7 MORE Tactics A Man Uses To Try To MANIPULATE Women

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@stellajoseph2314]

Silent treatment is completely unacceptable. Once he does that. I am gone.Delete and block.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@tonyaanderson2608]

Yes I just block, and remove his number from phone a guy trying to get to know. He got quiet, and only text rarely calls.

[@rashidarowe7882]

In 2024 there are not alot of good people out here period, men or women. The dating scence is awful right now, filled with alot of damaged people who are looking to the benefits you provide rather than love. As much as I would like a man in my life, I have no choice but to be single right now, until somone shows me by their actions that they really want me in their life.

[@meli7315]

💯 ❤

[@Ortiz1602]

I agree with you!!

[@patsie-StHilaire]

Girl you’re sound just like me . 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Kmh448]

Yess this right here is 💯 Facts

[@FrederiqueMiller-g6e]

Well said..same here..single and not stress w dating or a bad relationship...

[@melskitchen4246]

I been there, and the red flags were waving big time. I didn't want to see them, but God made sure I saw the message clearer.... I walked away period. None of it was healthy

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@kiravampira1456]

Far too many modern males *really* overestimate their own desirability. The moment he tries any manipulation tactic on me is the moment he becomes background noise.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

@kiravampira what does that have to do with the title of his vid, wdym women overestimate their desirability?

[@kiravampira1456]

@Kashmir-lt4cx Not even gonna bother with you.

[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

@@kiravampira1456 wow cool I was just simply asking a question, not fighting with you, but if you're taking it that way cool that's on you, have a good one! P.s. I was just asking what you meant cause you made it sound like most women are Not desirable and are deluding themselves pertaining to that, that's all!

[@ElleRid]

Clearly he couldn't read,​@kiravampira1456 lol

[@eac-guy7272]

And those manipulative men come in ALL age groups

[@brendalapp6272]

He told me 2 years ago he was waiting for me all his life and now he is telling me...I am too strong of a woman and broke up with me. Why ??? Because I cant be manipulated?? So now Im silent :) Never to be heard of from again !!!

[@londontyler6598]

Wow! We must’ve dated the same person!

[@dowilitious]

All the best to you 🙏🏽

[@janghardy]

Yes, that and he was too insecure to be with a strong woman

[@annaiandola6353]

I’m sorry but that was messed up sorry you went through that ❤

[@Taisha12001]

If a man gives me the silent treatment, I'm leaving. We're both adults and the silent treatment is an immature way to resolve issues.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@ginadenson8828]

This is one of the reasons I am afraid to get back into a relationship 😕 That manipulation That controlling mess in such an evil way of controlling me. It's scary

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@Katrica670]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks what's best? These replies are soooo automated. Is it even you or a social media strategist?

[@Katrica670]

@@MeetStephanSpeakswhat is truly best? This feels sooo automated! Is it even you, or a social media strategist? It feels sooo impersonal!

[@elizabethclarke2005]

@@Katrica670 He has explained quite plainly about manipulation. Thats not healthy in any relationship

[@Thais8500]

I knew in my heart that I was giving my best and yet was never enough, yet all he saw was my flaws… the end was inevitable.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@MalenaLuna444]

This!!! Yes I just went through this! I had to stop it. I can’t tolerate this for me. I had really liked him too. 🙁

[@karadaniel6334]

Any guy who’d come at me in anger if I addressed “sexting” or anything similar would be graciously and immediately set free to do whatever he wants.

[@gwynteddy]

A lot of these behaviours are exhibited by men who are Dark Empaths or Dark Triad individuals (ie, narcissists, psychopaths, Machiavellian types). I’ve experienced the former for a short while - thankfully - but it was a whole new level of evil, cunning and manipulation. Thanks, Stephan, for teaching us to build our own selves up & connect to spirit ~ so we are strong enough to walk away permanently.

[@AmericanDreamer]

true except I personally hate how they been called "empaths"!!!- ugghhh they are sinister and have no empathy whatsoever!!! It's an act and manipulation!!!

