7 SECRET Criteria Men Use To CHOOSE A Woman

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7 SECRET Criteria Men Use To CHOOSE A Woman...Find out now how men choose women and how to make him choose you. In this dating advice video, I'll discuss what men want in a women and the hidden criteria men use to select a woman. Take heed to this dating advice video, and watch all the way to the end.
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[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@loyduncan3728]

If I buy them all and read them, and go to all of the events, will you introduce me to the right guy? I think he is invisible. I can not see him.

[@VmakesItEasy]

@@loyduncan3728I got all the books and my ticket. If I’m lucky he’ll be at the event 😂

[@anapedroza8201]

❤❤❤❤❤pp

[@30sandrita1]

Stephan, I'm disabled to write independent comments on your channel. Why is that? Am I blocked? Why? I may only leave comments as an answer to someone else's comment. Please, unblock me so I can leave comments.😢🙏 I promise you I'm polite and you won't have any problem with me! 😢 You help me a lot! I just want here and there to say thanks and eventually ask something or share some of my experiences. Have a nice day! ❤️ Thank you!

[@nancyammons5902]

I was married for 30 yrs... he passed 12 yrs ago. He told me that I made him a better man. God bless his soul.

[@Laura-cx7jj]

Beautiful compliment 😊😊😊

[@amyreeh9459]

Sometimes I feel like men use the “too much drama” thing as an excuse to avoid having difficult, but necessary, discussions.

[@lorinakers7934]

Necessary, according to whom? Perhaps that's an indicator of misalignment! Just a thought...

[@elanddp5374]

This just happened to me and i hate drama and conflict. Some men would prefer that a woman doesnt stick up for herself or call the man out on his BS....eg. cheating. This is a necessary discussion not drama. ​@lorinakers7934

[@laurent.2350]

Exactly. Fearful-avoidant attachment styles

[@VanessaSalinas-qc2gj]

@@lorinakers7934When is a conversation not necessary to have? When you don't want to hear it? Or if it doesn't suit you? That's pretty dismissive.

[@staceywood7800]

Absolutely correct with this 💯

[@miss_pris1]

26:26 🎉 1000% I've been looked after by the Almighty all my life. At 42 years young he bestowed upon me the man he wants for me. No one has ever been able compare to his leadership and integrity in all his does. When you finally meet a man like this. You take care of him like the king that he is and without a question, follow his lead. Its so nice to be in my feminine for the firat time in my life. May the lord make this happen for everyone who is ready 🙏 ✨️ ❤

[@jenniferstiles6353]

I love this!!!!

[@yeyeakanni]

Amen ❤❤❤

[@balletstar72]

Amen ❤

[@isaachague7514]

I just turned 66 and God sent me the soul mate I have waited for my entire life. He’s out there, girls. Begin praying for him now. Whoever, wherever, however your soul mate is doing, Bless him.

[@GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262]

Very much agreed! God always knows what we need✨♥️

[@CC-xl4ln]

My toxic trait is, I deleted all my cooking videos from my highlights cause I’m never cooking for a MF with without a ring Again

[@lifewithshakerra]

Naw I feel you

[@T2010_]

With or without a ring? 😊 I feel you, Girl. You ain't cooking again for no one.

[@rosecouch7343]

I'm 52 and I've been married and divorced I think you got it wrong play the video again

[@robertahaser]

I feel that

[@robertahaser]

Yes I do I was married for 26 years and I'm divorced almost 20 now and single and alone because I thought it would be forever 5 kids several grandkids and one great grandchild and I love family And I love hard so if it's not for life I don't have time to waste I'm 55 almost 56 I love God even more and my self I don't have time for games thank you for sharing.

[@movinonup1368]

It doesnt even matter if you can do all these things. Is this the right man you are doing these things for? Dont give give without the balance. Please if there is no balance you will get tired of serving which will result in resentment. Be mindful of this. I learned the hard way too!

[@hazelhazel4159]

Absoulaty true I agree with you, is it the right man your doing it for I wasted so many years of my life with the wrong man.

[@nancykajoka1385]

I've a true experience of " pouring 🫗 water in a sieve" Don't get fooled guys. Make sure he reciprocates you otherwise, it's not worthwhile.

[@imperfectillustration6261]

Your femininity shouldn’t be conditional. Pick better men and submit to him. A good man will literally give his life to take care of a woman who treasures and respects him.

[@movinonup1368]

@@imperfectillustration6261 noted 👍

[@EllyzGoodwill]

Every Relationship is unique and each one is special. What works for one person might not work for another. But I've come to realize that there's always a solution to every problem. Five years back, my wife and I were close to getting divorced because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to make things right. It was hard, but we got through it.

