo happy to see this video. So it is not me only who is experiencing this. I am an attractive woman and people are starting to think I have a problem or that I am gay...I just have standards now and I will not compromise my peace over a relationship. I am still dreaming of that beautiful deep relationship...but I am ok also with the thought of getting older by myself. I am never alone, God is my friend.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@joannaevans8247]

I can relate this so much ! I had stayed single out of choice for 7 years as atrracted insecure men before and felt numb to dating ! Ever since meeting my twin flame and went through a awakening i am even worse then before 😮 The only reason i started dating, as i went to a palm reader two years ago ,and she said i was going to meet the one ,not now but a year and half to two years ,which was from February to July this year ! And i met my twin in the beginning of April and he was spot on to what she said ! I really thought i was going to meet my soul mate .

[@TestimonyAndScripture]

I stopped dating completely for 3 years and simply started writing books, a bunch of songs on my guitar, focusing on my physical health, and reading more. When I have conversations with girls we both really enjoy them but I don't feel a huge need to actively date right now, I am complete and whole right now. I do plan on getting married but I used to feel like I wasn't complete without a girlfriend, now I see that I am. When I do get in a relationship again I believe it will go very well as I am no longer using relationships to try and complete myself.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

"simply writing books"... Having written a book, I can say it's not that simple! Great to see how you feel now! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@TestimonyAndScripture]

@@theschoolofself-mastery "Simply started writing books" is different than "Simply writing books" My solution was simple, not the task itself. all though I will say things are as easy as you yourself allow them to be.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

😊 I totally get what you're saying! Beautiful! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@TestimonyAndScripture]

@@theschoolofself-mastery God bless! have a wonderful day. 😃

[@Dbird9]

You are so refreshing I happen to be watching only the second video by yourself but already thankful I’ve found you

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Welcome to the channel! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@dianaashton2512]

This video and others I have watched are bring great peace and satisfaction to me, the information you are sharing is so relevant and personal and does not appear anywhere else on You Tube, I have also accepted it is plausible I will be alone for the rest of my life as the likelihood I will be led to another person who I am attracted to and who is also on a spiritual journey seems unlikely.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thank you so much for your kind words Diana! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@shirleygable8109]

Everything changes after a spiritual awakening...Been to church all my life and see things so much different now...Your videos are so easy to understand, Happiness certainly comes from within and not from anything outside of our spirit...God Bless and looking forward to reading your book...

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thank you so much Shirley! I'm you find thr content easy to understand. Brace yourself for the book! 🙏🏻🤗❤

[@jamescadzow9545]

Martijn, extremely insightful and so eloquently stated! I totally resonated with the exact same feelings since my Awakening in November of 2017. I too separated from my twin flame which led me to my Awakening. I'm just looking for a strong confident alpha female that chooses to live a conscious life, yet they simply don't exist anymore. I'm open to everything yet attached to absolutely nothing and totally at peace within..

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

I hear every word you say James! It's a rare species nowadays in this social media brainwashed world. But who knows, life always has surprises in store! As long as there is peace within, all is well. 🙏🏻🤗❤

[@jamescadzow9545]

@@theschoolofself-mastery Unless we happen to discover a time machine to take us back prior to the 1950's, or a hidden passage way to some Indigenous tribe within the Amazon forest with will have to continue to master patience and self-discipline.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Patience and self-discipline are timeless, they are always good traits to master! 🙏🏻🤗❤

[@ssgissellee2345]

I’ve also my twin flame which triggered my spiritual journey. If you’re still obsessively thinking about them I really recommend a yt channel called “New World AllStar” he’s not the “twin flame couples” he teaches you how to detach simply by creating a zen lifestyle which is exactly being your soul vibration.

[@dantarradellas7351]

Wow. Great channel. Thanks.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks a lot! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

I feel the same. It´s a new path to walk until we feel enough to know we are completely a new being in this old world of 3rd dimention. .... Great speach

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks João! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@HaydenNightingale124]

Thank you for doing this video. It was refreshing to hear, especially from a man that is taught by society that looks are the ONLY thing that matters. My twin flame reflected back to me my shadow self, and it wasn't pretty 😬 It's been over 5 yrs and I haven't dated since and I still have zero desires to date. I know exactly what I now want/need in a partner and have found myself wondering if I will ever meet someone that meets the 3 C's- Chemsitry, Connection and Compatability. I wish you the best of luck on your dating journey and path with making videos!

