Retiring in Portugal 🇵🇹 w/ Halisi from Our Black Utopia | Black Women Expats

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[@OurBlackUtopia]

Thank you!

[@aspencierraphoto]

I've found that being called an expat is also a class difference vs being called an immigrant. If you're seen as having money you're getting called an ex-pat. If you're poor then you're seen as an immigrant.

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[@shinebright311]

Yessss! I love how you shut them down about black women needing to be in the motherland! 💖We can go anywhere we want.

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My husband and I were at the museum last night at 10pm with our 10 year old son and I said "We're like those European families got our kid out in the streets late on a Friday night!" LOL!

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[@lindaharleygirl1]

I’m 58 and I’m just learning this/ seeing this. You are only taught to go to work and live the dream of home ownership. I’m tired of being tired. I’m taking a lot of your opinions so I can leave. I wanna be just like you and Rick when I grow up.

[@teddydavis2339]

I love these women! The financial advice is priceless. I'm a little bit more optimistic about the US. I lived in 5 European countries, which made me appreciate the US so much more. White fragility is not just a US thing. Good luck to all of my sisters and brothers who are looking to live their best life. Stephanie, the houses you described are in Aveiro, which is where I lived. It's called the Venice of Portugal.

[@OurBlackUtopia]

Hey Teddy, great to see you over here too. 🥳Fragility is but for the lethal racism - No other place that I've been to comes close to the US. 🤨

[@CoachDonnaMarie]

Thank you, Ladies! Wow what a wealth of info beyond just Portugal. I agree that black families are traditionally so afraid to talk about money. Breaking that and having family talks about money is so crucial especially for this new generation of graduates because the world is so different now… and they need to learn from a young age

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[@jenniferjohnson3151]

I just listened to the entire segment. Though I do not have the desire to live abroad at this time, I do want to travel. I have learned so much from you, Stephanie. I have started injecting verbiage about “ease” when speaking with my counseling clients. You put it so succinctly. Thank you to you and your guests!

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It's time for me to take my Black Women Super Hero Cape OFF too!!!!!!!!! And love how you responded to the comment in the chat about loyalty:)

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[@chaumari]

People crack me up telling BW especially that we should reside in Africa. Every European country I've been too does not treat African's favorable, BUT African's continue to migrate to those countries and talk about leaving one day, but few actually leave. We are not trying to build or work, American BW want and deserve to rest in our femininity. We're looking for rest and as much extravagance as we can afford.

[@lovelineoutreachministries1914]

So true I would love to see how independent women are making it in the motherland Africa. Europeans, chinese and Indians are thriving In Africa. What about Us sisters. I will be traveling to South Africa in January. I was in Nigeria last year and Uganda the beginning of this year. Of the 54 countries there must be 1 country where we as African American women can relocate and prosper. After all every African American, woman of brown, dark and light color on this site has a trace of ancestry in Africa. Lol

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

I just returned from a trip in Africa. They made it clear to me that they DO NOT see us as their sisters and brothers and that we need to stop that narrative. They see us as Americans AKA a walking pocketbook as Halisi said.

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

@@lovelineoutreachministries1914 It’s not there. Read my comment above. We need to give that romanticism up.

[@lovelineoutreachministries1914]

@@prettybrwneyez7757 I don't know where you went. But I was received well didn't spend any money but Was given food accommodations an option of land. That's a blanket statement that Is unfair to the whole Continent. Now if you're talking about the United States, yeah we have some big issues. Lynchings and shootings, Yeah our history here is pretty bloody.

[@fdoctor79]

God is in CONTROL! Wow, love Halisi and Rick's tenacity and perseverance to pursue their dream living in Portugal. Hope you are enjoying your time in Costa Rica, Stephaine. Tfs

[@StephaniePerry]

Thank you! I am! 💗

[@rachelbey6150]

Having been a former campaign worker for three administrations, she is soooo right it's HOLLYWOOD!

[@pollyanasunshine980]

Awesome interview! Halisi is lovely!

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Thanks so much for watching! 💗

[@OurBlackUtopia]

Thank you 🥰

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I just Subscribed to your Channel and I have retired myself.

[@antwanpenn3316]

Thank you. Thank you both.

[@vallittle5506]

Moving to Portugal 🇵🇹 with a child with disabilities or if you are disabled is not difficult; it is basically the same process!😉🙌

[@StephaniePerry]

They would just need to check out the accessibility for someone with physical disabilities. Different countries have different or sometimes no standards.

[@vallittle5506]

@@StephaniePerry absolutely 💯 😉

[@josephinebrevig8748]

No one ever talks about that on KZbin. There’s such a gap in information where that is concerned. What services are available for kids, people with disabilities?

