I suggest that Nigeria government enact Osinachi Law.
@thebestindewest2 жыл бұрын
Amen o
@localjess8382 жыл бұрын
What will the Osinachi Law achieve? We already have a lot of Violence Against Persons laws. It's the enforcement of it that is the the problem.
@kissmeagain542 жыл бұрын
I love this
@letstalkaboutit20212 жыл бұрын
That's so true. I never thought of this. They should definitely do that.
@AjijoBeatrice11 ай бұрын
The laws are there. It remains application of the laws.
@uwakwegertrude38862 жыл бұрын
This man has not seen anything. Those days are gone. He should take his time. Women are not slaves to men. Osinachi,s case will open many wives eyes.
@dancell3782 жыл бұрын
We are for soft life, abeg.
@si30812 жыл бұрын
Amen and Amen I pray it open the eyes of my younger sister because she is ina very big abusive marriage, their is no day that passes by this Ogoni man does not abuse my sister!
@Mummya20212 жыл бұрын
Well said ma 👏 🙌 👍 ❤ 👌 😘
@ritausua99932 жыл бұрын
So glad the narrative is beginning to change. My brother complain to me yesterday that himself and his wife had misunderstanding he then slapped her and she went to the police they got him arrested beat the hell out him,he paid money to bail himself so he doesn't want her again. My response to him was good for you because I've been telling him time without number stop beating her. I promise him next I'll be the one to pay the police to beat you.
@shanilmine51662 жыл бұрын
@ Rita, you're a good woman who doesn't support evil from your family. Thank you for standing with your inlaw.
@favorfavor60252 жыл бұрын
Than you Rita for standing for what is right & not being biased he his family. I have said i will not tolerate abuse/maltreatment towards others from any member of my famy or friends
@peacefrank77812 жыл бұрын
Thank you Rita.,, you r a Child of God. Which other love pass this one . I applaud you million times.
@Mummya20212 жыл бұрын
😘😘😘👏👏💯❤👌👍🥇🏆🙏
@FM-ir2nq2 жыл бұрын
God bless you! That’s the best answer!!
@naomynyevu71172 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend slapped me and I ask him why are u slapping me? He told me that.. I was joking. And after telling me that it was a joke.. I slapped his mouth back until he was bleeding and I told him it is over. And that is how we end up our relationship. 😏😏😏
@shanilmine51662 жыл бұрын
@ Naomy...good girl.you could have removed his tooth.enough is enough.
@chykedoc2 жыл бұрын
I wish to ask you why you think so, I mean why do you think it is wrong for a man to "slap" or physically raise his hand on his wife? I am not advocating for this, because I believe its wrong, but I also believe that a lot of people who believe its wrong in marriage, do not know why it is wrong, this is the simple reason why it still goes on. Share with me what you know. Thanks.
@codeosagie2 жыл бұрын
Thank you wise lady.
@Canadianlove2 жыл бұрын
There it goes .He will never slap any woman again
@uzoamakaoraegbu44212 жыл бұрын
Correct Babe!!😍🥰👍👍You are the best!!
@chineloonyekwe22642 жыл бұрын
The wife is Digital while the man is Analogue.😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@thebestindewest2 жыл бұрын
Love dis one
@franchescaasamoah30462 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@yvelineyuok22352 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@peacefrank77812 жыл бұрын
OMG 😳 Lol 😂
@tsoekeawonorvivor70032 жыл бұрын
Bingo!!! 😂
@aprilsideas2 жыл бұрын
He gave a correctional slap and got a correctional response. Since he is not understanding that things have changed!
@Mummya20212 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣👏👏😘 Nice one 👍 👌 👏
@ikennaemmanuelochuba35772 жыл бұрын
Pls lets always shows love to our wife
@lornaellis6322 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@hadassahjoe83962 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂😂😂 @ correctional response. Women are now ready for the men with their bullying.
@rosebush70002 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha - I can’t deal with you I swear! 😂😂😂😂Correctional slap and correctional response Gbam! 😂😂😂😂I can’t!
