I agree but is there any case where that could be incorrectI guess what I'm asking is doesn't there have to be like something combined with that and not get solely that even if it's circumstantial and not concrete
@imperfectlyguided80985 жыл бұрын
Absolutely 🧐😅🧐 Very smart man😘😍😘
@lovelove-ni7oj5 жыл бұрын
Yes sir
@ahhthenohh5 жыл бұрын
So, are men correct when they call a chick a lesbian just because she turned him down? Is he correct?
@CherryAndy15 жыл бұрын
The biggest intuitive sign is when you get the feeling that you can't satisfy your man.
@CherryAndy15 жыл бұрын
Blackanese Queen Thank you for the heart. You spoke gospel! I went through it after college. For the first time in my life I was like WTF! I was confused. And it's plain and simple. They are selfish and evil. I was nothing but a cover, and in his mind salvation. Which was disturbing as well. Thank you for the video. I just shared it.
@Mikomamisworld4 жыл бұрын
Your very welcome! It is a very selfish thing 😒
@CherryAndy14 жыл бұрын
@prettyboyfromci Great point. However,........ NOPE! The subject IS: men that are secret "switches" and the signs that one may see. Don't be a cyber smart ass. Stick to the subject and respond with maturity. If possible.
@ascotthumphrey4 жыл бұрын
@prettyboyfromci Or maybe she doesn't wash her a$$ well. 😂
@msthing635 жыл бұрын
If you question yourself about a man's sexuality...that is a sign
@msalcaples15 жыл бұрын
Jeanie Blair 🗣🗣🗣🤣
@candice4465 жыл бұрын
I did at one point and was wrong. Turns out he was cheating on me with another woman and got her pregnant, his cover was being with his friend. Still fucked Up anyways lbs.
@blaisegordon15 жыл бұрын
Not me I love a real sexy woman but it has come down to you got to look and check for a Adam's apple or just date women with kids lol 😂
@calvingilmore48305 жыл бұрын
No shit
@twistedbliss585 жыл бұрын
Nah that just means you're an insecure little bitch lmao
@marshaspell51482 жыл бұрын
If your husband is gossiping about you or competing and jealous of you they are for sure gay
@Mikomamisworld2 жыл бұрын
Those are some signs too! They are very insecure at times ...
@marshaspell51482 жыл бұрын
@@Mikomamisworld it's what I am dealing with right now
@aton-ramasculin3sunworship3532 жыл бұрын
Women can not love a man like a man can love a man they are for babies -ancient Greeks
@carad.28414 жыл бұрын
They are "jealous" of u and competitive w/u. They r 2 faced and gossip about u, they r _itchy. They rarely give a complement. What man/man acts this way? 💯 video!
@dionnejordan35882 жыл бұрын
I think the competition part is the most obvious sign !
@ABa-ve3ul2 жыл бұрын
💯💯Kevin S. was the typical example of it (one of the worst/most obvious in that specific way)
@cc_chi1232 жыл бұрын
omg 100% experienced this! the hate is real
@Chosenone11117 Жыл бұрын
That’s exactly how he was! We broke up 2 weeks ago and I’m not going back. It was awful and draining, a narcissist
@sonebone7 Жыл бұрын
omg!! so dam true, a big fat narc! He never compliments on nothing, no feelings no nothing, I was trying to figure out, what kind of demon is this smh
@deeevansnola81782 жыл бұрын
I was on a date with a guy and we were sitting waiting on our food and these gay men walked in as they got closer my guy and one of the gay guys eyes locked. I saw these but he didn't think I did. I peeped game and that was our last date.
@heliosvalladares17047 ай бұрын
Lol so did he ask why ya not see each other any more
@nikkireacts21805 жыл бұрын
Intuition tells us, we just don't totally trust it. But because of experience and wisdom, I trust my intuition every time.
@conniecakes064 жыл бұрын
Tell it don't ignore that intuition because it may be God!
@ABa-ve3ul2 жыл бұрын
💯💯Trust ur female intuition!!💯
@whoswhowho48725 жыл бұрын
DL usually choose very attractive women and/or BBW. The more feminine, the better the DL cover up. Sometimes, DL men will over compensate by being overtly affectionate and playing the masculine role. Women, pay attention to DL men eyes. Subliminally, observe his interaction with men. See if stares at men too long. See if he wants to hang with men more than you. Observe his mood and/or disposition around men. Is he more happy and calm around men, and/or anxious with women. Women can choose to do the sex trick. While having sex, attempt to play with his perineum and anus. If he buckles and/or refuse, then he may be straight. If he indulges and ask for more, then he may be of that DL life. Personally, these are a few signs of DL. Ladies have to choose to see the signs or not. Being very observant, may save your life.
@imperfectlyguided80985 жыл бұрын
Yesss perfectly said👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽.... Im so thankful the most high gave me the eyes & intuition to tell the signs. But what's so crazy is my ex have all the signs of a DL man, except he NEVER wanted me bye his butt once I tried to check😆. But he also had hemorrhoids often🧐. I feel he didn't want me to touch in that area for a cover up😅. But I said fck all that I left his ass he has highly narcissist abusive ways. He is still harassing me, I got TF AWAY 🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️🙅🏾♀️.
@queenisaac46795 жыл бұрын
@@imperfectlyguided8098 you did right to leave his ass because hemorrhoids come from a busted-up, sore booty whole... SMH.
@imperfectlyguided80985 жыл бұрын
@@queenisaac4679 😂😂😂 Right omg. He is disgusting for hiding it & even putting my life at risk & others. I'm so thankful too the Most High I am clean & safe. No wonder he's so very uncomfortable around gay men. He wish he had the confidence they had. Wow🤢.
