STOP STRESSING OVER SUFFERING Traditional Christian Housewife + God Talk

Clean with me while I get some daily homemaking tasks done in my house and talk to you about patience in suffering, why God allows suffering and how we can benefit from not stressing about it.
Grandpa Ruff's 'Creed of Suffering' thismamasfaith.myflodesk.com/...
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00:00 homemaking inspiration
00:37 God teaches in suffering
01:36 Give it to Jesus
02:40 Patience in suffering
04:46 God's plan for you is good
05:37 3 Reasons God allows suffering
06:15 The Creed of Suffering
07:49 Supernatural Reasons
#tradwife #housewife #homemaker

[@trishpage8750]

Thankful to see your recent videos. I have missed you! My mom passed February 1st. We spent December trying to figure out what was wrong. Sent all of January in the hospital. God answered my prayers in not letting her suffer here on earth but instead let her be Home with Him and receive her healing. I struggle in missing her daily. When someone you love and take care of is no longer here there is a huge void. Learning to completely lean on the Lord. Sorry to go on but I know you are a prayer warrior and appreciate that. ❤ Thanks for all you do always. Blessings to you specifically for healing and to your family.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

So sorry for your loss. I’m praying for you as you move forward without your mom 🥹

[@trishpage8750]

@@ThisMamasFaith ❤️ Thank You

[@jacquelineanderson5011]

Sending prayers for you and your family. I know what you're going through. I just lost my mom 2 months ago. Was with her when she passed. Thank you for your videos. They help a lot.

[@ladybugmom10]

So very sorry for your loss

[@andreasupermommy]

So sorry for your loss, Trish. I know too well the emotional roller coaster you are going through. I lost my sweet mama unexpectedly in 2020 and took care of Dad until he passed Jan. 3, 2024. My heart is so broken, and I miss them both so much and nothing seems to help but leaning on Jesus and memories. The void of our great losses will always be but will be somewhat manageable as time passes. So thankful we have the promise that we will see them again one day. May you feel Jesus near to your broken heart and the peace that only HE can give.

[@sandralauersdorf6268]

Last year when my brother passed away, I kept hearing the word, HOPE. There was even a billboard while I was leaving the hospital that said, "HOLD ON TO HOPE"

[@ourlifethroughacamera]

Praying for you and your family

[@lindawalsh7993]

I feel led to speak to you today. My Sister in Christ, I was so grateful to see a video again from you. I do not normally comment on anything, believing i have no time with being a busy homeschooling momma like yourself but i believe God wants me to tell you how your work in Him through your videos has encouraged me greatly. As the number of children have grown the housework has become harder and through the struggle of feeling like not enough God has revealed to me my self reliance and the mental baggage I needed to pull out from under the rug and face. During this hard time of struggle, that I was communicating with my husband about, he ran across your videos 💓 and sent one to me saying he thought it might really encourage and help me. I dove in one after the next crying, angry at our enemy and grateful to God for the struggle, revealing this work that needed to happen in me and also just in release at hearing the truth from a sister who understands. I appreciate so much how lovingly yet uncompromisingly you speak the truth. Thank you and I pray God's blessings and protection on you and most importantly His love continue to fill you more and more

[@ThisMamasFaith]

It means so much to me that God is speaking to you through me. It inspires me greatly

[@lindawalsh7993]

I am so glad

[@crownedhisglory]

❤

[@carolwhisenhunt7504]

Dear God, please continue to hold my sister and her family tight. You know what she had been thru. Sit her in your lap and hug her tight. She's trusting You Father. We praise You now for the victory to come. Amen.

[@edenelston7668]

Third trimester with baby #6, got shingles, living with family, and husband struggling with depression and anxiety. January felt like it took an entire year to get through, and February isn't shaping up to be much better. The Lord promises not to waste our suffering, I pray that rings true because we've certainly faced a lot of it for it to be in vain. Praying for grace to make it through the next day, and hope for what comes next, even if it's another heavy blow.

