How To Be A Womans Priority, Not An Option

[@OliviaAlexa]

Hi Guys... I've been making content like this since 2015 and I want to thank all of my supporters. Especially the ones who have been there from day one.

[@deewavy7182]

What's up with all these red pill women youtubers give men pep talk with no man in sight?

[@educ8te]

Thanks for putting it out there.Appreciated

[@lCdGarcia]

🔷I love you Girl!!! Thank You for what you do!!! 1 day we will meet in Heaven!!!!

[@Rollwiththevibes]

FYI there is a typo in your watermark

[@saintdeniroghf9841]

@OliviaAlexa I want you

[@brucewalters8635]

I'm 70 now. When I was around 12 or 13 my mom told me," Never let a girl know how much you like her." I didn't follow her advice and I suffered for it. Ouch!

[@BAKER22-l4u]

Lol..I doubt it

[@Jughead24]

The right woman is the right woman and you'll just be able to be yourself. If you have to fake it or follow some type of protocol is a fake foundation and it won't last.

[@jeremyromero9698]

Mom was right

[@gregorylatta8159]

You are the only one!

[@shanederry2691]

Tell her you can't stand her.

[@TheItYo]

If they don’t want your attention don’t fight to give it to em’. More than likely you’ll be spending time and money and they wouldn’t even appreciate it.

[@dextermcgowan4723]

Well said sir salute 🫡.

[@kacthinkforyourself6968]

👑👍🏾💯

[@kofib3]

Definitely 💯.

[@michaeljeffery7466]

Absolutely agree.

[@SoloDolo12830]

Factz

[@ThePreacher1995]

“Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.” Maya Angelou

[@Ch4mp1996]

Works only for men not women ! Women need to make a man in their priority Even if she’s an option for him.

[@BAKER22-l4u]

Exactly

[@davidngulube5944]

Where said my friend

[@Onguard8737]

That's just common sense really

[@jerrelleelsberry1706]

I speak for all men, prioritize pursuing your purpose and becoming the man you desire to be. Leave the situation for good if a woman disrespects you. Long as you prioritize your purpose and bettering yourself you will eventually attract the right woman. It’s all about your dignity and respect.

[@25lighters83]

This… is the correct answer 💯

[@johnkyl123]

Correct brother. Fiending to be enough was never the natural state. That is actually Inadequacy within man’s own soul. It’s simply you are or you aren’t for that woman. That was never meant to be taken as a blow of pride. It only became weaponized by deceitful women who are then able to gain further, without the full interaction that should be present. Man stands at the highest of the high, opposed to where we place women. We are the shield they bear, but the bearer must be worthy of that shield to begin with. Therefore, we live in suffering made to temper our own steel. While the steel does not actually need tempering, it solely needs a better wielder. It’s become common place reverse psychology.

[@matthewgabbana5021]

Agreed

[@mingan4080]

fr man ,my bad i even tried after the break up to be with her together.didn`t work out obv.

[@zxxDarkLightxxz]

ye, thanks for this advice, I really feel like this is what I have to do in order to improve.

[@MrKatz916]

Make them feel your absence! This definitely works.

[@BAKER22-l4u]

Exactly

[@sheezy2526]

No, it works on those with attachment issues who don't even know they have them. Unless they are working to make themselves better its best to just move on.

[@hailstorm1986]

Any woman who puts her friends above the person that they supposedly want to have a relationship with is someone that you should not waste your time with and I learned this personally the hard way and I cannot stress this enough. My ex-girlfriend was changing plans just so she could spend time with her friends and some of those friends were guys. I eventually got fed up with it and immediately it was turned around on me which was another sign that the relationship was not going to work out. I found out later on that she was actually cheating on me with one of those guy friends and the worst part was that her best friend knew about it and didn't care at all that she was lying and being unfaithful to me. Another lesson from this for all of you is always pay attention to the company that you're partner keeps because that is also a clue as to the kind of person that they are..