@Crabtree18442 жыл бұрын
Summer: as a man, I feel nauseaous that men such as the one who wrote, "I slapped my wife.." exist. He would have no teeth to fence his tongue if he tried that with my daughter.
@TheRealDeal1302 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣👍
@margarethnyamushonongora75222 жыл бұрын
Sir 2020 to the table, you will live long.
@princessmagtali65612 жыл бұрын
This is the man that knows the value of a woman talking 🤗🤗🤗 God bless you sir...such men are the reason why some of us are so scared of venturing into marriage bcos me personally....I hate beating with passion...if you dare to lay your hands on me, it is over between us...that is why I am very quick to apologize even if it is not my fault for the sake peace...I don't like fight at all
@courtoftheword2 жыл бұрын
@@princessmagtali6561 May God grant you a man after his heart. You are a good woman and a good man deserves you
@hephzibahyahudah98952 жыл бұрын
👨🏾🦲 without 🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷🦷 😂😂😂😂😂✌🏾
@gracemercy30392 жыл бұрын
The new law in Cameroon, if you throw your wife's cloths outside of the house, you will go to prison. So the woman can stay whether you like it or not
@lifewithtshidiedza3812 жыл бұрын
Bad law...
@healthpioneers92642 жыл бұрын
Now my eyes are clearer. My boyfriend slapped me on the face last year and I'm still feeling this light headedness.He is not even planning for us to get married after spending 8 good years in courtship.I recently ended the relationship.
@O_OMG2 жыл бұрын
Wow...You tried. 8 years is a life time. I broke up with my ex after 1yr+, he gave me a blow in the eye n i had a black eye for weeks. Im happy i dumped him. Shortly after, i met my husnand and 6 months later we were married. 11 years now ! Choose wisely
@pricelessjim4953 Жыл бұрын
@Joy Onyebilanma logical question?
@gloakwuegbu71152 жыл бұрын
I'm loving this wife. Can you imagine "correct " her, it sounds derogatory. She's not inferior to the man.A woman is an intelligent being. You reason with her, like you'll reason woth a friend or your colleague or boss,not correct her. This wife is my woman of the year.
@sharonedwards1262 жыл бұрын
Glo, I don't care if she cannot spell CAT he has no right to put his hands on her.
@goodnesswami15992 жыл бұрын
Can you imagine? CORRECT, as if the wife is a child
@stellachijioke8762 жыл бұрын
Is she his slave ? Even if its a slave does the situation demand a slap ? These cowards can't even hit their side chics at all for fear of losing them. Useless man.
@chiny3152 жыл бұрын
Yeah, she gave him a "correctional police arrest" like he gave her correctional slap? So what's good for the goose is good for the gander, lol. He may be physically stronger, he needs that strength to go fight another man, defend the females in his life or go till the ground as in Genesis when Adam ate the forbidden fruit. Let him go dig ground if he needs to exert his energy on something. This guy is crazy
@estherobafemi15112 жыл бұрын
He doesn't have a house, it's the house of both of them.He built it with his money on or the they both built it together it's "their" house.Let him set his brain right.. this is another generation.
@austinedosomwan37392 жыл бұрын
A lot of people grew up from a toxic home. And that is their normal today. That's exactly where we are
@imaobongokorie97092 жыл бұрын
God will not allow our children meet such children from such families
@austinedosomwan37392 жыл бұрын
@@imaobongokorie9709 Amen
@mercyoluwaniyi7992 жыл бұрын
True Sir
@Mac_TO202 жыл бұрын
I remain thankful that I have never raised a finger against any woman! I dare say that any man who hits a woman (except in self-defence) or his wife, is a coward or worse still, less than an animal.
@chykedoc2 жыл бұрын
I wish to ask you why you think so, I mean why do you think it is wrong for a man to "slap" or physically raise his hand on his wife? I am not advocating for this, because I believe its wrong, but I also believe that a lot of people who believe its wrong in marriage, do not know why it is wrong, this is the simple reason why it still goes on. Share with me what you know. Thanks.
