Storytime: My Ruptured Ectopic Pregnancy/Miscarriage & Fertility Journey

The number one thing that helped me heal emotionally from my ruptured ectopic pregnancy/miscarriage and emergency surgery was the outpour of stories that came my way. It's a club that no one wants to find themselves in but it really helps knowing you're not alone! This is my story 💘
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[@laurentaylor3729]

I'm sitting in hospital right now having almost lost my life to having an ectopic pregnancy. I experienced the same symptoms - rushed to hospital fainting all the way there. Lost 2.5L of blood from internal bleeding. I have given natural birth and the pain experienced from the ectopic pregnancy is 1000% worse! Thank you for sharing this - it validates my experience and makes me feel hopeful on my journey to recovery.

[@FashionBreedVideos]

I am so sorry for your loss, Lauren! I pray you find every sense of healing you need and I’m sending you so much love ❤

[@user-nq7lr8fy8p]

I just went through the same thing last night was my emergency surgery and blood transfusion. I lost 2.5L of blood as well. Most painful and scariest situation in my entire life.

[@gugusithole1522]

"Grief looks different on everyone." I felt that so deep. Wishing you light and love, dearest Aqeelah ❤️

[@farzanasayed04]

your story really made me tear up 🥺 , you're really brave to share your story after all that trauma. I had a miscarriage when myself and my husband really tried and wanted a child but unfortunately Allah had better plans. We went away to goudini the last weekend of October and I had a miscarriage on the 31st of October 2020 , it was really the worst pain I've ever felt I never want to go through that feeling ever again. It was really hard to let go of that feeling of being pregnant bc I knew I was at least 6 weeks and then all of a sudden my baby wasn't there anymore. But alghamdulilah I'm slowly but surely getting there , it just took me a lot of time to recover. Insha-allah one day Allah will bless you and Abdul Malik with another baby 🙏🏻 , sending lots of blessings, love and prayers your way ❣️.

[@umelaila8049]

Did you pregnant again dear?

[@wasimahmallick2743]

Wow. I am in tears. You are so brave to share. Some of us take for granted how we can just have a baby without any issues. May the Almighty grant you your bundle of joy ❤️

[@aishahdiedericks8051]

Okay the "I knew it" and "we made a baby" part made me tear up.. I now know I'm emotionally invested in you A 💜 thank you for sharing

[@etheljoyrepolidon9517]

Thank you for sharing your story..I am under recovery right now from my operation last July 2022 due to ruptured ectopic pregnancy and yes it is very traumatic..For now I am still in the process of healing mentally and emotionally, with the help of God I hope I will be ok and fully recovered soon.. God bless you ❤

[@shamelesskay2737]

Thank you for being so brave and sharing your story💕...we need to talk more about these issues...sending you love and hugs💕

[@FashionBreedVideos]

You’re welcome, and thank you for watching! Sending you hugs right back ♥️

[@martalech6371]

I am 6 days post-surgery of my ruptured tube from ectopic.. this is my second ectopic in 3 years and my fourth Loss. Thank you for sharing your story.❤

[@nicoleshort7815]

Thank you so much for sharing. My story is so similar to yours. Had my surgery 3 weeks ago! I see you are now pregnant! Congratulations!

[@marizannescott53]

You’re God sent, thank you. Almost one week post my rupture 🤎🥹🩷

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Sending you so many hugs. I’m so sorry 💕

[@angelomanuels5210]

Hey Aqeelah Thank you for sharing this with us. My mother had three miscarriages in the past so I can only imagine what you're going through. I'm glad to see you're so emotionally strong, yes we might not always know all the answers but God knows best. Praying for love, blessings and comfort for you and hubby.

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Thank you so much, Angelo, your mom is so strong!♥️

[@natalieskamo90]

Woman, how brave you are to share your story! I felt so emotional listening as I can only imagine what it was like for you going through that and also your husband. Alhamdulillah you are healthy and happy! I look forward to the day insha'Allah when you announce that you are pregnant!

[@lilsy5018]

I have P.C.O.S and i have just had an ectopic rupture pregnancy. I knew i was pregnant for 3 weeks before this happened and i had severe internal bleeding. Thank you for sharing your story. I don't feel so alone. Although I'm crying so much at the loss of my baby.

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Somehow I only saw this comment now. I’m so sorry for your loss, I am sending you so much love!

[@lilsy5018]

Thats okay. Its been a tough few months. Your experience helped me to get through though so thank you for sharing as hard as it must have been for you x

[@marissasmith9231]

Thank you so much for sharing your story! I had a ruptured ectopic pregnancy and emergency surgery 4 days ago. The pain was like nothing I had ever experienced before! I’m obviously still is the early healing process, but your story gives me hope!