@chrisqueen34635 жыл бұрын
If this is your situation speak to your situation.
@jujus_monroe_world5 жыл бұрын
Wth does a BBW have to do with a man being on the Dl????
@savagemonalisalivingmybest80405 жыл бұрын
There very Narcissistic
@prissylips75085 жыл бұрын
U hit the word head on....FIND OUT MY EX.WAS AN ON THE DL AND NARC..
@kavistone69515 жыл бұрын
I think you women might just be paranoid. I'm sure there are a lot of heterosexual men out there, but woman usually like the men that don't really like them. Probably because they are gay. The men that are showing you they want you, you think they are thirsty.
@JoiBird-fe6gw5 жыл бұрын
MonaLisaSmiles4U #DivaAtWork wow. You just nailed it. This video just confirmed so much for me! My intuition is real.
@kavistone69515 жыл бұрын
@@JoiBird-fe6gw sometimes a man just isn't happy with you. Doesn't mean he's gay. This video is not valid on the points she gave. I think you women know when your man is bisexual, but the points she stated, I'm not sure if these are the keys.
@pierreavery22045 жыл бұрын
@@kavistone6951 I am here I have to tell you the truth looking for a hookup never to lie to you and tell you what you need to know if you looking for a man like me let me know and I will get back with you
@joesmoe89835 жыл бұрын
Is your baby chopping fire wood?
@swankyari5 жыл бұрын
Lmaoo
@tashr10045 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@arielleskyeXO5 жыл бұрын
🤣😂
@reefk34125 жыл бұрын
Lmao lol
@yettajackson555 жыл бұрын
Lol
@isistwotymes53915 жыл бұрын
Correct! DOWN-LOW men truly do have maternal issues. I do think there are psychological issues as well.PROMISCUITY is definitely a big one. WOMEN BASHING is a tactic that DL MEN use because internally they hate women because they are unhappy that they are secretly living a double life and the resentment is real.DL MEN secretly hang in a circle of other homosexual men that have something to loose like a family, career and ect. I respect a openly gay man not the DL! Everything you were saying is true.
@essyaisha4 жыл бұрын
EVERYTHING she said was true! smh
@aton-ramasculin3sunworship3532 жыл бұрын
DL is superior
@snooty41805 жыл бұрын
You nailed the sign of the other close male friend(s)...your gut tells you, its more than just a buddy friendship. Yes! agree he mistreats women & uses them as narcissistic supply as cover up...
@snoolee79504 жыл бұрын
the narcissistic supply thing is no joke
@karendharrison4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. I questioned my ex about how strange it was that he hung out with much older men. I said nobody I know his age has that many older men "friends" that they go to concerts with, get gifts from, go on vacation with etc. My intuition strongly told me he was on the DL. He was definitely a covert narcissist too.
@aquarius72234 жыл бұрын
#fact
@janecampbell5021 Жыл бұрын
@@karendharrison wowww sounds like my bd
@nicolebaez9268 Жыл бұрын
In point !
@gorrilablackjack28135 жыл бұрын
You can't hide sexual energy...YOU SHALL BE FOUND OUT!!!!!!
@k-luvjones46645 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful and correct girl. I found out my baby's dad was gay after 6yrs. Anybody that play's with your body like that deserves to be exposed.
@MegaChoc0late5 жыл бұрын
Mine is too. But he swears hes not.he will hit anything with hole. Men , women and trans women he dont give a fuck. 😣😣😣
@kavistone69515 жыл бұрын
Sounds to me that you women have a bad judgement in men.
@MegaChoc0late5 жыл бұрын
@@kavistone6951 We're sorry that they didnt come with a label sweety. With your judgemental ass. Im sure you pick a winner everytime.😒😒😒
@kavistone69515 жыл бұрын
@@MegaChoc0late Wasn't trying to be judgmental. Though, I was thinking maybe instead of being paranoid of all men, ask yourself where did you go wrong internally concerning this individual. I'm saying if it isn't this, it's something else with black women and the men their choosing. And I know a lot of heterosexual men, with jobs that never have woman. I don't know, but if one of these guys was to approach you, you'll deny them in 10 seconds. But you're attracted to a man that is barely attracted to you. I think sometimes women is more attracted to a man that really doesn't want them, so out of ego or some internal challenge, they want to make the man want them. Secondly they like weak men that is not completely masculine or mature, kind of men boys that they can kind of talk to like teenagers. Find you a MAN, not a man boy, not necessarily the way he looks, but the way he acts. I'm saying watch his friends if they are not solid masculine men (and I think you know what I'm saying), youre probably dealing with someone who isn't going to treat you right, one way or the other.
@MegaChoc0late5 жыл бұрын
@@kavistone6951 Maybe he was a covert narcissist. Maybe they all was and only find happiness in fucking over empath women like us!
@SerpentFire5 жыл бұрын
Years ago I met a dude that was FINE AS HELL but he would roll his eyes! Bad sign.
@Bmoregaydude5 ай бұрын
Yeah he gay 😂😂
@darlabrown14135 жыл бұрын
U are on point.if u break up they don't chase you.they want u to chase them.they don't care bout your feelings.u on point
@MegaChoc0late5 жыл бұрын
Of course not because they're narcissists. They dont give a fuck about nobody not even there kids.
@charlestonwhiteeyeball5 жыл бұрын
Why would u chase a female who broke up with you?
@A_Dubb6185 жыл бұрын
@@charlestonwhiteeyeball women have the worst logic. No real man gonna chase after a woman. He will move on.