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks Hayden! I was definitely not taught that looks are the only thing that matter. I'm from before the internet generation 😉🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@anacat70123]

Hi and thank you for this video. I'm on the Twin Flame's path since July 2022. Of course, we are separated. He left me with the Kundalini energy (learning to live with) and my husband (struggling to live with, but doesn't work any more). I do realise that my couple's relationship is finished and that it is rather hard to find another person as unconditional love and spiritual growth have changed lots of things as you said. Love, harmony and peace for everybody. ❤️

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@ruirocha7782]

I really understand you, i can relate to this in so many ways.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻❤️🤗

[@linvi_chemutai]

So happy I found this channel. Broadens on what I've started learning.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Welcome to the channel! I'm looking forward to seeing you around 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@LBBeatsIRS]

100% spot on.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@marianbergroth8228]

I appreciate your content so much, thank you! I resonate so much with what you are saying here, about not looking, finding it hard to fall in love, not feeling the need for sex etcetera. And I also notice a part of me that wants to debate the concept of "twin flame", as I find it very new age :)

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks Marian! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@StelliumEnSagi99]

Thank you very much for sharing your experiencie, definitely make us feel that we are not rare, crazy or lonely in this journey 😍❤🙌!!! My love life and specially sex life completely change after I met my twin. I use to mainly relate to my couples in a sexual way and after my tween reunion i was able to understand the impact of sex in all our energy and how sacret sexual experiencie really is (a way to get closer to god). Its been over 5 years now since the reunion and quick separation from my tween and I have felt living in abstinence all this time and dedicating to regulary clean the sexual energy and all memories storage in the uteros, wich is the energetic heart of a woman ❤💚💜. Tween flames is a journey to our inside and to the spirit ❤🌈❤. A blesing and a gift 🙏💚

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@skolarsfinland4455]

I also think and feel like you do. ❤️ Wau, thank you for making this video. Now I understand better what is happening with me. 😊

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Great! I'm glad it was helpful! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@pedrob.5021]

Seeing your videos i know that i would like a lot be your friend. Im 100% sure we will have a conversation for hours. Be good!!

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

😁 thank you Pedro! Take care my friend! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@maireadmaguire7509]

I’d say you’ll have a few offers after this!!

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Lol!! Not really! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@sid__]

Dating becomes challenging because in many ways it requires you to step back in the matrix, finding someone operating on the same level/frequency is very difficult

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Very difficult but not impossible! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@sid__]

@@theschoolofself-mastery indeed brother man!

[@ulrikajohansson5500]

You described me and my situation. I feel exactly the same. Since I met my twin flame, I can’t seem to find anyone interesting as a partner. Not even the hottest man I used to fancy. So is this my life now? I guess so.. I hope you will end up with your twin one day. And I hope the same for me. -Time will tell ❤️☀️🍀😊

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

There are plenty of great men and women out there still, it's just a matter of taking a conscious decision to accept and let go, and to open up to love again. 🙏🏻🤗❤

[@freshorganicspabar]

How much I enjoyed watching your video 😢.. every word resonates so hard ( pain of separation from TF, no way back to normal ppl, being alone to the rest of this life🤦‍♀️) Happy your video popped up from nowhere. Sad that you experience the same as I am , heart wrenching pain we can’t show to no one😢 Oh well , I have extra bar of chocolate 🍫😂YOU ARE NOT ALONE ! ❤️‍🔥

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Haha, the chocolate won't help much! In the end, it's all in the mind and how you perceive things. I'm glad you enjoyed the video! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@itsok3783]

This video suddenly appeared and I am someone who don't just scroll and keeps on seeing all the videos on KZbin but I don't know why I was compelled to stop and listen and while I was listening guess what ....... it seemed as if I am taking in someone else's body 😢 it's weird but true , sir whoever u are each and every word u said is something I am feeling and wanted to express, u gave words to my feelings, thanks a lot 🙏 💗

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

I'm glad I could help! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@TXOldSoul]

This resonates. Thank you for sharing.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Great! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@dogmonkey8483]

Here my love going your way !!

