STOP WASTING MONEY & OVERSPENDING Traditional Christian Housewife + God Talk

[@lyndaweaver4268]

Great message. I have been overspending for many months. I feel guilty. They are wants....not needs. Thank you for reminding me of God's word and truth especially now with the holiday season coming soon.

[@AngelaPickles1929]

@purpleflowers9 - you need to learn to take responsibility for your actions.

[@Chris-fv3pk]

I am having trouble. My husband cheated on me and left me. Now divorced. Trying to do the best I can now. I need to sell my house to be near my daughter and granddaughter. Please pray for me, to bring someone to buy my house ,I have to move out of state

[@marygayquigley9672]

I hope you have sold your house and are now near your daughter. I pray for your inner peace that only the Lord can give as you ho through this traumatic transition. ❤

[@brendah4701]

If you struggle with shopping on impulse . Something that works for me is taking care of what I have : like cleaning , washing what I already have ! Only buy what you need and make sure it’s something you truly love so you are more encouraged to care for it, don’t buy because it’s cheap ! Also cleaning my home helps me keep my mind busy , as well as learning new cooking recipes :)

[@biancaaviles15]

this was very encouraging. however, if I may say, I don't believe God wants us to view money as "save up as much as possible", but rather, HOW to manage money. we should try to focus on dispersing it the righteous way. I've personally found myself borderline obsessed with saving as much as I could and the good Lord reminded me that handling it righteously is all it's about. God bless you and your family!

[@ThisMamasFaith]

That’s an excellent point!

[@racheg5421]

Yes! ❤

[@shyannray3524]

I really needed this. I will admit that I buy stuff I don’t need just to get that “shoppers high” feeling. And then it goes away and I need to buy more. I’m so glad God put this on your heart to share! I’m going to work on my shopping habit. God bless you!! ❤️🙏🏻

[@traceybiles2061]

Yes emotional high ...not dealing with you feelings..

[@lilmisslegal3018]

Very great video! I am a "working" wife, and this video was 100% confirmation of what the Lord placed on my heart. As someone who works in corporate law, I was so close to being devoured into the "keep up with the Jones" lifestyle. Overspending on luxury fashion etc. One day in March of this year, I went into my prayer closet and asked God to take away anything or anyone who was distracting me from getting closer to him and my husband and God's word hit me like a sack of bricks. "Thou shall have no other gods before me," and then i knew the luxury lifestyle, fashion, and soical circles had become my idols. I had to repent and ask for forgiveness from God and my husband. In 2024, I plan on leaving my job and career to become a full-time homemake and housewife.

[@New_Heaven_And_A_New_Earth]

God bless and be with you. God's ways are best. :)

[@vintagebeliever5023]

You will not regret this decision. Find like minded women as you will need the encouragement. God bless!❤

[@subashnigovender807]

Super proud of you. Obedience is better than sacrifice.... Because obedience is harder. Will be praying for you. Sending hugs

[@tilltheend7902]

That's awesome..praise the Lord for the beautiful work He is doing in your heart!! That is the work of the Holy Spirit.. beautiful!

[@thandazamahlangu8323]

Wow, I have been recently thinking of leaving my job and start over again. How is it like to be a homemaker from a working wife ?

[@PersistentPam]

Your video popped up in my feed. I love it. I'm a long time frugal momma and saved up every bit I could. I am so glad I did. My husband lost his job in April and that money has kept us going. Prayers for employment are appreciated. It has been very difficult. Thank you.

[@expatmom8272]

Hi. I hope your hubby is again blessed with a job or you both found some small business to keep you going..praying for Gods blessing favor and provision in your lifr

[@mrs.hatfield1451]

I don't have enough to have this problem. I am actually really good with money. We're one a one working parent budget. I stay home. There is no money to waste.

[@susanmartin870]

Thats a really great point...if you dont have it to waste, it's not an issue. Since i seem to go through too many seasons wasting the little we have, i am quitting my part time job in a month and wont have any to waste. When i have better control over my finances, i will consider earning money from home and put that in savings. The verse in this video has been recurring for me the last week or so, and ai believe it is from the Lord. This is the first year my 1 raspberry plant at our rental has given fruit, and i thought: How wonderful it would be to have property of our own to plant all the fruits we desire on it and watch them grow over the years. So that is my goal. Always has been, but now it is very certain I must do this for my family.