[@eileenwatt8283]

@@josephinebrevig8748 that's because they are not in that position. People function from what their needs are.

[@misslillie2940]

When you say God is in charge. Enough said😊😊😊😊😊

[@lesleykoenig2041]

I’ve watched videos on both of your channels. I’ve also watched other Expat KZbinrs’ channels. But the two of you wonderful ladies together-this was something MAGICAL. This was the best video I ever watched on this topic. I really appreciate how you delivered all of these gems of wisdom and insights of your journey n a down to earth, coffee shop girlfriend chat style. So much great information! Thank you so much! I admire that you simultaneously planned to obtain a residency in South America. Now can you please 🙏🏼 do one like this for your Mexico experience? 😁

[@denisejefferson4739]

This conversation was so informative and so much fun. Are there people who would rent out a bedroom to newbies coming over to the various countries? Is someone filling this niche yet?

[@OurBlackUtopia]

Thank you so much! That's all Stephanie, she's a great interviewer. 🥰. We love Mexico, but what I prefer about Portugal is 1. The majority of their beaches are public, 2. There are not as many vendors walking around the beaches disturbing your peace 3. We're not treated like a tourist, we blend. We will probably be taking a few months in Mexico again this time next year. @Shida'sOntheLoose, @PickyGirlTravelstheWorld, and @LamarandAngela, @ExpatMexicoLife had got you covered

[@josephinebrevig8748]

Omg! Thank you sooo much for this. What a fabulous and candid conservation. The info, the energy, the laughs, your beautiful smiles….. absolutely loved it. The chemistry, synergy is magic, electric. Thank you ladies . Stephanie, please bring back Halisi again❤

[@StephaniePerry]

So glad you enjoyed it, Josephine. Halisi has her own KZbin channel with SO MUCH good info. Watch her here: www.youtube.com/@OurBlackUtopia

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@@StephaniePerry such a delight. You are making such big impact on us all. Thank you so much. Wishing you all the blessings in 2023 and beyond. Will check it out.

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@Stephanie Perry this is such a fabulous show--helpful, informative, inspiring. Thank you.

[@actionvj]

This was great!! Stephanie, Halisi & Ric have great energy. It’s contagious. Thank y’all!! Also, good job shutting that troll DOWN. He obviously doesn’t realize how much more accessible Africa can become while living in Europe.

[@OurBlackUtopia]

Love ya 🥰

[@jetta_may]

My biggest challenge is getting rid of stuff!! My mom passed away earlier this year and instead of having an estate sale, I wasn’t ready to let go, and kept a lot of her stuff. I’m now drowning in stuff. I am now organizing and going through her stuff and mine. Having an Estate Sale beginning of next year. I plan to move abroad after. Fingers crossed 🤞🏽

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@@denisejefferson4739 thank you

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Love this platform! Definitely elated for this couple’s move to Portugal! Rumi counsels, Wherever you stand, be the Soul of that place.🌎

[@PoetClbrown]

I love you Stephanie. Your genuine spirit cannot be hidden. I've been divided between Portugal and Costa Rica for about 2 years now. I'm hoping to make my move with my family in 2023 🙏🏾 Thank you both ladies for this informative video

[@StephaniePerry]

You're very welcome! I can't make your decision any easier because I love them both. Thanks for watching.💗

[@PoetClbrown]

@@StephaniePerry awesome! Thank you

[@sunnyendeavors]

Halisi and Stephanie, this is very useful information. Much appreciated.

[@onthelo]

Loved this interview! Wise advice from different lived experiences.

[@BPe-ie9je]

Thanks! May have been long but well worth time spent taking in info. Thanks you two.

[@OurBlackUtopia]

Great seeing you in the comments. Now, you know how we do - we can talk 🤪

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Family finance calls …that’s golden!

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Wonderful interview 🥰thanks for sharing 👍🏽

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[@nicolej615]

KZbinr Vilma Martins grew up in Portugal so she can be a resource for information. She now lives in London but she travels to Lisbon often to visit family. I’ve asked her questions about Lisbon and she has answered my questions.

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Really loved this episode. Two on my favorite KZbinrs ❤❤🎉🎉 Thanks so much! Powerful

[@StephaniePerry]

So glad you enjoyed it Crystal! 💗 💗

[@OurBlackUtopia]

Thank you 🥰

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thank you all! so helpful!

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[@barbarabyrd4703]

My Sisters this is my first time on your site I am Learning so much will be Back Ms. B in South Carollina. Blessings!!

[@OurBlackUtopia]

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[@acajudi100]

I have visited Zimbabwe, Morocco and the Sudan, but I love Mexico better. Go where you want to go. I visited all 50 states and around the world on my own USA earned income.

