Stuff Enneagram 8s Say

[@bbhdd6181]

"Worse things have happened to better people" 😂😂💀💀💀

[@AbbeyHowe]

That one got me

[@Ch-rice]

Too early in the morning to be so properly roasted like this

[@AbbeyHowe]

Sorryyyyyy

[@MsJovana23]

Facts. 🤣

[@KendrixTermina]

its underappreciated how funny 8s can be

[@HowlingWolves77]

“May the bridges I burn light the way” Literally slayed me. 🤣🤣 7w8 here… and yep… just… hard yep… 🤣

[@joshuaperkins3633]

As a 9w8, this is a lot of my internal thoughts that I’m just too scared to say out loud🤣

[@BombshElle_7]

I'm an 8w9. We'd get along just fine. I'll say what's on your mind, and you'll tell me to shut up before I go too far 😉

[@AbbeyHowe]

this convo 😂

[@joshuaperkins3633]

@@BombshElle_7 I’m so down!

[@BombshElle_7]

@@joshuaperkins3633 😆

[@rhyswestbury763]

Hahahaha "let the bridges I burn light the way!" is the most iconic eight thing ever!! I'm a 7w8 so feel this in the galvanising streaks of my personality!!

[@BombshElle_7]

Abbey, you're a 3, so you understand us 8s better than most. This was MASTERFUL. The expressions you used fly outta my mouth everyday. I don't feel attacked or exposed. I feel understood 😌 Thank you!

[@AbbeyHowe]

I also grew up with a Type 8 mama 😉

[@BombshElle_7]

@@AbbeyHowe 💕💕

[@artisticautistic9664]

I second that

[@Letty4]

I'm an 8 and I approve this message!

[@AbbeyHowe]

Woohoo!!

[@LeeannMichellefunny]

SAME! HA

[@BombshElle_7]

I second this motion

[@julielineburgh7961]

I am an 8 and have said so many of these things!! I literally laughed out loud at a lot of these, this is brilliant. Thank you for making this video :)

[@LexaLite]

Love this. I'm a 5, 8 is my aspirational so this is how I feel and act when I'm in a pretty good state. I had nothing but love and understanding for everything out of an 8's mouth

[@laurieross2912]

Unhealthy 8s are the hardest to be around. Healthy 8s are great though!

[@LeeannMichellefunny]

HOW ARE YOU IN MY HEAD??? Abbey!!! You nailed this. The burning bridges line put me over the edge. I STAN. (loves you)

[@AbbeyHowe]

THE BIGGEST COMPLIMENT WOW

[@christinashurtz1910]

Omg! I feel so exposed 🤣 I love your videos! You are by far my favorite creater for the enneagram! Thank you for this!

[@AbbeyHowe]

Thanks for watching and commenting! ♥️

[@Avionne_Parris]

Thanks, Abs for doing 8s! This is my character to a tee, especially the gloating about being right and burning bridges to light a path for others. This is also my 4 year old nephew and yeah you nailed that too. I know 8s get a bad rap especially female 8s but I think we all need that brave soldier who's gonna march ahead of the platoon and take all those hits for us while ploughing a way forward. I really admire their tough-as-nails indominable quality :-)

[@AbbeyHowe]

We ♥️ 8s

[@vcasxsnk]

i have... stumbled upon the unlisted video treasure of my kind.

[@AbbeyHowe]

Welcome

[@karenwaitz3545]

I worked at an industrial supply store for a while, and was once left for several hours to run everything myself. When I'd had enough, I called my manager and told him to get the f--k back cause I was this close to burning the whole building down." He got back pretty quickly, then called me into his office and was like "maybe make sure I'm not on speaker phone with the district manager next to me before you talk about burning shit down" 😂😂😂

[@EmberInk]

Oh my gosh, I've LITERALLY said like probably 90% of these things...

[@AbbeyHowe]

😮

[@perpetuapolyphemus2640]

Weird because I literally just posted this exact comment too hahahah

[@INTJATarot]

May the bridges i burn light my way is something I would TOTALLY say xD

[@lizzwilson8931]

I just shared this with my family😂 Way too accurate🥳👏🏻

[@AbbeyHowe]

👏🏽 amazing

[@SunsetDragon]

Ack!! More than half of these made me go "DAD??? IS THAT YOU???" XD Spot on! Especially the "Yeah yeah no that's kinda dumb" and "Is there a point coming soon?" This is an awesome video!

[@AbbeyHowe]

hahahah

[@nadinelundgren2271]

8 here, I don’t think I’ve experienced a more spot on representation of me.

[@moawesome]

I was laughing the entire video straight, this was spot on, good job!!

