Spring in Seoul 💚 surprising my husband for his birthday w. staycation, party & yum food

[@clrmtsml]

From the boyfriend to my husband! 🥹♥️ We love character development! 😂👌🏾

[@sisselab]

Haha we love it 💚

[@shasisstuff]

I cant be the only one who is still not used tothe husband label 😂😂😂😂the way SIssel just dropped the news so casually. Living for all of this wonderful romance ❤

[@sisselab]

Hahaha we’ve been married since September so it’s sunken in for me hahah, sorry to blast it on you guys 🤣💚🤣💚

[@kaesthetyc]

@sissel whattt?! When in September? I've been married since September 10th, near Paris. That's so funny, I'm happy for you ❤️

[@professionalangel]

@@sisselabOMG SISSEL CONGRATS

[@tatianamel6274]

@@sisselab oh my gosh I thought it was a joke. Congratulations!!!

[@eien416]

I love how you're so natural! Your videos always send good vibes! Always perfect to end a stressful day at work. Btw, belated happy birthday to the husband! - love from the Middle East💓

[@sisselab]

Thank you love, and Jake says thank you too 💚 sending love to you too!

[@sinead.c]

i find it SO cute when jake was thanking us too 8:58 haha happy birthday jake! hope you and sissel had a wonderful time together :')

[@sisselab]

Hahaha yesss he’s so thankful for all of your wishes 💚

[@Vickiboe592]

Loved seeing you two having such a wonderful weekend. ❤️

[@sisselab]

Thank you love 💚

[@patkawpadka8491]

Im in love with your love guys! watching you being so supportive and caring for each other is such a comfort, im sending you a lot of love! also the happiest of birthday to Jake

[@sisselab]

🥹💚

[@Ichigodaifukulover]

Girl we are the same age and I’ve started watching your videos when you were still in high school and now you are married and want to become a mother 😭😭 while i’m struggling with college and can’t even imagine having a family right now . I’m so happy for you and watching you become such an independent woman from the the teenage girl who made makeup videos for acne prone skin😭 ❤

[@sisselab]

Aww that’s so sweet, thank you for being with me all these years 💚

[@jassieyong9112]

Sissel, just can't describe how I love you & your vlogs. & I recommend my 18 year old daughter to see your journeys. That's how much I love you & your contents. Jake is a perfect guy as well. Very potential young man. Everything is so good. Luv luv......

[@sisselab]

That touched me so deep, thank you so much. I’m so honored, truly 💚

[@lailayasar7445]

Sissel! I so enjoy watching your videos. You are just yourself and authentic and honest. And I genuinely feel I would love to be your friend 🥹😆 your birthday celebrations for Jake looked amazing. I loved the lil houses, I nearly cried. After having turbulent experiences with men I can’t wait to do that with someone 💕

[@sisselab]

Thank you so much!! And I feel you love, I know deep down you will 💚

[@IrendaYamarisArtHealing]

HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY JAKE! You're wife is amazing! May both your blessings continue! Love to you both!

[@sisselab]

Aww thank you 💚

[@veronicagreen6180]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY JAKE!,, wish you love, health and happiness always….

[@irulp]

Happiest of Birthdays to Jake and Biggest of Welcome back to Sille!!!

[@sisselab]

Thank you thank you 💚😍

[@RiniAbroad]

Hellooo Sissel! So lovely to see you today when I am needing some motivation and happiness in my day! Happy birthday Jake! I'm so happy the weather was so wonderful for your little staycation! Such a charming first place and love seeing you and Jake together! I love your contrasts and that you still center to each other so well. The second place is nuuuuuts!! You did such great work, and I love how you are helping him to like his birthday a bit more which is so sweet. I love seeing these kinds of gestures. the party looked so fun and the snacks were lovely! I MELTED when he said it was his best birthdayyyy. I love hearing about your mindset shift, I've had a lot of the similar after an abusive relationship and I love that I always feel like I get that connection even though we don't talk outside of these little comments. It is really nice because I am always feeling you know what to say without knowing me and I like that we have similar life experiences. Also love seeing your tight friend group get together like this, so wholesome!! Ok this comment is far too long, sending love Sissel and Jake!