@charlestonwhiteeyeball5 жыл бұрын
@@A_Dubb618 these bitches be wanting a nigga to worship them. It supposed to be the other way😂😂😂 it supposed to be man of the house not "woman"
@A_Dubb6185 жыл бұрын
@@charlestonwhiteeyeball exactly. Ultimately they dont respect niggaz who do that. Them niggaz are simps. Beta males
@lushyloving5 жыл бұрын
It took me 8years to face the music. Sis he wants another man.
@DeeDee-vf8om5 жыл бұрын
I'm going through this right now I think my baby gay
@valenexoxo4835 жыл бұрын
Dee Dee me to
@Ali-lf4wd5 жыл бұрын
Girl, updates?
@Justdenaa5 жыл бұрын
Mine too
@waterfalls27245 жыл бұрын
Girl if so get out I found out my husband of 18yrs was Gay. It's dangerous
@carloscabrera53115 жыл бұрын
@Sherry Cooper women need training from real men. You can't identify a man to be gay because he likes anal sex with his woman, girlfriend or wife. There're gazillions of signs to tell if your men is gay. The way he talks, walks, moves his hands, looks at other men, talks about men. A gay man will tell you stuff, as he talks, and he might insult you. He will talk about how you look like if he was a woman. A straight man can spot a gay man, DL, or whatever, from miles away by just listening to his choosing of words when he speaks. "That guy is a mess." For example. It's a phrase commonly used by women. So, will also be used by gay men..
@Shealove1111 Жыл бұрын
So true, my ex used to hurt feelings for no reason! He was having a relationship with his friends unbelievable
@cc_chi1232 жыл бұрын
I got played by a DL divorced man with kids. He had me thinking he was a player but he had major DL tells when he got really drunk! And then too many of them in front of other people. It took me a while to put it together because his persona is a "player" with lots of women. ALL of his closest male friends are DL! Makes me so mad knowing he took years from me. I didn't last as his beard cuz I started complaining too much about being starved. Cuz that is what he ends up doing... starving his beards cuz deep down he don't really like them at all. Just ropes them in to keep his fake straight persona going to everyone else.
@bigguychronicles5 жыл бұрын
LISTEN!....im a man, and i can see a gay man with my "Negro spidey senses" a mile away. I know womenwho "KNOW DAMN WELL..HER MAN IS FLAMING"..but he dresses nice, smells good, house is laid to the gods" etc. And is popular..women try to work it out..knowing he gay.
@suntansuperman5985 жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣🤣🤣 thats the ultimate simp.(women simp too)
@tyronethomas42705 жыл бұрын
True I no a lot of women like that too🤣🤣thinking they can change them🤣😂
@ladymartinez24695 жыл бұрын
So true. But it's so sad women will know it but say I got a man at least smhhhh. Cause some women feel validated by a pair of pant's laying next to them and he might be handsome ,good income etc....but it looks good on the outside. I say just be room mate's cause basically that is what it really come's down to. I have been blessed with true good gay male friends and I'm 55 and they schooled me since I was a teen about DL men before the term DL was popular. Some are deceased sad to say but the lessons and the stories were mind blowing. My deceased friend was the best man in all his as he called it Trade aka men weddings and their wives or girlfriends never caught on. If they playing video games while the DL bruh wife cooking dinner they were using a joy stick alright but no video game 👀And his boyfriend the DL wife say on come guys time to eat. That I use to go off on him cause that is just terrible to play anyone that close. Peace
@bigguychronicles5 жыл бұрын
@RKELLYSCOCO : that is intil another man....take your place as a woman and treat him better.
@kaiyahayes14695 жыл бұрын
Real nigga shit
@calvingilmore48305 жыл бұрын
I don't understand how a man can give up a all of these single beautiful black women out here for another man's sick.God please keep me on the straight and norrow thank u in your name amen
@jovi82775 жыл бұрын
Ask Father God to rebuke all of evil spirits from your soul. Satan is everywhere and can be sent by anyone so be cautious of your company
@KrazyVideoChick3 жыл бұрын
Your last sentence had me rollin 😆
@PokemonTrainerChris3033 жыл бұрын
You sound like the type of guy who ends up being a step dad. Lol
@json93683 жыл бұрын
Tbh I truly believe satan is trying to target people sexualities through pornography...a part of me doesn’t believe THIS many people are gay.
@aton-ramasculin3sunworship3532 жыл бұрын
Gay men have the most stable relationships the lowest divorce rate the most unstable relationships are with 2 women. I rather go down on a man than on a woman.
@itsover1235 жыл бұрын
She sound like she's speaking from EXPERIENCE!!
@greenwoodwlls5 жыл бұрын
It's her baby daddy
@CiaobellaAmour5 жыл бұрын
I think she is
@ascotthumphrey5 жыл бұрын
I'll turn that way too if I come home from a hards day's work and my house is unkempt, child getting into all kinds of trouble unsupervised, dinner not cooked, and my lady's still on the internet running her mouth about some b.s not freshen up for after-dinner-love making as if she just woke up a half-hour ago. Someone point me to Greenwich Village, NYC. LMAO
@sandysmith13825 жыл бұрын
Pay attention to the baby and stop telling the baby to stop. You have plenty of time to be on you tube. You stop!
@voiceofreason4u1475 жыл бұрын
Is this really a woman??
@SophiaDilworth-bq7sg8 ай бұрын
They hate their Mom an he is a Narcissis an I got 2 kids by him an im just finding out that he is on the DL 😮
@fredericksmith9195 жыл бұрын
They don't really like being committed to one person.
