C-Sections and Hysterectomies are done entirely too much in America
@juliennetully4814Ай бұрын
And inductions too. Doctors treat pregnancy and birth as a scary emergency, rather than a natural process
@tommesiacooper1258Ай бұрын
@@juliennetully4814this is very true.
@gwensmith6Ай бұрын
Here,here no one is investigating this.
@JealousyIsADiseaseАй бұрын
My mom passed from an hysterectomy😢
@BeautifullyLibraАй бұрын
@@juliennetully4814well it’s dangerous for a baby to remain in the womb for too long
@msj793Ай бұрын
In April they tried to force me to have a c-section at MMH. I stood my ground! They really be trying us! My husband said she’s not doing a c-section!
@ceceprincess4758Ай бұрын
My daughter was not ready to come . They took her anyway via c section
@SarahR2D2Ай бұрын
Amen!!! Good for your husband for protecting you
@SarahR2D2Ай бұрын
@@ceceprincess4758😢😢😢 I just went awol to avoid this
@jennywakeman3267Ай бұрын
@@ceceprincess4758 I’m so sorry for your loss.
@embracetheerainАй бұрын
We need more black midwives and OB/GYN providers. Education and motivation from the beginning of the pregnancy is vital. I was fortunate of having a black RN when I delivered my last child and she definitely advocated for me when I was in active labor. When I wanted to give up and get an epidural, she helped remind me that I was so close and I’m so glad I had her.
@nicoleraheem1195Ай бұрын
Just because they are black doesn't mean they'll be any better. I had a black nurse present alongside my BD, and she said I was making faces when I told her I felt my baby coming. The only 2 Doctors on the maternity floor, were in the next room birthing another baby. I had instinctively tried to place my hand in a position to catch my daughter's head, and she moved my hand and said she didn't see anything. Then she took several steps back and chuckled with my BD about the faces I was making. I had no choice but to yell through my contractions to get someone's attention. The Doctors ran in and didn't even have time to put on gloves. I was crowning, and they caught my baby on a blanket. The Doctors were Caucasian. 🤷🏽♀️
@mrsrichard7835Ай бұрын
@nicoleraheem1195 Although I know many awesome black nurses & docs, I’ve also had mediocre to horrible experiences with some black docs & nurses. We definitely need to love ourselves & each other more.
@TorriaYAH222Ай бұрын
My former Black OB/GYN pulled too hard on a baby’s head during delivery and the baby’s head was decapitated.
@DeshaunTellezАй бұрын
Dixie Story was an Earth Angel of a midwife for my youngest. Loving, knowledgeable, experienced - a gift from heaven. She is Not Black - and nor do we have our own Black hospitals yet . The heart and soul of the doula/ midwife/ nurse is paramount. Dixie has soul and I highly recommend her. inbox me ?
@TorriaYAH222Ай бұрын
@midnightaro 🫂
@84zeejАй бұрын
I was pressured but it was subtle. My doctor said, “let’s get that baby out” and even scheduled around her upcoming vacation. I think it’s a matter of convenience for the doctor and pressure to bill Medicaid (when applicable).
@monicanadineАй бұрын
Definitely scheduled around their personal schedules. This is discussed in the movie, “The Business of Being Born”.
@SarahR2D2Ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@tommesiacooper1258Ай бұрын
@@monicanadinewhere can I watch that please
@candyluna2929Ай бұрын
This is common where I am from.
@adeOLUWAАй бұрын
Her upcoming vacation???? What??😮
@Souja7ndАй бұрын
I don't even have a child, but I definitely recognized this. This could be why the child mortality rate is so high for Black women.
@sweetsunshineplaytimeАй бұрын
This is interview needs to be longer so much to discuss in a short period of time.
@deer.4651Ай бұрын
This happened to my best friend in april! She stood her ground though! She advocated for herself and delivered naturally. Now granted , when she was fully dialated and time to push, she tried to charge her mind 😂😂 but it was too late lol.
@mrsrichard7835Ай бұрын
Trust me we’ve had 7 now having our 8th. Natural birth is the best! The pain during the healing process AFTER the c-section is NO JOKE! Much long & more painful healing process. I’m usually up & moving right after giving birth.
@AlannaJackson-lz1fkАй бұрын
So 8 kids. You're a moron
@JamieModelvsDirectorАй бұрын
😩😭😭😭😂😂🤣🤣🤣💖💖💖
@Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_Ай бұрын
How old is she, if you don’t mind me asking
@Steph-lc7hyАй бұрын
What do you recommend?