[@shaylasmith3935]

🎉Thanks for this inspirational video! My only concern is mostly about buying quality over quantity. It is far more important to buy quality items, foods, and such, not the cheapest versions.

[@420C22]

Thank you, I love Proverbs 31. I was lost for so long, I was baptized as a Catholic yet raised Baptist by my grandma, tried Judaism, Islam, and back to Christianity again. I felt so lost for so long. I've found my heart through Jesus, he has forgiven me. I understand what you mean about the PUSH to promote God and live through his word, I felt the same thing a few months ago, after crying at the crossroads for God to forgive me for forsaking him. Thank you so much. I absolutely love your videos. This reborn life has brought me peace that nothing in the entire world ever has. It is a daily battle to implement and not just say these grand words, especially when money is so so very tight, but it is the most rewarding battle to beat.

[@jessicavh1994]

I had the opposite of spending , I’m very tight with money , God made me realize the little effort I was putting into home making because of money , this year my goal was making my home to look good and to be organized i decorated for the holidays and my home looks so inviting . I want my husband to always feel welcome and cozy, after a long hours of work

[@maaariluv]

Amen

[@tg3609]

Oh my goodness, I needed this message so much today! Thank you dear Tabitha for reminding me of my spending before the holidays. Celebrate Christ first!

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Amen!! 🙌🏼

[@elanaspeicher4128]

Thank you for this very thoughtful and tastefully done video. I love your gentle way of challenging sisters in Christ to CONSIDER.

[@mrsbethanyelise]

Great points! Biblical unity between spouses is key when keeping in budget and on track with finances.

[@viewer617]

This is for me. My husband and I are on a debt free journey and are on track to pay off all debt next year. Furthermore, we want to save money to buy a home and I eventually want to come home to raise my son..but I need to tighten up my spending and stop making excuses for buying things I don’t need. How can God trust me with much and I don’t steward the little? The much would be for me to have the privilege to be home with my son and have him grow up in a home. That’s more important to me than the frivolous things I spend money on. This video reminded me of that and I feel so convicted. Thank you. I’m going to try a no spend month.

[@Littlecupofblessings]

Very uplifting video for many I think, really a blessing. There is truly a big differences between wanting and needing. So happy I found your channel, will absolutely watch more ❤ be blessed!

[@ata.11]

Love how short and simple this video was but very straight to the point. Overspending is something I have been working on for about a month or so and I've cut so much. I keep praying God fulfills me with hobbies I enjoy that don't require spending, but to learn new things. It so easy to fall into the pattern of overspending when there is so much stuff around us wanting our attention. Such as social media when every KZbinr tries to do is sell us something while they get richer. Thank you for doing the contrary and teaching me and other woman how that is not biblical and doesn't align with God word. I look forward to more content like this. Blessings🙏🏻

[@MichelleJohnson-q6e]

I use to binge buy and the stuff don't even make sense..all we need is a simple life pray and love each other..

[@purposebehindthepen]

I needed this. I am a wife and also a self published Christian Author. I basically want to invest in my business and not just spend money out of control. I moved back to a country where I can barely buy anything I just want. This month, I denied my flesh of wanting to go out to the mall during Black Friday and when I say I feel good, I really mean it.

[@yogininamaste]

Amen ❤

[@wifeoftim]

I needed this because I really want to be wise in my spending. I was thinking about all these Bible studies I've bought over the past couple of years and I have too many. I've decided I will not buy anymore until all the ones I have are completed. I tell you its not easy because the site I buy from has a sale every.single.week. Anyway, its nice to learn from much younger women. Thank you!

[@poshbyjodygreeneisen5147]

I just started reading Proverbs and we started a budget this month so I know God was confirming our path with this message. Thank you for your encouragement. God just led me to your channel tonight. God bless!

[@jamiesharpe3856]

I am having a no-spend November. I realized how often I just bought small things from my Amazon app and it was adding up.

