Ignoring the Inauguration (Only) WON'T Save You 🇺🇸 | Black Women Opt Out

[@linacb7159]

Hi Stephanie, I know I'm Mexican, not black, but I do follow you because I hear your wisdom and I love it. My husband is black American and everyday as he leaves to work here in Kansas, I say a prayer for God to bring him home safe... EVERYDAY. I shouldn't have to worry, but we have felt unwelcome here more than once... but it's where we can afford after covid. There is no way to go back to Seattle. So we are in the process of getting passports and moving to Mexico. Selling the home we just bought and heading out asap. God bless you, and thank you for your wonderful vibe.❤

[@Hello_PE]

Wish you both the best with your move❤

[@YogaBlissDance]

Wishing you and your husband safety and ease in these times.

[@linacb7159]

Not trying to intrude in your space... just giving ms. Stephanie love for her wisdom and letting her know i hear what she's saying and agree. Black women are strong and special in every good way... as i am also not white, i do feel some of this. Being not white can get you hurt even when you're not black in America... so if i can learn from her... I'm gonna. I learn from anyone who has wisdom and love in their hearts. ​@JourneyWithin-w9s

[@linacb7159]

Thank you. God bless. ​@@YogaBlissDance

[@linacb7159]

​@@Hello_PE❤❤God bless. I pray for all to be okay in this crazy time. Thank you for your kindness.

[@marilyn6512]

Borm in Jamaica..Turned 70 in Dec 2024. Relocated to Panama..checked off another item off my bucket list by going Zip lining in Panama city😂😂💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻

[@MaziKatz]

Happy belated b-day, lady.

[@marilyn6512]

@ thank you 🙏🏽

[@val6189]

🎉🎉 🎂 🎉🎉

[@robinmeade2905]

I am 66, Black woman in TX and am in the process of moving to Chaves, Portugal. My BFF is 77 and Portugal is her mother’s birth country. She leaves in a few weeks. Why would anyone want to sit around and wait to die in a place that has become increasingly hostile and violent. It’s also expensive. It’s a new adventure and I am looking forward to it.

[@lisagooch3740]

Congratulations on your move. Please keep me posted. I'm researching Portugal and could use some heads up on pros and cons, as I seek my home.

[@tamikosyrie5682]

Awesome!!!

[@queen_naaseh_x]

BRAVO👏🏽 i’m tryna’ be right behind you, ma’am! i’m 62

[@MDjeliEl]

I’m 62, and I would like to be somewhere else. This place is making me more and more nervous. I want to feel safe. This new election makes it feel like we’re in a powder keg. I never really thought about leaving the country before, but seeing the attempt to completely roll back our hard won rights, the release of the violent J6 crew, and the attack on safety nets makes the future look a lot like a past I don’t want to relive. IJS I’m starting to look for an exit.

[@queen_naaseh_x]

@ itz bananas out her in the WILDWILDWEST

[@dr.sacheen]

My Dad really wants to go to Japan and is turning 80. I told him he could live another decade so he needs to go. I don't want anyone to not live well. My grandmother (his mom) is still alive (94). I am planning for us all to be out of the US this year.

[@apara2005]

That's amazing...him still having his mom around at 80❤❤❤❤

[@PennyGetsItTogether]

I “effed” the job. 21 years working as a teacher. I left my retirement “money” or the idea of it because what good would it have done if I died from chronic stress? We don’t know how much harm chronic stress does to the body, some of it irreversible. And, a lot of us don’t realize how stressed we are until we make our exodus. I’d rather be poor (will fix this limiting belief with all the time I have my now) than rich with all the money I could get 10 years from now. Tomorrow is not promised. Living today…I’m wealthy in terms of TIME. Life is good outside of America. I’ve been listening to Stephanie and the gang for 4 years now and could not have done it without the example of all the women before me who did it.

