"Trade" just want what they can get from a person such as: money, a place to live, etc. The best way to deal with "trade" men is to don't deal with them at all.
@bobbybrown13893 жыл бұрын
@JB's SoulFull Eats Thank you I'm so sick of these guys using terminology they clearly Don't know the history of
@kimberlymarshall39772 жыл бұрын
@JB's SoulFull Eats Some gay guys told me, trade is a gay man trying to look straight. I'm so confused. 🤷🏿♀️
@grownwoman59412 жыл бұрын
!
@thelifeofpoon18902 жыл бұрын
@JB's SoulFull Eats awe another hater, what a shame
@MarciaSantos-ox1fk10 ай бұрын
@@jbssoulfulleats2083 the meaning of the term has since evolved
@grownwoman59412 жыл бұрын
I'm still baffled about why people still live like this. Just be honest! I'm currently on a celibacy journey and I can't begin to tell you how many persons I turned away just off of their energy. Cheaters, liars, DL men, etc.... I may never date again. No one tells the truth and I'm over it.
@GeminiJo2 жыл бұрын
I haven't dated in almost 5 years. I'm good 😂
@padussia2 жыл бұрын
Same here. I found out my husband was on the DL in 2013 after I found him dead in our home. He was murdered by one of the men he was hooking up with from Craigslist.
@lakeishaallen88312 жыл бұрын
There are some excellent people. Whatever your preferences are, be honest about what you want.
@aton-ramasculin3sunworship3532 жыл бұрын
Emotional damage 🤯
@thewatchman92073 жыл бұрын
Yup. Classic behavior of my ex. He was down with the trade, running through multiple women just to prove to me he wasn't gay. Smh All the pieces came together. Good luck to the next female. 😂
@maverickbull19092 жыл бұрын
It's been 5 hours and I still don't know how to spot them. Wrap it up dude!!
@kc-jv1rn2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@ConversationsWithDaffini2 жыл бұрын
Thanks youuuuu sheesh
@erikajames7457 Жыл бұрын
Omg, he didn't give any insight on how to spot one. Smh....... 11min and someodd seconds of my life just went down the drain
@tashawndaprice7044 жыл бұрын
I need some insight into what DL men discuss with each other about the women they're dealing with.
@bobbybrown13893 жыл бұрын
Bottom line they just want to make sure you never find out
@grownwoman59412 жыл бұрын
I would appreciate having insight on This as well.
@itsaaronlolz3 жыл бұрын
i don’t know, straight guys get along with me pretty well. one time i was flirting with my homie tho and some guy got all mad at me haha. no one paying attention to him anyways. it’s always the ugly bois that be doing the most lol. 😂
@luciddreams62102 жыл бұрын
"Some are out here afraid, some are out here insecure, and some are confused" And some just get off on the sheer deceit as well. Some enjoy the fact that they can mess around with other men and women at the same time and still get the undue respect of being a supposedly straight man while laughing behind everyone's backs and congratulating themselves on playing everybody. They like the fact that women and feminine/out gay men can't hide our vulnerability and they can wield that power over us because society has a foolish disdain for us.
@grownwoman59412 жыл бұрын
Exactly! 100% of everything you said is true. The fact of the matter is closeted people like a life of trickery no matter how they try to mask it. It's one thing to keep things private and another thing to lie.
@jevonsims9004 жыл бұрын
Plenty of women on the DL that don't get the same backlash, why is that?
@jonathanreyes63264 жыл бұрын
Because women on women is not spreading hiv to everyone
@cclintrich4 жыл бұрын
@@nothingbutnet6225 Women spread HIV Thru vaginal sex as well! Probably equally as much; from the beginning. When HIV first started the government made sure that it was never told to the public, fear of heterosexual ppl would panic. So they've pushed the platforms of only men can spread the disease for almost 10 years.
@LovelyFlyShy4 жыл бұрын
Jonathan Reyes THAT PART!!!!!! If you GAY BE GAY!!! Do not mislead a woman.
@jonathanreyes63264 жыл бұрын
@@cclintrich that is true with man and woman but woman on woman is very hard to pass it. The chances are very slim
@nothingbutnet62254 жыл бұрын
c rich Um Sir it’s not personal and what I’m saying is there are many ways to spread HIV but the easiest way to get it sexually is anal,, biologically proven,, I’m not a gay basher!!
@key9813 жыл бұрын
I’m almost in tears they don’t want to accept the fact of what’s deep inside them so sad 😞 😢
@joimcclammey99994 жыл бұрын
Omg!! You still didn’t tell how to spot a trade dafuq🤔
@darrianmcneil34813 жыл бұрын
Yes he did they swing both ways but overcompensate with hypermasculinity
@aton-ramasculin3sunworship3532 жыл бұрын
I’m right here
@joshlewis63852 жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting this out there ! You did a great job speaking on this topic ❤️
@AprilGMckinley4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for telling your story!