[@Glawkz]

I had my surgery 5 days ago.. I was bleeding for weeks until 1 day I felt a pain I NEVER felt before as I was driving .. got to the ER and was told I would have to get surgery and maybe get my tube taken out as well.

[@marissasmith9231]

@@Glawkz I am so sorry! They had to remove my tube and ovary (it had implanted on my ovary). It’s a pain no one should ever have to experience!

[@wisaalhendricksgalant]

You are incredibly strong Aqeelah! You took me back to a few moments of my own while watching your video. I also have PCOS and struggled with conceiving but I now have 3 amazing children. It’s never impossible. If it’s put out for you it will be yours. You and Abdul Malik are always in my thoughts and prayers. You are going to have very styling and beautiful babies one day in shaa allah ❤️

[@DramaticModels]

Thank you for sharing.. I found out I was pregnant 8 weeks ago and then told I miscarried 4 weeks ago… fast forward to 2nd January I was told it was actually a ectopic pregnancy as I got rushed into hospital with server abdominal pain💔 Im really struggling physically and mentally at the moment so lovely to listen to somebody talk about their experience

[@leilahsmith25]

I was in shock listening to your story. I cant imagine what you went through or how you felt but may Allah bless you and your husband with a healthy baby 1 day Inshallah.... While i was watching this my son was breast feeding and i felt more blessed having him while listening to your story❤️ a C-section is no joke that i can relate to but once you become a mom you gain this strength you never knew existed(relating to the pain after the op, breast feeding, looking after a new born) All of the best to you and your husband..

[@madressah786ihas9]

Dearest Aqeelah, You are such a strong woman. Insha'Allah may Allah continue to keep His Healing Hand over you and your hubby... Your Baba is watching over you. Thank you for sharing and stay Blessed. Your Prayers are heard and He knows. Take care. Continued prayers.

[@kanaboke74]

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your heart. You are love, light, and strength- even in your grief journey. Much love to you and your husband.

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Thank you so much ♥️

[@bahiyyaha1392]

So sorry you had to go through that, May Allah make it easy on you and your husband and may He bless you with a healthy baby in the future In Shaa Allah Ameen ❤️

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Thank you for your duahs! ♥️

[@fatimajarra3083]

It’s scary how I experienced exactly what you just explained with my ectopic pregnancy. Thank you for sharing ❤️

[@jademillar3553]

sending you love, and so proud of you for getting to the space you're in now!

[@mrs.m5847]

So glad you made this video as the journey after an ectopic feels so lonely. A loss will alter you one way or the other but I'm glad you said 'it had to happen to you' cause I've been stuck on 'Why me?".. We thank the Creator for being lucky to tell the story as others were not that fortunate... Welldone on the progress you've made, sending you baby dust for your future pregnancies 😊

[@aaminahvanoudtshoorn297]

I really admire your honesty, strength and Tawakkul with the entire experience.. shukran for sharing your story 💕 you are in my duas 💕

[@rushnisafter3882]

Oh Aqeelah, it made me so emotional to listen to your story. I may not be able to relate to your situation or even imagine what you've been through but I know what loss feels like. What kept me sane and what brought peace to my heart was Allah's SWT promise, that with every hardship comes ease and with the quadr of Allah SWT, I am living proof of it. You're a strong and amazing woman and I wish you and Abdul Malick all the happiness and blessings in the world and, beautiful babies Insha'Allah. Sending you tons of love and peace in abundance. xx

[@nickaylawilliams2419]

Absolutely courageous of you to put this out there so openly and thank you for creating awareness around women's health specifically. Much appreciated♡

[@nafesamumtaz9368]

May Allah make it easier for you your husband and reward your patience and acceptance in his plan with a beautiful healthy child.

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Ameen ya Rabbal alameen 🤲🏼 Shukran for your kind duahs!

[@wisaalhendricksgalant]

In shaa allah ❤️

[@malaikah8329]

What a scary scenario. Ectopics are becoming more often then spoken about. What you are describing with the sweating and fainting is caused by the internal bleeding. I am so happy you got care soon, they are really fatal. What a nightmare. That is shocking that they did the c-section cut instead of the laparoscopic surgeries. Thank goodness you are doing okay. Take care and goodluck on your ttc journey and getting your rainbow baby

[@michellelottering4611]

Wow wow wow... thank you for sharing, the way you are sharing, it's like i am with you, experiencing it like i am somewhat there. You are extremely strong and brave. Thank you. And good luck to everything your puting your mind to

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Thank you for watching 💕

[@grantwarrengoliath4034]

Thank You for sharing. My friend went through the exact same situation on the 31st of October 2020 you would not guess but we’re actually from Swellendam. She took a pregnancy test 3 days prior to the incident and was so excited cause she and her boyfriend tried for so long only to find out a few days later going through that. You guys are so strong❤️.

