Stop Chasing LOVE & Do This Instead To Find Love! | Martha Higareda & Lewis Howes

[@lewishowes]

www.netflix.com/title/81398899 - Watch Martha's new film Queens On The Run!

[@marialara2648]

I am watching it today

[@deesmoon3845]

It’s on my Netflix watch list!

[@imyourvenus5480]

What a Lucky Man, Lewis!!!!!!!!! She's Beautiful and Talented? What? You hit the Jackpot ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Cravenn5]

Watching on Sunday relax time❤️

[@dublingirl1691]

Just started watching it!! ☘️😁

[@mkarasfilms]

"If you want to control somebody, get a dog." - She couldn't have said it best! I love her energy and wisdom!

[@estherhirsch4460]

Martha is so articulate and authentic. You've had the most amazing people on your program, but Martha is #1. Happy for both of you. Every person dating should hear Martha'swisdom.

[@pinktink77vp]

I love this. I used to work with relationship coaches and I said it years ago, over a decade, that "you complete me," is SO Co-dependent it is NOT healthy. The healthy relationship is comprised of 2 independently complete people who love each other, get along, want to grow together, and CAN live without each other but don't WANT to. I love you guys. Thank you for spreading the healthy relationship message. We need more of this❣

[@joan_of_arts]

Yes true that means so much songs with those lyrics and movies with those dialogues are promoting codependency and yes I'm one of those who got influenced huhu

[@haifa7292]

Dear Universe, a relationship like this 💗 thank you 🙏🏼

[@ashlynnleray5640]

Mature love is deep, healthy, and intentional. You guys have done a fantastic job highlighting this fact. What a beautiful conversation!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you!

[@7775OMEGA]

Totaly agree, such a nice points of view. helping other to grow.

[@catherinedao1592]

That is s greatest ideas of Healthy and Mature Love. You have to be happy yourself then you have happiness to give to someone you love. Someone comes to your life just makes you happier not take away your happiness. You have to feel freedom in love not prison. Wonderful couple. Congratulations guys

[@mariaandres2422]

What a great conversation it makes me feel grownups.. I'm single and I'm not looking for love just waiting for the right time. God bless u both 😊

[@annagokieli1497]

Im 45 and only now do i feel truly ready for "mature love". As hard as its been to prepare for love I am so grateful i didn't commit before i was truly ready.

[@lopezmartosl]

I loved the way he introduced her and the way he stared at her 😊❤

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

❤❤❤❤

[@alejasalido303]

I love that!!!

[@liza.1888]

As if he was looking into her beautiful soul 🥰😊

[@scolonia]

I searching the same to me.

[@Alexaofearth]

I am Mexican and I love this woman! And I appreciate you two. Y’all make me believe in love again.

[@JGallis]

Love is always there, we just have to 🐝 mindful of who we choose to share it with.

[@Elizakmx]

1.Rejection 2. Abandonment 3. Humiliation 4. Treason - Betrayal 5. Shame Inner child wounds.

[@speakintothemicb]

Crazy when you deal with all 5 from childhood but are required to work through it alone as an adult.

[@PatriciaTrueTh]

​@@speakintothemicbthat is so true, I have always try to do the oposit in regard to hide who really am, I don't want suppleness to lie to me, therefore i son lie to them, i want to know the goals, the values, and with all that I'm struggling with the rejection i suffered as child

[@MariaStFleur]

How to heal? Can I have her therapists information?

[@shoirayusupova2198]

She said that her therapist is Nilda. Could be Nilda Chiaraviglio.

[@lb1798]

4:00 The concept of YOU COMPLETE ME IS WRONG‼️‼️❗️‼️ 5:40😆🤣😂🤣

[@aleidagonzalez9558]

"When you're trying to change someone else, it says: YOU DON'T LOVE THEM DEEPLY"... I got the chills.

[@theresacameron107]

Why I am sending this podcast to many women I know! I’m all about not trying to fix or change others.

[@aleidagonzalez9558]

@@theresacameron107 Well, you may be trying to change the women you know? Nah, maybe it's just me projecting... it's a great podcast, share it to everybody.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

SO true :)

[@2009baglady]

I’m shooook!

