STOP Chasing Women. Here's What REALLY Works.

[@OliviaAlexa]

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[@jroyal3755]

Ok I will take your advice will you go out with me jroyal from Los Angeles😁

[@King-Magic-7]

Please, Burn That Upcoming Book, Women Love Money, Money Is The God Of This World.

[@robertgates8193]

She is spot on👊🏿💯 My mom told me at the age of 14 yrs old. I'm 47yrs old now. She said If a woman wants you she will not ever make it hard for you to get her.

[@33GLOCK]

Lol be careful if she too easy now.

[@jcransome5616]

Ok boomer. Any tinder matches??

[@mikesimmerman4457]

Well now days you do that you gonna end up in prison cause harassment

[@KingBabaJames]

​@@33GLOCKyeah a H

[@SammyOmari254]

Wow😂😂

[@dwaynelewis6185]

She’s NOT interested, leave and walk away because some women like to waste time,especially a man’s time!

[@mikeandmars2345]

Factsssss

[@Ston247]

"She's not the only sand at the beach. There's a whole lot of beaches." - Funkadelic

[@MarkDaSilva-z9i]

Yeah...I know because I learned that the hard way.

[@TheMaurob1979]

They still want attentions not giving you anything

[@Borough1736]

When I stopped chasing and just focused on my life’s progression, options came pouring in.

[@RichardClosure]

That’s how it happens. Like 1-2-3.

[@KingShaqxYahudah]

Facts I'm going through the same thing right now but you can't be ugly tho. Peace and blessings brother 🙏🏾

[@kvnndvn]

Facts, bro.

[@romans003]

Yhea because they were after your resources, they are always looking for a man that has lots of resources, that are dumb enough to give, then when you get divorced they take it all

[@christianhenry4173]

I don't care about options as a black pill guy and introvert I could care less who tags alone except my real friends and family..I got fed up with womens games.. I've learned the ones who are in your proximity are not to be trusted either. Women are not supposed to chase or approach men. It's sickening. Male lions always approach the female lioness after combat of his strength with another lion..that's how God designed it, that's how true attraction works..women were not designed to chase men..she can initiate but even then I found out that can be a red flag too

[@landismithCOJ]

No need to run after her. She isn't interested, then run ahead of her. Thank you, Olivia.

[@IntegraDIY]

I don’t run ahead of them, I run away from them. I don’t want those problems.

[@mharding1258]

The funny thing is, when she's not interested and you laugh and carry on, she gets interested. But then she becomes uninteresting to you if you have any self respect.

[@christianhenry4173]

If someone wants to ghost or play a game let them play by themselves..

[@3-27s]

On your left

[@beats4life971]

Y’all need to start thinking before being actionable. I thought this was common knowledge 😢 dang.

[@smokeyhat]

Start by eating right, lifting weights, and running. This will build your self-confidence, and don't do it for a woman🙄, do it for you.

[@mckalfj5953]

Yes, thank so much for saying this.

[@dezfyah]

Thank you for saying this Bro!! Been meaning to get back into working out, and I always feel so much better about things when I do.

[@Nov24thsFinest]

🫡💯

[@Havok775]

Thank you I will keep this on my mind .... to do it for me .. just for me not for any women just me 🙏 thank you.

[@thomaschandler4769]

CORRECT, DO IT FOR YOU. AND KNOW THAT IN A MANS LIFE THE ONLY WOMAN THAT WILL TRULY LOVE HIM IS HIS MOTHER. TRULY=UNCONDITIONALLY. GIRLFRIENDS, FUCK BUDDYS, WIVES SAY THEY LOVE YOU CAUSE YOURE MEETING HER CONDITIONAL REQUIREMENTS... THAT AINT LOVE FELLAS, THATS A CONTRACT ❗DONT TAKE EM THAT SERIOUSLY CAUSE ALL A MAN TRULY EVER HAS IS HIS MOTHER.. IM 61YRS OLD GOING ON 40YRS OLD IN MY MIRRORS. THIS CORRECT PHILOSOPHY WILL KEEP YOU GROUNDED, SANE AND "AIR TIGHT". PIECE FELLAS ✌

[@dont6441]

Guys, stop chasing. Even if you don't get the woman of your dreams, you'll keep your self respect which is way more valuable.

[@aliassem1035]

I had to hear this bro! This girl I liked she showered me with beautiful compliments and always wished me good shit. When I saw her for the first time in a while, I caught feelings for her and occasionally I text her but her demeanour is slightly off so I took this as a sign that she’s not interested now it’s hard to forget about her despite I’ve known her for like 5 years

[@markkettner9246]

To me if you have to chase her then she's not the woman of your dreams

[@mharding1258]

This....... Yes, this.