[@EllyzGoodwill]

Moving on from someone you hold dear is invariably challenging, but in my experience, I was guided by a spiritual counselor who prevented the breakdown of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

[@gloriousjohnson1807]

: GOD bless, and keep you both!😊

[@shaearnelle]

I'm pleasantly surprised that sex wasn't on the list. It's nice to know that some men actually value women for more than their bodies.

[@T2010_]

Girl..."Follow their leadership" = Sex

[@debbik30]

A vagina comes standard on every woman. It used to be valuable back in the day but it’s not anymore. #KevinSamuels

[@thornless9073]

Such a beautiful thing because the thought of it started bringing on depression the other day

[@roka2031]

I think he missed it... I actually think sexual compatibility is on lot of guy's list....

[@LulluNatic]

It's not on the list because it's not a HIDDEN criteria, it's obvious. Physical attraction is the first criteria, sex is the second.

[@ChrisW1019]

I'm a man. A big criteria for me is someone who meets my needs if possible. I am capable of cooking my own meal. It is nice to come home to freshly cooked meal. In the same way a woman can most likely pay for her own dates, but I'll still gladly pay for her.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for commenting. We need more male participation 🙏

[@jayc5756]

​@@MeetStephanSpeaks Cmon Steph. You know I've been here supporting for like forever bro. Cmon now

[@JStig12]

@ChrisW1019 Do you ever cook with a food steamer?

[@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys]

I agree to this always cooking and cleaning house.someone who meets my needs to.

[@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys]

This is so true well said Stephan!

[@worldadventuretravel]

I really need you to hear me on this on behalf of all women, because it needs to be addressed. Stephan and these men like him are missing the plot. Because their thing is so incredibly one-sided, let me fix that right now for those men (and women) who still don't understand the assignment: *Smart women do not give wife benefits to men that have not fully committed to them.* -You want a woman that to cook you a great meal? *Have you committed to her?* -You want a woman that can run *your* household? *Have you MARRIED her? Have you committed to paying her for her domestic labor, which you could not afford in the open market, or are you just expecting it all for free? Have you set up a spousal IRA and retirement accounts for her that you pay into every month? Do you have a prenup signed, committing to all of the wages she is owed for managing YOUR life at home so you can build YOUR empire out in the world if you decide to up and leave her later on? Have you discussed how you are going to pay her for taking the hits to her income and career, and taking herself out off the dating market in order to build YOU up? Then why do you have the audacity to be judging whether she's going to run your household??* -You want a woman that will be a good mother to your children? *Have you asked her if she WANTS your children? Have you proven yourself WORTHY of having progeny, or do you just think ALL men are entitled to progeny? Have you proven that you are worth all of the risks to her health, her body, her career, her income trajectory, her time, and her energy in order to raise YOUR children for you??* -You want a woman that will 'honor your leadership?' *Have you proven that you are SAFE for her to trust you with leading? Have you proven that you make sound decisions that show you understand her and prioritize her needs? Have you proven that you are worthy of respecting you enough to put you in charge of things that impact HER life? Have you CHOSEN her or are you still dating other women?* ...Because see, @Stephan Speaks, you never see men hanging out online talking about how *they can be worthy* of a) all their demands of women; b) all of the injustices and inequalities of patriarchy that already oppress women; and c) all of the labor and risk that YOU inherently represent when she lets you in your life. It is *irrefutable* that personal growth spaces, relationship coaching spaces, and other spaces that require inner reflection are overwhelmingly dominated by WOMEN and then men wonder why we don't want to exhaust ourselves and deplete ourselves giving to them. Do not ever forget that in a worldwide, viral thread asking women if they would feel safer trapped in the woods trapped with a man or with a bear and *100% of women asked said BEAR.* And you know what??? Comment threads of men that, when presented with a hypothetical question, STILL CANNOT TAKE NO FOR AN ANSWER. We said "bear" and men are out there really embarrassing themselves by explaining how bears work and telling us we don't know our own minds. Find me a man that has ever been in fear of his life from a woman. Find me a woman and *every single one of them has a story of being in fear of their life from a man.* *IT. IS NOT. EQUAL.* What more do you need to know when you start demanding things of women with your sense of entitlement and privilege??? So maybe you should start talking to men about how they need to do THAT instead of telling women to give out wife benefits to men that are still playing the field in the hopes that he *might* pick her. It comes down to this: Ladies, stop listening to red-pillers, incels and misogynists tell you that you're the reason why men are struggling *in a system that is built for them and benefits THEM.* You live under a patriarchy. You are taking on ALL the risk- with your body, your income capability, your child-bearing years, and even your life. Do not let any of these relationship coaches let you forget that. A man that genuinely values you will never let you be anxious or confused about his feelings for you. Don't let him confuse you twice. He will not demand wife benefits when he is still only dating you. Don't let him take you for granted twice. And also, the GOOD men are not sitting around on the internet blaming women for why we don't date them and complaining about how feminism ruined everything. GOOD men ARE feminists. They are working on themselves to heal their negative patterns, become better humans and contribute to healthier relationships. You're welcome.