@212BrittanyАй бұрын
Having a C Section causes the body to go through so much trauma especially when they’re cutting through different layers of skin in order to get to the baby. It takes the body years to heal and you will most definitely feel the pain throughout your years of living . 😩
@mskaymartАй бұрын
I definitely agree. I still have some excessive itching and random pain. I had my son 5 years ago.
@212BrittanyАй бұрын
@@mskaymart don’t forget about the numbing in the abdomen area 😩
@lvelfe3415Ай бұрын
Enjoyed listening to the interview. THANK YOU to the nurse who confirmed that there IS FINANCIAL gain on behalf of the hospitals the more surgeries they schedule. Also, thank you to the Doctor in the video Who discussed about how important it is to have health literacy. Doctor’s do not like it when you are well-informed. The greatest weapon that you can arm yourself with in the U.S as a black person is education (formal and informal)
@siddycity101Ай бұрын
Wow this wasn’t long enough. The insight these women gave is so helpful.
@mastergirl922Ай бұрын
Every black woman i know has had a c-section
@ari3lismАй бұрын
same im 25 all my friends have had c sections im the only one with natural births I think its because during my births im pretty much telling them what to do lol
@taunyb5429Ай бұрын
Wow. I don't know many myself.
@Mimi-ht6xrАй бұрын
All of mine were vaginal. My first was delivered after a day of labor pains. 😂😂😂 The others were easier on me but no way was c-sections mentioned to me or my husband. 😮
@ceceprincess4758Ай бұрын
Not all I know
@ghettoghost305Ай бұрын
I don’t know many that have had them unless absolutely necessary. Now, the Latino/Hispanic women, especially from the Carribean, Central and South America, the push for them instead of giving birth vaginally. Idk if it’s a cultural thing or not, but it’s a huge thing that goes on in S. FL.
@whitneyallman8365Ай бұрын
God protect all mothers ❤
@Nobleshield79Ай бұрын
They tried it with me. I said no thank you. My doctor said I’ll just schedule it and I said OK but I won’t be there. 😂She then left it alone and I had my baby vaginally. 😊
@t.twashington4001Ай бұрын
I was pressured and when I spoke up about it, they tried to act like I was crazy
@froggybugАй бұрын
Please know… the earlier you get to the hospital the higher your chances are of having a C-section. I’ve had one emergency C-section and 4 VBACs (vaginal birth after C-section) I’ve had a white male doctor and a black male doctor for the VBACs. You have to shop for an OB…before you get preggers. You want a smart and compassionate doctor.
@AdaezeNwangwuАй бұрын
That's if you have private insurance
@froggybugАй бұрын
@@AdaezeNwangwu even with state assistance you can shop.
@AdaezeNwangwuАй бұрын
@@froggybug depends on your state and the contracts they have with the hospitals/ Dr.s
@froggybugАй бұрын
@@AdaezeNwangwu there’s no state contract that doesn’t have multiple providers available. When I say shop I don’t mean go to them, I just mean look them up, research them, believe reviews if they say the doctor is garbage.
@JACKtheSEXYPIRATEАй бұрын
Really great advice
@sunnyctv7526Ай бұрын
I been saying this
@Cantetinza17Ай бұрын
They wanted to give one to my mom because my sister hadn't dropped yet. There was no distress on her or my mother, but they needed the bed. My mom said no and as soon as she dropped my mom pushed like 3 times and she was out. When I was born they wanted to give my mom a c-section because I didn't turn my mom said no and told them to turn me. They turned me and I shot right out. We're both known as cannon ball babies. I think that anyone who has a medical license they should do a side gig where they can be someone's advocate. Ask the questions that maybe they don't know to ask.
@D_DivineEmpressАй бұрын
I’m soooo glad that we are finally starting to open up to these facts. They’ve been doing us so dirrrttyy for years. Educate yourself on natural birth ladies it’s the way to go & YES!!! You can do it.
@shepineypineapples8506Ай бұрын
I was pressured! I know they pressured me
@elleshaw9837Ай бұрын
They are pressuring Black women because WW are onboard. I have met so many WW who are happy to schedule major surgery to have their babies. Although there are no complications and no obstacles preventing them from having natural child birth.