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@pekkalaurila4599]

I resonate with what you say. The only thing I am unsure about is falling in love. I am dating now and can feel love, but the crazy energy I used to feel is gone and this is actually better because in my opinion falling in love is some kind of madness 😅, and it's purpose is probably to form attachment. These are just my thoughts on this subject.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@misalsudhir]

This is exactly what I was looking for. The same happened with me when 3 years back my wife asked me for divorce after 16 years of married life. I went into spirituality seeking the answer for my life purpose. But now i am going through the same feelings and questions. Who's answers i got in your video. Thanks, god bless you.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

I'm glad it was helpful! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@Supriya318]

Very helpful insight...I related with it

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@Artbm2024]

You just described me and I have the same problem I just love being by myself but would like to find someone I can relate to 🤷‍♀️

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@jamesphillips7656]

well said

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@JEM-justme]

I know what you mean. Twin Flame ending. I really just want my peace.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@samuelrajsky]

Exactly very good

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

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[@patriciabessio6117]

100% agree

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@1Nezanet]

I can only say I wish I hadn't experienced an awakening I didn't even know when it started I just noticed that a lot of strange things started happening in my life Even now I don't understand the whole process I don't even want to understand At first it was painful and a very dark place, now I feel unconditional love and more peace I recently decided to start dating after years of being alone It gets worse from date to date Hope it will be okay in the end

[@kevinholt8298]

100 % across the board. Except the twin flame part. I fell into that trap also, but I don't think it is real.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@maurenvillalobos1467]

I don't know why I see everyone as kids and like if I were their mom or sister 😅 plus my gender isn't well identify. I feel very genderless and more just as human... this gives me such a peace, not competing with other women or trying to get attention from men... crazy 🤯 but beautiful journey. I even cut my hair

[@monikapikula8008]

Totally true 😅

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@monikapikula8008]

@@theschoolofself-mastery 🧡🧡🧡

[@onimusha13]

I think you're overthinking it, or you're putting too many expectations. You can be still present and awake, but still buy into ego's bullshit of expectations and things divorced from the now. Rather than just letting life unfold itself. I was done with dating after years of frustration, and finally let go of the expectations and thoughts of whom I really wanted, and I actually met someone I've finally fallen in love, with after just having really interesting, friendly conversations. So far it's been half a year of constant being swept off the floor for the both of us. Of course, whatever fits your boat. But going by the preferences of whole groups of people is really a shallow way to perceive someone. There are no normal people. Dig deep enough and be persistent and you'll notice everyone makes their own definition of normal.

[@Nottoification]

Interesting, to me it feels falling in love has become more easy. I also stopped prioritizing sex, and prioritized intimacy. Sex just happens to be a fun byproduct. Maybe it is also the age difference, I am 25 years old. I just realized that love is something that happens within me as long as I allow it. I realized that it was fear that made me critical and judgemental. I closed myself off from loving in a romantic capacity to protect myself from getting taken advantage of. Now, I think loving is worth the suffering. As I think both are beautiful and necessary to be alive. Then again, I might be less far in my awakening progression. That is, if you can even attribute a linear progress metric to that! Anyway, interesting to see our experiences being so different!

[@TheBapowell]

Wow, all 7 apply 😮

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

💪🏻🙏🏻🤗

[@t.w.ftaurusweldingfabricat1195]

I used to have women lusting over me . An after meeting my twin flame relationship an going through the darknight of the soul . Is like no women showing interest in my life anymore. Is like it been taken away from my life completely. I even tried making females friends an to be honest I were being ignored completely 😅. .. So I came to the understanding that I lost my old self to endure a new one. . I became this new person . I am doing great. So I tried again with the ladies in which I didn't succeed 😂😂. Is like universe said " you had your time ,your time is over now be single an alone forever "😂. ..

