Support Court- Child support and Backpay Credits

[@adhenyx]

This is why you give money orders or checks eveytime the child needs something so that it can be tracked.

[@OJ-615]

You’re right. But its sad how some people have to live like that. Having to have proof just “ incase “ something like this happens. I guess its true when they say, always prepare for the worst. God bless

[@irmaadams7780]

All he did was bring money orders of how he was under paying. Of course he thought it was sufficient. Typical man that wants to live better than his children.

[@irmaadams7780]

@@OJ-615 Not impressed with this man bc he brought proof of what he was under paying. Of course he thought it was sufficient. The judge gave him credit for what he paid and gave him the balance he owed. The child should live as comfortable as the parent that makes more money. This man seems to be ok with his child having less. If this kid is spending his time with friends or girlfriends, that means it’s not time spent with him so at least there’s money so he can afford a more comfortable life.

[@Shenduanr]

Exactly that happened to my father with his first 2 kid's he gave money to the kid's every week and when the kids turned 17 their mother said he never paid anything and he owed back pay even though he gave money to the kid's every week.

[@jaylakieth8734]

Or keep and save all your receipts through your bank card/debit.

[@beedee5022]

The respondent was very efficient when it came to supplying his financial documents. The plaintiff looks like she is all the way bitter and thought that backpay was going to destroy him.

[@irmaadams7780]

He’s organized but penny pinching on his son. He was efficient to himself, not his son. The children are supposed to live as comfortable as the parent that makes the most money. This clown thought 600 was “sufficient”? That’s why there’s s set formula, bc “efficient” men like this put themselves first. Pitiful!

[@Megitsune69]

At least he was giving her money.

[@MzJoA]

She thought she was gonna get way more but he was giving her money and tbat counts

[@islandgurl8087]

I admire this Judge she ain't about "beating around the bush!" Very upfront and calls people out on their BS especially when they go to court just to waste her time!!!!

[@Facetimer864]

*beating around the bush

[@carrieanthony5883]

I found this on Tik-Tok and I have been binge-watching this judge I absolutely love her

[@lisachilelli3318]

Same! Popped up on FB and now I’m down a rabbit hole and enjoying every moment of it

[@carrieanthony5883]

@@lisachilelli3318 me to🤣

[@naomiemoore5725]

Me four! Love her. Wish she was on TV but this is better for now since I can watch when I can. I do not have any electronics to record. I have a "dumb" Home. 😂

[@_Rayfieldsdaughter]

Yees, 😅

[@r.massattack4052]

My ex wife n i divorced we used our joint bank account for me to pay/deposit my weekly child support payments. We did not have the amount given to us from the courts but an agreed upon amount. 5 years later, never once missing a weekly deposit, I'm summoned to court where my ex claims I've never once paid a penny towards child support. The chaos that ensued was enormous. I labeled our account " child support only" I had to prove with bank statements for 5 years that I never withdrew money & only deposited money. When the judge asked what were all the weekly deposits for my ex answered, " I thought he was giving me money to not complain" I got lucky the judge seen right through the B.S. or I would have paid 5 years of back pay. I got lucky I got the judge on the right day. There's too many loop holes in the system

[@briannatodd8823]

Good judge and smart move.

[@daltongarrett7117]

You didn't get the judge on the right day, you made the right move in making sure you were doing the payment in a way it could be tracked. Judge just wasn't a dunce.

[@Palmchisimon]

Tm going thru this one now

[@r.massattack4052]

​@sythonsimonfoos document and track everything. Dates, times, etc. Get a lawyer to help. They know what to ask, what to say and can keep you from getting blindsided

[@bigboytoy29]

I worked for child support . And it's crazy to me how child support can be implemented when one of the parties involved is mad at the other. Because it really has nothing to do with the child or children. That needs to change. I've seen a girl put her child father on child support because he wouldn't but her concert tickets. And the father was taking care of his child, he just wasn't with her anymore. Blew my mind. She ended up mad because child support was less money than he was already giving her every month. Doesn't pay to be greedy.

[@shinckson-gibson3793]

So what about the fathers that are lent paying anything. Mines is a few hundred short of 10K and thinks working under the books for the rest of his life won’t catch up to him.

[@bigboytoy29]

@@shinckson-gibson3793 the debit doesn't go anywhere until its paid. Even after death child support will try and find property and anything else they can find under his name , to sell to pay that child support. But as long as he working under the table leagally they cant demand something that not in the system.

[@irmaadams7780]

I know parents use the cs as a weapon but it still needs to happen despite the reason behind it bc the child's life regardless will be more comfortable. It's bad enough he/she has to live without both parents together. At least the financial aspect is one less thing to deal with.

[@irmaadams7780]

@@shinckson-gibson3793 These types of men use the law to their advantage. Yes bogbputpu29. Ya didn't mention these men.

