Stop the Secrets that Hurt - We Thought We Were Broken

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Fight Child Abuse

Fight Child Abuse

4 жыл бұрын

Telling a trusted adult or disclosing abuse can help make it stop and start the healing.

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@settttthhhhhhhh
@settttthhhhhhhh 3 жыл бұрын
When the blonde girl stated that her dad used to take her to the spare room and sexually abuse her i teared up so quick that hits so close to home and my past experience
@smellibelli9946
@smellibelli9946 3 жыл бұрын
Wow Im sorry you had to go through that😕
@txorigenty2113
@txorigenty2113 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you are in a better and safer place now 💕
@griffyy_
@griffyy_ 3 жыл бұрын
This actually broke my heart, I really hope you're okay! You dont deserve anything like this.
@Melanin-Mari3
@Melanin-Mari3 3 жыл бұрын
My love I’m so sorry that your step dad did that to you
@test-jt5el
@test-jt5el 3 жыл бұрын
Im rly sorry to hear that I hope the person who treated you wrong would get what they deserve.
@ThatRuPerson
@ThatRuPerson 2 жыл бұрын
I'm a grown adult, in my 30s, and I've been watching a lot of these. I didn't tell anyone about my struggles until this year and my therapist has been so kind and helpful. I wish I had had videos like this when I was kid. Maybe I would have spoken up much sooner. But even now these videos bring me some peace. Thanks for what y'all do.
@chezzzzlonger6406
@chezzzzlonger6406 Жыл бұрын
Your will come
@DGD4Landy
@DGD4Landy Жыл бұрын
I'm 25 and same. I wish someone educated and coached me when I was a young girl. I'm just now speaking up about it.
@John-ls4xh
@John-ls4xh 10 ай бұрын
Jesus loves you in Jesus name
@oliverissoslay
@oliverissoslay 2 жыл бұрын
i like that these are really realistic and make sense, yet still cartoony in a way that makes the target audience (i think like 4-6th graders?) still pay attention to it and get the message
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 2 жыл бұрын
The audience is probably elementary school and below
@Pokey_.66325
@Pokey_.66325 7 ай бұрын
Yeah
@salinahussain1915
@salinahussain1915 2 жыл бұрын
It feels much better telling some one but when it happens you don't know what to do, you don't feel like telling anyone
@Arena204
@Arena204 2 жыл бұрын
Agree
@ambergirl986
@ambergirl986 6 ай бұрын
Yeah exactly :(
@CookieKittyClawplay
@CookieKittyClawplay 3 жыл бұрын
When i was abused by my father, i started picking fights at school and even beating up kids till i didnt have any friends, i told finally but i still felt anger, then later on my stepdad abused me and i felt depressed and isolated, i even tried commiting suicide to get out, but finally i had someone help me, but one thing they dont tell you in these is that the memories of it are always there and never go away, you have to live with it, but i will say use that anger towards something good, use that anger to protect yourself and others, because once something like that happens your marked for life as a target for other predators out there, they'll see you as prey since you have been abused before and they'll use that to they're advantage, dont let them, know the signs
@shileap8998
@shileap8998 3 жыл бұрын
That same exact thing happened to me my dad sexualy abused me then my moms boyfriends did its hurts so much and kinda feels like your suffocating that's the only thing they don't underatand
@CookieKittyClawplay
@CookieKittyClawplay 3 жыл бұрын
@@shileap8998 exactly, people have always told me "move on" or "stop living in the past" but they dont understand how suffucating and painful it actually is, its so traumatizing that no normal person can really move on, its always there in your memories replaying over and over😔
@shileap8998
@shileap8998 3 жыл бұрын
@@CookieKittyClawplay sometimes if I'm laying next to somebody like if im laying next to my sister or someone sertain movements trigger my ptsd
@CookieKittyClawplay
@CookieKittyClawplay 3 жыл бұрын
@@shileap8998 it will, nothing can help it, its your body protecting itself
@turtlesarefantastic9620
@turtlesarefantastic9620 3 жыл бұрын
@@CookieKittyClawplay wow shame on those people I've never been abused before but I would never be like "stop living in the past" thats so stupid
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 2 жыл бұрын
I feel sad for anyone who continues to feel trauma after an event. It must be horrible and I hope to never get it.
@animegirl8261
@animegirl8261 4 жыл бұрын
This helps thanks even though i didnt get abused but if i do i know what to do ☺
@oliviavaldez9534
@oliviavaldez9534 4 жыл бұрын
That’s so sad 😞 are you okay now? I hope you are :) stay safe
@kingbebop8628
@kingbebop8628 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't and I dont want you to go through that sandra peirce
@newtlyme7820
@newtlyme7820 3 жыл бұрын
Good! The more people that are educated, the better. I wish I knew this when I was abused
@jongleflonges
@jongleflonges Жыл бұрын
NOBODY LIKES ANIME!
@aerocard4831
@aerocard4831 3 жыл бұрын
Talking about Sexual abuse is good, yes, but can we also talk about other forms of abuse? Physically, mental, emotional.....and how that can effect you as you grow/become an adult or something .