@Mac_TO202 жыл бұрын
@@chykedoc space here would fail me to elucidate on the whole idea. Just know that a man and woman become one in marriage. If a man cannot hurt himself, why should he hurt his wife? If a man cannot condone being slapped, why would he do same to his beloved (who is also himself)? Is the woman a kid that needs the rod (slap in his case) to be corrected? If marriage is to be as ordained by God, it therefore means that man is to love his wife as Christ loves the church. Has it been mentioned anywhere that Christ corrects His church by slaps? Think in this line and you would see my drift.
@maureenishabor80362 жыл бұрын
Man or woman nobody should raise their hands on any human being. Assault is wrong on levels.Kudos to you though👍
@ifeyinwaezeoji2 жыл бұрын
@@Mac_TO20 well said! 👍👍👍
@peacefrank77812 жыл бұрын
@@chykedoc Please permit me to ask a simple question. How many old men , young men, young boys do you slap in any given day?? If you can’t slap or fight a fellow BOY at every provocation , please tell me the reason why you should slap or fight a woman at every provocation except when a woman first raised her hand on you . Remember I said first raised hand!!
@mabelconnect13872 жыл бұрын
Marriage is for matured minds and problem solvers. Until we see marriage for what it is and not what we think it is, men/women that think like this guy here are in for more surprises. Marriage is not to be endured but to be enjoyed. Thanks dear summer.❤️
@blessingechenwa21142 жыл бұрын
This is exactly my husband's slogan " marriage is to be enjoyed not endured"
@MellisaWorld2 жыл бұрын
Agree with you Summer, African parents should raise their daughters to be financially secure, and not just raised them to be good wives. Gone are those days when ladies depend on their husbands for everything which is why our mothers tolerated so much abuse in marriage. Mothers need to expose/enlightened their daughters to different options most importantly, making their own money. Because that is the only power some men have over their wives. Some of these arrogant men will go as far as saying, I pay the rent and provide money for groceries, and clothes for you and the kid. So, therefore, I can send you packing anything I want. When women make their own money no matter how little it is, as long as you are not being stupid of opening the same account with your man, he will be scared to treat you like shit because he knows he does not have any hold on you. You can fly like an eagle if he decides to be stupid.
@boycharlieO2 жыл бұрын
He lost his mind. Slapping her as a correction like he was correcting his pikin. What a buffoon!
@thebestindewest2 жыл бұрын
...he as if she is an animal
@wemimoadefolu88652 жыл бұрын
I decree he remains single in jesus name. Amen 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Crabtree18442 жыл бұрын
You don't slap your pikin either!
@highlyfavored52072 жыл бұрын
You have spoken well Summer. Nothing more to add. Let abusive men like him stay single.
@mmaglorymathias3932 жыл бұрын
I still don't understand why slapping should be a means of correction
@Mummya20212 жыл бұрын
I tired, that is the mentality of Africa men , those good for nothing men.
@courtoftheword2 жыл бұрын
Me, I say my daughters will learn martial art so in case their boyfriend/fiance or husband lay hands on them, they can defend themselves and beat him well. Everytime i say it my Wife keeps laughing . I am not joking Ooo
@sandraokonkwo9002 жыл бұрын
Lol
@olusolaalbert19882 жыл бұрын
This is a wake up call for women! Please be financially independent and free yourselves from a man’s validation ! You worth more than getting beatings and slaps from these fools! Why will any beast slap a woman ? Hmm!
@nnennac9042 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised that his definition of wife material is a woman who can endure being beaten. If Peter Nwachukwu is not made an example and dealt with properly many abusive partners would not learn.
@roysyndy17412 жыл бұрын
Those kind of men, when they go out and meet their fellow men they wrapped their tails like a 🐈⬛ 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@thebestindewest2 жыл бұрын
All the time🤣🤣
@roysyndy17412 жыл бұрын
@@thebestindewest 😂😂😂😂
@lightvictor15302 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😂😂🤣
@EvermumgistTv2 жыл бұрын
The man is not well @ all by saying a correctional slap.And bringing it to social media without hiding his ugly character.
