The Secret to A Successful Marriage! 💍 II STEVE HARVEY

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@mrsbrownsugarsweetz
@mrsbrownsugarsweetz 2 жыл бұрын
My husband and I have been together for 14 yrs and we don’t argue. We always discuss everything. If he makes me mad I pray about it then talk to him.
@flowforever9084
@flowforever9084 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome 👌
@aisha2luv464
@aisha2luv464 2 жыл бұрын
Yes prayer always change the other person for the better
@estherwayua3210
@estherwayua3210 2 жыл бұрын
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@Abbyszedkitchen
@Abbyszedkitchen 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾
@awalker3636
@awalker3636 2 жыл бұрын
Wow… that takes discipline
@johnsonfamilyvidsvlogs3745
@johnsonfamilyvidsvlogs3745 2 жыл бұрын
My hubby and I will be married 34 years next month. It hasn't always been perfect but it's pretty darn close. Putting Jesus first is our Great help 🙏.
@joanfrancois9942
@joanfrancois9942 2 жыл бұрын
The secret is plenty money and wealth
@justice7268
@justice7268 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus first always! Amen 🙏
@BellaKayeLLard
@BellaKayeLLard 2 жыл бұрын
Glory Hallelujah 🙌🏽
@CharCharJars
@CharCharJars 2 жыл бұрын
Come on Somebody!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!
@duffy898
@duffy898 2 жыл бұрын
@J C Looking it up now! Thanks!
@face2faceyouth
@face2faceyouth 2 жыл бұрын
This video should be mandatory for all couples to watch before marriage. Great video. 20 years here!
@isabellajones7644
@isabellajones7644 2 жыл бұрын
Hi marcus
@estherwayua3210
@estherwayua3210 2 жыл бұрын
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@ahanachauhan1210
@ahanachauhan1210 Жыл бұрын
Very good Bro !! Go on , respect for your personality
@drcyume
@drcyume Жыл бұрын
One thing that is clear from here is that successful marriages are of two people genuinely ready and committed to making it work.
@caisey27
@caisey27 2 жыл бұрын
Saying what you want,no secrets,no agendas and never going to bed mad at each other 👌🏾 great lessons.
@estherwayua3210
@estherwayua3210 2 жыл бұрын
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@kossynifemigold
@kossynifemigold 2 жыл бұрын
That never going to bed mad, that number one thing people should emulate.God it what I say to my self I will do with Help of God. The thing is that we can forgive but we cant forget that's just the truth but whenever we remember the past we just smile.
@ahanachauhan1210
@ahanachauhan1210 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely, true
@mariafriedly
@mariafriedly Жыл бұрын
And it seems so impossible to execute! Some spouse like to maintain the anger for months over any small detail. And that is a killer of the relationship. One month later you don’t even remember what was the topic you were fighting over! But the love is permanently damage for the long duration of the anger
@MyWayWendy
@MyWayWendy 2 жыл бұрын
"A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person" : Mignon McLaughlin..
@alaaal-torabi2982
@alaaal-torabi2982 2 жыл бұрын
I never knew that a successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with Ella. WTH
@estherwayua3210
@estherwayua3210 2 жыл бұрын
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@daphneclarke8694
@daphneclarke8694 2 жыл бұрын
My husband and I celebrated 61 years anniversary wasn't perfect had some real trying times but thank God for his goodness and his grace that kept us
@LEWASTREAT
@LEWASTREAT 2 жыл бұрын
Wow... 61years in marriage... That's really awesome... I celebrate you both sir/ma
@ST4
@ST4 Жыл бұрын
Glory to GOD. May GOD continue to Bless you and your marriage 🙏🏾
@giftoma
@giftoma Жыл бұрын
Wow. Congratulation
@namtrader9674
@namtrader9674 Жыл бұрын
Amazing!!
@larryqueen
@larryqueen Жыл бұрын
Woowwwwww
@sweetov5
@sweetov5 2 жыл бұрын
Biggest mistake people make BEFORE getting married... not spending enough time alone to figure out who you are. Have your own likes and dislikes. You need to be happy on your own. You do not need another person all the time to be happy. Some people get married and are way too clingy. We all need space... especially in a marriage. Stay busy ladies... let that man miss you. If he needs you all the time and doesnt allow you to have time time yourself that's a red flag of someone who is possesive.
@intentionalgreatness
@intentionalgreatness 2 жыл бұрын
Yes let him miss you and enjoy your own "me time". I say that all the time!
@OneWomanMan888
@OneWomanMan888 2 жыл бұрын
This is a good tropic to discuss, the biggest mistake Steve Harvey make was whenever he sees a red flag he just ignored it.
@OneWomanMan888
@OneWomanMan888 2 жыл бұрын
Not a good idea, I'm a man, I will find someone else to spend time with me.
@OneWomanMan888
@OneWomanMan888 2 жыл бұрын
My advice for you would be "stay single" if you want to spend time alone.
@michelle-zd2nc
@michelle-zd2nc 2 жыл бұрын
@@OneWomanMan888 I think she just means you don't have to be together every minute. If your partner is away ex: work, out of town or where ever, then you will be ok until they return.
@blessingmunyaradzi1552
@blessingmunyaradzi1552 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not yet in marriage but lm taking advantage of this platform to learn and prepare myself to be a better husband..thumbs up..NO to lies,be truthful and currently working on anger issues .
