Steve Harvey | Parenting Tip: Yelling Vs Whispering

I asked my audience two questions: "How many thought it was ok to yell at their kids?" And "How many thought yelling at their kids is unnecessary?" For those who didn't, I told them they are going to catch hell 😁😂I don't know how I could've raised my kids without yelling! Watch this parenting tip and more #SteveTVShow on SteveHarvey.com
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[@JaniceMba]

I laughed because I experienced all of them & the consequences.

[@laurajenny1999]

Me too 😂😂😂😂

[@blazayblazay8888]

Exactly not cause it's witty or funny he still stuck in def comedy jam style comedy ..." women be shoppiiinnng " 🙄 my girl funnier than this cornball

[@mihailshevchenko2368]

Balkan parents dont even look at you they go straight to the shoe or the belt

[@JonahGhost]

when parents whisper threats its more scary.

[@motrin34]

True that...

[@simple_naildesigns]

Alex Skywalker yesss!

[@vvj.8678]

Preach.

[@DD-po2hh]

Especially when she too close

[@snowqueen24]

Duh😒😡

[@Sam-iy1nt]

How does Steve know my mother?🤣🤣🤣

[@Ari_princess21]

🤣🤣

[@reneeislight]

😄😄😄😄😎😎

[@madblackwoman2]

Steve knows all our mothers Lol!

[@nessiedahir885]

Lmao I was like “when did my mom learn engr”

[@nessiedahir885]

English

[@Noix009]

My sister would ask her kids if they wanna use the bathroom 😂😂😂 When they’re out n they know what that means and they’d just behave 😂😂😂

[@WifeofaJer]

Let me show you the way to Jesus! In a whisper because only Jesus can save your ass now. I was out with friends and my friends brother was acting a fool. His mama smiled at all the ladies in the group and said those words to her son. I was standing right next to them and heard what she whispered. I thought um I dont even want to mess with her. One kid had kept saying to her mama I need to go to the bathroom. Her reply you didn't need to 2 minutes ago and unless you want the trots like that little boy you better behave and wait.

[@JacquiceWynnette]

Temi David 😂😂😂😂

[@moitah01]

🤣🤣that is exactly what my mama did if we were misbehaving in church.

[@motrin34]

Lol

[@RayRayManUtdFan]

Oh lol I do same 😂😂😂😂

[@Avant402]

Lord, I remember the squint. That means you need contact yo next of kin😂😂

[@SarahLizDoan]

Connie Avant ROTF....my mama, too!

[@noxmagubane9515]

I can totally relate ,my mom has successfully delivered all three

[@emmangumbela]

We don't deserve this man y'all 👏

[@motrin34]

Real talk

[@olgasa6943]

When you get that long stare! Its because she's trying to decide between the big kitchen spoon or the homemade paddle.

[@LORGSW6]

Hahaha true!

[@johnlopez3996]

What about syllable spankings? I (whack) told (whack) you (whack) to (whack) get (whack) down(whack)! My parents had a paddle that said, "To heck with psychology!"

[@rubenthompson5900]

I’d use both

[@janinecox256]

Sometimes she has to cool off before she beats you because if she does she could really hurt u!

[@noraako7250]

That clinched teeth😁🤣🤣😂.. I love u steve❤️

[@JacquiceWynnette]

Nora Ako facts

[@princessgolden]

Lol aint it

[@ef9374]

My mom balls up her eyes....from this 😑to👀....scariest stuff ever no words needed 😂

[@clarencejacksonjr.]

Steve, my mother did all of that! And it was VERY EFFECTIVE! Mama even carried a paint paddle in her pocket book in the store in case we misbehaved!

[@janinecox256]

My grandmother gave us a look!

[@jclus8156]

as asian, hanger, sandals, belt, and mosquito racket delivers the rage better than it should. Kinda universal language for us.

[@guineapigshavetakenovermyl6602]

hahahhaha yes!!!