@bluebird48152 жыл бұрын
I love this wife. Baby, slap me and one of us will end up in hospital and it won't be me. 🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️ And after that, we are getting a divorce. Men like this need more than a wake up call. Your wife is not your property and she is not inferior to you.
@zainaa45092 жыл бұрын
A lot of men don't treat their wives how they would like to be treated. She did the sensible thing, from slap can lead to more violent acts.
@peacefrank77812 жыл бұрын
Very true my dear. 9 out of 10 times.
@doreenjohnson10482 жыл бұрын
She is not a baby stand up for your right
@doreenjohnson10482 жыл бұрын
Woman is no fool like old time days
@jacmyracoffie90932 жыл бұрын
Chai 😂😂😂women have really suffered Sha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@highlyfavored52072 жыл бұрын
People treat you the way you let them treat you. African women for centuries have allowed their men to treat them like crap and allowed them get away with it so why won't they as women suffer? They permitted the ill treatment and viciously support a culture that subjugates and abuses them. Let them bear their cross since dem no wan get sense.
@Cindy4ctv2 жыл бұрын
He is telling the truth in terms of how some wives were treated in thoes days. Sadly these still continues, however many females are waking up to the soft life.
@moresttvshow21492 жыл бұрын
What most women do not notice that such men will take their sisters back home immediately her husband try such with her, and start dividing soup money into two to cater for his precious sister!
@supgirltripping3102 жыл бұрын
Standing up to self and being treated like a human being is not soft life. It’s simply fundamental and how it should be.
@isaacoguamanam2532 жыл бұрын
Honestly speaking it is obvious, that is what he leaned from his parents...As long as women keep silent over injustice behavior against them, men will keep on downgrading them...She stands for her right. from now on he will be thinking twice before he misbehave again.
@thegracetofollow41942 жыл бұрын
🤣😂right next time he will think twice
@titilolasiwoku59442 жыл бұрын
Yes ooo
@lorasibigem252 жыл бұрын
Coming from a man, hmmmmm, I'm surprised.
@isaacoguamanam2532 жыл бұрын
@@lorasibigem25 Honestly speaking I have been an advocate of women knowing their right and that is what I do tell my younger once. I happened to grow up in a family where my father always proud of my mother, I am the 3rd child of my parents but I was the longest kitchen servant in my family. My wife has not stop loving my mother even in her grave for training me up like a woman..I And my two elder once was the one that stop my father from doing the domestic workers at home so it brakes my heart seeing women being punish for nothing.
@lorasibigem252 жыл бұрын
@@isaacoguamanam253 , this is wonderful, really.
@toinnywainaina86082 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what should happen…the man has no right to slap his wife who is his equal… I come from the Kikuyu tribe of Kenya and it is known by the other tribes that if you beat your wife do not dare close your eyes and sleep 🤣the girl child is just as important as the boy child and thus wife beating is discouraged in our marriages…a man can choose his kicks but he is not privileged to choose his kickbacks….
@dinydgeraldine32542 жыл бұрын
The wife reciprocated absolutely well to the slap, *it's called if you behaves anyhow you get treated anyhow* 😀😀😂 days has gone for that trash🙄😆
@angachiaanamba46452 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣summer please don't make me laugh " let him get slapped and tell us how it feels" hahaha
@patiencemtetwa2 жыл бұрын
This content you have today Summer, I'm laughing nonstop 🤣🤣🤣🤣, this poor mindset from this man deserves, to live alone, Sadly he grew up thinking it's ok to hit a woman. I'm so happy for women now, I say the ancient days are gone!! We're in the Woke Generation 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾to women all over the world ✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽✌🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾💃🏾💃🏾😊😉
@chilufyabwalya54162 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly why not use Communication correction instead of correction slap 🤔🤔 She did right by having him arrested 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mb-s97902 жыл бұрын
The place that got me is the MY HOUSE in his word that makes me understand why a man thinks he is above the woman in that marriage
@phyllismachikiti9972 жыл бұрын
Oga we are not living in ancient times. Gone are the days that our grandpa's and our father's used to "correct", our grandma's and our mother's, like you said. Chaaaaiiii you will rot in JAIL... Oga sit down... Your wife is a wise woman.. I salute her.....