[@finnsya8054]

Some people might decide to withdraw the full amount of their teacher pension. Yes, they will lose a percentage as a penalty if they are not yet at retirement age. In my state, it's a 30% penalty for those under the age of 55 and 20% if you are 55+ years old. However, the ways things are going in the U.S. right now, I personally don't feel confident that my pension will be there and paid out to me when I retire in 10 years. For me, it's feeling like I can get 80% of my money, now. Or I might get 0% of my money in the future. These are my thoughts.

[@truthhappiness8874]

...any retirement you have accumulated for you transfer to a ROTH IRA & buy out for your pension if it's been 21 years. You still need a source if income. 2:11

[@PennyGetsItTogether]

Thanks @@truthhappiness8874 My “future” pension will stay where it is and accrue interest for four years, and after that I will figure something else out. With no income, I can no longer contribute to my Roth IRA but I’ll figure something out for income, I have time. I was good-ish with my money and had a house to sell so I’m happily embracing the frugal life so I can maintain my freedom. Thanks fir looking out. 🤗

[@PennyGetsItTogether]

That’s something to think about@@finnsya8054 I’ll watch my pension for the next four years since I’ll continue accruing interest then after that I may just do like you said. Good luck to us.

[@PennyGetsItTogether]

@@truthhappiness8874 Thank you. My “future” pension will stay where it is and accrue interest for four years, and after that I will figure something else out. With no income, I can no longer contribute to my Roth IRA but I’ll figure something out for income, I have time. I was good-ish with my money and had a house to sell so I’m happily embracing the frugal life so I can maintain my freedom. Thanks for looking out. 🤗

[@SB-mf2th]

Omggggggg, you explained American white ppl so well - to a t!!! I wish more of us understood this sooner. I'm 34 and just now accepting this truth about them.

[@YogaBlissDance]

Steph you are glowing- your hair style/color looks fabulous. Empires can crumble from within as you mention- inner divisions, but American was born out of such bloodshed- that it REFUSES to deal with it. Thus..I believe astrologically it's called a Pluto Return- where a nation in this case, has the opportunity to heal it's wounds/blind spots/evils...and if it doesn't it crumbles...

[@Queen-qr9bw]

I agree 💯 with @YogaBlissDance

[@lovelydaye6640]

What inauguration??? Jan 20 is MLK Day 🎉🎉🎉 Enjoy 😊

[@deed8915]

❤❤❤❤

[@DouradaBambina]

😂😂

[@kiddle73]

That part that inauguration has nothing to do with me

[@senica41]

😊 I lost two siblings before the age of 60. My mother died at the age of 73 and my oldest brother is 63 and sickly. I am 60 years old, black American female and I'm ready to go. I've been traveling extensively for the past 3 years and I'm ready to go

[@Madfunkids]

👏🏽 👏🏽 Remember keep Black dollars 💸 💵 💵 💸 circulating in the Black community, independent businesses and only those corporations that support the Black community.

[@jazzyj6640]

I just got my passport. 😊 well I’ll have it in 4-6 weeks!

[@fairlady402]

Hello from the future. I really appreciate what you are doing for the sisters by having this platform. May the creator continue to bless and protect you! ❤

[@tamikosyrie5682]

That’s awesome!!! I tried that and didn’t get the severance. BUT, I left anyway. Two year anniversary was 1.6.25. Don’t miss it at all.

[@YoutubeFabLifeOfJan1]

Stephanie be preaching!

[@travelingthediaspora7996]

I opted all the way out to Aruba

[@tinab8466]

Stephanie, you look amazing. I love your hair. Thank you for giving us information on how to make our exit.