[@thecrow9003]

Respect 4 Steve Harvey

[@LessonsInLife]

Me too

[@biancaredifer6570]

As a teacher I love the look lol....it workshop even the baddest kids. Sometimes it'll be a staring contest but I always win

[@eileenwelter90]

Y’all I am a yeller of a type of parent. We had weather to open windows and I sent a goodie bag with muffins and a letter apologizing to my neighbors “If you hear me use a crazy mama voice just know I told my family 5 times nicely first. The kids are fine. Promise.” Got a couple of text laughing but I swear I know they hear me and they too get off the darn couch.

[@margaritadoza80]

OMG so true!!!! When you get that long stare... you already know what's going to happen lol.... 🤣😂🤣😄😃

[@ferzinhaN]

You know you gotta get your act together real quick!😅

[@chrisxavier7612]

This guy is a living meme

[@namulindwapr0ssy368]

The long look was done in 90's, yelling up loud was done in early 2000 now parents whisper to their children

[@SnookOnTheFly]

And the whispers are only sweet nothings

[@myabynes546]

To me yelling or whispering does not matter. Its what you say that has the real effect.

[@elisebean1]

Get out of here

[@crystalortega2156]

elisebean1 exactly what I was thinking. That be the kids with no discipline! When u just gotta 1,2, and the kid knows that’s when u know u doing it right. Lol My daughter is 3 and I’m like 1,2 and she’s already know lol

[@laurenk.7325]

My Mom had every look and whisper, absolutely perfected! LOL 😆 Especially during Church events. Wow! I truly do miss her. ❤ There's not a single day which goes by that our beautiful and loving Mother isn't thought about or deeply missedI

[@Peter-qp2oe]

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[@Peter-qp2oe]

😅

[@Peter-qp2oe]

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[@remmy3571]

lol the little whisper when you actin out in the grocery store "oh dont worry. i got something for you at home." just knew i was about to catch an ass whooping when we got back to the house.

[@oreemmanuel]

My mother's Nigerian and in church she'd do what I call, the "silent twist" maneuver to which she would whisper in my ear and pinch and twist my side. Lord knows if shrieked from the pain, It be more trouble for me Shaped me to learn quick & fast not to act up😂😂

[@lovebunniemack]

oreemmanuel ooooo Haitians do the same thing. It is the worst! Makes you want to cry right then and there.

[@tegalicocious]

The last one.... particularly common amongst African mother... it’s called the ‘one time mention name’... all my momma had to do was say Tega!

[@priscilladavenport5791]

My mother would say your first middle and last name with the Dead Eye stare. Worked every time

[@farhanazm]

I ❤️ Steve Harvey. He’s hilarious!🤣

[@CJ_Pharaoh]

The old adage comes to mind . . . Spare the rod . . . Stay blessed Mr Hightower 🙏

[@LessonsInLife]

Engage the child where she is, while she is in that mood, and do what you can do to help her negotiate it. Do not expect from your child a level of maturity that she does not possess. You are the parent. Be the big person. 😘😘😘

[@brendahenry134]

Lessons In Life thanks I needed to hear that. Sometimes I have too many expectations for the lil ones😩 I’m learning how to be the bigger person as I am 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💪🏾

[@LessonsInLife]

@@brendahenry134 Your welcome 😘

[@blessngifted]

Also, when they "appear" calm and say...OK...that means run

[@priscilladavenport5791]

... run for your life

[@prajaktachandekar9112]

That's how Indian moms work.. omfg.I died laughing. That's the best one steve !!!💓

[@botlhalemaredi9164]

Lol. Even the silent eye-pop!

[@rozenabashir7773]

So true🤣

[@sarebear4351]

😂😂😂 best advice. My aunty told me the same a few years ago. I still yell but once i whisper they move

[@crystalfrager3828]

My sister and I experienced all of those growing up as a kid. Oh, and don't let me have to call your first name, middle name and last name or if I have to tell you a third time ... you just knew you were in deep trouble. The funny thing is we use those same methods of discipline on our kids as well...generation after generation. 😂😂😂😊 If it ain't broke don't fix it. Go with what works. 😂😂😂😊😊😊

[@krizzthekid25]

Just my opinion but there's a time and place for yelling and a time and place for whispering I whisper or talk normally the first few times I asked him to do something then after that it's time for the voice to get raise a little bit and if it is at a point of yelling somebody's ass is in trouble.