[@sisselab]

Thank you for this sweet message, I really appreciate you 💚

[@RiniAbroad]

@@sisselab 💚

[@CarolineKinsella]

this video is so good, it was so fun to watch, like a movie! i love the filming and editing, and you and jake always brighten up my weeks :) you feel so joyful and it is just wonderful :') much love !!!

[@sisselab]

🥹💚🫶🏼

[@rajeshwaripatil658]

Belated Happy Birthday to Jakeeeee!!!💚wish the best for you both, love yaa💚💚

[@sisselab]

Thank youuuu💚💚

[@marcy.c]

Seeing you healing makes me so happy! I genuinely wish you so much happiness and love ! Also as I come back to Korea soon this neighborhood seems so nice, I wanna stay there too! Have a great week and take care of yourself 💜

[@sisselab]

Thank you so much, I’m also proud of myself 🥹💚 enjoy your time in Korea when you come!

[@hye_rin-mg2gv]

Happy Birthday for Jake🥳really happy for you two🥺+love you so much you look gorgeous🤌🏻💗💗💗💗

[@sisselab]

Thank you love 💚

[@rhjnxv]

Omg congratulations, Sissel and Jake!!! I didn’t know you guys were already married 😍💖🫶🏻 Best wishes on your wedding! 👰🏻🤵🏻

[@liniment_]

it heals me so much watching your videos Sissel

[@sisselab]

Thank you so much love 💚

[@italianlifestyle7911]

How lovely and thoughtful of you!❤

[@sisselab]

🥹💚

[@eylulll0607]

Hi Sissel❤from “the boyfriend” to “my husband” is making me so happy I can’t even understand why❤😂 and also my boyfriend is just like your ✨husband✨ when it comes to birthdays and I took notes!😅 and I want to say thank you for this lovely vlog, I’m in Turkey, as you may know we had magnitude 7.8 and 7.4 and many more (6.5 , 6.0…) earthquakes and this vlog truly helped me to feel at ease for a bit, thank you. ❤

[@sisselab]

I’m praying for safety for you and your family and friends 🥺💚

[@eylulll0607]

@@sisselab thank you so much🥹🤍

[@ricetarts]

Thank you for sharing your and Jake's time with us! Haha so happy for the casual "husband" drop. 🤣❤️

[@sisselab]

Hahaha thank you love 💚

[@vbradley1922]

Life is so fucking beautiful, to think that you up and moved to Korea having absolutely no idea that your husband and future family were waiting.. it gets me! Everything happens for a reason 🥹♥️

[@sisselab]

That’s so beautiful, thanks for writing this. I wanna sit and do a gratitude meditation now 😍💚

[@rajaeboukhatem8683]

I started watching you since I was 16 now I'm nearly 20 , I remember checking your videos every weekend and if you didn't upload anything that week I just rewatch the old ones . I'm proud of you and I am happy that you find a caring partner that makes you happier . Wish you all the best sisse❤️❤️

[@mariegabriellee]

I'm dying with your outfit + the lil shakira hips don't lie moment 🤍 also, we love the bf to husband arc ---happy bday Jake!!

[@sisselab]

🤣🤣 thanks love💚

[@alipeterson1789]

Sissel and Sille back together!!!! 💚 and yes to the warm tea in warm weather. Thought I was the only one, tea everyday no matter how hot it gets here in Hawaii 😂

[@sisselab]

Yaaaay!! Hope you enjoy your day (with a cup of tea) 💚💚

[@jadajoseph6642]

Even having a really hard week in college and I always feel at ease when I watch your videos. So thank you💛

[@sisselab]

Aww I hope you’re having fun though, sending love 💚

[@owl2464]

Happy Birthday to Jake🥳 Was a little bit late for that first comment in the comment section🤣🤭 I wish the both of you a happy and healthy rest-week🤗

[@sisselab]

Thank you! 💚

[@poppycalliope]

As always watching now during my lunch break 😂 what a lovely way to celebrate Jake's birthday, happy belated birthday to Jake 🎉 ok LOVED the hips don't lie dancing 😂✨️ How great that Sille is back 💕

[@sisselab]

Thank you love 💚

[@namjoon4763]

Love your eye makeup always!