@princessakhadka7734
@princessakhadka7734 3 жыл бұрын
i agree, this channel should talk more about different kinds of abuse
@janetbaker8745
@janetbaker8745 3 жыл бұрын
I agree as well
@twenty5twenty6w
@twenty5twenty6w 3 жыл бұрын
@@princessakhadka7734 yea, this channel does great with educating and helping people about sexual abuse, and im sure they would do great with mental health in general
@arii6302
@arii6302 3 жыл бұрын
Yes
@Barc-fp8cg
@Barc-fp8cg 3 жыл бұрын
Also Neglect, that stuff hurts
@seria3692
@seria3692 Жыл бұрын
The hardest part to getting help is telling someone, it takes someone special to jump over the first hurdle with you
@Pvlloo
@Pvlloo Жыл бұрын
My school counselor showed us a video on this channel. I feel so sorry for the ones who relate to this. It’s so sad that this happens every day to poor children and adults.
@Nicolas-bu5uv
@Nicolas-bu5uv 3 жыл бұрын
I live in Russia, I am Russian, I get abused in school and get jokes about me because of my weight, I tell teachers to they stop it - they doesn't care at all, if I tell parents to do it - nah, teachers doesn't care at all, I am always having neutral face and don't care what people talking about, sometimes I don't listen to teacher and just watch on the window, I have anxiety sometimes when I remember the incidents happend to me, once my classmate pushed me out of door and I fall into the wall, ripping out the part of teeth, thought it was in 4th grade, but I still remember this event I had in my life.
@avantjetaisnormal-e8953
@avantjetaisnormal-e8953 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you. It wasn't your fault, and it's sad telling those adults didn't give you the help you deserve. I'm not the best at giving advice, but try to take care of yourself, find friends/people that make you happy if its possible, and be patient. This is a bad time, but maybe in the future you will be in a different situation where you won't have to hurt so much. Because you don't deserve getting hurt, nobody does ! Wishing you a good day for now 💙
@Nicolas-bu5uv
@Nicolas-bu5uv 3 жыл бұрын
@@avantjetaisnormal-e8953 I can't find any friends, everyone treat me like shit
@mochaglimpseschoolbreak8149
@mochaglimpseschoolbreak8149 Жыл бұрын
It doesn't have to just be sexual abuse it could also be trauma like yelling cutting of your hair things you parent said.Make sure you stick up for yourself
@mwoopy
@mwoopy 4 жыл бұрын
Sexual abuse can cause depression too
@definitelynotlink5420
@definitelynotlink5420 3 жыл бұрын
Csa can also cause post-natal depression!
@matthieuwilliams2630
@matthieuwilliams2630 3 жыл бұрын
Yknow what? That explains a l o t
@twenty5twenty6w
@twenty5twenty6w 3 жыл бұрын
And dont forget. .anxiety!
@bobfootballbobert
@bobfootballbobert 3 жыл бұрын
That's why I don't trust strangers
@darthestar8791
@darthestar8791 3 жыл бұрын
This feels really reassuring to me because I had been sexually abused by my step father in the past. And sometimes I feel like I'm broken because of what happened, as well as what I've done that's upset and/or hurt others(and hurt myself). I'm glad to see videos like this reassure me that I can talk about stuff like this, and that I can heal from it. Oh and in case you're wondering, I've already told people about my sexual abuse a long time ago, and I was taken out of that situation. I'm much better off now than I was before.
@bamaboo8398
@bamaboo8398 3 жыл бұрын
I am really glad that you're doing great now !! This is really difficult to live normally when things like this happen ... But I really admire that, and I also support you ! And glad everything's fine now, wish you the best !!!
@join8998
@join8998 3 жыл бұрын
your lives are precious people, i believe you never doubt yourself, you are good the way you are independent of what you are externally and internally, ​​never give up regardless if the situation is bad, continue, you will succeed. And share to all peoples.
@softeeyoon2163
@softeeyoon2163 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate, he has touched me multiple times on my ass. Slapping it. He stopped touching there a year ago but he still touches me. He has said sorry, but he's a fucking liar. Wonder what the fuck my mother is thinking when she asks me why I'm uncomfortable around him. You already know it. Sjsjjs sorry for telling this, I just found someone I related w/
@sunshinem.c.8439
@sunshinem.c.8439 3 жыл бұрын
I gave up trying to get help from being abused since I was 13 to 17 years old, when I told the school counselor, they’d all my dad and it made it worse for me. I’m 20 and suffer from PTSD from how mad the abuse was.
@tourmelion9221
@tourmelion9221 3 жыл бұрын
Oh no I hope you're focusing on yourself and getting therepy
@sunshinem.c.8439
@sunshinem.c.8439 3 жыл бұрын
Tourmelion I am getting therapy, my intake is next week.
@Lydia__Rose
@Lydia__Rose 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes people talk after like 10 years, because before telling you can pretend it never happened, but it had and it hurts. Telling someone is can be like realize for the first time that it really happened... It is always hard to tell, but it hurts the most if you don't.
