Spotting HIGH QUALITY WOMEN

[@sadiapsychology]

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[@elianap13]

"Your competition is never other men. Your competition is her values." What a great discussion and empowering for women with high values.

[@donh1572]

Amen sister

[@donh1572]

@CamronLummus-mx6zj you’re clueless

[@elianap13]

@@donh1572 Camron also edited his reply a few times. This person is triggered that women can choose their values over a man. I wonder why...lol

[@elianap13]

@CamronLummus-mx6zj Men can compete among themselves all they want. Sadia's statement is about a woman's choice. In some cases, it's better to choose none of the men if they don't meet your values.

[@donh1572]

@CamronLummus-mx6zj yes, beta males do all the time for low value women

[@joanofarcxxi]

She totally owns this conversation. So on point, so lucid, razor sharp. His justification for why a man needs to have a "high body count" (who came up with that expression, it's like people you shag are murder victims and you're a serial killer) is pathetic. Even dogs do that. Quality is what is important, not quantity.

[@TheAffluentDon]

Why is there a competition? What are they competing for?

[@joanofarcxxi]

​@@TheAffluentDon Who said it's a competition? You must be a male. It's not a competition, it's a fact that she educated, well informed, wise, intelligent, and knows how life works. She is also very articulate and a quick thinker. All positive attributes. It's not a contest, it's just a fact.

[@dlady4]

When he attempted to justify why it's ok for men to have high body counts, I felt I was listening to a 15 yr old instead of a fully grown men. I find it both amazing and amusing the mental gymnastics some men engage in to sell the idea that some of their bizarre behaviors are ok. It was very satisfying to see how she completely and utterly dismantled his misguided interpretation of why men do things they do. 😉

[@jaredclark6134]

Completely agree with you. A high body count is not worth bragging about, rather you are a man or woman.

[@hereforthecomments258]

Women demand that men have a body count. Try to be smarter. No women are looking for a virgin. How do you think you become good at sex there genius? This woman is a own and is often completely wrong. She's alone and telling everyone what a relationship needs. Nice try.

[@katepadget-koh6910]

Mike was speechless, you made him question a lot of what he believed.

[@BaiMengLing]

32 is very young I am not sure men are mentally mature before 40

[@adaofcharles1217]

@@BaiMengLing Even at 60, most men are still immature.

[@kenamasunsmith3976]

I want to believe this but it is not true. That narrative? pls squash it! It will set humanity back. Look at what Dr. King accomplished and Malcolm X before 40?

[@kenamasunsmith3976]

The interviewer was squirming! Real conversations with desire to understand improve our quality of life.

[@kenamasunsmith3976]

Teach! The one night stand mainly teaches him what he wants- she is a teacher! Watch diary of a ceo. The neurologist explains why men made children with many different women. Times have changed but ppl are using old ways to justify promiscuity and wreckless appetites! Indeed selection process is warped.

[@iamjalexsanchez]

Her rant at 8:32 abt men losing their ability to think straight when choosing women literally stopped me in my tracks. Thanks for bringing on this sage women 🙏🏼

[@seagreentangerine2065]

But it's nothing new... men have always followed their eyes.

[@t5396]

@@seagreentangerine2065 you sound butthurt because you're unattractive

[@deezed6478]

I have been saying this FOREVER. How can you shame women for sleeping with you when you chase them and do everything in your power to get them to sleep with you?? Don’t create the demand for something then hate the product.

[@bluebutterfly5062]

Exactly! Men keep saying they only want women that are "pure" but they are so quick to get mad when women don't sleep with them. 🤷‍♀️

[@carmelinetujbffvkvkk]

And them go to a prostitute and say all women are whores

[@ashtynrose1906]

@@bluebutterfly5062 They want to think they are the special exception but it makes them uncomfortable anyway because they know how someone acts with them is probably how they act with others.

[@bluebutterfly5062]

@@ashtynrose1906 yeah right! They get annoyed at us because we're apparently "waiting for our perfect prince charming" but they are also *dying* to be that man for the girl _they_ chose!

[@Akmong1988]

I loved how she put the pregnancy problem.

[@Daily_Godly]

Sadia has composure and speaks her thoughts clearly. Learning a lot from her.

[@SotonyeAfiesimama]

This has got to be the most sensible relationship expert on KZbin. There's nothing she's said that I disagree with. This is a gift and a calling for sure. Brilliant discussion!