[@joanmu1053]

Wow, just woww, fantastic comment ❤

[@Quianna]

Very well said! 🎯💯

[@joanmu1053]

1000 % agree, could not have articulated it better Thank you 👏👏

[@stef.wit.a.f9165]

PREACH sister!!!! Best comment out here!!

[@margiemaine5806]

100% insightful and 100% true!

[@Cannonejones]

Stephen, I love when you bring up cooking and the quality for women lol my grandmother told me on my wedding day to my late husband that if I wanted to keep my husband and have a long marriage that I needed to 👉🏼 “keep his belly full and his wee-wee empty” in her ITALIAN VOICE ‼️only a grandmother would spit out something like that on your wedding day😂😂 but I definitely grew up around women who not only LOVED to cook but serve their man and so even though I’m very much a boss lady I love to cook and cook healthy. I even have a food page lol but I especially love to watch my man, eat my food and see here the expressions of enjoyment, I literally wait to hear him smacking his mouth😂😂😂

[@joemincer8882]

I grew up in a family of cooks and a neighborhood of women who catered to their men even if they worked a job. My friends and I laugh because it's all we know. 🤷🏾‍♀️🤣🤣

[@gloriousjohnson1807]

​@@joemincer8882: I love it! It's as it should be!❤

[@ElevatedMe]

I invited a friend of mine with me to the Tonight’s Conversation panel and I love how you always, gracefully, mindfully, carefully address topics and how you highlight the very human nature of men that perhaps we sometimes have not considered or even misunderstand. (You were on point about men friendships.)😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you so much! 🙏

[@angelheart408]

Cooking is a beautiful way to nurture and a way of showing your love. Your loved ones need to eat food to survive. The way to a man's heart is through his tummy because it meets an essential need and it makes him feel loved.

[@merimindgarden]

Hi Stephan, your videos are essentially guiding me and my friends as a 50+ year old women in New Zealand about how the man views courtship, what is important to him and how we (those searching) might know how ‘He’ could be potentially viewing me (in my case) as a potential person of interest. Thank you so much for the time and energy and good will and faith you put into this work that you do. I 💯 believe my spirit guides led me to you and your wisdom and channel from the masculine perspective and… I have shared your channel with so many of my friends because I feel it doesn’t matter that you are across the world from me/us but that… your messages speak to the heart. We clearly have some value based synchronicities and, I just wanted to say thank you. Your videos are like mini master classes that are free to those who are looking to grow and manifest the dream partnership/ relationship with a potential match. Anyway, thank you 🙏🏽 God bless you and the work that you do. It’s felt all the way down south as far as Aotearoa New Zealand and you are appreciated brother! Ngā mihi aroha ❤

[@E042588]

Thanks for that clarity! Whew!!! In MYYYY current situation, I NEED TO PROTECT MY PEACE from HIS unnecessary drama... It gets on my nerves. I've tried to tell him to avoid nonsense and choose his battles... but he gets tucked into ALL. THE. TIME Nope. I can't, I won't invite that into my life for any permanent arrangements... nope. Nope. Nope.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're welcome 🙏

[@emilys.goldbergacp5374]

Yes, I had this exact situation as well ..... let it go on for much too long.

[@auntyyunike]

Oh you are a twin?❤ Am a mother to twins almost your age. You are special. So wise 🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏❤️🙂

[@Cinnamon.grl.]

How sad that a man will choose a wife based on social climbing, but most likely cheat on her with someone he's actualy connecting with. That is just sad, shallow behavior.

[@sineadnichoirbin7232]

I'm 51,own my own house and holiday home,no children,never been married. Independent,kind,genuine,honest. I have struggled with my weight my entire life,not the prettiest woman in the room and therefore can't attract a decent man. I'm also a practicing Catholic but I'm resigning myself to a life of just being completely alone.