[@ivannagutierrez1009]

Naahh mija la persona juzga no accepts y Esta solo usando su ego y el ego no ama es el opuesto Al amor 😅😅

[@MATILDOLL]

I wish for someone to look at me the way Lewis looks at Martha. This is so inspiring. 😊

[@tanyaangel142]

Yes, truly amazing. And she deserves that look completely! ❤❤❤

[@pattynguyen7167]

Would definitely love a Part 2. I didn’t think I’d enjoy this as much being that I’m single and assumed it was content made for couples. But I took away SO much valuable information and insight. The world desperately needs to see/hear more stories of truly healthy and authentic relationships.

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

Yes! part 2 please ❤

[@karlamerriam]

I echo this response to the T. Thank you!!!

[@genna2586]

Totally agree with a part 2! Very inspiring and heartfelt messages that really resonate. Please do a second part to include your 3:04 thoughts on how your journey is going.

[@gabrielacastro6727]

Exactly!!! Really worth content ❤

[@stephtoledo2327]

Part 2 pls ❤

[@mtaya97]

“You’re not my whole world, but you are a big gigantic planet in my solar system.” “You don’t make me happy. You make me happier.”

[@carloss2202]

Lewis had to say exactly the same about she... but for a woman around 40 years old there is few chance to build a real family with sons only Cats and dogs

[@Catherinestoring]

Yessss those parts!!!!

[@angelieavenie5741]

He asked her, "why do women go out with the troubled man...as opposed to the healthy man?" A, she replied,, "I think it has to do with your past, it has to do your inner child...it has to do with unresolved trauma.... You start lookinng at your past". That is so relatable for me. Just recently, I reflected on my past fails and relationships & I realized the problem....that I never learned early on in life how to maintain a relationship.

[@carlareginaga]

Look at your face Lewis 😍 you are so much in love. We can see it and it’s beautiful 💖✨

[@LejlaEnigma91-oy1mj]

She is Amazing woman ,has a beautiful aura

[@ABC-here]

They look so adorable together, were glowing and it looks just so perfect!

[@malawigoldelephantmarsh6578]

Exactly what I felt! I realized when I was smiling ear to ear. I love that for them. 💗

[@dusicaisalov5186]

We want part two of this episode:)

[@hiroko_tarot]

i like the monent u two say i love u to each other...😂🎉❤ makes me cry.

[@amyg-money1892]

Lewis & Martha, my biggest take away from this Interview is the Values & how we love ourselves first and also that without that Growth, maturity, experiences and alignment, it's almost impossible to have a Loving Balanced relationship. I related to the both of you SO much and I am grateful for you both!!! I am proud of you both! ❤️💜

[@lewishowes]

Thank you for taking the time out of your day to check out the interview! So glad you enjoyed it🧡

[@blissfulbaboon]

I'm so glad Martha emphasized how important healing your inner child is. May you both have a long and meaningful experience together😊

[@4evercath]

Please invite Martha to your show more! She's so wise, eloquent and on the point! I learn so much from her, maybe even more than from some of the other guests. :) It is also very sweet to see how a successful relationship/marriage actually looks like through both of you when there's such a marriage avoidance culture among men in the US with the 50% divorce rate like a horror fable story. I love her metaphor of having your own universe and the love partner is just one of the bright star in it, at the same time, we need to accept to just be a bright star of our partner's universe as well, not the sun, or the whole world to our men/women, so very different from the dragon slaying stories/movies where men have to risk their life to save us.

[@karissajones2294]

I’m only 23 minutes in, but I’m so happy for both of you to find this type of love, connection and maturity. The fact that you’ve both worked on yourselves as individuals is evident. ❤

[@Jay-ef2ii]

@karissa Jones: Are you crazy?! I was into the first 5 minutes and I got the full picture of this messed up relationship. That woman will only drain him mentally and heart-wise. It's not about them but it's about her only. I believe that both parties have been married before, but it's a bad move. It's best if this host ends up with someone Young. Some one unmolested! California has so many women to date especially young ladies and he ends up with this old foggie. Really?! This is a joke! It's bad comedy. April 23, 2023. USA.