[@bigboytoy29]

@@irmaadams7780 I answered a question. But to be honest child support is not needed . You dont really want the authorities to be in your business. Because when you do you loose control and the state tells you what you can do with YOUR child. What really needed is the two adults the made the decision to sleep together and have a baby. Grow up and learn how to communicate and co-parent. If that's hard then both of the parents should have been think about whi this person is I'm sleeping with. Mist people on child support knew who the person they were sleeping with were before they did it. I tell people to go in your bathroom or any room where you have a mirror. Look in and fuss and cuss that person that's looking back at you. Because that's who you mad at

[@matthewfenley5821]

Shes 100% salty Using kids as leverage is wrong on so many levels

[@carlosclay5617]

This is what women do

[@sagbrady8414]

​@carlosclay5617 not all women... my ex paid & I was happy with...never thought of taking him to court

[@carlosclay5617]

@@sagbrady8414 you are right not all women, I’m not talking about those women. These women you don’t need a judge to tell the parents what to do. These Parents keep the court out of their business, these Parents know what their responsibilities are. But those other women, they use the child for a PAY DAY, and use the court to help them….these are the women I’m talking about.

[@sagbrady8414]

@@carlosclay5617 ok...I agree...some women are just looking for the money..

[@keshiapoole5667]

This case was very professional and in order compared to the other cases

[@Terry0590]

i think the parents receiving child support should every month give a proof of how they use the child support cause so many of them abuse of the system to get money

[@wesdavis309]

And that will never because modern women are never held accountable for ANYTHING.

[@thatonegirljenny9939]

This!! my baby daddy’s mother received child support until he turned 18 and she would use it for drugs. to buy methamphetamine!! and his shoes were messed up and needed clothes badly as well as needed new shoes but she never got them for him.

[@deeannadorough7378]

I’ve always thought that

[@randi_godspeed2063]

Are you insane? You are talking about multiple millions of people. They can’t hire folks for CPS, where is the $ going to come from for this useless exercise?

[@susanrodriquez1024]

No way, child support, does that in your mind include utility receipts, rental receipts, grocery receipts, gas receipts for transporting the children or mileage on the car. Ridiculous!

[@lzitachizl3119]

This was a great video! No barking and arguing just numbers and learning opportunities. this is what I like

[@artriaorr2874]

I wish I had you as a judge in the state of Georgia! My ex doubles my income and only makes 2 payments per year to me just enough to avoid getting his license suspended. It sucks to sacrifice everything to to take care of child while the other parent is going on vacations, buying a new house and Harley Davidson but will not make monthly payments to support his child!! Exactly why we need to be selective about whom we reproduce with.

[@t193u]

In other words, if he can do better for the child than you can, if he’s willing, give him the child. You want what’s best right?

[@artriaorr2874]

Aswin Prakash he still wants a relationship with me and therefore if I’m not willing to be submissive to his request even though he has a wife and he made it up in his mind that he will not provide for her unless I deal with him. Eventually he’ll get what’s coming to him. I’ll continue to provide for her by any means.

[@artriaorr2874]

t193u what mother gives her child away just because the other parent makes more money? That doesn’t make sense! I was just stating that it’s his responsibility to help provide for his child. Although he makes more money than me he chooses to support his needs and wants over his child! That’s a selfish individual whom doesn’t want the responsibility of being a parent

[@Talk2Me7]

LoveA Starr don’t worry about it yes I know it’s hard but his raggedy behind will end up with a huge impact payment in the end. My grown children father still owe and pay 600 a month until 60K is paid

[@renskedj]

He shouldnt pay a cent if he can't have his kid half the time. I gave my ex no cent til he gave the kids back half the time. I bought stuff for my new boyfriend when he legally stole my kids.

[@sierrasierra6841]

I always check the comments after I’ve chosen who I think should win

[@petra1470]

Facts

[@mwhitehall889]

Very composed, professional, presentable, handsome man who seems to be concerned about his son's well-being.

[@loveyoutube2177]

Absolutely love this show.

[@Bluesnow2964]

If this show ain’t already on Hulu, it needs to be

[@harrisongord2228]

The woman is 100% doing this out of spite.

[@Hehekiki307]

Nope hhe is. He is a bum for shorting her makimg all that money

[@harrisongord2228]

@@Hehekiki307 hahahaha ok

[@rachaelsmith2249]

Nah, he’s a cheapskate. $600 is next to nothing when supporting a child

[@albertaowusu3536]

She probably thought they will get back together until he started going with her student. She just want want she is due.

[@acebrandon3522]

Say ?!? did anyone smell biscuits burning somewhere around Mrs. Allen???

[@thehangmansdaughter1120]

I don't think it's a jealousy thing. I think she's saying that since he's seeing someone else there's no no chance of reconciliation, so the time has come to get things set up.