[@gwynteddy]

@@AmericanDreamer Yes I agree, they give true rational & awaken, educated empaths a bad name. I hope wherever you are, you’re safe from these toxic individuals. I’m still reeling from the Dark Empath male former friend of 13+ years. Having to accept closure with a person we once thought had our best interests/true intentions is the hardest part. ✨Life will get much better for us here on, sending you love, peace & light.😊🩷🫶✨

[@likexchloe]

I totally agree with this!!!

[@farahelf6120]

Guilt/ playing victim is a tactic people not only men have use against me because they knew i have a big heart and so worried about hurting others .But after making a lot mistakes i learned boundaries and stand my ground and see people for who they truly are

[@Natural_Beauty86]

I remember I had a guy keep threatening me wit backing up and ghosting I told him “Don’t threaten me with a good time idk what you used to BUT I’m not one of those women im not about to chase after you sir I’m single not desperate 🙄”

[@mimij4341]

Yup, I experienced this. He was having an affair, got all the text messages, and repeated all the texts verbatim. This man turned around and said he couldn't trust me and swept everything under the rug. The next day, while trying to broach the situation, he said it was in the past. Fast forward today, divorce finalized this past October after 30 yrs of marriage and in hell. 30+ yrs with nothing to show for. When I left a yr later, I bought a house and just kept elevating while he's in the same place. No growth. To God be the glory. Begs me every day to take him back. I told stay right over there with his low hanging fruit. He thought it was greener on the other side.

[@aprilexceptforgrace5920]

My story as well...

[@toniwilliams9817]

They always think it is because they always think we’ll never leave

[@mimij4341]

@toniwilliams9817 he looked me right in the face and said, "I thought you would never leave, despite everything he'd put me through.

[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

How did you get all the texts? Yeah this male got mad at me and started freaking out on me when I finally showed a pic of someone he kept heart eyeing on social media! He freaked out, and told me that I shouldn't be looking at her page, blah blah blah!

[@BonnieJackson-vb6vd]

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[@HopeWins777]

The silent treatment is a PUNISHMENT for you speaking up for yourself, or for saying something negative about him. You're not going to get a healthy relationship and be able to troubleshoot problems to a win-win situation with a childish attitude like that. If they back off, ask about it. If they deny that anything is wrong, then get busier and back off harder. Let them lead the pace. At least this way you are not over-invested in someone who isn't being forthright.

[@MisseverythingNewNew]

It’s like you know my situation. It’s crazy you posted this video today!!!! God sent u as my messenger!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@anaisefrancoisalvenat6779]

Please if someone need a coaching session with you what one on one how to be in touch?

[@bashibaspence7068]

I have experienced it 6 years ago.. I ran so fast. . . thank God

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@stellajoseph2314]

I love this. I will definitely share this. Communication is everything. No communication, no relationship.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Communication is definitely key and my question will be if you can't communicate with him why are you still there?

[@Calicolove]

The best part is when they show their true colors and intentions. Give that same energy. Silent treatment no problem. Call my phone nope I’m on a silent treatment. Might even change my number 🤔 😂 No one is that busy to stay so quiet. 🤐

[@Ifeoma999]

If I was dating, I would consider him to be my reflection... Any manipulation that would come my way will force me to check myself first... I honestly don't have the time nor energy to entertain any man with that kind of behavior. He won't be able to get to the 1st base with me. I'm a serious woman who loves & knows my worth, I am in tune with myself. It makes it easier to sniff out their BS. Keep it moving..✌🏾 I am aware that the laws of attractions are real, and I have learned that lesson in my life, I feel that I don't need to relearn it again. I have passed my test! I am very happi with that accomplishment. Great Video❣️🔥🔥🔥🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@Ifeoma999]

​@@MeetStephanSpeaksIt's my pleasure 🙂

[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

​@Ifeoma999 please explain your first two sentences.

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

Nice video. A lot of work goes into relationships these days. Too many damaged people roaming scared. There is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship. What works for Adam might not work for peter. Just be real and true to yourself. I However learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago my wife and I were on the brink of a divorce because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it..

[@oglaskubuot]

I see a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

letting someone you love go can be really difficult, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

[@oglaskubuot]

I will look her up online right now.... I hope this works for me too..