[@DeniseShannon-sl6tc]

@jay- It's obvious, Martha's vulnerability intimidates your insecurities about who you are. Stay exactly who you are. What we don't change, WE CHOOSE. You will attract exactly who you are, which is the OPPOSITE of who Lewis and Martha are: a manipulating, controlling, dominating, insecure adult, reacting as a traumatized child in an adult body. I wish you the happy, fulfilling life of your dreams you so deserve!

[@lb1798]

Are they married?

[@Dua373]

@@Jay-ef2iiyou are sick !!😢 i feel sorry for you. She is Young and beautiful, inside and out. You see through your heart

[@Dua373]

@@DeniseShannon-sl6tcthank you!! He is sick soul

[@DeniseShannon-sl6tc]

Thank you, Martha and Lewis, for sharing of yourselves so vulnerably, authentically and honestly. Please, please, please continue your conversation with Part 2. The example of your conversation: you "see" and "hear" one another. Beautiful. Thank you, thank you, thank you! The world needs to see what a healthy relationship between two responsible adults looks like and is possible for each one of us when we CHOOSE to work on healing ourselves, first.

[@lewishowes]

Appreciate you and your support. 🧡

[@happilydivorced3235]

Nothing is as beautiful as a healed couple.💚💚💚

[@anchaleeintac.2195]

MY take aways: 1. Put yourself first (specially your health), 2. When you don’t feel secure in your relationship, you begging trying to control the other person, and that may come from not feeling good enough yourself, if they betray you, they weren’t the person for you, 3. Everything is information, is not personal.

[@lewishowes]

💯

[@morticia2904]

This is what a healthy, healed, emotionally mature relationship looks like thank you.

[@PameHdz13]

I’d love a part 2!! Martha is soooo wise and I don’t think we in Mexico acknowledge it enough 🥹

[@soulprintslifecoaching]

I don't understand how this doesn't have a million likes and views yet. Thank you for putting this out there. It has helped me tremendously!! Definitely want to see a part 2.

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome,thank you for watching🧡

[@elisaramosrodriguez3212]

He seguido a Lewis ya por varios años y me encanta su programa y sabía que tenia una relación con una Latina ❤ pero jamás creí que fuera con Martha Higareda 🥰♥️ Felicidades a los 2. Que orgullo que una Latina sea pareja de este hombre increíblemente talentoso que nos trae siempre información invaluable al alcance de todos. Martha cuídalo!!!! Ya me siento súper orgullosa de ti ♥️🥰

[@lewishowes]

Appreciate you and your support🧡

[@jacquelinereyes5109]

On the contrary he got way lucky with Martha. Either way, I wish them the best of love. It is cute to see Martha with a man that enjoys learning to be a better person, and that too has his own podcast. Please treat Martha right. I want to see her live the happily ever after!

[@NathanlovesAna]

Muy bien dicho Elisa! Pienso lo mismo ❤

[@aracelihernandez5221]

😱😱😱No sabía esto que dices,neta, qué fregón esto ,Miles de bendiciones para ellos .Me tiene con boca abierta la Martha ,muy bien ella ,él ,súper genial ,ya lo veía antes ,ahora lo veré más a este hombre divino .

[@patriciareddy]

No se dice Martha cuídalo, sino "Lewis cuida a Martha", más bien debe ser mutuo.

[@sarinagold1869]

Her voice is so sweet! Love the healthiness of this relationship

[@maribelmarini2819]

1:37:13 I’m 55 years old, married and with 2 children and I never realized how important was to work in knowing myself before get to know a partner. The key work in the art of happiness and in the successful life is working in our inner child wounds and be clear who you are before to choose anyone to share the life with you. This was kind of masterclass for teenagers to adults to thinking seriously how to build healthy relationship . Felicitaciones a los 2 por su excelente ejemplo!!!!

[@anamadrigal1111]

Que alegría años de seguir a Lewis y saber que comparte una historia de amor con Martha Higareda VIVA MÉXICO !

[@yarahingutierrez6006]

❤❤ viva México 🇲🇽

[@anasifitthesmarteatingcoac1441]

Omg I didn't knew you guys were together! Totally awesome!

