Stay or Leave After Losing A Spouse? Entertaining Grandkids, A Celebration, Ask Amy, and More!

Would we stay or Leave After Losing A Spouse? How did Jerry and Linda entertain grandkids on a recent visit, , A big celebration, Ask Amy, Bloopers and more are in this week's Mailbag Monday. Join the Newcomers for a report on this week in The Villages, Florida!
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[@ronniedelaplain6722]

My wife’s last words before she passed away to me was you have to live in The Villages because I’m a golfer and she knew I loved to drive around in the golf cart. It’s taken me a few years to complete her wish. I’m a widower that moved to The Villages because the wife is always right.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

We are glad you stayed, Ronnie!

[@patblough7574]

Congratulations on 65,000 subscribers. We love watching your videos and look forward to seeing what you are bringing to your viewers. We are snowbirds just outside Spanish Springs but plan on buying in The Villages oce we sell our home in PA. Thanks for taking the time to work on your channel. You're greatly appreciated ❤

[@Debber0401]

It’s such a shame that your wife couldn’t be there so that the both of you could’ve moved to The Villages together.

[@ronniedelaplain6722]

@@Debber0401 We tried we had are house up for sale for 3 months my was now bed ridden on Monday August 30th 2010 are house sold on August 31st my wife died in my arms, I think she tried to hang around to make sure I was taken care of, she wasn’t supposed to go that soon

[@noreenn6976]

​@@ronniedelaplain6722your story made me cry. I hope you're playing lots of golf and enjoying your life in TV.

[@kerilotta5421]

I was a church one time and someone’s phone rang during service. Minister said unless thats God you can call them back😮.

[@TonyMarafiote]

Phone call - Love it! That's the beauty of a great friendship/relationship that makes a marriage! I think COVID has caused a lot of folks to be have blinders on, not realizing how their actions affect others. Now, instead of saying excuse ME - I say excuse YOU! The reactions are amazing. Grandchildren are a Blessing. A relief for grandparents and gives the grandchildren a sense of worth and a lesson in saving. God said, "Until death do you part!" Amy - another great topic, thanks! Great bloopers, you both are fantastic!

[@karenjensen2345]

We live in OTOW which is close to the Villages, but smaller and same concept. We specifically moved here so that when one of us passes we have lots to do and lots of friends, way better than living totally alone with nothing to do.

[@ronseguin7289]

Living in TV’s after a spouse dies depends on your existing support system, family, current health, mobility, finances but if your happy where your living clap you hands, blessings to all.

[@ASMR4calmmoods]

Hi Linda and Jerry, I’m 50 with a 6 year old son so not eligible to live in The Villages unfortunately. But now I hear that maybe we would be eligible for Middleton! That’s exciting! We will probably never move there but I love watching your show and learning all about life in The Villages. Thanks for everything! -Emily in Oregon

[@judithkarpinsky8932]

My husband passed away one year ago this month will stay until its my time to pass. Happy happy to see you again. Judy Karpinsky.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

We are so sorry to hear that, but are happy that you are doing well.

[@TheBichonma]

Do teach. ALL the kids to do ALL the chores. “Chores during youth become Life Skills. Makes my heart joyfilled that you have the kids work for their money.

[@thomashenkler4969]

Pizza is definitely dinner, add a beer and you are all set. BTW starting our lifestyle visit on Saturday. See ya.

[@patriciamorrow6046]

Linda, I just turned 73 and as long as I can afford it, I'll always be my 'natural' blonde!! You do you!!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Yes!

[@kathleenamato2708]

@@JERRYANDLINDA ɓb hi

[@milantoombs6696]

Linda, stay with your hair color, you look terrific! Lucky guy Jerry!!!

[@danaepperly4912]

I love the theme songs. I always sing along. I’m not sure if that’s good or bad. ❤

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

LOL!

[@melissakaiser47]

Fun show. Linda, keep your hair color as long as you want to if it makes you happy. That is all that matters.

[@noreenn6976]

The loud cell phone talkers, they always seem to follow me around the store, what fun.