@malwads1836Ай бұрын
😉👍🏻Well this is one 🤍 lady that isn't having any of that unnecessary 💰 grubbing 💩.I'm planning on going with a midwife at home for my little ones...The 🏥s for the most part are just 💰 making factories &/or struggling with being too understaffed so most of them push C-sections too much.A lot of 🚺 in general are terribly undereducated about their bodies & that's likely why you're 👀 so many of them following along with the 🏥's BS.Education & critical thinking skills are vital for mothers.It's especially bad if they 💭 you're uneducated because a lot of them will try to take advantage of that for profits/convenience.
@Steph-lc7hyАй бұрын
Yeah I think the c section epidemic is too much in todays world It used to be if you needed it Now people just doing it Their choice though
@millennialodyssey5956Ай бұрын
I was so blessed to not be forced with my first. They were very patient with me. I was so tired in so much pain and wasn't progressing at 28 hours of active labor I actually asked them for a C-section. But when I went to another hospital that was advertised as "Vbac" friendly for a Vbac they tried to rush me into another C-section. I wouldn't let them and they didn't like it at all.
@cerissabrown3487Ай бұрын
And I needed a c-section and they refused and forced me to deliver my baby. He was over 10 pounds and he ended up having a brain hemorrhage being forced through the vaginal canal. My son has life long brain damages being denied a c-section. I think it’s their individual medical care model with in the bigger medical care system that’s not working. They can’t look at details of each situation to make a best independent medical plan.
@michaelafelton5622Ай бұрын
Im so sorry
@flashylightsАй бұрын
Yep i think it depends on insurance too i had to beg for one and the min i started complaining that i was in fear of a health issue due to denial of c section they rushed my to OR within 5 min. I never seen them get on their job so fast. But i also had a few family members present in room when i said all this. My doc was a bw and was awesome❤
@ceceprincess4758Ай бұрын
Sorry
@miskiin236Ай бұрын
Sorry about that, Did you sue the doctor?
@yahsbeatrice7490Ай бұрын
Sis you got to look into the medicine they give to induce the labor, it’s to make the baby have side effects and the mom
@RoseNZiegАй бұрын
if they had to ask you to do an operation that you are pretty sure you don't need, just tell them I'll take my chances. you are the one paying for the operation, not them.
@K-MoneyOutDaBricksАй бұрын
This is what I’ve been itching to ask black women so much. Ive had a surgery where they didn’t give me proper pain medication. And made an extra cut on my body. I felt like the surgeons did this outta irritation of me being black. SMH
@TierneyWashington1983Ай бұрын
I had 2 c sections but my husband, mom and stepmom questioned if I really needed it. They used my previous heart issues as a reason to do a C-section
@lanalove2780Ай бұрын
I was forced too. They told me it’s safer for my baby. The doctor threatened to call cps on me if I didn’t show up to my c section appointment. Now I’ve got scar tissue and pain every day years later.😢
@sadea.8224Ай бұрын
I am so sorry you went through that.
@politereminder6284Ай бұрын
😢
@princesssheabutterАй бұрын
Wow. I'm sorry you went through something so traumatic. Is there a way to get a lawyer involved? What state do u live in if you don't mind me asking?
@sistahb5159Ай бұрын
This is shameful‼️ I'm sorry you went through this. I wished you could've sued. And now you're suffering from the aftereffects. I pray for your healing. They will answer to God.
@2020IbrahimАй бұрын
I tell black mothers to always consider a home/water birth in the comfort of ur own home with an experienced midwife ... if you had a healthy pregnancy it's the best way to go ... I watched " the buisness of being born and Vaxxed" those 2 docu changed my view on so many levels
@bluetinsel7099Ай бұрын
There are also midwife birthing centers where they do water births and it’s it’s own stand alone facility.
@pwillis7732Ай бұрын
I definitely feel like I was pressured into one in 2018, but it’s like how can I prove it?
@miscalotastuff733Ай бұрын
This happens to anyone lower middle class on down. In the 70s they tried that on my mother. This has been going for a long time. Unless you have Cadillac insurance your screwed. They want you in and out. The best way to prove it is find other women from the same hospital and interview them.
@ceegabe1555Ай бұрын
This goes way back.
@ReinaAfricanaАй бұрын
I just had a repeat C-section on September 3 due to preeclampsia. I was going for a VBAC.
@1durfulАй бұрын
I’m sorry you didn’t get what u were hoping for but congratulations tho !
@zori8191Ай бұрын
A placenta is sold at the highest rate if it doesn’t pass through the birth canal.