@seckyilesanmi55772 жыл бұрын
Correctional slap!!🤣🤣 she gave him correctional discipline too, can u imagine, a whole grown up woman ooo, so d training from her parent house no reach abi, Oga go n train ur children..
@margaretodonkor47472 жыл бұрын
Foolish "boy" We will not allow such nonsense anymore.
@wemimoadefolu88652 жыл бұрын
Marriage is not for boys like him.We should all come together to encourage the government to enact a law about beating women. 10 years plus losing all their properties. Goats!!!
@constancesehlola39932 жыл бұрын
Na wawoooooooo 🙆♂️my sister, she did well my advice for her now let her leave bcs this man is going to repeat what he did. He does not see anything wrong about wat he did.
@nevermind50912 жыл бұрын
Women are starting to realise it's not ok to hit or slap nor more. Welcome to the Android generation mister man. Bravo to the wife 👏 🙌 👍 👌 ❤️
@shanilmine51662 жыл бұрын
@ Never mind...android generation 100%
@julscuisine38772 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately you are right Summer, they usually say "the value of a woman is in her husbands house". A statement that I believe damaged many women's mindset, accepting anything from men. Men should treat other peoples children the way they would like to be treated, vice versa, or better remain single.
@goldsdiva.2 жыл бұрын
He should be thanking his creator that it was just correctional arrest and not correctional otapiapia🤷🏽♀️ yeye fowl
@divinehouseholdstable.72572 жыл бұрын
Like father like son 😭. The police did the right thing. Abuse of any form is unacceptable period. Matthew 7:12 is the scripture for all of us ❤️🕊🙏.
@victoriathompson89922 жыл бұрын
That is Nigeria for you woman doesn’t own anything. My eyes are wildly open!
@rosebush70002 жыл бұрын
I have been watching this summer since I found this vlog a few days ago. PURE comedy gold with some instructions! I love it when she laughs at all the foolishness! 😂😂😂 The comments eh? Kai! 😂😂😂
@brendadickson95832 жыл бұрын
Welcome my sister Our sis Sumner is wise n funny with beauty to go with too🥰
@soniasonia33122 жыл бұрын
summer ur re correct women should be independent too... imagine my neighbor telling his wife in public "My wife nor get level " cos I'm d one feeding her since I married her
@exciting23552 жыл бұрын
Summer, you are going too far. They can't touch those small girls they sleep with. Our mother's really suffered. You are correct my sis. Teach the kids everything equally.
@euniceizevbigie79752 жыл бұрын
Summer alway crack me up so much anytime she says “grabbies” 🤣🤣🤣
@njidekaadogu54312 жыл бұрын
Thanks Summer you did it again. Your analysis is on point. Thank God for you. If you ever come to America, I’ll be your host. I have 3 boys and a daughter. Nobody has any right to slap anyone. My sons know that if they raise their hands on their wives, I’ll be the one that will beat them blue and black. My only daughter that I’ll go for omugwo, that man will regret ever being born if he lays a finger on her 😠. God will continue to bless you Summer and your children. Jide ka iji nwannem with much love ❤️
@maryjo23942 жыл бұрын
I'm already laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@schenwig2 жыл бұрын
The fact that the man uses the expression "woke generation" is evident he is well informed and didn't do it. It's imaginative.
@thebestindewest2 жыл бұрын
Or even more so should be do better
@tkosaa35092 жыл бұрын
I dont even care about his reasoning, he may never change. I just so happy that the Nigerian police is now revamped with this though process.
@exquisitecaribbeanqueen71982 жыл бұрын
Love, love, love your content. Expose it, a lot of Nigerians needs to hear this. The Audacity of him, Back foot.
@adedoyinakanbi56772 жыл бұрын
Men should learn to keep their hands in their pockets. Must a man hurt his wife to correct her ?