[@Lisa-qt4hh]

Lovely video Sissel :) The belt is so cute and gives me serious Winx Club vibes... I lived for that show when I was a kid :')

[@sisselab]

Omg so true !! 💚

[@wowg2g868]

Sissel, Your videos make my day better :'D thanks and keep going .

[@justalexism]

Happy Birthday, Jake! Best wishes ❤ I died at the Shakira dance haha. This video was so cute, you are such a sweet soul Sissel! A good friend of mine just had a birthday and I was not impressed with how his gf celebrated him, seeing this kinda validated that but thats enough gossip from me ❤😂

[@sisselab]

Hahaha each to their own. Thank you love 💚

[@miya_the_genuine]

Oki Sissel, absolutely not trying to dismiss your healing from your negative experiences from men and to ultimately ‘hate all men’ I also don’t stand with and I agree on the fact that men have also had their fair share of the patriarchy hurting them… Yet with one finding a decent man who treats women right and rightfully so, doesn’t eliminate the fact that women still very much live in a system that was built up around and for men. It also still very much translates into how women are viewed discriminatory and not respected by the majority of men, in this very system which applies to all parts of life. From work to relationships etc. So if women haven’t reached a point yet where they can let go of the fear of men, like you have for example, they shouldn’t be ‘shamed’ by other women into building this shield up against men and patriarchy in order to protect themselves. Maybe one day they will reach a similar place of entity in their womenhood where they can let go of the defence mechanism they have learned for themselves, until then we should, as women, support them and show understanding. Just my personal thoughts, and I’m sharing them from a place of discussion rather than ‘oh this is my way of thinking and it’s the only right one’. Sending love and compassion,,

[@sisselab]

Absolutely, we should show women the love they need a cultivate a safe healing space for them. I don’t believe that’s achieved with the humiliation and derogatory of men, I believe that drags us way further down. It creates a sense of “most men” which just isn’t true. If problems were solved with hate, this world would be peaceful by now 💚

[@ada4067]

@@sisselab Sissel I’m happy that you had more good experiences with man than bad and that’s what makes you feel like it’s not most man (I suppose correct me If I deducted this wrong) but what if for other woman it’s the opposite? What if they had more bad experiences? Than for them it’s most man. So I think this is very subjective and not general truth. All love ❤️

[@vanessaogege7026]

Something so refreshing about watching your videos

[@sisselab]

I’m glad 💚🥹

[@sandinsasooriyaarachchi1590]

Wish you guys a happy life ahead !! 💚

[@sisselab]

Thank you 🥰💚

[@ilknura.8692]

Your videos always calm my soul🤍

[@sisselab]

🥹💚

[@eirarnneberg3272]

Such a wonderful vlog as always 💚 Would love a video on healing relationships with men as I’m sure many of us are going through similar things and it’s a healthy conversation to have. Anyways great vibes and calming energy as always with you videos 🎀🎀

[@sisselab]

Thank you love, I’ll definitely consider that at some point 💚

[@shinytrashbag]

I am soo freaking happy for your current state you in! I love how you always share your opinions and growth of your own person. Thank you for always putting so much effort into your videos!🥰

[@sisselab]

Thank you so so so much 💚🙏🏻

[@wouke.t]

Happy birthday Jake!! Also, i was listining to this song called 'I'm gonna let the sunshine in today' by Loving Caliber, and it reminded me of you. Your vlogs are really like sunshine to me!💚

