Stephan Labossiere Shares The Types Of Women To Avoid

This week on the podcast Stephan Labossiere shares the type of women that men should avoid. Comment below with your thoughts and check out the full episode via the link below.
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Be sure to check out the full episode via the link in the description.

[@Joshua8224]

Please bring John Gray (not the pastor). He wrote 'Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus' (1992). The guy has some wisdom and explains the instinctive nature of both sexes.

[@victoriousayesha825]

Joshua Mwaura from a natural, world mentality. Not from a Spiritual view, which matters. We are all made from God, not from plants. That book is not on point. Men are from God and formed two ways. One of the devil and one of God. Women are drawn and made from Men. So we come from the same place🤦🏽‍♀️ God...

[@Joshua8224]

​@@victoriousayesha825 I appreciate your view. ​@@victoriousayesha825 Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus is just a metaphor that helps analogize the difference between men and women. Please listen to the audio-book: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iarKooGNj7p2pLs. The book explains the instinctive nature of both sexes. Please try to differentiate what someone believes in and what they provide/ we (Christians) don't live in a bubble whereby i will say that i will not recerive help (medical, supplies, services) from a non Christian. God designed us both male and female in his image. On a spiritual level we of the same dignity and value, but have different roles. That is why husbands are told to emulate Christ (sacrificially loving the Church) in loving their wives; wives are to emulate the church (submitting to the leadership of Christ) in submitting to their husbands. Now, this (the book) goes down to the nitty-gritty details of men and women relationships i.e., common misunderstandings, arguments, communication. These are mentioned vaguely in the Bible, but it doesn't mean that one should not seek more knowledge on the same. It is like medicine.... It is true that we need to ask God to heal us. God will still use meddicine or treatment to heal us. Mind you, Luke the Gospel historiian was also a physician.

[@crisclay2678]

Are y’all in Atlanta too?? I’m just asking cause i definitely hooped with Stephen before at Atlantic Station

[@R3dbeard7.62]

I’m doing that now. This video 9 years ago probably would’ve saved me a wasted marriage at the age of 29

[@ThaMobstarr]

"Never be so afraid to lose her, that you now lose yourself in trying to keep her." That's some real wisdom from Stephan.

[@snodahsc]

Bro, I wish I heard this 2 years ago, I was such a SIMP in my own mind. This really encapsulates everything I wish I knew.

[@donnycalstudios]

@@snodahsc Same bro. It’s such a tough lesson to learn

[@adventpotatoes1118]

👌🏾 That’s such solid advice. Doing that as a woman is when I was in my darkest place. It’s good for people to be in tune with themselves before they enter a relationship.

[@ThaMobstarr]

I never had a girlfriend, but I kinda apply it to chasing women as well. In the past I was running after women and it didn't do me well.

[@FunkL0chx3]

Currently trying to get these words down.

[@amandaslay6045]

Not only should you not DATE this type, you SHOULD NOT be friends with this type either

[@MachinegunNgwenya]

No women should be your friend focus on ur purpose

[@amandaslay6045]

@@MachinegunNgwenya sounds lonely.

[@MachinegunNgwenya]

@@amandaslay6045 real men can be alone nd increase their skill it's a gift the only way 2 improve

[@hansmemling7605]

I agree

[@danielmuriithi8486]

@@amandaslay6045 is it loneliness or solitude??

[@guevarajeanty8224]

Most of us men choose women who dont even like us

[@TuffLuv1984]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@malrofo]

They just like what we can do for them

[@QUISPEECH]

Meanwhile us good ladies are single. Most men like mean women then end up 40 and broke. Smh I'll never get it.

[@malrofo]

@@QUISPEECH are you going for men that like you?

[@ChavisGreenard]

@@QUISPEECH It's a horrible cycle. Some guys may pursue and desire girls who may hurt them. When they get hurt, they become bitter and take it out on some girls who didn't deserve it....which in turn makes those ladies bitter. 🤦‍♂️ The cycle has to broken or we'll see almost everyone go extreme feminist or MGTOW. Healing and growth must come. Truly, they have to come to Jesus.

[@jennasaiz3585]

“Men should know their worth just as much as woman”. Truth!

[@haremking7256]

Oh really Jenna 😏

[@crb4095]

Ironic ain’t it

[@angelcarlos8041]

Oh really Jenna

[@valeriakraynova5078]

Yes!!! True!!

[@halaniwalombardi3562]

Lol your profile picture shows the truth is going in one ear and out the other. Using your body to attract bad boys and straight up wife beaters.

[@adamlong3885]

Misery loves company. Don’t choose to be around negative people or you’ll suffer. Get off negative social media pages or you’ll suffer.

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

So true Adam.

[@justlivin3998]

Deleted snapchat yesterday to focus on me

[@Jspec03]

I see you read Robert Greene’s 48LoP too

[@Angelshavemanyeyes]

555th LIKE

[@davidmckinley8378]

😒 not true - company just uses my misery against me, when all I wanted was care. 😕 this brand of misery stays to his lonesome. 👨🏾‍🦯

[@charlesvictoria6800]

If she CLEARLY craves attention from multiple guys, she CLEARLY is going to break your heart.

