WHY And HOW To Finish Expectations?: Part 2: BK Shivani at Seattle, Washington (English)

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BK Shivani highlights why any expectation we set is unfair and unreasonable. We can certainly share with people what we feel is right, but cannot expect that they will follow our ways. They can only behave as per their sanskars carried across lifetimes, their capacities and their perspectives - which might not at all match with ours.
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[@dandelionwish7115]

💫Everything is temporary so try not to get attached too much💫

[@babitamehrotra5733]

अनित्य ; impermanent 🙏🌷❤

[@ritathakurta9330]

Agar boss insult me may kyse usko reply koru

[@gardeningmadeeasy3655]

Thanks Yaar☺️☺️☺️😎😎😊😊

[@snehapandey8563]

Rytt

[@kristalina6010]

Absolutely right

[@sukhvindarsaxena1086]

Sister I am addicted to listen your talk. Without listening, I feel incomplete.

[@chandrakalagowder273]

Good addiction u have

[@wearecastaway1]

.. >>> That seems unhealthy :(

[@SandhyaRamachandran]

Me too.. more than meditation etc I tune in for my daily dose of gyan😂

[@NileshShah-bs3ly]

​@@SandhyaRamachandran: You are that person we would like to hear as you have imbibed so much knowledge and followed BKs. You are very powerful soul.

[@dharmateja3643]

Mam do u know one thing?? I have been watching ur videos for learning English... Is it sounds funny ? 😂😂 Ur taiking slowly sweetly understandingly

[@hassansher8955]

Same here😂😂

[@aditibajpai2982]

So true😂💯

[@supaviter100]

Her voice is so calming to listen and easy to understand.

[@smithakumar7255]

Mam your speech is very beautiful you also white dress very very beautiful and lovely your English is understood very easily very useful for me BK Mam thank you thank you very much once again dear mam

[@JorDel_1111]

Omg ur grammar 😵 Rip

[@beinganuradha.]

I have a grt expectations from my husband but now I get the right way to think... I m not sure I will be fully justify ur thought in practical coz it will come with practice only buy I will start reminding me from now onwards that he is different n I m different... My happiness is in my hand so i should not be so much dependent on him for everything 🤲

[@nupurghoshdutta6058]

Very true👍👍

[@kavyagoswami690]

Bharat ratna mile n mile aapko but aap Bharat ratna to ho hi... I am very inspired to you. Thanks

[@Dileep_Champion]

Yes , I always feel the same.... She is deserving for the Bharat Ratna

[@jyotikareddybbsr1997]

Bilkul🤩🤩🤩🤩🤩

[@piyalidatta5279]

Well said mam

[@akshaysalaskar5578]

Atleast padmavibhushan

[@jyotikareddybbsr1997]

When am feeling hurt by others ,then I watch this vedeos and Again remember to my mind tha "I ACCEPT EVERYONE, AS THEY ARE" ❤❤❤❤

[@fundieddy9164]

Well said. Love from Tanzania.

[@sandeepachaudhary2287]

Didn't worth it because you're still bleming "when feeling hurt by others"....if you understand clearly Shivani ma'am trying to say others can not hurt us, we and our expectations hurt ourselves. Stop blaming others.

[@jyotsnasingh809]

01⁰

[@AnjnaDevi-np9nj]

@@sandeepachaudhary2287 L Qqqqqq aaaaaaaaa Qqq qqqqqqqqqqq11qq 1aa

[@arupkumarjena5178]

I believed if we are together and in love , I will expect something from you and you can expect something from me... Without expectations what kind of close relationship is this. Without expectations we are separate. It's human nature to expect some love... Care and wishes from our partner. But I ve proved wrong, when I found she doesn't think like me or She doesn't feel like me...That is why she always rejected my every wishes and expectations. Which gave me unimaginable pain. Finally I m here . Hopefully I will be able to erase my all expectations on her. And let both of us live a very peaceful life together or separately. It's doesn't matter now.

[@TheJayantjoshi]

In todays world its difficult to listen to any body for seconds ,i am listening the video repeatedly, and understanding the living by her....

[@prashantpatel3741]

Best 25 minutes i have spent in my life👏👏

[@joannnorelius7186]

I listen almost daily. I think this will help us all be better humans!🤗

[@sumanaroy2946]

This reminds me of Kabir's(Ranbir Kapoor) dialogue where he says to nayna (Deepika Padukone):-"tum galat nahi ho Naina bas mujhse alag ho"... it's all about accepting each other the way they r and respect them....