[@MD-pt2mw]

@@markkettner9246 RIGHT!!! FAULTY DREAM

[@jus4000kicks]

I think its more like chase and pursue with dignity and self respect.

[@Howling-at-the-moon]

“If you want to hunt wolves, don’t wander aimlessly through the woods, become a master of the terrain.” Loved this! 😀

[@OneTruth56]

That would be great, but no man will ever master any female due to the fact they all have different motives to charge their battery while their battery needs to be charged differently every single time. Ignore women. They notice you more than you do them. It’s all games. They must like what you do not vice versa. Do not change for anyone because there is already some out there that truly is that way who still is all alone! Men… PROTECT YOUR HEARTS!

[@assanmagure5054]

😂

[@KD-lj2pj]

​@assanmagure5054 if you want to catch wolves you start with the prey 😂😂

[@vikaspatankar5768]

Perfect diction... excellent... Can't be better than this...❤

[@StayViben]

The word I like to use is reciprocation. If she isn’t initiating conversation (texting or calling you 1st), engaging in conversation (details about her life) and Making time for you. Leave her alone

[@Soloman_1800]

Bingo 💯💯💯

[@fif5094]

It’s that simple!!! 💯💯💯

[@33GLOCK]

Mmmm

[@hsny76h4l9]

​@@33GLOCKbut don't women like to be chased

[@Steve24527]

What if you’re 62 I’ve done my time work wise I’m slim fit and just want a girl I find attractive and connect with to enjoy the simple things in life

[@SeymourKitty]

Don't chase women. Chase your dreams and goals.

[@miguellorenzo3609]

Yup

[@mckalfj5953]

Yes, and that's great advice men and women All people in general

[@rholalbi8155]

RIP StackBundles Love From Africa To France 🙋🏿‍♂️

[@SeymourKitty]

@@rholalbi8155 ssssquad up Gz

[@getmoneye101c]

RRRRRIIIIIGGGHHHTT!!!!

[@chrisg2282]

This hits close to home for me. Young guys you are fortunate if you are learning this now. 💯

[@Cryinsidesmileout]

❤

[@edgrabowski6797]

I ask a girl out, if she says no or not interested. I say to her thanks . Her rejection is my blessing because she is not my future wife.

[@hsamzsd]

if she says no or not interested she is a rare woman. Usually you'll get hit with im busy, sick, i'll let you know, etc

[@Mr._Martinez]

"Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings." - Proverbs 31:3

[@jaobidan2358]

Just by not chasing them at all, you put yourself out in front. Why? Because she's used to having men, of all types, chase her but then she sees you...The guy that doesn't. You don't even look at her or say hello...You act like you don't care. Now? She knows she doesn't exist to you, and she wants to know why...Prepared to be approached. It's all mind games, fellas...And the game is fake. Gets boring after a while, ngl.

[@PermanentHigh]

Facts. It's especially funny if you're tall and when they stand in front of you look over their heads as if they're not even there, and you can see their little eyes looking up at you looking for your attention 😂😂😂

[@claytonmurray5004]

You have a point but you are talking about mind games and those won't take you very far... if at all

[@oneiros1401]

Completely disagree. Guys, stop approaching women. I've done over 2000 approaches, got laid, it was fun, but the odds are EXTREMELY low, less than 2-4% actually lead to the bedroom. These stats are corroborated by all of the day game coaches. Women are so entitled at this point, the only thing for men to do is to go their own way. If a woman is truly interested, SHE is the one who will express interest, anything from twirling her hair, checking you out, to actually giving you her number. If there's none of those signals, do not bother.

[@Macnificent-cb5lz]

How Did You Keep Count

[@alexanderkohary1690]

Best comment. Simple.

[@oneiros1401]

@@Macnificent-cb5lz journaling in my notes on the phone after each day of approaching. After each approach I'd write down the girl's name and a brief about the interaction. There were bad days, where you'd do 0 approaches, and there'd be great days when you'd do 15-20. At the end of each month you add up all the approaches and then add up all the months at the end of the year.

[@peteypete9357]

1.) I've done over 2000 approaches 2.) women are entitled Gee I wonder what made them that way?

[@Littletime839]

I'm 52 and I don't think I've even spoken to that many women in my lifetime

[@jeromedanielson4422]

People who are comfortable with being alone when they are alone, understand their value with or without a woman. These types of people do not “chase.”

[@robbie73vespa]

I'm one of them now 🙏

[@candlestyx8517]

I want a woman to spend my life with, I certainly dont need one

[@oracleKING]

The woman that is chased is likely to divorce that man. If you found her running she will leave you running

[@STEDEL82]

I think that if you don't chase a certain type of woman, she'll just move on. Most women are that way. If you don't approach women with a certain mindset, you'll end up not getting anywhere, but there's a good probability you're very well dodging a bullet. To me, the best type of woman is one who doesn't mind reciprocating the effort you put in.