[@SoloOcean]

💯💯

[@naturalbornkiller361]

Absolutely true. I was in the same situation as yours before, and the worst part of it was the fact that you know you used to be 'that guy' to her, but the moment her friends sensed it, they brainwashed her and turn her into a bad girl like them. The reason for this is most women today are not happy with the guy they are with. By extension, they can't see their friend having a happy life with a man they truly like. As they say, misery loves company. Believe me when I say this, women are far more evil than men.

[@Chris_8]

@@naturalbornkiller361 Same here man, she mostly made time for her friends but not a lot for me. The odd thing is that during the breakup, one of her friends (some fat white girl) was listening to the conversation we had hiding in a corner

[@whowho1769]

Ain't no way in the world I would EVER accept my woman picking friends make it females over me to go out with. Call me insecure or whatever. I'm not going for it... never have and never will

[@hailstorm1986]

@@whowho1769 Believe me as soon as I see that again I'm bailing a lot sooner..

[@pranaytejachethireddy9035]

1. Read the room 2. Reciprocate 3. U come first 4. Novelty factor 5. Be a puzzle 6. Be the prize 7. Mental engagement 8. Tactical brilliance 9. Be mysterious

[@OneEyedLion]

The first time a woman says she's unavailable, stop calling her and ice her out. If she calls and wants to get together, say you're busy and ask her to call back in a few days. This will put her in her place.

[@BAKER22-l4u]

Exactly

[@nathand.384]

Facts

[@MitsurugiR]

And the single most important thing to remember for men is to never be afraid to lose that woman. Keep this in mind and act in accordance with that mindset and things will get better. Respect yourselves.

[@10minutebooks-ww1nh]

I'm starting this from right now. I'm tired. I'm putting me first

[@Noel127]

Want her to be crazy about you? Act like you don't want her and you're better off without her. Take care of yourself. Get cleaned up, fix your outfit, your smile etc and go work out and she'll get concerned. Treat her like the option instead and she'll be crazy for your approval, but you gotta be a man, don't be a doormat stand confident in yourself and make yourself unavailable.

[@daysrays3987]

facts

[@taguirre7052]

Real talk bro

[@brianpowell5182]

Luv'n it luv'n it😊!

[@trunjames1607]

💯👌🏾

[@Ommarrie]

Don’t even act , you just gotta be about it

[@petercharlery5731]

I like the way this lady explain things. She is like a good mother who teaches her sons how to handle women

[@ramiroeatn8530]

Strongly Agree 😂

[@lloydwatkins1057]

To simply, focus on yourself, level up and only give your time to those who truly like you/deserve it 💯

[@sanusisopinionandthoughts6776]

She is right. I have been ignored and ghosted before so I know the feeling.

[@daibm5392]

I have been ignored and ghosted, too. When she came back, she begged me to fck her. I was so not feeling her anymore, I didn't! That DROVE her insane 🤣

[@hoobeydoobey1267]

Do not ever become plan b. If you see they put their phone or work first yet find time to take off work to do the things they want, but never the things you want, don't try to win her. Dump her. It's on her to figure out why she's f'd up. Trust me. You'll become Plan A immediately. Just stay the course. Either she'll confess her idiocy and apologize or she'll just whine over you being gone. The only true apology is, I will never do x again.

[@timoromeo7663]

Yea, because plan b is your abortion.

[@baggyclothes4life991]

If a chic is making excuses she clearly is not interested in you. You must have common sense. I guess a lot of people just don’t have it. How could you not know that a chic ain’t feeling you? Dating isn’t supposed to be hard. It’s supposed to be easy as hell. If a chic is too difficult it’s better to quickly move on to the next chic until you find the one who actually likes you back.

[@robertdesmond1131]

Simple but most of the time we want those who do not want us at all costs.

[@GuerreroDelInfo]

not all women are the same. some are gay and have gf's but they still want to have children. often they won't show interest in men

[@BAKER22-l4u]

Lol...Let us know when you LEAVE FANTASY LAND

[@alexandergodwin2077]

Relationships aren't supposed to be easy... they are supposed to be worth it. Nothing worth having is not worth fighting for.

