STOP BEFORE YOU BUY!!! Don't Copy Style, Create your Own! Here's How to Analyse YOUR Style

[@sharonbannister6564]

I’m several (many) decades older than you, not anywhere as thin and I live in a small Southern California town. Your channel has inspired me to shop my closet and try new combinations. Your analysis of why an outfit works has been so helpful. Thank you

[@user-gl7bn8ty5h]

Nice

[@crisneryfisher5452]

Lydia, can you make a video about how you take care of your clothes? How do you keep your white clothes whites? What do you do with your leather pants? Do you have any tip to avoid usual “washy” look on black tops? Etc… Thanks

[@Jade-wb6fd]

This is important to understand that copying someone's style won't necessarily work for you. Something that looks good on someone else might not look good on you and vice versa. Thank you for the helpful advice!

[@sunilahmed6299]

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[@anjal2200]

Great and refreshing to see someone so young speaking so reasonably about new purchases! Would love to see a styling video for a long shirt dress.

[@saritallano]

This is a great video, thanks for posting it. The first "fashion" video I watched was your 2023 spring capsule or essentials videos. It inspired me to get a trench coat. I found an amazing Sezane one on Vestiere. I was over the moon. It fit me like a glove, it made me feel so confident, and I suddenly got into fashion again after 10 years of ignoring it, especially after having kids, family etc. It did something for my self esteem and sort of flipped a switch. Then I saw your Arket spring haul and I bought almost everything you recommended for spring, bc I am basically starting from scratch to make my wardrobe. I was so disappointed. Everything was returned, and it looked horrible on me, it all overwhelmed my petite frame, and the colors did not work on me at all. The only thing I kept was what I ordered for my daughter. I made some other online orders watching videos from various fashion influencers. Again returned almost all, except some items for my daughter. I was so discouraged! Then I started learning more about my body type, colors that go with my undertone, and my own style and went through my closet and analyzed what activities I actually do and dress for on a monthly basis, to understand what I need. This helped a lot. Especially body type, color, and lifestyle. Even the Kibbe body type thing has been great. Now I am being much more intentional and not as frustrated when trying on clothes. I feel like I am gaining a much better idea of what clothes suits me and what I feel comfortable and confident in. Even though I love your videos and style inspiration. My style is definitely not yours:) I'm happy I was able to understand that and find my own way to start building my own personal style. But I do enjoy your videos immensely and you have helped a mom start to get her groove back, so thank you. I know you have done some investment pieces videos in the past. But if you could do another one for summer 2023 that would be great. Accessories bags, shoes, belts, etc. Maybe at different price points, around 500 mark would be awesome. Thanks so much, you look wonderful. Congratulations on your good work.

[@Hazealanne-hq8kb]

I love this!

[@margueritedrennon3333]

Best video ever that shows how to choose items that fit our lifestyle, not our “fantasy” lifestyle. I WANT a dressier wardrobe, but my lifestyle is very casual. You showed me how to make my casual wardrobe still look put together by considering all the elements you mentioned…thank you!😍

[@bluebird-rv5to]

Love this! 😆 I too have a fantasy wardrobe and one that I actually wear.

[@banibatbout]

The only stylist that really care about who we are. ❤

[@davidpachecogarcia]

Love the advice even tho I’m not your target demographic it works for guys as well. I too WFH and it’s interesting that I like dressing up now when no one really sees me vs when I was in an office setting. I hated dressing up and always seemed uncomfortable. But now I guess since no one is forcing to dress up I embrace a lot more smart articles of clothing.

[@americafirst9144]

Welcome. There are also guys on YT doing good style videos. She shares great ideas. It is great that you can incorporate some of them.

[@amyfellows1203]

My style is so different from Lydia's -- West Coast children's librarian who's out in the garden, outdoors with animals, or inside with children most of the time. However I love her style guides for looking put together while you feel good, and solving some of those styling problems we run into inside our own closets, and help me adjust what I'm wearing together to create a more put together whole. Thank you, Lydia!

[@sharonfonseca7506]

Hi Lydia! I love your videos and specifically your advise and knowledge on style. I love the things you wear, but as a mom of two I know my lifestyle is different from yours, as well as my age, my geographical location etc.; however, your advice has made me a very happy mom that dresses herself to tackle each day feeling well represented, comfortable and stylish! So thank you for all your tips and the effort that you put in your content!