@key9814 жыл бұрын
I live for this they will break your heart
@MyGoodenessGracious4 жыл бұрын
Ok bye this a storytime not a know how🙄🙄🙄🙄
@kaygholer18234 жыл бұрын
Hi mr. Poon hope all is well stay safe. I want to comment on what you were saying about the trade and how they jump from being with a guy sexually and then 20 other women. And it sounds like you are describing a narcissist that's exactly how they get down and they married women and have kids 2 camouflage they're down low Behavior because they're very concerned about what other people think of them especially people in high rank depend on the job and careers they have. So when you get the time look up the behaviors of a narcissist and there you'll see your very Point brought to you live In Living Color. But thank you for the tea it was very informative
@key9813 жыл бұрын
Period
@kentporterfield39682 жыл бұрын
On point!
@rudyh26542 жыл бұрын
Mr.Poon, I greatly appreciate uou and your video definitely an 👁 opener. I watch N' learn so that I won't be judgemental about something I have no control over now I know what to look for when my girlfriend so called guy friends try N' push up on me way to keep on doing uou Mr.Poon may the only God bless uou Blackman. 💯🙏🏾🤝🏾✊🏾👊🏾
@darriajames40634 жыл бұрын
You took wayyyyyyyyy too long to get to the point🤷
@yolitzinmedina49992 жыл бұрын
It is a difference between dl and trade...trade just want wat they can get out a person...dl is a lifestyle...trade can go years without messing with a man or they are experts at hiding it....dl men know they gay and just choose to keep it on the dl
@FrankieFiveTimes4 жыл бұрын
Great video!
@taraallenturner34854 жыл бұрын
Damn! Get to the point already!
@thelifeofpoon18902 жыл бұрын
Impatient boo If you want to learn don’t rush the teacher understand the essence of the story
@truthunfolded13003 жыл бұрын
This vid is actually about the behaviors of a trade.
@reggiehardy37635 жыл бұрын
Okayyyy sissss!
@isaacfitzpatrick81603 жыл бұрын
I'm 58 years old I've been doing this my whole entire life you spoke truth young man a wonderful video
@dwaynemcdonald71452 жыл бұрын
🙏😊👍
@flelite39942 жыл бұрын
lol wtf
@otissmith35494 жыл бұрын
This video made me holler and cackle. 🤣😂🤣😆
@key9813 жыл бұрын
This video was spot on
@TQVardell2 жыл бұрын
I had a “trade” a few years ago. Meet him at the gas station. Long story short when we got back to my place, he put his ankles behind his head. I thought he would be a top but I enjoyed myself 🤷🏽♂️
@dwaynemcdonald71452 жыл бұрын
😀😂😂😂👍
@key9812 жыл бұрын
Omg 😱
@kingcrab19242 жыл бұрын
That's usually how it be the masculine acting ones be bottoms 🤣
@SmilesWalker2 ай бұрын
so me and my partner has been together for a year and a half. were both verse (im usually verse when single, anyway). i have been the bottom for most parts in our relationship. I finally topped him once. And I asked (just in case he wanted to be a top only) what do you think about our sex? is there any thing we need to change (trying to be smooth with it) and just said "IM VERSATILE" Question: how would you partake in that? should I just go back to being a BOTTOM majority?
@feedmysheepfoundation699720 күн бұрын
Damn he must got low standards cause you not even attractive
@Arizona_lilly2 жыл бұрын
Great awareness thanks 🙏
@PreciousSullivan2 жыл бұрын
So is bisexual not a thing?
@kaymonetv452 жыл бұрын
To them all men are gay lol but also they only want “ strait men” aka other gay men lol . They try to make it seem as if there is not strait men , and they hate me who are actually strait and always say that those men secretly want a gay man i feel bad for strait men this is so weird
@PreciousSullivan2 жыл бұрын
@Be REAL that wasn’t the question though. It’s a dangerous risk yes, but is bisexual a thing ?
@johnniedowery14353 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 110% honey cuz that is exactly how trade Acts been there done that you go honey
@aton-ramasculin3sunworship3532 жыл бұрын
I’m a trade not DL
@rayali98544 жыл бұрын
They all trade.full of games and backstabbing with your firends. Be alert.poon your too cute.
@laqueishabraham62052 жыл бұрын
Thank You For Sharing!!!!
@atrocchia3 ай бұрын
Maybe "coming out" is not for everybody.