[@nayb.6864]

Dang 🙂 Where's The Woman Who Does The Recaps of The Videos At... lol

[@katielesperance]

This. Amen and noted.

[@rosemaryrajab8200]

IKR?!😂

[@ElectraHorvat]

I feel like it gets deleted

[@daliciously]

She is in a relationship 🤣😂🤣

[@lillybianca4185]

I was also looking for the recaps😂😂😂

[@cca405]

I was dating a guy and found out he had a whole girlfriend when I confronted him he said I am too dramatic fully deflecting not addressing that he already had a girlfriend! At least be accountable, he lied the whole time but does not like drama which he caused it. 😫😅

[@magnaajube7784]

Stephan, you are on point those of us who have been married before know a man uses these criteria in making a decision to marry.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I appreciate that 🙏

[@lisavice7253]

😂 u right Stephan. 🙋🏾‍♀️ I'm dramatic. I'm here to listen to you pull my card and just about read me right in every freaking video. It's completely triggering and I am guilty of ranting in your comments letting my triggers show me that I am absolutely 100% sure I don't belong in any brothas life for marriage, dating, situation, sex... You and I exactly the same age and generation. I am so grateful to hear this because I am peaceful alone, single and doing nothing with men at all. It's freeing to know I won't date, be a wife, mama...no pets, no man and no kids. I'm the best me with myself. Men want us to do ungodly things then want a godly woman😂. To keep my peace I keep men out of my face and continue a peaceful healing. This is helping. I'm not even looking and I have freedom to invest more time with Jesus.

[@4Ayotte]

Amen sista

[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

"Men want us to do ungodly things, but want godly women " BINGO!!! There's the problem.

[@loyduncan3728]

"Men want us to do ungodly things and want a godly woman." That's right...so what he does is he marries the godly woman and has ungodly women on the side. How many of us know guys like this? There are more of these guys than anyone can even imagine.

[@OnlyZaf-iq5bn]

Amen 🙌

[@JStig12]

One simple small cooking appliance to own is a food steamer. You just fill it up with water at the base, fill the bowl up with vegetables or other stuff, and within about an hour, you have edible food. I dice potatoes and steam them often. One batch usually lasts three to four days.

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

Another awesome video. I do agree with every point mentioned. Men must be wise, aware, specific, selective. Yes, we women must be too. Trusting God this time for the right man.🙏🏽🙌🏽👑😍

[@melindasipes4364]

"Both sides need to be pouring into each other" 👌 The section from about 21:10 to 22:35 is so powerful. I love how u break it down and explain that it looks differently for every relationship rather than giving some blanket rule that should apply across the board.

[@DjEnsi]

When you said, "some men like women with Kids", i got hope back again. I didn't want to be a single mom but here I am. thanks for that comment you made on the video. I needed to hear that.

[@cynthiareynolds1941]

My daughter is a single mother and she is with perfect gentleman.

[@DjEnsi]

@@cynthiareynolds1941 thanks wonderful 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💖💖💖. Thank you for sharing! I truly appreciate your message.

[@thornless9073]

But also remember that some of those males are predators who are looking for a nurturing woman with children to prey on. Please be careful, and get a weighted blanket to help with anxiety and depression.

[@wattakesselly6463]

❤

[@gloriousjohnson1807]

: BE careful! A lot of men seek women with children for selfish/sick purposes. Please protect your children at all costs!!!❤

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

Lol my son with 3 big sisters. Now 30 years old. He is good to his girlfriend but she had to work on respecting his leadership and direction. He told her he was not going to marry her if she did not work on her attitude. I must admit, I recently saw a change.🙏🏽

[@cynthiareynolds1941]

This is a great quote 😊 choose a man that makes you a better person.

[@toriandjojo2018]

Thank you for recognizing and acknowledging that there are a lot of men out there who BRING the drama. I just got out of a relationship with an unhealthy man who brought drama after drama into my life until it finally ended. Some women want healthy men and we too value peace!! ❤

[@Earthsbodye]

Been there done that and kicked him out.

[@MelindaBerney-eg5tb]

I love when you make yourself laugh! 😂 I do that all the time, crack myself up!! ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

😁

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Coach Steph please permit me to rename this video The Gospel truth , this was precise those are men secret thoughts Men could u just be brave and make it clear Stephan u had me glued and i must admit that you are Truly the BEST May God continue to bless you abundantly

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much 🙏 I’m glad you enjoyed the video

[@lorrecco]

The most practical relationship coach on the internet.