[@sisselab]

Such a beautiful song title!! If Jake wasn’t sleeping next to me now I would listen. I’ll listen first thing in the morning 😍💚

[@rajeshwaripatil658]

I have exams but ur videos are included in my syllabus 😂😂💚💚

[@sisselab]

Hahahahah awwwww good luck tho ! 💚

[@susemcx]

Same here! I needed an aesthetically and emotionally pleasing distraction from the academic drag 😇

[@karolinejensen5872]

This video gave Me so much joy💕💕💕

[@sisselab]

💚

[@CarolineKinsella]

ooo your conversation about healing and men was really lovely - i agree with you, but also i think bringing up that discussion from your own experience to highlight that your perspective has changed is so so powerful. i think sometimes we forget that people can transform, not just intentionally, but as a byproduct of new experiences and understandings, and so our perspectives and beliefs change too. so i really appreciate that conversation and also just the perspective that what's trendy, including "who we like" and "who we don't like" isn't everything, everyone's experiences are different, and sometimes perspectives are coming from a place of pain, which creates a totally different relationship to everything. anyways, it is always refreshing to hear such introspection and groundedness!!

[@sisselab]

Aww thank you 💚

[@inspiredbypod]

Sissel, your evolution of how you speak of men is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing and making it seem okay to evolve, because it is! Men are so valuable and we should all be treated with kindness and empathy. Hope you had a wonderful time together celebrating!

[@sisselab]

Thank you so much for saying this 💚💚💚

[@M_aameriya]

Happiest birthday jake🎂💐

[@sisselab]

He says thaaanks💚

[@ada4067]

I’m happy for you that you arę now in a space where u have good experiences w man and feel safe. Unfortunately this is not the case for everyone. Most of the times the experiences r bad and traumatizing. I look at it in a way that woman r just scared (rightfully so) and angry. Rather than calling it hate I would call it, being tired of man behaviours. I think that woman who r fortunate enough to feel safe around man should really understand that’s a really rare situation and don’t say that those type of tictoks are shameful, bc woman r just sharing online their experiences w man to help other woman be aware of the possible problems. ❤

[@Stephanie-bh8hd]

I was so confused because I never got to finish the Q&A video, and now seeing this thumbnail I was like huh? But congratulations, Sissel! Love to see it

[@sisselab]

Hahahah 🤣💚

[@sonyainfree]

So happy to see unexpected video from my favourite person on KZbin 🔗🥀

[@sisselab]

Unexpected ? I’m here every Wednesday girl haha. Jokes aside, thanks for watching 💚💚

[@laurak0797]

never clicked so fast haha! Sending lots of love and belated birthday wishes of course!🤍

[@sisselab]

Aww haha I’m so happy 💚

[@aditib63]

YOU GUYS ARE SO ROMANTIC..... I mean... GOALS💯💯❤❤

[@sisselab]

Heheheh💚🫶🏼🥰

[@isabellamathea]

🙋🏻‍♀️ here since the boyfriend and still here for the husband! what a fun weekend 🥳

[@sisselab]

Aww haha love this 💚

[@jordanavital]

It is SO NICE to see sissel and jake's relationship because they glow together, it's so clear that they love each other and nothing could be more beautiful. Seeing good people like them is really fulfilling 💚

[@sisselab]

Aww thank you love 💚

[@shreyathakur4662]

pretty sissel 💖✨

[@ziphyzephyr7131]

Jake is lucky to have you! 💚...and Happy birthday to Jake! 🎂🎉... all the best for the both of you! 🥂

[@sisselab]

Thank you so much💚🫶🏼

[@stargazer6852]

When she started singing hips don't lie lmaaooo, but love seeing you happy

[@sisselab]

Hahahah💚🤣

[@karamuenster]

That place is my dream🤞🏻❤

[@ioliiosif]