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

You definitely should. You wont regret it

[@debbiealbrecht4114]

❤😅​@@Newtonwilson-yw4kg

[@Shannon-ul2dh]

He gives the silent treatment when he can’t force me to do what he wants

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@nonkululekomdlovu1965]

I also experienced that. And the worse part is that when I finally noticed that my ex was just manipulative and when I told me all of his unacceptable behaviour he would just guilt trip me about everything. I decided to block him.

[@Shannon-ul2dh]

@@nonkululekomdlovu1965 I believe this is narcissistic behavior! Stay away from men like this

[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

​​@nonkululekomdlovu1965 Yeah this male got mad at me and started freaking out on me when I finally showed a pic of someone he kept heart eyeing on social media! He freaked out, and told me that I shouldn't be looking at her page, blah blah blah!

[@sugarandspice2136]

I dated one that tore me all the way down and it makes me so angry that I tolerated it.

[@nari-wx6fy]

It wasnt your fault how he treated you loved him and trusted. Don't be hard on yourself

[@alisacollier7993]

Im telling you, all your messages I've listened to today have been spot on. And I needed to hear everything. I got into a relationship with an Egyptian and at first it was fantastic he knew how I dressed, he knew my personality and loved me for it, he loved the way I did my makeup. Life was good! I found my dream man....then 2 years later, I can no longer dress the way I wanted, everything was dictated by him, then he'd tell me to tone down my makeup, then tell me don't talk so much in public. Keep my personality for him. I became a shell of myself. I felt alone and lost some friends along the way, I did not even see this coming everything happened a little at a time. I didn't even recognize myself anymore. The judgment I'd get to just wanna wear normal Jeans and a Tshirt, forget shorts, forget leggings, forget bathing suits, forget forget. I tried 2 and a half years then in one second God and I know it was God put a gut feeling into me something was off and I trusted that feeling. I demanded to be taken to the Airport and got on a plane that night and took my power back and now have set boundaries for myself. That night I chose me. What freedom. U can do it, anyone questioning themselves...even if u love a man with everything inside u. If it does not feel right, u arnt growing in a relationship get out! Go no contact, take ur power back! Love to u all

[@violamoore4252]

I put myself in a vulnerable situation once that comes back to haunt me occasionally. I am mad at myself because I knew better. I felt so used. I knew that I let it happen. I thought that he would respect my boundaries and he didn't.

[@lindamicheal5470]

I met a guy a few weeks ago who want to manipulate me, but I dodged bullets. I asked him some questions and his not giving me a clear answer that's red flag on a high degree. It ended as quick as it started even though i liked him alot , but i had the courage to let him go..I know their tricks now thanks Stephanie for your coaching, I'm not let any man use me .. first of all my body is the temple of the holy spirit. God bless ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

Good for you sis, I had to do the same recently. As soon as you see the foolishness, nip it immediately and walk away.

[@SyxTreasure]

😮 You know a lot of guys are sleeping with a lot of woman to find out about what other woman think 🤔 i don’t like it and they manipulate. We all know that’s a woman thang… manipulation 😮come on the word is “Man i pul ate”… I totally Will question his sexual identity 😂

[@meli7315]

Amen 🙏💙

[@ISABEL_OF42]

Stephan*

[@jennifermiller5041]

22 Years of this. 9 months post separation, and I'm just now realis8ng how bad it was.

[@hunnyskyz2165]

It got so bad that when I picked up his phone, Chile he snatched it so fast and threw it against the wall. I mean smashed it. Tell me your a cheater without telling me your a cheater🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Lovelyaribb]

That’s actually crazy

[@CarmenPerez-kz6rw]

Be careful. My husband kicked me in the face and admitted to a judge in so many words that he was trying to make me commit suicide. He said he meant to “crush my head” but that “God saved me.” He said I wasn’t safe in the home. This is a man that chased me around for five years everyday and complimented me constantly on all points.

[@Justlil0lm3]

That’s the part that has to get in my head fr! IT’S NOT MY RESPONSIBILITY!!! 🙏🏽 #PREACH

[@meli7315]

Amen 🙏💙

[@xsuzannex]

The silent treatment is such bad manners and I will never understand it

[@stephaniepetion6100]

Yesss the silent treatment was a whole month since February. Till i kicked him out few days ago. It was just a pattern used against me to never bring any types of conversations.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@stephaniepetion6100]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you so much. You're a blessing for helping us to reminded ourselves to do better.🙏

[@karincarozza381]

Glad to be unavailable. Free from unsafe situations and return to contentment and able to say farewell well to entangled double entendre messaging and indirect conversations that go nowhere. Repeat, glad to be unavailable. Thank you for validating my concerns in some situations, Stephan. Good to realize people playing with the lives of others.