[@oracleKING]

@@STEDEL82 the woman that likes the chase is basically looking for a man with anxiety attachment. Or Maybe I'm not sure I could be wrong 🤔

[@STEDEL82]

@@oracleKING It's really hard to say because men are usually conditioned to believe you're supposed to chase a woman to showcase your "manhood." That ideology is "normalized" for the most part.

[@IronBronx]

I think women in general don't make the first move because it puts them in a position to potentially face something that they're not used to dealing with: rejection, which would be a major blow to their ego. And correct me if I'm wrong, but isn't there a statistic somewhere that shows relationships, where the woman approached the man first, last longer?

[@wilfridjoseph6172]

Well at a female house at this time and she was the one that asked me on a date first.

[@KD-lj2pj]

Women can't handle rejection One thing for sure the only thing in this world that don't live long is a Dog that chase Cars😂😂😂😂😂..Facts...

[@candlestyx8517]

My first relationship was my longest and she approached me.

[@SP-vt2fl]

Again spot on.. I don't waste my time chasing.. If they want me They will chase me!!

[@theelaffingman8776]

Stop chasing…completely. Stay single and leave them alone. Focus on your, your purpose, happiness, and path. Don’t chase, approach, or entertain women anymore. It’s just not worth the risk. Mgtow grows larger everyday. Be happy in your singlehood.

[@JolPil]

And remain childless. And accept not to pro create. And be taken out of hunan history into the future .

[@lutha32]

They not worth stressing over plain and simple. Just keep getting better and keep your options open.

[@TheVillageBeast]

Chase your purpose kings

[@Cryinsidesmileout]

❤

[@candlestyx8517]

Every man has a beast slumbering inside of them, Its just easier for some to awaken that beast than others.

[@VibingCat39]

I don't see anything wrong with chasing a woman thats chasing you. If she is showing interest in you it doesn't hurt to go the other 50% and show interest in her. I agree though, if she doesn't show interest in you don't waste your time. Its like my favorite bible verse: "Its more wise for a man to build on a rock then to build on sand".

[@stevewoodson4635]

Amen heaven choirs

[@jimdaniel4412]

Give her 50 percent and your building in her sandbox

[@efrainbrown1]

Best thing I ever did was deciding to stay single for life after divorce.Too hard getting or understanding most woman. God bless the brother that try to.

[@diegolamora7568]

Guys, listen to what she said." Don't compromise your standards and values". Spot on!

[@OliviaAlexa]

Hi Guys!

[@marlong168]

Hello beautiful.

[@yungslime-fb]

Heyy baee 🙏🏽❤️💪🏽

[@shilohenry5481]

I like your Style, You a STAR LIV

[@jt-xg5cu]

Hi Olivia ty for your advice from a woman's point of view. Smart &BEAUTIFUL.

[@Borough1736]

Hello Love! ❤️❤️❤️

[@frankdiddy28]

This woman is a true gift please listen and apply

[@thecosmicscream918]

Chasing and sending ALOT of attention is something I no longer bother with from being burnt out on pointless, childish mind reading games, embarrisments and legal risks. Not only has that game been horribly rigged from the start so the guy always loses, but there's now laws (aimed generally at men) that can destroy someone's whole Life from just a simple accusation (even if proven false)... I have had much better results just focusing on my Life and they can initiate a conversation. They are so used to men pandering over them that their poor little heads explode when they get ignored or treated as a "normal pedestrian or person"... It's just not worth playing their stupid games no more. They take it way too much for granted and pretty much abuse it and bath in the priveledge of never having to lift a finger in the romance World and are always appearing as "innocent" with the leverage to call someone an idiot, a-hole or creep... Ladies, you are now abusing, taking advantage of and even harming men for playing the game in which you insist upon and support. Don't act surprised when men stop playing your games at this point.... Exactly how STUPID are we supposed to be....for you?

[@JustTiga]

Wow! You spared nothing here bro! I love it! Youre right. The game is messed up with women expecting all the romance and not lifting a finger. A lot of women are caught up in this fairytale or reality tv to expect traditional values yet they carry themselves with a modern day attitude. Its not cute or sexy at all. It just shows you who you thought they were. If any man is willing to subject himself to that , especially after recognizing it, he deserves everything coming to him. If a woman can give a list of values or expectations, yet she can't or won't tell you what the man should expect in return, dont walk, Usain Bolt 🏃‍♂️ 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♂️ away. You are heading for heartache if you dont get out of there like last year.