[@laurenplante9781]

Thank you for a great message. I really needed this I have always been a natural over spender and feel so impatient feeling like I need it now and then I feel guilty but not guilty enough to stop the cycle. I am taking action now and holding myself accountable, one day at a time.

[@jasminegonzalez2007]

Your videos always bless me greatly. This particular verse reminds me that the Proverbs 31 woman is decisive. Its something that I struggle with; so having contemplated this verse earlier this week and seeing a video on it now made me realize I need to be okay being decisive. God bless you and your family ❤

[@ThisMamasFaith]

I could definitely use more decisiveness! I didn’t think of it that way! Thank you for pointing that out

[@Desiree_Rose]

I so needed this. I am planning a no spend year next year. I've gone so beyond crazy with spending this year, and it's made me feel terrible. Turning things around now. I need a brain reset and I have PLENTY.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

I’m doing a no spend too! I have a really big goal to have a bunch saved by the end of next year! We can do this 🙌🏼

[@Desiree_Rose]

Yes we can! ❤️🙌

[@bellsbooklover]

I was just thinking to myself a very low buy for the entire 2024

[@Breannafaith95]

Hey Tabitha. I just wanted to encourage you to continue creating content for this channel! I really enjoy listening to videos that help me on my journey to Godly womanhood. Its inspiring and I appreciate it. The world views things so differently from me and a lot of women do not aspire to live life pleasing God and their husband. I have been married for almost 8 years. We married when he was 19 and I was 20. We definitely have our ups and downs but in more recent years I have tried to be a godlier wife and it pays to do so. God designed things the way he did for a reason, and we just humble ourselves we can see this. I may not have much in the eyes of man, but I have a blessed life.

[@therapturesoon]

You are so right. I do the grocery shopping and my husband handles the bills and gas in the car. This is great godly advice to handle your finances...avoiding unnecessary spending. God bless you and your beautiful family.

[@In_Gods_Arms]

Loved this… my hubby and I do a budget plan for each month and we have really in the last few months started really holding one another accountable for every dime we spend and we are really seeing the benefits from it praise the Lord. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@ThisMamasFaith]

That is awesome! I struggle with keeping track and then sometimes am surprised at the end of the month! I’m walking this journey of being a good steward of my money too! It’s so awesome you have your husbands support in that

[@jaypm92]

I love your honesty sister ❤️

[@colleenoldham1245]

This is what my husband and myself do and it works. We know what comes in and goes out and we both are happy with our finances!

[@hopesmom77]

Hi, are you not posting here anymore? I wait and wait and watch and watch ( I sound pathetic don’t I) sorry I miss you though truly. It’s so rewarding to listen to what the Lord gives you to say…and I have been so touched by all of your videos!

[@ThisMamasFaith]

I will be back to regular posting no later than February! I miss it so much too. 🥹

[@hopesmom77]

I posted again with the same question and then I saw your answer. THANK YOU!!!

[@melindaleander4748]

Perfect timing for this video, as I was beginning to feel pressure around Christmas gift giving/spending. I needed this reminder. God bless 🙌

[@ameliamotz6783]

Thanks for this video! I appreciate that you stick to speaking about scripture and its principles while also endeavoring to encourage us in our housework. I'm looking forwards to watching more of your videos.

[@DewTorres23]

The proper context of this verse is Jesus. Jesus purchased His church (the redeemed) through His precious blood on the cross. No woman, no matter how much we try will never become the woman described on proverbs 31. It is Christ who opens His mouth with wisdom, strength and honor is He, His clothing is fine linen and purple (royalty), He extends His hand to the poor, for all His redeemed are clothed with scarlet ( righteousness), He plants a vineyard. He accomplished it all!

[@FrancesTheresaCalumpang]

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@ShellyJohnson-xs1mf]

This was so timely! As it is Black Friday this week & we are bombarded with sales. Thank you so much for this video 💗

[@thebrilauren]

Not only did I need this perspective but I asked God for help with this and other areas of my life no longer than this past week 😳. Something you said literally made me audibly gasp and my mouth maintained a big ‘O’ shape. Picture me being so stunned while turning eggs over in a pan🥴😆. God is faithful and good. This message is SO timely and I praise Him for using you to speak to me 🥹❤️. God bless you my sister ☺️!