It's so interesting how you talked about your relationship and your view of men. I watched that video about your journey in Korea and immediately remembered what you shared back then. The thing is, I relate to this topic due to my daddy issues. And the way I view men is usually very negative, I feel uncomfortable and unsafe around them, and whenever I want to talk to someone about any problems or difficulties I turn to women for help. I feel so uncomfortable around men because I always feel like I'm being sexualised and that's such an awful feeling. I don't even believe that every single man is bad or toxic, it's just that throughout the years and in my past I've had bad experiences (I'm not trying to reinforce this idea of men being the worse gender, not at all). Anyway, I'm still in the process of accepting the past and moving forward through healing. And Sissel, I really wanna thank you for opening up about this. It made me feel understood and it shows that working on your relationship with your own mind, body and soul really makes a difference in how beautifully our perspectives can change for the better (if we allow it to).❤

[@sisselab]

My sweet love 💚 I’m so sorry to hear about your experiences… please always remember that your feelings are so valid. You acknowledge that you’re scared and weary around men, that’s okay. It sounds like you’re a very self aware person and that’s so beautiful. Sending all of my love to you and best of sunshine to your healing journey 💚

[@manelaidi6680]

I missed a few videos and now it's the husband!! Congratulations guys 🎉❤️

[@sisselab]

Hahah yep! Thanks 💚

[@IK-bm4oc]

Omg, if I come someday to Seoul, I will book something like that as well. So authentic korean 😍

[@sisselab]

You’ll love it 💚

[@sabrinapowell8446]

A virgo and a pisces, I love it

[@sisselab]

💚

[@icedmatchalattetogo]

OMG yes spring vlog🌸

[@sisselab]

Yayyy💚💚

[@froufou100]

Oh dear, it has been a while since I've been watching your videos because I am working overtime on my side business and full-time work. I am delighted to hear you are married, and congratulations, and I wish you both lots of happiness, cuddles, laughs, loving memories and sex!!! Take care my lovely xx

[@taysoo___]

aaaa!!!! loved this!!! can't wait for your next upload!

[@sisselab]

Aaaaa thank you 💚💚

[@mikaboo7095]

Your video makes me want to have good time with my friends. I haven't been out since I had issue with my health, hoping to go out and have a chit chat with all of them soon🤍💚

[@sisselab]

Sending all the healing thoughts to you 💚

[@mikaboo7095]

And belated Happy birthday to Jake 💌🎂

[@limnaee1812]

Im always excited to watch your videos ❤️

[@sisselab]

Aww I’m honored 💚

[@helloyellowginkgo7551]

I’m so happy for you that you healed your relationship with men 🥰 I think this ‘hate on men’ is maybe just a part of the process.. after almost all of us have had traumatic experiences with men we just need some way of getting that hate out of our system because we don’t want to just feel like the victims.. so I understand where these “trends” are coming from but of course it shouldn’t go too far and we shouldn’t forget that the biggest problem is how society raised these men and maybe channel our aggressions that way and not on all individuals. Anyway I think you shouldn’t be too ashamed of your past self for making these statements because at the end it was a step in your journey that helped you heal and process that anger ♥️ but it’s great that you remind us not to take the hate too far ! - Lots of Love

[@sisselab]

I so understand where this come from, and I feel so bad for all us women who has trauma. Unfortunately I think this trend spreads to women without it too and changed the narrative. I didn’t heal by acting like this, if anything it kept me down for too long. I wish for more love in this world, being on tiktok made me feel so dark. Sending some light and love to you 💚

[@cinnamountain]

I think generalizing "men" as a whole is extreme. There is some good men out there, of course. But also, statistically we can't ignore the facts that men are mostly the ones in power, the ones that commit horrible crimes, that start wars, and usually also the same evil men are the ones we come across in our lives. So, I do get the whole "I hate men" thing, and I mostly suscribe to the idea as a funny joke, but I am aware that when I do joke about that, I am not referring to the entirety of men, just the ones who commit horrible crimes and abuse their power (as well as those who cover up for them). But yeah, this aside though, beautiful vlog as usual, those two places you chose for Jake's birthday were so cute in their own unique way, one giving a more cozy and intimate feel while still feeling high end and well decorated, and the other was more modern and perfect for a party, as you said. So yeah, thanks again for sharing bits of your daily life with us and letting us in a bit 😊