[@stemulatedstudents]

This is why it seems like people aren't getting married and divorce is at a high rate. These games are child's play. From what I've seen, women don't do well with too many options... all that said, I can sum up what Olivia said in one sentence.... if you're not a priority, don't even make that person an option...cut them out completely. Not appreciating people that show you care is a character flaw...

[@jordanbaltes6719]

That last sentence - that's the elephant in the room that nobody talks about. Spot on

[@ginofx]

"Be the driving force that elevates her life from ordinary to extraordinary"...basically be unforgettable.

[@chrisandsneaky2453]

Any man who puts in that much effort instantly loses her respect and any desire she might have had for him.

[@milfmuncher6962]

Wrong you have to go for the broke bitches and anything you do around her elevates her life. Going all out is for suckers and SIMPS.@@chrisandsneaky2453

[@Hittboxingandfitness]

Why df do we have to do all that.. For some pussy? What will she do for me? Ask yourself that question fellas.. Remember, you have the power. The wealth, the status. Don’t do it for women. But do choose the woman that will be there for you through the good and through the bad.

[@BAKER22-l4u]

Exactly

[@lpsensei522]

​@@chrisandsneaky2453not to a healthy woman.

[@Noel127]

Guys NEVER let a woman know you're down for her. Let her know she's always competing to keep her spot. Also, NEVER pay to play, if you're paying to get affection you're a SIMP and she will walk all over you. I let them treat me first before I open up my wallet. Remember you're the prize as a man you add value to their life as a woman they take value from your life. Get your skills and talents in place, I work on cars, I worked construction, I build guns, engines and know financial aptitude... I have a retirement, I'm 30 and I retire in 2 years. I know my worth and value, but I don't chase. I disassociate when someone shows me signs that in not a priority, if they can't see it I won't show em.

[@ecash30]

🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢

[@Noel127]

@@ecash30 okay SIMP 😂

[@ecash30]

@@Noel127Ok CAPtain 😂😂😂

[@SuperDG333]

Show me how to get my money together!

[@landismithCOJ]

Or....just stand on business and take care of you. Thank you, Olivia.

[@Last1toBlast]

I made a female a priority in my life & got played like a fiddle 😂. I'm grateful to have God's 3rd eye mentality. I quickly moved on with my life, I didn't argue or go back & forth with her, I just told her about it & how I felt. It's ashame when folks, women & men can have something decent who will bend for them & they take it for granted. She did apologize, and I accepted, but that's all. Now she out here lookin' goofy asf hopping around with that different man baggage & a bad reputation. I don't wish this on anyone, but we as a society need to stop embarrassing ourselves & others on quick come ups cause it always ends badly ✌🏾

[@BAKER22-l4u]

Lol..bs

[@adrianb714]

God don't do third eye.

[@Last1toBlast]

@@adrianb714 God do intelligence if that's better for you Ma'am. I could of worded that better, but I'm pretty sure God know what I meant. I hope all is well for you & yours. 🙏🏾4✌🏾

[@nickthompson1812]

Probably shouldn’t have even told her how you felt. I’ve heard way too many girls laugh with her friends about making their boyfriends upset.

[@Last1toBlast]

@nickthompson1812 Update on that! Someone just told me she's pregnant with baby #2 & baby daddy #2....Thank you, Lord Thank you, Jesus I avoided that pothole 😂 but you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT on what you said bruh!.....✌🏾 👑 💯

[@lawrencelatorre7447]

The first time I saw one of your videos, I subscribed immediately. Have been a fan of yours ever since. Went through this same situation a while back, and finally decided to make my exit. My only regret is not having watched this video when I was experiencing it. I would have departed the relationship a long time ago. You have a lot of wisdom and we appreciate you immensely. Looking forward to your book. Infinite Blessings!!!!! ✌️♥️🙏

[@waynerichardson414]

Great job, Olivia. That advice was spot on. I'm 64, have been divorced for many years, and hook up with many young women. It always entails what I learned in sales training as a young salesman. (He who cares less, always wins.)