[@Maninawig]

Nah, definitely done with vindictiveness. She never even fought reasons why her son needs the money, just that she wants it.

[@JoolzThePirate]

Your obviously a woman, this woman is being vindictive

[@maryjanedavis9033]

Even that is ridiculous

[@peterdanior4538]

He shouldn’t have had a certain amount that he had to pay until they went to court. Therefor no backpay should be rewarded

[@andrewvelonis5940]

In NY you only get back support to the date that you petitioned the court to get support.

[@TerriBeyondBlessed]

It's Cheaper to Keep Her🤣🤣🤑🤑🤣🤣 Bitter Becky got him where it hurt most, his wallet👛

[@t193u]

Ter Ri -cheaper not to marry or bear children in the first place😁

[@irmaadams7780]

Clearly this woman is bitter but he was giving her less than he should have. And once the math was explained to him saying he believes the 600 was sufficient is shameless. Neither his nor her emotions count. There's a set formula exactly bc of this.

[@deajae3030]

Yeah I agree. Didn’t like that she won when the only reason she went to court was for revenge. But he should still have been paying her more than $600

[@MikeS-7]

The table is nothing more than a wealth transfer and have nothing to do with the child. The table needs to be abolished.

[@randomfemaleopinion3167]

How is it fair 🤔 They don't go by the child's average expenses (which would make sense and he pays healthcare) it only goes by the yearly income of the non custodial parent. A millionaire and a minimum wage worker would have 2 VERY different child support amounts. AND it technically should be his share and HER share of paying for the child. Not just his responsibility. You are ridiculous.

[@joshynoshy]

@@randomfemaleopinion3167 There is a cap on the amount of child support. Millionaires wouldn’t pay 9% of their income.

[@brytonmacpherson2050]

So she’s does not have her own place. Does not have a job. He pays for insurance, has his own place, makes good enough money to pay over a grand a month in child support, why doesn’t he have custody? Why should his child support go up instead of placing the child with the parent that can provide? It should not have went up at all.

[@ericdykes1307]

In the state of Texas if you're going through a divorce child support is implemented within the divorce so you shouldn't have to pay child support until after the divorce is over, but if you're separated for the man please pay something so that he could be credited to you when you do go to divorce court and they see that you been paying money orders send it through the mail certified so that she has to sign for it

[@staylor5687]

You made a comment briefly that she had accepted the $600 a month as child support. I immediately gravitated to that being like an oral agreement of acceptability. Why would further backpay be required if she had agreed to $600 a month previously? Seems like that should nullify backpay, like going back on a verbal agreement. She's mad now over his new love and isn't agreeable anymore. Seems like revenge money she is seeking.

[@I__Love_Lamp]

People if you find yourself in this situation please make sure when you pay this money to the other parent that you put in the memo that it is for Child Support otherwise the other parent or a judge can consider it a gift!

[@irmaadams7780]

This man keeps good records but isn’t doing the right thing. He was under paying.

[@ambermorgan351]

You should do a court case example where the child lives with one parents but not the other, however the parent that the child lives with does not allow the child to stay with the other parent. But the parent that the child stays with requests child support. I hope that makes sense!

[@ritadraille5488]

She has had cases like that and settle the child support but refer them to custody court

[@stuperhero9960]

I choose to stay single. I'm happy being alone.

[@perjrgensen8280]

Yes .. :) I have been married for 19 years, it was okay .. I am 58 years old and live alone, I do not have any children, but I have my horse. American QuaterHorse, 16 years old, gelding .. He is always happy and we are the world's best friends .. :) I am a happy man .. Greetings from Denmark.

[@hallescarter19]

Say it louder for the people in the back hun!

[@illuminatiCorgi]

Same 😐👍

[@nothumanff5900]

Me too crappie divorce eww

[@daveclemens3134]

Amen

[@carloshaddock8315]

ALWAYS 👏🏽 BRING 👏🏽 RECEIPTS 👏🏽 TO 👏🏽 COURT 👏🏽

[@Maninawig]

Bring receipts, a copy of the complaint, a copy of the response, and a notepad and working pen to take notes. If you have one, bring a recorder and ask the judge if you can use that (check local laws, but it's a trick I learned from Attorney Steve Lehto.)

[@joannheflin3792]

Bitter ex wife!

[@irmaadams7780]

She is bitter, yes, but he is also under paying. There is a formula for a reason. These type of men play dumb that their children should live as comfortable as them. They would be ok with them living the life spending money on either women or other luxuries while their children live on bare minimum. Just bc he brought receipts doesn’t mean he was not below his obligations.

[@Free-pw1xg]

Completely fair and legal financial calculation. Now he can move on in his new life!! Good luck!!