[@aartichatarkar696]

YJHD. MANE 1000bardhekhi rekodhe mera

[@aartichatarkar696]

I like you

[@padminisahu9241]

N dey broke up in real life

[@aartichatarkar696]

Hi i friends ship you

[@gursimransandhu8388]

Wow you kind of catch him stealing ideas lol Basically I learnt from this video also how to not expect love it

[@julenewilliams2612]

Thank you Sister Shivani. You introduced me to BK and I'm grateful for the changes it's made in my life. Om shanti.

[@aartichatarkar696]

I see you is video u so beautiful

[@lakshyasingh2363]

@@aartichatarkar696 👌

[@Maiaathmahoon_]

Love BK Shivani... She was the first one to initiate me into my original sanskaar, consciousness! Thank you! 🙏💜

[@shubhamajable371]

What was your 1st step , to act in that manner

[@Maiaathmahoon_]

@@shubhamajable371 First step as in which process? First time was for me to realise that I was tired of being miserable and in pain. And then being willing and Open to understand why and change what needed to change. Then when one is sincere the required knowledge comes in various forms as and when needed. After that is when I came across BK Shivani and practiced Raja Yoga first! Today of course I have my own connection to the source and knowledge but whenever am stuck the universe brings me the right information, knowledge and wisdom to realise and remember my original nature. Sorry for the long answer. Infinite love and light 🙏💜

[@shubhamajable371]

Thanks for your detailed answer , I am in such phase of my life (developing) where managing my own emotions is important , i Usually talk less and feel like i will be alone if i am unable to develop habit of talking with known to me , as per their interest. In short i think i am over thinker. let me if you would like to share some tips with me to feel complete and confident Thank you mam :)

[@Maiaathmahoon_]

@@shubhamajable371 Thank you first for trusting me to answer that question. That said I would not like to diagnose the root cause of the issue based on just this information as I believe we have belief systems that are a) given to us by society, the environment, the people we associate with, education etc and b) beliefs we form based on our own perception of things or C) carried over from past lifetimes. However, I myself talk less and listen more and I understand your fear. We believe or are made to believe that we need to be a certain way to be accepted or considered a good person or successful person in life depending on other people's expectation of us. And that is something we really do not have control over. For now, I can say, focus on your thoughts about yourself, your beliefs about yourself, what makes you happy and feel at peace. The outside world will always have millions of opinion or expectations but what is your expectation or opinion about yourself is what matters. Where is that fear coming from? Why am I afraid of this? These are questions that will help you understand yourself and when you understand yourself you will be able to understand life and others. And these questions you have are natural when one is awakening. There is nothing wrong with you. You can say this affirmation or prayer first to accept and empower yourself. I Am Enough. I have always been enough. 🙏💜

[@shubhamajable371]

I will focus on the points you mentioned , i think we should 1st know our self then we can manage to handle outer world Because we can only change ourselves rather than changing others. Thanks you, keep that smile on your face with you it is giving energy to the person who communicate with you , love from my side 🙆

[@tehzeeb6132]

When I am depressed u help me alot..God bless you thank u so much..

[@ushajananimakeover4647]

@Harshit neekhre y

[@shifulaw5896]

Hw it helped

[@Swadistarecipes_1356]

Same here , God Bless you Shivani Ma’am

[@arpitachakraborty7688]

No expectation.... Only acceptance

[@parulkurani3590]

Arpita Chakraborty X.,......

[@arpitachakraborty7688]

@@parulkurani3590 🙂

[@ujjayantgoswami6135]

@@arpitachakraborty7688 .. Wait _ There's nothing wrong with realistic expectations.... But unrealistic expectations are pretty bad..

[@indiancitizen4334]

@@ujjayantgoswami6135 perception of reality is different for different individual.

[@uditnarayan2110]

Arpita Chakraborty 👍

[@perfectcreatormonika2733]

Expectations really HURTS. ... so truly keep ur mind calm... and enjoy the flow😂😂😂. Believe it... really works😉

[@teachersacademyforlanguage2208]

What is so special about Shivani Sr is - Her presentations is always emotionally balanced which makes effectively communicated.. In addition to her valuable content.