[@dingdong6005]

Can you advise me .. how do you hook up with these young women ?? 😢

[@young2486]

I broke up with my ex. We had several fights along the way...but i always felt as though i was a place -holder. She told me she felt the same way coz i still have a plethora of girls following me on social media and access to exes. We then drew lines on boundaries, but i still felt from her side she was not honest about things and was always Advertising herself for male validation. She has the tendency of coming late from clubs and would not call to let me know she's home safe --I figured, a lday that makes you question her every move is not a lady to build a family with. So i ended things.

[@toastedtofu8510]

You deserve 1M+ subs. You helped me identify the manipulations my ex used on me for the past 2 months and cut loss in time. While feeling traumatized, you helped me regain confidence. Can't thank you enough.

[@DonteTBey787]

If she's not giving the energy back it's time to let her go bruh live ya life.

[@paradisearts7021]

Timeless Classic for the man with purpose

[@joselauzardojr.9283]

You put so many things into perspective"A woman's insight speaking to men In a way"That men don't feel discarded"Into situations,"That are totally unnecessary,Causing distress and failure to a man's ego and self-esteem!! You are one of the few who speak about this dynamic!

[@nickm705]

no girl is worth this much stress

[@shshshaa9114]

That's why I block and move on lol

[@mohitpriyadarshi6938]

💯💯💯

[@JolPil]

Technically what she said is true, but ALL the dos and donts - it is like gigantic military operation - if I am the prize - WHY MUST I DO ALL THESE PSYCHOLOGIAL OPERATIONS to get her attention? I am still a simp even if I do everything she says - because, it is still ME doing a LOT of mental work to get her attention!

[@coreyct86]

Words of wisdom from a wise woman. Thanks queen ❤

[@J.Vegas702]

Maya Angelou May her Soul Rest. Never keep someone as an priority when to ‘them you’re just an option’

[@NickPolitical]

There's an atmosphere of competition between men and women in videos like these, although they all have great advice. Once you find a woman who works with you and not against you, you'll be fine. Yes, they exist. The easiest way to find them is to just to tell her you're not f*cking around and you don't play games. Be you, be real, don't flirt. And after you're together for real, don't bloat like a keg. Keep working out. Keep being confident. Be responsible. You don't need her, you want her. If you can't do this, just don't date, you're not ready. Stay on your couch playing video games and eating potato chips. If you don't love yourself no one else will.

[@lt4118]

Absolutely flawless advice for us men. You are professional, always getting better, and what you do could single handily help the world. Really good video. Your ability to explain is unparalleled. You are the best I've ever seen in this area. When you launch the book, because you will, I had an idea you should go on some interview shows. Some panel shows or such. I'm not sure how that would work for you, but if you can do those and express your thoughts in real-time responses and dialogue it would definitely reach more and put you on the map where your insight belongs. Good work. Always impressed with your quality.

[@KJuniorfied]

Thanks, sis! This is fucking amazing coming from a strong woman herself. It's rare you get a woman talking about women (in a man's favor). 👊✨️🙏💯

[@josephsonnier3594]

Like your self help vids you put out . I was raised by my Mom ( strong lady ) my dad was the BOOT CAMP & he spoke only one time . Well back to your topic my mom would preach there's gal's , broads & then the lady . Only be a priority to a lady therefore I don't walk this earth attempting to win over street chick's , pass around gal's , a lady knows how to make me her priority , if she cannot accomplish that , I'm ghosting her , she wasted My time . That trying to impress female's stopped when I turn 13yrs of age . I know my strength

[@canders2710]

Thank you queen for giving game. I run into this too often. I have some things to improve on. Lately I've been focused on myself leaving some women on read. Taking time to respond to calls, text. So far I have found my peace in not chasing, working to improve my value before dating another woman

[@BAKER22-l4u]

Queen? Lol

[@NellzGang]

We must protect this woman at all times. She’s preaching.

[@BAKER22-l4u]

Lol..WTF is WRONG with you

[@nicholasbryan4038]

Since watching your videos, it really made me think about everything that I missed during my marriage and then divorce.

[@inventorcreator7267]

So much depth in this. You can break this one down more and continue so much more. A lot of wisdom not just talk in this...hope you start your momentum again and put more out more frequently. It's much appreciated and hopefully this channel can become valuable $ for you. I've heard a lot from others....you stand out. Keep going.