[@marisacooper5364]

I appreciate your sensible approach as well your emphasizing how comfort, fit, fabric, lifestyle, and shoe choice are the essential elements in finding the style that is our own yet suits us best.

[@milainnewyork]

Fantastic video, Lydia! I love clothes so much and I confess that I'm all over the place. I've tried to stick to neutrals but every time I see a green or a beautiful color, I'm like aaahhhhh 😍 Same for my style - to me it's so hard to define "who" I am and what image I want to share. One day I wake up minimal and simple, the next day I want all the glitter 🤣Thank you so much for the ideas!!

[@banibatbout]

Oh my god I am the same, so thanks to Lydia I understood FINALLY THAT I AM A BIT OF TWO.

[@ltp27345]

magpie pieces 🤣 I totally have a bunch of these in my closet that have just sat there… this is so helpful because if your outfit doesn’t feel true/comfortable to you then it will definitely show!! I feel like I look best when I feel good

[@bunnyemartins7756]

You have a wonderful sense of style. Classic and classy. 😊

[@naturalwoman8315]

Hi, I almost purchased a Magpie piece of clothing yesterday BUT thought of you Lydia and said NO to the purchase. I remembered my style & referred to my list of items I need to fill holes in my wardrobe. I keep it on my phone. Thanks Lydia ❤

[@Simplelivingslowliving]

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[@haqmurshidsain5206]

This is a very well done segment with a lot of practical information. I wish everyone could see this before they make costly mistakes. Well done! Thank you!

[@AFD25627]

I don’t only love your channel but love the community! This is the most positive community I have ever seen. I love to read how other ppl are finding their own styles. I think it’s a journey! I figured how to put brakes on pieces I would love to have, but are not practical for my lifestyle! I also prefer to spend on quality basics that you get more wear out of! I love your Fashion Math, proportions and Seasonal style videos! ❤🎉

[@jilllindsay3369]

Love to see a wardrobe declutter ❤

[@mariaisabelmolina9640]

I love your videos, your ideas and the "why" behind it. I have found so much help in them and finally I know my style, within your style not just copying outfits. Thank you very much.

[@leeannlowery5064]

Now that I’ve been watching your videos for some time, this video was very instructive. What we like and what we need changes as our life changes. Single, married, younger, older, retired, widowed, living in New York, living in Florida. All these kinds of changes require us to reassess our wardrobe. Your video is a great tool to do that because, whatever my age, location or situation, I want to look sharp! ❤

[@lynnefusco5320]

Love it when your video pops up now to get a cuppa and watch ❤️xx

[@AdrienneMint]

Lydia, my photos of my favorite outfits that I keep in my I pad, are all pics of you! Your style is mine but you do it better so I try to copy your outfits. I’ve bought many of your pieces and accessories and my colors are neutrals like yours. You are my inspiration ❤️❤️❤️

[@MsViolettEyes]

Great tips! I’ve def. been guilty of impulse buying a couple of those ‘magpie’ items. They are fabulous and beautiful but sometimes impractical for my lifestyle and won’t get worn very often. BTW I love those blue pillows! Such a soft pretty color for Spring/Summer home decor.

[@bluebird-rv5to]

Same here with the magpie pieces. I wasn’t even aware of doing it until Lydia pointed it out. And of course they remain in the back of my wardrobe, for the day I will wear them, which is never 😅 So now I concentrate on buying pieces which open my wardrobe not clutter it.

[@JOJO-ug9ei]

I'm glad you said this Lydia, because I see you wear a lot of boxy styles with interest but they just don't suit my more curvy figure. Now I am over 50, I am culling my wardrobe from a kaleidoscope of patterns and colours to more neutral styles in quality fabrics because the simplicity of this looks more luxe. You are right about starting an outfit with shoes. I have had flat feet since birth and can't wear high heels, (or loafers or ballet flats either, sadly 🙁), so every outfit originates from flat supportive shoes. I like the look of wide-leg trousers and trainers because it visually lengthens the legs and gives a more balanced look, (literally for me with my flat feet!). I think it's good to analyze what others are wearing but ultimately it is your own body type and personality that will shape your look and give you a unique style.