@sixkicksfightertricks949
@sixkicksfightertricks949 Жыл бұрын
This is why fitness and martial arts should be a school subject and having boundaries should all be taught to people 4 and older. Kids should always stay in groups among their own age outside of home for safety. Everyone, including children should be taught to kill sexual predators without shame nor punishment.
@cinninatisinners
@cinninatisinners 11 ай бұрын
safety in numbers as I always say, it works! also I think kids should be taught to be kind to people who have been abused, because my oh my the STORIES I've heard of people being outright ignored after they tell someone or bullied is heartbreaking! I've also had the displeasure of having people vent to me about their grooming on the internet, though I didn't really mind. still wasn't fun stuff, these kids my god. (poppie/pop)
@makolite
@makolite 3 жыл бұрын
As a victim of child a abuse for 11 years. This is true, I feel angry,sad,I resorted to bad behaviour to cope(ie punching people breaking stuff)
@baldheadhobo
@baldheadhobo 3 жыл бұрын
Hi
@physicslover4951
@physicslover4951 2 жыл бұрын
@@baldheadhobo hi
@Nerdd5301
@Nerdd5301 Жыл бұрын
those 3D models are absolutely terrifying.....
@PrettiestPrincipleInLife
@PrettiestPrincipleInLife Жыл бұрын
True. Very true
@Meela9088
@Meela9088 Жыл бұрын
I agree
@Gumbypuss664
@Gumbypuss664 Жыл бұрын
Reminds me of those alpha and omega sequels
@Man-kx5bz
@Man-kx5bz Жыл бұрын
Its horrific
@BlickiMinaj
@BlickiMinaj Жыл бұрын
Ong
@miaflores7269
@miaflores7269 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I had seen these videos as a kid. Been through some real heavy agony... As a child I felt alone and sad all the time.... Like nobody cared about me... But once I talked about it and spoke out, even if it was years later... I did feel better, even if my mom ended up being real angry with me for speaking up against my abusive half sister. I haven’t seen my half sister since then, so I’m happy about that. Life is too short to die in silence.
@that1person63
@that1person63 3 жыл бұрын
This stories are gonna make me cry GOSH DANG IT
@godsleftbootycheek4437
@godsleftbootycheek4437 4 жыл бұрын
One time I was playing on an online game, Roblox paradise. I was jumping around the neighborhood in the game and I saw someone telling another person to go to their house but they left the game and the person went to me and asked me the same thing. I said sure but when we got to her house, she told me to take my clothes off. I immediately knew what was going on! An unsafe touch. I flew to my parents room and told them exactly what happened! I reported the person (even though the report button doesn’t work 😠.) Also, When I was about to leave the game, the person was giving me a unsafe touch!! I felt so uncomfortable 😣 ! That’s why I left quickly. I stopped playing that game for almost a week! After I left, I felt like a whole new person! I felt accomplished and completed with something that makes me feel strong 💪.
@NekoAngelz
@NekoAngelz 4 жыл бұрын
@@BearFingerz Its grooming. An adult is teaching/showing him something inappropriate. He is right for telling his parents.
@keyaragreen7934
@keyaragreen7934 3 жыл бұрын
@@BearFingerz shame on you.
@mistydrawstudiosuk4422
@mistydrawstudiosuk4422 3 жыл бұрын
@@BearFingerz They mean you should feel ashamed. You're obviously a kid and have obviously never been through something like that so you have no right to tell someone that they shouldn't feel how they feel
@randomperson1714
@randomperson1714 3 жыл бұрын
BearFingerz Are you an idiot?It’s so easy for people to end up being groomed by people on roblox and other games.
@tourmelion9221
@tourmelion9221 3 жыл бұрын
@@BearFingerz for shame!!!
@_winged_deer_demon_1737
@_winged_deer_demon_1737 Жыл бұрын
when i was younger my dad used to mentally and physically abuse me. i had no where to go, he didnt hurt my mom, and he didnt hurt my sisters, only me. i lost my best freind during that time so i was angry and upset, and im having issues sleeping, staying calm, and i cant keep my grades up very well
@Obsessive_15
@Obsessive_15 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to go through that. You should tell someone you trust and get some help or go to therapy.
@Fox_Lover_1222
@Fox_Lover_1222 2 ай бұрын
God bless you and let karma rain down on the person who wronged you, I hope you are ok now and that you never have to see him again. I’ll pray for you.
@tappyghoststudios8351
@tappyghoststudios8351 Жыл бұрын
Hearing about sexual abuse made me lose faith in humanity because Some people think it’s a good idea to do this
@WeneedmoreGodsinTshirts
@WeneedmoreGodsinTshirts Жыл бұрын
Never lose faith in humanity. Remember that there’s a group called Bikers Against Child Abuse that cycles with children on their way to court and looks tough so they will be confident enough to testify against their abuser/s
@ambergirl986
@ambergirl986 6 ай бұрын
its abuse no matter what, children can't consent and early sex exposure harms children@sillystriderrupsabatabyalf7112
@brunamaria3734
@brunamaria3734 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a adult now... but this channel makes me feel a Deja'vu....