[@kiradomochi4961]

I'm a leader too so its gotta be equal... i will let you lead but i will also lead. Im making six figures as a software engineer, can cook, do renovation work on the house, own my own home, take care of pets, and my other family members. The men don't always have to lead but yea two people should respect and try to serve the other person as best as they can. Sometimes the wife is smarter and have more skills than her husband and thats okay if she manages things too and is the leader of the household. Thats the dynamic with my sister and her husband. He gives her the money because shes better at saving and allocating and multitask. She makes more too. Theyve been together for over 10 years now. The men dont always have to lead sometimes they just arent good at managing things or they have a one track mind or theyre forgetful. It works for them. Hes a good family man even tho he needs a bit of help w things. He works comes home play with the kids dont mess around etc. I dont know i come from a family of powerful women but loving women. We arent going to dumb down and be submissive just to save mens ego but we will also be loving and respectful

[@imperfectillustration6261]

You can’t have it both ways if you’re looking for a traditional relationship. There’s only one leader in the relationship, and it’s the man. If you disagree or want to create a modern day relationship, there will be dysfunction and it won’t last.

[@kiradomochi4961]

@imperfectillustration6261 it has lasted and almost every man I've dated are proud of my competence. The ones that are threatened were not a real partners. Supposed to bring each other up. If I find a man jealous of me or my career hes donezo cause I would never think of doing that to person I love and claim to support. That said I don't have a problem finding men and half of them wants to get married. Looking for a soulmate and real love, not competition.

[@kiradomochi4961]

@imperfectillustration6261 it has lasted for 40 years with my mom. Ten years for my sister and five years me... so yea don't appreciate the gaslighting. If it's not gaslighting, then it's projection

[@kiradomochi4961]

@imperfectillustration6261 I'm usually in a best friend type relationship that's a bit more unconditional and accepting. There was one that was weird and he came from Muslim background where it's a patriarchal society. His ego was bruised just because I'm more competent. I never tried to make him feel bad ever. Only love, nurture, and support. Thank god my man now is proud of me and supports me. I don't have to wear a mask to be accepted. If we are both loved and supported, it's not dysfunctional. Imagine someone telling you to act less than you are or subservient when you know you're curious brave and can do almost anything you put your mind to? How disgusting is that? That's not love, that's ego

[@imperfectillustration6261]

Real femininity doesn’t come on KZbin posting about how she is a co-equal leader in a relationship. She recognizes her role and place and knows that the best relationships and highest functioning model is that she submits to her husband, her husband submits to Christ, and Christ submits to God. This is not even up for debate. The issue you’re having is not with me, it’s with the off base non-traditional picture of a relationship that is all around us in society and in our homes today that has trained up a generation of women and men to follow an alternative model that doesn’t and won’t serve them in the long run.

[@fernandadeonna]

in a happy and loving relationship but i’m still watching stephan’s videos 🥰

[@phaderiawallace4834]

Great observation Stephan. It’s not healthy for one of two to be shouldering the whole load. Men need their burdens eased as well.

[@Marc-ei5lj]

They chose the ones who they believe is lease likely to hold them accountable for their misdoings.

[@emilys.goldbergacp5374]

I think this is true, but, that's also when they create the drama.... I'd have had much smoother previous decades in life if I didn't let in men with drama to it.

[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

Yeppers......

[@drivnbyart]

Sounds like narcissistic behavior

[@Kesh_42]

Bingo🎯

[@Seraphim7]

That’s a bad man..

[@AMonroe-Mayo]

Thank You Stephan! These points are so very important & helpful for me to hear & know about men to help me in my relationships-- I appreciate You with ❤

[@eva5637]

The way to a mans heart is through the stomach! The first time my favorite man talked to me and smiled at me, was when I offered him a homemade pie and told him I love to spend time in the kitchen.❤

[@2GBDGY]

Can you talk about long distance relationships and how to know it will work? What to look for so in not to waste time… is God making you wait? Is it not time to be together? How long it should last until you actually meet ?❤

[@2GBDGY]

Also, other topic, can it work if the two individuals are different religions? Thanks!

[@denanikiawilliams]

Labossiere, when the proper time come, I am going to need a one on one coaching at the park. It seem like this is to much right now but when you sit me down and take me one advice at a time, I promise I would be able to deliver what is required. That's part of submission right? For as cooking, to be honest I can do the basic but since the household is desiring to change to a plant base diet then with you on my side I know that I can do all things through Christ that strengthen me. You did it again. This video was on point. Thank you for sharing. Keep it coming ❤🙏

[@lucindacrawford3743]

❤

[@Petra.80]

Cooking is making memories for your family.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Well said 🙏

[@Goddessoflove634]

Also a simple way to show people you love them😊

[@FrancesHernandez-hf5ys]

Very true! Well said

[@jennehsmith8170]

This is some good knowledge Stephan! Thanks for sharing ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure

[@kiag1531]

Stephan you are absolutely correct!! Thank you for always being transparent!!