@ChiOfoАй бұрын
But why would going through the birth canal change anything? Just genuinely wondering. Is it less “fresh” that way?
@bluetinsel7099Ай бұрын
@@ChiOfo Going through the abdomen keeps certain bacteria from getting on the placenta even though it’s typically a healthy bacteria in most cases. That bacteria also boost the babies immune system when they are born vaginally.
@brendabennettsgxcoach7747Ай бұрын
What?? Is this real?!! This is sickening! 😮
@prayerpower1585Ай бұрын
Sold for what?
@PhemeTellsАй бұрын
@prayerpower1585 oh man, you don't even want to know. Just take a guess who has the money to buy one with low cost of 50k each
@Amanda-zd7eiАй бұрын
This happened to me by a black nurse and a white doctor stopped her nonsense
@mrs.ogbuaguАй бұрын
Great segment! 👏👏👏 My experience with doctors (and other institutions) is that they always seem to desire to “put me in my place”. Its seems so weird but I always get a vibe that they feel they need to “handle” me. I’m very tall and dark skinned so I feel they are often intimidated by me. I notice people get aggressive or passive aggressive with me even though I am a feminine and soft spoken woman. I am not a “challenge” or a “threat” just by being black. I wish more people would stop being so uncomfortable around me. It’s not everyone but I do know when it’s happening. It’s definitely more than hospitals. I’ll tell you that right now. It’s systemic.
@MangoMellyАй бұрын
😢 I hate the target we have on our back. It’s heartbreaking. I’m a mom of two and both births were c-section. At 21, I was strong enough to push a child. However, I couldn’t deal with the contractions. So, I asked for the epidural and bam…like the last lady said, I wasn’t able to feel anything where it made it hard for me to push my first born out. So I ended up having an emergency cs. I’m happy to be alive but after my first experience, I was so afraid to have another child. I felt voiceless, powerless and alone. My second child was 6yrs later.. and I asked to have a natural vaginal birth and I was told that it would be high risk because I already had a hard cs pregnancy the first time. Yes I shopped around, but in my city/area..it’s very very very hard to find a black OBGYN or midwife.
@kiradagod3308Ай бұрын
Yes i have been called everything from stupid to a bad mother for not agreeing to c sections, i been told they wasn't going to deliver my baby if i dont agree , they even called cps. They pulled dad to the side and asked him how could he let me make stupid decision starting arguments between us.I have 5 children no c section, why do they want me to have c section you might ask.. because my 2nd child was 11# but this was right before a diabetes diagnosis and they let me go 2weeks over do with her, they say its a 10% chance of me having another big baby, which i havent because im now be treated for diabetes but in their mind everything you say is a lie, the trauma of how i was treated will always have me at odds and untrusting towards doctors.
@nottodaylilbaldheadАй бұрын
This is sad. I thank God and the angels that watch over me I have never been forced into anything when giving birth.
@HeyitsDebbАй бұрын
My question is ...if I feel that I was unfairly forced into a c-section how do we hold the doctor accountable ?
@ghettoghost305Ай бұрын
You weren’t forced into it not being insensitive, you could’ve said no or refused. No one can force you into anything and I am pretty sure you signed something agreeing to it. Therefore, you will have a long, endless fight.
@malwads1836Ай бұрын
@@ghettoghost305Actually the correct word would likely be "coerced" into it meaning being manipulated in various ways🤢.
@90ejbАй бұрын
@@malwads1836 And when it gets to that point, you have every right to choose your hospital and obgyn. It took my entire pregnancy and a lot of prayer but I was lead to a team that took care of my emergency c section(cervix wouldn't open and my son was getting stuck) It's a tiny scar above my bikini line. My situation is different from many women though. It shouldn't be a forced procedure, especially the way it leaves women scarred and in pain.
@90ejbАй бұрын
The only way to hold them accountable is to sue them. These procedures can hurt and damage the babies too
@michaelafelton5622Ай бұрын
I’ve had 4 and now i cant have any more kids because my uterus ruptured
@shawnni3014Ай бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that God bless you ❤🙏
@ChiOfoАй бұрын
How did that happen?