@ahz6907
@ahz6907 2 жыл бұрын
Goodluck
@nawezajossardprosper8785
@nawezajossardprosper8785 2 жыл бұрын
Me too mate
@malehlohonolo8463
@malehlohonolo8463 2 жыл бұрын
Nice
@Celebstea___
@Celebstea___ 2 жыл бұрын
Goodluck
@xKouture
@xKouture 2 жыл бұрын
Best of luck to you
@raqi3425
@raqi3425 2 жыл бұрын
There is no secret. You must keep GOD in your marriage and let HIM lead, guide and direct your marriage. #33years
@hotmail906
@hotmail906 2 жыл бұрын
If only Jesus guides and leads ur couple , you ,you will do what ? 😂😂 u will stay there doing nothing? Hhhhhh
@serious7179
@serious7179 Жыл бұрын
And that right there is the secret to happiness into a great marriage. God has to be part of your marriage.
@Fatma.bella31
@Fatma.bella31 2 жыл бұрын
" Everybody you attracted to you aint compatible with. Cause it look good to you, don't mean it's going be good to you." Love this.
@pocahontas6381
@pocahontas6381 Жыл бұрын
🙁. I know but that ones I’m not attracted too usual be okay guys but the problem is I’m not physically attracted to them 😟
@KelzBernard
@KelzBernard 2 жыл бұрын
Me and my wife are newlyweds. Whoever reads this comment, could you please pray for me (Kelsey-Bernard) that I am a Godly husband to my wife. I desire to display the love of God to her and be an example of His love to those who witness our marriage. I want to make it to the 20, 30, 40, 50+ years.
@Carol_shirley
@Carol_shirley Жыл бұрын
I declare in the name of Jesus Christ you are and will continually be a good husband throughout your marriage . Follow the guidance of the Holy Spirit and it shall be well with your marriage.
@KelzBernard
@KelzBernard Жыл бұрын
@@Carol_shirley Thank you sister! ❤️🙏🏽 ❤️
@levernedujon6609
@levernedujon6609 Жыл бұрын
Praying for you bro
@maputakamulete2276
@maputakamulete2276 Жыл бұрын
All best. You will make it
@camillejames4900
@camillejames4900 Жыл бұрын
May God bless you rooting for your blessing
@RealUgochukwu_Obioha
@RealUgochukwu_Obioha 2 жыл бұрын
The biggest note I'm taking away is "everyone you're attracted to, you're not compatible with" 🔥
@n.m6249
@n.m6249 2 жыл бұрын
That hit me deep as well
@blomobloom9639
@blomobloom9639 2 жыл бұрын
True
@teresagreene9679
@teresagreene9679 Жыл бұрын
Agree
@jwh648
@jwh648 Жыл бұрын
Real talk
@mariafriedly
@mariafriedly Жыл бұрын
Once you are married it doesn’t matter anymore if you are compatible or not. You are married and you need to make it work
@jessyjonas4988
@jessyjonas4988 2 жыл бұрын
Before you get married Put everything on the table No secrets First talk about Faith Let me hear what you believe about God Talk about money Talk about family Talk about everything NO SECRETS NO BIG BLOW UP
@Omooba-1004
@Omooba-1004 2 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm. I have had uncountable talks! All positive responses, with attitude that are completely opposite 4 months down... I have learnt to keep my mouth shut, eyes and ears open... Pay attention to the actions, talk is cheap 💯
@jessyjonas4988
@jessyjonas4988 2 жыл бұрын
@@Omooba-1004 pay attention to the action talk is cheap 💯
@msgailz01
@msgailz01 2 жыл бұрын
100% agree
@lisaingram785
@lisaingram785 2 жыл бұрын
Love the no secrets, no lies, communication, willingness to compromise, having a mindset of serving, loyalty, respect, appreciating one another, always be teachable and so on and so forth
@estherwayua3210
@estherwayua3210 2 жыл бұрын
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@thisiswhoiam102
@thisiswhoiam102 2 жыл бұрын
I always say dating is a "job interview," engagement is the "training", and marriage is the "JOB"
@lillianndinda8046
@lillianndinda8046 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯 💯
@tamarsharogers-brisibe4511
@tamarsharogers-brisibe4511 2 жыл бұрын
I like this
@horlenesmith7904
@horlenesmith7904 2 жыл бұрын
That's so true 👍
@lilianrwegayula9950
@lilianrwegayula9950 2 жыл бұрын
Sure
@fasikademelash4638
@fasikademelash4638 2 жыл бұрын
And divorce is getting fired 😅
@KamisKisses
@KamisKisses 2 жыл бұрын
We made a promise never to give up on each other. We had so many changes in the 1st year of marriage including undiagnosed health problems. Our rules: always respect each other, there is no topic off limits, be gentle and intentional with feedback, always give each other space to settle down before discussing the issues and most importantly we check in with each other everyday because it's the little things that can breed resentment. Be honest and choose to be adults and not maliciously petty
@estherwayua3210
@estherwayua3210 2 жыл бұрын
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@eboniclarke177
@eboniclarke177 2 жыл бұрын
I ask my husband questions that would normally cause arguments and we discuss them honestly. No attitude, no feelings, just an objective honest discussion.
@Mamabear_of2
@Mamabear_of2 2 жыл бұрын
My husband and I have been together for about 15 years and married for 10. We just went to the court house and got married. We both knew we wanted to be together and knew we wanted to be life long partners. We still had obstacles to over come and lots of learning of one another. I used to always have an issue talking to him, and I used too always hold onto things. We would start a fight and all of a sudden I’m still mad about something from months or a year ago. We had to both learn how to grow and to let things go! Today we have two beautiful kids, and we are stronger than ever! We are one another’s best friends!
@estherwayua3210
@estherwayua3210 2 жыл бұрын
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@safiyyahsulaiman97
@safiyyahsulaiman97 Жыл бұрын
That's really beautiful, that's how you learn and grow as a couple.