[@almetabowman990]

Amen Amen and Amen. I put Love in everything I do and my husband would be blessed. I Will appreciate him as the King he is. A Queen knows her place. Always Love Almeta ❤️🙏🏿😘💯

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

Yes, we must keep it real with ourselves accepting reality no matter how bad we want the relationship. We must be willing to let go of what is not meant to be.❤

[@Avamoneta]

Wow!! Thank you!! A whole new level and perspective!! Thank you!!🙏 💖

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure 🙂

[@RoseMoke]

Thank you for your support .God bless you

[@xxnarutxx3938]

I don't know if you'll see my comment let alone reply to it but I was hoping to get your opinion on something. If a man was close to his deceased father and they had a little tradition of listening to a certain radio program while eating tacos (Sundays); what would this man think if a woman decided to make him tacos for his birthday but had also recorded the radio program so that he could listen to it like he used to with his dad and it included a song dedication in honor of his dad.

[@Evelyn-rm7zx]

Wow, so much value Stephan. More grace

[@TashaStPierre]

I love all the points especially when you stated that you have to cook for the kids ❤😊!

[@GabrielleHolt-nt7rm]

Definitely good content as always Stephan 👌

[@minniemcclure9134]

❤yes this I love. Bringing out the best of better. But this is giving me a headache. It seems like too much work to try to be with a man that is immature.

[@cynthiabarker4587]

Stephan you are bringing all the right points! I really appreciate you 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I appreciate that! 🙏

[@sakeniabradley2533]

Stephen, I truly appreciate all of the positive knowledge and amazing intellect you express. It was a pleasure meeting you Saturday T Tonight's Conversation... what a pleasant surprise and I can't wait to start reading all of my books. Continue to be blessed.❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your support 🙏

[@RenataSmith-u3t]

Thank you for this video.Even though I missed the Conversation event in Dallas last Saturday I was still able to meet you in person before you left. It truly was a pleasure 😊 ps thanks for the favor with the necklace I appreciate it. ❤️ And thanks for visiting Texas.

[@shemireyahlilly5521]

I had no idea he was in Dallas, dang I missed him

[@bwuralicious]

Points 1, 3, 4 and 6 are not just assessed by men (from where i come from), but culturally by the man's family and relatives. It's an unspoken understudy but overall i guess it's exhibited in some/ most patriarchial societies. Points numbers 2, 5 & 7 will depend on the individual in question.Is he melodramatic or the actual drama 😂😂? Is he comfortable leading ( most are, even if at times, it is in the reverse direction😊)? With point 7 will depend on the individual if they are religious or spiritual or actually do not believe God should take center stage of the relationship.

[@karincarozza381]

Really good information. Thank you Stephan. Protecting your peace is very important.

[@josephinemusumi3936]

Coach, some people post foods that they don't know even how to cook. I see my colleagues posting every meal given to us.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Lol 😁

[@heatherjeffrey8997]

Thanks Stephan for this video

[@TrueLoveWarnings]

As far as the guy bringing the drama, we as women tend to stay connected and try to help him, when we should just pray from the distance.

[@FrolleinMayer]

the cooking thing would work with me, too, i get it. Coming home after a long day at work to a nice homemade dinner, that's the best. I even look forward to it during the day, if i know it's happening :-D. But cooking is work, whether you enjoy it or not. So the partner who does the cooking regularly needs to be freed from other duties/responsibilities, imo. Cooking can easily take a couple of hours as well as cleaning up afterwards.

[@CharlesBaxter-s7g]

The Correct Alignment? FREEDOM Responsibility and Most importantly Peace

[@bwuralicious]

😄😄😄 Stephan, you know your sisters are being truthful. Overpampering coupled with the last born child is synonymous with only boy amongst girls/ only girl amongst boys dynamics.

[@helenward77]

Your videos are gold. I appreciate you so much. 🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏❤ thank you very much

[@Goddessoflove634]

All the women married around me don't meet any of these criterias... but I'm based in Europe, context might be different

[@Luk-ne2wb]

Perhaphs they were blind to womens' warning signs

[@Goddessoflove634]

@@Luk-ne2wb probably! Might not work on the long run...