[@araceli4_]

I personally don’t believe in “hoe” phases. I know friends who’ve also gone without one. I agree with the Self control and time alone after a relationship being more respectable.

[@toddjohnson271]

It is not a phase......it doesn't go away.

[@5050TM]

I never have either.

[@citlalivillegas9298]

Same I have a lot of self love a respect for myself. Why would I let someone else disturb my inner peace.

[@aishaarshadalam3412]

I think that was very silly of him to say. The average Joe and the average Jane do not have a hoe phase cause they're working or busy with their lives and trying to pay their bills and meeting with friends and family and don't care for a hoe phase. People seem to glorify sex. It's not that big a deal tbh. Not for everyone. Most people get on with one person and that's that. Most people aren't curious about random strangers out there. Genuinely think some of these people are living in some weird dream world.

[@araceli4_]

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[@carmenanastasiu3318]

I think that men needed someone like Sadia to finally start and heal themselves, knowing that usually men are in denial and their emotional intelligence is not naturaly high. By just looking at her you are mesmerised and so they might start and pay attention to their inner issues. Congrats Sadia and to your mom encouraging you to become a public figure! ❤

[@zeevwolf13]

I’m an emotionally intelligent man. I’ve noticed that there is only room for my emotions when they are convenient for the woman that is asking me to be emotionally intelligent. And that any emotional labor I do that is not for her convenience, or not something that she specifically asks for, that either goes unnoticed; or when I’m saying something that is not favorable, that shit gets used against me and it becomes how she feels about what I said, and not about what I said.

[@diana.290]

@@zeevwolf13 I often think about this. I remember studying in university a course named Criminal law and frorensic mental health. Evey study ever made clearly shows that women are by far more emotionally intelligent than men. Most studies are also backed by statistics based on criminal behavior (take a look at which gender commits almost all of the most violent stuff). Given all this data, could it be that even when a man think he is being emotionally intelligent in the way he chooses to deal with a situation, he is actually wrong? I think more people need to be aware of the disparity of emotional intelligence levels between genders and become active learners on the matter.

[@zeevwolf13]

@@diana.290 First you trivialize (deny, disrespect) my experience as a man, then you use red herring unnamed sources to attack my experience as a man, and last you reverse victim and offender by implying my experience as a man is “wrong.” Essentially you’re “stereotyping,” “shaming” and “devaluing” a whole gender based on what you recall from a class involving studies on criminal populations. Tactically sounds like DARVO to me, and not surprisingly delivered covertly which aligns to my experiences. Thank you for providing evidence to support my experience that when I say something that is not favorable to how a woman feels, that shit gets used against me and it becomes how she feels about what I said, and not about what I said.

[@rishirajasekaran6055]

​@@diana.290 you're making a generalization error. It could be possible that in a given situation the man is being more emotionally intelligent than the woman. Averages are based on individual experiences, and they may not explain every single interaction between every single man or woman. It's important to ask for more information rather than immediately shutting down the argument. I've seen loads of people simply quote a statistic and think that proves their point, when in reality the truth is a bit more complex.

[@UberZambrotta8]

@@zeevwolf13 If you're really as emotionally intelligent as you claim (and I don't know you to say you are or aren't), at some point you'll understand that everything you mentioned about your emotional intelligence only being appreciated when it goes in a woman's favor only shows that you and said woman were not compatible. It's not a matter of "women only recognize/appreciate emotional intelligence when it's convenient for them", it's about YOU carrying youself through life situations with empathy, self-regulation and the like, regardless of how others react to it.

[@danielomamofe7722]

Sadia listens and gives others a chance to speak unlike other influencers who are always interrupting

[@vinlennox7658]

The others are idiots who can only keep banging on with their single line.

[@mamebonsu2560]

Another huge problem in our society generally. We don't listen to learn.

[@WeinMohammed]

Good observation....Sadia has great active listening skills...it's what makes her a good counsellor

[@tzukhi]

Very true.

[@gthomas3609]

When a man has a high body count, he no longer is a high value man. If I as a woman can control myself before marriage, then I expect the same of my future husband.

[@soniathegemini1593]

Yes correct and it makes us vulnerable to STDs too. Why should risk our health for their frivilousness

[@hellybelle5]

​@@soniathegemini1593and potentially finding he has babies/children he doesn't know about. He will also (we all do it) compare you as a person, your body, and your ability to give him pleasure etc... to however many women.