[@jasminewright7019]

This is the first time that I have run across your channel. My family is going through quite a bit right now. We are facing a situation that could have some pretty devastating results. However, I do know that suffering is not a surprise to our Lord. I know that He has control, even if it goes very badly for us. Is it difficult to hold your head up at times?Yes. Do you sometimes find that you are staring off into space when you really should be in prayer? Yes. This is not the first time that we have experienced a severe trial that could result in a great loss. The last one cost us a great deal. We are not a young couple. We are 60, and sometimes I feel that I faced them stronger when I was a little younger. However, the Lord has reminded me, frequently here lately, that when I am weak He is strong. It is His strength that will carry us through. I needed to be a little weaker this time to be reminded not to do it in my own strength. Would I have chosen this road had I been given a choice? Ah no, but then I would not learn whatever it is that the Lord has for me to learn this time around. Too often you have people in your life that say, "Oh that will never happen. God won't allow that to happen. That is not His way." I wish they would not. God very well might take us to a place that the world would say is the worst of the worst, but He will be there with us. Our responsibility is to hold on to Him, and strive to bring Him the glory and the honor. Is it easy? Ah no. I need to spend more time in His Word and in prayer to be sure that I am doing the best that I can to see Him in the coming days. Bless you for your post. It is needed. Too many out there tell us we won't suffer. Too many say that everything will smooth out. We are promised suffering. We just need to have a right attitude and response. May we focus on bringing Him glory and honor.

[@marjorie7928]

Love you sister. Because of you I learned to be more faithful, good wife, respectful to my husband. May God bless us all always.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Wow, I’m so touched that I’ve made a difference in your life

[@rebeccahernandez1705]

Thank you for being an obedient daughter of Jesus and for being transparent. This is exactly what I need to hear right now. It's so easy during our trials to blame God instead of thanking Him. You have reminded me of this and His promise to never leave us nor forsake us. Praying for your family.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Amen!!

[@debidurham984]

Hello Tabitha!!! This video was such a encouragement to me!! I've been in a stormy situation for a while. No one knows but Jesus. I see and feel things changing through much prayer and fasting. It's not easy traveling through the storm but God shows you yourself and talks to you in that still small voice. The days seem long and there's lots of sleepless nights til you weather the storm. But God brings you through to victory!! Thankful for God's faithfulness !!! Thank you for this video!! Take care and God bless!!!

[@amandaavila8557]

Such a blessing to find this video. Last week my husband’s grandfather passed away in another country and He wasn’t able to go to the funeral. He has been heartbroken but, by my husband being here he was able to buy the casket for his grandfather and help with other expenses that he wouldn’t have been able to do if he was there.

[@angelickrol7701]

I am sorry for the darkness you have been called to walk through. May your loving Father continue to strengthen you as you love and serve Him. Thank you for this beautiful honest and encouraging video. Lovely to see you again. God Bless❤

[@jd-hj5ed]

Prayer sent for you. I know more than a little bit about suffering. God has always helped me through. He will you too. There is an additional reason for suffering. To gain empathy for those who suffer what you did so that you can be with them.

[@fionainherkitchen]

That is so true 🙏

[@HabitsofaHomemaker]

Hey there my sweet friend!🌻 Praying for you and your family. Love you sis!🤗💞

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Hey Angel! Love you too 💕

[@Liesaavin]

Thank you so much for every Video here on KZbin❤. I need always something to hear during my chores and don’t want to waste my time with useless audiobooks. I hear your videos with my AirPods and don’t see your videos unfortunately. I’m from Germany and I’m amazed that there is a catholic faith like yours. The catholics here are very very different. I have a different view now😍 please do more, it is such a blessing!!!!

[@leticiaweaver5826]

So glad to see you back, Sister! You are an inspiration to me!! Many prayers for you and your family. Have a very blessed and wonderful day!!!

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Thank you! You too!

[@user-su6wq4ro8q]

Your content is heartwarming, my eyes are overwhelmed by tears . I have seen more sorrows than joy in my life , but i know soonest it is all over . New subscriber .

[@celestejohnson1972]

New subscriber! I just want to say thank you for this video because 2023 was a year of struggle and I honestly thought God had forgotten about me. Started questioning everything. This video has come at the right time and it was so needed 💙

[@sharonc8613]

✝️🙏🏻❤️ many many blessings to you and your family. Thank you for this video 🥰

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Thank you so much!

[@eyearesam]

How beautiful this message was. Thank you so much for sharing your life and experiences ❤ It's helping me grow in the Lord.

[@hobbyhive]

I stressed over suffering for a few years now. It took its toll on my faith and I was at times going through the motions but so protective of my heart and not investing in growing spiritually like I should have. I’m using this year to be one of discipline and joy: discipline in my goals and duties, taking care of my mental, physical and spiritual health and choosing an attitude of gods joy regardless of whether things outside of my control are going well or not. It’s a comfort to see content like this to know I’m not alone in the struggles of life and it is uplifting and supportive. Thank you for all your content ❤

[@ThisMamasFaith]

What amazing goals to have! I’m so glad the videos are helpful and I’m excited to make more 🤎

[@ncl-ibelieve8421]

I have been looking out for your videos. I am glad that you are well. This is difficult life, but when we trust in the Lord He will walk with us through our storms. Blessing to you and your beautiful family.