@ahanachauhan1210
@ahanachauhan1210 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful!!! RESPECT mam
@reubenanthony5479
@reubenanthony5479 Жыл бұрын
Being best friends before getting married helps to reduce the misunderstanding and issues one will face in marriage. Being friends will always birth understanding, trust and will help you let go of things or issues that may want to pop up in the nearest future. You made a good decision to become besties ma'am. God bless your home.
@rvail136
@rvail136 Жыл бұрын
I like about how these couples don't talk over one another... Even if they sound like they're going interrupt...they do it politely.
@starfireprincess
@starfireprincess 11 ай бұрын
Because cameras
@rebeccacasey9419
@rebeccacasey9419 Жыл бұрын
I love my family or was my family before my divorce but it's okay, I will be fine . Am going through early stages of divorce right now, but I will try and be myself
@alvarezvanessa2248
@alvarezvanessa2248 Жыл бұрын
Be strong my Love it's ain't easy trust me I've been there and what helped me was my intuition and I acted aright. Made some connections with people with value and one was exceptional, she open my eyes her name is *Kara Daly Sherman* cheer up ❤️
@rebeccacasey9419
@rebeccacasey9419 Жыл бұрын
@@alvarezvanessa2248 Thanks so much ❤️ this is comforting, although I got a good share of money but I don't know exactly what I should do, I am actually a mother of 2 ATM and I love them so much and want the best for my kids, and I will love to get in contact with your comforter too Kara, how can I?
@grachirussel1805
@grachirussel1805 Жыл бұрын
@@rebeccacasey9419 is that how bad he treated you? What happened what did you do to him in the first place but still so sorry 😐
@alvarezvanessa2248
@alvarezvanessa2248 Жыл бұрын
@@rebeccacasey9419 Yes sure Kara can be more than a friend, you can chat her up Anything you wanna know about family, investment and advice she is definitely the one Bunny 🐰. Just say hi on
@alvarezvanessa2248
@alvarezvanessa2248 Жыл бұрын
*Instagram*
@cassieblack1776
@cassieblack1776 2 жыл бұрын
I just got married at 33 . We have known each other sense I was 13 . We dated And he proposed and I said no the first time. We split and now we’re together and married. Communication is everything! Honestly.
@Taylorand
@Taylorand Жыл бұрын
Oh I understand
@DarrellGrainger
@DarrellGrainger 2 жыл бұрын
I've had a few girlfriends and married once. I wasn't completely honest when we started dating. I wanted to be the best person I could. After decades of failed relationships and a divorce I realized I should be my authentic self. I start off slow and let my date see the good side. But after a few dates, when I decide to be exclusive, I start letting her know the bad side. Now I just tell her things that come to mind. Sometimes it is something most people like. Sometimes it is something most people dislike. But if she doesn't like the honest, authentic me then i want to know before we get married. I want her to do the same for me. If I feel she is hiding anything and she isn't okay with telling me and losing me then I'd leave her.
@MyVlogTherapy
@MyVlogTherapy 2 жыл бұрын
Just curious why you don’t tell the bad side while dating, instead of waiting until your exclusive? Seems its best to be 💯 real from jump.
@DarrellGrainger
@DarrellGrainger 2 жыл бұрын
@@MyVlogTherapy I don't want to scare someone off with all negative at first. I usually want to have 3 to 4 dates before I want to start talking about my negatives. I suspect my timeline is different from most people. I will have maybe 4 dates before being exclusive. Within usually 1 or 2 dates I can see reasons I don't want to date someone. If I can't see any reason to stop dating you after 3 or 4 dates then I'll give you 100% of my focus and stop dating anyone else, i.e. exclusive. So for me, we go on 1 or 2 dates. If either of us see red flags, we part ways. If we seem compatible, we might go on 1 or 2 more dates. At this point, I will be exclusive with her. We will then get to know everything about each other. It might take months but during that time, if I really like you and see nothing I can't live with, we keep dating. Essentially, I like to focus on one person at a time. I know most people like to date multiple people but I don't. If we've had a few dates and I think there is potential, I work on us and stay exclusive. Until there is a deal breaker, I do not date anyone else. And if there is a deal breaker, I let you know and we agree to go our separate ways.
@zraj3433
@zraj3433 2 жыл бұрын
Do you work on your bad sides/ red flags/negatives? Why would you not want to improve yourself?
@DarrellGrainger
@DarrellGrainger 2 жыл бұрын
@@zraj3433 I do work on my red flags. I agree with you that you always want to improve yourself. I am constantly working on my financial, mental and physical health. I didn't word things correctly. When I said "red flags" it included things that another person might see as a red flag but that is not a red flag for me. Different people will have different values. I prefer to be on time or early for important events. If you hate this about me and feel it is fine to be fashionably late, this would be a red flag to me. There are probably hundreds of little things which could expose values I disagree with. The big ones like politics, religion, kids, family, money, etc. should be talked about right away. Essentially, I will tell a woman I'm dating my core values right away. I actually put my core value in my online dating profile so women won't swipe right on me. Bottom line, if a red flag for you might be normal for me. In that case, I'm not going to change. If it is something which is preventing me from loving myself then I'm going to work on it.