[@krazykrooztv9674]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@33GLOCK]

LOL u snapped

[@georgeandy6923]

Very Well Stated! That's why Men Need To GET THEIR PASSPORTS! There are still some Real Women in This World, Who Aren't About The Game Playing. But You May Have To Travel Elsewhere To Find Them!!

[@33GLOCK]

@@georgeandy6923 you sound just like a robot we see this "passport" comment Everytime now y'all got nothing new to follow huh? Not very smart thats for sure.

[@lstrong9398]

Olivia, you are absolutely right! I have been saying the same thing. All men need to listen to this. As a man value who you are because you are responsible for your own happiness. Be secure in your own skin and walk in confidence. What I see that bothers me, is when men continue to bombard a woman after she says no, I mean move on and find someone that will say yes. We as men need to make sure that we are secure with our mental health, physical health and our finances. We have to work on ourselves and make sure we become desired by the women. Yes , we hunters, so why not OWN the jungle instead of chasing after everything in it!

[@gclark8228]

In my personal experience, I have never chased women,ever. If you have your stuff together and carry yourself the right way,you won't have to chase them,they will make themselves available to you!

[@wavestation999]

Be the best version of you, regardless of what anyone else thinks. Women will either like you or they won't, you can't force that to change. Focus on the ones who are attracted to the authentic you, forget about the rest.

[@regalk-hr7tf]

Giga Chad advice 🤙

[@reggiedavenport3911]

I used to chase. Never ever ever ever ever again...

[@andrewcole5658]

To her analogy about the devalued currency and an overabundance of something lowering it's intrinsic value: I have recognized this in a lot of the things modern women do for attention. The overabundance of social media posts, filters, tattoos, BBLs, Onlyfans accounts and the twerk being their best and most utilized dance move. These to me have plummeted in value as there is so much available to the public.

[@Trump145]

Thank you Olivia, this one really hit home with me because I was dating a young lady. And we went out a few times and I thought everything was kind of going fine, but then she kind of backed off and so what I did, I sent a final text message just to make sure it was what I thought it was. She didn't respond back and that sealed the deal with me this is a code I live by guy's you cannot catch what doesn't want to be cought, I will not chase after a woman who doesn't want me. Remember rejection only last eight seconds. That last part you said Olivia if a woman isn't attracted to you don't waste your time that's the vibe that she gave me and I left it alone.

[@lookfeelbehealthy6320]

Amen, Mr. President

[@Trump145]

@@jasminedtucker yes I did and thank you

[@blair5475]

@@Trump145 update?

[@Trump145]

@@blair5475 I left her alone, I do not reach out to her or text her anymore.

[@peteypete9357]

Thanks President. By the way, great job on defeating Biden on that debate.

[@KingShaqxYahudah]

Dont look for a man or woman until you have self healed from previous traumas. After giving My life back to Christ my presence and being handsome kinda makes attracting women kinda easy. Just on me to determine if shes a Godly women worth my time. We shall see . Peace and blessings 🙏🏾

[@josedopwell9645]

Just be careful. The strongest man (Samson), the wisest man (Solomon) and the king of Israel (David) all fell in great ways to women. Proverbs 31:3 warns, "Do not give your strength to women, to THOSE WHO DESTROY KINGS." And that was a mother's counsel to the son of her womb!! The dating scene amongst professed Christians can be worse in some ways than that of the unsaved BECAUSE some will put on the front of following Christ BUT will readily surrender to sexual immorality. God gave His children the Spirit of power, love and SELF-CONTROL. Paul warns us to flee from immorality as Joseph did when Potiphar's wife made sexual advances towards him. In a biblical #me too moment she falsely accused Joseph of raping her (1Corinthians 6:18, 1 Timothy 1:7, 2 Timothy 2:22, Genesis 39:7-20).

[@sparkerfivethousand1374]

There are more women in the world than men therefore I can't chase any woman just by knowing this ratio and great analogy Sister.

[@gregpresley1466]

Damn!!🏆💯👏 ..As a 50 year old successful black man, I approve this message!!! ..This sista is dropping GEMS!!

[@michaelgooden5843]

I really needed to see this video. I recently did something nice for someone and it apparently freaked them out. They already knew that I had a liking for them, but now since the kind gesture, they are avoiding me. I'm actually cool with her not liking me romantically, as I'm not ready to exclusively date anyone, but I was hoping for a friendship with this person or at the very least, a conversation to take place expressing why I did what I did, but that most likely won't happen now. It's crazy how even the women who seem mature, act like this. I'm not gonna hold any grudges because I have spaces like this, which made me aware that this was a possibility. Thank you Olivia for another dope video and for continuing to drop these gems...🤗

[@chrisjohnson4272]

What did you do for her?