[@3peasinapodity]

I would LOVE your take on the social media imposters/scammers, because it is a common thing now.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@princess377]

Hi Stephan may God continue to bless you so you can educate women about Toxic Manipulative men. I was dating a man that did this same thing to me it’s called reverse psychology. They try to make you feel bad for something that they did wrong.

[@dameanvil]

00:00 🎯 Understanding manipulation tactics is crucial for protecting yourself in relationships. 01:58 🤐 Giving the silent treatment is a tactic some manipulative men use to regain control and shift focus away from issues. 07:15 🩹 Guilt-tripping is a powerful manipulation tactic, often used by men to coerce women into staying in unhealthy relationships. 12:01 🤨 Judgmental behavior is employed by some men to control women's actions and instill fear of societal opinions. 18:18 😤 Constant complaining is utilized by manipulative men to keep women feeling inadequate and insecure, making them easier to control. 21:37 🛠 Constructive criticism in a relationship is healthy, but constant lack of acknowledgment or praise may indicate manipulation. 22:06 💪 Addressing underlying confidence issues empowers women to walk away from manipulative relationships. 23:33 🚪 Addressing root issues of confidence enables women to recognize and leave toxic relationships. 25:29 🔄 Manipulative men may play the victim to divert attention from their inappropriate behavior and turn the tables on their partners. 29:13 😡 Manipulative men may provoke jealousy in women to maintain control and keep them engaged in unhealthy dynamics. 33:30 🙏 Some manipulative men may use religion or spirituality to manipulate women into relationships, emphasizing the importance of discernment and seeking guidance.

[@TiYannaT]

This really sucks because my own husband was doing these things to me, but all I know is after my divorce. I just felt like a huge weight was lifting off me and God has been so good to me .But to hear everything that you’re talking about not a boyfriend not just some random dude, but my husband at the time.🤦🏾‍♀️ crazy . Thank you for talking about this. I’m really happy that I came across.

[@khayil]

Wow ! He’s hitting it on the nail with this one! I’ve experienced some of this ! I’m glad I had the strength to cut them off b/c I knew there was something wrong! Thank you for such a great message! This is a great reminder that I did the right thing! Great video as well b/c I am on the dating scene! So it’s great knowledge to be reminded of! Thank you ! 🥰

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@jennifergonzalez3895]

Damnnnn stephannnn you put them men on blast today 🤪🤪🤪

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate that!

[@RhondaR4]

I realized after hearing about the word manipulation that I have been manipulated my whole life thus far. From family, friends, in relationships, and at work places. It blows my mind crazy thinking about it. It's like it froze my self-worth and it is very hard gaining it back. Now I get where the blame came from. I blamed myself for everything everyone did to me. Words I learned of this year that have helped with my healing process this year: Self-sabotaging Over extending Manipulation

[@SelenaT]

Same here! You are not alone. I refuse to allow this nonsense to make me bitter with life!

[@browniez73]

Lol! I guess I am having that kind of man right now😂 He said God want me to be his wife. Out of those 7 sign I checked 4!!! Time for me to end this shit!

[@haydehjalayer6474]

It is true! I feel sorry for that woman who deals with such men!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@janedie2739]

This shirt looks great on you! Kudos to your stylist. This is a good look!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 thank you!