[@Michelle-u5y]

And not everyone believes in God.

[@thornless9073]

​@@Michelle-u5yand look at the state of the world

[@helenegladney7929]

Appreciate your points and hope we will listen and listen to you because you are giving the truth.

[@justdreadest]

My question is this... is this a red flag? My boyfriend and I had a break up and he sent me a picture a book on my night stand "10 things women do to mess up their life" I was in shock and felt naked" I wondered what else picture did he take? OMG! It was disturbing to me. My friends think it was cute, and probably he wanted to learn me more. But I felt evaded. Am I wrong? Ps we have not made back up but this has haunted me for 3 years. I don't want people in my house. And my room. Was I overthinking Stephen?

[@roxy7255]

So true I’ve found that in KZbin comments people that are just looking to bait and argue with you. Very sad.

[@HG-le5tj]

It's good to debate sometimes. Healthy in fact. Afterall there is more than one opinion/observation out there, and it's called being open minded.

[@roxy7255]

@@HG-le5tj I don’t think healthy debate is what he was referring to in his video.

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

Great video. Yea, we must choose our battles, I don’t do drama. Many women will start drama when they see their partner speaking to another women, or if another woman is interested in their man. Emotional intelligence is crucial here. Being classy is still important. Trust in a relationship is very important. LOL. I can cook.

[@jesslyons7932]

What about social pressures of an age discrepancy?

[@dr.sammypryor]

You make a good point Stephan about commitment with children!

[@nevergiveyouupbjcaldwell2454]

Stephan This is a good video esp for youger women. Been there done that. I'm chasing Peace & being in a loving relationship. Respectfully, I wouldn't dare let my family or friends determine who I want to love & be with.I've never regretted any decisions I made in my Adult life so I accept that responsibility.And yes you're spoiled😂❤and so am I . 3 brothers & I'm the youngest & only girl. I'm nice though & can cook😂❤ God is bringing him soon. We will spoil each other🙏🏼🎉❤.Looking forward to your next video & wealth of information 😊

[@krixttysimon2705]

Thank you for being a big brother to me ❤️

[@sunnyb1563]

Very helpful, thank you 🙏🏻

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I’m glad you enjoyed it 🙏

[@Breannaaa]

You are literally describing me and I hope he knows this!! 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@cindyvazquez4333]

I love that! Protect your peace❤❤🙏🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Absolutely 🙌

[@sidneygordon2804]

Nine seconds in and he's already spitting. 🙌

[@SFormby]

I think both people in a relationship should have these 7 qualities because we aren't always operating at 100% and need a partner that can hold things down for that temporary moment.

[@marygranke204]

Thank you for the information. Always such great information.

[@ramonaphillipsteach3284]

I am grateful my son and his girlfriend go to church together, she has no children but loves his children.❤

[@SheIsNaimah]

Stephan! I completely understand that men are supposed to lead and we are to trust them in their leadership and abilities. But lately, I am noticing in the dating world, that men are expecting us to trust them and their opinions during the earliest of the phase of dating without allowing us a chance to get to know who they are! What is this about? It's like they wanna rush the process and force us to submit to them without gathering critical information.

[@TrueLoveWarnings]

If a man is rushing, that's a major red flag and he has a hidden agenda, especially if the situation seems forceful. It never hurts to pray and keep a distance until things become clearer.

[@TrueLoveWarnings]

I became pregnant after a man physically forced himself on me. Rhymes with "grape". So this is why I know that if a man is rushing, he has some type of agenda. Remember, "Love is patient..." 1 Corinthians 13:4.

[@dianahernandez2325]

Yes❤thank you Stephan thank you 😊

[@lanceyf.3078]

Ok sooo… my question is, why am I single? lol I checked all these boxes 🙊 Lord send him my way, I’ve been patiently waiting… 🙏🏻

[@cynthiareynolds1941]

I can say I checked these boxes as well. Once you pray God to God he will give you the answer. God told me when I was asked “ he said because it’s not your season “. I just keep busy in the community and church ministries. Now I have been blessed with a perfect gentleman. But this took years.

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

i feel you... 🙏🏻

[@lightinthedusk]

Because part of it is down to luck and fate. You could be a great person and potential partner but just never have the luck to cross paths with someone who is compatible for you. It sucks but that’s how life is. Not everyone who gets married is actually a good person or partner either - they were just fortunate enough to meet their match. Most of us don’t want to face it, but at the end of the day, the fact is life can be random, predictable and unfair. Just being a good person doesn’t guarantee a relationship and marriage, unfortunately. I’ve seen several people get married who were honestly terrible human beings in many aspects. They just had the luck to bump into someone who could mesh well with their (in my opinion) questionable character, personality and morals

[@TishaSuper]

Hi Steph, I Have A Question: At What Point In The Connection Do You Let Your Partner Know About You’re Celibacy?