[@lillyrocks2011]

Porqué dicen "Viva México" por cosa que no. Pues si no se trata de la nacionalidad ,sino de lo persona, algo independiente, de dónde se sea. Él está enamorado de ella, como ser humano, no por una nacionalidad. El nacionalismo de algunos es irritante en un país donde mucho más de la mitad de la población vive en pobreza, el narco está a todo lo que da, gobiernos de gente ignorante, egoístas, corruptisimos, pero algunos viven en la burbuja de "no pasa nada" Mientras eso no cambia el "viva México" sale sobrando y es hasta ridículo. Y no es contra de Martha, porque ella sí es una buena persona, pero da pena cómo tienen a México la gente que ha gobernado y gobiernan (todos los partidos la misma mentalidad de robarnos,tener mucho poder y empobrecer a la población). Así que un "viva México" sale sobrando. Yo diría "empobrecido y corruptisimo México, no lo merecemos!!"

[@claudelatorre6818]

Que chingon!!!

[@claudelatorre6818]

Que chingon!!!

[@virginiaherrera9321]

You guys give me hope and faith that real love does exist. Please do this more!

[@lotusdedart]

I loved seeing her love for you Lewis, everyone deserves love, but you especially Lewis. You've given so much to people and are always growing into an even more amazing person. Thanks for the interview Lewis ❤

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome,thank you for being here 🧡

[@win05]

Yes I do. This is very informative and both of you are open and honest 😊

[@Taashuzzz]

How lucky she is to express each and everything in front of his spouse.its because of his respect to her which made her special and confident more. Love and respect for you both.

[@michellethechallenger747]

Love this conversation!! As a Mexican I admired Martha a lot as an actress, however as a person a lot more 😘 Amazing couple 👏🏻❤️

[@lawrencefox563]

Her English is first rate .

[@marthahigareda8]

Muchas gracias !!! :)

[@thelastninja4825]

you are a fool then

[@ayselrzayeva9466]

@@marthahigareda8 💗

[@lucyreyes6726]

Yes! Soy su fan!!

[@tnns4l287]

I did not have any idea how much this episode would help me as I navigate my own life... please part 2. Martha is amazing with her words

[@lewishowes]

Thank you!

[@antoniavasile63]

Yess I clicked on the video out of curiously and ended up going back several times, taking notes and realizing my wounds and those of my loved ones 😮❤

[@drchen6424]

She is one of the most insightful relationship experts I’ve ever seen you interview. And she wasn’t even introduced as a relationship expert! Thank you for sharing her greatness with your audience. I feel that could have been somewhat scary and intimidating for you too. It took real cajones to expose to the world what a smart and wise woman she is.

[@dimcg7445]

I met this two at the Dr Joe Dispenza's retreat. I get the chance to hug them. Both of them are humble. Martha is super sweet! I manifested Lewis to see at the retreat and it happened with the plus. So grateful to see them! 🙌❤️🙌

[@lewishowes]

🧡

[@ceciaosorio2331]

I would love to go to those retreats!

[@dimcg7445]

@@ceciaosorio2331 You won't regret it! Best happened to me!

[@1216miriam]

Do you recommend the retreat?

[@dimcg7445]

@@1216miriam i would! It help a lot of making the right decision. When you're there, you will be sorrounded with so much energy and love. You will heal that way coz everybody is in the same page!

[@cynthiatat]

YES - I love Martha's insights. Please bring her in for a regular segment 😊

[@ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

yes, agreed!!

[@lilmermaid2930]

Everything she said resonates deep within my soul!! Values are so so important!! I always try to change the person thinking I’m helping them! I want to love someone unconditionally and for who they are! I am manifesting someone who loves me for me! 💙🌌💫

[@zealiabella8553]

It was just so inspiring to see the two of you reaping the fruits of your individual inner healings. You both have modelled what a healthy relationship looks like. Two people building each other up and celebrating your own uniqueness. I would love to see another video of you both sharing your experiences and wisdoms. All the best to you both.💜

[@lewishowes]

Appreciate you and your support🧡

[@dianabrenes777]

Martha!!! You go Girl!!! You are my definition of an "EVOLVED WOMAN" THANKS FOR BEING YOU ❤!!!!