[@marylafrance9547]

Lydia, thanks, you have given me so many great ideas with your "smart casual" style pieces. Things I already have can be paired in better ways.

[@zootsuit60]

This long time USA “senior” viewer would very much love to see you style your Mum. Your style is so classic I’m sure it translates across multiple generations. Would you PLEASE consider doing this? It could possibly greatly increase your subscriptions very quickly.

[@DC-rd6oq]

I would LOVE to see Lydia style someone older, maybe in their 60s. And if they don't have the perfect figure that would be even better!

[@lynndupree1205]

Another deep dive into personal style. Here's my analysis of how I dress. I'm tiny, so no oversize pieces. They make me look like a child. I have freckles, so no tiny prints. They clash with my skin! I'm drawn to sporty, horse-y looks. So I shop for pieces that aren't too girly. No frills or ruffles. You have really helped me analyze my style!

[@sajawalhussain1327]

I am watching!!!!!! You were amazing and so kind and so lovely and generous. I fan girled the rest of the day and my kids

[@ladyp5511]

Best tips I've listened to in a very long time! Thanks so much for this very useful video. It's one to keep on file for sure! My only issue is that I have a fashion split personality. I love the smart casual neutral pieces, but also LOVE the magpie pieces as you referred in your video. 💕

[@Blanca85]

I would love to see a video on his to look classy in very hot weather, I'm from Spain and it's been unbearably hot since April!

[@Simplelivingslowliving]

Id say opt for light colors and breathable fabrics in pieces like tailored shorts and a crisp cotton shirt for example. Add accessories like a belt, earrings and bracelets or a good watch.

[@saramathews1069]

Brilliantly useful amongst others I have discovered I like: Smart dressed down Floral summer separates Interesting flat shoes Completely revelatory and so helpful for putting outfits together and future shopping Thank you so much

[@joybarnes5504]

I also loved classic shapes and colours in natural fabrics when young and still do now. Over the years when I have been tempted to stray the clothes have sat in my wardrobe then eventually taken to the charity shop. Working out your best shapes and best clothes then staying on that path is the best way. I love block colours or stripes, black, navy, white, occasionally red but not beige other than trousers. It works.

[@gullerana8115]

Your sense of style is amazing 😍

[@monique804]

Lydia ..well done on the Fab. 5 …your style is classy yet casual and comfortable, great combination. Love your insight on fashion and keeping it real .love from sunny Florida USA ☀️❤️

[@onlinedigitallegacy]

Love this video and I LOVE YOUR COFFEE CUP!!

[@salmanahmad4887]

Loved this video! I have to keep reminding myself to buy for the life I have. Love your style!

[@patmuscarella8279]

Thank you. Very great info. Living in flordia i dress for the weather . 90 degrees calls for cottons linens. Sandles ,shorts linen pants. Cotton dresses. Very casual. Winter at 60 degrees changes fabrics. Also living on east coast near beach dictates style. I can say I don't spend much money on clothes😊

[@laineydunlop2161]

Thanks Lydia a timely reminder to really think about our own style and lifestyle to make sure our clothes fit the bill. I also think body shape is important when looking at others because some people look great in everything but if your body shape is different it’s going to wear different on you. Knowing what suits you in terms of shape and colour is invaluable to stop making shopping mistakes. ❤

[@teresacarle294]

Yes, exactly. Body shape & size can make a huge impact on how clothing drapes on us. 👀Saw a short clip of the exuberant Drew Barrymore on her talkshow. She was wearing elegant menswear w/a decided country vibe. A beige-brown textured trouser suit: a boxy relaxed fit tartan blazer, a boxy dark gray collared button-up dress shirt tucked in a straight, slightly wider leg tweed trouser, & darling tall block heel brown Mary Janes to top it off. It was a voluminous silhouette that absolutely swamped her petite frame😖. I'm 3" taller than her, but I share her similar tomboy leanings. Plus, we have a naturally girlish persona as well as unfortunate voluptuousness. With our extreme proportions, we can easily swing from va-va-voom or matronly. There doesn't seem to be much middle ground😂. I can employ style & color hacks to slim & elongate my frame. No amount of dieting is ever going to turn my lush femininity into a 5'9" pencil slim goddess like Trinny Woodall w/small breasts & rectangle figure🤣. All my style heroes are taller w/smaller breasts & hips. I can borrow some of this icon's style, but not copy it. 💚Bridget from Cali☘️ (using my pal's YT acct)