[@siber1297]

Sister Shivani your simple teachings change me literally. I’m healing when I listen to you. My relationship with peoples it’s change, my work relationships it’s change, my state of being it’s change for much much better. Thank you so much for every single word you teach humanity to living today because we forgot. I accept with my heart open and I integrate ,I put healthy things on my CD. Blessings from Montreal, Canada 🇨🇦 🙏🏽

[@madhusingh3943]

Om santi🙏 Today I disturb by my some expectations now I live it ,it's past . Now I am peace full soul😊🙏

[@sahilKhan-em5qi]

madhu singh hi madhu ur right r u ok

[@vandnaverma4534]

Thnx sister from today onwards m a peaceful and powerful soul..... No expectations only acceptance

[@joansadhana1298]

Very beautiful, sister Shivani I was very down today , this video opened my thoughts, your videos have helped me a lot , been watching your videos on TV for some time now, but I break down very soon because of my incidents in my life... But I have promised myself not break down any more. Stay blessed always 🙏

[@harshagc4039]

After watching the sister ak shivanis videos, I started love myself and my life was changed thank u mam 🙏

[@donnadudley3378]

This is first video I have ever watched of her. Her voice is soo gentle! And loving! Beautiful❤️

[@realtalk675]

Thank you !! I really am a student of life and u are so calm and respectfull. I always feel peace after listening to you shivani. I hope to become like you one day

[@TheBrownArtist]

A die heart fan from pakistan ❤ she is really a gem.

[@kedaradhikari9973]

☺😊 She is from India🤓🤓

[@anandkumarjaiswar7191]

True epitome of women empwerment

[@ai172]

@@kedaradhikari9973 so what?

[@ayandey6939]

Die hard not die heart.

[@Muleslover]

@@kedaradhikari9973 what is problem with you.

[@Girl77516]

Love yourself instantly, No expectation can kill your happiness

[@madhu2948]

This mind set can change all negatives. Thank you maam🙏🙏🙏🙏 I accept myself and i accept you as you are.

[@PardhuK-h4e]

Om shanti Saraswati thalli. I can say there are two parts of my life. One is before meeting you virtually, another one is before meeting you virtually. This the power of you in my life. Long Live Goddess 🙏

[@syedmammar1]

Wow, very inspirational. Lesson learned - you can't make others who you'd like them to be.

[@suryaprakash-tj7yf]

Brilliant . Is she belongs to angel on Earth movement ?

[@pradeepsarmalkar6990]

Yes you are right

[@kajaltiwari3244]

She is my angel

[@jyotikareddybbsr1997]

Yes she is angel 🙈🙈🙈🙈❤She is my mother 😍😍😍😍

[@anjaniputra5078]

Chastity is real life (Brahmcharya is real life)

[@ritikasharma1648]

.

[@mgmaharajan5343]

This program can change our perception on relationship and life also.

[@sbahar1010]

Your voice is so calming and relaxing 😌 ❤️🌹

[@priyankaverma949]

Today's I'm happy..mje mere kuch questions ke ans mile ...thnku so mch mem..mje aj bht time bad kuch acha feel hua ki mne apne life m abhi Tak kitne logo ko heart Kia apne expectations k lie ...

[@ayandal4744]

I release all the hurt I've been inflicting on myself. Ive been expecting so much from people, was constantly hurt. After hearing your messages, I realise that I was the source of my pain, not them. From here, I accept them, not that they can do whatever they want, but their actions won't hurt me or affect me anymore. I am detached🙏🏾

[@arupkumarjena5178]

I was suffering the same , sister. But finally I m trying to understand this. Once I ll be able to finish my all expectations ,I guess I ll live peacefully...

[@jaggupatel1963]

Sister , you have really showed me the mirror. Thank you with whole heart 🙏🏼Om Shanti

[@piairawan]

Every morning after finish my 108 Aum Meditation with Sadhguru, i always listening to your teaching ,your voice is so beautiful and your teaching is calming my mind , you are so blessed 💖💖💖 Best regards from Jakarta,Indonesia, Namaste 🙏

[@kiranshukla5627]

Truly emotional first aid ! I listen to these videos and immediately there’s a difference 🙏🏻God bless.

[@missbanker4684]

Her voice is sooooooo soothing....

[@priyagopi8437]

Brilliant Explanation! Simple and easy to understand! Thank you so much for these insights!

[@sajawalkhan3936]

Respect from Pakistan 🇵🇰 sis!!

[@maheshlohar6996]

Love you bro

[@sarweshkarna3894]

Good to see

[@omtoolika]

Love to u too brother🙏

[@zillezindagi8337]

Love you too bhaii

[@kumargurutharan4043]

We are all one khan why do we thi no we are all differs right?

[@marilia0806]

Thank you for helping me healing my soul. Greetings from Brazil 🇧🇷

[@saimaashfaq3532]

Out standing way of teaching ❤️

[@mallikasapre3662]

Simply life transforming!! Thank you so much. Immense gratitude for these teachings!!

[@arunblessed]

This way of life should be taught to kids for an early start to understand life. Generally people turn to spirituality only when they have problems or at older age, whereas if this is learnt at younger age , life will become peaceful and happy.