[@fayupshur2121]

Love this judge am addicted 😊

[@sammi8211]

So I clicked straight away ! Where are you Miss B

[@MikeS-7]

Really? This was revenge support, not anything about the child. Along with 50/50 custody in every state, the table the judge refers to (similar in every state) which is base (I'm good with) child support PLUS the sliding scale (wealth transfer) based on income needs to be dealt with in each state's general assembly. The tables are EXTREMELY abusive and should be done away with completely. It should be base child support only and then 50/50 documented expenses after that with an allowance for income disparity.

[@meh4972]

I like how you talk about their cases basically to their face afterwords.🤣🤣🤣

[@desigarland8201]

They are actors and these are scripts she isn't a real judge it tells you that at the end

[@YACABE]

@@desigarland8201 Are they reenacting real cases?

[@antdog8888]

Question. Say that you was giving her $1,500 bucks a month. Would he have to keep giving her that much? Would he get any of that money back?

[@JudgeVondaB]

Great question. He would not have to keep giving the amount and no he would not receive any money back.

[@stans4me]

@@JudgeVondaB Would his payments be reduced until the overpayment was corrected?

[@xxsniperkittykatxx]

@@stans4me no it's considered a gift because that's his child

[@mrsgadisrael6850]

How come the medical wasn’t credited towards the back pay but was calculated towards the total amount?

[@miltonhemphill7046]

This guy was smart giving his wife money orders because if he would of given her cash she would of lied about him giving her money for the month. She's mad because he moved on to a younger girl and he's still handsome, welcome to our club.

[@isaiahgrimsley6436]

So she got more money because she was jealous? Not because she needed help? Sheesh I’m staying far away as possible from Texas..

[@tamiweir8041]

My husband took me to court to get his support lowered. We we divorced we agreed on $400 a month. He wanted it lowered to $200 each month. The Judge some how found out he was starting a new job soon and wanted it lowered before he started working. His starting pay at his new job was $6.000 a month lol. Well his support got increased to $700 a month. Jokes on him.

[@andrewgrudzinskas5778]

Once again the man gets the screwed

[@David-zp4cw]

Not really, the guy was paying way too little in child support for his salary other than that he won since the woman didn’t get much else.

[@BrewTownGamer]

@@David-zp4cw your kidding right? How is he winning? He now has to pay more then twice as much as he was before and all because she's a jealous hateful bitch

[@sdmcdaniel2255]

@@BrewTownGamer no, he's paying more because, based on his income, he wasn't paying enough. And today? $600 does not do a lot toward raising a child.

[@stelladevers5334]

@@BrewTownGamer Because that’s what he owes in accordance with the law doesn’t matter how bitched or pissed she is

[@melissavance3200]

Lol he really was not screwed. Men always think they can walk and decide how much money they want to pay. He is just lucky he isnt in NJ. Would have been way worse for him.

[@xlady7772]

There has to be a balance for the kids but I must say 109 for insurance is a deal and I was a nurse .. Wow pray for the child adults can move on easier

[@AndyFaeBaker0890]

Oooo Judge Vonda where were you when my fiance needed help. Lawd he had to pay 10,000 to get a judge for his modification and still had to pay 1000 a month. We in MO. They pitiful. I wish I could Private message you or email you for additional questions and info on how things went down. Love your videos!!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰

[@Shwetank_Raj]

This guy's personality, voice and the fact that he had notes with him gave me the vibes of character Bill Tench from Mindhunters played by Holt McCallany

[@beckyl9454]

I find it interesting that some court shows give people credit for "child support" paid before there's an order, and other's don't. Please explain the discrepancy. The other thing I find interesting is another show, you made a father pay way more than his child support obligation because that was what he thought he should have been paying, and you told this guy he could have paid more and his backpay would have been less. Based on your other ruling, he could have also been stuck with paying more than his legal obligation. How are non-custodial parents supposed to balance the two scenarios? One guy gets stuck with paying way more than he should, and one guy gets stuck with automatic backpay which incurs interest. Both are ridiculous! How can the state even allow interest to be incurred on child support? I'm hoping Texas doesn't have a law like Florida and Michigan where back child support can get your license suspended.

[@biancairma2279]

Well she said in one episode that backpay can be ordered only when requested but under some circumstances she can order it if necessary but I always wonder the same thing cause it doesn’t seem to be following precedent

[@rebelyell50]

My oldest son father never paid anything I waited five yrs to get him a chance to spend time and split necessities for my child he never did so I went put him on child support and asked for back pay my son is now almost 10 yrs old he left state and I have never received any support and he has never to my knowledge been arrested either 🤷‍♀️ I never understood how some states will give some men yrs in jail over maybe a few months behind on support yet my son father has 10 yrs behind and hasn't given any support nor jail time

[@I__Love_Lamp]

Texas does have a law like this and are pretty harsh on people who owe backpay! After a certain amount you could also lose your right to travel by revoking your passport and have you charged once you go 6 months without a payment and or amount reaches $5000.00 a warrant will most likely be served! This is a business that states took on where they make a profit off of collecting backpay for support! According to our constitution non payment of child support is not supposed to be an arrestable offense but instead a Civil Matter! The states made it a jailable offense! Think about that for a minute!