@roudiamondgh92Ай бұрын
I wasn’t pressured but I’m thankful I had a C-Section. At my 39 week appointment I still wasn’t dilated. We considered discussing induction at my 40 week appointment. I never made it to that appointment because my water broke on my due date. I went through labor for 12 hours with no progress. My cervix must be made of iron because I was not dilating at all even when they gave me a pill to induce labor…and my baby’s heart rate was rising and dropping. They decided to do a C-Section in hopes of saving him. When they got him out the cord was wrapped around his neck twice. If I delivered vaginally he would’ve been strangled! I’m saying this to say, before you decide to do one or refuse one look at what’s really going on during labor. Forget a birth plan! The only plan you should have is walking out of the hospital alive with your baby. You worked to hard being pregnant for nearly 10 months to walk out empty handed. Use wisdom!
@tasha9650Ай бұрын
Not all the time. I delivered naturally & the cord was wrapped around my daughters neck twice but she's just fine; she'll be 16 in November. I get that you're happy with your decision though.
@candyluna2929Ай бұрын
See, in your case it was needed.😢 I am glad you are both alive!! I agree with you 1000%. I wasn't gonna opt for cesarean and to make life easier on me, the doctors didn't attempt those games on me. But if something happened, I wasn't gonna deny it. I even asked for a cesarean in the middle of labor and the doctor said it was too late and that I was capable of giving normal birth. But I am Hispanic and gave birth in Puerto Rico.
@roudiamondgh92Ай бұрын
@@candyluna2929 this was my approach too. As natural as possible unless intervention is absolutely necessary. I’m worried some women will refuse intervention and regret it later
@brendabennettsgxcoach7747Ай бұрын
I was told by my mom who is a BSN that they give drugs to keep the labor going (not in pushing stage) until morning so the dr doesnt have to be inconvenienced by coming in middle of night to deliver a baby. In the last 50 years ask anyone what hour they were born.. theres no middle of the night babies who were born in hospital. C section guarantees the dr is scheduled for a morning convenient time slot. Pretty sad state of affairs that drs do not want to do their jobs; they want us to work around their precious schedules while they rake in big bucks 😢 sad state
@denisebello7461Ай бұрын
That’s my doctor!!! Absolutely love Dr. Cross ❤️
@dramaqueen5396257Ай бұрын
Black women need black husbands. Period You need your husband there to stand up for you in that vulnerable time. Let me tell you the time they sing when your husband is in the room versus when he isn't is COMPLETELY different!
@tranquility9325Ай бұрын
Wrong. Most men are narcissists. Especially black men who get catered to from childhood. My so called previous black husbands were a total waste of space. One is emotionally unavailable. The other is a malignant narcissist. I strongly encourage women to date outside their race. Although many men either married or in serious relationships are still trying to get with other women! The world has turned into Sodom and Gomorrah. That's why in SC there are 15,000 new positive HIV cases as of August 2024. Ppl are gross and never happy with one person. Women are sick and tired of being abused by men, many are being eliminated by their partners, they are single mothers despite being married bec their husbands just occupy space and don't help with the children. Many women are leaving men the hell alone.
@glambyportia3100Ай бұрын
True! I had mine both deliveries on the army base. That could’ve made a difference but I completely agree
@dramaqueen5396257Ай бұрын
@@glambyportia3100 I had my husband for my first delivery but for my second it was during COVID and they wouldn't allow my then toddler so he stayed home with her because we didn't have anyone to watch her. Needless to say they tried to pressure me into everything under the sun and when I denied? They called CPS and said they were "suspicious" of why I wanted to go home so badly. Mind you I had my husband and toddler at home whom they wouldn't let see me and it's during COVID with my newborn🙄 I literally had a doctor, a white male, come in and try to argue with me about vaccinations while my placenta and cord was still hanging out. NEVER would've went down like that had my BIG BLK husband been allowed in. Needless to say for our third daughter we did a homebirth
@melissavargas4330Ай бұрын
Absolutely agree! I’m not black but I still felt the pressure of the dr. wanting me to have a c section, I fought and signed a waiver not to.. and they were not happy.
@malwads1836Ай бұрын
Of course they weren't happy... Maybe the doctor couldn't pay off their new luxury car as fast🙄?
@dollsbymontq2446Ай бұрын
And this had been going on a long time !!!! My sons born 1982, 1984 natural birth in spite of doctors harassing me to get c-sections. But I stood my ground.
@Kiki-xc2zxАй бұрын
Y’all should do a part 2 and bring in black doulas and black midwives.