[@marielavivero2647]

I don’t have enough words to express how great this was. Love you guys together! This is exactly what I learned about relationships but it took kissing many frogs to have clarity. I’m still single, but I look at myself so differently, I had to really heal from so much that single is ok. I’ve learned to love myself first. Love you guys and yessss another one of these would be amazing! ❤❤

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching.

[@consummatel]

Yes part 2 please! What a beautiful example of two humans loving each other deeply and supporting each and choosing each other to adventure in life together! I was emotional at the end when they spoke in gratitude of each others love ❤ what a beautiful example to follow in my own relationship❤

[@GabrielBrown-q4n]

I am Mexican married to an American woman. Same like you, but the opposite. The biggest challenge we have had has been the cultural differences. I was raised and educated in Mexico City and she in the USA. I would love for you guys to do a show about cultural differences and how to deal with them. How have you done so that your cultural differences do not affect your relationship?

[@KarlaGarcia-rs3oi]

I totally agree

[@Majesty12-12]

Cultural differences will be just that always different, unchanging. You just adapt to that and go with the flow of things. People always identify with their cultures and upbringing, its not something that changes overtime. This is why its important to first evaluate if cultures differ if that's something your willing to be accepting of in the other person. Tradition and culture always shows in people. It's best to refrain from getting involved with someone that you can't accept their culture because there's always disagreements that will happen and you can't change someone else for yourself to be pleased.

[@aplik881]

Hi friend, it is not something easy to anticipate contrarily to what the other answer said. We learn on the go, feel stressed, misunderstood or whatever by thw other person reaction, and it takes time to figurw out that these oppositions are in dact different perspectives. However this is cultural and this is as well individual, becaise ain't each if us building our own culture in a way, even inside one or several culture. So it get ti the same point, see the other person take away as alternatives in this world and not fundamentally something against our views or personal. How you guys have been doing with tjese differences? One love. We are on one Planet you know,we can work it out

[@kellytaylarkarim1608]

Loved this talk! Martha is a freaking boss standing in her personal power in a way that awes me!!! Yesss please to parts 2,3,4,5!!!

[@marthahigareda8]

Thank you Kelly!

[@claudiafegari5116]

I second that, Kelly!!! :) I would like to add the end brought tears to my eyes, when they expressed their gratitude, sharing what they have learned from each other so far... :)

[@aysandunga_3762]

Vine aquí a decirte que este es el amor que todas merecemos y me da mucho gusto que lo estés viviendo!!!

[@plentyoflife]

el amor, las finanzas, las casas, autos, ciudades, sociedades, TODO SE CONSTRUYE, nada se merece

[@gra_mandalasmandaleandoando]

Todo lo que podemos ver dentro de nuestra realidad es porque es posible, y ellos vienen a mostrarnos que es posible para el que lo ve ❤

[@ivyfariassantos]

Sí! Todas nosotras merecemos ese tipo de amor. Eres para nosotras tambien. Universo, mostre para nosotras.

[@mar_dma]

@@plentyoflifetienes que saber y sentir que lo mereces antes de construir, si no se derrumba.

[@dididodi652]

Espérate que huela el primer pedo asqueroso que se tiren y veremos si aún siguen así.. Ellis están con la enfermedad del amor. No ves defectos . No ves más allá del futuro.. no ves cosas que te molestan del otro y el otro no lo he en ti.. aún ella tiene progesterona y están en la etapa de procreación... Espera pase eso y muy muy pocos se quedan juntos.

[@rainbowtouch797]

I want to have relationship like Lewis has with Martha. Thank you for being constant role model and sharing timeless truth

[@Wombpriestesss]

Martha is such a sweet heart, you can tell she’s done a whole lot of inner work& other things to grow as a person. I love her heart based words!

[@JenniferLett2011]

Bawling my eyes out at how open and loving this was. So helpful and absolutely life-changing for me to see two independent people love each other so openly and in such a dynamic way. Really inspiring conversation with two humans who have learned to love themselves, help others, and align with their person. So cool.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡

[@jayelle1102]

For anyone wondering… the 5 wounds she is talking about is from a book : Heal your wounds and find your true self by Lise Bourbeau. In french: Les 5 blessures qui empêchent d’être soi-même.