[@c.karnstein3299]

Not just other guys but if she's glued to social and lives life through social media and netflix RED FLAG

[@anthonylozano8035]

“Treat her like she’s disposable” no man. not the best advice to keep a strong marriage and frame in check. Rather, you shouldn’t Allow her to be the focus of your life. She’s a compliment to your life not the focus. I get what he’s saying here but the word disposable is a bit objective here. If I treat my woman like shit I can only expect for her to treat me like shit back.

[@Greg12839]

well said

[@jadajones676]

Facts

[@Woopwoopbeep]

Listen to the last few seconds of the video

[@marcusgarvey630]

Treating her like shes disposable doesnt mean treat her like shit lmao

[@endthefed1448]

beta simp alert!

[@tattyestrada1257]

As a woman I love hearing this. I want to hear the other side to see what I can do for my partner. I think we have to have a balance on how we treat each other.

[@alee5024]

@Vanille Fatale what if you dont agree with him at certain times

[@alee5024]

@Vanille Fatale ok thank you for clearing that up because within this community some make it seem like woman have to be like a compliant child that cant have opinions

[@charlieguggemos890]

You dropped this 👑

[@money09427]

I was in a long distance relationship for 2 years. I given my ALL to her (financially and mentally) . She cheated on me and lied on me about being a surrogate mother. She was in a relationship with another man(the baby Daddy)the whole time. Im now in financial debt and have to maybe got to Civil court. Everything that was said in this video tells me I need to work on myself before opening my heart again. 🙏

[@spambamkeija634]

Zab Gates You mean a woman will appreciate the good things you do for her AT THAT MOMENT until the one thing you do wrong, whether incidentally or on purpose - takes all of the good away. Real wrap.

[@punchn9001]

flashisfreshtv I didn’t wanna say that 😂😂but you’re right

[@DD-kv5uu]

@flashisfreshtv took me out lmao 😂 But, Very wise words sir

[@money09427]

@enjoy life and smile She was not financially stable. And to answer why I did get in a relationship with her is beaucse I thought she was being full TRANSPARENT. Out first date was so Water . We shared experiences and we were so open about past experiences and family and other below the surface topics. That opened my HEART to trust her and thought she TRUSTED Me.....

[@money09427]

@enjoy life and smile . I don’t think reciprocation was even on her mind . She told me she was have a baby for a friend of hers. She didn’t even let me see her because of her having this child that I though was lent hers but eventually I found out the truth.

[@johnnynaylor7715]

"Ashamed to tell my friends how much I do for you cuz they know that you would never do the same for me" -Drake

[@budgetsneakerhead3291]

He’s right about how she treats others. Actors

[@ninjaman44444]

Facts

[@Btn1136]

So glad I got married to a great woman after making many of these mistakes. Closing on our first house now and it’s been worth the wait.

[@yt-pp1ub]

That’s good. that’s good

[@Unknown-wl7vl]

Is she shit testing you ?

[@joycewatt800]

Amen! Good for you. Keep your love strong. There is so much negativity around marriage that it saddens me. The hook up generation will not last long.

[@ChristopherMaier.]

Lol rip. HALF!

[@Indoctrinatedhippie]

Conversations like this give me hope for the future of dating. Shout out to everyone with a growth mindset ❤️

[@Gustoking37]

❤️

[@theunknownman8909]

No You’re the kind of girl that would cheat on your boyfriend.

[@chanx2694]

No leech

[@chanx2694]

No whatever you say lol

[@ethannaka1822]

NF you sound toxic, I feel bad for him lol

[@fredrickurbanelli4318]

This is great stuff, gentlemen. Take it from me, a 66 year old man who has been through the mill, young guys need to hear this.

[@cnelly749]

No nah man don’t be a provider that’s the worst position . She’s just using you to provide . Highly disposable position . You need to BE ABLE to provide but also have the ability to leave her at any moment

[@nappyqueen86]

@NF wow true and a little sad. But, husband should be able to provide and protect

[@p-dee2288]

@NF yes, I agree. However, in order for a woman to love a man she must(imperative) respect him first. There can be no love if there is no respect. Hence why you gotta level up in all facets and areas in your life. Period.

[@1974GreekTiger]

@NF LMFAO isn't this a red pill channel?What kind of bozzo believes in traditional roles in 2021?Be the lover,not the provider.