@malwads1836Ай бұрын
Exactly!I'd love to hear THEIR side of the story in regards to C-sections being doled out like 🍬 practically.It's a serious issue even for 🤍 women & I'm sure it's a real nightmare for the 🖤/🤎 ladies out here.Most of us are terribly undereducated about our bodies in regards to pregnancy/childbirth/post-partum recovery.
@user-vu9gd8ed1hАй бұрын
Giving younger generations even more of a reason to be childfree…
@august21xpАй бұрын
Was the father consulted ? Sometimes it helps to have the husband in the room!
@DexKnowzАй бұрын
Unfortunately a lot of black women do not have husbands to advocate for them during childbirth. Especially the very young mothers
@filmadcamp1512Ай бұрын
@@DexKnowz The person is probably talking about the women in the video. BW need to stop having kids by themselves. Someone needs to be there who is able to advocate for them.
@nevergoin28Ай бұрын
@@DexKnowzthis is what I was thinking as well. I was pressured to get a C section due to complications but I continued to prayed, me and my husband stood in agreement, stood our ground and after 46 hours I delivered normally with epidural.
@nevergoin28Ай бұрын
@@DexKnowzhusband is def needed
@SarahR2D2Ай бұрын
Thats why there are more deaths. I said no and left ama
@zipporah6853Ай бұрын
It's either they'll push inductions or c-sections.
@shamachelonАй бұрын
Its almost as if they don’t care
@Simoneskyye410Ай бұрын
Been saying this! Its sad.
@ladytaurusonutubeАй бұрын
This is how I felt with my last child. Í was so sad and hurt that I was made to have a C-section.
@Tee-hy9ukАй бұрын
So true but let’s also talk about the tube tying from the repeated c sections
@juliennetully4814Ай бұрын
Yes! I heard stories of doctors sneakily tying tubes if they think a woman has “too many kids” With that and the birth control they often push, I feel like they are part of the depopulation eugenics agenda
@citizencoy4393Ай бұрын
They tried to force me but I refused!
@miffycarter3876Ай бұрын
Omgggg 😢😢😢 god please help uusssss
@ranajohnson9995Ай бұрын
Yep I was, I was young and didn’t advocate my Dr was being lazy
@tyjohn3724Ай бұрын
I believe it, I had three C-sections and with my last c-section I went into shock.
@gwensmith6Ай бұрын
They tried it but i refused it.
@gwensmith6Ай бұрын
And the Hysterectomy amongst women that were not needed. Stop experimenting!!!
@xxyz321Ай бұрын
I’ve always said this too, I was scheduled for one because I’d had one before but went into labor before the date and she came quickly with no problems. Other family members say their drs recommend c sections and I say why, you’re young and healthy???
@YieldtoYahwehАй бұрын
I was at 16, said the baby may die, cord around neck, of course she just didn't want to wait. I was so scared being so young.
@mskaymartАй бұрын
I definitely agree. I had a c-section also.
@somebody6907Ай бұрын
I had a a C section at Southern Regional hospital, in Riverdale Georgia. The doctors and nurses were great, everything went fine and I felt no pain. I prefer C section because I was scared to push my daughter out. It was an emergency C section because the umbilical cord was wrapped around my baby neck .
@jadarichardson7600Ай бұрын
Maybe if they stop laying us down and stand up to push it out it won't be so many complications
@malwads1836Ай бұрын
Toilet chair with a big hole in the middle, that's what I'm planning to use at home👍🏻.In the really old days 🚺 around the 🌎 would use birthing chairs, sit in a hammock with a slit in the middle that was low to the ground with a soft pile of leaves, hold a low tree branch while squatting, etc.
@candyluna2929Ай бұрын
Some hospitals have that stuff
@seanm3691Ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@pinkishdiamondzАй бұрын
I was at my confirmation of pregnancy appointment and the "doctor" was trying to schedule my inducement. First and last appointment with him.
@ELOAAMinistriesАй бұрын
It has been said that C-section placenta is eorth far more than vaginal birth placenta!?!
@Life19753Ай бұрын
I had 6 section-c and I’m doing fine
@Shay_TheUnpopularOpinion_Ай бұрын
Thank you for covering this!! I’m 33 and looking to have my first baby a little later than most, and there’s a myth that Black women over 35 need C sections. It’s lack of knowledge. You must shop for your doctor before you even get pregnant! Thank you!
@aquariuscox3682Ай бұрын
I had my first child as a child. They told me that my pelvic area was too small to birth my son who ended up being 10lbs. He was born C-section and so was my next 4 children. They gave me no option after that.