@AikoNozawa
@AikoNozawa 3 ай бұрын
We can’t truly be broken… we just need someone to be there…
@v1p3rlotus
@v1p3rlotus 3 жыл бұрын
You know, I always feel like no one understands me. Like I was the broken toy no one wanted. Later, I found other people that felt like me, even my friends helped me out. But even with them, I still feel like the black sheep. My feeling kinda inspired my username.
@beatrixpotter6585
@beatrixpotter6585 3 жыл бұрын
What makes this even sadder is that these were sent in by really people and those real people had to go through all of that 🥺🥺🥺
@bonniefrattini6720
@bonniefrattini6720 11 ай бұрын
I've abused when I was 11 years old. I'm 18, but I'm having a really bad time because I have been thinking of the dark past and everything my biological father sexualbaussed me
@ambergirl986
@ambergirl986 6 ай бұрын
i was also sexually abused when i was 11. i am going through the same, i'm 19 now. sorry bro it is really terrible T_T
@_billdarkside_5660
@_billdarkside_5660 3 жыл бұрын
I imagine myself. Hugging these poor childrien, telling people it would be okay
@meimounahmeity8350
@meimounahmeity8350 3 жыл бұрын
Me too❤
@tourmelion9221
@tourmelion9221 3 жыл бұрын
I wanna cuddle them and tell them they deserve the world so bad
@daniellenewman7547
@daniellenewman7547 Жыл бұрын
I hate people who think they have the right to abuse anyone else, especially when it's sexual abuse and I HATE people who sexually abuse children 😢
@nvwednesday1635
@nvwednesday1635 3 жыл бұрын
The thing about it is, I have a really difficult time giving anybody who's actually gone through this kind of abuse the "correct" advice that's shown in this video, because telling someone almost never works in my experience. Like, it's supposed to. That's the right thing to do in that sort of awful situation, but the truth of the matter is, if you're abused... nobody cares. As a matter of fact, any adult who knows that you've been abused will likely try and hurt you more. Adults like to see other people in pain. If they see an inch of vulnerability in you, they will exploit it and push you until you're in agony, then laugh and tell you you're in pain because of your "life choices." If you're a kid and tell someone, nobody believes you. If you're a woman and tell someone, even if they believe you, it's entirely likely they'll say it was your fault. If you're a man and you tell someone, they'll make fun of you and either call you a faggot or say you're lucky (depending on if your assaulter/abuser was male or female.) It just feels hopeless, and lots of times, the situation actually is. This really needs to be changed, but I already know that I can't do this on my own. I just hope that anybody reading this will come to a deeper understanding about the issues that traumatized people get into every day.
@emilythestorier4428
@emilythestorier4428 3 жыл бұрын
It sounds like you've had some awful experiences with trying to open up about abuse to others. But I can promise you whole-heartedly that there really are people out there that care about abuse and that will take actions against it. I've grown up my whole life around adults (and friends) whom I was able to trust and talk to about things that I struggled with or things I was sad about. Rarely did anyone talk down to me or dismiss my pain. As you grow older you'll better be able to tell who you can trust to be emotionally vulnerable with. If you are in a very unsafe situation where it seems everyone around you won't listen, then I highly recommend finding a helpline to call - just look up Abuse Hotline and you can find phone numbers to call where kind people can listen to you and give you advice.
@tlg6726
@tlg6726 Жыл бұрын
They need to do videos that target the adults who dismiss the abused, what terrible growns ups exists these days
@madalynmoore
@madalynmoore 3 жыл бұрын
My neighbor makes me feel uncomfortable he’s always touching me in my private areas please tell me what to do anyone please
@tubasteve3020
@tubasteve3020 3 жыл бұрын
Tell your guardian to make this stop stay away from that neighbor
@iamaqween5156
@iamaqween5156 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my god. I’m so sorry for what’s happening tell them “ No I’m not playing that with you it isn’t a game! STOP!” And when he does it again run to a parent
@user-ei4zj7gg1l
@user-ei4zj7gg1l 3 жыл бұрын
Please tell a parent or trusted guardian. It can be scary to tell anyone but please get help so the abuse can stop.
@corniatherarefurcorn3575
@corniatherarefurcorn3575 3 жыл бұрын
Tell a trusted adult. I know it's really scary, but it'll help in the end I hope you get out of that soon and begin healing ❤
@bamaboo8398
@bamaboo8398 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you're safe now,but please talk to an adult !There's always people that can help you And this neighbor need to get consequences, he is in fault, he need to be punished and you need to feel safe
@yeagerists2745
@yeagerists2745 3 жыл бұрын
This kid's name is Mateo mine is my Tale 2. And I also had anger issues.
@luckyeclipse7455
@luckyeclipse7455 3 жыл бұрын
THIS MAKES ME CRY SO MUCH BUT I CANT STOP WATCHING THEM 😭
@johnathanlinton7994
@johnathanlinton7994 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you fight child abuse for helping others
@vickychillin3255
@vickychillin3255 Жыл бұрын
Awwwwe love your channel! Thanks for spreading awareness! God bless u guys!