@DorisHealthyTastyMeals2 жыл бұрын
Thank God the police went and arrest the man and not laugh at her as the experience someone.👌
@FM-ir2nq2 жыл бұрын
I guess the best rule is to give such men an equal man and ask him to be the „man“ he tried to be !!!
@icequeen4912 жыл бұрын
Hey Lovely, I love your mindset. And totally agree with you! “Women want marriages they will enjoy and Not endure” I also think that we need stronger women to raise stronger men. We as women have to demand respect from the men we choose to marry and only then can we have the right foundation to raise healthy kids. Men need firm hands and lessons on how to treat and respect women. We women as so special as we are given the gift of birthing children. No man should ever think himself superior to a woman and women need to demand love and respect or stay single.
@Mummya20212 жыл бұрын
Correction slap , equal to (=) Correctional arrest , that is good for him yeye man. Kudos to that woman nice one 👍 👏 👌 🙌 😘😘❤💯🏆🥇🎉
@tochukwuakuchukwu62532 жыл бұрын
Summer but he actually did call it a correctional slap, that's the Koko for me ooh,😁😁😁😁🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 slap of Wisdom ni ooh, I'm just passing ooh🚶🚶🚶🚶🚶
@lolao.3102 жыл бұрын
If they live in U.S.A and they happen to live in a community state, he would be in a bigger shocker if they have children and they decide to divorce.
@jegedeevelyn65672 жыл бұрын
Wow. Indeed it's a testimony for the police to follow her ooo. When I reported my husband to the police 2 years ago, they said at first it was husband and wife issue that they don't interfere but as I told them not to worry that I will take it to human right, they then called my husband and talked sense into him. I pray they put it in our constitution that wife battering is prohibited and against the lwa
@ngozijane89802 жыл бұрын
Summer u are very smart and intelligent,we are really learning a lot here.God bless u really good
@patriciasunday27102 жыл бұрын
Toh, our parents sends us off to correctional facility called marriage 🤣🤣🤣...
@Gauzendi812 жыл бұрын
The hundreds of 'likes' under his post is worrying , evidently he is not alone in this way of thinking. I remember a guy telling me he didn't find anything wrong with beating a woman because growing up he saw his dad beat his mum. its really a terrifying cycle.
@wemimoadefolu88652 жыл бұрын
The need for a law to be enacted like Europe.please make it happen.
@florenceudom56972 жыл бұрын
You are correct daughter continue to inspire your generations in a positive direction in Jesus name amen
@ogbonnanwabueze69742 жыл бұрын
If any man beat my sister, he is dead!!!
@osawaruadams80242 жыл бұрын
OMG...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 MY STOMACH HURTS 🤣🤣🤣
@agmik47672 жыл бұрын
I have always wondered why in most Nigerian movies people just slap each other like it's nothing. I even noticed even in real life people just slap each other. Am glad this wife got him arrested. You can't be slapping people and think that's okay.
@Crabtree18442 жыл бұрын
There is a Nigerian comedy that promotes it i.e. "slapping" and it has many subscribers who laugh at the violence. It goes to show the animalistic level of said community and their subscribers who find violence to be amusing/laughed at.
@evelynejeka7182 Жыл бұрын
You can never learn anything good from Nollywood
@giftygifty73692 жыл бұрын
Summer, l like the way you started your program,
@missionfieldtv87832 жыл бұрын
My Beloved summer you are trying dear. Thanks for always updating us with the happenings around
@chynayucee96992 жыл бұрын
Summer I thought you said you were leaving KZbin? It's good to see you again, pls stay ooh abeg.
@nanlesamuel53032 жыл бұрын
Our cultures has a way of making the woman like a commodity. When I wanted to marry my wife, I determined that I will not be pricing her bride price and I did that but her family made things so difficult for me and one of my friends said that's why no man will go through this and tolerate misbehavior. I did not have this traditional mind set that's why I still have great value for my wife and I can't imagine raising my hand against her.