[@furyelimousinellc7846]

The "In Love" Philosophy....Monkey Wrench

[@kapeeshmenzies6971]

if she's always shooting you down and dismissing your feelings and what you're trying to tell her you need to get out of that fast before it messes up your whole psyche

[@Xxxteeero]

Too late bro, I’m working on it though! 💪🏾

[@j.anthonymorgan3025]

Preach

[@Comeswoopfam]

Gone like the wind lol

[@Koasai18]

Ong.... Left shortly after our son was born..... Imagine going to work at 3am.. don't get off until 4pm 6 days a week.. and she's complaining about how she has bill's too, or she's been with the baby all day. I'd care for my son the moment I walked in the door.... She'd go get her break but wouldn't come back til after 9.... For the first 3months that was the schedule..... Frustrating to know the woman you wit doesn't see the consistent effort...

[@jimihendriixx]

@@Koasai18 I’m glad I never had kids with my ex. Dodged a missile !!

[@MusicShaddyRaddy]

Avoid low vibrational people. Surround yourself with people who give value.

[@Comeswoopfam]

FACTS! stay away from woman who are always down on themselves and never happy. It literally lowers your frequency and it latches on to you.

[@venicec3310]

Also stay away from people who use the word “vibrations” to describe people

[@DJFaNaTiiC]

@@venicec3310 that’s funny, but you get the point he’s making

[@realkingrey2732]

So true boss. I remember having a 3 year relationship with someone very negative. I hated it. Then actually had the balls to leave her. The main reason I left her was because of how negative she was.

[@jong3404]

7:23 “Give women something to respect about you.” Most important sentence.

[@inmate0054]

Respect is something you do because of who you are. Not based on what someone else does. Find a women that gives respect regardless how people act and you found someone valuable. Same could be said about men. You can always find a reason to not respect someone.

[@mann8098]

Sadly the type of person described here has become common. And these people know they are like this AND THEY DON'T WANT TO CHANGE.

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

So sad it's so.

[@anikaallen3741]

These are narcissist. It's ALL ABOUT THEM! Even if you are trying to have an adult conversation to work out differences like a grown up, they will turn everything around, twist your words and put all the blame on you. It's so aggravating and will wear out your mind.

[@Moorsho]

My dad always told me look at a woman how she treats her family members.

[@afroabe7584]

Facts bro

[@OItsSasha]

Okay but what if she's from a toxic and narcissistic family that she had to cut off from her life?

[@yt-pp1ub]

@@OItsSasha than she should be the smart one, she should try to not cause chias with the family, cuz it’s a test in god, If she’s able to be strong after that it’ll show after, but sometimes if it gets serious than she should call the cops but ik a lot of these chicks lie about stuff like that to get people attention. Trust me a real person going through drought like that would only tell a couple of people because it’s embarrassing.

[@Ms.Chan.T]

@@OItsSasha Some women come from families where they were abused and some are extreme cases. I think this should be looked at deeper.

[@dorahchizu866]

Same with a man

[@Me-in2ry]

"I'm not negative, I'm a realist" bro that kills me

[@Rob-fp3xq]

The abundance mindset is the ultimate weapon for men. It has done wonders in my life!

[@MuhammadAli-wy6ku]

What is it the Abundance mindset

[@CeeDoubleU]

@@MuhammadAli-wy6ku there's always more. Don't focus too much on 1.

[@BunziD]

I once had a female friend that told me she slept with her ex's homie...... I have not known her since that moment.

[@egemensuzgun4208]

that’s fucked ayy

[@newstome4680]

I've heard that happen too, fucked up

[@Bolero_Son]

If it was after a break up, it would be ok. She might have been looking for a new relationship, with a friend that she knows, rather than with a stranger. But if this had happened while they were dating, it is no way, not ok, bad judgment.

[@DanielleaBella33]

The ironic thing is women also go through these very same scenarios and issues with men. At the end of the day we’re all human beings looking for love and acceptance. Focus on being a good human and the kind of person you would want to be loved by, and you will naturally attract the same.

[@Incognitoblue]

They weren't claiming that women don't go through this, that's why they kept saying men and women at some points. But this is obviously a channel by men to help other men.

[@DanielleaBella33]

@@Incognitoblue of course. I get that it’s a men’s channel. My comment was just an observation. Not a criticism of them or their commentary. More of a “huh - whaddya know thats interestingly the same”. I think women can benefit from watching mens channels and trying to listen to and understand men. Just as I think men can benefit from hearing women out and trying to understand them. It’s a great thing to be willing to listen to and entertain ideas that are not your own or that you may not necessarily agree with right away. I think that makes for a well rounded reasonable individual. As pointed out by the theme of my comment - I truly believe we men and women need each other. We are different in so many ways but the same in many. We both have what the other lacks while also having the common humanity to connect on those differences for improvement in each other. But I appreciate your input. Stay blessed Brother. 🙂

[@monkwushu2305]

Naw, us men can admit to our wrongs. Apparently y’all always the victim when you don’t get your way. You’re dismissed now boo boo .

[@DanielleaBella33]

@@monkwushu2305 are you replying to the correct comment thread? I’m so confused by your statement lol. I don’t see anywhere myself or Neville were claiming victimhood. Just discussing how certain info was viewed. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Anyway - Enjoy your day!