@Thinkgs-jm3tn
@Thinkgs-jm3tn Ай бұрын
This channel heals my inner 6yo child, I wish more channels like this exist
@kilumii5304
@kilumii5304 3 жыл бұрын
One time I had a big fight with my bffs and I cried when crying accidentally telling my teacher about someting that happened to me
@matthewjimenez655
@matthewjimenez655 Жыл бұрын
Don't forget that abuse can make you scared
@kevinwetherell1748
@kevinwetherell1748 3 жыл бұрын
I am quite literally crying right now
@sydneyaudette1018
@sydneyaudette1018 8 ай бұрын
I have been sexually abused by a high school boy who were older than me as a 8th grader when I was 13 and he touched me on my bottom. He forced me to touch the part between his legs by actually grabbing my arm/hand to touch his private parts but I didn’t. We were sitting together in the bus since there were no seats. And he told me not to tell anyone. So, I kept a secret for a few years. It made me feel sad, angry, disgusted, scared, and anxious about it since I thought that something bad would happen and I didn’t know what to do about it so I kept it secret till 10th grade. I decided to tell my mom and she understood me. Only my mom and dad knew what happened. A few years later during post Covid, he dropped out from school and I felt reviled since I was so nervous that it would happen again. Since that incident, I learned a lot about how to protect myself for that if it happens again. I am planning to tell my school eventually so he doesn’t do it to anyone else. I can still remember the trauma and the situation since it is always on the back of my mind. I am constantly looking around to make sure that nobody else does this to me the same way I went through it. I also don’t like being touched on my private parts, my back, or my shoulders since it reminded me of the abuse that I went through because of that person who did it to me and it made me uncomfortable, disgusted, scared, and anxious.
@Cheeseburgr69
@Cheeseburgr69 3 жыл бұрын
This one, this one made me sob.
@greenbudgieplays8092
@greenbudgieplays8092 3 жыл бұрын
Why?
@cherry_mochimarshmallow3443
@cherry_mochimarshmallow3443 3 жыл бұрын
@@greenbudgieplays8092 because its sad
@greenbudgieplays8092
@greenbudgieplays8092 3 жыл бұрын
@@cherry_mochimarshmallow3443 oh ok
@Cheeseburgr69
@Cheeseburgr69 3 жыл бұрын
GreenBudgiePlays the girls story.
@milkycolaaa
@milkycolaaa Жыл бұрын
You should start doing videos about emotional and physical abuse and how to get someone to help as those are the most common forms of child abuse.
@A13XLaircey
@A13XLaircey 11 ай бұрын
Definitely. I was physically and emotionally abused by teachers in special needs classes. Sometimes, the abuser can be a parent, teacher, or another "trusted adult", who in fact is using their authority to abuse the children they should be taking care of and keeping safe.
@marvinthemaniac7698
@marvinthemaniac7698 3 жыл бұрын
They never show the perpetrators of the abuse getting arrested in these stories.
@MomentswithMolly
@MomentswithMolly 3 жыл бұрын
I grew up very angry and hurt. Took me a long time to acknowledge the emotional and mental abuse.
@smishe6576
@smishe6576 3 жыл бұрын
I have a hard time saying no a lot, especially if it's because I feel uncomfortable or just don't like it thus creating my bad habit of lying. I have so many bad habits especially in online and I just can't stop it, no matter what I do as long as I make one mistake then I would start doing my bad habits. I think it's gotten worse ever since I met this guy on VRchat... He was so nice and seemed lonely at first, he told me that he was sad since there was a girl that rejected him at school and called him a pervert... He then wanted to be my friend and for talking for a while, he wanted me to be his girlfriend... I reluctantly agreed, I was uncomfortable but I couldn't say no. When we friended each other on discord, he started asking if I could send some lewds and god I remember feeling so terrified for the first time in my life in that moment. So I lied and pretended to be a brother (I'm an only child), I told him to fuck off and leave me/'his sister' alone. After that, I blocked him on discord but ever since my encounter with him, I keep meeting creepy and bad inappropriate people in VRchat to the point that I fucking quit the game. I love a lot of the VRchat community but I just can't stand it anymore...and I'm scared that if I tell my VRchat friends, they'll stop being friends with me or might think I hate them too.....
@tourmelion9221
@tourmelion9221 3 жыл бұрын
It's good you made such smart choices
@tourmelion9221
@tourmelion9221 3 жыл бұрын
Just cause they're both from VR doesn't mean that they'll act the same Your friends have your best interests in mind It's completely normal safe and fine to tell them Trust me Your friends will be on your side
@usualtoaster2688
@usualtoaster2688 2 жыл бұрын
i don't think i'm being abused, as i'm not hit or touched wrong, but i've been becoming angrier and sadder since my dad passed. it's not a grieving, it's more of a fear or hatred to my mom.i think she might be verbally abusing me but i'm not sure. She's gotten more agressive and touchy with her feelings, and quick to yelling. someone helpme figure this out please!
@sky_diamond345
@sky_diamond345 2 жыл бұрын
Habla con Servicios Parentales
@empresseternity1
@empresseternity1 Жыл бұрын
It's been a while, but I believe your mother is also grieving. She might be behaving so irritably because she is bottling up her grief. I'm afraid I don't know what advice to give you, but try letting her know that you are sad about your father too. I'm not sure how severe the verbal abuse is, but if she is harming you emotionally and it is effecting your mood, you should not hesitate to tell another trusted adult.