@joycats47682 жыл бұрын
It is important to note that in India it is women who pay expensive 'groom price' and yet it is still the husbands who are oppressing and maltreating their wives also they hate having daughters because they don't want to pay the groom prices. The Indian women do not treat their husbands like they purchased them so Nigerian men can do better regardless of how expensive the brideprice is. Some tribes in Nigeria don't even collect the brideprice and the men still batter them. Abuse is never the answer, whether it be from the husband or the wife.
@nanlesamuel53032 жыл бұрын
@@joycats4768 I understand perfectly the point you are trying to make but I still want to believe that in Nigeria most especially a woman is treated as if she's a property. thats just the truth and that is how men build their mindset just like you see in this issue. He felt she is not a "WIFE MATERIAL" because of her response which to me she is exercising her rights. I don't know the mindset around Indians. And I also want to tell you that I have a friend who is going through terrible maltreatment from His wife because she looked down on him just like the way most men do to their wives. I encouraged him to get out of that marriage.
@joycats47682 жыл бұрын
@@nanlesamuel5303 Abuse is not good for anyone, be it men, women or especially the children who are always stuck there enduring and learning wrong things that will later affect their lives negatively when they also later get into relationships/marriage, so it becomes a generational plague. If Nigerians put even half of the amount of energy and dedication that they put into marriage matters especially making judgements on marriages of others that don't concern them into making sure the country has a good government and life improvement systems in place, Nigeria would be a world class enviable country today. The point I was trying to make is that men in Nigeria should not treat wives like property, period! People in marriages and relationships should stop using excuses of bride price, religion, lack of money, being physically stronger etc to maltreat their partners. Men in general should treat the women around them like they would want someone else to treat the mother that gave birth to them whom they love (married or not). Also women treat men well too. Nigeria needs to wake up and be progressive for its people, life is moving on with or without it.
@nanlesamuel53032 жыл бұрын
@@joycats4768 I agree with you 100%. I believe we are missing the values we have for each other. I hate it for a very long time when I see abuse in any way. And as you rightly said, the psychological effect on the children is terrible. I have been a victim as I watched my dad do that to my mom. My Father never raised his hand on my mom but I was devastated at the verbal abuse he always rain on her to the point that she will be weeping almost all through the night. That experience make me hate to see most especially my wife in that position. I remember one night I had argument with my wife and I might have said something that hurt her and she wanted to start crying. I didn't know when I just rushed and hug her and then started apologizing because I hate putting someone through that kind of pain my mom experienced. I was so very angry when I had of Osinachi's case. Infact I wish there's something I could do about it because I took it personal even though I have never seen her
@joycats47682 жыл бұрын
@@nanlesamuel5303 Sorry to hear about what you went through and it is not a small thing that in spite of it all you still grew up with so much empathy & care which you are now using positively in your family because it often ends up that the majority of children become receivers or participants of the exact behaviours that they observed at home whether it is negative or positive. It's like we forget that children also get raised by what they observe wherever they are, whether you want them to learn it or not. People wonder why younger and younger children are now interested in how to make money fast but the children observe a system around them with little or no accountability from the government to the citizens and see how they still get respected just because they have all this ill-gotten wealth, so they also want the same thing and yet people act shocked and want to shame the children when the children are just acting out what they see like a mirror reflection of the soceity they are in.
@diyallthings2 жыл бұрын
This guys is so condescending!!! How did he manage to find a wife in the first place ?
@oluwatoyinoladimeji10772 жыл бұрын
CALLING POLICE 👮 ON THAT COWARD SERVES HIM RIGHT. WOMEN IT IS HIGH TIME WE WAKE UP TO BE FINANCIALLY HEALTHY SO MEN WILL STOP TREATING US AS THEIR SLAVES / PROPERTIES.
@onyourcoffeebreak24762 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣😃😃😃🤣🤗. I cannot stop laughing oh. Your sense of humor is classy
@inspirewisdom2 жыл бұрын
I feel embarrassed on behalf of men who raise their hands against women. Its just wrong guys! .If she is provoking you please just walk out, take a stroll or if you have a large house, go into a room and focus on your hobby.