[@tonyamcnamara8441]

You really spoke to me ! Especially in these days when prices just keep getting higher and higher I need to set a budget and stick to it no unnecessary things. Focus more on the necessities!!! Thanks for sharing 😊

[@FaithandFlour]

Thank you Tabitha for this timely message! I love all of the Christ centered content you have been sharing! God bless you and your sweet family and Happy Thanksgiving! 💛Robin

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Thanks for watching Robin! Hope you all are doing well

[@DysautonomiaWarrior9]

My husband and I are going to do the no spend challenge to hopefully save some money this month! 😊 Thank you for your videos, I find them very informative and lovely to listen to/watch

[@sonitar1310]

Your writing is beautiful. Another gift from the Father

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Thank you so much!

[@johnsonjo8454]

Hai 💋🤎

[@charlottetoyne7192]

I have never thought of overspending as a patience problem before. That def puts it in a new perspective on why I might be overspending. Thanks for the calming environment and insight!

[@NataliaBenoit-bd6kh]

I love this oh my gosh! I'm a catholic mom and homemaker this is right and just and speaks towards what's been put on my heart too from God. I realized buying pre-packaged foods and frozen meals were harming our grocery budget. My goal this year is to make all this home made to save. I calculated and found that I would save $120 a month if I just cut the preservative filled packaged foods. Thank you this feels like I'm watching Mother Mary's domestic life and it's like I'm hearing her speak through you!

[@kimberlyzammit6722]

This was greatly needed... what perfect timing. The more I spend, the more out of control and chaotic I feel until I crash. It is not a good feeling. This is a great lesson to slow down and CONSIDER. Thank you so much!

[@Jaxxie1981]

This is a very timely video, and I know it didn't come into my algorithm by accident. I recently purchased a quiet luxury handbag online, because it was 50% off and it will be a timeless bag that should last a lifetime. With that said, now my KZbin is blowing up with videos of women showing off their massive luxury goods hauls. I started feeling less than. Thinking I should get some of these items for the status. To feel important. God convicted me, because my status is in Christ and frivolous spending is not honoring the financial provision God has blessed my family with. Thank you for this excellent reminder.

[@kimacker8594]

Your videos encourage me to be a more Godly woman.

[@margarettownsley9500]

Thank you for sharing this godly wisdom with me

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Thank you for watching

[@lisabartscher286]

Thank u for the lesson on the Proverbs 31 woman!! I have been convicted on my overspending. I will be considering my purchases from now on. Thank u for sharing what God has given u. ❤

[@cookinwithbeckiiisidoro7003]

I needed this so much. I spend and then regret. Marketplace and all is my downfall then I convince myself I need it and really I dont ever use it. Or plan huge huge overexprnsive mrals and then no one eats any left over and throw away.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

It’s hard! But you got this! You can do all things through Christ who gives you strength!

[@lacyhay9022]

Yes sister thank you for this message. I purchased 2 budget planners for 2024. One for home and one for our business. Our business was under attack this year and we had to break the no credit card rule. I am praying we can pay the debt off and rise above what we had to endure. But i love the fact that the one I bought for home even has a section for what can you do to better serve section in it. And the budget planner I bought for our business has a tithing section in it. Explaining why you should do that with your business. And I brought that to my husband attention and our cousin who's our preacher. And the planner became the subject in the sermon today.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Oh wow! That’s awesome. Please share what planner it is for others who also need something like that.

[@lacyhay9022]

@@ThisMamasFaith for those who are interested both are Amazon. One of my homeschool moms recommended the one for home. The cover has "in a world where you can be anything, be kind " on the front cover. The business one has a lion on it. It's a smart lion premium money mastery budget planner. I highly recommend both of them.

[@ISTANDonHISPROMISE]

@lacyhay9022 how do you tithe from your business? We own our business and are unsure how to tithe. TIA

[@shaybenally6123]

I feel like I found this video at the perfect time. Thank you sharing this and letting God speak through you. I hear him and will be doing a no spend month in January!