[@triplebz9963]

@@Incognitoblue right - I dislike it when people want to put there two cents in a conversation thst isn’t really meant for them - they wasn’t banishing women as a whole they also acknowledge that men and lots of women go thru the same things but this message is focused on men cause I noticed on social media there rarely love for them

[@Eyezpretty]

You brothers are Dead on with everything That was said! I couldn't agree more.

[@outlawstarr5209]

When a man know's his worth & value due to self-confidence. Some people do have an issue with that.

[@cookiegirl891]

Same with women

[@yt-pp1ub]

Yup, woman will try to break the alpha of the group so other men don’t be like him, woman would rather have the guys trying to make her laugh and feel good around them but when a dude is on his mission, he doesn’t care about her and other men try to imitate him, she hates that.

[@GigaChadsAreReal]

@@yt-pp1ub you just described all of my female coworkers. Have my like, good sir

[@yt-pp1ub]

@@GigaChadsAreReal what are some things that woman do at work?

[@Imperial-Tutor]

@@yt-pp1ub Speak bro. This is the real talk. The so called alpha is the elephant in the room.

[@katherineejessup]

I feel like this really goes both ways. This isn’t a man/women thing it’s a human thing. Cause the ladies are talking about the same exact thing.

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Yes it was discussed in the full episode.

[@katherineejessup]

@Box Addict how so?

[@suzettebarclay6423]

So true. Men do the same thing also.

[@Wptypeshi]

No one said it didnot this post is about men so let us have our moment

[@coneyjames6765]

On top of that we in a feministic western society gone get to a point where u gotta cash app a girl just to talk to her fans only sexual exploitation every thing even her time is monetary and if it ain’t they wanna fist type grip over the person they dealing with

[@quamifilms]

After 24yrs of marriage I was cheated on. The pain of letting go still hurts after 2yrs. But understanding letting go and not losing yourself is definitely key. Stay on your purpose.

[@jmcc8718]

God bless u that is so rough

[@quamifilms]

@@jmcc8718 thank you

[@TheLlamaKid]

God bless you

[@myiahrussell7155]

I am a woman and I agree. I used to have friends who are super negative about everything and even judge about. Word of advice for younger men, if you have a young woman that you are thinking about dating, make sure to look for how she treats her friends and how her friends treat her.

[@johnkreese4706]

If she has yes woman who bow to her controlling attitude that’s a red flag….if they offer different opinions and she’s receptive to criticism…that’s better

[@destinyzroom]

This video is just another sign to me to just wait for the right man to come along. The right man won’t need to be bossed around. He’d know how to have responsibilities or he’d be smart enough to do what’s right for the relationship. The right man will be positive in himself and will motivate you to be positive too if you’re feeling negative. The right man wouldn’t mind giving to you but would let you honestly know that he wants help, needs help. And you’d want to help out of the goodness of your heart. Like all these things I feel like are issues when you’re in a relationship that’s just not for you. Like me, I admit that I have some of these issues simply because of attachment and fear of loneliness forever, lack of faith, etc. I just hope to keep actively noticing these things that are red flags in relationships to kind of figure my life out because no a women shouldn’t be having to do all that negative stuff in the first place if she’s with someone respectable.

[@destinyzroom]

Blaq Chronik Yep it’s definitely my fault. Which is why I admitted to having the issues in my own relationship. Admitted to the fact that I should choose more wisely.

[@Lemniscate1027]

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@ruth.beauty2701]

ChérieDestiny just by that comment, I can see his comprehension skills are unfortunately very poor. I surely do hope, it was a one off mistake.

[@destinyzroom]

Ruth A ehhh it’s alright. C’est la vie 😂. At least you understand what I was saying and that’s what counts!

[@prosperousk5477]

Take accountability for yourself, you sound a bit narcissistic. You can’t want good, if you’re not good yourself!

[@Prime489time]

Avoid any woman who never apologizes for anything she does wrong.

[@MissJennifer8]

So freaking true. I can definitely relate. I've been in that position of trying to keep somebody happy while giving you the bare minimum.

[@LordWinter]

He described Molly from Insecure perfectly! Lol

[@P2T3]

Lmfao deadass

[@jacklauren9359]

LordWinter who is molly?

[@LordWinter]

@@jacklauren9359 A character on HBO's Insecure.

[@lebonhlapo2607]

Don't make me think of Season 5 as I'm trying to forget about it😂😂😂

[@LordWinter]

@@lebonhlapo2607 that whole season was wack

[@MrMoore88]

Stop chasing women that don't value YOU. Make sure the energy is replicated. You give, she give.

[@So_Oneal]

As I've gotten older one trait that I definitely want in a woman is if she has her own mind and doesn't care what her family and friends think; don't let your people control your decisions that's a deal breaker for me.