@usualtoaster2688
@usualtoaster2688 Жыл бұрын
@@empresseternity1 okay, thank you.
@empresseternity1
@empresseternity1 Жыл бұрын
@@usualtoaster2688 You’re welcome! I’ll be praying for you and your mother. 💕💕
@A13XLaircey
@A13XLaircey 11 ай бұрын
Anger is one of the seven stages of grief. It sounds like your mother is stuck in this stage; but she is taking it out on you. Your mother definitely needs psychological and emotional therapy; things are too hard for her to go this alone, and none of this is your fault. Please, talk to another helpful adult (such as your school counselor), and tell them everything.
@matthaydon5228
@matthaydon5228 4 жыл бұрын
hi my name is eilidh I used to hurt myself because my mum had a boyfriend who used to hurt me and i felt like nobody loved me
@leafbunbun9363
@leafbunbun9363 4 жыл бұрын
Same, but not sexually
@keyaragreen7934
@keyaragreen7934 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Eilidh. I know it's months later, but does your mom know? It sounds like she has broken up with him. I'm happy you're not hurting yourself anymore. The number 1 person to talk to right now is your mom. She is the main person that can figure out how to help you navigate your emotional pain and really heal from it.
@mysticresearchlabs
@mysticresearchlabs 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you feel better, you don’t deserve to feel nobody loves you.
@NinjaxGameboy
@NinjaxGameboy 3 жыл бұрын
me too much of people of 6 grade and 5 grade and 4-grade use to bully me because I was a Chinese person and all that because the COVID-19
@mysticresearchlabs
@mysticresearchlabs 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you feel better some time soon. I used to get bullied for my eye colours. But I’m doing well now
@angelaburton4712
@angelaburton4712 4 жыл бұрын
Hi I am Bethany Ford and I have a book out and it is on Amazon and when you look it up always put the authors name in as well as the title of the book and its now on KZbin now and you can read chapter one on KZbin now, the book is called "In comfort of Mary" by Bethany Ford, I acted like that and was in trouble and self harm myself as I felt worthless and one night I attempt to kill myself but something stop me. I use to get in to fights at school and I swore a lot. It is a healing book as well as turning your life around for the better because you are the winner not the abuser.
@NR20244
@NR20244 4 жыл бұрын
Angela Burton shut up
@theunknownone4142
@theunknownone4142 4 жыл бұрын
@@NR20244 delete your comment, it is wrong.
@theunknownone4142
@theunknownone4142 4 жыл бұрын
@@NR20244 also I know you're going through something, but don't take out your anger on others.
@NR20244
@NR20244 4 жыл бұрын
The Unknown one I’m just joking around no need to take it serious
@theunknownone4142
@theunknownone4142 4 жыл бұрын
@@NR20244 oh OK.
@Joy-zz8wz
@Joy-zz8wz 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this.
@Mia_Mar1a
@Mia_Mar1a 3 жыл бұрын
These help a lot, I havnt been abused but I was made to homeschool 8 years, it hurt not being able to be arround children, now I am in 8th grade and I’m in a homeschool like place but I go to a school two times a week, it’s the first time I’m arround a lot of kids, and boys too, I feel happier but dee inside of me I’m really different and regret alot
@emma-tayllor
@emma-tayllor 3 жыл бұрын
im watching these videos in the middle a mental breakdown.....they calm me.
@vickychillin3255
@vickychillin3255 Жыл бұрын
Child abuse is horrible! No child should go through that! Human period!
@Guedtama33
@Guedtama33 3 ай бұрын
im in 8th grade and im watching these so I can learn and understand... tysm for making these!!
@user-fl4tj3jg5o
@user-fl4tj3jg5o Ай бұрын
It says these are for kids but honestly watching these are so therapeutic.
@cheesestickhathreturned6875
@cheesestickhathreturned6875 3 жыл бұрын
lol I relate to the first kid who’s angry all the time (Matteo)
@treycantrell6857
@treycantrell6857 3 жыл бұрын
This is crazy accurate
@ambergirl986
@ambergirl986 6 ай бұрын
Fr
@tonivarnell1316
@tonivarnell1316 3 жыл бұрын
that principle is so sweet
@cleorocks5215
@cleorocks5215 3 жыл бұрын
i wish i had found this when i was in 5th grade
@FlareJollyDragoness
@FlareJollyDragoness 3 жыл бұрын
Same, but in 3rd, 4th, 5th, and 6th grade a decade ago.
@sumsum3914
@sumsum3914 4 жыл бұрын
It made me dark and sad too
@tourmelion9221
@tourmelion9221 3 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that's in past tense and you're safe and happy Or at least working on it
@mangleloltube431
@mangleloltube431 3 жыл бұрын
Many of these stories are probably fake but in a way real and even tho I didn't get abused I got bullied And this makes me feel understood aniways Thank you
@leafbunbun9363
@leafbunbun9363 4 жыл бұрын
We should do emotional abuse next cause I go through it
@sticks2221
@sticks2221 4 жыл бұрын
LeafBunBun please tell someone it will be so much better
@tourmelion9221
@tourmelion9221 3 жыл бұрын
@@sticks2221 and then what? What do you do with emotional abuse if you live with the abuser?