[@sisselab]

Yeah, very extreme. Especially because it makes young women believe that it’s most men as well, where in reality that’s far from true. I get the joke, but I just think I’ve realized that it’s a harmful joke 💚 Thank you love! 💚

[@mfundotshabangu7499]

omg?? congrats sissel! I had no idea that you got married

[@sisselab]

Hahaha girl you’re behind ! Jkjk, thank you 💚

[@iki5737]

You are very sweet Sissel, happy birthday Jake

[@sisselab]

Hahah thanks for noticing !! I always edit all day every Wednesday so I can get the previous week’s footage up 💚

[@destinypowell5991]

I would sooo live in that hanok. Sooo beautiful 😍 super cute neighborhood too

[@sisselab]

Me tooooo, so cute 💚🥹

[@guardianmartinez62]

Feliz cumple.jake 🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎈🎂🎁🎉🎉🎉 se que ya pasó tu cumple pero mismo bendiciones para esta hermosa pareja salud 🥂🍾 saludos de 🇦🇷🇦🇷💙Argentina gracias por los suptitulos en españom

[@heyitsrosie]

When did you two even got married?! 🙀 I just missed like 2 videos! 😂 Congratulations omg 🎉 I usually watch these before sleeping because it's relaxing 😌 but today I decided to make you my lunch companion hehe

[@sisselab]

Aww haha I hope you enjoyed your lunch! We did the paperwork in September, but the marriage thing is still coming in the future 💚

[@aifydzri3452]

I changed my view towards men when I met my husband. He is so pure and smartest person I have ever met.

[@sisselab]

Aww that’s so sweet 💚🥹

[@Coffeegirl739]

I have my opinions, patriarchy is a real thing ofc and also I treat everyone with respect with no negative narrative. I do believe we need world social change, it is happening slowly and unfortunately encourages hatespeech towards men which is unacceptable. From research point of view I see where it is coming from, hundreds of years of mistreatment, sexism, misogyny, objectification and deciding about women bodies took its toll. I hope it is temporary and just an ugly moment in history. I believe in social change that will eventualy result in equal treatment, love, respect and understanding each other 🦋

[@Justeya99]

Never been so earlyyyy ❤❤❤

[@sisselab]

Welcome 😍💚

[@justinfelt748]

Hi, Sissel and Happy early Spring in Seoul!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌷🇰🇷💚💚💚💚💚🎇👍. This is incredible! Jake's birthday is super awesome with amazing surprises! AHHH!😀💙⭐💙⭐💙⭐💙⭐💙⭐🎇. So, happy birthday Jake and have fun with the new cake!😎☀🎂🎉👍. And one more thing, Sissel. The movie "FAST 10" is coming on May 19th with new characters and a new villain played by Jason Momoa from "Aquaman." So, check out the movie trailer and tell Jake about the new film. So...yeah. Have fun and god bless!😊😙💙💙💙💙💙🇺🇸🌷🇰🇷💚💚💚💚💚😊🎇🎉👍

[@patchydeee]

smiled big big with the title ☺️

[@sisselab]

Hehehehehe 💚

[@glocal804]

Hello Sissel, I think that it would be really awesome if you could do a video about how you are healing your relationship with men. (Obviously it’s up to you😌) I also feel bad for following the trend sometimes… I’m in a relationship with a man and sometimes I find myself being not understanding when it comes to what men think because of my past relationships too… I’m trying to change that, I don’t want to be like this anymore. I don’t have many friends in a relationship right now and I wanted another perspective to help me. And since you talked about it and because you explain things very well, I’m jumping on the opportunity hehe. Sorry for the long text, have an amazing day sunshine ❤ sorry I’m French ans sometimes my English is crazy crazy 🤣