[@bwilliams6384]

I am going to Lisbon very soon with friends that have acquired Visas for Portugal I am pretty sure I am crazy enough to make serious changes in my life. I will speak to my traveling friends tonight. I may need some serious help very quickly as I am one fast manifesto when I play follow all the leads that are falling into my space of life right now. This is my breakthrough right now This is the first day of my new some PLACE else❤

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Awesome interview. Thank you 😊

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Great vid. Thank you!

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I needed this video

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[@tmdx6345]

Oh my first time seeing this info . Ready to get ready for needed travel

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I am a Canadian expat immigrant to the US 🤦🏾‍♀️. So refreshing to see that there is another way!

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Best interview ever!!

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Great content! Enjoyed it.

[@Aba_Ifeoma]

There will be three waves. The first wave people will walk out (this is Exodus Summit). The second wave people will run out, the third wave people can't get out.

[@OurBlackUtopia]

Ooooh, I like that and I keep telling folks - get out while you can!

[@preciouspearl487]

The other good point made is... get in while other countries will accept Americans.. oh boy...

[@evelyngolden2272]

Also, you can't get any good coffee in Cote D'Ivoire, just Nestle instant coffee!

[@coconutwater4531]

Are there any single women who have moved to Portugal successfully who you can interview? I would be interested to hear their perspective.

[@StephaniePerry]

Yes! Check out Driven Spice's KZbin channel. And I interviewed Shar about her move to Portugal here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/rmG2loOVaLipitE

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Great interview. Great information about Better Increasing club. I’ve watched everyone you’ve referenced in this talk. Thanks for being so candid and open with your audience. I love hearing about your journeys into financial independence later on in life unlike many of these who start in their 20s and 30s. Thanks!

[@celenagreen]

Re expat/immigrant - IMO an expat leaves their country but only temporarily - they’re not coming to stay. Immigration is usually a permanent move. Diplomats and their spouses/kids, biz travelers who stay for 1-3 mos, those are expats. They’re not intending to immigrate and make a new home in the new country; they usually have return flights already booked from day 1, and usually continue to maintain a home in their country of origin. I called myself an expat when I was abroad because of the above reasons.

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Fantastic

[@anurseinthekitchen6442]

Don't talk to us about slavery when you live in Georgia...I'm rolling

[@aintnobodycomingtoseeyouotis]

That took me clean out! 😂

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Amen! Realness and truth.

[@OurBlackUtopia]

Right?!?!🤪

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[@YouTubeBlueButterflies]

Polenta, corn meal and grits you should be able to find that there in Portugal because of the many African immigrants living there. My friend is Cape Verdean and she cooks with corn meal, many live in Portugal.

[@Comptonsfinest15]

Great video. How long can you stay in Lisbon without a Visa.

[@StephaniePerry]

US passport holders can stay for 90 days.

[@sherrytee2962]

🤣🤣🤣 In the UK, saying " Whilst" and didn't know it was a thing lol

[@shirleygriffin7672]

DAYS LATER. no need to watch this video. I am already resettled in Central America, 1999. Warm and sunny with my tall handsome husband from Central America. I am still living my dream, age 70, speaking French, Russian and Spanish. Eze and unbothered as a black woman............................from the treehouse tonight under the stars. Ozarks USA

[@OurBlackUtopia]

We talk about more than the move...A LOT more

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[@luisfilipe534]

This movement is making the life for the locals very hard.. real estate speculation on Portugal is promoted by videos like this one.

[@misslillie2940]

That time went fast.

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[@kymoliver7630]

I want to visit, I am retired.

[@msschonheit6800]

Wait, wasn't Portugal the first European nation to take significant part in African slave trading. The Portuguese primarily acquired slaves for labor on Atlantic African island plantations, and later for plantations in Brazil and the Caribbean . . . like, I'm so confused as to how y'all feel so freekin comfortable over there???

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

Because that was HUNDREDS of years ago and USA is a modern day plantation. We’re moving based on what’s happening TODAY!

[@CurlyChemist]

I think she addressed that in the video. We can live wherever we please is the point, regardless of what the history of that place here, because it's better than remaining in the US. Like she said if she is happier there than here, why does the past matter. It doesn't excuse that past, because black folks still live in Mississippi and Alabama, right? Because the treatment there, is better than here.

[@OurBlackUtopia]

Have you ever been to Portugal? If not, why not? Contempt prior to investigation causes death. I have been to the African continent and have family in SA. and I experienced more shunning because they cannot tell what tribe I belong to than I do here. Moreover, let's not forget that OUR people sold us to those people. Now they want us back talking about "welcome home" bring your money and help us rebuild. Well, nah! Until they get rid of their colonized mindset they're just as dangerous as some of these white folks. Stoning people, kidnapping their own babies, and women's rights are still in the toilet. Nah, I'm good.