[@momof4okr]

Always listen to your body... nobody knows you better than you!

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Couldn’t agree with you more

[@ayeshatassiem4289]

Your story had me in tears 😢 . I'm so sorry you went through that. Sending you ♥️ you in my Dua's xo

[@melekb94]

I’ve had a ruptured ectopic pregnancy too, and I feel you , I love how you’re strong though. It’s been 7 months for me now but I still am struggling mentally

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Sorry to hear that! I'm sending you love

[@Ai-Mastermiind]

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[@Ai-Mastermiind]

for my sister i read this for reference

[@ruthsara6986]

Mentally it drags you..n no one understands especially for the pain

[@nazleyyoung396]

Wow. This is so inspiring and you are so brave. I wish you all the happiness and strength in your continued journey. Thank you for sharing. ❤️

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Thank you so much ♥️

[@JenniferLKersten]

Hugs to you! I'm 10 days post op and the surgery recovery has been rough. I'm so sad and feel like I may die of a broken heart 😭

[@FashionBreedVideos]

I’m sorry 😢 sending you so much love! I hope you feel better soon 💕

[@JenniferLKersten]

@@FashionBreedVideos thank you ! I'm 3 weeks post op today and physically I'm doing OK, mentally I'm enduring this depression but i know I'll get through it. It's nice to see in your other videos you had a healthy baby, it's inspiring 🥲

[@nelyassin]

I'm so sorry that you experienced this, but I do very much appreciate your positive outlook, and the strength you continue to have after this experience. You are so loved and supported, and I am very proud of you. Masha Allah. I wish you and your husband the best. Thank you for sharing such a profound story.

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Thank you so much for your kind words!

[@AishaandLife]

This was heartbreaking to watch. Thank you for sharing this with us. I wish you well on your journey, and may God bless you ❤

[@Martina_E]

Sorry that happened to you. Praying for you. 🙏🏾 We as women are strong as heck! Happy International Women’s Day!

[@naomismit5200]

You are so strong!! Thank you for sharing this with us ❤️ so important that you get to make us aware of the struggles involved with miscarriage. We are here for you and praying for you!

[@kristengoezaar]

Thank you for sharing

[@melcarelse1847]

Thank you for sharing. Its really Brave of you! Wishing you health and wellness for the year of 2021! 🥰

[@AfiKoKo]

Sending you virtual hugs! I was thinking about you and wondering when I'd see a new video but I knew that you probably needed time away for a good reason...and I cannot begin to even try to imagine what you've been through! I'm so sorry! Thank you for sharing your experience and being so down to earth while remaining sound. I'm sure you're still healing every day emotionally and physically. Please take all the time you need. May God be with you and your husband through this time! Life is precious, and I'm happy that you still have yours.❤🙏🏽

[@FashionBreedVideos]

So happy to hear you still thought of me while I was MIA! I really missed being here and I’m so happy to be back. Thanks for your kindness and prayers! ♥️✨

[@AfiKoKo]

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[@faaizahkhan9959]

Sending you so much love💛 my heart is aching for you babe. Allah will answer all our duas for you💛💛

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Thank you so much

[@TshepiVlogs]

Sending love from 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🫂 women really go through a lot on the other side I’m dealing with PCOS/infertility

[@FashionBreedVideos]

We really do! Sending love right back! X

[@maryanne8407]

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[@laurenadonis3854]

Thank you for making this awareness of miscarriages. We tried for 7 years and fell pregnant in October. I then had a miscarriage at 11 weeks in December. I wasn't givrn a D&C because of covid so I medically had to expel the products of conception. It is a journey on its own. I habe PCOS and endo and have now switched to 80% gluten and dairy free.

[@maryanne8407]

@laiqah louis use Dr Omo herbal medicine very active it has no side effects

[@cissydallas7423]

Thank you for sharing. Your story is mine. Except I didn’t faint and I completely blacked out after the anesthesia. Woke up in the recovery room. Mine ruptured yesterday, thought I was dying! Worst pain ever! It was the right side. Threw up, sweating, burning up, weak, couldn’t walk, was feeling cold.Had emergency surgery (Laparoscopic). After trying for three years of bf trying and getting a shocking bfp, that turned out to be an ectopic pregnancy. Irregular periods etc. I was so happy but so sad after I lost this pregnancy.