@ceceprincess4758Ай бұрын
How old were u
@ghettoghost305Ай бұрын
Ppl need to understand, everyone doesn’t qualify for a VBAC. All doctors do not do C-Sections the same. Some do horizontal cuts to remove babies, some do vertical cuts to remove babies. Depending on where the cut is placed and the internal scarring, the uterus can burst during contractions and childbirth with a VBAC. I understand now everyone wants to hire doulas and everything but a doula is not a doctor. A lot of people are opting for home births but ppl do not give the statistics of issues arising, not only with babies after a home birth but some women hemorrhaging, developing preemclampsia after giving birth and different things and dying because they’re at home listening to advice from a doula. I feel if your health is top tier, the baby isn’t breached and you’re not of advanced maternal age and your baby doesn’t have any disabilities before being born then yes, have a home birth, say no to C-Section. But with babies over 9 pounds, I would have baby at a hospital for not only my safety but to ensure my baby is safe during delivery. Also, giving birth young, your birth canal probably wouldn’t open enough for the baby’s head and shoulders to manuever through it.
@aquariuscox3682Ай бұрын
@@ceceprincess4758 15
@Dee-ye2dkАй бұрын
So there’s an incentive for black women to have a c-section. Please provide the evidence. We need to see it
@RegladeochaАй бұрын
Driving 1 1/2, hours to see a black doctor. YEP! that's me, except i travel 2 hrs to Miami to see an Afro-Cuban doctor who i simply adore.
@malwads1836Ай бұрын
I'm 🤍 & my doctor is a 🖤 lady from Africa...At least in my experience she's the best doctor I've ever had, she seems more caring & aware of patient pain/discomfort in general than the 🤍 ladies I've had.I don't know if my experience is unique or if it's just a general issue with the 🤍 healthcare culture overall🤔.
@Morrisneuro83Ай бұрын
Dr. Cross seems informed and sincere.
@lukesgames8168Ай бұрын
Having my kid naturally
@beeha8133Ай бұрын
I had the best birthing experience but I’m learning that it is not a regular occurrence for black women.
@Charmaine6645Ай бұрын
This is true. I remember with my second child, they were making everyone get c sections at the hospital I went to and the nurse stated was one of the lucky ones who didn't get one that day.
@Morrisneuro83Ай бұрын
I had 2 c sections and they saved my life…they were very necessary and I’m black so I question this study…does there need to be specialized care for black women yes there should be to investigate these things…but assuming there is a nefarious motive financially…not in agreement vaginal births are very costly as well. The bad side of the cesarean is the after effects, sagging lower stomach and difficulty losing weight.
@daviyanmcewan4676Ай бұрын
This happened to me 5 months ago.
@fmc2973Ай бұрын
They forced me as well with my daughter and son My son had c section indents on the sides of his head for months😢
@TimkenCourtАй бұрын
Birthing while Black? 😮 Nothing to see here.
@lainaugu7285Ай бұрын
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@terryboydii5713Ай бұрын
This is so true! It’s sick it should be illegal. When my wife was pregnant they tried to do this to her. They got mad at her because we weren’t having it because we knew what was going on.
@jessinicole7998Ай бұрын
Looking around for Black doula as we speak.
@bibilym4514Ай бұрын
Another example as to why most us don’t trust doctors. I have to go out of way to find black doctors or providers of color. Even then, I’m always questioning them and try my best to advocate for myself. I shouldn’t have to do all this. God willing when it’s time for me to have a baby I’m 100% gonna advocate for myself and not back down.
@s0g1am0rousАй бұрын
Is there a difference between patients on private insurance and those on Medicaid?
@jada2708Ай бұрын
I feel like I was… I understand the first one was needed but my second one, no.
@kayjohnson9786Ай бұрын
When I had my first child they tried to give me an unnecessary c section.After the doctor left a nurse told me not let them force me to do it because I never needed it. It was very common at Suny Downstate Hospital. When you go to clinics you would hear all the black women in 2010 worried about getting a C-section.
@ellanina801Ай бұрын
Dude! That’s what I’ve been saying…
@awp8331Ай бұрын
They gave me options: they said whenever i had a contraction my son's heart rate would go down. I was 10 months 1 week and 2 days pregnant with him. My husband and I had a birthing plan and the c section wasn't in it. However with that news they gave us the option and told us the potential harm to my son because he wasn't getting enough oxygen. Once we heard that we prayed and decided to get a c section. I wish it was a natural birth but the circumstances.