[@andresandres1557]

A key Who open any door is a master key, if a door is open for anyelse key is a bad door. Is not same for men s3x for women

[@andresandres1557]

Women and men we arent the same

[@hellybelle5]

@@andresandres1557 you're right, but we should all be in control of our own bodies, and not sharing intimacy with anyone who strikes our fancy, or it cheapens it.

[@jalilaclarke-ho1oj]

It's so true about men and high body count, they sleep with a bunch of women and act like they're special, but they're actually the worst lovers. Sadia said it best, that type of man is only learning to please himself not women, only time unlocks intimacy. Really enjoy listening to Sadia all the time, always spot-on.

[@AussieGem]

It takes courage and fortitude to stay true to being authentic, when a culture rewards promiscurity and shallow values. Learning how not to internalise that messaging, that being a more traditional values person, is not something to give up on, when you don't for example get showered in gifts or attention - but also realising, when you value yourself, you sleep soundly, you know you won't face the mental & emotional battles later in life when looks and money can't fix a broken mind and heart or soul. We are more than the skin we're in. This clip is a solid reminder of that. Thank you for sharing.

[@olgak516]

@GemmaLaurelleAdventures, thank you for holding up that mirror of truth. ❤

[@Daudania]

Girl you amaze me with the way you speek. So calm, to the point and convincing. Wishing you all the best.

[@TALIACORNELIUS]

Yes me too! Because she speaks the truth straight up, an intelligence that’s not even debatable

[@BeautiHacks]

Amen Girl! Finally a woman with brains, insight and moral code.

[@knowvilleknows1075]

Lmao “finally a woman with brains”. I hope you’re picked today

[@BeautiHacks]

@@knowvilleknows1075 not sure what that meant but …same to you.

[@trewloveofficial]

Is it really that surprising or have we been trained to think it’s a rarity?

[@BeautiHacks]

@@trewloveofficial I think that morals in general have gone out the window making it rare to find. Each generation gets more and more loose. Hardly anyone waits until marriage anymore. It’s common for people who don’t even know each other to just hop into bed with each other like it’s just a casual act of pleasure. This is only numbing people’s emotions. The more easier that men have access to sex the less they value the right woman when she is presented to them. We value what we work hard to get but will take what is easy. Instant gratification usually wins. And the rest of the rare woman have to compete with the easy ones.

[@trewloveofficial]

@@BeautiHacks couldn’t agree more

[@Regina.Clarke]

🎯 Sadia does it again! I wish men would follow and listen to her. Women should too, but when men lead appropriately, the woman often aligns with little resistance.

[@صلاحالدينالوهابي]

that's deep ..

[@stinger4712]

Men follow. She brings a powerful alternative perspective.

[@feliznavidad6958]

@CamronLummus-mx6zjYou sound insecure and like you're in no position to lead anyone. Like a captain paranoid about mutiny

[@gailainsley6939]

@CamronLummus-mx6zj. lol get over it. Heal 😂

[@OneTruth56]

Exactly!!! Women often align with little resistance! That’s why they have fallen for all the lies they have been told. They practice what is immoral and project it back to the man trying to make him be at fault as women continue to drag other women down with them. Beautifully put!!

[@stacycakes11]

Sadia I love your voice. I’m a traditional woman with family values and still single at 34, while I watch men invest in the fast woman. I’m very difficult to please and like you know a lot. I definitely have my fair share of trauma but put in the work. But I got caught up by the psyops. Feminism in America turned into women hating men so much they’re trying to become them. All the while being obsessed with independence and status. Now mens weaknesses are being used to control them and take their power. It’s a mess over here sis

[@gabolayaz]

I wonder, you are still single ?

[@urbanvoice5323]

Keep doing you sis, thats your superpower. You are who you attract, position yourself in the right enviroments and the high value man will come.

[@opinionbytriz]

​@urbanvoice5323 She might still attract low value men as a high value woman but if she discerns wisely she'll avoid "falling for" the low value men.

[@kocerarif]

You're a spinster.

[@jennyrobo]

Ok but why is this woman not on every show and talk show? She’s amazing! So smart and eloquent ❤

[@firsthelix6726]

Asking s psychologist: „Did you go to university“ is incredibly smart, really, thank you for asking this question! It raises the question if it is really necessary for every Tom, Dick and Harry to think they need to have their own podcast, especially if they don‘t qualify to properly interview others. So much rubbish on KZbin, and it‘s getting worse…

[@Ana-rb7ws]

Lol, I was surprised to hear that question too. Sadia handled it elegantly though.