[@bobbydurden512]

I saw the caption and fell back I'm just here for the class. Remain firm and may God's peace be with you.

[@MrCenterOfTheWorld]

I had to learn how to stop putting these type of women on pedestals just because they were a challenge. You don't have to try and cuff every woman you see as special she could just be a friend, a business partner, she might be your inspiration to help you creatively put something into words that before you couldn't and whether you get her or not now you'll be even smoother when you talk to the next woman.

[@tayw9602]

It was a hard lesson for us all to learn bro. Now I haven’t been more happier Being myself, Focusing on myself, and knowing my worth 🧘🏾 💲🎧

[@goseemekah]

Yes!!! Great advice. Women that want you will be extremely strategic in getting near you. I only date people who like me more than I like them. Those have been the best situations for me.

[@MrCenterOfTheWorld]

​​@@goseemekahThe way I see it is I got big things in the works and some women value what I have to offer and others will just have to come around after they see me doing big things. I consider myself a leader and source of wisdom in general so I don't always fully cut my losses every time. If she come correct and make it worth my time and show she's not the same liability she was in the past.

[@shaunoffrange8122]

"these type of women on pedestals" so there's a certain type of woman you want to put on a pedestal si mps.

[@MrCenterOfTheWorld]

@@shaunoffrange8122😂 So you just gone ignore the first part of that sentence huh?

[@sanusisopinionandthoughts6776]

I always said that about myself and one of my exes agreed with me. “I am nice but I’m nobody’s doormat.”

[@Hacksaw_HIM_Thuggin]

Modern women switch their minds constantly with the endless options they’re presented with. The grass is always greener because if you don’t do it, she’ll find someone else who will.

[@smiles7631]

Sad but true. Then I see these women getting beat on and sticking around.

[@erniet]

That's dope!! Absolutely on the money! If they treat you like an option treat them the same. You teach people how to treat you. Guys only deal with women with a high interest in you and know your worth. Peace ✌

[@zb2747]

Just focus on your purpose and obtain value. The answer to all things When your 30 - 40 women will throw themselves at you Stay cold my bois. Sacrifice your 20s and 30s by putting in the work it WILL pay off TRUST Women are the LEAST of your worries. Like my pops told me “women will ALWAYS be around, never chase.”

[@mateaukalua4426]

I am only 30 and dang near tired of dating already. I could see myself building attraction and getting bored in the process and walking away.

[@ztruth7792]

@@mateaukalua4426yeah it gets worse more and more. Too many games and traps

[@kralexprofill4571]

​@@mateaukalua4426So you want to accept those women who hit the wall between 30 and 40 after being run through in their 20s and rejecting you while they could still choose and even consider that a win?

[@mateaukalua4426]

@@kralexprofill4571 What do you mean bro? Also usually women who are 35 to 45 usually give me the least resistance. Any younger and they're playing a ton of games.

[@jasongates-]

"Have you ever felt like a woman's plan B when you should have been her first choice?" ... I've never even been on a woman's radar, let alone her plan B. "Be the prize." ... That would begin with society no longer saying that the woman is the prize. Good for your cousin. Once someone shows us how they REALLY feel about us, that's when it's time to forget all about them and move on, even if they come running back to us. Good for your cousin for moving on from Maria.

[@juniorgordon3723]

Damn!!! Our parents, grandparents and the ones before them didn't have to play these games. 😮😢

[@DeadpoolX9]

Look, I love you. I love your energy and I love that you're helping people here but if it takes this much work then I'm sorry I don't want a second job thats about to fire me at any second.

[@salharo8925]

Great word Sis ! Thx for watchin out for us guys like a good Sis would.

[@jamesfitzgerald8223]

The Law of Reciprocity! Good deal Olivia and great content as always. Keep doing your thing and I will catch you on the next one. Peace

[@xtremelylargeuniversal428]

No matter what you do, they won't appreciate it, so it's better to just be happy, enjoy yourself

[@gabriellemetott1887]

❤❤❤I'm favoured only God knows how much I praise Him, $130k every 4weeks! I now have a good house and can now afford anything and also support my family

[@Anna_78953]

Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly? I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

[@jeffsantiago3464]

Can I also do it??? My life is facing lots of challenge lately.