[@Jamworldtv]

I was a traveler for a quite a few years. When you have kids it causes you to slow down and focus on them in their prime years. Aging is inevitable we need to focus on living

[@GORGEOUSGODDESSDARLING]

I love everything that this channel is, ever was, and has become 🎀☺️🙌🏿 a black queen that truly wants to see black women winning and says what needs to be said

[@drshirleybutler55]

I am totally aware of the veil being lifted when you live aboard. My biggest shock was how people in Spain reacted toward me and witnessing a statue in a possession during holy week. For example, often when my husband and I were strolling through the city, people would bow down to me and shout my black queen! Secondly, during holy week, with thousands of people parading and holding a Black virgin, Mary adored in gold with Frankenstein blowing everywhere! I was so moved I fell to my knees! Yes! I strongly encourage every black person should travel the world. It would truly enrich your soul! Sincerely, Dr. Shirley R Butler Derge

[@Beijaxol]

Where in Spain did this happen?

[@isabellalouis]

Was so happy to get your notification this morning!!!

[@goodamericanjeansstylist]

Happy Saturday Stephanie, and everyone. Glad to see this podcast on a Saturday afternoon. Peace, Love & Hair Grease.

[@BMJay-z6y]

I seen all this when I was 5 now I am glad I’m not alone We need space to get on with living real life not putting on faces to make them happy

[@aimeepaterson4423]

WELL-DONE, Dr. O.🧚🏻‍♀️🧚🧚🏻‍♀️🧚🧚🏻‍♀️xox. Thank You and Congratulations To Ms. Stephanie Perry, Roshida and Picky Girl Travels…..For Everything You Do/Are Doing and For Selflessly (With Intention & Kindness) Sharing Your Wisdom!💞💞💞xox

[@mjt19-qo1bb]

If I hear one more person say we need to keep fighting and not give up, I'm gonna scream. Aren't we tired of fighting? I'm ready to just live and enjoy life.

[@marciataylor1574]

Step, we love your voice, fearless leader...the giggles and snorts😂.

[@MrMrzLPC]

It’s sad when folks have limited thinking and believe that staying in the USA is their best option. I’m 58 and plan to live another 30 years OUTSIDE the USA.

[@lucindanobles7728]

Greetings Stephanie, watching you from Panama & glad to be here. Thanks for your wisdom. We are celebrating Dr King’s birthday tomorrow ❤ here. 🇵🇦

[@marianaya5824]

Some of us CANNOT move because we can't find employment. 👀

[@sys691]

This part

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

She has given plenty of resources to access to help you find an online job. Apply nonstop until you can get one. This won’t be easy but it’s better than just giving an excuse

[@Gullahbae]

Some of you all won’t be employed due to project 2025! 😂

[@MicaHeals]

Yes Steph. This place ages you.

[@MarciaWilliams-g1d]

Grand Rising to you from London, UK.

[@lswilliams5283]

“unrequited loyalty” - the title of our theme song (for some of us) Let’s change that

[@sharonthomas2841]

Hi Stephanie, I'm here for your good missives. It's 3:44 a.m. right now in Houston.

[@tiffanismith]

Bogotá looking good on you! 🤩 You're glowing ✨️

[@monicaadelina9245]

Hi all and Stephanie, your hair is beautiful, no more beautiful!! What you doing differently, or is it the Columbia vibing weather??❤😂 Like your twist on the “opting out message”!

[@aljohn2028]

Love your look, Stephanie! ❤

[@jandyman22]

Hello from AZ. Watching the video replay. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.

[@claricemorris2298]

Girl, do what makes you feel good!

[@feliciab5717]

Grand rising everyone

[@rachelroberts2528]

Stephanie Perry always gives me the inspiration I need to move it. Thank you so, so, much. Love your energy.

[@mist31]

Love your hair!

[@kg7836]

Good Morning From Oakland CA

[@TheBitterPillSeries]

I truly appreciate you and the truth you share! Thank you Queen!

[@Queenbelieveit]

Hey 👋🏽 I enjoy the wealth of information and the positive community ! ❤

[@juliewilson8702]

Hi, and thanks for the video, Stephanie!

[@iamesselle]

Congrats on 10 years of getting free Stephanie! Thank you for this content, always helpful and fills me with hope for the day that I can get OUT! xoxo

[@LoveParkConnection]

Looking great ms Stephanie!