[@faiabadi]

Probably couldn't imagine a beautiful woman having a masters degree too

[@firsthelix6726]

@@faiabadi Not saying she really has a degree, also because she really doesn’t talk much intellectual sense, to be honest. But the only way for a psychologist to qualify as such is obviously a university degree. I rather question the intelligence of the interviewer here than hers, but the truth is she just prefers to be a social media celeb instead of having substantial knowledge of the subject matter once you dig deeper…

[@biljanabojovic4485]

😂

[@listen2understand]

Do you really think that a degree makes someone qualified? There are moral and immoral psychologists, good and bad ones, don’t you think? A degree doesn’t make anyone qualified. I’ve seen plenty of doctors, nurses, electricians, teachers in the wrong profession and completely incompetent. Being a professional at something doesn’t give you capacity or a food character, the same way having a child doesn’t make you a competent parent.

[@E33Tpro]

Sadia, you have no idea how refreshing it is for me to hear someone else using the same kind of talking points and arguments as I do in these discussions, thank you for that!

[@elvan5922]

Yes,I feel the same.I feel sorry for girls whom feel like they had to sleep as many as possible to find someone.They have been manipulated.

[@neilmorgan7051]

Wow. This interview was amazing. The part that was eye opening was the fact that whenever both men or women have a high body count, they are accepting low value men or women and as a result, if a high quality man or woman comes, they are not in a position to accept such a person

[@negartoorany]

I just love the fact that you don't give up on your opinions and theories no matter what. whenever he is trying to convince you on something which is quite a norm in society but obviously an irrational thing, you explain and convince with facts and logic. I just love your wisdom and the way you articulate things. thank you so much!❤

[@k9offroad]

“Your competition isn’t other men it’s her values” - damn

[@sk8ingthemystery]

I love this so much, as a guy that's been listening to the "manosphere" quite a bit its fascinating to see her takes on body count and promiscuity. Truly opened my mind

[@jenaya_laila2442]

I absolutely live this point of view. Women are always being demonized for being promiscuous. However, you are right! The reward system in this world makes women do all these things. I've been there in my thought process too. I'm a traditional woman and I'm noticing that it's taking me nowhere! I'm slowly changing my view and I'm starting to think about options I would have previously dismissed due to difficult circumstances!

[@JoanMulder]

Are you talking about escort....?

[@bluebutterfly5062]

As long as you remember never to give up your values for anyone, no matter what they tell you. If you know it's not for you, or it is, stick to that. Good luck👍

[@avinigotwm6128]

Also you probably don't have a very high smv. You should choose a mating strategy that match your attractiveness

[@lorraineolivera24]

Sadia thank u thank u! Finally a woman with beauty and brains! Your knowledge is amazing! Thank you for educating all the watchers

[@VivPhotography]

Wow! Sadia! Solid arguments, and very quick with them, too. This was fantastic. And for the love of God I wish men would stop thinking and preaching that sleeping with more women makes them better it bed. It doesn't. In fact, it will make you worse. You don't need to learn how to please loads of women, you need to learn how to please the woman you choose to build a life with. That takes lots of time and practice and communication with THAT specific woman.

[@harleydavis3814]

So much truth in this video, especially the bit about men sleeping around risking pregnancies and also becoming addicted to novelty the more that they sleep around

[@arkadiuszbrandt8107]

Hi so glad you are there. I have just lost a girl by being 100% honest and playing no games. I was sure I was stupid and I made a mistake. Thanks to you I understand that my intuition just gave me the tool to select people around me. She left but I know now it was not my woman. I don't blame myself any more. Thanks a lot

[@CG-wr4no]

Such a great convo!! I'd add that the concept of men "getting 'it' out of their system" is a golden egg of a topic all on its own. What is "it" and is it truly something you "get out" of your system? Or is "it" something to be channeled, a physical component that doesn't need to be out of you, but to controlled by a matured mind, wise emotions. This is a mental and emotional maturity thing, not a purely physical one and time isn't the solution let alone A solution.

[@juliamichelle6212]

This is so spot on

[@sivuyisiwemntwana1227]

Sadie is a genius, this guy just baffles me In his way of thinking. A high value man should not only be based on success and looks

[@stephaniethelovely1]

She's so right about what men say they want, and the women they are following online.