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Haha, that sounds familiar! 😉🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@RoelvandenBergWillemWasbak]

all the pints you point out here i have them, but i have them for my whole life already, i am 32 and i have never ever had a relationship. nor have i ever had sex. So this confirms my hunch being spiritual awakened from birth. i just awoke in may this year being conscious about my spiritual sides. i have been manifesting my life. But still i have been directed by my parents and other people till 9 years ago i went to live on my self. from then i had almost no authority over me but my mother who i respect too much to just set aside even after being conscious about it all. i have had a difficult 4 weeks which were apparently my dark weeks of the soul or something. after that i came back to be myself again. i have been watching video's about sigma males, I have all qualifications and more.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Thanks for sharing your experience Roel! Having a relationship or not, or having sex or not are not indicators of being spiritual or having gone through a spiritual awakening. Being spiritual is simply seeing Spirit in everything and everyone around you. Which is not as simple as it sounds 😊🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@RoelvandenBergWillemWasbak]

@@theschoolofself-mastery yes i know that. I just say that i never had those difficulties after awakening like you had. because i have no experience in dating at all. That is because i do not date on the internet. i haven't met the right one (yet) i don't know who my twin flame is or my soul mate who i shall marry . But ofcourse, i love nature, animals, I work with 75 horses and i love them, I have a cat now for a couple of months, I love her and she i can totally see loves me too. I care more for other people to make them happy then stand up for myself. I care for some peoples gardens because they can't do it anymore because of medical reasons. i treat anyone with respect. I see the good in anyone but also the bad things they do. But i know everything that happens have two sides in them just like the organs inside. Also. i have seen lots of numbers my whole life But the last months, i see every day ever number you can see, 11:11, 22:22, 5555 4444, 3333, 6666,7777 8888, 9999 2442, etc my number is 22, i live on 22. i can go on. So,i am following the right tracks. ive been happy my whole life, what ever happened i cryed, and i moved on. so ye everything is going great.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

That's fantastic Roel! In the end, that's what it's all about! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@miahelena3556]

Nothing new but it still makes me sad. I wish I can love someone deeply in a relationship. But I am afraid that I have no opportunity to meet someone to share my life with. I have tried to settle to be on my own but it feels wrong. My inner guidance drives me to have a relationship. This can also be some phase, although this has last my whole life, and its harder after waking up. And after twin flame. But inner peace I wish to have, one way or another ❤

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

I understand you Mia, but inner peace doesn't come through a partner. It comes from within, and now is the perfect moment to learn how to cultivate that inner peace. Nobody else can do that for you. All the best to you on your journey 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@stevehowe9696]

❤

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@sanjeevani_kumari]

did you guys who are spiritually awakened experience libido after awakening? I even got awakened but it's still there. what do I do?

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

I'm not sure what the purpose is of your question? You want to get rid of your libido? There's nothing spiritual about that from my perspective, even Jezus still had sex. So, I'd say, just enjoy it with someone you have a beautiful loving relationship with 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@sanjeevani_kumari]

@@theschoolofself-mastery do you still have libido? just reply honestly

[@dianaashton2512]

I am curious to know how or why your meeting your twin flame has now placed you in a position of being alone.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

In short; I lost the need of being with someone. So, now I freely choose to be with someone, not out of a need, but because that person adds something to my life in one way or another, and because I enjoy the company of that person. And, so far, that person has not shown up yet 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@ivana6943]

​@@theschoolofself-masteryAmen to that.

[@one_in_all_in]

So guys, someone give me a hand with the timeline, so I feel stuck at the point 🤔 so I am two years into not desiring sex, at the point where I am physically separated from the matrix, understand the process of my purpose but just can't be bothered right now to creating my reality around it. 🙆🏼‍♂️🤦🏼‍♂️ I feel contently relaxed right now, and I know I shouldn't lol 🤷‍♂️

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

If you're truly content and relaxed, what's wrong with that? What is your exact question related to the timeline? 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@one_in_all_in]

@@theschoolofself-mastery mmmm 🤔 how do I explain. (You actually answered it for me in a video I watched after ). I am in ego right at this moment 🙏

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

We all are my friend! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@nickhowarthify]

This video is a little heartbreaking. I think modelling anything on the past or in comparison to something else takes away the freedom of someone else to express their love. After enlightenment I think the most important thing to have is someone who want to grow and manoeuvre with the flow of reality. Choosing to exist with someone else’s presence shouldn’t be based on anything that is unchanging. You flow together until you don’t. But you also can’t punish yourself for enjoying or being attracted to characteristics that are allowed to come and go with the flow. Stop making tick boxes. Love the things about what each other are now.. but know that anything with a given characteristic are not the identity of your presence or the presence of the people you engage with.