@queenrich44474 жыл бұрын
Billy cobb think i didnt know he was downlow
@marilynross12426 ай бұрын
Be true to yourself. You don't have to prove yourself to imperfect people. They don't pay your bills, they know they want some😂
@pw61154 жыл бұрын
DL and Trade aren't really the same.. and not all DL men are gay.
@deidrafrazier2784 жыл бұрын
If you like/want to sexually engage with a man and/or 'd - and have a penis, you're gay. Period. You might be bisexual and gay but that's still gay. Stop it with the denial and take responsibility for your sexuality. I hate how Americans think they can change the meaning of words and facts based on their emotional response to an uncomfortable fact, shame, or denial. I think it ties into the whole racism thing, too. People just don't want to admit what they're doing, have been doing, or want to do.
@jonathanreyes63264 жыл бұрын
If you like d u gay
@pw61154 жыл бұрын
@Paul Lunsford gay dudes do give the best head
@pw61154 жыл бұрын
@@jonathanreyes6326 BS
@deidrafrazier2784 жыл бұрын
@Paul Lunsford You gay and bisexual. Really obvious from the outside looking in but maybe less obvious to you because of your own internal conflict. Deal with it dude because most heterosexual women don't want to emotionally invest in a man who is secretly thirsting for d, in any capacity. It's basically a ticking betrayal time bomb. Your loyalty is already divided, you just waiting for the opportunity. That's the nature of intent.
@key9812 жыл бұрын
I need a part 2
@deloramurphy16252 жыл бұрын
Did he ever address How you can Spot. Down Low Brother or Did I Miss it?
@MarciaSantos-ox1fk9 ай бұрын
Never addressed it at all- just a venting story time. 😒
@sheilajames89372 жыл бұрын
Y’all say women hate you, but even in a conversation with you in your kind, something that has nothing to do with women. Your sitting with anger for no reason, I’m your throat, talking about sis after everything you say, when you are talking to your own community. Woman had nothing to do with anything your saying. Woman y’all need to watch out for this. These grow hair on they’re face women hate you
@thelifeofpoon18902 жыл бұрын
“My kind” lmao
@kaymonetv452 жыл бұрын
That’s when I realized he was reflecting because that’s exactly how DL men are w them lmfaoo literally . Gay men hate women so much why can’t they just focus on the gay life and other gay people ? They obsess over strait people and call DL men strait men when they are also gay just to feel they are “competing” w women . Never go to a gay men for advice if you’re a women hell if you’re a man either . Their minds circulate around women and how they can take the place of women , it’s literally what it’s all abt w them
@billybpparrants15674 жыл бұрын
Nice video
@deepdreamer48622 жыл бұрын
I disagree about one thing. There has been cases where DL really falls for you.But if the relationship goes forward, It might be toxic.Then again maybe not.But it will stay a secret.At the most 1-2 on his side.He might let know.Only because they would help him out to remain on the DL.They can also be Clingy.
@Vann20F2 ай бұрын
Some people need to mind their business
@queensuga_experience2 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋 love ❤️ New family member here ‼️‼️
@DoNDiPzOsH2 жыл бұрын
You have women who fall in that category as well. They marry men but are truly lesbian and not even bi. And correct me if I’m wrong but on the west we always used trade as a man who is either gay/bi but looks like a heterosexual. It isn’t that he’s DL but just pass or is assumed to be heterosexual because he isn’t flamboyant and/or doesn’t have feminine ways
@brandonwillis48112 жыл бұрын
Some people like them cucumbers pickled
@cookiescream66272 жыл бұрын
🤔 One of the repercussions of COVID-19 is its impact on men's sexual health. COVID-19 infection is expected to be associated with an increased likelihood of erectile dysfunction (ED). Considering the high transmissibility of COVID-19, ED could be a concerning consequence for a large segment of the population.
@zztopdog5 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t listen to more than three minutes of this
@cjones97734 жыл бұрын
Lol why?
@PrinceLoking4 жыл бұрын
@@cjones9773 Because he was stalling like fuck.
@johnniedowery14353 жыл бұрын
I respect anyone that's doing their best to speak out there's no better how long they speak that's a human being stop the hating and start loving a little more okay hello America
@jkym45742 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@Casina19832 жыл бұрын
Preach baby!!! I love your energy your testimony your truth!!!! Love ya love stay beautiful and blessed
@dwaynemcdonald71452 жыл бұрын
🙏😊👍
@homohiphoptopherechilling55892 жыл бұрын
Yes the real deal in these streets is Shaka in Crenshaw
@earlem97712 жыл бұрын
It's so funny how the thumbnail gives away the sexual preference of some of these men lol
@kentporterfield39682 жыл бұрын
Well said
@tanyasmith84902 жыл бұрын
CORRECTION: FILLED WITH THE HOLY GHOST SPIRIT
@nas.socialbutterfly82142 жыл бұрын
this man speaks facts! i respect you for ur honesty!