[@gabriellemetott1887]

The digital market has been God's route for a change in my life. I can only thank him and a special thanks to Ms Elizabeth Marie hawley brokerage services

[@redmonjames4192]

That's great!! .I don't know anything about investing and I intend to start. What are your strategies?

[@yamahayua4802]

Lately I've heard a lot about Mrs. Elizabeth Marie hawley, she must be very good.

[@Andyh2475]

Have self respect if she doesn’t respond positively to your pursuit then treat it like she is not interested

[@BAKER22-l4u]

Exactly

[@Jerseydre2]

Instead of being straight up, we have to play these childish games. It's not even worth it

[@Brantley_ZA]

The issue I have with all of this is that once I mentally check out, no matter what you do as I women, I really won't care anymore then I'm the bad guy 💀.

[@leg414]

Thank you for this...As I have always said...Be no one's second choice or go to when all options are gone for the woman. Let them wallow in their misery, and just find another that fits all check marks. Do not take any disrespect! I could say more...But... Peace

[@habeeb6723]

We need to keep Olivia safe she is helping us kings , as they said u can’t learn from a fish on how to catch a fish but Olivia is giving good advice 💯

[@realaveragegamer3053]

I'm literally going through this right now. 2 months of non stop attention to zero. This actually helped alot, I needed something to help me control my anxiety.

[@बस्तरयात्रा]

Don't listen woman's advice,,, it is based on her personal feelings

[@gracerules2008]

If she's not interested then none of these steps are really going to matter. Even still these are good for men to implement to get emotional leverage on themselves and focus on finding a woman who will see them as 1st place winner. But these steps are not primarily about seeing what effect it will have on the women who treat him as 2nd place option. At the end of the day I think it's about learning not to take women personally either on the positive or negative side. Don't be too excited if she shows interest and don't be too disappointed if she doesn't otherwise she will own you forever even if on a conscious level she is not interested in controlling you.

[@CX0909]

While all this advice seems reasonably sound I’ve got to ask the most important question. Why even try at all for girl like this? Your chess analogy is the end-all-be-all red flag. Because you will forever have to play chess just to keep her around. A man doesn’t have time to go out into the world and fight the good fight to survive and then have to fight a new battle at home. His girl is supposed to be his safe space. His teammate. Not his adversary.

[@somaspecialist]

Exactly....imagine you still got to do this when you are married...

[@Cmabry37]

@@somaspecialistfacts that’s why we not getting married no more as men we don’t benefit from that shit. You gotta do all this magic bullshit to keep these western woman around. Act like you don’t care etc…. That shit is crazy that as short as life is you gotta act like you don’t care about somebody or ignore them and all that. Men just stay single and if you in a relationship or what not just keep it like that. We gotta fight the world then come home and deal with this BS with woman😂 shit is hilarious

[@thaDawn_Ultra]

I think this is a problem that the world makes people believe they supposed to have “ options”. If you thinking about options you’ll never be fully committed with your entire brain and heart to the person your with. This is why America is so unhealthy everyone wants more than one option 🤦🏽‍♂️. Focus on God first and he’ll fill in the blanks. If a woman views you as an option move on from her rapidly!! Pure LOVE will never be a chest match.

[@kennethprice8517]

I agree I did many sucker things I knew deep down inside everything was was a few times even though I’m older and single now I’m happier comfortable in my own skin sad part some people just straight suck and simp term is overused even some is one its all about becoming better my prayer is for healing and building finances and health

[@captainJellico]

While I do think you had the best intentions in making this video, hearing this makes me want to avoid such women all together. I get it, there's always the thrill of the chase when the relationship is new. But someone like this is not worth 2 minutes. To think, if the goal is to find a lifelong partner, would someone that needs mind-chess all the be worth the effort? Bottom line, if I know I'm de-prioritized, I'm de-prioritizing her, first by deleting her number and then moving on.