[@StrategicShon]

One of my male relatives was in a mismatched relationship and she kept telling him, he was not attentive enough. BUT I pointed out how his friend girls never said that. He moved on and found true love ❤️

[@lashondalambrecht4566]

Test every spirit you come in contact with.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@Biabia-e5n]

How

[@SelenaT]

🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🥳🙌PRAISE THE LORD just TODAY for TRUSTING MY INTUITION. Praying for discernment always! ❤

[@veramariecano289]

1 John 1:4 KJV Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world. Hereby know. ​@user-fc6um2uy9b

[@ladyshorty6989]

Thanks brother Stepan ,for being fair on both sides and saying how it really is. Abuse is what that narcissist is accustomed to. Shacking is never an option with noone no matter how much you care. Its not hard to be accountable and its frustrating to even have that conversation with an adult. Time wasters no matter who it is. It steals time. Its the overplay for the underlay. "🎵🎶LET IT GO,LET IT GO. MOVE ON.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@KatrinaJ-lf6zd]

This was a really good video. You hit on some really good and common tactics Men use. I have to add the Man who doesn't take care of his health and then tries to guilt you into staying with him cause he now needs and wants you to care for him. However Women don't be tricked by these tactics. They will only have you stick in what feels like a prison bid without a get out of jail card😂 lbvs, spoken from experience. Thank You Stephan for being so good at what you do. We appreciate your Wisdom and realness.❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@KatrinaJ-lf6zd]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You are very welcome ILY4L

[@sashacollins1031]

Facts!

[@followthestormtv]

this was me and I didn't even realize it - I thought his feeling were generally hurt but it turns out he was using it as a tactic - I am in the process of getting financial ready to purchase a home and he will have to go back to his moms house

[@deannahudson9536]

That last bit of the video. . . 🎯. The intentions behind the actions, both good and bad will tell all! This whole message is on point. Thank you!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@MaluFelipe-f9g]

Know the spirit by the spirit, good quote, this one’s good

[@mina_5918]

It is crazy how your videos always cross my path with perfect timing. Not only that, the topics are so accurate to my situation. Thanks Stephan for sharing your wisdom and giving me wake up calls ❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@Nelley_Nell_507]

I just went through the suicide attempt that is mentioned. He just wasn’t for me and I was so stressed out. I’m 43. I had never been through that before and I would have never thought he would try to manipulate me in that way. It was weird. Why would you play with your life for me? Makes no sense. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@mint_soup9743]

You are a blessing to care about these things and help others the way you do, especially during this strange time of coaches even promoting abusive and manipulative tactics, especially in the red pill community. I can sniff out the poop on the shoe 👞 vibes of those types of guys from miles away but that's because I've seen it so much online in the red pill spheres. There are usually tells in how they talk about women in general. They'll be the type to think abuse and manipulation is acceptable because it "gets results" you know- this entirely devoid of the morality behind it. Idk about them, but I'd like to be bonded with my partner in laurels of respect and compassion not trauma bonded in chains of abuse, insecurity, and manipulation! To each their own I guess... I dont understand how a man could go to sleep at night thinking a prize like that is a prize at all... Anyways!! Thanks as usual for all you do. Great vid Stephan!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

@mint_soup a prize like that is a prize at all? You are sooo right, I prefer to be bonded and connected with heaps of unconditional compassion, unconditional respect, unconditional authenticity, and unconditional protectiveness Not trauma bonded with abuse in its different forms!

[@kanitaseales6488]

I been going through this situation back to back for almost 3 years it's just so annoying 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️ and disrespectful when he continues to do that to me it's seems like he trying to make me feel like I'm the desperate one and trying to make me chase him but I think this is going to be a problem for our relationship in the future

[@SarahM75184]

Same girl 😩 when will the cycle end!!!

[@kanitaseales6488]

@@SarahM75184 oh sorry to hear that thought I was the only one that is going through this nonsense 🤦🏽‍♀️💯

[@niahoward4194]

I wasted over a year dealing with these same tactics. But I didn’t have someone in my corner calling out the red flags. The last tactic of using God to manipulate you was the main tactic he used. He used it to shame me of my past and play on my self esteem. He disappeared on me out of the blue and randomly his daughter text me asking me where do I go to get my hair done. 🤦🏽‍♀️ no thank you!! I said lose my number and act like you never met me!!

[@rachelpowell5377]

Leave him alone 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ Run.

[@medtrust1159]

I truly believe God sent this video my way. I wasn’t sure if I was being manipulated but your last story was me word by word.

[@zde-6397fb2]

Stephan, thank you for your consistent positive messages of respecting all people while teaching us disrespectful games people play. I’m grateful and thankful.