[@fairynerdmother]

Very beautiful message. I’m actually very proud of myself this year. My first born is two, and my second is 8 months (will be 9 by Christmas). I got my first born two gifts and my 8 month old one gift. Normally, I’d want to shower them with loads of gifts! What really matters to me is having us all together and making memories and sharing experiences. Baking cookies, going to local Christmas spots to celebrate and look at lights, watching Christmas movies, and just spending time together as a family. That has so much more value than an over abundance of toys. ❤️

[@aprilprescott4192]

Your holiday season sounds perfect! Making memories that can be shared over and over.

[@charline2149]

Thank you for this message. I am guilty of overspending impulsively and not using my purchases wisely

[@RobertaStonequist]

thank you for sharing openly and honestly with such conviction according to His Word! I’m doing a no spend month in one of the least likely times to not spend. We have plenty, glory to God, and 2 Peter 1:3 is a great reminder for me in that. God bless you and the work of your hands, Tabitha 💗🙏🏼

[@thandazamahlangu8323]

Thank you, so far I have watched few of your blogs and they are very interesting, glory the Father in all that we are doing, Amen 🙏

[@celeniac1414]

Great message, I really needed to hear this

[@Angelfooddiet]

I will be A mother. Thank you Lord Jesus.

[@abcdefghi330]

Your channel is truly blessed sister. I feel so calm and peaceful as I watch all your videos one after the other ❤. ❤ from India

[@chanceazula8893]

Your children will be so grateful to have such a wonderful mother 🥺 love to see it 😊

[@ABeautifulHorizonTV]

Thanks for sharing, Tabitha! I've recently decided to spend less on groceries in order to meet some financial goals. Thanks for the confirmation! 😁

[@ThisMamasFaith]

I would love to hear about how you’re going to do that. Groceries are so expensive!

[@ABeautifulHorizonTV]

I just posted an Aldi haul showing what I got on sale this week with a Walmart price comparison. The current Thanksgiving sale ends this Tuesday. I'll be keeping my eyes open for sales and work on stocking my pantry and freezer at rock bottom prices to last until the next sale for that item. I will be posting a video on how I'm creating a price book to track grocery prices in my area. I'm lowering my standards (organic and grassfed, etc) while still focusing mostly on whole foods and scratch cooking. 💖

[@thatkidcooks9]

I love how much truth you share in this! 👏🏼

[@MeghanIsaacs]

This is exactly what I needed to hear, God bless and thank you

[@shirlferguson294]

I love how peaceful this video is.

[@aye05jaye]

Thank you for this! I been trying to get a better grip on my finances. I don't want to be that impulsive buyer who just buys something just because.

[@Jarnell_m5]

This video was so calming, needed it thank you

[@pattyhansen7563]

One very important point that you left out....share with others. Make a 'plan' with friends/family to borrow or trade rather than buy new. When I was little we did not have new clothes much (we were pretty poor, in order for my mom to stay home). But, my mom DID have 6 sisters. Someone was always having a baby. My mom & aunts wrote their last name on all the children's clothing tags (& maternity) and just passed them around. When one aunt would announce a pregnancy, the sisters would pile the outgrown clothes together & pass them on😅I wore lots of things with the wrong last name in them LOL. Trying to teach this to a new friend...don't go buy, ask someone first to lend. It builds good relationships, too. you depend on each other & it humbles you. Plus, it teaches you to be extra careful with someone else's belongings & their friendship/feelings. It can also teach you, as the lender, who you can count on to return your things. We have become too 'independent', too individualistic which why our families & communities are suffering from disconnect. Have a swap party - trade appliances, clothes, homeschool books...your husband will appreciate you. Tell people about your hobbies - people will just GIVE you stuff (yarn, fabric, art supplies, etc...). I haven't bought fabric or yarn in years. In return, I can be very generous in making gifts for people. and beware - there definitely ARE people who want you to overspend just to make them happy. there will be people in your life that do not care whether you are fiscally responsible, as long as their whims/needs are met. Don't just assume that the people you think love you want the best for you - have some in my family that equate a $$$$ gift with love. Watch out for those folks and don't give in.