[@SwarnimaChowdhury2607]

Thank you very much for sharing

[@jessicahe7535]

Encore please! Part 2, 3, 4, 5, and so on!! We need more conversations of knowledge and wisdom with Lewis and Martha! Thank you for sharing your healthy love relationship

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@deannehorner-godlove8982]

I’ve followed you for several years. This is one of my favorites!! Thank you for sharing this much needed conversation! You two are simply delightful!!!

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@StephenScoggins]

Man Martha!! Lewis Randy said she was awesome, but “seeing I love you through the eyes of another” dude! Powerful ! Much love you too. Congrats to you both !

[@v9b23j]

What a beautiful and mature conversation. Lewis and Martha, you embody the conscious couple.

[@mp7140]

What a wonderful conversation and how sweet and wise Martha is. Also how well she can express herself. It was a pleasure to listen.

[@LL-fc5fo]

Hour 1:20:32 WOW maturity is clear. No need to fight for being a priority. Your cup is full and is willing to give naturally. ❤❤❤ best convo guys! Thank you! Martha explaining the protection and safety is so true! I am in charge of my safety no one else!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much for watching!

[@adrianaaagaardsommer3466]

Martha for president!❤ I’ve learned more about the way I react in relationships from this conversation than I have during the last twenty years and I have worked hard on myself. This conversation explained so much for me. Thank you love birds ❤

[@alexvaloficial]

¡Ustedes son una inspiración de verdad! Qué relación tan bonita y sana. Me encantan los podcasts de ambos. ¡Qué viva el amor! ❤

[@shahendaelmahdy6112]

" It is not about the other person , It is about you " this is most freeing rule in relationships once you change yourself , you will change people around you

[@Sliickriick]

When she said that a man doesn’t feel like he’s enough even though he gives the girl everything. I definitely felt that. My ex would told me I wasn’t enough plenty of times. Until now I had it ingrained in my brain that I’ll never be enough for someone. Jaa now I know that it’s not me it was her. Gracias

[@LoveeeeelyM]

Absolutely we need a part 2 pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻 I loved this episode! Sent it to a bunch of people and took notes. Thank you so much for this incredible gem 💎♥️🫶🏻

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for listening.

[@PatriciaTrueTh]

We will love the second part, certainly is plenty of wisdom, and for that i want to thank you for helping this human to be a better person. ❤

[@tHiSfUgGgiNdUdE]

Yes! I definitley want a Part 2 to this conversation please. Listening to the two of you discuss these things has really helped me re-center myself for my own growth. The journey has been rough lately and this helped me to keep pressing on. Also, just hearing how much she loves you is really wholesome and beautiful. So yes please. Part 2 ASAP.

[@JazminGeronimo-y3p]

Wow! I’m Mexican-American. I was fallowing Martha Higadera and Lewis independently way before they were together. Seeing them together is very joyful.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you! Your support means a lot🧡

[@johnlombardo7816]

Yes!! Not only do we need a part 2.. this needs to be a regular segment please !! So amazing! You guys are a wonderful representation of the meaning of love. ..matter of fact ... .please get you Two and jay and radhi together for a monthly episode please ❤❤❤

[@anaisaerksen]

What a great conversation, thanks for sharing! I'm 38 and just got out of the most unhealthy/toxic relationship I've ever been in and find myself in so much of what you're saying. This gives me hope. You seem to be a wonderful couple. All the best to you! Would love to hear more.

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@jenn2025]

Yessss please!!! best interview on Love and Relationship ever listened. There's such a higher sense of self in both of you that makes it enriching and so potent. We want more #2 for sure. Thanks Lewis Howes grateful for you

[@lewishowes]

So glad you enjoyed it! Appreciate you for watching. 🧡

[@cindygonzalez5052]

Going through this process it’s crazy how she literally put in words everything I have been thinking and healing. Amazing! I feel very identified and it’s a confirmation I’m on the right path. 🙏 blessed and refreshing to hear all this. ❤️‍🩹

[@jef9688]

What a privilege to listen to you two talk about your very thoughtful relationship.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you so much! 🧡

[@ClarisaMompremier]

her metaphor about someone being part of your universe...was genius!!