[@jerraethomas2378]

Another thing Is to get her sexually and emotionally addicted. u can bypass alot of bs if u are able to do that, not to say that not being on your purpose or anything like that is not a part of it because it is but getting her sexually and emotionally addicted does so much and hit so many emotions in her! Once u figure that out start to ration it. What some women will not tell average men is that the guy she desired is the guy that's always on her mind. Why? Because that guy got her emotions stirred up and that turns her on. That's why there's tons of women that still chase the guy she always complain about. Be a man, be masculine and develop that sexusl and emotional energy with her. And no you don't have to be toxic...

[@datbull74]

I'm so thankful for his video. It's ice to know that they're people out there to help us. Thanks Olivia Alexa.

[@elijahrobinson4650]

That’s way too much work. If I have to do all of that for a woman’s attention, I’m good.

[@user-bq2ui8bq6h]

May the most high be pleased with you I thank God for you earth angel blessings forever

[@CritiCAL74]

Thank you, sis... I needed this blueprint.

[@ernie548]

Never struggle for importance. It rarely changes.

[@jeffronoloyo1688]

I can definitely say that All of these tips work, very vital for creating a strong foundation of Respect the Relationship

[@dareo25]

...Olivia ...just two years ago, I cordially left that situation. Maintaining my conversation to a quiet minimum of yes or no, because their was nothing further for us to talk about ...I left. [...zero contact...]

[@keithmoten8918]

So what I been thinking. I am glad you covered.

[@danbuccini5659]

OMG! THANK YOU, your videos make sense. Its not what I wanted to hear but its all I NEED TO HEAR. thank you for sharing so openly and editing so consicely. You are a great person. this openness is next level. Appreciate your content sooo much.

[@robertmayfield8746]

Years ago I ended up in such relationship. And it fell apart, as I was always plan B to her. So, that's huge, red no no. Once again, I appreciate the fact you're the woman and said such things.

[@sounddoctrineministriesusa]

But... Question... Does that mean when she makes all those changes it's not really authentic and more of a security for her to not lose something that is good on convenient? Is it a more important that a woman does these things from her own heart rather than an adjustment because of the threat of losing?

[@stevenroshni1228]

depends on if she does those things for people she values or if she's trying something she's never done before

[@matthewstanley893]

First off this video is so spot on. I’ve been married for 18 years and just recently, my wife asked for a separation. I know that I am guilty of feeding into a relationship that certainly isn’t respectful to myself. I know time will make it better. But my thought at the end of the video was, why do men have to play such mind games with women? Everything said in this video is so accurate but it’s all said with the idea of possibly getting her back and making you the ones she wants. I won’t lie I would love for my wife to want me, and to know she wants me like she used to but the idea of playing this game to get someone to want you again or to love you or even make you a priority just seems so sad.

[@poetictriangle1037]

Whats the point of forcing someone to take you seriously by being tactful, the moment you sense such behavior you should start finding someone else right away and start planning to dump her ass because it is just a matter of time before things become sticky again. First thing ,create your self worth and then start meeting lot of women at once, second thing, choose the one who sees your value all by herself . My point is unless you truly have value you don't have leverage in the dating market, so pre-selection starts before dating phase even begins.

[@TheOriginalRiddim]

Summary: 1. Read The Room. 2. The Law Of Reciprocity. 3. *You Come First. 4. The Novelty Factor. 5. The Prize. 6. Draw The Line. 7. Show Her What You Got.

[@richardvera9385]

I'm doing all this. Guys, this woman knows what She is Talking About.

[@jossell911]

Everything you said is pure facts. Great for Olivia💯

[@hardvibes]

This is exactly what happened to me last week, for the last time I'd say. On Dec 17 she flaked 2 hours prior to our first date, saying she was sick, so I said that's okay.. we rescheduled for the following week. Then she flaked 30 minutes before meeting with our mutual friends for dinner. Then she flaked again last week 1 hour before taking her to a very nice Bistrot. That was it, even if she asked for forgiveness, saying something about work came up (again), and even if she asked if we could reschedule for the weekend, I said NO.. "I'm sorry but you're not excused, this can happen 1 time, not 3 in a month, and it could happen again."To which she only replied: "I wish you a good evening". What the hell is this? She didn't text me since then. I certainly won't, I'm mad.