[@fubar5884]

A recent widower, I ran across your channel and enjoy seeing how the other half live! It's obvious you both enjoy meeting new people and enjoy all the offerings of The Villages. I recently spoke to a couple that just moved back to PA from Florida. Their reasons for leaving were numerous but the incerase in the amount of people and traffic were at the top of their list. Also, they said it was the incresed cost of living there. They commented that in the last year everything was increasing in cost and made it unaffordable for them to stay. Of coarse, they missed family and friends and decided to reunited with them instead of making new friends. It appears you are both loving The Villages. Certainly not for me as I love the changing of the seasons, I have numerous friends but most of my family has passed on. My friends have turned into family. I do understand that outgoing and active people probably thrive in your environment. I would not like the heat either. Where I live in NW Pennsylvania, we always have a nice breeze due to so many bodies of water around our area, most notably, Lake Erie. The winters have been very mild the past few years so harsh winters are (for now) not an issue. It's nice to know that you two are happy where you are at. Do you think you'll remain in that area as you get older? Are there adequate Senior services for those who have issues with mobility, stroke victims, and other disabling conditions to allow them to remain in their homes? Enjoy your life together, as we all know, as we age, time seemed to excellerate in nature. Jewel

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you jewel, we anticipate staying here. You never know. It sounds like you are in the perfect place to be for yourself.

[@catherinematson2191]

Regarding this week's salty comment: There is nothing fake about you, Jerry and Linda. You are as genuine as they come. Also it's nobody's business if Linda colors her hair.

[@annehajdu8654]

Well said.

[@victoriadevlin6925]

I agree but I thought they were talking about Jerry😉

[@PSB-900]

As an FYI Jerry, I do all the laundry, dishwashing, bathrooms, garbage duty and clean the kitchen. We live in an over 55 development in Delaware. It keeps me busy and active!

[@Lucillecat759]

Why are people so cruel. You keep what is comfortable for you. You look fabulous.

[@linny3260]

Love the intro music, it makes me happy. ❤

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@vickyb5935]

Here`s a phone story for you: Living in Switzerland it is quite normal to commute on the train. Several times I have ridden and not only are the people talking loud on the phone but they hold it away from their ear and I guess, Have it on speaker because then you hear the OTHER person also talking!!!!! Who wants to listen to that!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@purplemary6420]

Another great show! You guys are my favorite KZbin couple! I will never live in TV but my brother does so hope to meet you 2 someday!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@robosborne9913]

I like the theme songs to each segment 😊

[@williamfederle5119]

I think your existing theme songs are just fine.

[@johnjun3336]

Pineapple with Canadian ham for pizza. Pizza is a meal and snack depending on the time of day.

[@Judythe1]

I love all your theme songs. Keep ‘em.

[@dancurran8977]

I learned a new term today - pitch in. I have always called it potluck.

[@williamfederle5119]

My wife is 76 and she dyes her hair red. She was a beautiful red-head when we started dating long ago and she's going to be one forever. I like the gray head look but some of my hair is not gray. I'm 80. So you both keep doing what you're doing. You are a great-looking couple.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you William, that is so kind of you to say.

[@garyrood3466]

My wife does the cooking and I do the clean up

[@gregmueller2214]

Enjoy your show every week

[@michaeltheveny5270]

I love the theme songs, come on Jerry sing one for entertainment

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@danspink7489]

Congrats on getting to 65k. Also enjoy the theme music, especially "Out and about". Also solved the puzzle. Nice one.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you!

[@Bennyruss2634]

Pet peeves: loud talkers, people who use their cell phones in the bathroom (especially in stalls at work- how gross) and loud chewers! Great video!😊 and you two look great! There's always haters

[@Bev-Anne]

Linda you have an infectious laugh, I love it!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

[@mariannemay4760]

I know some streets have decided to get name tags made with the street also on it to monitor if outsiders are in their midst. Especially if the party invites people inside.

[@m74309]

Theme songs - you are doing it right - your subscriber's numbers are where they are because of your decisions.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you!

[@nancysmall9793]

Pizza is definitely a meal, especially if you have it with a salad....and a few beers.

[@kristenschnese6980]

Congratulations in 65000 viewers another milestone’ very good show . I think in losing your spouse I personally think it would depend on where your kids lived how many friends you still had back home if you were a snowbird or a full timer? I just saw a video somewhere in Fl where a gator attacked a golf cart and that gator was huge! Linda you are right brown hair doesn’t grey well I stopped coloring a long time ago but I do get a toner on my hair every 5 weeks to even the grey and give me body ..