[@irmaadams7780]

@@rebelyell50 You should follow up on that with the right offices. Some men find ways. You should too. This is very unfair to you. These things take time but you should take the time and be patient but not give up!

[@irmaadams7780]

@@I__Love_Lamp Other states should adopt this.

[@carrieorsel1340]

My ex had a min wage job when we separated. He was order to pay 100 per month, the lowest possible. He did so ONLY because he was legally obligated to. He WANTED to pay 20 (yes TWENTY) dollars per month.

[@johndounts]

I don’t think he should do the back pay, she was okay with the 600 a month until he found a new women. He should just be responsible for the 1,098

[@Diz29350]

Why do they never go over the women's income ...is this all full custody to women

[@jamescampbell390]

You gotta watch the show it’s not always the lady who gets cash it’s about 50/50 mom dad who pays there are now episodes of gay couples who are getting child support to she is a very fair judge watch a few more episodes you’ll see

[@beckyl9454]

@@jamescampbell390 the point is, custodial parent's income isn't included in the calculation at all.

[@aminabakir8205]

Because the mother has custody of the child. It's 50/50 Some dad's have been given child support too

[@TheRadiantPeachBudgets]

The courts do take both incomes into consideration 🙄 Do you really think that someone making 30k a year would pay more than someone making 60k?

[@KeithTMerchant]

Smh she know she wrong.

[@undergrounddojokeyboardcag701]

5:02 Yo, this cat thought she said 9800/month... you could tell in his voice his head was about to literally explode.

[@preciousplus2849]

I wish I could email you judge for questions

[@josenunezgarcia762]

Hey but respects for him since he didn’t had to go to court to pay 600 a month when some have to be obligated to pay 400

[@djleno214]

Vonda B., love the show!

[@JudgeVondaB]

Thank you!!

[@Kipkemoi]

@@JudgeVondaB Please do edits for Tiktok.

[@Ultraman2k51]

Child support is ridiculously high in that state

[@ganeshkumarchiramshetti5587]

First rule for *HUMANITY*- wear a protection and discard by yourself

[@DanielGarcia-zz9eg]

Better take half Custody to reduce the payment bro. I think it's bull sh#$. How the state of Texas gonna charge 7% for child back support. Hello, they just started this, it's new, least he tried to pay every month till they went to court . He should of not been charged for the 5 months . Should of been AS OF TODAY SIR you will start to pay $1,098 . Yall try to work it out on yalls own, didnt go well, that's why we here today

[@JudgeVondaB]

It’s 6% interest. The state of Texas (Attorney General’s Office-Child Support Division) has an interest considering they provide the service. They act as creditors just like any other service provider.

[@twofarg0ne763]

Had it been me I'd have told the judge I'd pay the back child support amount in full in one payment and kept the lower monthly payment. This what happens in a marriage when women start ignoring their husbands... my ex stop all intimacy in the bedroom after we'd been married for 6 years. I finally said "see ya" and moved out. She filed for divorce. Unfortunately for her, we had a good prenup and she left with half of our joint bank account; nothing more. Btw I'm still married (28 years later) to the women I met after her.

[@camillarodriguez341]

I mean its only right if he left and left the child there for her to take care of...if they had a shared custody agreement it would be different

[@pumpkineater5118]

How is that fair? Wtf. He’s paying over 1000. That’s already a good amount. How much more do you want. My god. That’s anything but fair

[@niktheplanet7662]

@@pumpkineater5118 a lot of y’all are selfish omg. how much should your child get out of your check? that’s just sad

[@radiantgoldensun6438]

Why don’t fathers just take custody or do 50/50. Then selfish delusional men would see that children COST

[@grimmgtow4744]

@@radiantgoldensun6438 I am fighting to get 50/50 with my ex, and paying through the nose on support bc she refuses to get a job that will earn her what she could be making so that she can continue to screw me on support. And that's why she doesn't want me to get 50%, because then her support check would go down.

[@chiefgully9353]

@@radiantgoldensun6438 most times if a custody battle is entered the man has to prove the mother completely un fit, as in a danger to the child. If all things are equal (neither on drugs in a violent life etc. Etc.) The defualt will go to the woman. As custody cases can drag out for a long time and become expensive, with little chance of winning, it is not usually in the interest of the man to fight for full custody. In partial custody, i.e. the 50 50 you spoke of the man also gets hit with childsuport. I'm not so much against the payment. But parental rights in america are far from an unbiased practice. Hope this helps.