[@duncanmac2195]

I'll be honest I don't use any real trucks or games. Once a girl shows she is interested be nice but not readily available. The longer you make her wait the more they want to go out with you. I was flirting with my gf for weeks but never asked her out. One day she came over, sat down and said Ok when?" I said in a couple of weeks your too busy for me right now. Once a girl likes you it never ends. It's men who lose interest in the unattainable.

[@countdowntorevolution9986]

Er, that is a trick/game bro'

[@duncanmac2195]

Its not a trick if you just dont rush in and make sure the girl is legit and not just playing with you.@@countdowntorevolution9986

[@Treasure2023]

As a woman I couldn’t do anything but agree with what was said in this video. Fellas she’s actually speaking 100% truth… wow

[@Serg01111]

Thank you, ma'am. You are literally saving humanity!

[@Kattdaddy7lh7ht7z]

Yo providing this type of insight just made you the official Wonder woman, my hat is off. I solute you, your 💯

[@AlvinSpencer]

I appreciate your content you keep me awake 🙏🏾

[@kennethsmith1897]

❤ Awesome insight indeed

[@user-fm3tu6gu4r]

I agree with oliva 100%.

[@tbreeze79]

I don’t want to be no one’s priority…because ain’t no woman gonna be mines. I love my life this way.

[@deanwelch9055]

U right I had the same situation... Always text no calls Her voice change Walking different

[@timupton2683]

Wisdom, knowledge, understanding and beauty what else do you need? Me 💙

[@gosha-kun]

This video is very necessary for my current situation thank you miss olivia for this insight

[@user-fm3tu6gu4r]

Love yourself and respect yourself.

[@ComplexNsimple]

This video is needed 🔥

[@donnyedc]

If it takes all of THIS to deal with a woman then I have to question if this is really a woman worth my mental and psychological energy or pursuit! Given all that a man has to deal with these days; playing these mind games to win over a questionable woman just isn't something I'm willing to subject myself to! It would be in MY best interest just to move on!

[@mikebake6625]

Rite.. I ain’t got the time

[@KoreArtistGuy]

Why do you have an assumption that life plays the way you imagine or you've got! THIS LIFE is a playground and we all have to be fully engaged to get things done! Relationships are a Big Game and you have to fully play from either A SINISTER OR WHOLEY STANDPOINT! Otherwise you might as well stay there and wait for a doormat agreeable woman/ man to come your way and play YOUR WAY! ONE MORE POINT; We all have a brain and a heart to create anything we desire knowing that along the way we will have ups and downs AND as long as our hearts are true; we will always win!

[@mateaukalua4426]

​@@KoreArtistGuyWhen you're accustomed to playing mind games you will defend them. My dad might have played a fraction of these games when he wooed my mom but she already liked him. Most women these days have semi-interest in most guys.

[@KoreArtistGuy]

@@mateaukalua4426 I have a question; is it really mind games or is it simply knowing the right strategies of leadership?! I think a man needs to know that a husband/male thingy in marriage firsly demands a VISION and then the leadership role needs to be actuated by strategy and a calculation. If a man doesn't have that cleared then he will be the type of man who doesn't offer a woman a direction and neither will he hold his cool when things take turns in the process.. Eg In case the wife has life issues happening; of all sorts, this man can fail to have a stable mind to navigate if not to see the wife and children through it. Does this make sense to prove that a man simply needs to be a game planner out of love? Please reply.

[@s.d.r9824]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 PREACH!! Thank you this Love ! ❤️

[@joecramer_hbd]

Great advice , so hard to do when you are crazy about woman and you expressed your feelings to her.

[@user-ut3dm5jd4f]

You made some really good points in your video . I especially liked the one that you mentioned about boundaries. It's important to have them to acknowledge your on self worth. Keep up the good work Olivia. 😮 2: 28. Pm

[@SureshKumar-jq2vm]

God bless you Girl 👍🏻