@The.End.Begins24Ай бұрын
I was told my pelvis is too small for vaginal birth.
@kaiymariewalker8823Ай бұрын
This happened to my friend in CA by a black male doctor!!
@TheAS687Ай бұрын
Nurse has beautiful babies. Very interesting many blk women I’ve spoken with had either induced or cesarean births. Ive always wondered if it was really necessary
@Getvictd744Ай бұрын
This guy told me his child mother was slice vertically, and now she's at risk....I was like, why would they do that?
@marquiayoung7157Ай бұрын
I was told that since I had one previously, having my daughter naturally had more risk and it was safer to have a c-section. I was 41 when I had my daughter so her delivery was scheduled due to the increased risk of still births after the 39th week in older women. My first c-section was due to a bad reaction to the epidural and fear of me dying. By the time they got me to the O.R my heart rate had recovered but they did the c-section anyway.
@HersheydimplesАй бұрын
Black women pls don't be too hard-headed. I initially wanted to fight against a c-section, but didn't because i was so weak. The cord was around my baby's neck.
@ghettoghost305Ай бұрын
That is why you had one, your baby’s cord was wrapped around its neck. If you would’ve pushed, you could’ve strangled your baby by cutting off its air supply because every one push to get the baby out, the baby goes back up three steps if that makes sense. Some ppl can push a baby out quick, others cannot. How would the doctor have known how much time it would’ve taken you to push the baby out so that they could’ve removed the cord from around the neck?
@michellehicks3919Ай бұрын
That’s a good reason to have one; but for most, there isn’t one. They press the issue because they know it’s more profitable, whether it’s needed or not.
@tasha9650Ай бұрын
I actually had both mine naturally & the cord was wrapped twice around my daughters neck... but she's just fine. I seen the doctor unwrap it after I pushed her out... She'll be 16 November.
@candyluna2929Ай бұрын
Doctors say that if it's one wrap or even two is not bad. But when is 3 is when it's needed.
@tygerchickchibiАй бұрын
I know this goes without saying but medical facilities such as hospitals and clinics shouldn't be a for profit business. Too many stories of doctors basically either giving unnecessary diagnosis, surgeries, or medication just to get that insurance money
@CGolden24Ай бұрын
They tried to forced me to do it for my 2nd baby too
@ChiOfoАй бұрын
So what does one do? Just say no & possibly sign a waiver, right?
@DanielWatson-vv7cdАй бұрын
Question; Is it true operations like c-sections and abortions overtime reduce a woman's ability to have kids? (it's more than just a money thing)
@taunyb5429Ай бұрын
I've never heard of a c-sec reducing a woman's ability to have children. They will advise against you having more children after 3 or 4 c-secs, but that's different from an inability to have children.
@lavellaeveАй бұрын
It gets more dangerous to get pregnant the more c sections and abortions a women has.
@DanielWatson-vv7cdАй бұрын
@@taunyb5429 I read about this decades ago back in the 90's. Unless surgeons change their operating techniques, C-sections or any other dissections of the female's reproduction organs can hinder her ability to give birth. If it was sooooo' safe, how come they don't push this procedure on the yt. woman?
@ghettoghost305Ай бұрын
@@DanielWatson-vv7cdthey do though, you just don’t hear about it. Also, a lot of Carribean women, Central American women and definitely South American women plan their C-Sections out because a lot refuse to push out babies. It happens a lot in SE FL to where the news started reporting on it. Hialeah Hospital does so many C-Sections but maybe it’s a cultural thing.
@candyluna2929Ай бұрын
@@taunyb5429exactly, the uterus has scars so it does reduce your ability and either way they tell you to not have a lot of children bc of the procedure so it does. Population control.
@JamieModelvsDirectorАй бұрын
Glad I birth both of my children at a Catholic hospital they don’t even believe in giving medicine. They have it available by request only they did not offer it ❤
@ThebeatofdiamondsАй бұрын
Help US most HIGH GOD!!
@VeeAllАй бұрын
And not getting them when needed
@salma_Nella22Ай бұрын
It’s not just black women. I promise. C sections are being normalized
@malwads1836Ай бұрын
Yeah & it's disturbing because ultimately it IS major abdominal surgery that isn't without it's own set of risks.
@salma_Nella22Ай бұрын
@@malwads1836 almost every woman I know who gave birth in the last 4 years were given an option. C sections used to be a last resort