[@lindaweedmark6025]

I have stifled my inner 8 and can see that's the cause of sooooo. Many. Of my problems. Living with abusers will do that to you. So now I'm unleashing my 8! No more making myself small. No more hesitation about "going there". No diminishing self-talk. No more eggshells. Hello throat chakra!

[@maloneaqua]

It IS only awkward if you let it be awkward👏🏽

[@jillmappin3316]

Can’t wait for the stuff 4’s say!

[@AbbeyHowe]

filming that next! 😊

[@jillmappin3316]

@@AbbeyHowe oh goody!

[@sammeyr7214]

As a Type 8, I am just as confused as you are as of why we are obsessed with fire...

[@ItsKimOlson]

"Don't you dare apologize." "Stop saying sorry!" "If you're mad, you need to tell me." "Everything is not fine, but it's time to move on." "Jmo." "I don't need anyone to complete me." "Not my problem." "That's dumb, but you do you." "I'm surrounded by morons." "I can do that by myself." "I don't care what they think." "Why can't people just do their job?" "Could you not." "Are you kidding me?!"

[@mandyinseattle]

"I knew I was right and now you know it too." I'm saving that

[@teresaott6274]

this was the first of your videos that i've seen ( i then watched many more!) and you were so spot on with these that was quite surprised to discover you are not also an 8. well done.

[@evalynadolphson9160]

I'm a 4w5 but I very much relate to a lot of this video!! It's mostly stuff I'm thinking and sometimes I'm too shy to say it out loud

[@ronjar.747]

🤣🤣🤣May the bridges I burned light the way!!!🤣🤣🤣Hilarious!

[@barostakuk1058]

I was surprised especially by "that's so on brand of you", I do do that!! I only recently discovered I am an 8 and not another type I thought before and I also had to watch this a second time to be like... oh yeah wait, that fits. Didn't quite think so the first time. I see myself as completely reasonable and pretty calm but objectively, I'm more like this. And yeah, burning bridges and burning things down, haha!! Great job. Love your channel!

[@margaretjudice8944]

This was one of your best videos! Thank you for sharing!

[@MrPunem]

Certified 8 here! I coach girls soccer and every season I tell my girls I don't want to hear "Sorry" or we will run. Also, "I don't know" is not an answer, constantly telling my kids this!

[@inkerikavantera]

I was laughing all the way through - brilliant!

[@eringeoffrion9159]

Is there any wing relationship more wildly divergent than 9w8? I feel like a walking contradiction.

[@annaak5673]

Thank you ❤😂 I understand myself better now 😅

[@Itspronouncedlon]

I’ve said all of this. That’s crazy lol our whole perspective is like “we must all fuel our motivation with the power of our rage to help those in need and punish those that preys.”

[@TheRandomINFJ]

Girl, this was F'ing great 🤜🤛

[@michaellerch]

Even though I'm 3w4... I can relate to 8s... sometimes wish i was more 8 to get more crap done

[@AbbeyHowe]

hello fellow 3w4!! 👋

[@justiceforthemissing3690]

OMG this is spot on

[@alexisrash]

"If you listened to me the first time, we wouldn't be in this mess", "If you tell me what to do, I'm not going to do it, because you told me what to do", "If you're mad, you're going to have to tell me your mad and the reason why you're mad. Otherwise, I'm going to assume everything is fine.", "This is just my opinion, take it or leave it", "Stop saying sorry, if you say sorry, one more time....", "That is not my problem", "That's dumb, but you do you.", "I wish there were more hours in the day", "I'm surrounded by morons", "I can do that by myself", "I don't care what they think", "get to the point", "why can't people just do there job? (but srsly why?)", "I got your back", "Is there a point coming soon?", "are you kidding me right now?", "It's only awkward if you make it awkward/let it be awkward". ALL OF THIS IS SO ME, LIKE WTH?? THAT IS LEGIT ABBY

[@diesel.coaching]

love it! smiled all through out the video 👏😁

[@bobbafett7790]

this is totally me lol. from a Type 8. my wife will concur

[@luciogden6516]

Hi chica, I absolutely love your videos! Are you making a video about stuff Instagram say?? I see one for each enneagram type but seven. That's my enneagram type and I've been anxiously waiting for it :)

[@AbbeyHowe]

It's not filmed yet, but it will be soon! ♥️

[@shift9894]

As a 9, I fully agree that you should either do something about your problems, or stop complaining, which is why I simply never complain about my problems

[@nickdiakanastasis]

I laughed out loud because this is me - point for point. It's like you're a fly on my wall 🤣

[@TheAdhdGardener]

This is me to a T😂😂

[@Zhanbu547]

oh my god these are legit my direct quotes didnt know it wld be so accurate

[@Nick_Taylor.]

Omg!! This is perfect!