[@michaelgooden5843]

​@@chrisjohnson4272 Basically I bought one of my coworkers a birthday gift... We'd always exchange pleasantries and every so often would engage in conversations regarding relationships. Not with one another per'se, but in general. We'd also shared some light hearted flirting, initiated by myself, which let her know that I was intrigued, but also let me know that she probably didn't see me as more than a coworker/friend. One day during a brief chit-chat, she mentioned that her birthday was coming up and that she had planned on taking off work so she could go out to celebrate (she works weekends). When I asked her what she had planned for her b-day, she said that she was going to a reggae club and expressed how much she liked the music. I must say, although we are just cordial/ cool with one another, I do like the way that she carries herself and I like her point of view in regards to the relationship topics that we've talked about. Anyway, out of the kindness of my heart, I got her a gift. I put together a lil swag bag for her. I got her a bath & body bundle (body wash, lotion, and perfume), a Mickey Mouse t-shirt, some Mickey Mouse socks, a card, some pixie candy, a bottle of wine, some cute little booties with mouse ears on them I stumbled across, and a USB port with reggae music on it, since she mentioned that she liked that style of music so much. She actually had to work the day of her birthday and it was just a normal night. No Happy Birthdays, no nothing from the rest of the coworkers. Her demeanor comes across as shy/reserved anyway, so she probably didn't mind people not making a huge fuss. 2hrs into our shift, I pulled her to the side and told her that I needed to tell her something. I made it seem serious and kinda urgent. When she made it over to the designated area, away from everyone else, I then wished her a Happy Birthday and told her that I had gotten something for her. Initially she was very shocked, especially since she thought I had something bad to tell her. Because I didn't want to cause a scene and embarrass her, I showed her pictures of what I had gotten her with my phone, opposed to just giving her a bag full of stuff in front of everyone. Still shocked, she thanked me and told me that I could bring it to her car on our lunch break. Later as I began to hand over the gift, she then tells me how thoughtful I was for doing this, gave me a hug, smiled, and said that she was going to send me a picture with her wearing the items. Although I was shocked at what she had just said, I quickly responded that she would need my phone number in order to do so. SHE then asks me for MY phone number, sends me a text, and locks me in. (I left out 2 small details which might be of use when you tell me what you think went wrong. 1) she said she tripped and hurt herself the night that she went out, and had to get pain medication. When I initially got her attention to tell her that I needed to talk, she didn't seem quite like herself. It was almost like she had something serious on her mind or had been crying, although she blamed it on the meds. 2) that USB port had all reggae music on it except 1 song that I told her reminded me of her. "Do it like her" by Jeremieh and Diggy.) 2 days go by and I give her a lil text and ask if she was feeling any better since the last time I saw her, because she looked as if she was in a lot of pain. She replied that she was doing better and thanked me for checking on her. I then asked if she'd had a chance to listen to that song that I previously mentioned, and from that point, I began to get replies 20 min later and then 1hr later. She said that she hadn't heard it yet and apologized for her late responses. She then tells me that she was home stressing over something and that she'll have to get back with me later. I was trying to be a good sport about it and said that would be fine.. That was 4 days ago... I'm currently on vacation, so we haven't crossed paths since I gave her the gift and we haven't messaged or spoken since... (sorry 4 the long message, but you asked 🤷‍♂️)

[@michaelgooden5843]

@billiejean8665 I was too nice to her. We're not dating, she's just a coworker that I'm kinda fond of. The gift bag that I put together for her took a lot of thought, and it probably gave her the impression that I was head over heels for her, putting her on a pedestal. Because women are hypergamous, she probably internally feels that she can do better than me, since women like to date up...

[@marvin7232]

@@michaelgooden5843 IMO, yea putting together a gift bag and not dating yet is a bit much.. simple conversations until she gives you some signals that she’s on you like that! Now, just do like the video says and ignore her, and don’t be rude doing it.. confidently and politely speak/or not, and keep it moving. Refocus on doing and building you, and she’ll more than likely double back, along with the other women that notice your change. Good luck

[@michaelgooden5843]

@@marvin7232 I appreciate you for not clowning me for what I shared. I knew that the situation could play out the way that it did, and my dumb @ss did it anyway. I plan on doing exactly what you said, not be rude, speak only when necessary, and keep it moving... Later bro, ✌

[@ruggedshark5921]

"You need her more than she needs you." The mark of a defective person / relationship - this is the game sick people play with their "loved" ones

[@donald7188]

Yes you right

[@carlosf.adamssr.1984]

It’s not worth trying to please a woman and they are not worth it .Just learn to make yourself happy and the hell with the rest because you do not have to have a woman.