[@talhyoblitas1602]

You guys are great together!!.....this episode is fantastic 👏🏼, so many of us thinking about finding our other half 😢 when in real life first we have to find ourselves ❤

[@stephaniearistei]

Yes, we want a part 2!!! Pretty please, this has been so insightful! Thank you both so much for sharing your experiences!

[@DJSC5618]

Thank you ❤ onto a great Re-start this 2025 of finding myself, ...to heal, learn, grow and be whole again to find and give authentic love. Blessings to all of you ❤

[@tnyqueen]

I'm watching Martha's interview of Lewis and it's so good. Can't wait to watch this one too!

[@PennyNelson]

Thank you both. What an extraordinary conversation! We should be taught this in school. ❤ So many people are children of dysfunctional relationships. How far we have to go.

[@ainatler]

Agree! We need this type of education in the classrooms.

[@yvettesantillanes]

Same thing I said! This would be great in school.

[@glovazquez5865]

Martha is an old soul that has awakened

[@dharaneemartinez4796]

I was so happy to see that you’d be interviewing one of our great Mexican actors and ecstatic when I learned of your relationship 🎉 I rarely post comments, clearly I had to make an exception. The love is off the charts! 💕 Thank you for this and all of your interviews 😊

[@lewishowes]

You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡

[@Vi_Vi_1]

These types of things are so important to me because they help me have hope that these good relationships can exist. After a lifetime of abuse and trauma, I'm really working on healing and reframing things, and stuff like this is such a gift on my journey, so thank you

[@barbaraclayton6053]

Wow this is awesome VV! It takes a hell of a lot of courage to face your shadow-self and heal the wounds that keep you and happy. I have done much can't sing in group therapy for myself and now I love myself unconditionally more everyday and I am so very deeply grateful that I had the courage to do it. ! Because it is worth it to be able to see the world in a whole different perspective 💕🦄💕

[@Vi_Vi_1]

@@barbaraclayton6053 Thank you Barbara! May we both continue on this path and create wonderful lives!

[@boygates6511]

Sending good healing vibes!! ❤

[@lisav5988]

So appreciate the sweet Raw & real sharing !

[@lizparenzan4761]

Lewis' best podcast. Brought tears to my eyes regarding the love between these two.

[@lewishowes]

Thank you!

[@itzaliadenizard1933]

I wouldn't have never guessed that these two would end up together. I am beyond happy for both of you. You're the perfect match made in heaven ❤ Keep up the great work.

[@gerrycelotto561]

Yes, talk about when things are not in total alignments, love not being enough (which I know is true 😞), boundaries, shared visions conscientiously, also how each partner becomes aware of the other’s reasonable needs without feeling it’s a demand.

[@임수-h7t]

I actually applied her advice to the friendships that I have often found challenging to carry on.

[@Mastermanifestors28]

What did you do,I am facing same ?

[@lewishowes]

👍

[@SoNiiCkx]

Bring on Part 2!! Wow what an amazing conversation. Made me realize so much and reflect on all the entire conversation!!

[@Meandyou-b7e]

After watching this, a year ago, I started to look at my relationships. I started to look for my wounds and in the first place I said that I don't have any ...that this is just not true but then I discovered why I was jealous. I felt like I could not control myself. Thanks to this interview I did what she said. Why getting in these relationships when you could take therapy and heal first before looking for a new relationship. This is how a person can literally change other people's lives, by being authentic and talking from experience and being able to face its own fears, thanks Martha you really saved me by narcissistic men because that was my pattern which I discovered after I dug for a while. 🎉

[@angiecarrillo793]

Me encanta la química que hay entre ustedes, definitivamente este es el amor que toda mujer debe tener, me encanta como se miran y como se admiran. Que Dios los bendiga 🙏 y que llegue a mi un amor así de bonito como el de ustedes ❤.

[@angelinaheine2003]

Martha is just mesmerizing❤

[@redthings8]

Wow, I am going through having lost my husband, who I did have as the importance in my life. Now, I am doing the work to find what I truly need to be happy. The problem is I still want someone to just hangout with. This show is a big help for my healing. THANK YOU, LEWIS!!