[@cookiegirl891]

Facts

[@So_Oneal]

@Zab Gates Retire that word "Simp"

[@lashardawashington1625]

I have to work on this. I find myself defending guys that I am interested in because my family want to put them down

[@quietquintessa5270]

He is my favorite guest on the podcast! He has truly changed my life. Some people may say that but I really mean it. I have watch him on this podcast and my mindset has transformed tremendously! Thank you for saving my life you guys! Love ya! God bless you all!

[@triphophoney2981]

This conversation is like the Janet Jackson song "What Have You Done For Me Lately?" in reverse, lol. Don't get me wrong, it's good stuff! These dudes are doing the Lord's work and I applaud their efforts. Keep it up, gentlemen!

[@aaronbrutus2654]

Make sure you find out who's in her ear as well. A lot of men don't pay attention to this.

[@I_am_Alkebulan]

Yep!!! Her family looking at me side ways. Her friends asking me dumb questions and saying shit like you shouldn't do my friend like that. WHAT? I got out of that relationship quick.

[@tjon85]

King Kyng lmao what??

[@sluggak1363]

@@I_am_Alkebulan real man bro👍

[@brothashizztv258]

Aaron Brutus this nigga spittin

[@EmeraldEdge72]

I had a friend from India who had a girlfriend and they were fine. The leader of the girl's group of friends told his girlfriend that she didn't like him and that they should break up, so it happened. When you are dating one female you're dating the whole lot of them sometimes. What happened was an example of altering the people and situation which we often call manipulation.

[@LadyEmjay]

Relationships give me a headache but I still have hope.

[@anthonymartialmartial912]

Check ur self

[@LadyEmjay]

anthony martial martial 😒

[@anthonymartialmartial912]

@@LadyEmjay say something

[@LadyEmjay]

@@anthonymartialmartial912 You said check yourself , and I side eyed you because I don't need to check myself. I just find relationships stressful

[@anthonymartialmartial912]

@@LadyEmjay u may be the course of the stress .😉

[@TakeBackYourMind997]

Man this is exactly why you gotta work on your confidence and self worth before you get in relationships. If you get those things developed well within you, the right actions will follow.

[@kingdomcitizenship5613]

It feels so good to hear the uplifting of men. I haven't heard this kind of talk in a long time.

[@shellbeanz]

My husband gets frustrated with me because I try to control things and don’t trust him enough to do what’s right. He’s right to be frustrated and you’re right I need to drop my walls and trust the person I love before it’s too late. 💕

[@gabo1841997]

You just described my crazy ex-girlfriend to the letter. The poor girl needs some therapy. She was a good person but she's heavily damaged inside.

[@chrisisslick]

Shout out to his barber and hair stylist tho 👏🏽

[@Theycallmejassi]

I'm glad to see men giving such excellent advice. I know many girls who take advantage of their capability of attracting men

[@KingZionLyris]

Be very keen on ESCAPING before you devalue yourself. Don't give her the benefit of the doubt. I have been with a woman for 4 years and I have raised her in life, helping her to position herself to become better. I have realized that she will take what she wants superficially but real things that matter like trying to be there for my family or little sister and she doesn't even care about her own. It has been four years and due to my lack of understanding I have sacrificed so much to help her get to the next level. The worst part is someone getting what they want from you, then they don't care about your health or their own. Then try to play you even though they know you can't be played. I tried to negotiate with the game. She still tries to convince me she loves me but I can tell it's not true. She doesn't listen to anything I say. Now her health is getting worse she can't even see it because she won't listen. I think I know why she is sticking around because I helped her and she sees what I've accomplished within myself and my assets. I figure it's time to go. I'm just being used. It's just so hard after 4 years

[@MuhammadAli-wy6ku]

Leave before you have kids with this person because after you'll stay with her just for the sake of the childre . It can make your life hell and you may change, get mental heatlh problems, depression, become alcoholic bevause it will make your life horrible. On top as she is ot mature, you'll need to be the mother and the father as what you described is a sick person and will also harm the children. RUN AWAY or you'llregret it all your life.

[@sassarific]

So interesting to hear these conversations because women go through similar struggles 😧 It's like we're all just trying to figure it out & get it right.

[@EvaKNF]

Zab Gates i know at least 5 ppl who found love on a dating app. Married and children... « law of attraction » is not a women thing

[@EvaKNF]

Zab Gates wow.... so many judgments in such a short statement. Hope you found your happiness 😉

[@EvaKNF]

Zab Gates 😂 I must have hit a nerve cause you assumed that because I wished you the best, I wasn’t sincere. I do really wish that your philosophy can lead you to happiness. I don’t have to agree with you! I’m not on dating app and I’m happy in all areas of my life. But I don’t judge others either cause they do what they got to do to fill their life. That’s just not necessary to me... but I said what I said 👋

[@EvaKNF]

Zab Gates 😂😂😂😂 clearly I’m assuming « you are not happy » so much hate in your heart. Please heal before even put your mouth to talk about others ... kinda sad

[@LoveLyriks]

Lol this guy

[@flooredjustfloored]

VERY interesting, as a woman, being the observer on this thread! Men are pretty much saying the same thing that women are saying. In the end, we all want love, peace, and happiness. Hopefully these KZbin conversations will help all of us start to recognize and fix those things that have been broken and pushing us away from each other and begin to build mutually blissful, rewarding, long-lasting relationships!