[@sisselab]

You’re so kind, I’m sure you and your partner love each other so so much. You’re also very brave, this journey isn’t easy but I’m so proud of you! Sending love 💚

[@sharonmcglynn2789]

Lovely couple 😊❤️

[@sisselab]

🫶🏼💚

[@arianeac3080]

Where is your blue sweater from? It's gorgeous! 19:06

[@shasisstuff]

Sille with red hair mhhh🥰😍❤️stunning

[@sisselab]

She’s such a snack! 😍💚

[@Look36966]

You are so sweet 🧁 couple ❤️

[@Googg284]

I can’t wait to go to Korea on 28th March! Haven’t been for 6years…

[@sisselab]

Ohh welcome back!! Hope you enjoy 💚😍

[@amtfh4566]

What blush are you using? I'm glad that you're happy :)

[@grace-4195]

ohh how sweet✨✨✨😍

[@sisselab]

💚

[@andreashelton]

6:40 this is so beautiful

[@sisselab]

🥹💚

[@golbinnom]

14:30 haha that was very honest of you. i feel the same way scrolling through tiktok, i think it can be very detrimental to your view of men in general and it can even affect irl relationships if you get too deep in the rabbit hole. it starts with light jokes and then you start thinking it for real, i was def part of it too

[@jongkim9292]

I m waiting for a your Baby !❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Ana-yt2nv]

i think the misogyny and hatred of women that is being spread online (that is actually impacting young women irl) is more pressing than the 'man hating' you're talking about. especially since you live in korea i promise you the things men are saying about women are much more vile than whatever you said in that video

[@sisselab]

Nothing is more pressing than the other, both are problems needing to be fixed. Just because I speak out of one thing doesn’t mean I’m not actively an opposition to the other. I’m a woman and 85% of my viewers are women meaning I’m speaking to women. We can’t change the actions of men, only the actions of us. These two hatred waves are fueling each other and one will always keep going if the other does.

[@himbeerlied1]

@@sisselab Sorry but I find this comment so very ignorant. How can you really say woman and men are equally being treated as bad by the other group when you say “Nothing is more pressing than the other”? We still live in a patriachry and a world that is dominanted by men and misogyny and violence against women is still so so common whereas violence against men (which is also a problem of course) and hatred of men coming from women can not even be compared to this. Of course it is not okay to hate all men and these trends are stupid, because hate in general is. But to state we need to heal and to stop the hate towards men, as if women are the problem in this situations is again very ignorant and so wrong. Women don’t need to heal, they need the men to not be misogynistic and to not harm them. If the men wouldn’t behave that way and spread harm, women wouldn’t need healing. Of course not all men are bad, that’s not the point.

[@life.kaylie]

I totally agree with you. And Sissel’s comment here “the hatred waves are fueling each other” is simply just not true. The only reason women have begun to hate and hate on men is because of how we have been treated for a millennia. We’re tired of it and we’re finally speaking out and giving back the same energy that we have been dealt over and over and over again. The violence against women is NOT comparable to the pranks on tiktok or discussions or jokes. One IS worse than the other. And if you ( @sissel ) cannot see that, I suggest you do some research and inner reflecting. Girl, it’s ALL men until it’s NO men.

[@chris-en9xe]

Sissel you've come a really long way and I'm so proud of you but I really cannot empathize with where you're coming from around the topic of men, as a woman living in South Korea knowing exactly the issues women have been facing for years regarding misogyny, issues you're a direct victim of, showing empathy for men comes off sooooo tone deaf and I don't think it needed to be shared, especially in the current climate and what's been going on, especially when you don't even get into these topics on your social media (which is very understandable of course and I don't expect you to), but you shouldn't show support for the perpetuators.