@alimahayward5882 жыл бұрын
✊🏾💯 on point these are the true spiritual demonic signs that come out , I just witnessed in my soon to be ex , Sometimes I would look up and he would be looking at me with such hate in his eyes. God bless you .
@andreabarnes76695 жыл бұрын
I would hate to know I'm dating a dl man. I find that lifestyle disgusting. I've heard stories about theses behaviours and they are not nice
@user-ok7nw3hd4k5 жыл бұрын
You can thank religion and Christianity for why it exists.
@normanhenderson73005 жыл бұрын
Not nice.
@johnjackson74414 жыл бұрын
Andrea Barnes I like the way you say that, "They are not nice".
@aton-ramasculin3sunworship3532 жыл бұрын
I love being a narcissist
@deborahstockdale30495 жыл бұрын
You can also hear a hint of sugar in their voices.
@k-luvjones46645 жыл бұрын
I always heard it when we would drink together and he would act gay.By the way 6 yrs later found out he was gay.
@cleanlife2945 жыл бұрын
@@k-luvjones4664 do u get a award? Lol
@k-luvjones46645 жыл бұрын
@@cleanlife294 stfu
@cleanlife2945 жыл бұрын
@@k-luvjones4664 u STFU ,don't get mad at me because u too stupid to spot a sissy
@ksissor755 жыл бұрын
U can see the flame in the way they say whaaat, or huh!
@kingharrisiii72505 жыл бұрын
Queen sounds like she been through this...poor baby girl...God bless mami
@nothingevenmatters7713 жыл бұрын
ALOT of women have
@DavidSmith-dm5ix5 жыл бұрын
I don’t like it because, it makes life difficult for the straight guy who ends up with a woman who’s been exposed too that Bullshit. Not even talking about STD’s just its mentality fucked for us
@thesunflowersshegrew89365 жыл бұрын
Stop trying to tip toe around feelings, just let’s us know these points 😂
@missmarymary65065 жыл бұрын
Yes...alit of babbling...just please give the facts ..stop repeating the same thing
@CherryAndy14 жыл бұрын
Another sign is the man has "pms" type anger issues twards you. It's out the blue with really bad destructive condescending language. This is caused by the guys inability to get his "fix."(male sexual Intercourse)
@Ohkeh640 Жыл бұрын
Wow that’s so interesting wooooowww
@nodoggybag1207 Жыл бұрын
Yessssd u jus nailed it
@deb231911 күн бұрын
Ahh thats an interesting point! Makes sense...frustrated due to not having gay sex , takes anger out on his " girl " friend who acts as his " beard" for the public displaying self as straight.
@emeraldmclaughlin12665 жыл бұрын
Glad I'm old and post menopausal.... have no sexual desires and happy as hell.
@christinepage98115 жыл бұрын
Alot of black men are living on the down low
@k-bullion58055 жыл бұрын
Preach
@angelvoid68285 жыл бұрын
Add they often suffer from depression.
@teresam398 Жыл бұрын
true!
@angelvoid6828 Жыл бұрын
@@teresam398 yup
@cleanlife2945 жыл бұрын
The kid in the background is going in!!!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@MegaChoc0late5 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@ascotthumphrey5 жыл бұрын
That's probably why her man turned gay...coming home after a hard day's work to that drama while she's still on the internet running her trap. Where's my dinner, Woman! Why isn't little man doing his homework and our baby bathed & ready for bed? Why you still looking like you just woke up and ain't wash yo' ass ready to help me to sleep like a baby with some late night love making? What kind of incentive is there for him to come straight home to her -- dime piece or not -- he'll be watching the games in a bar until late night? LOL!
@MegaChoc0late5 жыл бұрын
@@ascotthumphrey You need to stop yo bullshit.
@Topgardner5 жыл бұрын
aaron humphrey it takes both patents to raise a child. When a real man is in the house, kids behave. Give her chance. Maybe she just reflecting on life issues.
@tashr10045 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@anitamiddleton1555 жыл бұрын
She told the truth; to be so young. I was surprised. I am old school. I wish people could have been more honest instead of so many people getting emotionally hurt.
@kavistone69515 жыл бұрын
This actually could be any man or cheater. Or man who doesn't really want to be with you. He doesn't have to be down low.
@sandysmith13825 жыл бұрын
What's her level of schooling(education)...ijs.
@michaelraymondagayboy5 жыл бұрын
If people weren't so judgmental men wouldn't have to be on THE DL. So till the world is more accepting place, this will continue. Many find it impossible to leave they're truth because of the judgment of other people.
@tranquility93255 жыл бұрын
Yall might be surprised how many men are online dating sites, who are gay as hell, but to shut their families up about the dating thing, they jump on there pretending to be straight.
@Cherrylove5705 жыл бұрын
Body movements is one 2
@natashacurry2095 жыл бұрын
I never really thought about that can you explain on that where did you get that theory from that's interesting
@johnrobinson500jr5 жыл бұрын
@FRAPPaddict Elbows in when they dont think they are being watched while walking.
@aquarius72234 жыл бұрын
YES
@samxsara3 жыл бұрын
Mommas boy is actually a good sign
@shirleyguinyard81832 жыл бұрын
My husband is definitely a momma's boy
@athayahmamlahkayahushua33287 күн бұрын
Not necessarily true
@demetriusdion2865 жыл бұрын
The first absolute sign, he was just release from prison.
@Fordriasdance3 жыл бұрын
All the ones I know have wives and kids. It's a right of passage for DL Men.