[@Amber-ou9vz]

I’ve been on the promiscuous end of the spectrum & yes even tho the opportunities are endless( being with different Individuals) at the end of the night , I still felt lonely & lost.

[@stephanerapin4463]

waow i really liked this interview ... i never heard anybody summarize so well our dating world with such a heathy view. It's simple, it's straight to the point. It's true. Thank you

[@jypucca1]

Love how raw, thoughtful, and authentic this is! I live in the U.S., and I know this kind of opinion is not popular (at least in the city where I live) but it needs to be said and discussed. Thanks for sharing Sadia!!

[@Fazs1144]

I think the description of "high value" has been misconstrued. It doesnt mean rich men or instagram models. Its means men and women who are spiritually evolved with high standards for the highest good for the family and society.

[@gthomas3609]

Agreed. The 1% earners are NOT high value if they are sluts.

[@deannewoods5685]

I agree

[@serengeti4027]

not in this echo-chamber/social media world. i mean real talk id take cathy from starbucks over many IG girls. IG girls are really not that special man. Like I know what surgery and make up is. it's not that special. I like jerking off to it, sure, but i wouldn't find many of those women attractive as a life partner. if i was a rich dude with attachment issues i can see how i'd potentially be bored by cathy but idk. all the people who are in this youtube echo-chamber are OBSESSED with status. Including Sadia. I understand status matters to us all, but some more than others. this whole sphere on youtube is not really real life. a lot of it kinda makes sense and stuff but all of these people are far more superficial than the average person. i've been around sex workers, they're just people. i didn't find myself any more attracted to them than cathy from starbucks. dont go too deep down these rabbit holes, they're very empty.

[@yonnaagape9484]

IM SO THANKFUL SHE CALLED THESE DUDES OUT.

[@LRaine73]

This was such a great interview. Absolutely spot on with society and conditioning. Dating has become so toxic that it’s not even worth the effort because the standards and willingness to work at a real relationship is shadow by superficial shallow interactions.

[@Sunshine33]

This was fun to watch. Please don't call him or call any rich/successful man a high value man. Money and success has nothing to do with it. That what social media is promoting. In high value man and women there is the word values that nobody seems to care for.

[@katarzynabiernacka5165]

Amazing podcast! I am from Ireland and this is what you are talking about an eye opener for me. I am a normal type of woman after a master , working hard and I am fit in the second category of women you are talking about. It is so hard to find a nice man or I would say normal man nowadays but here is the thing. I can't change myself to be more proactive etc. On my Instagram most of the things I post are food 😊 Totally agree with you Sadia. Have a great day both

[@natasafemic7312]

She is so smart. Usually, as in this case, a host can't match her. Amazing woman.

[@NinaOrrick4096]

Thank you Thank you Thank you Sadia , I been trying to explain this to people here for 20 some years and finally you came and put it in perspective.

[@geeunit831]

Sadia speaking absolute facts as per usual

[@rissmariem]

Great discussion! FINALLY someone said this! More people need to listen to this and take it in. Dating is so broken in today’s society and it’s because we give value to the most insensible traits.

[@jubileetsuyuki9505]

Agreeee..

[@kartasiva]

I lived in Dubai for 7 years. One thing not mentioned here is the ratio of men to women, which is something like 80:20. With that kind of ratio, of course women will be in much more demand than men and this will impact how men are treated by them. There is a stark difference in dating in Dubai compared to almost any other city. After about 2 years I just stopped dating in Dubai altogether and focused on holiday romances exclusively, which was much more fulfilling and lighter on the wallet!

[@kartasiva]

A great video, made me rethink a lot about my time there. Big fan!

[@jibarabicha4853]

What is holiday romances ?

[@DimitriTheBarbarian]

Dubai is a place for rich men. That’s why supermodels flock to Dubai - to get those oil sheikhs. But I am assuming other men are invisible just like they are anywhere in the world

[@theobokota10]

As the saying goes, This man has been SCHOOLED by this wise woman. Surprising how these “top 1%” cannot argue with truth and wisdom. May God help us 🙏🏾

[@DX-d]

You think this pathetic boy is in the top 1%? 🤣

[@nanx7062]

Stumbled upon this video, but glad I’m here. Sadie speaking facts and educating folks out here. Finally someone keeping it real.