@isabellajones7644
@isabellajones7644 2 жыл бұрын
Hi darrell
@xKouture
@xKouture 2 жыл бұрын
Watching this after going through a breakup hurts💔💔 . These couples look really happy I hope they continue to prosper ❤️
@ayeeshahm9078
@ayeeshahm9078 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry about that. I pray you heal and find your forever person
@xKouture
@xKouture 2 жыл бұрын
@@ayeeshahm9078 thank you so much ❤️
@zikhonagaleni3818
@zikhonagaleni3818 2 жыл бұрын
@@ayeeshahm9078 Girrrrl, I'm with you, but our men will find us, don't worry. 💕
@trynatural23
@trynatural23 Жыл бұрын
Don’t allow the pain to dwell. Use this as a manifestation tool to design the life/love you desire❤
@thegracefullwoman9725
@thegracefullwoman9725 Жыл бұрын
God bless you and heal your heart
@ismailmaeen8111
@ismailmaeen8111 2 жыл бұрын
These couples are giving some treasure advice... One of the best honestly ❤️❤️
@Jsarmy87124
@Jsarmy87124 2 жыл бұрын
it's not gonna work for evrybody though because after many years of crap they understand by themselves
@ismailmaeen8111
@ismailmaeen8111 2 жыл бұрын
@@Jsarmy87124 If they understood that late they wouldn't have been together for 40+ or even 20+ ... Strong fundamental means strong building
@OneWomanMan888
@OneWomanMan888 2 жыл бұрын
There's always ups and downs in a marriage, they're only telling the good part.😂
@ismailmaeen8111
@ismailmaeen8111 2 жыл бұрын
@@OneWomanMan888 Of course they are and as long as you are picking up the good base of it you can at least try to use it and it may workout... doing is so different from just talking
@OneWomanMan888
@OneWomanMan888 2 жыл бұрын
How about telling your spouse, sorry 😔 "I slept with who and who" Don't ever tell this to your spouse.
@PRJohn-mz1je
@PRJohn-mz1je 2 жыл бұрын
For a long lasting marriage...it's all about Trust, understanding, Love, loyalty and communication. Once you have these all will be ok. Was married for 37 yrs till death do us part. I'm a widow now at the age of 59...my beloved husband my best friend passed away 4 years ago of diabetic complications...I missed him dearly 😭💔.
@johnsonjay1159
@johnsonjay1159 2 жыл бұрын
Be strong, he is always with you
@ceceliadiaz8989
@ceceliadiaz8989 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your loss, you all will always be joined together spiritually 🙏❤
@jabulanisena6288
@jabulanisena6288 2 жыл бұрын
"Alot of people say I do but what they really mean is I will try"and when they are hit with the reality they backoff
@gilbertmuthoka
@gilbertmuthoka 2 жыл бұрын
This is so awesome. The show should be casted in all TV stations. Thanks Steve. Watching all the way from Kenya 🇰🇪.
@lillianndinda8046
@lillianndinda8046 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome mwana a mwaitu
@jasmainjasmain2906
@jasmainjasmain2906 2 жыл бұрын
My biggest mistake was marrying after only 3 mths of knowing the person... highly recommend waiting at least a yr seeing the person is in all aspects of his/her life along with premarital counseling to learn conflict resolution skills. And discuss things that matters to you... kids, religion, finances (current debts, expectations, and how it will be jointly managed). Also do a background chk... later found out my ex (stbxh) also went to jail for domestic violence before me and that info wouldn't saved me... life goes on... may your journey end in happiness.
@blubberbooty
@blubberbooty 2 жыл бұрын
My wife and have been married 36 years! We got married in Hawaii (we live in Ohio) then we went back 30 years later for our 30th anniversary. That was 6 years ago! My tip is, if your wife leaves you, go with her!
@diananyawanda1950
@diananyawanda1950 Жыл бұрын
Sounds funny but true. Till death do us part.
@thomasagorhom1139
@thomasagorhom1139 Жыл бұрын
Does it not matter where she leaves to? ....lol
@blubberbooty
@blubberbooty Жыл бұрын
@@thomasagorhom1139 ha! No! And if she moves in with another man, you sleep on the couch! LOL!
@jennaburg5177
@jennaburg5177 2 ай бұрын
Toby Keiths song !!!!! “Go with her” !!!
@divinesaladsbysm
@divinesaladsbysm Жыл бұрын
I have struggled in my marriage for six years going to seven. As I write this, I am in my daughter's room following a difficult two days. Please pray for me if you are reading this 🙏
@ladonnaconner4700
@ladonnaconner4700 3 ай бұрын
Stay in silent and ask HIM , what shall I do Lord
@kameroncarr5878
@kameroncarr5878 2 жыл бұрын
All the comments are so helpful, my mind is not in a good place right now as I was just told from my wife that she wants a separation..if you all could pray for my marriage
@isabellajones7644
@isabellajones7644 Жыл бұрын
It's definitely gonna be fine.....
@isabellajones7644
@isabellajones7644 Жыл бұрын
Stay strong.. life got alot of great stuff
@neliamagumula2911
@neliamagumula2911 Жыл бұрын
Are u guys ok
@ladonnaconner4700
@ladonnaconner4700 3 ай бұрын
Talk, ask questions. Was it a discussion before, and the same issues are still there
@shawanamrhodes
@shawanamrhodes 2 жыл бұрын
I love the older couple. Wisdom speaking... Good advice from the other couples, as well.
@mercy_c7526
@mercy_c7526 2 жыл бұрын
Everything is so true. Wish everyone watching this learns something. I'm just grateful i have watched this clip, so phenomenal. ❤️❤️
@zoefornoff8884
@zoefornoff8884 Жыл бұрын
I would recommend taking the same time you spend planning your wedding day, which often amounts to many months of preparation, to planning your actual marriage. I have been with my husband for almost 20 years now and those questions of where to live, how many kids, which denomination to follow, finances, buying a house or not, career planning and so on and so forth are crucial. As are rules of communication, how to spend your spare time, how to deal with your in-laws etc. etc. Unfortunately, many young brides devote their time mainly to picking out the wedding dress and the cake and many young grooms cannot be bothered - they are forgiven, but I strongly believe this should be practised going into the biggest deal of your lives. Many people who get married for a second time will then take these matters much more seriously as those above mentioned issues, if not addressed prior and left unresolved, may have led to marriage breakups.