[@PJ-xl5hs]

This is good, very good!!

[@roka2031]

I agree with all the points...except the one about children, I don't think men really consider what type of mother a woman will be...they might do so ..IF they already have children (maybe) but I think this one is a fifty -fifty

[@kerrieg1075]

I’m curious because I see videos like this on my feed because I do have a desire to be married. I do appreciate Stephan’s insight but it makes me wonder if there are videos for men and “how to” seek a wife? Is there only a desire from women to be married and the collective of men are just not interested?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I have a separate channel for men’s videos

[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

Exactly, at what point are women going to catch a clue, that mosten don't want to marry.

[@chelseaananda2831]

“This woman is unwilling to learn how to cook and therefore I can only eat fast food.” 🤔

[@tashasloan860]

These might be some of a man's requirements but if they communicate on what they are looking for they will be told the answers. Just not enough men that don't lie about being 💯. A independent woman can always handle the house hold but the point of having a spouse is we do this together as one no set duties. You make good points but let's be real not all men care because they are broken and never know what they truly want. They can have a good woman but still complain or get tired but instead of discussing it they turn to another. Kids is package but we play both roles so the void they missing we can't fix that so parenting is just tough and if you date a lady with kids be ready or don't do it. Being direct makes it easier for both parties involved.

[@certifiedslay2469]

All truth. Sad to say

[@alexandrademartini7496]

Kids need to learn this too. They need to trust and respect grownups.

[@mcleo9935]

Hi Stephan,always on point 😊

[@Mrssandy001]

Whenever i watch your videos i get inspired 💯🙏 I really love all the points 🙏🙏🙏

[@RoseMoke]

Stranger is your true love 💕

[@jaclynh.y767]

as a woman, its one of my criteria that a man knows how to cook. it shows that he is self-sufficient, knows how to take care of himself and its sexy af

[@jayc5756]

Yeah, idk how you a grown adult and cant cook At All. Im like you Steph, I dont like to cook either...but i do it just because....cause I gotta eat. I even wanted to do something different for my mother on Mother's Day and cook for her. And I cooked baked chicken, rice & peas and vegetables. I havent made baked chicken in a minute...but I did it good according to her. I even make mind differently, so I did everything to her liking....from the way I made the chicken...to the rice n peas...down to the type of veggies she likes and eats. Just basic cooking skills. Not that hard. Chicken is basic...but why haven't I cooked that in years is because all the food I cook mainly are easy simple stuff. I dont like to use this term for myself too much...but Lazy Cooker. So long story short, if you cant even cook Basic Stuff...or even lazy stuff...then yeah idk. I rather a woman partner be a good cook that loves or likes it...but its not something I usually look for and require in dating. But now thinking about it, on how I presented all of that...if she's a Grown Adult Woman Over 30 that Cant even cook basic or lazy...yeah, idk. I might havr to kick her to the curb too. FR. Idk...cause thats crazy. FR. IJS 🤷‍♂️🤔

[@CharlesBaxter-s7g]

Balance Freedom with Responsibility to Achieve Peace ✌️

[@shauna188]

This is an exceptional presentation. Valuable insight. If one seeks a lasting, blessed marriage... these are the basics. Thank you! And... your beard is looking really good. 🤓

[@lovelineoutreachministries1914]

Stephan I think a short hair cut would look well on you. This video you really can't see all that hair. Consider a make over with hair cut and trimmed up beard. Just a suggestion.😂

[@sivuyisiwemntwana1227]

I agree

[@acheeves1]

I love his unique style. Very handsome. But that is not the topic here. FOCUS.

[@lovelineoutreachministries1914]

That is part of the focus. A person's appearance is what you see first. Meant as a compliment. I see I got 8 thumbs referencing my suggestion. Focus

[@ruthrnk3826]

I genuinely enjoy cooking, as it serves as an effective means of relieving stress for me.

[@HalfSweetness]

I am very confident to know I check all of those qualifications for a future husband and I pray he will meet all the qualifications to have me as a wife. Love the info and the blue set up behind you (portrait and couch). Thanks Steph-fine! 😉😁❤🤍💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@HalfSweetness]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks 🙏🏽 to you as well.