@naaimahjohnson17895 жыл бұрын
I know some people dont agree with this. But if you really want to know, just go through your man phone 🤷😌
@jovi82775 жыл бұрын
True
@imo.1242 жыл бұрын
I feel like that's the only way. Just need to get that password
@finessbennett94175 жыл бұрын
She talking about her own personal experience
@finessbennett94175 жыл бұрын
@esor val I never said it was, dummy. I'm just reading between her lines like everyone else is on this video. Now take yo bitch ass on somewhere
@l.michelleindigenousred27575 жыл бұрын
If she is, I'm not judging her, she's just being real, and I appreciate that
@arielle75574 жыл бұрын
Who cares if she talking about her own experience shes hitting a lot of stuff head on and its valuable information so whats your point
@finessbennett94174 жыл бұрын
@@arielle7557 i wasn't making a point, i was just reading between the lines, that she was talking about herself, thatd all
@johnricco53663 жыл бұрын
why do dl guys always use beautiful women as beards??????
@ellasworld14495 жыл бұрын
Agreed!! I dont care what people do and who they are with as long as if they trying to be involved with me they are honest!!! I cant stand that DL crap...its selfish!!!
@yvettemosley38994 жыл бұрын
Yes Please Keep it 💯
@superstarvonhouston15 жыл бұрын
Stop it Kitaro
@iambrandin_5 жыл бұрын
Von Hoston 🤣🤣😂😂🤣
@fr3shjr5 жыл бұрын
Lmaooo
@golden65665 жыл бұрын
😭
@swankyari5 жыл бұрын
Haha
@angelahunter59545 жыл бұрын
These men love their friends and no straight male animal or human lives his male competition
@sanyanorman97555 жыл бұрын
Wow she just literally described my baby daddy I've had the suspicions for yrs
@nothingevenmatters7713 жыл бұрын
Idk why this was hilarious 😭 but we’re living in sodom and Gomorrah so there’s that !
@tracyday72825 жыл бұрын
You are so right in point! Finally, I have found another woman who thinks like I do! Thank you for speaking for me!
@mario_survivor5 жыл бұрын
NUMBER ONE SIGN: If he got done spending 3 or more years in Prison
@terryturner6105 жыл бұрын
Not true
@geneprice58195 жыл бұрын
Pure bullshit a man going to prison comes out a man the system can't break a real man and he won't allow his gender to be manipulated by no punk , you don't know how strong a real man is ,
@jovi82775 жыл бұрын
@ Exactly!
@jovi82775 жыл бұрын
@@geneprice5819 FACTS FACTS FACTS
@imo.1242 жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@boynton204 жыл бұрын
Your video is the most accurate on point ever. I have someone in my life who is exactly what you described bisexual dl. Who date alot of females to cover up the fact they also into guys and promiscuous you are so so so accurate wow
@TiaJoy13725 жыл бұрын
Intuition be screaming sometime... Listen to it
@deasiasimone53025 жыл бұрын
Im so hurt all the signs are here for my boyfriend😭
@ladycrystal32935 жыл бұрын
Can you explain deeper...like give examples?
@joesmoe89835 жыл бұрын
Sweetheart, I’m here for you🌹
@kavistone69515 жыл бұрын
He probably not down low. He may not be happy in a relationship.
@deasiasimone53025 жыл бұрын
@@kavistone6951 your right. He dosnt want one n its hurts bc i thought he was the one
@deasiasimone53025 жыл бұрын
@@ladycrystal3293 no i can't. But if i were u i would rewatch the vidoe for more clarity
@ericasun21215 жыл бұрын
I love your hair. That color looks great on you.
@faithmoore32435 жыл бұрын
Yes
@lucky-hd1yv5 жыл бұрын
yes
@reggaediva88255 жыл бұрын
Your honesty is courageous. Your words full of wisdom. Your compassion is heartfelt. Currently, mastering no contact from ex bf whom repeatedly returns masquerading with more lies . 5 years of gaslighting, degradation and emotional abuse has reached my tolerance. Of past, was my naivety to give trust to hopefulness. Today, my wingspans stretches with excitement of fruition to phantom-able better quality living. You’ve been a blessing. Irie
@arieslibra5 жыл бұрын
You made some great points...and as a gay male...I too cannot stand a DL dude...it's not fair to mislead women...it does sukk that society isn't as open as it should be...that you may be judged solely on sexual preference...but that still doesn't make it okay to live a secret life...#happySunday
@Mikomamisworld5 жыл бұрын
Thank you , everything would be so nice if people just could live openly and freely without fear of others judging them thank you for your support I truly appreciate it 😘😘😘😘
@rachelwilliams19715 жыл бұрын
Derrick Hinton IThank you
@ThePurpleRoseWithAHedge5 жыл бұрын
Boom Boom, Good day. I've got a few links & a quote to solidify your suspicions. The statement below is quoted from "Wikipedia". "4-1-2017--Eight states - Hawaii, Kentucky, Nevada, New Mexico, Texas, Vermont, West Virginia and Wyoming -l and the District of Columbia still lack anti-bestiality laws. Some states inadvertently lifted earlier prohibitions on human-animal sex when they were updating their laws to remove sodomy as a crime." Notice how the depravity is spelled "BESTiallty" as opposed to BEASTiality. The latter is how I ALWAYS spell & refer to it because it is carnal engagement with beasts! I see that you too, spell it that way. Kudos! Most people correct folk when they spell the way it SHOULD BE spelled. I refuse to justify depravity. My guess has always been that they name is "best" to soften the blow of acceptance. Like when they refer to dogs as "man's best friend". I won't hold you long so, here are those feq links to get you started in your "uncovery of the discovery".......... criticschronicle.com/pedophiles-have-a-desire-to-rejoin-the-lgbt-community/ www.google.com/amp/s/www.lifesitenews.com/mobile/blogs/pedophiles-put-themselves-under-the-lgbt-umbrella-in-rebranding-effort psychology.ucdavis.edu/rainbow/html/facts_molestation.html
@l.michelleindigenousred27575 жыл бұрын
Kudos to you for living your truth, and being open💜
@edmacon32645 жыл бұрын
Pikachu Logan where is this prophesied, chapter and verse please.