[@CorpsePrincezz]

For those not aware when the Non custodial parent doesn’t pay their child support they have a past due balance which has interest so every month that past due balance still exists it keeps going up due to the interest and whenever another payment is missed. So whenever the NP pays the passed due balance known as arrears the money goes to the balance owed first before the interest like with a credit card balance or a car note. If the past due balance is $130 and the interest is $50 and you pay $150 the $130 of the $150 goes to the arrears and then the $20 left over goes to the interest. Also if you are making payments directly to the CP be sure to get a form that you fill out to keep track of all the payments you made that the CP has to sign off on as proof that they received the money. Kinda like a time sheet. But most child support agencies enforce a income with holding order

[@angelafrancis6183]

I didn't hear the credit given for the $109 for the child's health insurance. Did she give it to him?

[@Ah1My-Spinach-Puffs1]

It’s funny watching the other videos I keep thinking can these people get along. And now they are civil in court I just keep thinking someone throw something, yell, call each other names. Anything! I need drama 🎭

[@irmaadams7780]

Naughty!

[@leonpeart9447]

Can't the agreement amount stand and the new calculated child support follow?

[@irmaadams7780]

Why would you push for that? He was under paying. There’s a formula for a reason. The parent that does all the work should be awarded some relief to cover expenses at least. Men act greedy trying to give the bare minimum. The children should live as comfortable as the parent. That’s why that formula is designed.

[@cruisinwithcorey]

@@irmaadams7780 Greed exists on both sides, do not solely blame men.. particularly the good fathers who are the ones who get screwed most. If dad has child 40-49% of the time, he is still expected to do the same things as mom and provide a quality lifestyle. But he has only 70% of his income to do so, while mom may only have a 10% bigger burden but gets 100% of her income plus another 30% from dad. How is it fair when dad has half a glass of water and mom has a full one .. of course dad is left thirsty. So the courts tell him to go work more, which cuts into parenting time and hurts his and child’s quality of life Deadbeat/absent parents aside, child support is ridiculous overkill towards the actual cost of raising a kid. I have two kids with my wife and we spend less on them then I pay in CS for one to my ex. It’s just hidden alimony and a way for the state government to get more funding through title IV

[@raquelfriday8241]

in my state theres no credit if you paid for school clothes and are the payer. I couldnt get credit maybe just my case

[@jennifersturge]

He is very handsome. She was dumb to ignore him and her son.

[@ybhomes6003]

Well, there's millions of women in the world, he lacks integrity choosing her friend/student. Looks doesn't excuse that.

[@justinajordan7046]

These are just actors reinacting the story. The real guy may not have been good looking. Still, regardless the real women should never neglect her family especially her child! x

[@tt-wy1xr]

Here is a little help for people who is paying child support based on Texas laws. Move to a different state and change jurisdiction. Most states allow for travel cost to exercise custody to be deducted from child support payments. If you move far enough away all of the child support will go toward travel cost and she will not get a thing. There are ways to deal with a spiteful exe. Work under the table. Seek custody all the time and keep her in court defending custody. After she get to about 40000 to 100000 in legal fees she will have a more open mind about things. My kid mother went in debt close to 60000 dollars before she gave up. Them attorneys took all her money while I represented myself. Needless to say, I got custody of our daughter and now she has to pay me child support in addition to the debt she racked up to defend custody. Hate bring out the worst in people.

[@JudgeVondaB]

Just don’t move to California. Their child support rates are much higher.😩

[@gamersedge4867]

You go! That's a huge win!

[@irmaadams7780]

You’re a piece of nothing as a father and a human being. There is a formula based on income for a reason. This tells us your children have a deadbeat father. Are you spending time with your children? The greedy one here seems to be you. You’re the reason man child laws exist in child support.

[@irmaadams7780]

Your little plan didn't show much regard for the child. Your mother must have been lazy that she didn't raise you right. The formula is set for a reason, basically meant for ppl like you.

[@wnsjimbo2863]

so you are a parasite , cool

[@gamergodofjustice]

Child support shouldn't be based on income it should be a flat rate based on current economic standards.

[@The3dsGeek]

Agreed 100%. I really don't understand these laws where you have to pay the child support based on certain % of your income. It should be the amount for basic daily needs + education.

[@jojolosangeles2911]

greedy wife!!!!!!!

[@smartcookie493]

In NJ. My ex paid nothing nothing 2 years. I filed for support after getting nothing for 2 years for 2 kids. He makes 70000.00 a year. Ordered no back pay. Only form when I filed and he wound up paying 150.00 a week for 2 kids and covered insurance which was completely free from his employer. I was screwed. I had to work 2 jobs to cover all that our kids needed. And he saw then when he felt like it.

[@irmaadams7780]

The back pay should be calculated on their ability to pay, not this 150. So wrong! Are you receiving child support now?

[@pamelacallis9452]

Did you ask for backpay?

[@kwesitawfiq403]

Cant put a price on happiness tho. He got off easy.