@victorkolo5142
@victorkolo5142 2 жыл бұрын
When you're dating you're dating that person's representative; when you get married you marry that person real self...
@jackie1540
@jackie1540 2 жыл бұрын
When I got married, the representative was so far from the real self; I had to get out of there fast, sad but true.
@abdul-rahmansudaismohammed3699
@abdul-rahmansudaismohammed3699 Жыл бұрын
Wow, I just forward a link to my girlfriend to watch the video. We share a lot together and I believe this piece of saying from the marriage moguls is going to strengthen our relationship and marriage life. In Sha Allah.
@sisds
@sisds 2 жыл бұрын
I think it’s important not to too attached to the person you are dating cos it makes harder to leave him/her when you see the red flags. You tend to justify and rationalise those points.
@OneWomanMan888
@OneWomanMan888 2 жыл бұрын
Then what's the point of dating?
@zhamasworld3084
@zhamasworld3084 2 жыл бұрын
So very true, cause I use to do it as well.
@sisds
@sisds 2 жыл бұрын
@@OneWomanMan888 It means get to know each other. It doesn’t have to end in a commitment if you realise he/she is not the one for you. Becoming emotionally attached to the other make things overlook. Either you won’t see the red flags or you rationalise them.
@OneWomanMan888
@OneWomanMan888 2 жыл бұрын
@@sisds So you're not serious from the beginning.
@sisds
@sisds 2 жыл бұрын
@@OneWomanMan888 I’m serious in finding out he’s the right one but I need to have room to fall out in case I have to. I did the opposite and got married to him but I couldn’t take it anymore when he started controlling me, trying to isolate me from my family and try to manipulate me to have access to my finances. I later realised I saw the red flags before marriage but I ignored them. I’ve learnt the lesson hard way. I won’t let my heart totally fall in to the person until I feel I’m safe and comfortable. Every mistake is a lesson learned.
@a_83567
@a_83567 2 жыл бұрын
This video was perfect timing. I was watching a video about someone that is getting ready to be proposed to and she was saying she hasn’t fully told her partner how much she makes because she’s scared he’ll be insecure and I think that woman needs to see this video. How can you marry someone without telling them all the things that will be crucial to the marriage?
@xoxo_sis
@xoxo_sis 7 ай бұрын
I'm 25 years old and I been married to my wonderful husband for 6 years and we been apart of each other's lives since I was 14. I pray we stay married happily for our entire life. So far doing very well and still happy as ever. We practice not having pride in marriage. I pray we both continue learning about one another everyday. ❤❤❤❤ hope yall have a great life 💐
@alaaal-torabi2982
@alaaal-torabi2982 2 жыл бұрын
I want a successful marriage 😌 I came here after i find the successful marriage. I saw that i am a famous. 😻
@darbazali1321
@darbazali1321 2 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@OneWomanMan888
@OneWomanMan888 2 жыл бұрын
Tell them who you slept with in the past 🤣
@lillianndinda8046
@lillianndinda8046 2 жыл бұрын
Me too,I want a successful marriege
@laurenkidd1102
@laurenkidd1102 2 жыл бұрын
I pray you find it someday.
@oneilfarquharson-ifearthel3253
@oneilfarquharson-ifearthel3253 2 жыл бұрын
Me too....because I dont believe in divorce at all...I believe in forever until I die....
@eulal8809
@eulal8809 Жыл бұрын
I strongly agree that couples must watch this before marriage and married must watch this to resolve conflicts. Very helpful video ❤️❤️❤️
@elizabethabimbola4719
@elizabethabimbola4719 2 жыл бұрын
Steve thanks alot for this. Thanks to the amazing couples you brought on the show.
@diniadem7852
@diniadem7852 Жыл бұрын
Wow steve please take more time in these program that gone helps the whole world please I just really love it
@DavidMalcolm-nm2gf
@DavidMalcolm-nm2gf Жыл бұрын
I was just going Thru the website hoping to meet someone nice and I came across your profile and I decided to say Hi
@andrewr.2114
@andrewr.2114 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Mr. Harvey I just want to say thank you. Thank you for all these years of laughs advice and every thing. This past week I have been sick as a bastard your show is the only thing that I enjoy watching. So thank you Mr. Harvey have a wonderful day sir.
@isabellajones7644
@isabellajones7644 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Jimmy
@isabellajones7644
@isabellajones7644 2 жыл бұрын
Would love to be your friend
@francessregione5111
@francessregione5111 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU. I'm not married yet and all the advice given here are helpful. I know now what I need to do when my time comes. BTW, love your shows.
@uchennachibueze6772
@uchennachibueze6772 2 жыл бұрын
Hello pretty lady you look stunning I must confess... I feel lucky running into a beautiful angel such as yourself on here ☺ 😘 and please forgive me if I bumped into your privacy, I just couldn't help it cos your beauty is so charming ☺🌹💋😘😍
@michelleyota7899
@michelleyota7899 2 жыл бұрын
Last week I decided not to kiss my husband goodbye and wish him a wonderful day like I usually do. I woke up mad at him because I felt ignored on the bed; I didn't get to sleep in his arms or make love to him like I wanted to because he was tired and slept off. He went to bed early and didn't even kiss me good night so I told myself if he doesn't want to kiss me at night, why should I kiss him in the morning? Sounds silly right? He tried to kiss me but I avoided it and he said: "What's wrong baby? Don't you know that I may leave and not come back? This may be the last time you're seeing me you know." I felt so bad and ran to him outside and kissed him passionately. Never leave angry or with an unresolved problem. This is a very interesting video. I love everything they said.