[@SaimaShareef93]

Love your videos. I had a hard look in my closet and like you I don’t do a colorful wardrobe. I never even realized that. I don’t like bright colors. I stick with neutrals, blue and pale pinks. Love vertical

[@ShahidShahShahidShah-wo6rs]

Love to see a wardrobe declutter 🎉🎉

[@rach5516]

I still feel that since lockdown, I have lost all sense of what clothes I like and what suits me. I haven’t really liked the oversized clots as I am under 5 foot. Enjoying the more tailored looks that are coming through now.

[@vasso_44]

I have been watching your videos for a while now and I think you have the best sense of fashion and style. I have been struggling to find the best trousers hem for each style ( straight, wide etc.) in combination with different styles of shoes. It will be very helpful a video about it. If you also can make suggestions for women shorter than you 😅❤

[@ybe7011]

My problem is that I live in a very warm climate. Its hard to look smart and not sweat like crazy. I always wind up in jean skirts and a shell with a linen shirt or something similar.

[@nicholabradbury7643]

Great video. I do aspire to your style. ❤❤❤

[@ImranManikuj]

The support is because you are great at what you do and the passion is palpable.

[@Rainbowlorikeetbebe]

Hello Lydia, I have been watching your channel for quite some time and I love your style. This is your best video. Thankyou so much. Love to you from Sydney, Australia 😘

[@IAmZainabJalloh]

I don’t really follow anyone on KZbin but your content is actually so helpful! I’m almost 30 and finally feel like I’m finding my style and feeling more confident so thanks!

[@lynndupree1205]

Lydia, you have been a real inspiration to me. I am now retired so I don't need to buy clothes for work anymore, but I still like to look put together and stylish. This change in lifestyle has made me stop to consider how I want to dress now. This particular video was very helpful in focusing on the details. I plan to shop now for better quality of casual things since I am wearing those more. My former weekend look was too casual for how I want to appear now. Thanks for clarifying exactly how to do that!

[@IqraImtiaz-nn6yv]

Love to see a wardrobe declutter❤❤❤

[@user-ch6on5mm7n]

Love the way you present 💐🎁

[@karolesherlock127]

Excellent advice as always. Thank you so much for all the useful fashion and lifestyle content.

[@rhonnelsimms6550]

That’s a beautiful modern ‘80’s vibe on black and white.

[@gshopay]

Colonmiriam has become synonymous with sophistication in my wardrobe. The carefully curated collections never fail to impress, offering a perfect blend of classic styles and contemporary trends. Plus, knowing that I'm supporting a brand dedicated to sustainability adds an extra layer of satisfaction to my fashion choices.

[@NabeelAhmed-pr5iq]

Everything about this video is simply perfectly

[@DC-rd6oq]

This video, and others that you have that are similar, are extremely useful. You've helped me understand what my style is. It is similar to yours in terms of color (neutrals), and solids (with the exception of small vertical stripes in my case) but more casual. When I retired I got off track with my style, buying things I would never have considered before. I didn't really like them, and it didn't feel "like me." Your videos helped me realize that getting back to what I felt good wearing for 40+years in the corporate world, but in a more casual way, is my best style. I'm now sticking to the neutral color palette again, but instead of crisp cotton or poplin button downs, wearing more linen; instead of lined trousers I'm wearing casual pants and denim; and instead of suiting blazers I'm wearing knit blazers, dusters/toppers and oversize linen or denim shirts as a top layer. I still have some work to do on the footwear. I ditched the pumps for flip flops when I moved to Florida after retiring and am having a hard time wearing anything else, but your videos are helping me get there. Thank you for helping me get back on track.

[@amalobama2819]

I cannot emphazises enough, how much you helped me to find my style. I adore your content. I bought some pieces of your NAkD collection and I am really happy woth the purchase! ❤

[@pauline9933]

I'd like to see a styling video for a long shirt dress. I've just bought a linen one. Great video.