[@sisselab]

Wait wait wait wait… I’m saying that calling men evil spawn, making TikTok’s showing how to humiliate men, straight up sexist comments and views - yes I will forever stand by that that’s very out of touch and wrong. I’m ashamed of have been a part of that and I hope you can see how wrong that is too. On a completely other note, being careful around men, sharing your story, supporting women, etc, that’s another story. I hope you can see the difference 🙏🏻

[@chris-en9xe]

@@sisselab I see the difference and I completely understand where you're coming from but I don't think online abuse on TikTok (which is often just a setup/fake) for the laughs is ever going to compare to what's happening to women because of men in real life, so if that can bring women some comfort, I personally don't see a reason to be against it. The abuse will never be equal but I respect your view on it

[@sisselab]

I see where you come from, I used to think this way too. At the end of the day I don’t think these are comparable. You can’t justify one evil with another, there are other ways to heal than to inflict harm to innocent people 💚

[@beatrizherrero1804]

I think the point @chris is bringing to the table is that women behaviour on tiktok is a reaction to a situation rather than a separate action done without a cause. Is a victim reacting in the way they think is better for themselves.

[@RPG_gf]

@@chris-en9xe my thoughts exactly, ty for saying this. men being "bullied" online will never be the same as centuries of oppression, SA and murder. they're not even comparable.

[@byrainydiaries]

i can sense that jack become a KZbinr as well

[@lilianahrusovska9181]

Hi, I’m enjoying this vlog so much. I hope this comment makes you as happy as you made me :)

[@sisselab]

🥹💚

[@yinja7805]

hi where is the cute cafe that you went with sille, so want to gooo!! thanks!

[@sisselab]

It’s in 녹사평! Just up the hill across the bridge 💚

[@nanajazzz]

You're susch a ray of sunshine 💛 and your outfit at 18:20 is 👌🔥

[@sisselab]

Awww💚

[@ambaena]

Love your blush! What is it?

[@sisselab]

The one I wore in the hanok is Feev Hyper Fit Color Serum and the one I wore at home is from Dear Dahlia 💚

[@frozenwoods863]

16:04 what lipstick are you using here? Gorgeous colour

[@Look36966]

Love your friends and your relationship with them 💕

[@sisselab]

🥹💚

[@life.kaylie]

I cannot stop thinking about the man hating conversation. Hearing that and reading some of your comments has honestly been very distressing. Women talking sh*t about men online is not the same thing as what men have done to women over thousands of years. Just because we’re finally vocal about it lol. And to sit there and say “well they’re both bad” is just plain ignorant. Even if we were to stop the men bashing and become silent again, it’s not like men will suddenly stop r*ping and k*lling us. We’re not in this state of the world because women are being loud. We’re here because men don’t know how to correct.

[@sisselab]

not at any moment did I tell women to stop sharing their experiences . it’s disgusting to twist what I said to this extend .

[@life.kaylie]

@@sisselab I didn’t imply that you said that at all. You said in a reply to someone’s comment about women hating men and men’s violence toward women that these fuel each other. But what men have done to women has been happening a lot longer. I in no way am trying to twist your words. I’m reading your replies on other comments. Sissel you’re one of my favorite creators, I’ve been watching your content for years. You’ve helped me a lot in trying to understand myself and become a better person. I hope you understand I am not trying to attack you, twist your words, or anything of the sort. I am responding to things you’ve said in these comments as replies. I’m sorry I’ve offended you and especially that I made you think I was implying what you responded. I don’t think you said that or believe that in any way. Edit: I reread my original comment cause I wanted to understand why you thought I said that. I think when I said something about “if we stop man bashing and being silent again” you assumed I meant that’s what you were saying. I did not mean silent as in stop sharing our experiences, I meant silent as in stop talking crap about men in general. I know you would never tell a woman not to share her/their experiences. I’m very sorry you felt I was saying that, that is not what I intended. I know you stand for women Sissel.

[@KristaWasHere86]

Congrats! I did not know you are married :)

[@NYntjee92]

Are you really korean 😂 amazing place!