[@Meepsavage]

I’m glad I came across this video. I’ve been married for 6 years and my husband recently filed for divorce. We agreed I would stay home and raise the kids until they began kindergarten. I worked on weekends . I was committed, faithful, took care of the home, had a meal waiting for him, and fought to hold us together for years . He has said that I held him back and haven’t done anything to better his life . I’ve had to really examine myself but know now, he just isn’t happy with himself . In relationships/marriage, both people have to invest in keeping the relationship going .

[@demisele2052]

I personally believe you have to cover the “negative energy thing” prior to dating anyone. However you three brothers are rare and strong men. 🇺🇸🦋

[@414MrMilwaukee]

To my brothers...... *YOUR BORN TO BE KINGS!* *YOU WILL RISE. STAY STRONG*

[@danielauhunmwangho9655]

The one way my husband won my heart is by saying "no".

[@tweetpeaspicks4764]

Steph gives great advise. His non bias and non-judgmental approach makes the message easily received. Well done. I definitely resonate with his quote "the hardest position we can be in it being with a good person you're not inlove with" self respect is needed on both sides

[@1travischase]

Im 24 i went through my first real break up this time last year. Low self esteem is a confidence killer once you know understand you value you really look at your entire situation different and your tolerance for the bullshit is real minimum.

[@michellemurphy4987]

You guys are so refreshing, couldn’t have said it better myself. People do not seem to understand this ‼️

[@tashamack8701]

I love this interview. I love to see men talking about relationships and love. Very well said Stephan. A man who knows his worth is what i like. To all the kings i salute to you all👏🏿👊🏿👌🏿💪🏿

[@ddevulders]

It took me almost 3 years to detect the difference between what she said to me and what she actually showed in her behavior. Then it took me another 3 years to finalize the divorce and 3 days after that you guys post this video. I'll take it as the universe telling me I am on the right path again.

[@ddevulders]

@No Thanks brother, luckily money has never been an issue.

[@Chris-ti3gq]

It’s crazy after hearing this I cut all my women off 😂 my standards have been raised thank you

[@KingSalaman]

Sometimes some women dont leave you because yall have kids together so they try to make it work or just for the money benefits. Some dont know how to handle a good man so they leave them, theyll cheat or go out without you subconsciously for you to break it up. Some men do the same with good women, It’s crazy how it always seems someone in a relationship loves more than the other person. Whoever loves more tends to lose (disappointment)

[@arseneremy]

My test for the last 12 years is how a woman behaves and reacts while driving. Her raw emotions will always surface. It's one of the few environments where people can't hide their emotions and character. He true self will always be revealed.

[@youngshinobi7208]

Hmm... interesting. You see if they are aggressive road ragers (angry), timid and fearful highway drivers (highly sensitive), and negligent accident prone (irresponsible). Not to mention accumulated DUI s. Good point my man.

[@jamesharden7231]

YoungShinobi7 Good points💯I never thought about it like that

[@honeyblu1586]

Yooo lol true story

[@shaylaforever9048]

Lol..but a good way to observe.

[@CHERRELL9]

Wow I never thought about this I have to apply to my life and observe some things about myself

[@HowardCharlesUK]

There's a lot of great insight in this video

[@bjizzle09]

"rather than losing her, you're losing yourself" BARS

[@ColdDiva]

It’s like we’re telling the story just on different sides of the coin. Very similar narrative for women. Good insights given, may we all stop taking ourselves for granted in all relationships.

[@Raphanne]

I'm a married woman. I don't know why I'm here. KZbin just recommended me this video. Anyway, great content, I agree 100% with what was said.

[@radiant_gem6736]

So on point! "That does not mean treat her like she's disposable"👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@mn1856]

The only thing you picked up 🤦‍♂. Now feed your ego. Bye

[@ClaireHaire]

The antidote to not running into this type of broken person is to find someone who you genuinely like and sometimes that 's not in the "body" that men like. I'm afraid to put my comment on here bc, the last time I had an disagreement with someone , they went on my hair channel and disliked/made negative comments on my hair tutorials.

[@jackiek4159]

I agree with you girlie! Never let trolls or negative people put you down! You're always entitled to your opinion! 🙌🏻

[@sourcesymbiosismetamorphis2228]

I see what you are trying to say. You have a point. It is looking beyond the physical and really connecting with someone on a soul level. But on the other hand could you honestly say that you would be into a man like this who had this personality that you desire but were not sexually attracted to? I as a man can honestly say no to this when being with a woman because the sexual aspect plays a very important part in a relationship. And if all they have is a great personality but if that physicality is not there then it is a recipe for failure.

[@mann8098]

Don't be afraid to tell your truth. It's a good comment.