[@StephaniePerry]

Thank you! 💗

[@MichelleLynnThompson]

Hello Everyone!

[@mayesdirecttalkministry8317]

Hello everyone, and Stephanie you look beautiful 🎉😊😊😊Watching the replay in afternoon EST..zone Michigan!!

[@clarareynolds7519]

Good morning Ms Stephanie and community family 🎉❤

[@taraKelly-r2w]

A new follower and researching my move abroad.

[@sStergis]

So far the best snd my most favorite vlog of yours. Excellent.

[@MrMrzLPC]

I’m 58 and just started letting my grey grow in and I LOVE my look. 😊

[@willielenoyhampton8146]

Brother says hello from Inglewood California. Air still smoky slightly from fires.

[@YogaBlissDance]

Stay safe- get a good air purifier!

[@DJ-yy8iz]

Get out.

[@lisagooch3740]

God's protection over all of you

[@lorihollins6790]

Embrace the gray! It will look great on you! Ive been completely natural and gray for over 7 yeats.

[@MsArtelia]

Thank you so much for your help

[@clarareynolds7519]

So true. Speak your heart and skills.

[@dama_shares]

Greetings from Los Angeles!! Go, Stephanie! Enjoy Bogota.

[@stephs17]

Watching post live, lawyers are another group of professionals that don't make as much money on average that everyone thinks.

[@drshirleybutler55]

Thank you so much for your positive information about us trying to live a healthy life in the USA. I lived in El Puerto De Santa Maria, Spain, for 6 years with my husband. I would love to share my experience as a black woman with a German American husband! Sincerely, Dr. Shirley R Butler Derge

[@a2.oasishaus]

Good morning Stephanie.

[@rosearthur2332]

Cute look and glow up Stephanie 🎉

[@virtualcreativecollaborations]

♥️ Replay ♥️ Beautiful Blessings

[@KatB-s6q]

Goodmorning ❤

[@Golden-Lady]

I wish I could but CAN'T leave with two elderly parents that I love dearly. Now I have no clue what to do or prepare for while I'm stuck here.

[@kiwi2809]

Same here. I'm a caretaker and I'm not abandoning my folks. Hugs to you. I will say, update all documentation for you and your parents and keep yourself protected.

[@Gullahbae]

Look into countries that allow you to take your parents with you!

[@spicyd1]

My mom lived til 3 months short of 96, she was still coloring her hair til 93 and the only reason she stopped was due to not going out to a salon during lockdown (and she wdnt let me do hers at home). So I truly am her daughter and I'm also not ready to be grey (I'm 62)

[@jamettajohnson6172]

Watching from the future. Hi Stephanie 👋🏾. Love your hair💜

[@rachelroberts2528]

Thank you for sharing. It's difficult to see out of the cave when I'm in it so long (allegory of the cave reference). Thank you for showing us that light. I see that light and I'm chasing it.

[@ShibiviaDempress]

I did nano blades, a less invasive form of micro blading. It's been 13 months now and I LOVE it. I don't have to draw on eyebrows anymore LOL. I'm like you Stephanie. I have very thin brows. Since you are a traveler, you'll have the perk of it being less expensive than the U.S also.

[@SkyScraper-w4w]

History is taught appropriately in schools anymore. Happy that you mentions the options needed to educate yourself. Reading, watching listening, and travel.

[@sharonthomas2841]

I'm not out yet, but will be in 2025. I am 71 years.

[@Kamase318]

I'm 72 in March, 2025 and am so proud of my senior sisters that are courageously taking the plunge. Good luck to you all! ❤

[@slady7072]

Replay💚. Happy New Year All🎉🎉

[@jamettajohnson6172]

I am 65 years old it is a blessing. Taking care of your health becomes primary. So,take care of yourself. And I am not ready to be grey either 😅🤣😂

[@amg3021]

50's were great. At some point, there is a definite change in how the body ages, and that happened when I got to 63. Exercise is helping but stress will age one fast.