[@chechuivanov1706]

“Knowing too much is a problem”. I can’t agree more ❤

[@maryannem1398]

I have stumbled on this video and i couldn't attest that what she says is true. There is no room for 'good girl'. People have thrown authenticity out the window to be liked even going to lengths of pain(body modifications). I believe there is nothing wrong with having traditional values if thats how you like to be. It doesn't mean that you are less interesting in any way. However, you can look good for your 'other' without changing who you are.

[@the_blue_lotus_portal]

This is 100% true. Men love toxicity; they are easily distracted. They invest in shallow and easy when they are incapable of true intimacy.

[@SoyChaiLatte91]

This. So many men don’t know what it means to be emotional and vulnerable and connect on a deeper level. Same with women. I think this is the root cause.

[@urbanvoice5323]

This is the problem, youve grouped all men in this category. And in honesty its men who you like, ordinary average men get ignored too.

[@Foxie770]

The men you describe are unhealthy men who have not healed themselves or integrated their masculinity.

[@pocketdweller3771]

Wow Sadia you are in a word, incredible 👏🏼. I’m looking forward to watching more of your content. Protect women like this at all costs.

[@ratihningrum3788]

Hahahaha I LOVE HOW SHE JUST CRUSH HIM in a very elegant smart way!!! 😂👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@sadiapsychology]

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[@jihadhdaib88]

I find you you very quality woman

[@freddiestranger9783]

WHY ARE YOU POSTING A THUMBNAIL WITH HIS PHOTO IN YOUR THUMBNAIL???

[@jihadhdaib88]

@@freddiestranger9783 because I love her

[@tiberio1352]

*You have such a large following por your 'mental advice' ...but, I am sure your attractive genetic code in display has nothing to do with it.*

[@dezsosipos.krisztinatoth8754]

I love Sadia! We have a very similar personality and I obsessed with psychology (and when she said “knowing too much is difficult I felt that” She is beautiful, smart humble, fun, vulnerable, wise, passionate, open, kind, firm, calm, even tho her anxious attachment style still effects her due to her parenting growing up as I am the same, but the thing is aware and she is not beating herself up for it! people like her make a difference as people who lean more anxious will the only once in my opinion, that try to fix this broken society without the shame and guilt judgement!!! Future psychologist in the making! 🙏🏻🧠❤🔥🥳

[@ksmith7402]

Sadia you are one of my actual role models. Thank you.

[@Maridxb-s3r]

“ Current dating is just practicing for divorce “ how true

[@markr.denison9768]

What a great video! This is the first video of yours I have watched, but I am really taken with the depth of your statements and rationale. I am a 53 year old man, been with the same woman (married) for 20+ years, and I wish more younger men would listen to what you are saying. You are totally spot on about what behaviors men reward in women, and the risks of promiscuity in men. Thank you for the clarity of your insights.

[@Thegardenbetweenus]

I love Sadia’s perspective on promiscuous men. Men should always be a gentlemen. If he manages multiple relationships with attractive women with values and stays a gentleman good. Good for the lady’s too. Both parties exit healthier with a better understanding of proper relationships.

[@deezed6478]

Lool no. Maybe the ladies should manage multiple relationships with attractive men with values and they should be good. And it’s good for the men too. How does that sound?

[@joasok3642]

What s stupid islamic nonsense.Bore off...

[@Emptytopfloor]

@@deezed6478It sounds perfect to me!

[@deezed6478]

@@Emptytopfloor 🤣

[@geetagill9243]

You don't know what high value is, it's NOT being promiscuous!

[@cilixialatinantillaise8664]

"Your competition is her values" 🔥

[@jenny01317]

Like how honest and refreshing this interview was. I draws to mind whether dating a century ago where couples made the effort to stay together is better or worse than todays dating culture

[@kopsie6379]

Im a woman who knows so many women this lady is speaking of. 100% correct. Men think they know it all. 🤣 Great content, thank u.

[@dannicula2872]

This podcast was simply amazing. She is very smart, well spoken, objective and yet so beautiful and put together. I really enjoy that she didnt came with the same shitty arguments that everyone heard before, she really bringed smth new. Also, in my opinion, that's how a feminist should look and behave, even tho i dont know if she is a feminist, but this is how i would like to see feminists

[@capricornrising510]

Sadia, you're on fire! Well done, loved your gems ❤

[@KiaraParkr]

Omg she is speaking facts! I’ve looked at my guy friends explore page and it’s all promiscuous women showing their bodies and they complain about it. Then I show them mine which is obviously totally different. They clearly are attracted to that content. I find it so hard to date. I’d love a good man who takes care of his family but in America especially I don’t see those men

[@indiasamara]

So true girl!!