@cameronwest97455 жыл бұрын
So basically u can't really tell...U gotta look out for everything... 💀💀💀
@J-gritty5 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!! Lmaooooo
@sharonpurnell73165 жыл бұрын
Jenae Lake 65 yrs old....if you THINK he is.........HE IS!!!!!!!!!!
@ABa-ve3ul2 жыл бұрын
Private investigator etc
@againstallodds404 Жыл бұрын
I'm really scared
@eegyypttt5 ай бұрын
You can tell literally
@01BadAzzGoddess5 жыл бұрын
If you got gay men looking at you and ready to fight you while you with him then trust he gay.
@danid25305 жыл бұрын
She’s speaking TRUTH!!
@prissylips75085 жыл бұрын
FACTS
@nataliaswan62845 жыл бұрын
She speaking from experience.
@helgaderm84395 жыл бұрын
I'm watching because I obviously have questions about my husband of 18 yrs. Makes me sick...
@yvonce73095 жыл бұрын
The Nancys 22 If your gut feeling are telling you your husband is bi, gay. It’s usually true. And the Voice inside you will get louder and louder. Unless you do some thing about it.
@maxbrown93354 жыл бұрын
Wow that long I figure ur should have known by now deep position to be in straight cancer u know be Don't wanna believe !
@aproposx68105 жыл бұрын
Most DL men that are black religiously date and marry interracially. These men also will not date other black men of the same race because of proximity. Black women start befriending more gay white, Latino, and Asian men, they honestly have more information on dating these type of men.
@motocrossking84able5 жыл бұрын
Stfu...i never dated a black women but im definently not attracted to men 🤣😂 u trippin Black women wear perms and wigs and like thugs and curse and yell alot.....i dont like that shit
@boynton203 жыл бұрын
There are so many females in denial of this very sad
@sunnybsunny77815 жыл бұрын
Women need to be told and not have their choices taking away from them . If a woman knows she can decide to stay or leave. A woman is at higher risk of contacting HIV and other STI'S.
@k-bullion58055 жыл бұрын
Preach!
@kahlilsykies91395 жыл бұрын
But sometimes you can't tell at all.
@coolbreeze34165 жыл бұрын
Man o man sooooooooo true smh;) I experience it;(
@sharonpurnell73165 жыл бұрын
Kahlil Sykies you can always tell...stop denying your intuition
@kahlilsykies91395 жыл бұрын
@@coolbreeze3416 I am a bisexual man. A lot of ladies find me attractive. Not a single ex girlfriend, hook up; or my wife knows. People only know about the DL guys who get caught, or are suspect. Others like myself, go undetected.
@carloscabrera53115 жыл бұрын
If you can't tell, like many females can't, trust your male friends and females telling you that he is. They're reading what you can't.
@carloscabrera53115 жыл бұрын
@@kahlilsykies9139 every male straight man around you, knows what you like.
@jaythompson59385 жыл бұрын
UGOKAT Trust your instincts and let your conscience be your guide 🙏🏽!! When you are not comfortable in a relationship, friendship or situation the truth will be revealed. What people do in the Dark will come to the Light. Be suspicious in the beginning and take your time getting to know people. Keep your boundaries in check and pay Attention to those RED Flags. Your Instincts Are 💯% CORRECT 🙏🏽🙌🏽😇!!
@dionnejordan35882 жыл бұрын
My child’s dad. The abusive ones that make babies everywhere are QUESTIONABLE. That’s a sign of women hating right there they do it intentionally to hurt us. He has no clue that I pieced this together about him.
@nakih26935 жыл бұрын
This video definitely gave me some insight. I recently left a relationship with a man I thought was straight but looking back it definitely open my eyes and it’s very unfortunate because a child is involved in this mess. I think it’s selfish when they do shit like this because so many people are involved in a mess they created when all they had to do was be honest with themselves by giving the other person a choice to decide don’t make that decision for them.
@Mikomamisworld5 жыл бұрын
Omg so sorry to hear that and I 100% completely agree with you. It's not fair for anyone to be lied to in this serious situation, we live and we learn but sadly alot of closeted men hurt women throughout their life idk if its mommy issues or hatred of women and mostly women of color. It's not easy with a child/children involved. Prayers going up 😔🤗😘
@blackericdenice5 жыл бұрын
If he had told you he was bisexual. Would you have still had sex with him? Probably not which is why he did not tell you. How did you find out he was bi? Also being bi has nothing to do with him not taking care of his child. I am bi and i did a great job taking care of another straight man kid.
@nakih26935 жыл бұрын
blackericdenice first of all I did not say that it would not make him a great father rather he is gay or bi sexual. After I discovered what was going on and my attempts to reach out to him about the issue he have disappeared and abandoned me pregnant. Even after multiple attempts of reaching out to him to co parent to make the situation work. so before you make such a bold statement to something you know nothing about read before you speak on an issue you know nothing about.
@blackericdenice5 жыл бұрын
@@nakih2693 Another stupid move by a black woman. Just because Sir-dick-a-lot made you moist. You didn't have to get pregnant by him.