[@rebeccaporter8605]

We went to The Canyons last Saturday with a group of 10, sixty and seventy year olds and did 9 lines! We had a blast! We all want to go again soon.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Great place! You're a daredevil young lady!

[@patriciahunter1566]

I love your show, it’s my little ray of sunshine on Monday mornings. 😊 Jerry I like all of the little theme songs for each segment, and I think each regular segment needs a tune. You really do a great job on these videos. Keep up the great work.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you Patricia!

[@vickig7261]

I like the theme song with each segment too.

[@theresatitus-lawson3431]

My hand went up with you two when the question was asked about hiring for the care of the yard! Been there done that up north. Don't want to do it in retirement. I only plant my flowers and take care of them! Love your theme songs as they are. At times find myself singing your opening jingle! 🎼😁 Linda please don't listen to those other people about your hair. You do you. Your hair is beautiful with the style and color that you have! ❤❤

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you Theresa!

[@JacklynCramton]

So cute Victoria and Janine!

[@davidoverholt251]

Thanks!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you David.

[@user-xj2dh9js2b]

Hi Jerry and Linda...just wanted to pass along that we have use Avon Skin So Soft Oil to combat no-se-ums and mosquitos. Just wet a wash cloth and place some oil on it. Rub it all over your skin and see the difference Avon Skin So Soft Oil can make warding off bug bits! Have a blessed day. We love you! Rosemarie and Al Heindel

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@Shutterbugsightseeing]

Thanks for stopping by the Lake Denham block party! It was great meeting you in person!!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@ronniedelaplain6722]

I do my own lawn work, Mow, edge, trim the bushes and flowers I’m 75 it helps with my exercising I enjoy it gives me a little bit of belonging.

[@karensarsfield9402]

You both look fabulous! Don’t go gray Linda.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@marksherry2933]

Love the theme songs! Yes, entertainment does need a theme song

[@amandahood7809]

Congratulations on 65,000 subscribers and I am proud I'm one of them! My husband and i enjoy your channel. We have no desire to move to TV, but we enjoy you two. Thank you for a great channel that is so helpful to so many.❤✨

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you so much, Amanda!

[@debbiekeller7818]

Linda Just a fyi. I tried the makeup Perbell. High sunscreen value and the color is white and turns to your perfect skin match. I might never switch.😊 thank you for your villages show. I enjoy seeing how others live. Im from washington state .

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thanks for the tip, Debbie!

[@kcthatsme]

Don't change a thing I love your show. I sing along with your music. Thanks for your videos💕

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Wow, thank you

[@ASMR4calmmoods]

Love your theme songs! 🎶

[@lauramalik1257]

Those girls were great, I'm also coming soon from NY, excellent questions. Btw your special project is to find the best pizza or some recommendations

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

We like a restaurant called Piesanos.

[@brfrench1]

I like the songs. Maybe for the entertainment section use “Let me Entertain You”.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Linda will practice.

[@danaflanery9543]

Love the theme songs! 🎶

[@oceandreamer1958]

The boys are getting so big! Thanks for another great video.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Our pleasure!

[@markryan3124]

Greetings from your newest “neighbors” in The Villages. We are so glad to finally be here. Hope to meet you one day when we are out and about. Thanks, as always, for the great videos.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

We will meet you sooner or later. Congratulations!

[@karlreinke9653]

Black Forest is the best !

[@kathykulba4320]

I LOVE the color of your hair!!! Linda, Mom is 90 and I still color her hair black, she loves it and it's no big deal!!!! (I color mine too, blonde, I have no desire to stop!) Jerry, your hair is great too!!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@karendjohn8803]

Congrats on the 65K! Linda, I feel the same as you, about not ready to go grey. Except in my case, I’m white underneath all those chemicals 🤪. I used to work in a doc office & despite having signs posted all over, to step out for your personal call, no one did. Mind boggling! Yes, pizza is a meal, but our leftovers sometimes become a snack. So you are both right 😊. Don’t take away the songs. You guys are doing a wonderful job!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you Karen, so nice!

[@JeffWeymier]

Another fun show you two. Lots of information and giggles. Linda's hair always looks lovely so I don't know what Stormy Weather is talking about. My hair was gray at 40 so I'm pretty used to it.