@padussia2 жыл бұрын
Subscribed!
@romega951 Жыл бұрын
Love you, Poon!
@skeric872 жыл бұрын
Does anybody know what he was talking about...enlighten me, was expecting some type of lesson of sorts but all I got was somebody talking in circles, dipping slipping and sliding all over the freaking place. 🤷🏽♀️🤪
@chelove63702 жыл бұрын
Why must we be bitches?
@tashajones36612 жыл бұрын
Jealous of our vaginas.. It's a trend now...
@thelifeofpoon18902 жыл бұрын
Thank you for calling me out, forgive me
@homohiphoptopherechilling55892 жыл бұрын
Yes
@dwaynemcdonald71452 жыл бұрын
🙏😊👍
@homohiphoptopherechilling55892 жыл бұрын
Mercedes Benz James Wyatt and Kenneth C
@davidrectorthesinger2 жыл бұрын
Sexuality is a gift from God. Church/religion uses Scripture to justify hatred, bigotry and prejudice. Unfortunately, misguided religious/church people use theology to justify ignorance.
@skeric872 жыл бұрын
Sir So far you haven't explained how to spot a DL man. It's 8 minutes and 6 seconds in and you started to and you stopped I don't know whether you lost your train of thought or you just confused and all over the place. Sometime before making a video right out what you want to say and don't jump around from place to place because you're sounding flipping all over the place with this video. Like I said I'm 8 minutes and 6 seconds and I'm not going to listen to the rest cuz I don't think you're going to talk about it because you lost your train of thought either you high AF, bipolar or both.
@kajwojones4 жыл бұрын
😄😄👏👏
@dirahaustin33412 жыл бұрын
Okay so I think my baby dad is gay or bi unsure on which he likes men his fb only gay men an gay women on it so I'm like wow an during sex he do back shots but I thinks my baby dad is a trade
@rickeystovall75474 жыл бұрын
Oo k. !
@len10456782 жыл бұрын
My best friend boyfriend hardly talks to me, when ever I'm in the room he will ignore me, i don't portrait no feminine trait.., but what i think, the fact that I'm not with a woman, my closes friend is a girl, he even once ask me when I'm i going to have a kid. Make me wonder My other best friend boy friend only met once and he actually like talking to me
@skeric872 жыл бұрын
Why do you need to have your friends boyfriend notice you??? Are you her (real) friend or are you hoping to push up on her man? I'm asking for anybody who might read your comment. You come across as needing ATTENTION 🤪🤛🏽 The punch is because you're not real on your friendship game. Don't wreck Yourself.
@len10456782 жыл бұрын
@@skeric87uhh noo... 🤦♂️🤦♂️ what i mean.. there are other ppl who will come over and he will talk to them, even hang out with her male friends, etc.. even one of her step brother who recently came back, he started coming over and they bonded quickly .. but with me.. the most I would get is a hello and thats that. I would find myself trying to initiate a conversation but I stop doing that. Maybe I interpret the word wrong by saying take notice.. what I mean is like he undermined/ignored me. I'm basically trying to figure out why certain men like him act a certain way. Specially when they have an idea that u might be bi/gay
@len10456782 жыл бұрын
@@skeric87 and you right you a lil Attention Seeker cause I didn't say anything that was out the way to make anyone think so.. cause it seem like thats the only thing u notice about my comment smfh 😒 🤦
@skeric872 жыл бұрын
@@len1045678 He doesn't like you, He doesn't have to give you a reason, He doesn't have to validate you. Who do you think you are🙄. Guess what...there might be a lot of folks that don't like you, What are you going to keep bitching and whining about it. Seems like you're going to continue being an attention hound. I'm sure some folks you know have told you how much oxygen you suck out of the room. You're a guy bitching about being (by your own admission) "I'm needy" Good Lord always doing the most huh. If you think that shit is cute... Guess again. Idgaf What you might come back with because surely you think we have some type of connective dialogue going... I'm going to ignore your 2-year-old self. Disgustingly ignorant on purpose. 🙄🤜🏽🥴🤛🏽 10 X rapidly.
@skeric872 жыл бұрын
@@len1045678 Because I call on the fact that you were a whiny little boy... Doesn't take a Rhodes Scholar to see that...and that's why you probably ONLY have a handful of friends. Grow the fuck up, I'LL BET A COW'S MOTHER...A LOT OF PEOPLE ARE WAITING ON YOU TO DO THAT.
@snickers6192 жыл бұрын
Facts!!!!!!!!!!!!
@dawnmcknight719662 жыл бұрын
Ok you talking about yourself what about how to spot a DL
@its.onlymalik2 жыл бұрын
he clearly told you what it is and explained it very well.....