[@sigriddjernaes]

Thank you for another great video. Would love to see a video on how to dress up more casual outfits.

[@susanmichael78]

Such good advice. Going into retirement I still want to look put together so this video was excellent particularly dressing up lounge wear.

[@MyMusiclover28]

In my case, I do NOT like white pants, shorts, dresses or jackets (I sometimes wear white sweaters, sandals and sneakers) I just don’t like them, and if I buy them, they end up not being worn. White looks so nice on other people, especially Lydia, but they’re not for me 😅 I do wear other neutral colors. Love your channel ❤

[@noraoconnor1895]

I think ur v natural and do'nt make any of us feel frumpy or dowdy and im learning a lot from u.ive gone through my weardrobe and lear'nt to put clothes together better so thank you.!!

[@shabnamanwer-tv1ki]

Your style is very amazing

[@mehtabkanwal4012]

Love to see a wardrobe declutter

[@janisallen3146]

This is one of my favorite fashion videos I've seen! Love every tip, esp. footwear. Footwear is a place I struggle because the shape and style I wear is quite unique and informs the rest of the look. Because of health conditions, all my footwear is completely flat and very wide, many of my shoes are custom made because of this and it leaves me trying to find clothing and accessories that compliment rather than compete with my footwear. Would love more videos which discuss how to find balance in outfits especially with footwear.

[@g.970]

Love your videos. I had a hard look in my closet and like you I don’t do a colorful wardrobe. I never even realized that. I don’t like bright colors. I stick with neutrals, blue and pale pinks. Love vertical stipes and some checks but not much else in patterns

[@user-vf6ot7ol9g]

Love to see word rob declutter❤❤❤❤

[@SaniyaWhaeed-bb7zv]

great and refreshing to see someone so young speaking so reasonable about so purchases! Would love to see a styling vedio for a long shirt dress .

[@saraferris8827]

This was so helpful. Thanks Lydia!

[@RasheedKhan-jb1dh]

Outstanding collection 👍👍👍

[@JoR00ke]

Body shape absolutely has to come into play when defining your style, its no use copying others to the letter if they are very different dimensions to you, it won't work. It'll make you look and feel more put together and happy if you buy what suits you not what suits others x

[@ellingtongriffin5521]

That’s so true! I love Lydia and get so much inspiration from her, but the boxy styles she often opts for don’t work on my body type. But watching her me great ideas of new combos to try and ways to branch out!

[@thetitoshome]

omg i like all your stuff your style...thanks for inspiring me. from now I follow that style definitely :)

[@claudiamiddendorf1110]

Just want to say that this was such an inspiring video -- I wear lots of trainers and strappy sandals and your comment about trainers was great. I have "trainers goals" and wish ballet flats were my thing, but they just have never worked for me. Thanks for your insight into people's individual styles.

[@Emfinity]

Lydia, I've been watching for awhile. I love your sensible advice, thank you for sharing your knowledge. Since I've discovered your channel it has sent me on my own personal style discovery journey. Your advice has been paramount in making my mornings easier. I now feel more confident in my own clothing and styling choices. Adding your advice to understanding my body type, flamboyant natural, and I recently also finally understood my colour analysis, with help from the girls at Sephora, has given me tons of confidence when dressing myself & shopping. I used to feel paralyzed when shopping or dressing myself. Looking at all the different colours, cuts, shapes and lengths. I'm ADHD with OCD tendancies so shopping can be very hard, if I don't have a structured plan or idea I end up wasting time and money, buying things I don't need or that don't flatter. With your advice, it helped me understand what's missing, so I can make lists and plan accordingly. Thanks for helping to build my skill set for dressing my self with less stress and more confidence. Thank you.