[@AMARMybaby]

Waiting for this❤

[@colleenmcgrath7731]

I needed to see this today

[@Bejennuine]

Thank you. I needed this.

[@user-nx1te6cg2c]

My son was born sleeping January 4th It was a difficult time but absolutely the Lord led me through. Praise his name.

[@A.T.A.K.A.N]

Your videos are so relaxing to watch & listen to ✨

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Glad you like them!

[@ednaevans2025]

Thank you for this Word......I needed it, Amen

[@user-dc3wb2ii6t]

Thank you for sharing! This video has really blessed and encouraged me!

[@tarpleyk9352]

💜… so happy to see you

[@christinascatholichomemaking]

So happy to see you are back and this trial is over. I have missed and looked forward to your videos.

[@crystaledmondson669]

Thank you for posting. I have missed watching this channel but was able to watch many videos on your other channel. I am so sorry for the trials you have been going through. God loves you and He has a special plan for your life. Prayers for you and your family. God bless you! 😊

[@kranthikattula280]

Glad to know that you made it. Thank you for your encouragement.

[@priscillagomez1920]

I’m so happy your back 💐

[@user-sb3yo9ki7s]

Praying for you! I have gone through suffering too, i understand. You have such a positive perspective, thankful for your example

[@amybeasley7388]

I’m so glad you’re back! I love the way you find the positive in everything (even suffering). You are an inspiration! God Bless ✝️

[@sheilarobbins8056]

What a rich and deep message!

[@miriam8026]

Over the decades my attitude towards suffering has changed. We suffer because we expected things to be different. Yes, God allows this as we have free will, but you don't have to suffer. Your points were spot on if we ''choose to suffer''. 1 Thess. 5:18 is there for our help.

[@user-xp9ri5bu3g]

I've missed you - thank you so much for the blessings you bring to my life. I'm sorry you've struggled recently and life has been tough. Well done for making it through with such faith. Sending love and prayers from England x

[@dananelson5179]

I’ve watched this over and over. This is such a good message.

[@beverlymitchell1892]

Thank you for this beautiful video. I am suffering right now and this was encouraging and uplifting to me. I appreciate the time you put into making godly videos and I missed you the past few months, but am so glad you took a break during a difficult time in your life.

[@rachelacton7939]

I absolutely love your videos and they always feel so blessed by them! Thank you and praise the lord for calling you to make these videos 🥰

[@jessicamcgee5739]

Hello Praying for you and your family! We have been going through a lot over the past year. It’s so nice to see you back you were missed. Hope you and your family have a wonderful day! God Bless all of you! 💗

[@SandyL0uise]

Thank you for this message

[@karengibson1758]

I want to thank you so so much for bringing me back onto the right way.your videos are a blessing and I can't wait to see the next one.god bless you and your family. I will always pray for all of you

[@Elizabeth-gh1dq]

The timing of this video for what's been happening in my life is just...WOW. Thank you for sharing. I've prayed for you and your family and am glad you're through your storm♥

[@AlyssasOzarkHome]

What a wonderful video to watch/listen to this evening before bed. I have been following your family for years and know that you guys have been going through a lot the past few months. You all have been on my mind and heart. Glad to hear that you guys are moving forward from all of this

[@stephanyg2208]

Your channel is such a blessing!!! Thank you for the encouragement you share through your videos. 😊

[@deirdreshue4465]

Going through a very long and scary miscarriage process right now, first pregnancy in 8 years and this baby held so much hope for our family ❤️‍🩹

[@jasminmosing978]

Pray for you and your sweet family! You always have the right things to say! You're such an amazing blessing to so many lives. I'm so glad you're back! ❤

[@mylittleruralhomestead]

The scenery is beautiful, the birds, the corn, the trees. Love all the green. I'm sitting here drinking my morning coffee and enjoying your video. I am so anxious to get my summer garden planted and the snow is starting to melt, so I should be able to start planting soon. I love the summer and garden season.