@ezarra6347
@ezarra6347 2 жыл бұрын
A good marriage long last when the couple lives as a friend each other....
@pawannatak7909
@pawannatak7909 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Steve, thank you so much for the beautiful experiences, I'll make every single day my best day. I'm engaged 💍 ☺️
@beautifulbutterfly2046
@beautifulbutterfly2046 Жыл бұрын
My husband was a good man but couldn’t control his tongue when he got angry. What broke our marriage was when he said ‘you are a woman who can not satisfy a man’. That was the end. We got separated after 12 years of marriage and then I went for a divorce. I could never forgive those words until he passed away…. All men should know that ‘happy wife is happy life’.
@thomasagorhom1139
@thomasagorhom1139 Жыл бұрын
Happy wife is not always happy life ma'am! I think society forgets that a lot of wives are happy with that saying while their husbands are going through hell emotionally. How about we try the other way and happy husband happy life and then find a common ground to exist. If most men in marriage want to take the demeaning words their wives use on them, a lot, and I mean a lot of marriages would be gone. Marriage is about two imperfect human beings with flaws committing to live together in forgiveness and falling in love everyday of their lives. No one is and will ever be perfect.
@oliverjoel5901
@oliverjoel5901 Жыл бұрын
I believe you ALSO do offend God almighty and ask for forgiveness?
@kalom6133
@kalom6133 Жыл бұрын
You have forgiveness issues
@nunuflower5915
@nunuflower5915 Жыл бұрын
i have had enough words shared by my husband were now we are so toxic eachother,we call eachother words that after the argument am extremely exhausted and i honestly dont know why am even still here,am scared what society will say and my baby to grow without her father😩,i can feel am losing myself
@crystalnelson1775
@crystalnelson1775 2 жыл бұрын
Putting God 1st in every thing you serving, praying and work together as a team and team is about 2 or more person or people working together allowing God to guides us froward with him covering in your union and business with blessings . Without God None of us would be successful and be living in and on this world 🌍
@soar1091
@soar1091 2 жыл бұрын
Great show. Biggest point that stood out.. "alot of ppl say I Do but mean I'll try"
@gracewangare8966
@gracewangare8966 Жыл бұрын
This has taught me conflicts are normal in a relationship it's how you handle it with love 🥰
@misskaykayRSA
@misskaykayRSA 2 жыл бұрын
Caprice is very talkative 😂😂😂.. she’s so beautiful though
@Tinytots1426
@Tinytots1426 2 жыл бұрын
The one thing we have to keep remembering is both are on the same team not in the opposite team that clears half of the problem..and to keep ur spouse as priority.. because whether it's a successful life or shaky life that person is the first person to deal with it
@Tinytots1426
@Tinytots1426 Жыл бұрын
@Steve Harvey 🙏🙏🙏 my pleasure sir.. It's an wonderful idea.. Love to.. We enjoy every episode of ur shows...
@msgailz01
@msgailz01 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Steve Harvey for this show. I was married for 25 years and it didn't work out. However, I'm thankful for the more wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Sometimes we have to work on ourselves in order to be ready for a successful relationship. Steve I love seeing you and Marjorie together (great couple) and you make it known that you love your wife and the great thing about it she loves ❤️ you back. Communication is an important part of any relationship and when you have friends of the opposite sex (some same sex) the wife and husband should make it known that how much you love each other. Steve you just so down to earth. Pray that God keeps elevating you and your family in every area of your lives. God Bless - Wanda
@g_mason8867
@g_mason8867 Жыл бұрын
If you don’t mine me asking, what happened after 25 yrs that changed?
@morgan_dominik7
@morgan_dominik7 Жыл бұрын
Hello Gail, how are you doing today, I hope you had a pleasant day?
@sissykuey917
@sissykuey917 2 жыл бұрын
I have watched this video soo many times and nothing else comes close to it. ❤️❤️
@uchennachibueze6772
@uchennachibueze6772 2 жыл бұрын
Hello pretty lady you look stunning I must confess... I feel lucky running into a beautiful angel such as yourself on here ☺ 😘 and please forgive me if I bumped into your privacy, I just couldn't help it cos your beauty is so charming ☺🌹💋😘😍
@robbyefulghum2038
@robbyefulghum2038 2 жыл бұрын
This segment was so good...thanks to Steve Harvey and the four amazing couples...👍🏽
@ShortCakeBrat2422
@ShortCakeBrat2422 2 жыл бұрын
It’s the dishwasher argument for me. 🤣 it’s my way and it’s the right way. I can teach you! Lmao
@patriciagurwitz509
@patriciagurwitz509 Ай бұрын
Hope newlyweds are watching… there’s some great advice here that works❤️👍🏼Wish I would have known in my younger days.
@SteveMK
@SteveMK 2 жыл бұрын
This is a heavy duty talk. Just in time.
@benjaminbenjamin8219
@benjaminbenjamin8219 Жыл бұрын
One of the best videos I've ever watched on YT. So helpful.
@mickeylove5897
@mickeylove5897 2 жыл бұрын
All I am hearing is communication, respectfully, n disagree respectfully❤
@MsJPrecious
@MsJPrecious 2 жыл бұрын
Great points here. But realistically, there will be some things you dont forget even though you have chosen to forgive and continue to love that person.... the healing of what they did will take time and that person needs to understand and act accordingly.