[@cissydallas7423]

I had C-section in my old C-section scar done not laparoscopic

[@tarronpassens5578]

You strong! you beautiful! & I'm cheering for you! ❤️

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Thank you so much!!

[@InternationalGrace]

You’re wonderful and beautiful inside and outside! As long as you have egg even few you can get pregnant. I had friends with 2 eggs per month on and off and got pregnant. Just keep inflammation diet because embryo can pass from tube easier and in my opinion pregnancy is a luck. This time wasn’t your time and it will be the next time. I agree for trusting the gut and getting Ultrasound check very quickly after we feel something is off or weird. You went through so much and you are stronger and more powerful now!

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Thank you for sharing, I’ve only just seen this now! I have since had my rainbow baby girl 😊 she’s now two years old and the light of our lives!

[@koebraapeters9821]

Wow may Allah guide and protect you always In shaa Allah Ameen. This was really inspiring actually. I don't know how you managed not to cry because I teared up more than once.

[@danielletopkin7069]

Sending you so much love ❤️ you are so brave!💕

[@pontshaletuma2978]

As I'm listening to you story, I am just saying this is exactly what happened to me. But I stayed with the pain for a week but then I started fainting and having extreme pain and I was transfered to hospital. I stayed for 4 days till they saw that I have an ectopic pregnancy and I must undergo a csection.

[@safdee]

That final reaction made me emotional 😭❤️ all the strength and love and blessings to you 🙌🏽

[@safdee]

*reflection

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Thank you 🙏🏼

[@sitaarahcornelius3481]

thank you for sharing your story, sending you lots of love 💞

[@shannondaniel5795]

I had an ectopic pregnancy and nobody could give me a definite diagnosis on what was happening. I went to two different appointments at 2 different Planned Parenthood locations one at 5 weeks pregnant and the other at 11 weeks and both times they did a transvaginal ultrasound and couldn’t see a fetus in my uterus. My fallopian tube ended up rupturing 3 days after my last PP appointment and it was truly the most traumatic experience of my life. Quite literally thought I was going to do, felt faintish, sweaty and nauseous. They ended up removing my right fallopian tube and ovary, and this was all 5 days ago. Have massive psychological problems now

[@staciousqueenandprince]

Hello how are you fairing on i am in the same state day 6 now

[@shannondaniel5795]

@@staciousqueenandprince i’m feeling better after 2 weeks. my incisions are still pretty sore but nothing I can’t handle. still psychologically weaker but 🤷🏾‍♀️ how are you feeling?

[@nurjaanbrown5080]

Thank you so much for creating awareness ❤

[@pezulunyambwatu8616]

Honestly speaking it's a traumatic experience and I don't know if I will get through with this situation, I had an ectopic pregnancy 😭 on 22 Feb 2022 and I had internal bleeding and the pain is something else 🙆

[@queenhmix9609]

Thanks for sharing had mine a week ago still healing and it's not easy but will definitely be fine

[@kirstenschofield1995]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ Sending you so so SO much love Thank you for sharing your story & experience ♥️🌻

[@corcor876]

Ectopic pregnancy is the worst pain i ever felt in my life especially if its ruptured and having internal bleeding

[@FashionBreedVideos]

Agreed. Years later I’ve since had my rainbow baby and ectopic pain was worse than labour and unmedicated birth!

[@natashaodev]

Thank you for sharing your experience💕🤗

[@rebeccagitana]

you give me hope.

[@Glawkz]

5 days post op .. I feel so ashamed & depressed. I feel like a failure as a women. I lost my little peanut after 7 weeks.

[@paulinaewusi665]

Please I had ectopic surgery (tubal) one tube is gone and I’m just one month and a week please when can I try getting pregnant Pls I really need a reply

[@ellamaypalisoc4827]

There's no scientific answer for this. I had my ectopic operation last April. They suggest to try again after 3 months of operation . Much better to take some vitamins as well like follic and vitamin E.

[@richelvilla7063]

Me too last 2018, miscarriage and then the next month same year ectopic pregnancy. Until now i don't have my rainbow baby😢

[@robynbasson4925]

It sounds like you were on morphine, it’s a terrible drug. When I was operated to have my contraceptive removed from my cervix as it grew into my cervix, they gave me morphine twice and I remember begging them not to give it to me the second time and the nurse said I am sorry dear but we have to.

[@maureenamunga9953]

Wow it was how many months dear 🤔🤔🤔

[@josephineadhiambo1380]

Please advise....

[@tebellomonama3740]

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[@biancasam1805]

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[@laiqah7252]

I messaged you on Instagram.