[@jessicakindred4758]

This was a beautiful, timely reminder for me. I appreciate the meekness you carry and encourage you to continue your obedience to God❤

[@cambiumlayer1318]

May God continue to support you Thabitha. Thank you for this lovely video. ❤

[@NikkiSchumacherOfficial]

Nice to see you here.

[@stacysmith4087]

So glad you are back! I've missed your Godly videos. I'm sorry you have been thru suffering , but glad you are on the other side of it. With God, all things are possible.

[@gaiamanetti3911]

The Lord is working on me trough suffering and I am learning about it. Was great to hear you today, thank you. I am sure the Lord brought me for your video to encourage me. ❤

[@kranthikattula280]

Your videos are rich in content and peaceful. I like the background music too.

[@heatherschrader9043]

So helpful! What a positive prospective you have

[@GinzaGeorge]

Hi Tabitha, welcome back and thank you so much for sharing these nuggets with us. As an intercessor who suffers willingly for His kingdom, it made perfect sense to me. Looking forward to being with you here.

[@neshundas3470]

Thank you for this today. I was crying laying in bed an prayed an decided to log on an saw your video. God is real an I am loved. #prayersforyourfamily

[@BethMJones]

So happy to see you again. Suffering is not fun but yes, through it God grows us up and teaches us to be more like Jesus. I am glad y’all are through the storm. Ty for the words of wisdom. As always, you look beautiful and have inspiring content. I love your videos. ❤ I missed them!

[@The-Vintage-Needlecrafter]

Thank you this has blessed my day🙏

[@ThisMamasFaith]

I'm glad

[@YamBorinaga]

Thank you so much for this inspiring and motivating message God bless you always and your family ❤️

[@samk2423]

Thank you.

[@fernandaoliveira2895]

So true. Thank you for your apostolate. God bless you and your family. 💒🌹Love from a portuguese Catholic homekeeper wife, mother and grand-mother.

[@vijijayaseelan8431]

Encourageing video. Thanks. I m searching Job. Sometimes my faith get shaken. Keep in pray.

[@Munchkinnnnnnnn]

So happy you’re back ❤

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Very glad to be back!!

[@angelamarie75]

I've been praying for your family, Tabitha. I will continue to do so. Just remember, you are safe and in God's hands. It will be okay. 😊✝️

[@jasminmosing978]

I would love a video on your wardrobe! I love your dresses! 😍

[@nanettesilas6062]

Although you and I believe many things differently, I truly trust in Gods word. I enjoy this channel and I’ve listened intently. Thank you for this content , bringing Gods word to as many people as possible is the same thing Jesus did for his father . For that we are the same you and I .

[@Christusregnat83]

I pray for you too! And kisses from France ✝️⚜️💙

[@ThebookofSIERRA]

Blessed.

[@elmarybrits6465]

Thank you so much for these true and wise and comforting words. It is so true what you said. I lost my son in 2021 - and if I look back, I just know my relationship with God would not be so strong as it is now- has it not happened. I learned to seek God's will and love in these 3 years and I came to the conclusion that God is Sovereign- and nothing will happen to us if it is not in His divine Will. We can only trust His love and plan for us..

[@Julie-si3hi]

Thank you. I needed this ive been so anxiety rideen. Lost my mum recently and my partner has cancer😢

[@thismiamimama427]

Amen! May the Lord keep giving you boldness to share His word in love (as you already do). Throughout your mama faith videos, there has been some advice you give that have made me think, "Oh wow, i can't believe she just said that/put that out there." Don't get me wrong, I completely agree 100% with what you're saying and am happy to know we have the same convictions before the Lord. But I think, "Wow, that was very direct and strong for others to hear." It has made me realize that I do not like to make people uncomfortable with the truth. But when we see Christ's example here on earth, He lovingly but directly spoke the truth no matter how uncomfortable it made others. In conclusion, your videos have made me very aware that I need to stop worrying about how others are going to feel (as long as I'm not saying it rudely or in anger, of course) and say the word or advice freely and in faith. Thank you for your example. May the Lord keep using you for His glory and honor!

[@pamelarenee8314]

I enjoy your videos!!!!!!! Thank you for sharing your life with us and sharing your life with Christ!!! ❤️ Small side note, God doesn’t punish us as His children, we are saved from condemnation. However, our God does discipline us as He is a loving father 🩷❤️ to chastise us and to sanctify us 🩷

[@JuliannaStyles]

You look absolutely radiant beautiful mama, I always ask Mama Mary for help in troublesome times, especially with the little ones!! Blessings 🙏💗

[@mab1564]

God loves whom He chastises! I love you, Tab! ❤ -Mere

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Amen! Love you!! 😍

[@Kady0221]

Thank you 🥹

[@juliecamp7763]

God doesn’t punish us. A lot of our suffering is a result of our own actions.