@teresakelton8286
@teresakelton8286 2 жыл бұрын
We do that my husband and I. We have been married 20 years.
@thomsonsmith4815
@thomsonsmith4815 2 жыл бұрын
How are you doing?
@America-s1z
@America-s1z 5 күн бұрын
My mom and dad were married 43 yrs before he died as he was 16yrs her senior and they never ever argued. When you can find love like that it's priceless and for her it was forever because she still gets interested in my father's family in Cuba and hopes to meet them one day, and etc.
@stephie7015
@stephie7015 2 жыл бұрын
Well, people bring up the past when the issues from the past are still unresolved and haunting.
@abdosaid2222
@abdosaid2222 2 жыл бұрын
Steve this is a very good topic. This type of discussion about maraage is not only good for American but all over the world. Steve thanks for bringing this topic.
@augustayarteh633
@augustayarteh633 2 жыл бұрын
Mr. Harvey you are so dynamic to your personalities. That teaching is for some of us to work on it. The young lady in the red ♥️ said the right thing . In their relationship they don't bring up old talked in their arguments. In any relationships couples don't need to bring old stuff that have past. I personally don't go over a spill milk. The milk that has been spill it has alreadyspill When lover discover this true they will not have any problems in their relationship. Don that advice is some how hard to tell your partners about the man or woman that they slept with, that one is not easy to confessed to your partners. It takes the grace of God to relate it to each other. Mr. Karen said it takes the grace of God for the will of God to be done in their martial home. Nice story discussion. Mr. Harvey to married to the wrong person is like lifting burdens on your head. Some partners sounds so negative to each other. Some are positive that you will ever remain to live your life for them. Nice discussion show
@AdekunleLawal
@AdekunleLawal 2 жыл бұрын
This better to watch that all the modern day garbage that makes Marriage look awful. You get what you focus on. Thanks to all the lovely couples. ❤
@lisatutler-jones5992
@lisatutler-jones5992 2 жыл бұрын
"You get what you focus on" 🙌🏾 Indeed!!
@temitopeadun
@temitopeadun Жыл бұрын
"Everyone attracted to you are not compatible with u" "BCS they look good to you doesn't mean they will be good to you " 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@jessyjonas4988
@jessyjonas4988 2 жыл бұрын
Being friends Being your authentic self
@pr_gucci3604
@pr_gucci3604 2 жыл бұрын
Yes Sir, you hit the nail right on its head. I do just the same but most people think I am an idiot. But this makes me happy. Avoid conflicts are the best idea if you are looking for life longdivity and happiness.
@TheChande
@TheChande 2 жыл бұрын
Very good advise. Thanks. I’ve been married for a year now, i needed this
@annieportier3584
@annieportier3584 Жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this segment. Very informative!
@georgekiilu
@georgekiilu Жыл бұрын
"The best thing about arguing is that we make up".. That's some beautiful stuff that I agree with right there
@rosej5029
@rosej5029 2 жыл бұрын
Another mistake is not looking at each other's credit report before marriage to how each other handles money
@OneWomanMan888
@OneWomanMan888 2 жыл бұрын
Or talking about who and who you slept with.
@TatiMoty-bj1wh
@TatiMoty-bj1wh 2 ай бұрын
I've been married for 45 yrs. Its been a very rocky ride, i learned to shut my mouth, no opinion no input in any issue.
@pr_gucci3604
@pr_gucci3604 2 жыл бұрын
Steve this is the most important and beneficiary show you could ever have on this internet. I thought that my ideas was not working. But it makes me happy and my friends think I am an idiot. I hate confrontations. So I chose to negotiate and discuss an amicable fashion. No I do not put up with it I preferred to discuss and negotiate. Been a bully in any relationship is considered a big mistake.
@chana1692
@chana1692 Жыл бұрын
Awesome wisdom from all of the couples! Thank you uncle, Steve, and all.
@rebonemonareng4201
@rebonemonareng4201 Жыл бұрын
So much wisdom but can I ask for an advice my partner and I have been together more than six years,he has a daughter my stepdaughter,he wants to marry but I feel I do not want to because he doesn't communicate with me when he does things for his daughter like when she comes for holidays and some finances he used I always get a suprise,I just feel he sideline me ,it's like hey the child is mine stay away.the daughter is very disrespectful towards me,she will pass me without greeting,get in our room also with asking,when she is asked by her dad about the behavior she will say she didn't see me knowing very well that she did see me,so when I talk to my partner he respond by saying he didn't see her doing those things but I mean she won't do those things round her dad so I just feel like no to his proposal I do not want to be with someone who is always taking his child side,he doesn't discipline or punish her a whole 15 year old but he keeps saying she is a child and I must be patient with her.
@houseofheart
@houseofheart 2 жыл бұрын
They said: Quote: "Everybody you are attracted to, you are not necessarily compatible with... or able to live with" (and get along) Thanks for sharing wisdom. ❤
@scrappycoco7843
@scrappycoco7843 2 жыл бұрын
If she is hot enough I'll make it work damnit.
@mytriton54
@mytriton54 2 жыл бұрын
This is a GREAT video!!! People should heed ALL of this advice.