[@robbincompton7468]

Good afternoon Vaycarians!😊 I’m greeting you from the future. I missed the live.

[@christambrown]

Look good Stephanie!!!!

[@MrMrzLPC]

You look amazing!!!

[@StephaniePerry]

Thank you! 💗

[@EBerry-hy5es]

Your new hairstyle is banging Stephanie❤❤❤

[@StephaniePerry]

Thank you! 💗

[@Hzleyz22]

Hey Steph….I’m Stephanie Berry😂 great words of wisdom. Love your content. I bought property in Costa Rica and am in the process of getting temp residency through the Pensionado system. Im in CR 3 months out of the year. I would love to just pick up and move but I own my dream home here in Florida, I have a 4 yr old in school here and all my family is here. But I struggle…The more that happens here in America, the greater my urge is to just go. What are your suggestions on fully breaking free from what ties me here?

[@propheticimagesinthesky120]

Your hair looks great

[@moniquep9936]

Hi, your hair is beautiful ❤

[@Keys2SOAR]

Smh…7 been trying to get me a gig so I save some coins …..they won’t even hire me..hahah it’s a level of insanity…that I can’t get past go. I radiate and obviously my verbiage gives me indicators…I had no idea. Mt last job….they didn’t like my AFRIKAN HUMANITY so much that I was seriously injured nearly left me paralyzed from the waste down because I was being myself and offering kindness and friendship. Black women Stephanie…have sunk me on my last 3 jobs. I’m not young. So I expedited my growth process after I earned my graduate degree. Omg, why did I do that. Smh…Stephanie…the trauma and triggers are so real!!! Smh

[@constancegordon5370]

Good afternoon!

[@queen_naaseh_x]

beautiful as usual, Stephanie… GRATITUDE

[@StephaniePerry]

Thank you so much! 💗

[@a.Janine.pretty]

Love your hair ❤

[@snorris74]

Awesome!!!

[@SunshineAnders]

Hey from the future! Thank you for the list, makes me want to get up and go, I’m never gonna be this young again at 55!

[@Nou-s4k]

Girl preach ❤

[@robynodita9694]

It’s been over a year that I had micro blading done and it was the best decision ever!!

[@lisagooch3740]

Thank you so much, Ms .Stephanie. My entrepreneurship was viciously interrupted by the nationwide scams that forced me into low paying government employment. Then, my exit strategy from substitute teaching was to simply substitute, briefly, until I could restore my youth music program, since our hometown became financially oppressed. The rude awakening has been that our neighboring towns are filled with community heads who only see themselves and block the progress of people of color, while black communities were robbed of community outlets for youth. Therefore, substitute teaching has been extended for far too many years. This was never the plan. Though the youth in schools excitingly receive my sharing, they have not come close to experiencing my true craft. It is the evil of those who only see themselves that continues to suppress our Ministries. Nevertheless, not so, says my God. I shall keep it moving until I land my facilities / home. My program is a dire need, and I'm on fire to resume, wherever that may be, in Jesus' name. My international travels have always brought me a favor. I shall find my way.

[@fortifi-lacareercoachtoniw112]

Good day!!

[@emeraldbuddha]

Helloo from Los Angeles💚💚💚

[@voyageswithshyeasha1398]

Hello! Watching the reply ❤🎉

[@StephaniePerry]

Thanks for watching! 💗

[@hopemilton5035]

Hello Stephanie

[@loveprincessumi]

Hi from the future! 🥰

[@alliejoplace]

Like your twists.

[@midheaven_mimi]

You look beautiful! 😍😍

[@mshill771103]

Greetings !!

[@dr.johnson007]

Greetings from Atl 👋🏽

[@BenitaMalone-r5s]

Preach sister

[@mymotivation2740]

Hello from the future! 🤗