@imaobongokorie97092 жыл бұрын
My father never raised his hands on my mother oo.. Infact, my mum never remarried when he died because she no fit find that kind man... and na marriage in those days oo
@anneolagundoye98212 жыл бұрын
Thank God the police took a step to help her. They used to say it’s a domestic problem, so hey can’t interfere.
@clementinaajaa30222 жыл бұрын
Hello Summer, Thank you for this beautiful video, this story sweet my belle ooo, our women are waking up , not to take the men and their shitty anymore
@maumaugabytv2 жыл бұрын
Summer, I’m laughing so hard. 🤣🤣🤣
@doreenonekalit98882 жыл бұрын
Me too
@odionugbiyobo23162 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the new Nigeria post Osinachi may her soul rest in peace.
@wemimoadefolu88652 жыл бұрын
I wonder if anyone can be kind enough to start to collect signatures for Osinachi law on beating women. A law needs to be enacted as soon as possible.
@mabelakuwaroberts48092 жыл бұрын
U are right my sister
@johannajames902 жыл бұрын
Sigh, Nigerian women wake up. My mom says all her kid are very stern with their other half. She tell us we are too hard on our spouse. I told her yes we are because we are not letting no man walk over us.
@josephinetozay62452 жыл бұрын
Correctional Slap Really?? Guys! Yes in those days our mothers went through hardship in their Husband's house 🏠. They will get beaten by the husband, ill treatments n stay in the marriage, it was a normal way of life. Now the table has turned around. Women pls let us put effort into doing something meaningful to sustain ourselves. Following from Pennsylvania, USA ❤️ 🇺🇸 Thanks for sharing this video 📹 ❤️ 💕 🙌 😊
@imepeter55852 жыл бұрын
The man is lucky that the wife only gets him arrested, she would have filed charges against him and throw him in jail. No man has any right to slap a woman.
@thebestindewest2 жыл бұрын
Aunty it must be a joke.....her response to his behavior was not a joke though🤗
@ayukgladys96972 жыл бұрын
Why must he correct her with a slap? Woman well done.
@ngozidibia72782 жыл бұрын
😄😄 "if the woman owns the house, who will be going to their father's house?"
@omaryland50392 жыл бұрын
God BLESS this wife time have changed Y'ALL no longer bullying as usual just imagine correctional slap.. Thank you WIFEY for dealing with him. Dont present yourself as a nobody to any man ..#womenempowerment
@adebankechristellevogt29642 жыл бұрын
Correctional slap = Correctional response. Kudos to the wife
@fendy94372 жыл бұрын
My first time of watching your video. I think I like you.
@ireneochieng59912 жыл бұрын
Hi Summer, much love from Kenya 🇰🇪
@summeraku2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ 💋💋💋💋💋
@perpetuafavour12072 жыл бұрын
We women has really suffered wallahi 😂😂😂😂😂
@kemi.a.20002 жыл бұрын
You are right my sister
@victoriathompson89922 жыл бұрын
It’s not a joke that what men think reason. They think that women are their property, they own you you can imagine one slap to correct wife. Let them go out see a woman that insulted him and slap her. It’s their right to beat wife not child ooo and adult, he is her father. Men never see anything this is just the beginning. Marriage should be cancelled no more marriage at all. I like the post😂😂
@feargod68422 жыл бұрын
If the house belong to the woman, he would set it on fire with her in it. Men are displaying unbelievable evil these days. Men like this don't like it when their wife is empowered. Our mothers endured it not because they enjoyed it but because most of them where not financially empowered. They can't even own land or property either in their father's house or their husband especially in Igboland. Summer you're right, women don suffer for Niaja and Africa no be small
@Flourish_today2 жыл бұрын
Our mother generation were the "Sleep generation ". We woke up hence "Woke Generation".
@hephzibahyahudah98952 жыл бұрын
👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽👋🏽 time is over. 😂😂😂😂😂
@infodetails1959Ай бұрын
Bia summer the truth is that if you as will not tolerate from your husband simply stay in your father's house no more
@adjoawodome48492 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's worst when the abusers seems not to even realize the gravity of what they are doing.