[@gretchenlovett3323]

Thank you for this thought provoking essay. I love your approach to fashion, life, interaction. I remember you once making an off the cuff comment about anyone “with an ounce of empathy” that speaks to your awareness of humanity. I think dressing is an expressive activity. Which means we are speaking to others through our clothes. I, like many people, am in a variety of different social contexts. A rule of thumb for me it not to unduly overdress compared with the social context I will be in. I am a professor, so I dress for a college environment, Lydia’s “smart casual” is my favorite go-to which works very well in this setting. But if I am at a needle exchange program, or a little league baseball game, I wouldn’t wear that same level of outfit. Words like chic, expensive, and smart, give away the fact that it is not always appropriate to hold up an image like that in front of other people who may be so separated from that world or set of options. People who work with children, in social services, etc, have a very different office or work wear look, that is appropriate I think. Sorry so long….I did mention that I am a professor, hahaha

[@janicevin4207]

you are absolutely right about thinking of other people that you come in contact with. Without dressing completely out of your own style by wearing something more minimalist and not too much jewelry should be good enough. Even people down on their luck can appreciate some beauty in the world....

[@msan4278]

Love your videos!! One thing that stands out is the sustainability factor and the value of having those classic pieces. I used to find myself looking to trends, but since the COVID lockdown I have a need to have less. The effortless style you embrace with classic pieces and great accessories is what I want to strive for. Thank you!!

[@moniquebloominhugs5191]

Fantastic vídeo! ❤ you are gorgeous Lydia like always! ❤

[@SoftTechSavvy]

This is so good for office style 😍

[@user-tv5kb7lo3o]

Best tips and your style is classy

[@marilynbrockfield774]

Superb video, now off to try and see what is going on in my wardrobe, lots of pieces but not necessarily the right ones, same with shoes, I'm not great at choosing the right ones. Thanks so much!

[@moumitadeb9337]

Excellent video 👍👍 great tips and very practical and relevant advice that will help in making the right outfit and shopping choices. Have saved this video

[@Nicole-zr1me]

Love seeing a video about this by you! I've noticed as I've bought some things that are staples for you, that I feel awkward in them, like blazers for example. Where I live in the US people rarely dress up. So I've just had to choose my basics remembering that, and focusing on a little more casual pieces. 💕

[@janicevin4207]

Blazers are also not on my list because of the same reasons. I also like shorter jackets in general and at the moment they are "trending" so I have more choices.🙂Also I like the idea of "elevating" a very casual coat or jacket with smarter pieces: it looks very stylish and intentional.

[@amritads82]

Thank you Lidia, always enjoy your videos! Would love to get advice on how to dress when pregnant .. without buying too many maternity clothes so that we can still use our clothes after! Was thinking shirts and drawstring wristband trousers .. I dont swear shorts or tight fitting clothes xx

[@bluebird-rv5to]

You’ll probably get away with normal tops by sizing up but the bottoms are worth investing in as the belt region of a maternity trousers will be set much lower than any drawstring trousers you’ll find. You can use them months after your pregnancy too.

[@MsCl]

all bloggers have the same style that changes with each new addition to Zara, Celine, etc. Own style its when it’s unique and doesn’t change when a new collection arrives in Zara.

[@user-vk5dd5rx4f]

Love to see your videos ... good job 👍👍

[@IbrahimKhan-px7wy]

Excellent creation

[@guljee4588]

Absolutely gorgeous ❤

[@daniellapollifrone5321]

This was a great break down, thank you!

[@MuhammadAmirRiaz-zy7rq]

Nice quality and good style

[@habebjahangirzakee5997]

amazing suggestions for styling

[@SamiAhmed-ew8js]

Love this owsome beautiful dress 😍❤️💕

[@MixedVideo-7]

Love this product 😊♥️❤❤🥰🥰

[@janetdaniel9661]

Brilliant video

[@majadel5895]

This was super Helpful Lydia! Grazie !

[@federicabellinghieri5775]

Great conversation 👍

[@janicevin4207]

I always like your videos when you stress that what you are wearing is your own style and not a dictate of what everyone should wear. Of course you show pictures of you wearing what you like and what is your style but it would be interesting if you could show cutaways of women with different styles wearing the same piece of clothing you are talking about.

[@cjmunsaka]

You look really nice in silver 😍

[@emilykochco]

I would like a video of you talking about all the basics you need for a summer/ spring wardrobe it would be helpful to see what the basic are so I can build on it.

[@ANS896]

Great innovative ideas

[@karelmillard9854]

Great tips. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@kmfp]

Hi! Have you done a video explaining the dos and don'ts when picking the right outfit depending on body types? tall, slim, curvy, etc? Thanks :)