[@mkulseth52]

Terrific show. So entertaining.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@d.l.n.7133]

Thank you for the heads up on the zip line place . It has so many fun things to do . I knew exactly what you meant about child labor 😅you got to keep the littles active . Especially when they are too old for the playground. Congratulations on your 65,000 subscribers 🎉🥳

[@tiffanymeyer5961]

Love you guys! Keep up the awesome work.

[@mialorenzen3538]

Love your theme songs!! Sure, an Entertainment intro would be fun! Have a blessed week ahead! ❤❤🎉🎉. We’ll see ya when we get there! :)

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thanks so much!

[@kimberlyreynolds5421]

Congratulations on hitting 65,000! Onward to 100,000 and beyond! Go ahead and dye your hair as long as you want to! I tried growing it out during Covid. I’m not grey enough to look good so I still dye my hair. I love more theme songs. It makes a good transition to the next segment and they are relaxing!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you so much!!

[@kimsinclair9100]

We once had a lawn service do our lawn (our lawn was admired by the neighborhood and was beautiful). Every time he cut the lawn he cleaned his blades because he said the weeds would just transfer to other lawns. He especially did not want that to happen to our weed-free lawn since he was the one who fertilized/treated it. Apparently the lawn cut before ours was loaded with weeds. So you could be getting your weeds from a prior homeowner who wasn’t so caring about a weed-free lawn.

[@marywilson1948]

Linda! My husband’s aunt lives in Kentucky. She colors her hair and it looks beautiful!! She’s in her 90’s! Your hair is so pretty, Linda. Looks perfect!!

[@MyLogHomeLife]

It’s advised not to move for one year after loosing a spouse. That way you don’t make a rash decision that you will regret. Of course, not everyone has the ability to wait that long, but I would think you should wait at least six months, if possible.

[@Remshot1234]

Great FUN video! Well done, you two! We can't wait until we are able to get back out there, and hopefully make things permanent!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

See you when you get here!

[@laurarahz12]

You guys are precious … love you! Don’t like that convo about kicking the bucket … no buckets!!!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@jeanhughes7449]

Jerry and Linda, your channel is the best. There are others I watch too, but I love how you both are so interesting and always kind to each other. You inspire everyone to be nicer to each other. I love your different segments, your golf cart rides, and lots of good people sharing their thoughts. Linda, I want you to know you are a beautiful person inside and out. Pay no attention to the people who pick on you personally. Your sweet disposition, your adorable laughter, and your banter with Jerry make my day. I am a widow in Virginia and will not be moving to TV, but to have neighbors like you would bring sunshine to anyone's life. Keep the channel fresh and sassy! I love you both.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Jean, you are so sweet. Thank you! ❤❤❤

[@frannader2739]

Hi Jerry and Linda. So special to document your Grandchildren and include them in your channel. It will be cherished. Still solving the scramble. Don't have to tell me twice to watch out for those Florida Crocs. Thanks for time stamping the bloopers. Always fun.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thanks, Fran!

[@sallypriest4363]

That gator attack happened behind my house here in Pennbrooke Fairways. I saw it happening from my lanai , screamed fro my husband, and ran for the phone and called 911. It was very traumatic. Golfers were nearby and hurried over to help. They did get the gator and the hand, but it was too mangled to be reattached. The victim is recovering well and has returned to his New Jersey home.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

That is so sad. Would you please email us your contact information so we could ask you a couple of questions? [e-mail]

[@pamsacco6299]

😢

[@ellenwhite7173]

I love the music for the segments

[@deborahengesser159]

Congratulations on 65K subscribers🎉🥳🎉🎊🎉

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you so much, Deborah! 😀

[@deborahengesser159]

@@JERRYANDLINDA Most Welcome 🤗

[@christinemowbray6116]

Always GREAT , informative and entertaining videos !! Such a joy to watch especially now that Linda has come out of her shell so to speak ! You two make even the most ordinary and mundane topic fun !! Blessings to you both always !🙏

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thanks so much, Christine!