[@nanoaro3842]

Pure love vibrates through her words

[@nirajpavagadhi2085]

I was upset with something today and listened you and Feel better. Will listen again till I get rid of anxiety in me! Om Shanti 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@mariabejaranomonge2183]

Love the way you explain. Thanks! ☺💙

[@vidyar3273]

I am likeyourspeech... thank youm

[@mayatmg2054]

Thank you mam for 25 minutes of my life 🖤🙏🏻🕉☮️

[@avikakumari2401]

Is everyone is able to understand that both are right in there own way? If one of the person is not ready to accept that both cannot be right as same time then how conflict will come to an end?

[@surashrimondal5363]

Leaving behind everything, your voice brings peace to my mind...

[@satyam.shiivam]

NO EPECTATIIONS, ONLY ACCEPTANCE. VERY IMPORTANT IN TODAY'S WORLD.

[@ujjayantgoswami6135]

Realistic expectations are good_ Not the unrealistic one's

[@swapnilshinde1860]

Thanks SHIVANI di. Today I disturbed😣😣 too much due to my expectations from elseone,but when your voice❣️❣️ hear really feels great😊😊😊😇😇

[@debasmitamishra5953]

Same here

[@viratarchana1]

Thanks for making me understand all sanskars. Before this awareness i did so many wrong deeds. Because i was wasting time upon questioning blaming. Thnx word is so small in front of this consciousness.

[@l.n6912]

After looking into many videos i came across yours.....and the clarity of answer is great.....you r the life saviour...... thank you so much mam.....❤❤❤

[@gulestanirani5418]

Accept rather than expect,difficult but not impossible. Thank you.

[@zaitoonnaz9575]

Her "han jee" takes my heart away ❤❤❤❤❤ Peace here 🤩

[@harshkumar840]

I can see myself changing.. Thanks sis ☺☺

[@jeanthomas5426]

Excellent... she is the best to convey things as simple as a common man can understand... love and prayers.... let her words reach the whole world...

[@lilprincess6399]

Sister Shivani you are really an angel on Earth sent by God 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@alanmathew8619]

Shivani ji , the way you explain reminds me of Dada J P Vaswani ji 's teachings . Thankyou Sister for giving the best life teachings

[@mdimranali8270]

Mam really lots of love for you. You r not only great but greatest.

[@mamthaathreya1726]

"Why do we complicate our lives"Was the first & the foremost question to arise in my mind after watching this totally transforming video...Shivani didi Aapko koti koti pranaam😍🙏🙏🙏 ...aapne itna aasaan banadiya...mere der saare sawaalon ka jawaab bas ek hi video mein milgaye🙏🙏🙏🙏God bless you Shivani didi😘😘😘😘

[@sreedeviharidas6625]

Pranama Shivaniji.. Excellent msg .U r my guide to transforming self .Love n gratitude💕😇🙏

[@pharmd221]

And this is also a big that we accept from people And when they don't give people get upset because they are expecting So not to expect Do it for yourself

[@Mr9009000900]

Thanks sister Shirani. Your video makes me so much happy moment to me. I am from Sri Lanka. I wish to see you in my country. Om santhi

[@ZeenatRaza602]

I found peace whenever I come here for pure spirituality rather than lisen a music she always gives me happiness and peace.

[@subhashreeparida131]

U r gifted by God to India,,,luv u mahh dii,,,OMM SHANTI😍😍💛💚🧡💜💙

[@lathabendigeri8916]

Didi thank you so much for all vedios. I live life after listening

[@vijaykumardaram8101]

Dr. Sister SHIVANI Good voice in ENGLISH May Good bless forever

[@ummehasan693]

its absolutely fine to have your own way until you are not hurting or depriving others to have their ways.. ..

[@aartichatarkar696]

U single

[@farhidaahmed9540]

Your voice is enough to give me positive energy everytime.From lockdown I started listening you ❤️

[@Rituvija296]

I wish I could have heard you two hours back .........but will definitely try to acceptance phenomena from today.....

[@deepikarao3157]

👏👏👏

[@pushpitanag2751]

Splendid! Sooo soothing and practical words.Thank you sister for enriching us with your words of wisdom❤

[@shilpaarora4164]

Really thankful to u di for giving us such amazing knowledge. Ur thoughts r really helpful for us to change our thoughts and Sankaras. Om shanti

[@relletransparent8160]

Listening to this at 4 in the am and I am healed I innerstand

[@ujjayantgoswami6135]

Realistic expectations are GOOD But unrealistic expectation is pretty dangerous_👍🏻

[@aartichatarkar696]

Red hair NYC

[@ajitpandey9523]

These 7 sanskars are blessings Ma'am.🤗🤗

[@ajaykumarajayprem5303]

Happy Chait NAVRATRA Didi. This is the best example of positive expectations in present time Didi .