@toribookman68275 жыл бұрын
Naki H you ain’t alone in this one sis !
@daphnesmith18125 жыл бұрын
So true....ATL ain't no joke....and yes the description fit. When I figured it out I was upset and went straight to the doctor.....Cut ties...he was a miserable soul.
@againstallodds404 Жыл бұрын
Any names? Or his initials? I'm so scared right now, just my gut but he lives in ATl
@8087584 жыл бұрын
Oh my word I think he may be. I thought he was just a narcissist but when you said hurting woman and it's a repeated pattern damn.
@teresam398 Жыл бұрын
mine was a narcissist, alcoholic, and in the closet.
@rahmelpervez6975 жыл бұрын
👏 👏 👏 Good topic, ladies yall really need to be careful about the men you let into your life... Get to know him first, and yes that's gonna take time. Down low guy's want to have sex within 30 days or less upon meeting you. That's not a good thing, also down low guy's have to spend time with their homeboys a lot. And if he says (oh that's my man or that's my boy instead of saying the guy's name. That's not good either. If he let's his boys come to his house often not good.. Straight men, don't like other men in their space,
@conniecakes064 жыл бұрын
Hmmm interesting perspective especially the last part can you elaborate on straight men not liking other men in their space, because one of my ex's always had his Male "cousins" around and referred to a lot of people he introduced me to male or female as his "sibling"
@carolrosas67852 ай бұрын
Straight men dosen't like other men around their home. They protect their home prevent any situation occurring with their wife. My daddy would always say you need to protect your home.
@cocobrown1774 жыл бұрын
Great video, thank you! If you get offended by videos exposing DL signs, then you’re probably DL honey ...and yes it is evil if you have a gf that doesn’t know. Get mad at yourself, not this Queen
@eleanorsavage31185 жыл бұрын
My bag, my bag! Bring it out babygirl I saw a movie call COVER..the movie is about exactly what u talking about..they r nasty disgusting vile human beings..TELL THE TRUTH!!!
@l.michelleindigenousred27575 жыл бұрын
Wasn't Leon in that movie????
@johnjackson74414 жыл бұрын
Eleanor Savage Such harsh language.
@amandaford8644 жыл бұрын
Girl can I just take a second to tell you how beautiful you are!! So much of this speaks to me, I can’t stand feeling like this and feel for any woman going through this! Their are honest men out there who will want you for you💕 I have literally said the same thing, just be honest and we can work something out! But it’s definitely NOT fair to play someone like that, just let me live my life
@z.poindexter79215 жыл бұрын
No one is safe out here these days you can never know for sure who’s who and what’s what!!! Be safe out here ladies and gentlemen use discernment of the spirit while dating I wish you all well..peace and jah bless! 💕
@ISREALITEQUEEN5 жыл бұрын
YAH PLEASE
@gbearquiver4 жыл бұрын
You nailed it! I just found out my bf of two years is bi and I was devastated.
@againstallodds404 Жыл бұрын
I am suspicious of the guy I'm dating but since sex is off the table I don't know how to tell. Can you say how you found out?
@beautifullove61984 жыл бұрын
I got a feeling about my sons dad. I shut everything down he was always with his boys. When on trips with his boys gets excited when his boys called moved out of my house to stay with a man smh
@Ohkeh640 Жыл бұрын
They deff have a history of hurting women of course agreed lmao
@ericmuhammad89205 жыл бұрын
Man I was about to flip out if you was going to tell me she was a transgender... I'm glad she is really a woman.
@kwesismith1005 жыл бұрын
I dead ass thought DL meant Dead Line. 😂🤣🤣🤣😊🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂🤣😂 🤣😂😂😂🤣😂🤣🤣 I'm sorry I can't 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂
@jeanlasting54675 жыл бұрын
You get an award for that buddy lol
@kwesismith1005 жыл бұрын
@@jeanlasting5467 I'll take the award from my woman. 😂🤣😂😊🤣😂🤣
@arielle75574 жыл бұрын
You smut
@charlessmith61075 жыл бұрын
FACTS but the most dangerous part about it is they got all the good jobs now and money!!!!
@shebacynn13202 жыл бұрын
This is so true!! I wonder why that is ?
@lowkeekin75615 жыл бұрын
Forget all these haters in the comments I just subscribed I'm so glad you made this video and your son he's just fine he's just being a little boy playing I thought I was the only one out here who is having these thoughts about these guys out here, I think the true dudes out here on the down-low are all these fuckboys hanging out with all the other fuckboys. I've been looking for a relationship very carefully because you can't trust men these days but these are the dudes I've been coming into contact with, I think if you get a bad vibe off someone or you sense something you should run with that and believe your self believe what your gut is telling you !!! sweetie you are definitely not alone they are unhappy and they will make a female's life miserable !! I'm so tired of these dudes fuckboys using these girls and impregnating them now not only does a female have a baby to take care of but now she has a fuckboy to take care of two excuse my language you call them D L I call them fuckboys cuz they'll be out fucking everything plus dudes. Good job 💕 🙋🏽 💗🙏🏾
@againstallodds404 Жыл бұрын
I just have this feeling that I can't shake dating the guy I'm with. He's a gentleman but had a lotttt of women, have a close friend that they hand out every Sunday for football..it's just certain things I can't put my hands on. I'm just uncertain. Once he told me that a female he dated and had a child with had just gotten out of a lesbi relationship. They went to a gay club once and a guy told him he was cute. When he walks in his flip flops he walks in them things makes a racket. He's a mamas boy. He has been through hundreds of women, married once has five children. Do guys take selfies with another man if there's a wife that could take the pic for them? He always takes selfies of himself and when he takes it with a guy friend, he's always cheesing. I asked him if he has ever been attracted to guys he said no. He has blamed all of his relationships on the women. He mentioned that he was accused by two women in his past of being gay..staring at a man in a store once and the women at his workplace all thinks he's gay because they don't see him with any woman. When I asked him about his relationships and why so many, he says he hasn't find the right one and it just didn't work out then turns the question on me.