[@thesimplifiedsaver]

I love this video Tabitha ❤️wonderful message. Thank you for sharing

[@The-Vintage-Needlecrafter]

This is my second viewing. Thank you.❤ I need this every day.😊Hope you are well and am looking forward to future videos from you Lord willing

[@m0nt0y123456]

I needed to see and hear this, because I've been struggling with this for weeks.

[@chelongogan3904]

Great advice. ! The Bible warns about Materialism and Greed ! Have a blessed New Years

[@rachelwilliams5544]

Great words of wisdom ❤

[@tanahag9069]

I needed this reminder, thank you. May God bless you and your family.

[@sarahandrade8462]

Wow you are so peaceful to listen to.

[@chittibabu1920]

praise the Lord Madam wonderful massage God bless your family

[@vanessapierce1861]

Thank you such a sweet gentle spirit you have ❤

[@andreiabpatistabaptista2924]

Gostei da mensagem. Falo por mim, às vezes gasto mais dinheiro, do que o necessário. Mas, de dia para dia, estou a melhor. Obrigada pela mensagem.

[@colleenpomeroy3024]

Thank you and Gods continuing Blessings to you.

[@rebecasparaco7127]

Daughter of a king, dresses and coffee too❤🙋🏽‍♀️

[@marenkavandenberg7339]

Thank you so much. God has been putting this on my heart for some time and this video was so helpfull 😊

[@shannonlove27]

This was so helpful and inspiring. Thank you!

[@FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj]

I got about one year soberity l should be proud of myself l wasn't living right and these set backs are so

[@DaniellaStMartin-ds3om]

Thank you, Sister. This video blessed me.

[@dannie4983]

Wow. Great message. So timely. Thank you.

[@phyllislall2574]

Great message in little words!

[@LauraS1104]

Love this! We don’t have a budget plan and it drives me nuts. Love your dress by the way! Thank you so much for this great video! Definitely needed it today❤

[@deniseharkrader3980]

I needed this message and will be working to overcome wasting money and being more considerate of my purchases. Thank you for your messages.

[@CamiRoupe]

Love it. Your channel always blesses me!

[@kdwerner]

This is so encouraging! Thank you ❤

[@lightenupbuttercup5476]

Great video, thank you for sharing!

[@meybory17]

Thank you for this. I really need it

[@TT-zc1pv]

Thank you so much for sharing this scripture and verse ❤

[@Mamas_sprinkleofjoy]

Thank you for sharing this. I needed this more than you know.

[@ericaaguilar1443]

New subbie here for sure!! Your video just popped up and God knew I needed to hear your message. This hit me hard😢 I will definitely start applying this to my life. Thank you❤❤❤

[@Raising_Arrowsx5]

Oh that poor Fiddle Leaf :( She needs some plant food and sunlights so bad. Love this message. Ive been struggling with this very thing lately. Ive been grieving the loss of a child so then I catch myself spending money on things that I could do without. I am craving structure in all parts of my life. Especially financially.

[@ThisMamasFaith]

My toddler has ripped it out of the dirt so many times 😭😭😭 I’m surprised it’s doing as well as it is!! 🤪 I’m going to put some plant food in though! Good idea!!!

[@ThisMamasFaith]

Praying for your peace and comfort during grieving such a hard loss. 🥺🙏🏼💔

[@jodyholland5912]

Such a beautiful message❤

[@duoneswart4989]

Ooh I needed to hear this

[@goronpaulpeace]

Great teaching, God bless

[@darlenebrown3993]

Thank you for your challenge and encouragement

[@lisajoybrown]

Thankyou for sharing on this topic!

[@amandazplace5663]

Perfect timing!🙏🇨🇦♥️

[@hannahdyjur5908]

I love this insight!❤️

[@SoniaDuranSoniaMartell]

Wow, great message! 😮 Thank you!!!

[@RachelRuiz-p1v]

GOD BLESS YOU. MY NAME IS RACHEL, I JUST SUBSCRIBED TO YOUR CHANEL. I LOVE ❤️ THAT YOU ARE READING THE BIBLE 👍😉GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING IN OUR LIVES.🙏

[@JudahR238]

So much needed, beautiful. Thank you❤