@user-jy6li6bv5h
@user-jy6li6bv5h Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry but the girl looks like Riley from inside out and I can’t unsee it
@Gumbypuss664
@Gumbypuss664 Жыл бұрын
Because their literally the same person
@wolfyvenus5733
@wolfyvenus5733 3 жыл бұрын
Ive been living with my mom and sisters fighting. It just made me different. It made me have deppression but i hide it....and then i grew up with anger issues.
@I_LOVE_TRASH_ANIMALS
@I_LOVE_TRASH_ANIMALS 2 ай бұрын
As someone who’s been depressed, sensitive, and angered since 6, it really makes me feel better others are like me. I tried to sh when I was 9.
@dinodeer778
@dinodeer778 3 жыл бұрын
I’m about to start tearing up-
@Elii17591
@Elii17591 3 жыл бұрын
fact: if your being abused tell someone it will make you feel better and it might stop happening
@midori7217
@midori7217 3 жыл бұрын
Amber remind me Riley of inside out.
@EllieDoesStuff-ii8zb
@EllieDoesStuff-ii8zb 4 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for these poor kids.
@MistyDrop26
@MistyDrop26 2 жыл бұрын
I actually get abused physically and emotionally. Today, my mom said my armpits smell like a grandpa
@sky_diamond345
@sky_diamond345 2 жыл бұрын
Talk with Social Services
@sussybaka119
@sussybaka119 Жыл бұрын
Okay that's cruel but weirdly funny
@saddymaddy3222
@saddymaddy3222 4 жыл бұрын
Omg, I’m literally amber except the the dude is my cousin or field science teacher, omg.
@fiddlefish1294
@fiddlefish1294 3 жыл бұрын
it says maddy in your name
@annyulain4320
@annyulain4320 3 жыл бұрын
@@fiddlefish1294 There not saying there Amber there saying there life is like amber
@fiddlefish1294
@fiddlefish1294 3 жыл бұрын
Anny Ulain why did i read my name is amber too????
@annyulain4320
@annyulain4320 3 жыл бұрын
@@fiddlefish1294 No one said that ;-;
@fiddlefish1294
@fiddlefish1294 3 жыл бұрын
Anny Ulain i know 🤠
@awesomegodnewlifeministrie8252
@awesomegodnewlifeministrie8252 Ай бұрын
I, too had some things going on in my life as well. It was mostly physical abuse. Some times it was verbal abuse.
@robloxdrama6639
@robloxdrama6639 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 12, I have a 16yr cousin. 1 time he touched me when we had a family gathering, they slept in our house for the week and at night he'd always touch me inappropriatetly I wanna tell someone but I'm worried that they would be disgusted on me and I would be embarrased. Pls help me
@lilly7823
@lilly7823 3 жыл бұрын
It will be ok. just tell them dont think about what will happen, the sooner you get help the better. I promise
@ambergirl986
@ambergirl986 6 ай бұрын
how are you doing now? :(
@briannaarrington3435
@briannaarrington3435 3 жыл бұрын
This is for Adults too and I love it 💕
@gahhstusgejh3237
@gahhstusgejh3237 3 жыл бұрын
Its for kids thats why the channel is called fight child abuse
@briannaarrington3435
@briannaarrington3435 3 жыл бұрын
@@gahhstusgejh3237 Haha, you misinterpreted what I meant. I understand that 😊 What I'm saying is, that this information can be helpful to adults too. A lot of "grown ups" still struggle with the topics of these videos. I think anyone can watch them, that's how good and well made they are! 🙂
@gahhstusgejh3237
@gahhstusgejh3237 3 жыл бұрын
@@briannaarrington3435 sorry im stupid
@briannaarrington3435
@briannaarrington3435 3 жыл бұрын
Hana Yousaf No need to apologize, and you’re not stupid! Text makes conversing difficult, it’s easy to misunderstand. I do it all the time haha
@user-li2gf5vb6t
@user-li2gf5vb6t Жыл бұрын
Are these real stories' because there is a boy called mateo at my old school that had really bad anger issues and this is the exact same story.
@ambergirl986
@ambergirl986 6 ай бұрын
wow maybe
@pourPOURpour
@pourPOURpour 3 жыл бұрын
I want my children to watcch this when I have them
@hychore8192
@hychore8192 Жыл бұрын
While I was little I got early depression and yet I still have depression and I have s3lf h@rm scars I only talked a little but if I saw too much I'm going to be send to a mental hospital.