[@patrickmcfly3264]

Good men are everywhere, but they are earning an average of 50K a year not 500K, and they are not flashy. When you get realistic and start dating men earning around average, you will find the good men showing up suddenly Aka dial down your hypergamy

[@Bubbles-od2tv]

@@patrickmcfly3264but what if the woman is making 100K?

[@feliznavidad6958]

@@patrickmcfly3264Oh please, broke men are the most abusive because they have nothing to lose. Good men dont exist either. Men tell on themselves all the time. Whenever a guy does something nice for a woman, other men will say "he just wants sex". The average guy doesnt even believe in being nice for the sake of being nice

[@ObsidianGrp]

So incredible to learn more about you Sadia! And to have come across you. Your total aura is GORGEOUS!!

[@neoufa7929]

Maturity and experience of this level regarding high body count and family values could save society.

[@lmart16]

Current dating is just practicing for divorce. This chick is sooo smart. Everything she says, I agree with. As a woman who constantly cuts off guys and won't relent on condom use, high value men seem to be SHOCKED. Other girls them them get away with so much, so then why put myself in their lower category when I'm saying no? In order to sleep around with many women, you need to be less choosey. Those who are higher fruit aren't out of your reach unless you change your ways.

[@maryannlamanteer5705]

A healthy relationship is not holding back. Share how you feel with each other. I was married for 40 years. You have to be good friends first.

[@chefmiera]

Your words are simply put but so precise ! You’re gifted S ♥️

[@KC-xf9wc]

yet another womam who shares her value and worth with others... amazing. thank u for saying what i also share and believe and i was told I am complex, demanding and difficult. well ... if thats how emotional intelligence looks like then I will take it any day.

[@bitamasoumi8344]

Not all woman looking for where’s the most reward. Some woman still care more about their values and self esteem and self respect rather than the social media and materialistic culture rewards ….

[@Booksngoodlooks]

10:38 Sadia!!!! I salute you Queen! This is soo good, and 100000% true! There are no benefits to being a good woman. I recently had to unplug and reconnect with myself because I felt so unattractive (of course, not because I am, but because of current culture.) thanks for sharing your insight!!!

[@jennie8104]

I love this woman! She is saying my thoughts out loud! Thank you !

[@bernienoonan8239]

Thanks Sadia for the person you've chosen to become. Please stay safe as the world is desperately in need of the likes of you. You + your creator make a brilliant team. God bless you always.😊

[@sadiapsychology]

Thank you so much appreciate you

[@leylasade236]

Omggg ! God bless this women for bringing all of this to light for men to see/hear . I have been saying this for the longest . Men say they want good traditional women who or natural and all these things . But the women they are chasing and proposing to are the total opposite. I have talked to guys that I would tell them I don’t drink or smoke or go to clubs in the beginning and they they would try to convince to get drunk and all these other things cause they found me to be boring . So many man have showed me they love the toxic women . Traditional wholesome girls are the ones loosing. I’m learning men love toxic / promiscuous women .

[@BagznBirdz]

She's right about alot. A man can have a high body count and be a one trick pony. That's why a man that's been in a long relationship(s) is a better alternative. Many times the men that are publically hating women with a high body count are also the ones sleeping around and reward promiscuity with their attention. Talking about double standards... Also, not all women are not walking around looking for their dad - some have actually worked through their trauma and are looking for quite the opposite of the chaos they've gone through in childhood.

[@wheelstt]

Most people care to much about status, ranks, reputations, and titles, they lose track of how to love each other unconditionally...thus the result of using people instead of using things...the quality of time among relationships wether romantically or not, it diminishes the peace that allows us to really understand how to treat others to which both sides are content, rewarded, and attractive beyond physical...it's understanding the souls of a person. I admire those who are at a state of peace because they flow through life invisibly and at ease with a lot of joy in their soul. To me, those whom are in a state of peace throughout their life are the most powerful and successful people in the world...they see people do not need help...people are here to experience what they want to experience...and it is all perfect. "All"/"EVERY PERSON" deserve to be looked at with love.

[@ΒασίληςΜωραΐτης-ι2φ]

she is one of few figures online that when she gives advices about dating or polygamy she puts the concept of having children and whats best for them and for ur ego which is so important!