[@raymondojo4130]

Facts

[@shadeedqaadir208]

So why are you on this page

[@professorx5597]

Yes we do, for recreation and procreation

[@joesitt1]

Do you want to be lonely and die alone ?

[@sod172]

"Those men get along best with women who can get along best without them." Charles Baudelaire

[@riofacts8283]

This is a 💎 post/video I've always said never chase,because u shouldn't have to if the feelings are mutual. And never play a woman's game!

[@noelgibson5956]

Basically, anything other than a yes, is a no. If she leaves you wondering, gives vague answers or says 'maybe another time'................ that's womanese for no. If she likes you, you'll know all about it. It will be obvious.

[@reggiemccoy3265]

Speaking For Myself Personally Yes Back In My Teenage Years and Age Of 20s I Used To Chase Learning The Hard Way But Now That Im In My Age Of 30s I've Saddled Down Relaxing My Mind Hitting The Gym, Focusing On My Goals, Always Keeping God and His Son Jesus First, Plus My Father R.I.P. and Grandfather R.I.P. Always Told Me Hey She Decides To Leave Or Show No Interest Then Let Her Go, Hold Your Head Up High and Keep Walking Tall. Thanks Sis May God Bless You Covered By The Blood Of Jesus.

[@edheldude]

Why Do You Write Like This?

[@reggiemccoy3265]

@@edheldude Because As Child Growing Up Its How I Write So Hey My Bad or My Fault.

[@mikea2138]

She's like the big sister we never had 💯

[@chrisg2282]

💯💯

[@NEWJERSEY_K]

Lil sister .....im older

[@shilohenry5481]

Sometimes the chase is cool fun exciting until you see that she doesn't Appreciate it, then you gotta do the Knowledge and dip off Respectfully as a Man.

[@TheWMBWLife]

We ❤ the hoops! ....and yes, chasing isn't good. It is "thirsty" and desperate, telling her she's got nothing to invest in. No work necessary. She's got it in the bag from the outset. P.S......again, ❤ the hoops!

[@Veteransolo]

When i was a teen, an old man told me this. "Listen to me boy, im a hunter, hunting animals is one thing, and women is another, we hunt animals because we need them to survive, either for food, or to pacify them and use them for something such as cattle or transportation, Hunting women never works, you have to make them like you, and to the woman you want, you have to make her want you, if you have to hunt her, then it is only one sided, like the real hunt, make her want you first, and then only then you can have her. Ask her out, get to know her, and make her want you by being yourself. " Wise words.

[@kingwise777]

I’m 37, and what I’ve found to work extremely well with women is the phenomenon of “Enchantment and Disenchantment”. It’s in man’s nature to approach a woman and show interest BUT it’s also in woman’s nature to be emotional. Taking a woman thru the motion of showing interest and also giving her space by backing up a bit makes them wonder and intrigues them. I does this daily with great success

[@CitygirlRayA]

I’m 38 and that tactic doesn’t work on all women, guy. If a guy tried that on me, i wouldn’t wonder or chase thinking is it something I did or said. I’ll just take it as a “ bullet dodged” and ignore him going forward. It’s called reversing and serving the other party their own mind game. That’s very lame and weak of you to still be playing like that then (y’all) wonder why! 😁

[@kingwise777]

@@CitygirlRayA Well considering that you’re a city girl, I wouldn’t even waste the time and energy trying this on you seeing as it would be fruitless and a lost cause but for regular women it works well. I’ve found that women love the thrill of having their emotions raging like a roller coaster so it’s only fitting to take them down thru there. Additionally it’s 2023, and according to this channel the modern woman is the WORST, so with that being it’s best to use a tool that ensures the safety and well being of man’s emotional and mental health. The days of letting y’all play with us is almost over

[@vitalscience2277]

Dammmm this is crazy … Homie sound like he bout to claim war on woman and shorty sound like a woman scorch … SMMFH and y’all wonder Y da kids have gender problems …. If u like her be her friend then tell her … if u like him reflect the same energy…. Stop this alpha beta sigma stuff .. U R who u R … please I don’t want to live in a world that hate the opposite sex ….

[@ShaniDev-l4u]

A 38 year old city girl lmao, social engineering is very real

[@ShaniDev-l4u]

A 38 year old city girl lmao, social engineering is very real

[@ReeseMoe73]

im 50 yrs old and i been unknowinly doin this since college. Had no idea these were rules lol.. that explains why ive relatively successful with women

[@MaríatereParedes]

Working on yourself is hard, but more valuable than chasing women

[@bradmacleanfishing]

I’ve wasted my time chasing, not anymore, I’m a good man, I’ve got good things ahead. Thank you.