@cherrytheandroid9205
@cherrytheandroid9205 3 жыл бұрын
Drop the CGI the simple2D animation helps kids who watch this understand what's happing better
@dewmilk7266
@dewmilk7266 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree the CGI freaks me out
@ambergirl986
@ambergirl986 6 ай бұрын
yeah but i think it helps distinguish between the stories and the narrators
@sky_diamond345
@sky_diamond345 2 жыл бұрын
Nunca me pasó, pero odio cuando a otras personas les pasa. En serio, que les ven a unos simples niños y adolescentes? Las víctimas no tienen la culpa de que pase porque no esperan que eso sea lo que les pase. Y un 🖕 a todos esos padres que no ayudan o no les creen a sus hijos.
@SilvergaleGloom
@SilvergaleGloom Жыл бұрын
How many times as Mateo gone to the principals office? Number?
@Driverswheel
@Driverswheel 2 ай бұрын
There was a girl in one of my old schools like the blonde girl, when she started wearing a hood often people called her "emo! " or "Fake depressed chick" and I'd try to talk to her when we'd do stuff but she'd never respond or have short words, one day some girls pushed her and harassed her saying "*GIRL NAME 1* HAAS DEPRESSION AND YOU'RE BEING A OFFENSIVE! " and she just said "I'm going through.. Things so leave me alone. " and then they just continued for a week. One day she never came to school and the school had a meeting thingy with the whole school about bullying, suicide, self harm, and sa. Turns out the girl had enough from being abused by her brother/stepdad (it was a while ago so I'm kinda foggy about it) and the girls bullying her that she stopped harming herself and hung herself on the ceiling fan. I actually talked to her sometimes like actually before everything, she was so cheery and happy. I sometimes think of her and wish i could've done something in that lunchroom on that day or been able to get her help but no, i never got to. (Ik it sounds so fake n such but i remember that i was sitting where she was pushed n such, it was about 3-4 years ago so yeah..)
@ellasole230
@ellasole230 Жыл бұрын
I’m Mateo
@bmihalascu
@bmihalascu Жыл бұрын
Well i got my first phone and I was happy but when i was on social media a guy friended me and he showed me his private parts and he told me to show mine too but I didn’t. I felt depressed but I reported him and i told my father about the abuse. I felt so good after i told him
@jessicamartinez2894
@jessicamartinez2894 3 жыл бұрын
That was so sad video 😢
@YUHH--
@YUHH-- 4 жыл бұрын
WHEN I WAS WATCHING SOMTHIN IT SAID 666 VEWS
@coyote689
@coyote689 3 жыл бұрын
WHY IS NOBODY ANSWERING MY QUESTION, DAMN IT
@ttrung0101
@ttrung0101 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate.
@mayatenshi
@mayatenshi Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@LittleLion420
@LittleLion420 3 жыл бұрын
SHE IS ANGRY~
@xulqu8128
@xulqu8128 3 жыл бұрын
I remember when I was 7 my uncle touched me..... I couldnt do anything, I thought it was ok. During that time my sister also started well..touching me too, I told the school which they told the police and my family. My parents got so mad at me I felt so guilty,that I was the one who did something bad. To this day,my uncle still does it to me..
@melissahanson8096
@melissahanson8096 3 жыл бұрын
I just watch this for the animation and OMG YOU GUYS HOW
@alondrazatarin248
@alondrazatarin248 Жыл бұрын
I have a question how did the kids send the notes to you guys cause I think I know a person who loves too send a notes 📝
@xX_Ghostie.Girl_Xx
@xX_Ghostie.Girl_Xx 3 жыл бұрын
i let an older man into my room, he convinced me what we where doing was normal,i was only thinking that he was gonna sell me the weed (for my friends bday) and then he forced himself on me
@tourmelion9221
@tourmelion9221 3 жыл бұрын
Oh no If you know who he is Tell the people close to you Then the police
@xX_Ghostie.Girl_Xx
@xX_Ghostie.Girl_Xx 3 жыл бұрын
@@tourmelion9221 im scared to because my parents would blame it on me i dont have his full name or user name and im scared people will judge me. I just try to not let it bother me
@blackqweenmars
@blackqweenmars 2 жыл бұрын
Ion know why I keep watching these lol like I haven’t experienced any abuse bullying or assault in years and those problems are long solved I’m just watching for plot now ig
@sumsum3914
@sumsum3914 4 жыл бұрын
That happened to me too
@56juicee
@56juicee 4 жыл бұрын
Sum Sum and me :’(
@gregpilledd
@gregpilledd 3 жыл бұрын
Are you okay now?
@leahnabundy
@leahnabundy Ай бұрын
I em a kid and growing thought the same thing but when i try to tell my friend about what I went through it hurts inside and when I get home I hurt my self because i get mad.
@kb4134
@kb4134 3 жыл бұрын
Destructive
@arklevia2320
@arklevia2320 Жыл бұрын
nahh yall weird cause the most replayed parts😰
@ambergirl986
@ambergirl986 6 ай бұрын
😂
@Witness246
@Witness246 23 күн бұрын
I started sh a couple days ago. I always feel alone and like no one in the world truly cares about me. However, my pain isn’t because of sexual abuse.
@Dora_but_better
@Dora_but_better Жыл бұрын
For all the abusers out there...what will you get out of hurting others an Oscar??? what do you think they feel happy?? what if that happened to you how would you feel?? people are just *sick* and *disgusting* and also for predators
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