[@Angel123bb1]

I’m scared to take my son’s father to court because I don’t wanna be bashed or trashed anymore. So I struggle to take care off my son. I love my little man.

[@aranukz._.]

Dont be scared, you need support and his father should be taking care of half the responsibility aswell. Do whats in the best interest of your son, if you're struggling, get his father to step up and help you out there is no shame in getting help to raise both your guys child. Itll take a lot of weight off your shoulders aswell. Goodluck mama

[@Angel123bb1]

@@aranukz._. I appreciate the positive advice so much

[@OsamaBinBombin]

Well it’s whatever is best in the child interests whatever is going on between y’all two don’t matter it’s about the child

[@irmaadams7780]

This means his father is ok not knowing if his son could live a little better. You should pursue this. He’s in the wrong, not you. You’re doing his share.

[@jeanniefeaster4325]

Don't be scared. There's only a need to be scared if you've done something wrong such as play the system, aren't sure if you know who the father is, or if you've been a bad parent, but in your case you love your child. Hold your head up high & go file without any fear. Be polite & professional while your in court & you'll see that you've got this.

[@susandooley9630]

My son’s “sperm donor” didn’t have to pay all the back pay because it would’ve been 12 years worth!! They tried going after him when he was about a yr or so old, but because we weren’t married & he had lied to me saying he wasn’t, I was told we had to have a “WITNESS”!! He was a TriMet driver & whenever any of the other drivers would say something, he would always say, you look at her & then look at me, you think I’d touch anything that looked like that???

[@rexlonyo4569]

Did I miss something, like why was her income not mentioned and calculated? I think based on my experience that 1000 dollars a month seems high. I think it should fall somewhere between 700 to 800 a month.

[@irmaadams7780]

The judge follows the law. Doesn't matter if yo think $1,000 is a little high and if you think 700 to 800 is best. There's a formula. The child should live as comfortable as the parent that makes the most money does. Be happy for the child or suck it up.

[@annamarielewis7078]

She has full custody.

[@cornezane]

In Texas that $600 would’ve been considered a gift. Meaning he would’ve had to pay that $1098 back pay for that 5 months.

[@nashhariparsad3347]

lol guy definitely upgraded 🤣 😂 😆

[@tsuyuasui446]

Gotta be one of my Fav shows rn

[@bruceleroy911]

This why dudes don’t want to marry anymore this guy clearly has been in his kids lives and taking care of them but it will never be more then a woman hurt or feeling. Specially towards another with jealousy 🙅🏾‍♂️

[@irmaadams7780]

Them men shouldn’t use their pee pee without protection.

[@PerplexEnigma]

So this guy got screwed paying an agreed amount of $600? Since this would be a modification no back pay should be paid...

[@caity9244]

Not really. He looks smart enough to know how it works. The agreed upon amount was during a separation and not calculated properly. That's on both of them. I don't think she should have asked for back-pay, but it is allowed to be requested for people who don't have custody and only pay a certain amount each month. Thankfully it wasn't a longer span of time though and he kept proof.

[@irmaadams7780]

How did he get screwed? He was under paying and it was caught. The amount is based on his income.

[@bettyhardy2817]

She just upset that he left and seeing someone else Get on with your life For the gentleman make sure you pay the support with a check or money order No cash

[@md9710]

In florida anything that is given without a support order is considered a gift. Whether is a check or money order doesn’t matter.

[@LSBPete]

there is absolutely no reason he should have been put on child support. he clearly has been providing for the child!!! this is everything thats wrong with this system.. only way he should have been put on child support is if he didn't give her anything at all . this is absolutely horrible. this aint have nothing to do with the child. this case should have been thrown out the second you read the money orders , regardless of how much he makes he was giving her money every month and had proof..he did everything right and was till punished just because she was mad

[@staceysoden3047]

I don’t understand why people are ordered to pay Medicaid back? The judge said that it must be paid back when a child receives coverage. Now in my state it isn’t expected to be reimbursed. It’s through the states government allocated from its fiscal budget & grants given to the state to offer low income families.. when you separated you’re still low income, you don’t suddenly hit the lottery ( well not in a monetary sense 😀) so why does it change to where now you have to pay even though you still meet guidelines???

[@jaygee2692]

Smh these females have to chill with this mess🤔

[@irmaadams7780]

Chill with the mess? She's the one doing the daily taking care of their son, he's giving less than he's supposed to, she noticed he's out there spending it on luxuries/women/anything, she did the right thing to take him to court. Regardless of why she took him to court, he was underpaying. don't act irresponsible!

[@SwerveKing7135]

@@irmaadams7780 OBE NOBODY ASKED YOU ANYTHING THATS 🤡 TWO CHILD SUPPORT IS NOT FOR CHILDREN BUT THE CHILDS MOTHER DICKHEAD.