[@FatemehBagherian-o1v]

Sadia, hope people like you can change the way most men behave and therefore some women too Thanks! Great open conversation ❤

[@thegeekyfox]

I love how Sadia fills in the very nuanced free spaces between feminism and the narrative of the likes of Andrew Tate in such a thoughtful and delicate way. Such an intelligent and balanced speaker. Bringing attention to the middle ground we’re progress can really happen. Love her 😊

[@ataylor2]

This video is refreshing. I hope you can be a guest at fresh and fit for other men to see and hear your thoughts and that there are other kind of women aside from their usual instagram ladies guest.

[@Kaylaskye]

I do believe there are lot of high value, hot women out there that aren’t social media crazy and live normal low key lives.

[@WK_MERCURY]

Your videos have brought me closure. Thankyou Sadia.

[@omanicc9854]

"Most women want to get married and have children, very few want to be wives and mothers" Most women want to get married and have children only because society berates them if they don't choose this option. How many times have you heard a woman say she never wants to marry or have kids only to have people tell her that she'll be miserable and alone forever and will regret it? If they don't want to be wives and mothers then they didn't want to get married and have kids.

[@WinnieWalla]

Sadia you articulated your points so flawlessly. Please continue to shine light on the harmful double standards so many of us are subscribed to.

[@elsa_nyc]

So glad you are out here. We desperately need you.

[@tarajensen7]

I can’t believe he validated a high body count for men. And saying it’s good because then the man gets experience and becomes better in the bedroom. Sir- experience comes from you loving a woman and listening to her body and wanting to please her. It’s not the quantity of women he is with.

[@jenessam.hernandez4331]

I am so grateful for this conversation. There is so much hate online towards women, yet good women do have a hard time finding good men. I was literally dumped by a man because of these Instagram women. He cheated on me with one and I was 100% devoted and wanting marriage. I changed my approach now and don’t give any of my high value traits early on. I need to know that the man is just as devoted to the relationship as I am. My heart goes out to these younger women. You said it right, the dating world is unhealthy. I keep trying but with self-respecting boundaries and focus on appreciating the life I have been able to build for myself. I hope one day I can have a morally good natured husband and have a family if it’s not too late for me. I must keep my head up and trust in God.

[@esmevega333]

He sounds like a teenager trying to have a conversation with a grown woman. Men definitely mature laterrrrrr….. rrr in life. Is hilarious to watch, I LOVE THIS VIDEO ❤❤❤

[@Stoic_optimist_realist]

1. Eliminate the No Fault Divorce 2. Adultery is a felony 3. Automatic forfeiture of all claims to marital assets if convicted of adultery 4. No alimony if convicted of adultery 5. No life time alimony; youngest child turns 22 - DONE

[@tamiressoares9303]

She’s our gold in the internet 💙💙💙 thank you Sadia for your work and online presence we appreciate you so much ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨

[@kolebri]

@sadiapsychology yesterday was the 1st time I have watched your video. I was blown away about the way you explained everything. Highly intelligent woman.

[@amyhinson1587]

I have no idea who these people are. I just came across this interview. It seriously makes me want to cry for both of them. The guy is clueless about what a truly high value woman or relationship is. He's been totally brainwashed by whatever "high value" circles he runs in. She had some really fantastic things to say and she is a high value woman but too afraid to get married or have children. Our Starbuck Janets and our Blue collar men are what are truly keeping this world going. At least they have the courage to try.

[@mellissa7663]

For some reason I came across one of Sadia's videos last night after work and I just cannot stop.. I am hooked and I gladly subscribed.. So happy, I love her wisdom; advice; insight wow very very good. Guess I came across her videos at just the right time 😊😊😊😊.

[@DulceCubana100]

Shes so right. We get screwed being wholesome women so most of us are moving away from it. Im bored out of my mind.

[@surfchanty]

Great interview! All what you are saying is true

[@kevinvong6912]

She was a teacher?!!! I would have done anything to have a teacher like her when I was a kid.

[@moosec6782]

"Your competition isn't other men. It's her values" was mic dropping. Bae dropping. And bomb dropping. Masterclass

[@gh8066]

sadia is so patient and understanding to not correct this man's flawed thinking

[@sharifahdurrahbt.syedmoham7382]

Well said! I like your line for HV men - "your competition is not with other men but with her values" . Finally, a woman who is intelligent, well spoken with a sound moral code! Your parents raised you well. The kind of daughter any wise Muslim father would be proud of. Bravo!