[@MrShoman1212]

Nice comment Claire, we all have a right to an opinion 👍🏾

[@Lemniscate1027]

Sorry I'm not settling

[@thomascarnes7415]

It’s crazy how much stephan is laying out what happened to me during and after a relationship. Great advice all around.

[@paulmartinez2116]

Stra8 Facts i was that simp 10 years ago live and learn

[@deanj8870]

Preach!! Go ahead, brother! All praises to the Most High📖🙏🏾👑

[@Jdog305Cubanito]

Nicely well said & spoken by these 3️⃣ Kings 👑

[@esthernekesa9383]

Just discovered your channel today. I think the advice / opinions given are just as valuable to women.

[@sosagod746]

Eddie Murphy delirious “what have you done for me lately” or was it RAW idk but something like that lol

[@cynthiasicurella4264]

This is just truthfull from beginning to end. Healthy self esteem and respect is key to a functioning life. Fantastic guys !!!! Keep the ideas rolling.....

[@jenniferp4612]

I know many guys that have fiancées who don't cook, clean or do anything

[@CeeDoubleU]

That's the man's fault

[@Tyler-zz4kv]

I wasn’t ready for the amount of wisdom in this discussion

[@casper8662]

Love is a choice, action, decision, it is not a feeling and has nothing to do with feelings. I can be mad as all hell at my spouse but still love them the same or even more

[@sane_njomi]

I like the fact that the message is consistent across all genders, we all be having the same problems in these relationships

[@SharkAcademy]

This is great advice and exactly what I’ve observed and have experience in

[@NikitaMaxwell]

Im taking notes here....! 🖋✨And I want to be humble to learn from you two🙏🏽❤️🔥 Thank you so much.

[@ALTheFreeMan]

The whole “men don’t deserve respect just for being men”, and “your penis doesn’t automatically garner you respect”......While I disagree, I understand what you’re saying. My thing is, we call women “Queens” just for being women, regardless of their behavior. These days, women definitely know their worth. And in the vein of men “knowing their worth”, why does respect for men come with a caveat of men “having a vision”, and a plan, etc??? Every man isn’t gonna be a handsome entrepreneur or corporate ladder climber. Some guys are just average guys who are content and just want to enjoy their life, and I think these guys deserve respect as well. They may not be looked at as “high value”, but they still deserve respect. Good discussion tho. Keep up the great work. #salute

[@GoldenGraham25]

Every woman is NOT a Queen. I’m saying this as a woman. Every man isn’t a King. It’s a mindset, how one carries themselves and how they treat others.

[@ALTheFreeMan]

Wisdom4Life LoveIsTheWay I totally agree.... everyone isn’t deserving of those titles, but, I feel like the term “Queen” gets tossed around more than Red Lobster cheddar biscuits!! Lol, Just sayin!

[@amandaslay6045]

EVERYONE deserves respect whether THEY or WE think so. Too many times we like to play God as if we can pick/choose who is deserving of anything. That is not OUR role. Why is it so hard for humans to simply be KIND

[@jmunemann9548]

@@amandaslay6045 this 💓, everyone always deserves respect... including yourself... so if someone is not treating you with respect.. Leave... Any sex/gender

[@alancross5838]

@@ALTheFreeMan Red Lobster biscuits is nasty.

[@timothys3817]

Thanks to these videos. I deny my simp instants by instant. Keep up the great work bro daz!

[@Samsonmanase]

Yes they don’t like when a man knows his worth

[@justinalexander1056]

We arrogant or people try to put it as if we need a women because we can’t be anything unless we have a women. When it’s actually we not going to settle just for any female just because I want someone

[@c.karnstein3299]

My ex got extremely angry when I said "I'm worth more than that" while dumping me

[@johnmccormack2046]

Thank you for this. Needed this video last year though haha. We all need friends like you guys.

[@vhloLMJCeg]

Most women are not “bossy”. If they date a man who is successful, dominant with a “don’t worry about that” “I’ll take care of this” “women don’t open doors” demeanor. She will definitely fall in line. But, unfortunately most women “date down” or “below her standards” (in her opinion of course) so she does talk down or become bossy. ESPECIALLY if she’s splitting bills...just a different perspective to think about.

[@infamouskimtv]

Thankyou....

[@Neighborhood-Black-Guy]

Some men want a woman to bring something to the table other than the kitty.

[@TimothyMutale]

Why can’t you split bills if you want to be seen as equal ? Why fight for equal pay if we are still going to carry the financial burden ?

[@kjobful]

Women don’t date down they date where they are or higher women hate to except the fact that they have inflated self worth due to makeup and all these other cheat codes women. On top of society telling them they’re special weather they are or not

[@xchino0427]

So even if you have money, you still want your Men to pay for everything when both of yall go out? I Would tell you gtfo on the spot i don't roll with greedy people.

[@manueldesantiago]

Truth, man! Great description

[@DonaldSeymourjr]

I needed to hear this.