[@adachukwu3974]

Preach it brother Stephan I hear 👂 you loud and clear 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@melissa_rabbani]

👏🏻👏🏻🤝🏻❤you are a man from god. Thanks Stephan🙏🏻

[@LifesAJourney444]

Sad so many people refuse relationships now because of these types of actions. Same time it's a blessing because recognizing your worth and value prevents wasted time on things that don't help finding love self and growth.

[@saras.2173]

Time Stamps 2:05 Giving you the silent treatment 7:25 Gulit tripping 11:53 Being very judgmental 18:12 Constantly complaining 23:33 Playing the victim 29:11 Jealousy

[@Mercedes.Shanelle]

Thank you!! I hope he starts to use chapters more.

[@sigabou7296]

I a woman have given the silent treatment. I got tired of being disrespected and I needed to get away to clear my head and re- energize. I couldnt take it so I ignored calls and waited for a while to answer texts. Answering calls made me nervous and became afraid of reading his texts. Then he turns around and send me a video of you talking about narc women lol. How, when I'm recovering from your tactics...

[@pnartanar2983]

At first, I gave him a silent treatment after I realize he’s trying to play with me, then he gave me the same. I didn’t let him to play my feelings, he can exist as long as I value him. Period.

[@princessmiller8162]

This video really helped me so much and along with another video called, Why he come back. Wow and I had been tested by God and saw all the red flags pop up nonstop. I was like, Geez! That bad enough to miss all that much!?!?! Sure enough I laughed n did very well with this guy who came back. Thank you Stephen!!!❤ Stay with Love always. 🙏🏿🕊

[@AmoniC.]

Stephan, I love the color you have on and the background just in time for spring ! 🌸

[@ayeem4142]

man these things some / aalotta guys do u so cold blooded. BUT we gotta be strong and not chase or b desperate. *talkin to myself as well as u

[@almostlucky]

I'd prefer to go in fast and smooth into the "getting to know" Phase, but if i see or feel a small setback, I'd take two steps back.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤️ 🙏🏼

[@SincerestSawa]

my ex lived the threaten suicide many times, it is one of the worst manipulation tactics and after dealing with the stress and guilt they induce, you eventually stop caring weather they will or wont take their own life.

[@brendahart3754]

I'm too old for games, if he can't honestly communicate he can't be with me.

[@joyannfernander4064]

Yes there are so many manipulative men in the world today but there's also god-fearing men who walks in the principle of God a man who knows how to respect his mother he definitely knows how to treat his is better half

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@3Times79]

I should have left when I got the silent treatment, along with my intuition telling me something wasn’t right, ignored the red flags and found out he was married with kids….now we have a 2 year old together. Raising a child alone. I will pay attention next time, if there is ever a next time. He is a manipulative, narcissistic, habitual liar, womanizer…just to name a few. I’ve tired to pray for him because something is seriously wrong with him, it is so hard along with forgiving him. I need to so I can heal. I want so badly for him to feel all the hurt, pain and suffering I’ve experienced. If only I had listened to my intuition, I would have saved myself a whole lot of unnecessary stress. I will NEVER allow myself to be treated less than I deserve.

[@annuallyannual9444]

Me partner is spending many times with me! But still I think there is something off or secret he has that I don't know!! Did he was spending time or nights with you??? Plz

[@3Times79]

@@annuallyannual9444 yes he spent time and nights with me

[@lataciajackson7100]

ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL THANKS 👏❤💯

[@MM-iw3ol]

You’re so right I had the same thing happen. I initiated the process of hey are you ok. He said he was ok and nothing after I blocked and deleted him. I’m not doing this with guys. If a guy wants to be in your life he will be in your life no exceptions.

[@Akirazhanexo]

Let me tell you, my ex-husband got some bad advice from his "friends" to continue to say "I'm not saying anything, I'm just listening" when I asked him if we could talk about our problems. I think this video is about him. He eventually left for good and told me that the reason he left is because I didn't care enough about him. 🤷

[@ekklesiajoy]

I experienced constant complaining. I had no idea that was manipulation. But it did make me feel less than and unworthy. Sucks. I can’t wait for those divorce papers

[@CyberAngel333]

Thank you for all this good wisdom... Duly noted. However, personality clashes and name calling speak volumes. Time to go 👻✌🏽💪🏽💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Tfouch09]

This is good and REAL information, thank you!