@occaboutbeauty15 жыл бұрын
Gurl Thank you soooooooo much! You are the first one 2 tell it like it is! The truth ! Every1 else says the most basic safe shit! You think like me! PEOPLE think we crazy & don't know what we talking about. Thank you gurl! Them dudes who have hella different women like can't no woman satisfy him is another sign! I got stories too! I appreciate an openly gay man he letting you know who he is! I could go on & on! Anyway u gots a new subbie! God bless
@corettastribling27675 жыл бұрын
I was in the store yesterday and it just happen to have caught my eye how this man was just giving this gay guy a stare,just more than a man should and a stare,look like he would at a woman,it was not the norm for a supposedly real man
@0neandOnlyyy Жыл бұрын
I think I've had a few exes that I suspectare DL....definitely mommy issues and I think a lot of them are narcissists too!
@HustleDoll_5 жыл бұрын
Girl you so one hunnit for this its crazy it’s just so on point and with other personal experiences I kno it’s crazy man & not fair I just don’t understand 🥀
@venicehope88795 жыл бұрын
It's TRUE when they say your phone is listening to you because I just had a conversation on the bus about someone who is on the DL and this video popped up. Randomly selected 🤔😶😏 Crazy how some openly gay dude's who are in 💩💩uations with these dude's hold all this☕☕
@shakawalker51843 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@stephe.88184 жыл бұрын
Be aware of their lips, as well. Pointy, soft, and glossy.
@Bmoregaydude5 ай бұрын
Trueee
@jinaib33825 жыл бұрын
Dl men are detrimental to both women & men. That’s why I don’t see why a lot of people try and defend their behavior. I feel like a lot of bi guys know that most women won’t go for it if they tell them. That’s why most of them stay on the dl. We should have the option! & no I will never willingly go for someone like that. It’s selfish it’s greedy.. I’ve actually haven’t been dating & ive been celibate for years bc of this exact thing. I don’t want to fall in love with someone who is into things like that. I set boundaries to respect myself not to offend others. Obviously they have their sexual preferences I should be able to have mines as well & that’s not falling into a trap of a “man” like that again.
@aton-ramasculin3sunworship3532 жыл бұрын
DL are cooll
@piyh39623 жыл бұрын
I searched "man youtube-dl" on duck duck go to look for youtube downloader documentation, and now I think I might be a DL husband.
@BrownSkinnedDiva954 жыл бұрын
Love you for doing this video, and being honest sound like it came from the heart, I think you are such a beautiful woman, God's got a lovely man for you! Thank you for raising awareness
@Sunshine-yr6in4 жыл бұрын
You’re right most are Momma boys. 💯💯
@ChandlerWorthen5 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry ladies that y'all have to go through this... This is why I hang with my small circle. Niggas too funny for me. ☮️ & 💙.
@katdog97865 жыл бұрын
Hi. Im a lady who went thru this a few years ago. Took a while for me to really accept that it was happening. I listened to my intuition and my close friends/family. I would write things down and look back every once in a while and be reminded of the fucked up shit I was dealing with. He never admitted to anything but the list was long and would have convinced a jury of my peers. We are still friends because i too believe in no hate. My line I got out of it is... "Gay guys have bigger balls" Just guts really to be themselves. Peace babe. And you are absolutely beautiful!!
@graceg49965 жыл бұрын
My best friends hubby brags about how men give him looks and stares. He'll have a huge smile on his face from ear to ear saying even the men are giving him attention 😂😂 I hope this is normal😳😳 Crazy thing is he was homophobic😆
@gavenameback58355 жыл бұрын
You on point shorty, stay real wit it
@lexinorero4795 жыл бұрын
Wow that's y he's never happy 🙁 sad to not be honest. I accept any one no need to lie love u for you.
@NicoleBournАй бұрын
I'm about to cry. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO! I mean not that I really needed it but maybe I kinda did. Because I've been thinking the same things feeling the same way. & When Ive tried to explain things to him or my 1 female friend whos not friend anymore they didn't really want to hear it. Tried to make me think I was basically crazy just trying to create drama. Which just made my gut feeling even stronger & so to hear someone kinda of confirm all the same stuff was just well very helpful. I didn't tell you that stuff & bring it to your attention & you idk. Anyway you had your own experience & came to the same conclusions. It's sad but it's nice to know that I'm not that crazy or the only one going through & dealing with this kind of situation. & YES WE WOMEN DO NEED TO HAVE MORE RESPECT FOR OURSELVES & MAYBE EVEN REDEFINE WHAT OUR IDEA OF FUN OR A GOOD TIME IS. The STDs out there & they aren't always visible right away. Some ugly shit can come wrapped up in a real pretty package. Sorry about all that I kinda got carried away. I APPRECIATE YOU MAKING THE VIDEO & TJANK YOU AGAIN. TAKE CARE.✌️💐
@56chrsbri10 ай бұрын
Ok sistah take it from a person from NYC whom is Older. Most DL men do not hang out with other DL men. Bisexual men do this. Most DL men are not open to anyone finding out about them. So when they have had enough they can go back to their straight lives and the book is closed.