[@jasminevaliente96]

Lol oddly enough the yell usually comes first my house the whisper means I'm about to go to jail and the kids usually put up and shut up when I get to staring and whispering

[@anjusmith843]

Steeeeeeve....you are right on point

[@dmac8671]

I work with school children and they have selective hearing, sometimes you got to raise your voice not to demean them, but they literally will tune you out or act as if they can't hear you. You'll be trying to get your attention, and the more you try to get their attention the louder they get.

[@elisabeth4543]

Lmfaoooo I'm working with kids everyday and I should say I don't yell but always being pacific. Our mamas are the greatest teachers of the earth

[@elisebean1]

Pacific? Lord Jesus.

[@ReannaKennedy1]

I got the eyes and silent mouthing in church all the time😂😂

[@mysteriousdude280]

I can so relate to this, cause I can remember all of them and the beating that followed when the message was ignored

[@amyw595]

Yeah I got the look!

[@dadandadan2571]

So so so true!!!

[@shaylaahava6413]

Steve is bringing back horrific memories for some folks! Flashbacks! 😁

[@mercynasser2776]

Yeahhh Uncle Steve it’s all that

[@yankubafatheo6764]

💯correct

[@IdanActual]

My man Steve🔥

[@Jakeein]

Those are all of me with my children.

[@ImprovementisGrowth]

all classic mother moves

[@melindmccluske8109]

Powerful parenting tips steve.highly appreciated.

[@JustSheaShea]

I had to introduce my 1 yr old to the clenched teeth whisper at church Easter Sunday. I had to add a firm squeeze to his arm to add emphasis to my point but we made it through the whole service with no problems.

[@sssalsera]

I love him!!!

[@lystraalexander9783]

Lol...sure right Mr. Harvey!!! I remember my mama!! 😂😂

[@priscilladavenport5791]

My brothers and I were talking about this over Christmas. LOL. We used to call it my mother's evil eye. Act up somewhere like church or in the doctor's office and you would start crying when she looked at you because you knew what going to happen once you got home. She never open her mouth but she gave you the evil eye

[@susanndungumuriuki4897]

The long look with a squint is a personal favourite. It works all the time.

[@kimmulakshmi]

My mother had done all of these. But HONESTLY, the MOST FRIGHTENING & TERRIFYING & PETRIFYING of them all is the WHISPERING. Seriously tho!!! LORD!!! When my mum whispers, I seriously get the chills. Mothers are TERRIFYING!!!

[@allanc1894]

Experienced every one of them from my grandmother...

[@heatherparker2491]

Yes, I yell. Not to be abusive, but to get the point across. It put the fear of God into me as a child and I survived. I got my booty whipped. I survived and mine will too. I learned respect via an Agner belt lol!!

[@johannspurlockallen8743]

All it took was a LOOK for me and I was straight 😂😂😂😂😂

[@MihaelaV68]

One day I wish to see “Steve and Marjorie show”

[@deepalin2481]

this is so true

[@Ms.Haleyy]

Boy, when my dad whispered my whole spine would lock up sh*t so scary 🤣

[@NicholeLT]

Yeeeeeees Steve. Yeeeeeeeees. Omg. This is so me.

[@MZKISSESGETITRITE03]

Sooo true

[@kensakiro]

Thank you mr. H... Your description is literally my Mom's description. The best moms :)

[@tselengbotlhole750]

This was absolutely funny 🤣🤣🤣

[@renadachandler9068]

So true 😂😂😂

[@elishanewton7131]

The suit and shirt priceless

[@mellery23]

Yoo! Steve hit this one dead on! 😂😂

[@missevans626]

Behavior management strategies I’ll use in my classroom 🤗

[@SharpDesign]

1:50 Paddington knows it as a "hard stare" when people have forgotten their manners.