[@trainelavalais6280]

Don't ever chase a woman. I seen the scenario when a man was turned down my a woman he was chasing. Two weeks later, a woman pursued that same man the other woman turned down and guess what? THAT OTHER WOMAN WAS JEALOUS!!

[@talktoeric]

Some experts say if you are upfront about your attraction, then she will stop wondering about you. You lose the air of mystery.

[@wayneturner8575]

It is too much effort,as well. I ask once. She says no,or worse a vague answer - I never ask again,and move on.

[@eastrosecollection7544]

This is the best video for men to watch. Not one sided at all but purely the truth

[@toddfrank3344]

She's right about one thing. Never chase women. Avoid them completely.

[@gracerules2008]

Even if she says yes when asking her out the 2nd time it's probably not for the right reasons. She's using him for something and it is only a matter of time before a hurtful ending. I am learning to take the no on the first time as a blessing in disguise.

[@nyashajaravani3622]

Olivia Alexa has become like a daily devotional scripture to me. I appreciate your work beautiful sis. Life is kinda complicated to navigate by yourself most times. We all need each other.. thank you.

[@therealsyxx]

Focus on your goals fellas. Screw them they will follow the money. 💯

[@hectorquinonez7382]

been there. she is on point. am 46 now and a well sustain person in all aspects. do yourself first. and stop giving a fuck about woman. be respecful to all human life and be kind but not stupid. embrace yourself period.

[@TheRealRubikscube777]

Whoever your companion is must be one lucky dude. Keep it up! 💯

[@JustTiga]

Olivia, you hit a home run 🏃‍♂️ on this one! I'm not sure of your relationship status but if your actions speak as loud and as strong as your words, oh yeah, he got a good one! The modern day woman wants the traditional values but carries herself with a modern day attitude. In other words "they want their cake and eat it too" so to speak. All of these games are crazy. If a woman starts out playing games, you know she's not the one. All of this, "the man is supposed to chase the woman nonsense is frivolous; a waste of time". The true woman knows what she wants and wont play games to get it. The law of nature though is for most women to lust after the "coveted bad boy". Dont get me wrong, you like who you like but then they play games with or manipulate the one who wants to trreat her with respect, but he's labeled as the weak one. Guys and girls, if you see and recognize the signs of showing a lack of interest, hear the symptoms of wanting traditional values all the while having a modern day attitude (the man is supposed to do this and that but she dont and wont do this or that), the syndrome is "First Hand Manipulation". Do not lower your standards and self esteem to this. Stay strong, self care and walk your purpose. Whats for you is for you.

[@gsht5839]

You always making sense sister. It's appreciated. Y'all out there.

[@PrimeQuality7.0]

She's speaking 🗣️ on women fellas not Jezebel's 💯

[@user-qo8xk7tg5b]

Fellows get more than 1 woman in your circle. Let them know they're others so you can have choices. Once they get boring go get you a new flock. Stop chasing & wasting your life away.

[@bryanlagos8154]

I love this woman’s advice. She is spot on with a lot of what she says. No lies were told in the making of this video

[@legendary8838]

Over the past few years I’ve learned to stop chasing and let go because they don’t deserve me

[@stevewoodson4635]

Mark 14%7 Matthew 15%8 Ezekiel 12%4 Psalms chapter 114

[@stevewoodson4635]

James chapter 1 Hebrews 7%9

[@toastedtofu8510]

You are the only youtube channel that speaks the truth about the modern dating game. Thank you so much for existing. You are saving men's lives.

[@oracleKING]

Like I said a thousand times..... Men hunt and boys chase. The man will hunt what he wants to KEEP and the boy will chase what he wants to USE 🤫🤫🤫🤫

[@ericthered1140]

Nah Men dont hunt.....if she wants you she'll find you..shell meet you where you at...

[@oracleKING]

​@@ericthered1140us men have been hunting everything since the beginning of time. So don't be lazy about obtaining a woman or anything in life. I will forever disagree with your weak mindset, and never roll with those type of men. No disrespect 🤣

[@oracleKING]

​@@ericthered1140 I see it's 5 of y'all that thinking weak like that. I know it's more of yall hiding out there

[@ancientbehemoth6448]

You are top in this field. I've seen a lot. Best part of your approach is you give the big picture - both what to do, what not to, why, also examples... Most do it, but it feels like you do it really well, simplified, organized, clear... And it feels like you have infused both your experience and perspective as a woman and a lot of experience coming from men and men's perspective and loves. Amazing. Thank you for making this videos. A lot of men and boys need these type of videos, both from men and women, to get the maximum perspective and FEEL for the topic... ...so we can have a world with more strong and Real Men, those who are mature and aware of themselves, not boys in men bodies. We men need it, and when we have it the Game of Life is fun and easier. :)

[@masterj4777]

This is some real hadcore game, gem, Facts, and Truth all wrapped in one so much to unpack!