[@ajaykumarajayprem5303]

Good Morning ' DIDI ' . Please perform your 'DUTY' first of all & after complication propaget it in.......

[@Shreyapandey777]

You are God's Angel ❤️😇 Dearest Bk Shivani Ma'am lots of love and blessings 💖😇🙏🙏💖

[@ankitaykamble8082]

Your voice..made my day..sister 🌷

[@sandeeppawar3460]

Yes Sister Shivani even we can see the difference in twins who are born with time gap of 2-3 minutes. Thereafter, grown in similar conditions but when they are grown up we can recognise both not by their looks but by their behaviour and thoughts.

[@preranadeshmukh6986]

You are thoughts very hart touching.....and you voice is so beautiful 🙏❤

[@pharmd221]

I'm focusing on my health Aaj to teen waqt Ka Khana khaya hai Or aaj balon ko b nourished kiya hai I love myself I'm getting love from Param atma

[@priya08singh91]

Without expectations no one accept you

[@manasvihiware2271]

Sister you are the only one who guide me when I am in problema thanks Shivani didi . Om shanti 💞

[@kamalashrestha8091]

So true speech sister shivani 🙏

[@mohanpatil4253]

Feel Calm , cool and surrendered after hearing you sister... World is privileged to have you...

[@thriveinfaith]

Wonderful video with a beautiful message if people follow these knowledge life will be a blissful experience 😊😊🙏🙏let us all bring a shift

[@Existstories]

Listening to you makes me calm

[@punyatoyatripathy6350]

I love Ur voice ma'am ..... So sweet voice ma'am ....

[@ramsundar5137]

Your oration is a meditation... If anybody watching your meditation.. They feel like they are being in meditation... Very nice dear guru ji....

[@ramsundar5137]

If anybody watching your oration

[@shreyaspeaking2455]

Those are life changing words💜

[@sonam_95s.71]

Ma'am...i jst dont have words to explain dat how much i lv u n hw mch i respct u...u r amzng...

[@meenakaserwal9963]

Didu. . Love you angel. V a blissful Sunday. Best of luck for your today's programme at dehli . 🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

[@mylovemm281]

To mil gyi aap apni didu se..ya abhi bhi expect kr rhi h ki wo apse Milne ayengi

[@meenakaserwal9963]

Yes she promised to come early . At my place... She will definitely come n we will meet. Omshanti.

[@avanikotak6240]

Hello Sister Shivani... You are right on many things.. Expecting of your choice of colour and flower that is not right but Can you please give answer of my question that is Is it wrong to expect a little much of care from your husband or your loved ones when that are in known that you are not well?? And that is also not expecting but telling, when you already told him or ask about some care from him so is it a wrong thing which you are asking for?? Please do reply

[@mylovemm281]

@@avanikotak6240 I am replying oh her behalf becae she is so busy in hervl daily schedule.. expectations is expecptations ..either it is small or big..so never expect anything from anyone even from your hubby... expectations exploiting u r relationship..where there is expectations there is no love no harmony

[@meenakaserwal9963]

@@avanikotak6240 Ji I am not shivanididi. . I am only listening her n trying to change myself.

[@ujwalabuwa6076]

शिवानीदीदी आपकी आवाज में एक मिठास है,भाषण सुन के मन को शांती मिलती हैं |

[@DkAnand107]

Om Shanti didi I know you always motivated to people's

[@khushbuparmar3503]

This is soo peaceful life

[@tulsiriddhi9691]

Kitani ajib baat hai na ye sb kitani choti choti baate hai jo shayad kahi na kahi hume pata hote hai bas jarurat hai tho ek pal thahar ke sochane ki .. Jab koi yahi simple baate duja smjha jata hai tho maja aa jata hai . Cloudy mind ke cloud haat jate hai fir saaf saaf dikhne lgta hai apni galti aur dushro ki khubsurti ... 😊

[@rimadas740]

First one to comment... I am inspired by your speech maam

[@smitaraya6297]

Her every speech become bhajan of my playlist.. I listen everyday thank you di fr guide us in right direction

[@likhonxtra]

Love from Bangladesh ♥

[@aanchalkohli930]

One point sister , please explain when a close family member is into alcohol or something which others don't like , one can't really be at peace thinking that he is different .

[@shivbaba9335]

i love bk shivani