[@leckermitrous989]

Пусть Господь благословит ваш труд сестричка и вашу семью ❤

[@iamnotauser93ify]

I experienced my 1st miscarriage in August and since then have had 2 chemical pregnancies. Thank you for sharing this. I know our struggling and hardship will be used for HIS glory!

[@cassandranocos9947]

🙏 I'm sorry and prayers for you and your family. I had a miscarriage at 13 weeks back in October and another last week. I had felt so crushed, but then I felt a big weight lifted off of me and feel God's love.

[@dr.niveenpatrick9418]

I have missed your videos a lot

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Happy to be back!

[@StorybookHouse]

Just wondering if you have a link for your dress(es)? Thank you 🐿🐿!

[@brittanyallen5796]

Do you go to Salem alliance!? We just had this sermon yesterday and it helped me soooo much

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Is that a church? No I don’t go there. Haha I guess God really wanted you to hear this message

[@katiel3457]

I just prayed a rosary for you. Thank you for all you do! ❤

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Thank you so much! 🙏🏼💕

[@katiel3457]

@@ThisMamasFaith of course!

[@anatoliivorobei9221]

I really love long dresses) where do you buy them?

[@ThisMamasFaith]

This one is from Neuflora :)

[@HooahHomemaker]

I have been mourning a living mother who is cruel to me but, who I still love for 13 years. I do not know what decision to make regarding her role in my life. I want release during this time of silent suffering. In these 13years God has made me the mother of many children. God is good all of the time.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

I have a very similar experience mama. Bless your heart, feel free to reach out via email if you ever need to chat

[@HooahHomemaker]

Tabitha, I would love to. Thank you for your reply. I messaged you through your website. I can no longer find the feature on KZbin. Praying for your current situation 🤎

[@pC-zd4qj]

I love listening to and watching your videos! I believe they are needed today! "... For this reason Jesus was able to bear the punishment in our place, and this punishment was sufficient to erase all our sins (Isaiah 53:5-6, Isaiah 53:10-11, John 3:16)." He took the penalty of our sin and those sins done to us. He suffered in our place. I'm so thankful for the Lord and HIS word and work on the Cross to take the curse, the penalty of sin, bring comfort and healing in our wounds and bring us peace. IS 53 says He took our pain, sorrow, grief and sickneses upon Himself so we could live in Joy, Peace, Love and more fruit of the Spirit and in Abundant life. Is that void of suffering? He can create good out of what the enemy meant for harm. He also said we would have tribulation but to know HE overcame and He has won the Victory and given that to us in all things so we can bring the sweet fragrance of the knowledge of God everywhere! 2 Cor 2:14 Just keep giving Him all the heavy things He knows we cannot carry but He did! Thank you for touching on the subject.

[@tristanj9538]

Très belle vidéo ❤ et très belle femme ❤

[@lomlyn]

🌻

[@El-aitch]

Though I disagree theologically that God punishes us for a sin (He punished Jesus on the cross for that) I agree with the other reasons. Refinement, strength through Him and faith building seem to be what I have gained through my hardships.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Jesus wasn’t punished because he never sinned! He was sacrificed. I understand many do not like that word, but there are consequences for sin and that’s the bottom line. The word “punish” in reference to God punishing people, is used often in the Bible. I agree that hardships definitely give opportunity to build faith!!!

[@dominiquesadetorres1355]

Hello New subby sister🙌🏼 All things Jesus I’m here to support God bless you💜🩷

[@Gemma1985]

❤

[@brilurz]

When you said punishment as a reason did you mean like consequence?

[@ThisMamasFaith]

You could look it at that way, yes.

[@aka10421]

I don’t think it’s quite right to state that God brings suffering as a punishment for our sins, but rather he allows us to experience the consequences of our sins. He is a just God, but something about using the word punishment doesn’t sit right with me. But maybe its just me? ❤

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Many Bible verses use the word punishment. I encourage you to look it up on something like the YouVersion Bible app

[@nanaronhano337]

In some situations in the Bible suffering does come as punishment. However, not every trial or tribulation is punishment. Off the top of my head I’m thinking about Job and the blind man in John 9.

[@lanahundley8625]

❤