[@edwardmason119]

There's always good conversation happening on this podcast.

[@jayreazy1]

Facts on facts

[@Kalmworld1]

I respect you guys for having this conversation

[@zukondis]

In before the bossy ladies explode in the comments lol Girls, they are talking about being a good follower to a good lead. Borrowing the terms from ballroom dancing lessons. Dancing is highly unpleasant when you have two leads competing for the role regardless of how hot your follower is, and the whole thing just doesn’t happen when you have two followers. The lead should be receptive to all feedback from his follower to adjust accordingly and make the experience even better for both, he may not even need to ask if he’s a good lead - body language, your reactions, etc will tell him how to set the pace. Applies in dancing, sex, romantic relationships. This dynamic is the best, and requires him to be a good lead just like you have to be a good follower. Both equally as important for a good experience and rely on both being able to pick a good partner.

[@TheRoommatesPodcast]

Haha you know it's coming.

[@SweaterSwagg]

They not gone like this....church get extra quiet when pastor get in that "submit to your husband" bag lmao

[@lovebug6388]

As a dancer, I resonate with the example. Once he leads me to the dance floor I am at the mercy of the count and his dance abilities. If he's off I will not make a scene but adjust so that the dance flows and onlookers know nothing happened. When the song ends, then we'll have that conversation IF, he's mature. Generally we giggle about it because it was so smoothly played off. Not all dance partners can lead, some just want to do their thing. I don't abdicate my position once that's made known to me. I minimize the obviousness of the situation. He will show others by his actions that he's not a good lead. Once the song ends I'll NEVER dance with him again. And neither will other ladies. Same with any relationship. Once you show me you can't/won't/are unwilling to learn to lead, I am gone. I'm ONLY submitting to a husband, cause that is a husband privilege. I can defer to the leadership choices of other MEN in my life that I know are leading me in a healthy direction. Ain't no riding and dying over here. I'm living and thriving!

[@lovebug6388]

@No then you have been with boys playing dress up. Submitting doesn't mean that I have no say whatsoever. For me I am a Christian so it goes like this: BOTH of us are submitted to God FIRST. THEN, we're submitted to EACH other. Individually we have are personal relationships with God. We come together to discuss make decisions about household, finances, children, etc. Ultimately, the final decision belongs to hubby. He has the greater weight to cover, protect, and lead the family. If he's out of order, I don't act a fool and nag, I pray. Holy Spirit convicts him and he comes back to me correctly. Quite frankly, I am not his equivalent and he's not mine. There's things I can do that he can't and vice versa. But we do compliment each other. There's no lording over me. He loves me and I respect him.

[@lovebug6388]

@No interesting. It almost seems as if, the concept was abused in your childhood home. In that case I could definitely see the reluctance to "submit". Again, WE make decisions TOGETHER. I'm aware of EVERYTHING that flows in and out of the household. I'm also in a different place in life than you. Forgiveness has worked a wonder in my life and relationships. Wishing you and your partner continued success.

[@c7nero]

y’all really helped me with my recent break up, i appreciate it 💯🔥

[@DonaldSeymourjr]

We need to talk about the quiet stubbornness. This is something many of us men overlook. Everyone needs to look up covert narcissist.

[@andreamagyar7776]

Well said.

[@DonaldSeymourjr]

@Zab Gates sadly, I'm finding that to be the truth.

[@narvanamusic2656]

True...exactly

[@pennylane2854]

Watching and hearing you guys gives me hope ❤

[@timuruntopalayagi4282]

I swear his hair is OUT OF THIS WORLD!

[@veemon]

We need more brothers like you in the community!

[@TDUBB88]

Always know it's just your turn in most cases and just enjoy the moment... never get to attached or show her that your really into her and stay masculine at all times and always spend time away from her never smother and stay on your purpose

[@jeremiaha5167]

Hammurabi there making some great points. I'm new to this channel. That was good.

[@vcez90]

Society takes issue when a man knows his worth true as shit

[@pitraque]

Thank you from Spain mate, good job.

[@learning.growing.1017]

Funny how the Bible talks about ALL of the content this channel promotes, but few are reading it. LOL

[@evwja8396]

Everything is in the bible

[@comet6740]

Doesn't the bible say that if a man looks at another woman with lust he has committed adultery?

[@Jdb63]

@@comet6740 Yup. You don't agree?

[@comet6740]

@@Jdb63 No because the married man has not done anything yet. He just looked with lust and not committed adultery but he committed adultery according to the bible

[@isanamiisanami6184]

@@comet6740 But think about what went through his mind...it was the thought of lust. Think of King David and Bathsheba...he saw her bathing from his terrace when he was supposed to be at war with his men....he not only watched and lusted her one time...he did it again and again...eventually sleeping with her, impregnating her (a married woman) had her husband Uriah killed...etc. See the buildup here? One thought from looking at a woman caused so much trouble for many people. This principle applies to both male and female.