[@rosekollie3484]

I love this judge

[@phyllis0520]

He pissed 😂😂😂😂😂 lol

[@phyllis0520]

@Private Eyes I doubt that!!!! I don't allow men to disrespect me.

[@phyllis0520]

@Private Eyes men only get away with what women allows them to. If a man can't provide and commit to his family don't bother. And If you don't like who you sleep with keep your thing in your pants. End of discussion!!!! Don't write me again!!!! 🤪🤪

[@phyllis0520]

@Private Eyes You mad??? 🤣 🤣🤣🤣 Go Find your eyes 👁 Mr. Private Eyes 🤣🤣 🤣🤣🤣

[@phyllis0520]

@Private Eyes You mad???? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@phyllis0520]

@Private Eyes Like I said yo BM must be getting a nice chunk of your paycheck!!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Stop taking your frustrations off on people because of the consequences behind your actions. Learn to make start choices and start seeking counseling for your aggressive behavior 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Now are you done???🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤪

[@NJerZeyTV]

ig being a yoga instructor does pay off

[@Sheppard3rd]

i saw alot of court shows from the USA but why are those child support so high for that money you can life here a whole month

[@JudgeVondaB]

It’s based off the person’s income.

[@Sheppard3rd]

@@JudgeVondaB For me it is alot maybe because in my country childeren are free from medical bills till they are 18 and parents get benefits from the state to help them. And they do childsupport also with income here only they include the monthly expenses in it and it cant go under the yearly income of 23k. i hope it makes sense to you.

[@r.massattack4052]

Why would the ex have to pay back child support if it was not court appointed? Seems to me that it was an agreed upon amount before they received an official judgment.

[@janettefluent9290]

The personal relationships of the other person shouldn’t matter one bit and shouldn’t be discussed…. The amount of money you make, the amount of money you’re paying and have paid and the amount of time you’re spending with the child should be the only thing that matters…. All this extra chatter should be stopped because it’s irrelevant to the care and expenses to care for the child.

[@clarescott4130]

He has to pay the difference between what he was paying and the child support amount. Im curious though, had he been over paying, does he get that back? Or is it just considered a gift? Why does it only work one way

[@darnellpeek2543]

Dang they are killing dads

[@davidrobertson4538]

The judge is “NOT” a judge in these hearing but in a ministerial capacity supporting the agency. Anything the judge signs is void. Separation of powers doctrine in affect!.

[@JudgeVondaB]

😂😂😂😂

[@marquisemiller5992]

This is correct.. she could be sued

[@brittanyleary3837]

@@marquisemiller5992 it's a reenactment of that case...🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@marquisemiller5992]

@@brittanyleary3837 thanks for letting me know

[@brittanyleary3837]

@@marquisemiller5992 yes sir

[@MrTrueshoe]

Should have been more question on who paid for the house / house bills ext... but interesting verdict ...

[@irmaadams7780]

They factor that in the formula. But no amount of money covers the daily rearing of a child. Half the men don't want to do that and want to live carefree like they have no children and penny pinch too. Disgusting.

[@kylerisawesome1234]

Why do you never look at the money the other person is making

[@seyouma722]

Why doesn’t the judge take into consideration the wife’s income?

[@animutton]

Because child support isn’t means tested. It’s calculated based on what each parents income should be contributing

[@ruthpruitt1265]

Why didn't the dad get credit for health insurance for the past 5 months?

[@irmaadams7780]

Bc the child received the services of the health insurance while he was alive. Duh!

[@madisonhopson5641]

Seems like the system is built for the man to loose and we wonder why their are deadbeat dad's. These videos be hard to watch but to informative not to. Thanks judge 👍

[@BreahRobinson]

Some dads are just deadbeats and don't want to help.

[@briw8562]

I mean guys act like women don’t have to pay on this show ever smh lol, she’s fair tho. If you don’t want to take care of the job don’t marry her and have unprotected sex. Or take the child when you leave. Have some type of responsibility instead of whining and complaining that the system is set against you.

[@BreahRobinson]

@@briw8562 they really do. A deadbeat is a deadbeat no matter the gender.

[@vin7786]

That's why I still single! Men don't pay enough these women can take their man to court to squeeze more cash out of them!

[@jimmyhamm9737]

1,098.60 per month for 1 child thats insane. Free ride . But thats only good for 6 more years.

[@mhmunguia]

My husband pays $1600 for 1, and $1200 for another 1. 🤦🏻‍♀️ it’s insane!

[@123pb]

I used to use a bank transfer and I clearly labeled the transfer child support payment and I put the account number of the docket

[@dazzahoward7104]

Why wasn't the health insurance factored in?

[@donnashult301]

I love. J. V. I wish she was working 40 years ago.

[@JudgeVondaB]

Thank you!!

[@millicenthamilton-kakowski8275]

Children are always the chess piece! smh 🤔

[@speak2me489]

you did give her credit.. lol