[@barksnbrews]

If I ever doubted my 8ness, that’s over 🤣🤣🤣. I say almost all of these things regularly.

[@CoasterMan13Official]

This is totally my mom. I'm an ISFP 4w5, she's an INTJ 8w7. She's married to an ESTP 2w3, and they have a very dysfunctional relationship

[@mjl3753]

I'm not yelling! Yes. I don't know is not an answer! Yes-my kids all the time. Just answer than damn question! Are you kidding me right now! Yes. Please wait till I have my coffee. Yes

[@AbbeyHowe]

hahahaha

[@13thravenpurple94]

Great work Thank you

[@wesholland2474]

I must have a strong wing. I'm clearly am 8, but the only one of those I really related to was "SET IT ALL ON FIRE!" That one really exemplifies me.

[@lovegansaw]

It is like looking myself in the mirror. LOL. Thanks, Abbey.

[@Dani-jo9yr]

So right 😅

[@darkphoenix6807]

I have a 2 husband and mother. I am constantly saying “Stop apologizing! You didn’t do anything wrong!” 😂

[@panther36]

😂 thank you for saying exactly what I think and say everyday.

[@aaronsgal87]

Literally my mom's words coming out of your mouth. 😲

[@AbbeyHowe]

😳

[@jillianclemmons]

Nailed it.

[@nheier4943]

“May the bridges I burn light the way” I will be stealing this

[@charliecc210]

I self soothe to this video, thank you 😂

[@SoulfulVeg]

This is me! And, I literally have a baseball bat in my car. 😂😂

[@sethm7761]

As an 8, every clip was so calming

[@perpetuapolyphemus2640]

I must’ve said at least like 95% of these things word for word no joke

[@myndmatterz]

Tell me HOW to find a way to their heart.. (psst.. is there a heart in there..??)

[@MegaLight4Ever]

Social subtype 8 and am in complete agreement with 80% of what was said in this video.

[@amnesia5776]

Hoping enneagram 7 would be next and coming so

[@cassie4611]

Well, love it ❤

[@dragonarch0]

Its so accurate that its not even funny.

[@cindy-leemaree2535]

I'm a 9 married to 8 it's ... There's no words for it. Agree or die 😂

[@gracie_5]

I get why as 278 im more lighthearted and charming

[@luukassl]

I’m not even mad about it😅spot on lol

[@maramoon333]

I’m a 4 but 8 is definitely my secondary enneagram type

[@djarc9]

Baseball bat: Accurate

[@blackpearl6189]

"Facts dont care about your feelings" i have said that before😭

[@Samantha_Evans]

Why is this so accurate😂

[@martinisawe6300]

"I wish there's more hours in a day" as an ENFP 3w2 I fucking relate to that!!!

[@artisticautistic9664]

Wow i just watched myself for 2:23 8w7 entj

[@pauladiaz4620]

The baseball bat says it all….

[@TrangTran-cf2qe]

LOL the accuracy xD

[@msNightshade452]

So so accurate. 😆😭😭😆

[@KoriHarisana]

After seeing this I feel understood 😪 It's literally me

[@readingtracker5065]

Rules are suggestions 😂

[@complexi_Lexi]

Mismanagement on your part is not a crisis on mine 🙌🙄

[@iamkevinkouassi]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wow! Thank you for this morning laugh

[@abdollahfadl9264]

That’s meeeeeeeeee. I’m telling my coworkers why you complain too much if you don’t like it leave

[@swtofflemire]

How did I get to the Age of 60?

[@kimberlylaursen4986]

And avoid words (always, never, mine) you know, absolute words when conversing with an 8

[@martinap5860]

Yesssss!

[@mandyinseattle]

0:52:😂😂😂😂😂❤

[@muhammedrafi3605]

Mam how can I learn enneagram in a institute

[@maloneaqua]

Do it, OR DONT!!!! 🤦🏽‍♀️🫶🏽😭

[@googalloonga7337]

As an 8, I find funny how the negative spot is usually in the I told you so, the If you had listened to me or if you did as I said instead on the people being so dumb in both recognizing good advise or acting on it, and then whining about the results of their choices. How being right could be wrong? Only dumb people knows.

[@Cloyaa]

Omg I can't count the numbers of times I said one of these 😭

[@LilacSnowBun]

Are a lot of ESTPs 8s?

[@mandyinseattle]

💯% My baseball bat is a small cannister of pepper spray. And why CANT people just do their job?

[@briankayaker1]

😂 I’ve said so many of these things

[@kenalexandremeridi]

I just took this test I am very like this in my head but play the dumb himbo role

[@masonreeves4775]

Abs I've been waiting patiently for this. Love from an 8. Okay, time to watch and criticize.

[@AbbeyHowe]

😂