@carlettethomas5252
@carlettethomas5252 2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely awesome 💯. Thanks for sharing this episode. Very helpful and inspiring ✨ love this ❤❤❤❤
@debbiedean3165
@debbiedean3165 Жыл бұрын
This was wonderful, such happy marriages and wise advice. 🥰 Thanks Steve, I love these shows
@DavidMalcolm-nm2gf
@DavidMalcolm-nm2gf Жыл бұрын
I was just going Thru the website hoping to meet someone nice and I came across your profile and I decided to say Hi
@maggieedwards3951
@maggieedwards3951 2 жыл бұрын
Some great couples with great wisdom, thank you for your pearls. Steve Harvey bless
@johnsonquinn6455
@johnsonquinn6455 2 жыл бұрын
Of course, each sacrifice and effort for each other followed, but the most important thing here is the luck and fate of each man and woman. There are many people who work as hard as those couples and love their partner, but the relationship ends and breaks down. I support those couples emotionally and rationally. There are no negative feelings towards them. However, what I want to say is that a marriage or a love relationship cannot be achieved through simple efforts between people.
@chimakalu5195
@chimakalu5195 Жыл бұрын
The secret of good marriage is let go minor failings and deal with serious failings without blaming. Just peacefully set matters straight.
@sandraingram5252
@sandraingram5252 Жыл бұрын
I enjoyed this do it more often
@rachellebrown2411
@rachellebrown2411 2 жыл бұрын
“Put everything on the table” Amen
@dallasfan2212
@dallasfan2212 2 жыл бұрын
We are not allowed to leave angry or w/o saying I love you. When we call each other we say hey baby, you okay? I've been married 7 years.
@clementjerry7264
@clementjerry7264 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing conversation,thumbs up 👆, to all the couples 👫,#Steve Harvey.
@isabellajones7644
@isabellajones7644 2 жыл бұрын
Hi jerry
@clementjerry7264
@clementjerry7264 2 жыл бұрын
@@isabellajones7644, Hello Isabella,happy Sunday to you. 🎉
@isabellajones7644
@isabellajones7644 Жыл бұрын
@@clementjerry7264 hello so sorry replying now....
@clementjerry7264
@clementjerry7264 Жыл бұрын
@@isabellajones7644, Hello 👋 Isabella,Can I have WhatsApp, contact pls. ,
@MsJPrecious
@MsJPrecious 2 жыл бұрын
Facts marriage and babies dont solve your relationship problems!!💯👌🏾 Hence 50% of people end up marrying people they had no business being in a relationship with, let alone being married too!! This is why the divorce rate is so high, don't get married just to tick the status book or because of society/family pressures.
@laquetaworley4791
@laquetaworley4791 2 жыл бұрын
Oooo I absolutely love 💓 this episode 💞 I really appreciate particular 1 Right here, Right now this is on point for me 👰🤵
@dalmaingrant2470
@dalmaingrant2470 2 жыл бұрын
Be right or be happy,don't involve friends and family,don't call each out of their names
@truthseeker4460
@truthseeker4460 2 жыл бұрын
Marriage is so beautiful 🥰
@uchennachibueze6772
@uchennachibueze6772 2 жыл бұрын
Hello pretty lady you look stunning I must confess... I feel lucky running into a beautiful angel such as yourself on here ☺ 😘 and please forgive me if I bumped into your privacy, I just couldn't help it cos your beauty is so charming ☺🌹💋😘😍
@truthseeker4460
@truthseeker4460 2 жыл бұрын
@uchenna chibueze stfu ur leaving this post to every woman on KZbin. Be original and stop trying to be a player
@KXNGBANNXXOFFICIAL
@KXNGBANNXXOFFICIAL 2 жыл бұрын
I really do want a sucessful marriage. Planning to propose to my girlfriend.
@ceceliadiaz8989
@ceceliadiaz8989 Жыл бұрын
Wish you the best sir, be blessed 👍🥰
@taraolson6508
@taraolson6508 Жыл бұрын
Just made it 25 years thanks to the Lord! These people had wonderful advice.
@patticiarose4526
@patticiarose4526 Жыл бұрын
I pray God to give me a Husband 🙏🏿 just watching these couples make me feel all things can work if u trust each other and prayers .
@sharonchepkorir3571
@sharonchepkorir3571 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@sweetman5249
@sweetman5249 Жыл бұрын
Are you still single Patticia ? I am here single man looking for wife . Where do you live?
@sheilaevans8886
@sheilaevans8886 Жыл бұрын
This is really helpful for me. God bless you Steve for such programs. They are really insightful ❤️
@DavidMalcolm-nm2gf
@DavidMalcolm-nm2gf Жыл бұрын
I was just going Thru the website hoping to meet someone nice and I came across your profile and I decided to say Hi
@sheilaevans8886
@sheilaevans8886 Жыл бұрын
@@DavidMalcolm-nm2gf oh thank you. Hi
@zoeracheal6643
@zoeracheal6643 2 жыл бұрын
If God is not in it then higher chances are you will struggle…His the only one who can actually show you what Love is to be able to give it to your partner. And this kind of love is not bound to change regardless of what they do or do not do! We tend to love according to what the other person is doing for us forgetting love is not a reward! It’s just Love!
@joycefaltzhall9529
@joycefaltzhall9529 Жыл бұрын
Love is sacrifice to/for each other. A commitment so both can be there for each other, a safe support where a family can thrive thru the wonderful & the very difficult times, always choosing to respect & willing to forgive with grace which makes every impossible mountain to be possible to be climbed because you're determined to always lift up not to leave the other behind. This builds strong unity where you can laugh & cry together with no shame; where an uncommon 💞 LOVE BLOOMS 💐 & keeps on growing! 🌱🌱🌱 ("May it ever be thus")🎚"This is how we know what love is..." 😘.
@Without_any_editing.
@Without_any_editing. 2 жыл бұрын
हमारे भारत मे तो साल गिनते ही नहीं❤ "जब तक जीवन है तब तक एक दूसरे का साथ देते है"🥺 भारतीय होने पर गर्व है 🙏🏻🙏🏻
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