[@tarneemalissa2539]

True

[@untiedshoelaces2588]

The whispered threats are the most effective...Mainly because it gives the parent plausible deniability. At least that's what my childhood buddies's mother always said. She was a great lady.

[@JustLexie16]

My big sister is the one that always sets me straight. She does that deadly whisper and that silent mouthing 😂 And if anyone but my sister does the whisper I just say “cho breath stink” (even when I'm not in trouble 😂)

[@gkficker]

I used some of these in my classroom.

[@lailahlyn9428]

😂😂😂😂facts

[@MzTinkerbell]

You know you were raised by a black mama when... Yes lawd!!😝😅

[@contacterase7701]

Father's shout, mother whispers 😅😅😅😅😅

[@dannygreen9419]

BEEN THERE! HAD THAT DONE!! LOL MAMA!!

[@tonyaneal38]

They call me the whisper mom😂😂😂

[@zoesinovich6191]

Parents these days are too sensitive

[@WifeofaJer]

Yes they have people scarying them into thinking their children will be taken. I was of the mindset yeah they may come take these children, but they will see and give them back. If you are so scared you let your children be verbally, mentally and sometimes even physically abusive in a way you would never allow someone else to treat you. You need to stop and give them something, because the world will. If they act like that the world wont love them like the parent does either

[@melanieadams7891]

I'm not. I tell my about what will happen if they are disobedient to mommy and I'm 35 and. I was raised by my grandmother so I guess I'm old school

[@crystalortega2156]

Anna J 🤣🤣 u had me dying with the part “they’ll give them back” lol and the second part you wrote couldn’t have been said better. Hallelujah! Amen!

[@WifeofaJer]

@@crystalortega2156 Thank you

[@MsSHINeeTVXQSuju]

My mom doesn't squint...she stares then opens her eyes real wide and gives a death stare XD

[@derekallen7245]

I swear i just got the worst flashbacks of my life with these aha. Truly very effective

[@tashafinnprayeatlaffluv4giv]

Yep I have officially effectively done all of those

[@beatricebolger9824]

I keep silent and the children move

[@kimkimkimkimmie]

My childhood!🤷🏽‍♀️😂

[@ChasingCarson]

The squint is that “ wait til we leave here or wait til we get home look”

[@demesijohnson9221]

I have done it all...lol

[@loudaudio1865]

Lol I love to clench teeth you funny Steve Harvey God bless you brother

[@JSMFMS]

I’m thinking he knows my mom, that was her in church. When it’s bad, her line was “you just wait until I tell your dad when he gets home”. My dad was the worst with the look, or just cleaning his throat, I’d straighten up so fast!

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

😂😂😂 👌🏾👌🏾

[@looksok3327]

Yes!!! Yelling

[@davidram9511]

You go how the ocean moves,

[@donnagee4183]

Lawd if this aint the truth🤣🤚🤣

[@tinaleonie5811]

🤣👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@christophershanklin112]

😂😂Steve sound like he took some ass whoopins for the team

[@Beatit444]

Whispering used to do the trick. My kids learned fast that they dont care what I have to say

[@madgekap9196]

🤣🤣😂🤣

[@waheedahsrecipes5004]

In our house that’s NORMAL to yelling and the tightness of the teeth UNCLE STEVE THATS SO TRUE Ha Ha

[@anitamazyck8603]

👍❤️😂

[@kashstar6475]

It's hot outside🌄T-side😜

[@morganwhite2176]

The other day I saw a mother in a shop with her kid and her kid was pulling her hair and slapping her whilst she ‘used reason and logic’ with it. Stupid generation will win stupid prizes. Nothing wrong with good old fashioned discipline.

[@melanieadams7891]

I do all of those with my kids and by them being special needs on different levels they all understand me and get me and people be wondering what I'm doing to them or saying to they cause they can't hear me