[@iloveyellow7214]

Hello Mr. Labossiere, Im an avid subscriber of yours here ever since 2021 and You made me realize that what you were describing in 19:20-21:30 was what my Dad told me when I was just 5-10 years old and Im 34 now You made me realize I have a great Dad. Wow thank you have a great rest of the week Mr. Laboissiere

[@patriceexantusletschopitup8056]

Thank you so much for these confirmation. I’m grateful to God for allowing me to divorce my ex-husband. To God be the Glory.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@christinebringazi3481]

Oh my gosh. My ex husband has done all of these. I have always know he was manipulive. Thank you Stephen for hiw real you are.

[@milliemill3782]

This is so true regarding men using God. I always get the "Mr. Fake Christian" and the "Prophet"...lol...just playin with God. Yes, know the spirit by the spirit.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@doneshacotton4725]

I told this one person twice about communicating has to be a mutual thing. When he says he was putting everything on me so he could move accordingly. I told him that is not a good idea and it's not I operate. We got together 1 time and had a lot of fun. He said once that he was looking forward to doing it again, however, he left me hanging on the last 3 times we set up time to hang. So, Now I will talk to him candidly when I see him around but I leave it at that. But it's only a matter of time til I won't even do that. I get it when he said he had stuff going on and whatnot and he mentioned not wanting to hurt me (becareful people sometimes do this because they just can't be grown enough to be honest) I can respect honesty but I also feel like if that is the case why we're u in my face to begin with? Honestly I wish him the best though but.... I got stuff to do so I gotta keep it moving

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Communication is definitely key!

[@jennifermbogoKE]

Great video as always Stephan. Thank you for breaking it down. Please do a video (if you havent already) about breaking soul ties with these types of men. Most women actually do know they're being manipulated, but walking away when your self worth has already been flushed down the toilet is very difficult. God bless xx

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching and sharing your thoughts!

[@mutuwabrenda8550]

He went slient i also went silent for 1monther later he texted me.the energy u give is what i give also

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

[@scorpiored3871]

Thank you Stephan 🌹 This was great insight needed to hear this message! God bless you 🙏 ❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well!

[@Joy4LifeJoy4Hope]

Thank you for the light..i never sae it coming..thank you so much.

[@Cindy_Love_2025]

Your words are powerful! Great video 👏🏼❤️💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@camellia8625]

Silence can be used to punish.

[@bernardmccormack8687]

Thank you kindly for your advice 🙏 ❤❤❤❤

[@Emily-ed6ed]

Great message!❤

[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

@4:10 aka you yearning him/craving him/pining over him!

[@sheeva3.0]

Thank you Stephan! You always speak on doing the right thing and you also model for men how to be an honorable genuine man! Good for you ♥️🌹

[@darlenegolden1057]

Thanks ❤️. An a guy that I dated 20yrs ago is playing with me. LoL But I am stopping ✋️ it now. ❤❤❤❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

[@Portia620]

Silent treatment is a big red flag. No doubt some people have something going on, but if it keeps happening, that’s a big indicator that that person needs to be put in a friend zone.😂. I learned so much from my friends. It’s important to have them.😂. Then again in rare situations someone is busy with a mess and in that case, it’s good that they let you know to not expect anything because what they’re saying is other things are coming first in their life and that has to happen for us as adults sometimes in a relationship can always be first and that’s fine with your life maybe down the road again. Important time and time is important and your own individual time. Balance

[@satenikabrahamyan7139]

I have been through all of them .

[@SharonCastro1424]

Thank you, so much for this video very helpful!!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

My ex was living with me and threatened suicide when I wanted to talk about him getting his own place... so I let him stay until he left me for someone else. I was unemployed at the time and he didn't care if me and our daughter lived or died. I would've never done that to him.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thankyou ❤️

[@Portia620]

Silent treatment cracks me up. It’s such a bullshit game. I treat dating as a college class. I’m learning so much. I’m currently studying relationships and I have a psychology degree but want to go further into the other portions of relationships after my marriage well almost 30 years failed with a complete con man so my mission is to understand the player. And messing around, maybe might find somebody decent to marry again one day, not holding my breath

[@SelenaT]

Never feel sorry for any adult that can change their circumstances themselves!