[@cairn369]

Yes, accept it, go with it, or you will never find.

[@nealtran1856]

I am between a rock and a dry place between either serving the ego self or serving a religious God. They said, I m inside God, and God inside me. Does it mean I am God ? And if I am God, do I need God to tell me who am I? So, every one is God (after awaken), it's like God is telling God who God is, letting alone God is dating God.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

God indeed is within you, but you are not inside God. The physical realm is just a projection, none of the physical is real and therefore not in God. However, the source of the physical illusion is God, therefore, the essence of you is God. God will never tell you who you are, it will be you who will find God within yourself, and then, nobody will have to tell you who you are anymore. Because you will know. God doesn't need to be served, He needs to be recognized 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@heladds]

what happened to your twin soul? i can't help but think if the relationship was good, then why not be together?

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Those are questions I cannot answer because I don't know. I imagine she knows. But those questions are not very relevant since we need to live now, accept what is, and be happy and at peace here and now 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@heladds]

@@theschoolofself-mastery I understand I only ask because it was mentioned more than once in a couple of videos so it aroused my curiosity. either way, I am glad to come across ur channel... I like what u have said and it resonates... 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

That's great! Welcome to the channel! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@Anna-gg1wp]

I went through spiritual awaking and psychosis.. I lost interest in people and specially guys. I don't wanna be even touched... I hate people in general... people are so shallow and not so intelligent

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Based on your comment it doesn't look like you completed your spiritual awakening, hatred and lack of interest are not a part of those who are awake. I encourage you to continue digging deeper within yourself to uncover all the love you have to give to yourself and others 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@Anna-gg1wp]

@@theschoolofself-mastery yes . Recovering from psychosis as a last chapter 🥴

[@owlaboutyoumedaycarechildc8631]

This is same for me

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@evageliazografou9438]

🙏

[@praneeth_A]

Right now, I'm in love with a girl. I've no thought of proposing her soon. Firstly, i want to grow spiritually. So, after my spiritual awakening, Can i still love her??

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

Of course you can! 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@praneeth_A]

@@theschoolofself-mastery but, some people say that my fate decides that. Is it true????

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

You decide your own fate my friend. Spiritual growth can change your perspective on things, but in the end, you decide who you love. 🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@praneeth_A]

@@theschoolofself-mastery is it same with kundalini awakening people???

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

I'm not sure what you mean with that? I have no knowledge of what people call "kundalini awakening", so I can't say much about it.

[@c.e.equestrians6388]

Lol!!! Yup!!!

[@danielhilmersson7797]

My experiencie to😅

[@genylee5000]

Challenging indeed..

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@ianirvingthorsonc]

😂❤🙈🤷

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@andremontana1327]

Tribal life with a lady, in it's simplicity could be a beautiful spiritual thing. But this has mostly vanished. Complex "Spiritual" women from western societies, have been influenced by the new ways, whether we realize it or not. Be nice, love folk, but avoid dating during this time of madness.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@dergefcw]

Thank you for this video❤. Inner peace is a beautiful thing. I have had some similar thoughts and experiences and some different outlooks as well. After my spiritual awakening and moving on from my TF. The bar for what I desire and know that I am worthy of has risen. I am open to accepting someone “regular” as long as they accept me for who I am and don’t try to dilute me. It has been my experience that some people run from or try to change what they don’t understand, the right person will stay. I am not looking for someone to complete me but I do desire companionship and a special someone to share this human experience with. Love is a beautiful thing and I look forward enjoying it in a healthy healed way. I don’t believe I was created to do life alone and that as more souls do the work us to raise our consciousness becoming love and being able to demonstrate love is what humanity needs. So many people are becoming disillusioned with the hope of finding love even young people and it’s sad to me. Lack of true love for ourselves and one another is a root of much dysfunction. Staying in my silo and not engaging is less taxing. Being courageous and embodying the things I learned on this journey is best for me and for humanity.

[@theschoolofself-mastery]

🙏🏻🤗❤️

[@sapnapandey5922]

Wow you are talking amazing, inner peace can be found within. Amazing shocking and chilling realisation. thank you so much🙏