[@eugenierunner7988]

You are both unique! You can feel the kindness and the warmth in Martha! Two beautiful souls who finally meet! Yes, to a part 2, please, cz I learned so much in this so needed, (especially in today’s world), deep, conversation! All the best in your endeavours and thank you!❤😊

[@nicoleharper9239]

This conversation is incredible and just what I needed to hear!! Part 2 100% yes!

[@lewishowes]

Thank you!

[@bereczki_toth_noemi]

OMG, I love this! ❤️ I loved especially what you said about your priorities, Lewis! I just wrote a priority list for myself 2 days ago and the first two were the same, in the exact same order, for the same reasons. I've been with my husband for 16 years and we have 4 kids together, but what I realised early on in my life is that you are your first responsibility. Just what Martha said, you cannot take care of others unless you take care of yourself first. But I kind of forgot about it for a while and it took its toll on me. I had to actually grow into that mindset and heal a lot of my trauma (there's still a lot to heal, though...) not just to understand all of this but to have a deep knowing about the truth of it. Really, you've been talking about all my realisations and my journey in healing throughout the whole conversation! This was soooo inspiring and empowering! Thank you so much to both of you for being so authentic! You are role models!❤🙏

[@Ayesha-bz6ng]

such a beautiful podcast. heart warming. got teary eyed at the end when both Lewis and Martha held hands and affirmed love for each other. lovely and truly awakened couple. blessings x

[@lewishowes]

Thank you!

[@Hs000_00]

We are so honored to hear Martha's input. Thank you Lewis for another wonderful interview. She is a sister, a friend, a mother for all of us who dont have such a figure in our lives. What a beauty with brains! And what a great looking couple you are.

[@eyle1154]

So many compliments when ppl do not notice that these two ppl are gorgeous. It really is easy to love and be loved when you are attractive. You are then positive brave and confident. I would like to hear from ppl who do not have all this from the start. How are these ppl going to live?

[@blessingjennifer24]

They work on gorgeousness and attractiveness then

[@monicadinca2821]

I am on this journey to discover my self more than 11 years and I am extremely grateful for this amazing podcast, where is condensed years and years for healing, Lewis and Martha, both of us you helped a lot of people with your beautiful story. Thank you so much! Be blessed with LOVE ❤

[@lilmermaid2930]

GREATNESS ❤ THIS WAS ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL!! Thank you!!

[@nehedhassan1059]

Great podcast, inspirational, educational, eye opening. Sincere, honest & informative conversation. Thank you

[@user-pk5pl7ox1e]

I think when you give and recieve love in certain ways and it matches organically for the other person is just BEAUTIFUL

[@liz.8341]

I'm excited to hear what this lovely couple has to say!! Watching now

[@margueritebaca3921]

So many takeaways. Martha's 5 basic wounds was great for identifying myself and others. I definitely spotted mine and could see how I played it out. What a masterful beauty Martha is. Thank you for bringing her on your show Lewis. I learned a lot from you. Your common value of commitment to growth is something I've dream of and you show me that it 's possible.

[@latisalserica6393]

yes part 2 would be great. was brought up an old fashion way by my mother and previously I thought I had changed many of my faults but realised that I still have more work to do on myself ♥we never stop learning and to be humble and vulnerable.

[@dianaaguilar7632]

Such a wonderful interview... I know now if I want to share my life whit somebody who speak and espress his feelings, respect and admiration just like him, I should start somwere inside on my personal and espiritual inner work... thank you guys

[@anonimochenta4439]

Well, i just read the news they got engaged. I didnt know the guy, sorry. Have seen Higadera since she was super young back in Mexico and I always liked her personality. I am very happy to see her this happy and I am very happy to see that he seems like a really good guy.

[@jamesh88]

Yes to Part 2. Congrats to you both and thanks for sharing your experience. Asking the tough questions early on in relationship is a must. Look forward to Part 2.

[@TanTanMoreira_]

❤ OMG! I am in love for this woman! She’s gorgeous and so smart! What a couple! You both are an explosion of beauty and intelligence! I can’t stop watching this! Great content also! I can’t express how happy I am for watching your stories and experiences! Simply amazing!! ❤

[@lewishowes]

Thanks for being here!