[@brutonano9521]

My how things have changed. My Brother-in-law (RIP) pursed my sister for two years in high school in the late 80"s. He never took his eye of her. They married and had a very fruitful marriage with three wonderful kids. My father pursued my mother for three years. I don't think this kind of love exist anymore.

[@robpz448]

Just to say - My ex was the one that left. We were in a long term relationship. I went silent after trying to reconcile a couple times. Anyways, she tried to reach out to me a few times after i went silent and i ignored her. The old saying that women are like cats is true. Doesnt matter the situation but its true.

[@brotherbill913]

I liked this... Recently I was "ghosted" but I'm not chasing, I didn't chase and I won't.... The reasons why someone ghosts some one are not vital, it's a demonstration of the "ghosters" character not ours... She had "ex- husband" issues from the start, that should of been clue one to me but love is blind.... My heart is healing and my head is in a better place... It sucked, it did, but I didn't chase, and Olivia is spot on with this, cut the loss, move on, someone better is out there and God has control.....

[@Carlos-fv2fm]

wow, just realised I'm opposite, completly disrespect women and even ignore. They want to be chased and if not than they become mad

[@eric44ism]

I want a woman who's not interested in me at all. I've asked her out 5 times. But I'm determined to have her.

[@SeymourKitty]

I've chased in the past. But only until I got the cookie. Then I kicked back and put my feet up.

[@andrewah15]

It’s so good to get a real woman’s perspective on this. Great work.

[@Daddy2025HQ]

Respect yourself and your values before putting someone else.

[@butakechinfonnyonudfu9097]

My dearest Madam Olivia Alexa I love a way women embraces men by using their body language

[@victorsamuel2040]

I really need to save this video to remind me of my self value 😘😘

[@anthonytippett5997]

So what’s the difference between chasing and pursuing? Because many women feel like they need to be pursued because they feel that’s what a man should do. I personally feel like attraction & perusing should be mutual.

[@alnalley5516]

Thanks, this life lesson resonates on a high level!

[@Timo-uf9en5lk2q]

I was really built up and then I got torn down and now I'm building myself back up❤

[@akumacode]

Truth bombs every couple minutes. Thank you!

[@Investments_and_motivation]

Yeah it’s true before my ex was chasing me when we first got together now .. the dynamics changed I needed to hear this . If u chase she won’t respect you!

[@coyswint7151]

This channel is going to keep growing and adding subs since the content is on point.

[@LarryHouston-d4k]

So true olivia God bless you you are an angel I respect what you are saying it's the truth

[@zionrose007]

Thank you soooo much for destroying this myth. The video simps are teaching the opposite. Thanks again. #Salute

[@bigsk1478]

This is probably the best video of yours I've seen. It definitely hit home...

[@jo3oo590]

Love watching your videos we need more women like you❤😊💯

[@Rogue-Sentinel]

Hot damn Olivia this video deserves a million views! "Carve yourself into the man that women will desire" was on Point!

[@MM-bb1qc]

Men you are the PRIZE.

[@Martin199320]

Not always lol I get your point, but some men with how feminine they act could never be the prize unless they change those feminine vibes they give off which a woman can sense from a mile away.

[@SD4philly]

Fallback and Thinking maintaining Silence ..... POWERFUL !!

[@4hinson777]

Video deserving of a favorite drink! :)

[@Timo-uf9en5lk2q]

Hey with alcohol and drugs out of my life I think I'll be fine thank you very much I love your help I love your wisdom I love your mind I'm glad you exist I thank God for you I am grateful and appreciative❤

[@liamjohnson3247]

Men should focus on becoming rich. The right women will show up naturally. A natural relationship lasts long than cold approach or online dating. Men hear me out: focus on yourself for yourself

[@Demonstrably]

Olivia thank you. I was that great man however in 2015, I experienced 2 life changing & ongoing nightmares. One buying a new-build home (fraud then harassment); the other with my health (Musculoskeletal problems caused by dental work). I spend most of my days with legal work & doctors/physiotherapy. For years no woman has been interested. Why are no women loyal?

[@troycrawford9044]

I thank You for your Wisdom And Knowledge that you always share with us and they are Apples Of Gold And You Are Amazing And Beautiful And Intelligent!

[@mw6343]

I got you on approaching the woman, Olivia. However the woman should be approachable. Lots of landmines in play otherwise. Have you done a video on that?