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[@eileenwatt8283]

Your language sound American. It's that where black people are murdered just for standing while black or sleeping while black. Sorry if you aren't from America but name one place where Africans weren't shipped as slaves. Black people moved voluntary to the west every day. They are not thinking " the west had slaves, let me not move there." Portugal is making amends. They have also invited Jews whose 5 ancestors were persecuted to move back. They have been moving back. It's called forgiveness.

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Do they sell hominy in Portugal that you could grind yourself?

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[@Luvurselffirst]

Being black I never considered myself a patriot. Nor do I feel patriotic. it's us and them. A divide they created. So hearing expat is a bit activating (vs saying triggering) but I do get why expat is used.

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[@SelfReflective]

Are there any native Portuguese people here who would like to state their opinion on the influx of black Americans into their country?

[@Gullahbae-xm6ms]

Who cares. Stop worrying about other people’s opinions.

[@SelfReflective]

@@Gullahbae-xm6ms Ha ha. We are social creatures, sir. To us, caring about what other people think is as natural as drinking water.

[@AasiaKinney]

It should be the same in America, mandatory 3 month English class

[@cmbooks2000]

It's absolutely astounding some of the sexist, racist comments I've heard from employers and things family and friends have told me they've endured. It's so shocking you don't know what to do and you're just trying to maintain some sanity and a shtty job

[@SelfReflective]

Not very smart: expat does not come from ex-patriot, but from expatriate, meaning, a person who choose to live outside their native country. Expats are people who retain their nationality but choose to work and reside in another country for an extended period of time. An immigrant is someone who chooses another country with a prospect of acquiring its citizenship/nationality, and has no intention of going back to their native land. So, again, expat has nothing to do with the meaning of the word "patriotic"

[@aintnobodycomingtoseeyouotis]

Listen I live in GA and can go 3 ways to these folks job and run into a confederate flag. I can be in the carpool picking up my teenager and be right behind a guns and Jesus bumper stickers. Soooo yeah imma be out of here and live where I wanna AWAY from HERE 😂👋🏾

[@OurBlackUtopia]

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[@BPe-ie9je]

masa harina ,,,,south America

[@bjjack5760]

So you can take your social security money with you?

[@mariam.3224]

I must tell you your Brazilian friend is wrong since Brazilians speak ancient terms we don't use anymore in Portugal, and they are the ones who kept the old terms ... even their names are written the old way, we write Morais and they still write Moraes... see what I mean? So, he is wrong.

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[@Shama27330]

The info is good. The video is too long. There needs to be an index or timing listing the various topics within. In general your videos are too long. I understand you’re making money from them, but many of us are working, and still on tight schedules while we’re trying to wade through this info that often has many rabbit trails…please edit after live sessions are over!

[@valm.5243]

Sending positive vibes... I like the long videos...great conversations ... I listen while I work or commute...just have to multitask. Stephanie, you're doing a fabulous job...better than most of us could do! 👏 👏

[@denisejefferson4739]

I edited myself by looking at 30 minutes each time I signed on.

[@tamrayoung6045]

If the video is too long then it is not the video or channel for you. Find a video that fits your time constraints. Not everything is for everyone and it's okay.

[@StephaniePerry]

No.

[@prettybrwneyez7757]

Stephanie has already said numerous times that she does not nor will not edit her videos.

[@bwilliams6384]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 the comment made about living wherever without having Africa on our minds basically enders me to you. I Love my Stateside comfort. I just want more for less.

[@robinsmith2243]

Robin Smith is my name and I am making a move to Portugal. I am working with Global Citizens Solutions. D7 is my choice towards visa access. I've already traveled to Portugal for a one-week look see. I liked what I experienced. Now, I'm trying to connect with other african american ex-pats for understanding and community. Please help me connect to community and knowledge. I have a lot of questions about real estate. Thank you

[@karenl7786]

Great information and I really appreciate the 1st person knowledge and shared experience. Now Portugal would not be for me, being such a fabulous place because it was literally the poorest country in Europe and was the instigator of the rape of Africa, upon which its wealth was built. But I guess you could say that about all European nations and even the US. So, the question is what do we do now? So many people, black women in particular, don't want to go to Africa. Why should we help build some place up instead of living where it's already been done? Which actually to ne is kind of sad. But the question is can you live with why these places are "wonderful" and if so, I guess Portugal is as good as any a place to consider.

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[@imeandmyself525]

You really have a problem !!!!

[@eileenwatt8283]

Maybe some of us already been through struggles building a country and lived struggle life where there are rolling black outs, dry faucets, storing water in buckets we don't want to live that life after working and achieving in the west. We can be friends to those countries by supporting projects but we seek easy living now. Easy breezy. It's nothing against developing countries.