[@loramuer9314]

Linda you are as cute as a button! Your hair always looks beautiful.What the heck is wrong with people and their rude comments.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@JacklynCramton]

I love your theme songs! No, do not get rid of them! This is the best Villages channel!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@donturno8092]

Love seeing the pictures of you and the people who "find" you out and about. Looking forward to the time I "find" you and get a picture and autograph.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@nancyconca9892]

Congratulations on getting to 65k subscribers ‼️👏🏻‼️👏🏻‼️👏🏻Linda ignore those nasty people who criticize you for dying your hair - your hair color and style are beautiful and you look lovely❤🥰‼️I don’t understand what people don’t get about staying away from the alligators ‼️‼️‼️ You are great grandparents to your boys’ kids - they are so cute and growing so fast 😊😊😊 Have a great week and thanks for posting this video🙏❤️🎶😎🌞💐

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@eddiehernandez7212]

Hey guys. My wife and I are coming down this Wednesday. Looking forward to trying out the Villages lifestyle for a week. It's snowing at the moment here in South Bend, Indiana, home of the fighting Irish☘🏈 so some Florida sun will be great. Hope to see you when we get there, Deb and Ed.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

We are enjoying some lovely weather here. You will have a wonderful time.

[@carolapostolos8929]

Love the video of the grandkids!

[@pamsacco6299]

Enjoyed seeing the grandkids video, adorable! Love your theme song. Make it your ringtone, then we can find you when you’re Out & About! 😂😂😂

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Great idea!!

[@vickyd868]

OH I LOVE VICTORIA AND JEANNINE (and not just because my name is also Victoria!) We have two daughters ourselves and will be retiring in the near future, thus more time in THE VILLAGES ... not just "visiting" our home there. Our daughters do enjoy the Villages as well and I just LOVED hearing and seeing the both of them! Paradise is also our closest regional rec center/family pool closest to us. We hope to see you both when we "officially" move there ... we owe you both a breakfast, lunch or dinner of your choice for sure! XOX Michael & Vicky (if you still remember us.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Of course we do! See you when you get here.

[@tammyferguson2707]

Congratulations on reaching 65k subscribers!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you!

[@annehajdu8654]

Congratulations on your 65,000 subscribers! That's a lot.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you!

[@jackieholst7094]

Those boys are adorable!!!

[@tracy-marie]

I love the show and the theme songs.

[@AndreaWalen]

Well, OF COURSE we’d love a theme song for your entertainment segment 😂😂 Your jingles keep us entertained … and they’re ear-worms all day. I can’t tell you how often I sing 🎵 “Mailbag Monday” in my head 😂😂😂

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@phyllisdelgiudice625]

Another great show Jerry and Linda. Loved seeing the grandkids helping around the yard...they're absolutely adorable! Working on solving that word scramble...hmmmm 😊 Have a great week!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thanks so much Phyllis!

[@Shutterbugsightseeing]

Oh lord….stormy weather needs to go be salty elsewhere!! You guys are adorable

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Thanks again for your kindness. What a wonderful get together.

[@douglasstone3813]

Cheap fertilizer contains lots of weed seed so it could be from the fertilizer your lawn guy is using.

[@Twimom]

Hi Jerry and Linda! Love your show and love your little ditties for each segment! I watch your show everyday and bop out in my seat to your cute little tunes. 😂 My husband and I are waiting for a particular spot in one of the villages to start building homes and will hopefully have our new home ready by the end of this year. We'll see you when we get there!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Keep bopping and... See you when you get here!

[@judithmoore7999]

Can you elaborate on the food truck? What is the typical menu and price. Judy and Warren, Alabama

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

There are lots of food trucks. You can get Mexican, you can get American, you can get hot dogs, ice cream, you name it.

[@jimmydonohue4504]

Looked like a fun time at Spanish Springs on Patty's Day; tons of people! Great job folks, I'll be coming for a visit in April to scout out a possible new home, coming down from RI. Maybe run into you ;) Keep up the good work!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you, Jimmy!

[@kylereed980]

Good morning Jerry and Linda, great mailbag, thank you for being the kind ND of people the rest of America should be!! Have a great day!!! P,s,, I'll find you some canned stew...

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

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[@kathmann7402]

Congratulations on 65,000 subscribers!🎉🎉🎉🎉 Also, thanks for discussing my question! Love your videos!

[@carolyncook6970]

Congratulations with your subscribers!!! We all enjoy and look forward each Monday and Thursday to your show !!!😀🎉❤️

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you so much!!

[@ronniedelaplain6722]

I play Hacienda Hills CC after around 4:30 its only $33.95 and I get the whole 18 in, but I’m one of those guys that don’t mind the warmer temperatures

[@peggyparis758]

I love your hair Linda dont ever go grey. You look great.